1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this is from Stan Richardson. He says, 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: I bought my wife a car right before she filed 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 1: for divorce. After that, I went to her parents' house 4 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 1: and took the car in the middle of the night. 5 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: I've been driving the very nice car when I run 6 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: errand's My soon to be ex wife is so hateful 7 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: that she reported the car stolen and I almost got arrested. 8 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:25,240 Speaker 1: I know this is going to be a messy divorce. 9 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: Can I get any words of advice on keeping the 10 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: peace with this woman? 11 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 2: Well, brouh, let me tell you something. You bought her 12 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 2: a car before she filed for divorce. 13 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 1: Right before she filed, he says. 14 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 3: In the middle of the night, you went over there 15 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 3: and took the car in the middle of the night. Yeah, 16 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 3: she called the car and reported as stolen and almost 17 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 3: got you arrested. Now you want to know how to 18 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 3: keep this hateful woman in place so y'all can have 19 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:05,680 Speaker 3: an amicable divorce. 20 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 2: I'm assuming it's what he's saying. 21 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 3: But bruh, but bro, you kind of started it now 22 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 3: when he went over there and took that car in 23 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 3: the middle of the night. No, when you went over 24 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 3: there and took that car back in the middle of 25 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 3: the night. You know, look, man, once once you start 26 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 3: doing that type of stuff with women, it's hard to 27 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 3: beat them, man, because they have the ability. Brother, they 28 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 3: have the ability to think of stuff that ain't even 29 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 3: gonna cross your mind. So I think you kind of 30 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 3: you bought the car before she filed. She filed, You 31 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 3: went over there in the middle of the night and 32 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 3: took the car. Okay, then it's game on, game dog. 33 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: So so he didn't know she was gonna file, right, No, 34 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: of course he didn't know. 35 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 3: Of course he didn't, so it kind of surprised her. 36 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 3: So he went over that man. Well, lot of them 37 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 3: bought her this car. I'm getting that car now, I'm 38 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 3: gonna drive this car. It's nicer. Well, technically it's y'all's 39 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 3: car because y'all married. Now, if you put the car 40 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 3: in her name, yeah, you have a problem, homie, You 41 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 3: have a problem. 42 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:17,360 Speaker 2: If it s her name. 43 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 3: Now. You know, if it's in your name when you 44 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 3: got pulled over, it won't be no problem. But if 45 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 3: he pulled over and is her name, then we got 46 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 3: a little slight problem. 47 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 2: But it just so happens. 48 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 3: Y'all still married, So ain't nobody gonna arrest you for 49 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 3: taking the car. But you started this by taking the car. 50 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 3: So now it's game on, bad down, and just. 51 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 2: Do the right thing. Don't get into the tit for tat. 52 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 3: I'm not saying you give the car back because the 53 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 3: damage is done. 54 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 2: He's not the type of guy to give the car. 55 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: Back, and she's probably not the type of woman to 56 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: not get her car back. 57 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,679 Speaker 2: No, and he's like, I'm gonna take you. See. Once 58 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 2: you do stuff like that, then you want your ring back. 59 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 2: You don't want it. I don't know where y'all live. 60 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 3: I don't know if y'all trying to split the house, 61 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:05,959 Speaker 3: but y'all gonna have to get a saw and cut 62 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 3: that thing in half. Right, it's game on now. So 63 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 3: I don't know how to tell you this man. But 64 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 3: I used to think it was a scripture because it 65 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 3: was so true. But it's not a scripture. But hell, 66 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 3: hath no fury like a woman scorn. I thought that 67 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 3: was in the Bible because it is such a real thing. Yes, 68 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 3: I actually thought it was forrill. Yeah, but it's not 69 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 3: a y'all should have been it. But it does come 70 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 3: across as biblical. 71 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: All right, we have time for another one, Steve. This 72 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: is from Estelle and Hampton. She says, I'm a side 73 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: chick and I get paid monthly by the married man 74 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: in my life. We have a lot of fun together, 75 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: but believe it or not, we have never had sex 76 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: in the four years that we've been together. He said, 77 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: I'm the woman he can talk to and relax with, 78 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: sip wine and get a good laugh with. We travel 79 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: together and everything limit. I limit his visits to two 80 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: nights a week and he's happy with that. My question is, 81 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: if I'm not having sex with this man, am I 82 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: a friend or a side chick? 83 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 3: Lady lady first, I don't know who you think you 84 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 3: selling this to, right, but I'm not buying this. 85 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 2: One when I started doing that here, I'm not buying 86 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: this at all. 87 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 3: Four years, twice a week, travel together, no selves. 88 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 2: He roll, Hey, paying you for what? She well, I'm 89 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 2: not buying this one. I ain't never heard of this. 90 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 1: Right here, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.