WEBVTT - Episode 398: Spin the Block (Feat. Chinese Kitty) 0:00:02.160 --> 0:00:06.680 What's up his lip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Laura 0:00:06.880 --> 0:00:10.959 Mura and it's Chinese Kiddy girl, Chinese Kitty and the 0:00:11.119 --> 0:00:15.520 flash not just on zoom Zoom fall. That was wild, 0:00:15.600 --> 0:00:17.960 but yeah we had we had a good zoom We 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:21.119 were sucking it out doing them zoom days. Yeah, shout 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:23.439 out the wild. Well you now have a song out 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:27.520 boy Ain't nine. Yes, we've all been through that. Have 0:00:27.680 --> 0:00:30.800 you ever been friends with somebody who um was dating 0:00:30.840 --> 0:00:33.680 your ex? Yes, that's what the song was about, right, 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:36.280 So in real life you have um actually wasn't my ex. 0:00:36.280 --> 0:00:38.120 He wasn't a man at the same time. I know 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:41.559 I'm talking about after we know that, okay, but like 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:44.479 let's just say you're excited dating somebody and then you 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:48.720 ended up like befriending this person. I don't think I've 0:00:48.760 --> 0:00:51.279 ran into that yet, but I have met a lot 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:54.680 of people that went through that situation. Can you imagine 0:00:55.080 --> 0:00:57.560 at one time my UM, one of my ex boys 0:00:57.560 --> 0:00:59.600 friends cheated on me and then the girl like tried 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:02.760 to be me that's weird. Yeah, and she was like 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:05.679 trying to meet up and stuff like that, and I 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:07.800 was like, no, who don't want to meet you what 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:10.160 you want to compare a notes bitch, right, I don't know. 0:01:10.520 --> 0:01:13.399 It was it was very I because it wasn't natural. 0:01:13.440 --> 0:01:15.520 I could see if like y'all met and then it 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:17.520 was like, oh she's cool and y'all you know whatever. 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:20.360 But I didn't even know her. She she actually know. 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:22.600 What happened was I was dating him and she was 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:26.240 his ex girlfriend. So she went through his phone and 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:27.959 saw that he had been texting me and called me 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:30.039 and then like was telling me all kind of stuff 0:01:30.160 --> 0:01:31.800 and then she was like, let's meet up. And I 0:01:31.880 --> 0:01:34.679 was like, no, oh, yeah no, but I know girls 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:36.840 like that. She probably was trying to like throw you 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:39.679 off right, like and make you not want to date 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:42.280 him no more. Yeah, And then sometimes we judgment based 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:45.039 off of like who they dated before. Definitely do you 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:47.880 do that? Yeah? I do. I do because I look 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:51.240 at it like if you date anything, I don't, you 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:55.080 don't see the value with me, so liked anyone, right, 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:57.600 But listen, that's true. Last time you went on lip service, 0:01:57.640 --> 0:01:59.160 we talked about this. You had a friend that was 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:03.480 dating man. Yeah, not dating she slept with but had 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:08.320 a baby and had a baby crazy And that was 0:02:08.360 --> 0:02:10.040 like one of the messiest situations I've ever had in 0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:14.040 my life period? How'd you find out? She did this 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:20.520 whole like Instagram reveal of her being pregnant and she 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:24.120 didn't say it was him, but whatever she said was 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:26.480 directly to me, you know what I'm saying, Like nobody 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:28.840 else knew what that man, but I did so and 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:31.040 that's how you found out. And that's how I found out. 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:34.080 And I asked him and he denied, up and down, 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:36.679 up and down, of course he did. Yeah, Yeah, that's 0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:40.160 crazy that at that point until he couldn't because she 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:43.600 was taking it everywhere. But he still to the day 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:46.520 hasn't claimed it with oh my gosh, this a whole 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:49.280 person involved. Who do you fault more in that situation? 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:55.280 Who bold? But like because you know, people would say, well, 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:57.880 it's more his fault that was your man, or it's 0:02:57.919 --> 0:02:59.720 more her fault that's supposed to be your homegirl. It's 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:04.440 to be like both those situations is crazy, Like both 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:07.440 of y'all knew and both of y'all was. They definitely 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:12.000 are both that fault. Yeah, did you continue to speak 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:17.640 to him after that? I did? Why speak to him? 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:25.399 With sleeping at him? You know what? Circle here? Um, yeah, 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:27.920 and to the point where I was like, nah, I 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:30.640 can't do this right. It's too much. It's too much. 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:33.760 It's too much. You got the blogs going crazy. I 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:39.640 gotta look at that every day. She no, she has 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:46.920 been blocked. I'm blocked you. She blocked me. So wow. Okay, 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:50.040 well that was a very active lip service, by the way, 0:03:50.040 --> 0:03:52.440 when you came on. But you were very honest about 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:54.760 the situation. I was, you know, what's so crazy. I 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:59.760 didn't think that it was gonna go outside of like this. 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:01.080 I thought it was gonna be like, you know, we 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:03.880 have a conversation with our friends. But I guess people 0:04:04.000 --> 0:04:08.480 already knew, so they took it and posted it everywhere, 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:12.720 which is insane. Now, then you had another situation where 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:17.240 this guy you posted about it took back over. Yes, yes, 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:19.640 and um you said you actually paid for half of 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:23.600 it too. I did, I said, Um. What happened was 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:27.200 is the guy that I was dating I started dating 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:30.720 him before that situation, but like we were, we were 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:34.040 broken up when I was dealing with um the other 0:04:34.080 --> 0:04:35.880 guy in his and the girl with the baby and 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:39.720 all that. But um, I had went back to my 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:42.080 other ex, which is the one that bought the ap 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:47.200 you backed. I was about to say, yes, I do, 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:49.800 which I need to stop, but I backtracked, and I 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:55.000 think that him seeing the other situation made him a 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:58.880 little crazy and like super insecure. So like everything that 0:04:58.920 --> 0:05:02.160 I did from there on, it was like, I don't know, 0:05:02.400 --> 0:05:06.239 I just feel like he just went we gotta break 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:08.720 this down. Okay, First of all, why did you end 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:11.720 up paying for half to watch? Because because when I 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:14.560 first wanted to watch, I just met the guy. Okay, 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:17.680 so I told him that I wanted this watch, and 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:19.520 you know when you first meet a guy, they're more like, 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:22.919 uh right, I just kind of started messing with you. 0:05:23.080 --> 0:05:25.000 But I was like, you know what, I'm gonna go 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:27.680 buy it and just give me the other half. And 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:29.479 it was one hundred and fifty thousand dollars. No it 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:36.080 was not, I it's only fifty thousand dollars. Well, it 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:38.919 was fifty thousand and at the time. I just got 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:40.960 signed to the label I was doing at the time. 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:42.880 So I took half the bread and he gave me 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:45.240 half the bread, and that's still really nice. So how 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:47.279 was he able to take it back? Yeah, that's the 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:50.120 next question. Did he bought you out? Did he take 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:52.520 the watch and give you twenty five thousand? No, he 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:55.719 did not actually know he steal it. Where was it? 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:57.599 It was? It was damn there like a steel. It 0:05:57.720 --> 0:06:00.600 was like, okay, I'm not gonna lie. I'm becoming leanest. 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:03.560 I went over his house backtracking again, Oh my god, 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:05.800 when I had no business too, and I forgot to 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:12.520 watch there. I forgot to watch there and yeah, gotta 0:06:12.600 --> 0:06:14.479 you're fault. You forgot it? How do you forget it? 0:06:14.839 --> 0:06:17.279 But I mean, if you're still dealing with the person 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:21.320 that's crazy, I would be so hurt if I thought 0:06:21.320 --> 0:06:23.400 that we were like still cool. Why would you do that? 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:29.400 But I guess he was holding onto whatever. Yeah, you know, 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.680 guy's being a feelings sometimes worse than we do. Absolutely 0:06:32.920 --> 0:06:36.960 way words. They spiteful, they do all types of foul. Yeah, 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:38.960 so how did you never get it back? Like so 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:41.239 you just asked for it? Where's my watch? Like what happened? 0:06:41.320 --> 0:06:43.680 When crazy? You know you'd be doing all the threatening 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:47.280 like when I see you outside, But no, I never 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:48.960 gotta watch back. What do you think he did with it? 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:52.760 He says, he's so has it. I wouldn't try to 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:55.120 go stubble back again. Just again. Oh oh no, you 0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:57.360 know that was my fear. That was my number. That 0:06:57.400 --> 0:07:05.599 was that was my number bird one girls. Wait, what 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:08.919 what happened this girl's um? This guy stole his exest person, 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:11.440 gave it his new girlfriend, and the new girlfriend and 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:13.760 her mamma allegedly was sharing it and didn't want to 0:07:13.760 --> 0:07:16.160 give it back. She had an air tag on in it, 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:17.600 so she went and pulled up on the girl with 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:20.960 her mama and girl could get another one. Yeah, she 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:22.880 didn't rize that the air tag was in the purse. 0:07:22.960 --> 0:07:24.800 I guess she didn't realize that it was. It was, 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:28.080 but she didn't realize that it didn't come with a 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:30.840 box and the bag and tags and dust. People don't care. 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:33.440 I remember one time a guy he definitely stole these 0:07:33.480 --> 0:07:35.400 errings to somebody when I was in high school. He 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:38.720 gave me some errors in his hand, like I was like, uh, 0:07:39.400 --> 0:07:47.640 thank you, that's crazy, thank you and you But okay, 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:52.920 so that's interesting, so you know, yeah, yeah you might have. Yeah, 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:58.480 the thing is to watch. But he still contributed in 0:07:58.520 --> 0:08:01.920 other ways, which is very weird. Did it have insurance? No? 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:05.360 I did not put insurance on it. And I feel 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:07.760 like for his manhood he feels like since I posted 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:09.560 that he doesn't want to give it, that he's never 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:13.320 back does not help. People will be like, oh, so 0:08:13.360 --> 0:08:15.080 you gave her back to watch it. You'll get a 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:17.000 big because he's like, she's gonna do another post. I 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:23.040 got my last bag, sucker. Yeah. Now, let me ask 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:25.400 you this, what if a guy gave you a gift 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:28.000 that was someone else's before, would you take it? And 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:33.760 let's say it was really nice what like a watch? Yeah, 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:36.120 let's say it was like a really nice watch, but 0:08:36.160 --> 0:08:41.000 it was somebody else's a car. I don't know, Oh 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:44.720 that's a good one. Or if it was that has happened, 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:48.400 go ahead, tell us I might drive around with it, 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:50.679 but I don't. I wouldn't feel like it's mine, but 0:08:50.840 --> 0:08:53.440 you still gonna drive it though maybe for like two weeks. 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:57.280 But I have had that happen to a really close 0:08:57.320 --> 0:09:00.880 friend of mine. She was dating somebody who's actually like 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:04.400 really famous in the industry, and um, he took back 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:08.520 her car, her birking her channel bags and then like 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:13.199 reposted it on Instagram and was posting it on Christmas. 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:16.920 But who's the mystery person that's reopening these gifts? I 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:20.040 don't know, but Chris, she did send that to me, 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:23.439 and I was like, that is awful. I wouldn't want 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:26.280 nobody's old but I guess it people had turned down 0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:30.200 some repot with red bottoms before I'm good. I don't 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:32.920 want that girls shoes, her bag. It was more than 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:35.960 just shoes, but it was yes, you know, the bags 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:38.480 or one size for it, all shoes. So he was like, well, 0:09:38.760 --> 0:09:41.280 you know, it's some stuff that's you want and I'm like, no, 0:09:41.320 --> 0:09:44.480 I don't want I don't want it. That's terrible bottoms. 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:50.000 He should have just like the secondhand stores, nobody else's shoes. 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:52.040 But why can't man just let the girl go with 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:56.480 it and just a gift. I'm not coming back and 0:09:56.520 --> 0:09:58.719 snatching my chain back like t y'all didn't do know 0:09:59.280 --> 0:10:01.160 the day say it? Did they come to your house 0:10:01.200 --> 0:10:03.679 and say let me get them bags that um I 0:10:03.800 --> 0:10:05.920 bought you please? Or do they go in the closet 0:10:05.920 --> 0:10:10.559 and go take it? Man? And really I smacked the 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:12.400 shut up and I had a guy asked me for 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:15.199 stuff back? I back, Can I have my coch Why 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:19.400 it wasn't that? Can I get my coochie bag? That's 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:21.320 my number one answer? Can I get all of this. 0:10:21.720 --> 0:10:26.800 It was like, this wasn't just me just I can't 0:10:26.840 --> 0:10:28.960 get my child back, Like he was just asking me 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:31.200 to try to like hold on to have something to 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:33.959 bother me about. You know how people like want to 0:10:34.040 --> 0:10:36.880 keep on bothering you about something, so they'll make some 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:38.559 some shut up and they'll be like, yo, let me 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:39.880 get this back, let me get this back. Can I 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:41.280 get this back? I want all right, here take a 0:10:41.280 --> 0:10:46.000 stef back. You don't care, and you like, here take it. 0:10:46.160 --> 0:10:49.680 It wasn't that fly. It was like some little whack necklace. 0:10:51.520 --> 0:10:53.200 It was. It was terrible. I mean I was young, 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:55.000 so it wasn't that big a deal. But I was like, 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:56.480 here take it, and you can't ask me for nothing 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:59.320 else now, So what about is there anything you ever 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:01.200 gave a gift? Like, have you ever wanted to take 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:03.280 something back from a guy. Let's just say you bought 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:06.000 him something expensive and then you found out he was cheating. 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:10.040 I feel like I have bought gifts and then found 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:13.520 out they were cheating. But at this point it's a lost. 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:16.240 It happened to me. Actually, I remember when the new 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:19.920 was it PlayStations just came out like two years ago. 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:22.199 I was not easy to get something that was not 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:24.800 easy to get, which he said, I got the link, 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:28.280 so just send me to bread and it was a stack, right, okay, whatever. 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:34.560 Then this guy had the nerve to post, but it 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:36.880 was something like how good is your game or something 0:11:36.920 --> 0:11:40.559 like that, and he posted too of the PlayStation so 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:46.760 it was for his brother. But yeah, no he yeah, 0:11:46.840 --> 0:11:49.760 oh no he didn't. Yeah, I was. I was trying 0:11:49.760 --> 0:11:51.760 to be the most expensive gift you ever gotten a 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:57.000 guy I bought my ex. I mean it's expensive, but 0:11:57.040 --> 0:12:02.040 a five thousand dollars bracelet and he ain't want it? What? 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:05.600 He ain't want it? What? It's the same guy with 0:12:05.679 --> 0:12:09.719 ap um no um. This guy's a lot right, he 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:17.520 gonna go jump. He's a lie. He didn't want it 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:20.480 because he felt like I don't know, maybe he's just 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:23.200 being his feelings a lie. I don't like it. He 0:12:23.320 --> 0:12:26.280 felt like it wasn't worth would I put him through? 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:29.640 I guess if it isn't you like him? I do 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:34.160 see man still the way when she talked about him, 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:37.760 how long were you guys together for? Well, we've been 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:39.880 on and off for like four years now, so so 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:43.560 it's back on and off. So it's on for right now? 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:47.040 So where is this watch? You guys are on? That's 0:12:47.040 --> 0:12:48.400 what I'm saying. I don't think I'm ever gonna get 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:53.840 that watchback. But he has done. She's like she needs 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:56.280 to get this watch back right, Like it's just the principle. 0:12:56.400 --> 0:13:00.280 I feel like you need to turn some tricks to 0:13:00.600 --> 0:13:02.880 get half of your money back. Now, let me ask you, 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:05.560 why why do you like him so much? No? No, like, 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:08.400 why is it always? What is it about him? Um? 0:13:12.280 --> 0:13:14.800 I feel like we just built a stronger connection because 0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:17.760 he's like he knows my son and he's like a 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:21.520 part of my child's life. And then we've just been 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:24.200 through so much and I feel like he kind of 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:28.320 understands my life more than like me dealing with like 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:31.600 rappers or athletes. I feel like those would be like 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:33.480 cute flings. But I feel like we have like a 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:37.120 deeper connection. Okay, how do you know when it's appropriate 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:39.000 to introduce someone to your son? Like, what is your 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:41.840 what's your rules for your you know? I feel like 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:45.079 I have to know that that person is really here 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:48.520 for me, and it's just not something that Okay, we're 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:50.719 having fun, we go to the club, we get fucked up, 0:13:50.760 --> 0:13:52.880 but I feel like it's got to be our like 0:13:52.960 --> 0:13:56.640 intellectual talk's gotta be real deep before I could be like, oh, 0:13:56.679 --> 0:13:58.320 this is my child, you know what I'm saying. So 0:13:58.840 --> 0:14:00.480 I met her son just to put it out there. 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:03.480 He's so cute. He's so cute. I hate him. Yeah, 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:06.760 he's so cute. He's not listening, just for anybody who 0:14:07.920 --> 0:14:09.640 he's in the building, but he's not in the Yeah, 0:14:09.679 --> 0:14:11.760 he's not here. I'm not going to ask you something. 0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:14.040 Jasmine gave me a bonnet the other day because I 0:14:14.080 --> 0:14:16.360 need it. When do you have sex with a bonnet on? 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:18.439 Or do you have to take your bonnet off off? 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:22.120 I'm not gonna lie. I've had sex with a bonnet on. 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:27.160 I had had sex with the meek mill braids to 0:14:27.200 --> 0:14:31.000 what a cap on my head before the book? Yeah, see, 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:35.880 wouldn't to do it I'm talking about. Yeah, I definitely 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:38.080 take my bonnet off. But somebody that I'm dealing before 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:39.600 a long time. I'm sure there's been time. So I 0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:43.200 kept whatever on, like yeah, like with a bonnet on, No, 0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:47.480 I don't. I've attempted to when it got snatched off. 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:50.080 Don't taking it off? It didn't feel did it feel weird? 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:52.560 Or you just didn't care. I just didn't care because 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:56.480 under it was looking more crazy, so that one of 0:14:56.480 --> 0:14:59.520 them scoff. I think it's fine, but a bonnet just 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:06.520 me feel like, you know, I don't know, it's not sexy, right, 0:15:07.160 --> 0:15:09.680 but if you with somebody for a while, I feel 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:11.600 like there's gonna be a time when you have to 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:15.320 find it on. Yeah. Yeah, because you got are used 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:17.080 to it. Yeah, you like that at that point. Yeah, 0:15:17.160 --> 0:15:20.320 there was no care here. Short to you cut your hair? Yes, 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:22.800 it's all of U here, but sure I got tapings 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:25.160 right now. Okay, I mean you look good like this, 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:27.320 but the short haircut is really cute. It's really cute too. 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:29.680 I like balance, Like I feel like the short hair 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:32.600 for when I got those moments and then long hair 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:34.640 for the moment. And they always say you're going through 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:36.480 something when you cut your hair. So were you going 0:15:36.480 --> 0:15:39.840 through something? Absolutely? Yes, definitely was. I feel like last 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:45.200 year I kind of was in this crazy spiral mode 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:47.320 um and I feel like I kind of made a 0:15:47.320 --> 0:15:50.520 lot of wrong choices. And then I think it was 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:52.760 like right after New Year's right before my birthday, I 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:55.200 was like, I'm just cut all my hair off because 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:59.000 I just want a new era, new mean new everything. 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:01.600 So I definite we did it for that reason. That's 0:16:01.720 --> 0:16:03.880 terrible when we feel like we're making them wrong choices 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:07.360 and be like, what was I thinking? Yeah? Definitely? Was 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:10.880 it like career or was it relationship type things? I 0:16:10.880 --> 0:16:13.400 would say bold, yeah, but I was gonna say more 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:17.120 like relationship things. I think I was just like dating whoever, 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:20.320 doing whatever. And have you taken any lessons away from 0:16:20.600 --> 0:16:25.800 the hard time? Absolutely? Yeah, definitely, So that's when you win. Huh, 0:16:25.840 --> 0:16:28.760 that's when you win. That's the win is when you 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:32.840 learned from the hard times, the mistakes, ye, bad decisions, 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:34.680 I agree, learned the lesson and you're able to take 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:36.360 that on and move forward in life with a lesson 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:38.880 you learn, And that's the w What was the biggest 0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:44.440 lesson you've learned from all of everything? Um? I would 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:47.000 say to believe in myself more, because I kind of 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:51.360 got to a point where I just didn't feel like 0:16:51.920 --> 0:16:53.960 the girl that I really am and I was just 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:57.160 making like whatever choices if I might see the next 0:16:57.160 --> 0:16:59.440 girl do or like some of my friends would tell me, 0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:02.120 like girl, fuk with this person and that person, and 0:17:02.840 --> 0:17:05.439 you get all those things done and you're like, what 0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:07.479 what just happened? Six months just went behind. I mean 0:17:08.119 --> 0:17:10.760 like you know, like what type of choices did I make? 0:17:11.200 --> 0:17:14.480 Nothing really was moving forward for me. So I felt 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:17.600 like after the last crazy thing that I did, I 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:21.200 was like, no, I gotta realize who I am? No 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:25.880 your worst, no, my word tex chipping and delivery. And 0:17:26.280 --> 0:17:28.440 I feel like I've just been moving way differently now, 0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:31.639 like way different. That's good. And it's hard to be 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:34.959 like a pretty woman in this business too. I can 0:17:35.080 --> 0:17:38.000 imagine that. You it's harder to try to like get 0:17:38.040 --> 0:17:41.200 those features and ask for stuff because it might be like, yeah, 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:43.840 I want her in the room, and then what I 0:17:44.000 --> 0:17:46.240 was taught me in another room, and then it's like 0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:48.920 when you know, when you say no, it's more like, 0:17:49.680 --> 0:17:52.480 well you know what I'm saying. You just you just 0:17:52.600 --> 0:17:55.919 know that they won't say it out their mouth, but 0:17:55.960 --> 0:18:02.080 it's just like a different energy. So, m yeah, that sucks. Well, 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:04.240 look I'm black because the boy Ain't Mine? Boy Ain't 0:18:04.280 --> 0:18:09.639 Mine is great and it's a real situation. Yeah, yeah, 0:18:10.840 --> 0:18:13.840 that's another way out of the back. And I took 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:15.359 a while for this song to come out. What was 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:21.480 the delay? I was more scared of this sample. Okay, yeah, 0:18:21.480 --> 0:18:23.600 that's true. That's a big sample. Yeah. I was going 0:18:23.680 --> 0:18:26.600 back and forth for a minute, and I was just like, 0:18:26.640 --> 0:18:29.840 you know, I'm just gonna put it out. So okay, 0:18:29.920 --> 0:18:33.040 Well we didn't hear it, but you know you've had 0:18:33.080 --> 0:18:36.120 some great wins too, rolling loud, Yeah, that's like your 0:18:36.240 --> 0:18:37.960 home right there. But they're not doing New York this 0:18:38.040 --> 0:18:41.360 year for whatever reason because New Yorkie Wolder. Yeah, that's 0:18:41.480 --> 0:18:49.320 too many New York I mean Miami Wilder shot. Yeah, 0:18:49.359 --> 0:18:51.800 I think it cold on. Let me first of all, 0:18:51.880 --> 0:18:58.480 let's tast to you hold on. Oh okay, congratulations Chinese. Yeah, 0:19:00.440 --> 0:19:01.800 you know what I'm saying. We got to make better 0:19:01.880 --> 0:19:04.119 choices now. Somebody was telling me the other day, you know, 0:19:04.200 --> 0:19:07.080 certain things we feel like our bad luck, right, And 0:19:07.320 --> 0:19:09.000 he was like, you know, it's bad luck to have 0:19:09.040 --> 0:19:12.200 sex in the car. Have you heard that? I never 0:19:12.200 --> 0:19:15.600 heard that. You guys never heard this. It's something I 0:19:15.720 --> 0:19:17.720 always heard growing up. If you have sex in the car, 0:19:17.760 --> 0:19:20.640 it means you're gonna like crash your car. What I've 0:19:20.720 --> 0:19:22.600 never heard that. I can't believe you guys never heard 0:19:22.800 --> 0:19:26.520 I've never heard that about that happened to me when 0:19:26.560 --> 0:19:29.120 you having sex in my car in the same car 0:19:29.200 --> 0:19:34.600 that I like totaled? How how long after did it 0:19:34.760 --> 0:19:38.359 the accident happened, Maybe like two months, But I mean 0:19:38.400 --> 0:19:41.639 I never knew that your first time having let me 0:19:41.680 --> 0:19:43.760 see it. Let Meg, Yeah, I never heard of that. 0:19:44.920 --> 0:19:47.359 Never heard that younger. But it wasn't my car or 0:19:47.400 --> 0:19:55.359 his car, so my parents, my mama car. Sex in 0:19:55.359 --> 0:19:58.000 the car is overrated too. I feel like it very much. 0:19:58.040 --> 0:20:00.840 So yeah it is. No, that's not true because then 0:20:00.840 --> 0:20:03.240 I had sex in another car and that car was 0:20:03.440 --> 0:20:04.919 It probably depends what type of car it is, like 0:20:04.920 --> 0:20:07.200 how spacious. I've had sex in the car one time 0:20:07.240 --> 0:20:09.560 and it was good. But we were driving, like he 0:20:09.680 --> 0:20:11.359 was literally dropping and I calmed on top of him. 0:20:11.359 --> 0:20:13.080 And when we was both dripping, I was riding and 0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:17.240 driving at the same time. How you okay, it can't 0:20:19.320 --> 0:20:22.840 it can't be like I was fearing. But I was right. 0:20:23.119 --> 0:20:27.240 Show you. I was like riding him cowgirl rivers got it? Yeah, 0:20:27.320 --> 0:20:32.280 that I'm north in Miami. It was like seven o'clock 0:20:32.320 --> 0:20:34.040 on a Sunday morning. I had just left the strip club. 0:20:34.560 --> 0:20:39.560 Jesus as Lord, can't you even like that? I did? 0:20:39.880 --> 0:20:41.840 Because I feel like it's too distracted, like we never 0:20:41.880 --> 0:20:44.960 had after that somebody driving, I felt like it was 0:20:45.000 --> 0:20:49.480 so good, how can we top that? So, yeah, it 0:20:49.600 --> 0:20:53.800 was you didn't want to try the adrenaline probably are Yeah, 0:20:54.000 --> 0:20:55.840 I think so. I mean it was just a flame. 0:20:55.880 --> 0:20:58.720 It wasn't like it was like somebody that I was like, right, okay, 0:20:59.640 --> 0:21:01.440 it was a whole in a different area. Cold types 0:21:01.440 --> 0:21:05.400 of But it sounds like something I want to it's 0:21:05.560 --> 0:21:10.480 simp camera someone, can you imagine? So? Are there any 0:21:10.520 --> 0:21:12.919 superstitions that you guys have when it comes to sex? 0:21:13.280 --> 0:21:15.240 Like I told you, that was one always like for 0:21:15.320 --> 0:21:17.800 me growing up. They always say where I hear a 0:21:17.800 --> 0:21:20.520 lot if you have sex on your period, that you're 0:21:20.560 --> 0:21:24.320 trapping that person. You're putting up a trap on the person. Well, okay, 0:21:24.359 --> 0:21:27.480 I hear that. It's like putting period blood in the 0:21:27.480 --> 0:21:30.399 spaghetti or they see it like a man sees your blood. 0:21:30.600 --> 0:21:34.159 It's like a ritual or something. I've heard it from you. 0:21:34.320 --> 0:21:35.920 People won't be like, yeah, if you put a little 0:21:35.960 --> 0:21:40.159