Speaker 1: What's up his lip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Laura
Speaker 1: Mura and it's Chinese Kiddy girl, Chinese Kitty and the
Speaker 1: flash not just on zoom Zoom fall. That was wild,
Speaker 1: but yeah we had we had a good zoom We
Speaker 1: were sucking it out doing them zoom days. Yeah, shout
Speaker 1: out the wild. Well you now have a song out
Speaker 1: boy Ain't nine. Yes, we've all been through that. Have
Speaker 1: you ever been friends with somebody who um was dating
Speaker 1: your ex? Yes, that's what the song was about, right,
Speaker 1: So in real life you have um actually wasn't my ex.
Speaker 1: He wasn't a man at the same time. I know
Speaker 1: I'm talking about after we know that, okay, but like
Speaker 1: let's just say you're excited dating somebody and then you
Speaker 1: ended up like befriending this person. I don't think I've
Speaker 1: ran into that yet, but I have met a lot
Speaker 1: of people that went through that situation. Can you imagine
Speaker 1: at one time my UM, one of my ex boys
Speaker 1: friends cheated on me and then the girl like tried
Speaker 1: to be me that's weird. Yeah, and she was like
Speaker 1: trying to meet up and stuff like that, and I
Speaker 1: was like, no, who don't want to meet you what
Speaker 1: you want to compare a notes bitch, right, I don't know.
Speaker 1: It was it was very I because it wasn't natural.
Speaker 1: I could see if like y'all met and then it
Speaker 1: was like, oh she's cool and y'all you know whatever.
Speaker 1: But I didn't even know her. She she actually know.
Speaker 1: What happened was I was dating him and she was
Speaker 1: his ex girlfriend. So she went through his phone and
Speaker 1: saw that he had been texting me and called me
Speaker 1: and then like was telling me all kind of stuff
Speaker 1: and then she was like, let's meet up. And I
Speaker 1: was like, no, oh, yeah no, but I know girls
Speaker 1: like that. She probably was trying to like throw you
Speaker 1: off right, like and make you not want to date
Speaker 1: him no more. Yeah, And then sometimes we judgment based
Speaker 1: off of like who they dated before. Definitely do you
Speaker 1: do that? Yeah? I do. I do because I look
Speaker 1: at it like if you date anything, I don't, you
Speaker 1: don't see the value with me, so liked anyone, right,
Speaker 1: But listen, that's true. Last time you went on lip service,
Speaker 1: we talked about this. You had a friend that was
Speaker 1: dating man. Yeah, not dating she slept with but had
Speaker 1: a baby and had a baby crazy And that was
Speaker 1: like one of the messiest situations I've ever had in
Speaker 1: my life period? How'd you find out? She did this
Speaker 1: whole like Instagram reveal of her being pregnant and she
Speaker 1: didn't say it was him, but whatever she said was
Speaker 1: directly to me, you know what I'm saying, Like nobody
Speaker 1: else knew what that man, but I did so and
Speaker 1: that's how you found out. And that's how I found out.
Speaker 1: And I asked him and he denied, up and down,
Speaker 1: up and down, of course he did. Yeah, Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: crazy that at that point until he couldn't because she
Speaker 1: was taking it everywhere. But he still to the day
Speaker 1: hasn't claimed it with oh my gosh, this a whole
Speaker 1: person involved. Who do you fault more in that situation?
Speaker 1: Who bold? But like because you know, people would say, well,
Speaker 1: it's more his fault that was your man, or it's
Speaker 1: more her fault that's supposed to be your homegirl. It's
Speaker 1: to be like both those situations is crazy, Like both
Speaker 1: of y'all knew and both of y'all was. They definitely
Speaker 1: are both that fault. Yeah, did you continue to speak
Speaker 1: to him after that? I did? Why speak to him?
Speaker 1: With sleeping at him? You know what? Circle here? Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: and to the point where I was like, nah, I
Speaker 1: can't do this right. It's too much. It's too much.
Speaker 1: It's too much. You got the blogs going crazy. I
Speaker 1: gotta look at that every day. She no, she has
Speaker 1: been blocked. I'm blocked you. She blocked me. So wow. Okay,
Speaker 1: well that was a very active lip service, by the way,
Speaker 1: when you came on. But you were very honest about
Speaker 1: the situation. I was, you know, what's so crazy. I
Speaker 1: didn't think that it was gonna go outside of like this.
Speaker 1: I thought it was gonna be like, you know, we
Speaker 1: have a conversation with our friends. But I guess people
Speaker 1: already knew, so they took it and posted it everywhere,
Speaker 1: which is insane. Now, then you had another situation where
Speaker 1: this guy you posted about it took back over. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: and um you said you actually paid for half of
Speaker 1: it too. I did, I said, Um. What happened was
Speaker 1: is the guy that I was dating I started dating
Speaker 1: him before that situation, but like we were, we were
Speaker 1: broken up when I was dealing with um the other
Speaker 1: guy in his and the girl with the baby and
Speaker 1: all that. But um, I had went back to my
Speaker 1: other ex, which is the one that bought the ap
Speaker 1: you backed. I was about to say, yes, I do,
Speaker 1: which I need to stop, but I backtracked, and I
Speaker 1: think that him seeing the other situation made him a
Speaker 1: little crazy and like super insecure. So like everything that
Speaker 1: I did from there on, it was like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I just feel like he just went we gotta break
Speaker 1: this down. Okay, First of all, why did you end
Speaker 1: up paying for half to watch? Because because when I
Speaker 1: first wanted to watch, I just met the guy. Okay,
Speaker 1: so I told him that I wanted this watch, and
Speaker 1: you know when you first meet a guy, they're more like,
Speaker 1: uh right, I just kind of started messing with you.
Speaker 1: But I was like, you know what, I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: buy it and just give me the other half. And
Speaker 1: it was one hundred and fifty thousand dollars. No it
Speaker 1: was not, I it's only fifty thousand dollars. Well, it
Speaker 1: was fifty thousand and at the time. I just got
Speaker 1: signed to the label I was doing at the time.
Speaker 1: So I took half the bread and he gave me
Speaker 1: half the bread, and that's still really nice. So how
Speaker 1: was he able to take it back? Yeah, that's the
Speaker 1: next question. Did he bought you out? Did he take
Speaker 1: the watch and give you twenty five thousand? No, he
Speaker 1: did not actually know he steal it. Where was it?
Speaker 1: It was? It was damn there like a steel. It
Speaker 1: was like, okay, I'm not gonna lie. I'm becoming leanest.
Speaker 1: I went over his house backtracking again, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: when I had no business too, and I forgot to
Speaker 1: watch there. I forgot to watch there and yeah, gotta
Speaker 1: you're fault. You forgot it? How do you forget it?
Speaker 1: But I mean, if you're still dealing with the person
Speaker 1: that's crazy, I would be so hurt if I thought
Speaker 1: that we were like still cool. Why would you do that?
Speaker 1: But I guess he was holding onto whatever. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: guy's being a feelings sometimes worse than we do. Absolutely
Speaker 1: way words. They spiteful, they do all types of foul. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so how did you never get it back? Like so
Speaker 1: you just asked for it? Where's my watch? Like what happened?
Speaker 1: When crazy? You know you'd be doing all the threatening
Speaker 1: like when I see you outside, But no, I never
Speaker 1: gotta watch back. What do you think he did with it?
Speaker 1: He says, he's so has it. I wouldn't try to
Speaker 1: go stubble back again. Just again. Oh oh no, you
Speaker 1: know that was my fear. That was my number. That
Speaker 1: was that was my number bird one girls. Wait, what
Speaker 1: what happened this girl's um? This guy stole his exest person,
Speaker 1: gave it his new girlfriend, and the new girlfriend and
Speaker 1: her mamma allegedly was sharing it and didn't want to
Speaker 1: give it back. She had an air tag on in it,
Speaker 1: so she went and pulled up on the girl with
Speaker 1: her mama and girl could get another one. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: didn't rize that the air tag was in the purse.
Speaker 1: I guess she didn't realize that it was. It was,
Speaker 1: but she didn't realize that it didn't come with a
Speaker 1: box and the bag and tags and dust. People don't care.
Speaker 1: I remember one time a guy he definitely stole these
Speaker 1: errings to somebody when I was in high school. He
Speaker 1: gave me some errors in his hand, like I was like, uh,
Speaker 1: thank you, that's crazy, thank you and you But okay,
Speaker 1: so that's interesting, so you know, yeah, yeah you might have. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the thing is to watch. But he still contributed in
Speaker 1: other ways, which is very weird. Did it have insurance? No?
Speaker 1: I did not put insurance on it. And I feel
Speaker 1: like for his manhood he feels like since I posted
Speaker 1: that he doesn't want to give it, that he's never
Speaker 1: back does not help. People will be like, oh, so
Speaker 1: you gave her back to watch it. You'll get a
Speaker 1: big because he's like, she's gonna do another post. I
Speaker 1: got my last bag, sucker. Yeah. Now, let me ask
Speaker 1: you this, what if a guy gave you a gift
Speaker 1: that was someone else's before, would you take it? And
Speaker 1: let's say it was really nice what like a watch? Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's say it was like a really nice watch, but
Speaker 1: it was somebody else's a car. I don't know, Oh
Speaker 1: that's a good one. Or if it was that has happened,
Speaker 1: go ahead, tell us I might drive around with it,
Speaker 1: but I don't. I wouldn't feel like it's mine, but
Speaker 1: you still gonna drive it though maybe for like two weeks.
Speaker 1: But I have had that happen to a really close
Speaker 1: friend of mine. She was dating somebody who's actually like
Speaker 1: really famous in the industry, and um, he took back
Speaker 1: her car, her birking her channel bags and then like
Speaker 1: reposted it on Instagram and was posting it on Christmas.
Speaker 1: But who's the mystery person that's reopening these gifts? I
Speaker 1: don't know, but Chris, she did send that to me,
Speaker 1: and I was like, that is awful. I wouldn't want
Speaker 1: nobody's old but I guess it people had turned down
Speaker 1: some repot with red bottoms before I'm good. I don't
Speaker 1: want that girls shoes, her bag. It was more than
Speaker 1: just shoes, but it was yes, you know, the bags
Speaker 1: or one size for it, all shoes. So he was like, well,
Speaker 1: you know, it's some stuff that's you want and I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: I don't want I don't want it. That's terrible bottoms.
Speaker 1: He should have just like the secondhand stores, nobody else's shoes.
Speaker 1: But why can't man just let the girl go with
Speaker 1: it and just a gift. I'm not coming back and
Speaker 1: snatching my chain back like t y'all didn't do know
Speaker 1: the day say it? Did they come to your house
Speaker 1: and say let me get them bags that um I
Speaker 1: bought you please? Or do they go in the closet
Speaker 1: and go take it? Man? And really I smacked the
Speaker 1: shut up and I had a guy asked me for
Speaker 1: stuff back? I back, Can I have my coch Why
Speaker 1: it wasn't that? Can I get my coochie bag? That's
Speaker 1: my number one answer? Can I get all of this.
Speaker 1: It was like, this wasn't just me just I can't
Speaker 1: get my child back, Like he was just asking me
Speaker 1: to try to like hold on to have something to
Speaker 1: bother me about. You know how people like want to
Speaker 1: keep on bothering you about something, so they'll make some
Speaker 1: some shut up and they'll be like, yo, let me
Speaker 1: get this back, let me get this back. Can I
Speaker 1: get this back? I want all right, here take a
Speaker 1: stef back. You don't care, and you like, here take it.
Speaker 1: It wasn't that fly. It was like some little whack necklace.
Speaker 1: It was. It was terrible. I mean I was young,
Speaker 1: so it wasn't that big a deal. But I was like,
Speaker 1: here take it, and you can't ask me for nothing
Speaker 1: else now, So what about is there anything you ever
Speaker 1: gave a gift? Like, have you ever wanted to take
Speaker 1: something back from a guy. Let's just say you bought
Speaker 1: him something expensive and then you found out he was cheating.
Speaker 1: I feel like I have bought gifts and then found
Speaker 1: out they were cheating. But at this point it's a lost.
Speaker 1: It happened to me. Actually, I remember when the new
Speaker 1: was it PlayStations just came out like two years ago.
Speaker 1: I was not easy to get something that was not
Speaker 1: easy to get, which he said, I got the link,
Speaker 1: so just send me to bread and it was a stack, right, okay, whatever.
Speaker 1: Then this guy had the nerve to post, but it
Speaker 1: was something like how good is your game or something
Speaker 1: like that, and he posted too of the PlayStation so
Speaker 1: it was for his brother. But yeah, no he yeah,
Speaker 1: oh no he didn't. Yeah, I was. I was trying
Speaker 1: to be the most expensive gift you ever gotten a
Speaker 1: guy I bought my ex. I mean it's expensive, but
Speaker 1: a five thousand dollars bracelet and he ain't want it? What?
Speaker 1: He ain't want it? What? It's the same guy with
Speaker 1: ap um no um. This guy's a lot right, he
Speaker 1: gonna go jump. He's a lie. He didn't want it
Speaker 1: because he felt like I don't know, maybe he's just
Speaker 1: being his feelings a lie. I don't like it. He
Speaker 1: felt like it wasn't worth would I put him through?
Speaker 1: I guess if it isn't you like him? I do
Speaker 1: see man still the way when she talked about him,
Speaker 1: how long were you guys together for? Well, we've been
Speaker 1: on and off for like four years now, so so
Speaker 1: it's back on and off. So it's on for right now?
Speaker 1: So where is this watch? You guys are on? That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I don't think I'm ever gonna get
Speaker 1: that watchback. But he has done. She's like she needs
Speaker 1: to get this watch back right, Like it's just the principle.
Speaker 1: I feel like you need to turn some tricks to
Speaker 1: get half of your money back. Now, let me ask you,
Speaker 1: why why do you like him so much? No? No, like,
Speaker 1: why is it always? What is it about him? Um?
Speaker 1: I feel like we just built a stronger connection because
Speaker 1: he's like he knows my son and he's like a
Speaker 1: part of my child's life. And then we've just been
Speaker 1: through so much and I feel like he kind of
Speaker 1: understands my life more than like me dealing with like
Speaker 1: rappers or athletes. I feel like those would be like
Speaker 1: cute flings. But I feel like we have like a
Speaker 1: deeper connection. Okay, how do you know when it's appropriate
Speaker 1: to introduce someone to your son? Like, what is your
Speaker 1: what's your rules for your you know? I feel like
Speaker 1: I have to know that that person is really here
Speaker 1: for me, and it's just not something that Okay, we're
Speaker 1: having fun, we go to the club, we get fucked up,
Speaker 1: but I feel like it's got to be our like
Speaker 1: intellectual talk's gotta be real deep before I could be like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is my child, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: I met her son just to put it out there.
Speaker 1: He's so cute. He's so cute. I hate him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's so cute. He's not listening, just for anybody who
Speaker 1: he's in the building, but he's not in the Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's not here. I'm not going to ask you something.
Speaker 1: Jasmine gave me a bonnet the other day because I
Speaker 1: need it. When do you have sex with a bonnet on?
Speaker 1: Or do you have to take your bonnet off off?
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I've had sex with a bonnet on.
Speaker 1: I had had sex with the meek mill braids to
Speaker 1: what a cap on my head before the book? Yeah, see,
Speaker 1: wouldn't to do it I'm talking about. Yeah, I definitely
Speaker 1: take my bonnet off. But somebody that I'm dealing before
Speaker 1: a long time. I'm sure there's been time. So I
Speaker 1: kept whatever on, like yeah, like with a bonnet on, No,
Speaker 1: I don't. I've attempted to when it got snatched off.
Speaker 1: Don't taking it off? It didn't feel did it feel weird?
Speaker 1: Or you just didn't care. I just didn't care because
Speaker 1: under it was looking more crazy, so that one of
Speaker 1: them scoff. I think it's fine, but a bonnet just
Speaker 1: me feel like, you know, I don't know, it's not sexy, right,
Speaker 1: but if you with somebody for a while, I feel
Speaker 1: like there's gonna be a time when you have to
Speaker 1: find it on. Yeah. Yeah, because you got are used
Speaker 1: to it. Yeah, you like that at that point. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there was no care here. Short to you cut your hair? Yes,
Speaker 1: it's all of U here, but sure I got tapings
Speaker 1: right now. Okay, I mean you look good like this,
Speaker 1: but the short haircut is really cute. It's really cute too.
Speaker 1: I like balance, Like I feel like the short hair
Speaker 1: for when I got those moments and then long hair
Speaker 1: for the moment. And they always say you're going through
Speaker 1: something when you cut your hair. So were you going
Speaker 1: through something? Absolutely? Yes, definitely was. I feel like last
Speaker 1: year I kind of was in this crazy spiral mode
Speaker 1: um and I feel like I kind of made a
Speaker 1: lot of wrong choices. And then I think it was
Speaker 1: like right after New Year's right before my birthday, I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm just cut all my hair off because
Speaker 1: I just want a new era, new mean new everything.
Speaker 1: So I definite we did it for that reason. That's
Speaker 1: terrible when we feel like we're making them wrong choices
Speaker 1: and be like, what was I thinking? Yeah? Definitely? Was
Speaker 1: it like career or was it relationship type things? I
Speaker 1: would say bold, yeah, but I was gonna say more
Speaker 1: like relationship things. I think I was just like dating whoever,
Speaker 1: doing whatever. And have you taken any lessons away from
Speaker 1: the hard time? Absolutely? Yeah, definitely, So that's when you win. Huh,
Speaker 1: that's when you win. That's the win is when you
Speaker 1: learned from the hard times, the mistakes, ye, bad decisions,
Speaker 1: I agree, learned the lesson and you're able to take
Speaker 1: that on and move forward in life with a lesson
Speaker 1: you learn, And that's the w What was the biggest
Speaker 1: lesson you've learned from all of everything? Um? I would
Speaker 1: say to believe in myself more, because I kind of
Speaker 1: got to a point where I just didn't feel like
Speaker 1: the girl that I really am and I was just
Speaker 1: making like whatever choices if I might see the next
Speaker 1: girl do or like some of my friends would tell me,
Speaker 1: like girl, fuk with this person and that person, and
Speaker 1: you get all those things done and you're like, what
Speaker 1: what just happened? Six months just went behind. I mean
Speaker 1: like you know, like what type of choices did I make?
Speaker 1: Nothing really was moving forward for me. So I felt
Speaker 1: like after the last crazy thing that I did, I
Speaker 1: was like, no, I gotta realize who I am? No
Speaker 1: your worst, no, my word tex chipping and delivery. And
Speaker 1: I feel like I've just been moving way differently now,
Speaker 1: like way different. That's good. And it's hard to be
Speaker 1: like a pretty woman in this business too. I can
Speaker 1: imagine that. You it's harder to try to like get
Speaker 1: those features and ask for stuff because it might be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I want her in the room, and then what I
Speaker 1: was taught me in another room, and then it's like
Speaker 1: when you know, when you say no, it's more like,
Speaker 1: well you know what I'm saying. You just you just
Speaker 1: know that they won't say it out their mouth, but
Speaker 1: it's just like a different energy. So, m yeah, that sucks. Well,
Speaker 1: look I'm black because the boy Ain't Mine? Boy Ain't
Speaker 1: Mine is great and it's a real situation. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's another way out of the back. And I took
Speaker 1: a while for this song to come out. What was
Speaker 1: the delay? I was more scared of this sample. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's true. That's a big sample. Yeah. I was going
Speaker 1: back and forth for a minute, and I was just like,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm just gonna put it out. So okay,
Speaker 1: Well we didn't hear it, but you know you've had
Speaker 1: some great wins too, rolling loud, Yeah, that's like your
Speaker 1: home right there. But they're not doing New York this
Speaker 1: year for whatever reason because New Yorkie Wolder. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: too many New York I mean Miami Wilder shot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think it cold on. Let me first of all,
Speaker 1: let's tast to you hold on. Oh okay, congratulations Chinese. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. We got to make better
Speaker 1: choices now. Somebody was telling me the other day, you know,
Speaker 1: certain things we feel like our bad luck, right, And
Speaker 1: he was like, you know, it's bad luck to have
Speaker 1: sex in the car. Have you heard that? I never
Speaker 1: heard that. You guys never heard this. It's something I
Speaker 1: always heard growing up. If you have sex in the car,
Speaker 1: it means you're gonna like crash your car. What I've
Speaker 1: never heard that. I can't believe you guys never heard
Speaker 1: I've never heard that about that happened to me when
Speaker 1: you having sex in my car in the same car
Speaker 1: that I like totaled? How how long after did it
Speaker 1: the accident happened, Maybe like two months, But I mean
Speaker 1: I never knew that your first time having let me
Speaker 1: see it. Let Meg, Yeah, I never heard of that.
Speaker 1: Never heard that younger. But it wasn't my car or
Speaker 1: his car, so my parents, my mama car. Sex in
Speaker 1: the car is overrated too. I feel like it very much.
Speaker 1: So yeah it is. No, that's not true because then
Speaker 1: I had sex in another car and that car was
Speaker 1: It probably depends what type of car it is, like
Speaker 1: how spacious. I've had sex in the car one time
Speaker 1: and it was good. But we were driving, like he
Speaker 1: was literally dropping and I calmed on top of him.
Speaker 1: And when we was both dripping, I was riding and
Speaker 1: driving at the same time. How you okay, it can't
Speaker 1: it can't be like I was fearing. But I was right.
Speaker 1: Show you. I was like riding him cowgirl rivers got it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that I'm north in Miami. It was like seven o'clock
Speaker 1: on a Sunday morning. I had just left the strip club.
Speaker 1: Jesus as Lord, can't you even like that? I did?
Speaker 1: Because I feel like it's too distracted, like we never
Speaker 1: had after that somebody driving, I felt like it was
Speaker 1: so good, how can we top that? So, yeah, it
Speaker 1: was you didn't want to try the adrenaline probably are Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think so. I mean it was just a flame.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like it was like somebody that I was like, right, okay,
Speaker 1: it was a whole in a different area. Cold types
Speaker 1: of But it sounds like something I want to it's
Speaker 1: simp camera someone, can you imagine? So? Are there any
Speaker 1: superstitions that you guys have when it comes to sex?
Speaker 1: Like I told you, that was one always like for
Speaker 1: me growing up. They always say where I hear a
Speaker 1: lot if you have sex on your period, that you're
Speaker 1: trapping that person. You're putting up a trap on the person. Well, okay,
Speaker 1: I hear that. It's like putting period blood in the
Speaker 1: spaghetti or they see it like a man sees your blood.
Speaker 1: It's like a ritual or something. I've heard it from you.
Speaker 1: People won't be like, yeah, if you put a little
Speaker 1: period of blood spaghetti. What about any other um have
Speaker 1: y'all ever heard anything like about I've ever heard. I've
Speaker 1: never heard. I've never heard of any sexuals. No sex superstitions.
Speaker 1: These are the first time this first, I mean the
Speaker 1: period in the spaghetti, but that's not really what is
Speaker 1: the one where best sex? If you, oh, if you
Speaker 1: don't look me in the eye when we ches, I
Speaker 1: mean it's gonna be yeah, but people, or if you
Speaker 1: break a mirror, Yeah, that's seven years of bad sex
Speaker 1: or something like that, right, and it's always seven years
Speaker 1: right like that? Now, how important is sex to you?
Speaker 1: Is that? Will that keep you coming back? Yes, you
Speaker 1: ever liked a guy that had like a medium sized
Speaker 1: dick or like not a big sized dick, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: and it was still good? What about bad sex? Like
Speaker 1: if you like somebody really a whole whole lot and
Speaker 1: then y'all have this sex isn't good? Are you staying
Speaker 1: to try to fix it? Or you just like I
Speaker 1: can't deal with this. I'm like fifty fifty most of
Speaker 1: the time. No, but like you really like to like sex.
Speaker 1: You really liked him and then you finally had sex
Speaker 1: with him, and it's like, wow, what if he comes
Speaker 1: too quick? What if you just take your clothes up
Speaker 1: and he's like, okay, I'll give you another shot a
Speaker 1: little exciting. He's like, what that's funny, but I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm just I really like so sex is important? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I think it's important too. People can
Speaker 1: say in a relationship it's not about that, but I
Speaker 1: think like in order to have like the deepest connection
Speaker 1: that you can have, it is important important. Like how
Speaker 1: many times a day or a week would you want
Speaker 1: to have sex? I would like sex twice a day, okay,
Speaker 1: but I feel like most guys be so tired. I
Speaker 1: don't know, they can only go one time and then
Speaker 1: they'd be like good for the day. Yeah, and then
Speaker 1: they'd be talking all this and then huh and then
Speaker 1: they fall asleep. But they'd be like I need ten minutes.
Speaker 1: That is new when it's new, but like the first
Speaker 1: six months they could do whatever, and then after like
Speaker 1: a year or two years, is sleepy that Dick is
Speaker 1: accustomed to? Chinese kitty? Chinese kitty? Yeah, it's what about
Speaker 1: guys loud in the bedroom? You like that? I do?
Speaker 1: I donna why I do? Because I feel like it
Speaker 1: turned me on, Like I want to know how good
Speaker 1: I feel. Silent sex is weird to me. I don't
Speaker 1: like make a noise, It's okay, A breathing, they make
Speaker 1: a face like make a noise, grunt, but it's also nice.
Speaker 1: One you have to be quiet for whatever reason. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that you're speaking, but like you want, she's gonna be mute,
Speaker 1: make that noise. Yeah, you know, it's really funny if
Speaker 1: he's doing something like he's on a call and then you're, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: everybody knew what I was saying. But that's the that's
Speaker 1: the sneaking and that's like the adrenaline rush sex, Like
Speaker 1: that's the sex that we shouldn't be doing, so we
Speaker 1: know it's gonna be good because we're sneaking it on it.
Speaker 1: Like have you ever been tied up during sex? No?
Speaker 1: I think got and I don't know. People be talking
Speaker 1: about all those bondage. I haven't got there yet, which
Speaker 1: is weird. I mean to like you said, not yet,
Speaker 1: not yet, But I like that I don't know all
Speaker 1: the guys that yeah, they don't want to experiment at all.
Speaker 1: Her guys don't be liking nothing you put your hand
Speaker 1: on it won't watch out Like, yeah, I'm tight about everything.
Speaker 1: I worry out. You got touched in nipple. You need
Speaker 1: to find you a be like bro, actually open minded
Speaker 1: person versatile guy that's willing to tribe like I need
Speaker 1: to though, lindfolds and handfles. Yeah, I don't like that.
Speaker 1: Did you guys see the guy that strange the woman
Speaker 1: while they was having sex and she died? Yes, Like
Speaker 1: at what point do you not see her not breathing anymore? Black? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because some people like to black out. They say that's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: people have like safe like that, you know, like I'm
Speaker 1: dying a little a little crap, but I don't. But
Speaker 1: I want to breathe. Yeah, and I want to live. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I feel like I was black beginning choked. It's
Speaker 1: nothing cute about it. To bring terrible? What terrible? What
Speaker 1: about sex in the shower in the bathtub? I feel
Speaker 1: like it's over, I very much so because start there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you start there and I got or to the floor
Speaker 1: or something. Yeah, yeah, getting out this water. Yeah. But
Speaker 1: if you think you've ever been with a guy who's bisexual,
Speaker 1: I don't think so. You know, That's why I think
Speaker 1: I I'm not gonna lie. I think I was with
Speaker 1: one person. I think because it was the things that
Speaker 1: he would say out of his mouth. I actually do
Speaker 1: anything like one time. I don't know I don't even
Speaker 1: want to say, but one time he asked about another
Speaker 1: person and he was like, do you think he get
Speaker 1: mad bitches? And I was like yeah, he was like
Speaker 1: he into niggas and I was like, oh, do you
Speaker 1: think he might be? Answered me? And it was like
Speaker 1: a flame thing. So it wasn't like I was working
Speaker 1: it just yeah, that's kind of different question. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: were thinking about on the TLC show that Gig just
Speaker 1: watched last night, right, what was it called again? Um
Speaker 1: seeking brother husband, brother husband and I don't know, but
Speaker 1: they do with each other, but you know, he lets
Speaker 1: her she has two husbands or a husband and another
Speaker 1: guy husband and a boyfriend and she's actively dating and
Speaker 1: there were different scenarios. It's kind of like a ninety
Speaker 1: day fiance, you know, how to have like the different couples.
Speaker 1: So it's kind of like one of those shows. And
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people that the stories.
Speaker 1: But you know, I have this theory, and I've had
Speaker 1: this theory for quite some time. I just feel like
Speaker 1: there's so many women who are openly bisexual and who
Speaker 1: enjoy sex with other women, that isn't possible for there
Speaker 1: not to be any men who feel the same way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like we doing that y'all. Now, I'm not saying every guy,
Speaker 1: of course, but there's because every woman isn't but there is.
Speaker 1: There can't be that many of us and not any
Speaker 1: of y'all, like, come on, yeah, balance, And I feel
Speaker 1: like in this damn age, it's like people are like,
Speaker 1: I'm sexually fluid, like you know. So I'm just not
Speaker 1: secure enough to deal with a guy that I know
Speaker 1: because I feel like I don't. I feel like I
Speaker 1: can't please. I feel I can't I understand that you
Speaker 1: like both, I just feel like I don't have enough
Speaker 1: to give you. I feel the same way. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go toe to toe, tongue the tongue, click the clip
Speaker 1: with any bitch, But I don't got no penis to
Speaker 1: the COMMU. Yeah, I got a little penis. Then we're
Speaker 1: competing with a man I feel about God, what would
Speaker 1: you ever date a guy that wore Neil polish clear?
Speaker 1: But not? No, I'm talking about black like black. I
Speaker 1: don't really think that's I don't think that a new
Speaker 1: trend for Yeah, yeah it doesn't. It's not attractive to me.
Speaker 1: Have you have you dealt with a guy that weren't
Speaker 1: blackmail polished yet. No, but a guy has tried to
Speaker 1: talk to me that has and I wouldn't say I
Speaker 1: would say no to him, but I just don't find no.
Speaker 1: That is like a rock star. I think that's what
Speaker 1: I was thinking. I know people that wearing nail but
Speaker 1: like guys who were I think I would just be like,
Speaker 1: just not into him like that. Yeah, because it's weird
Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, it's definitely different. Yeah, but I feel
Speaker 1: like it's more common. Yeah, it is people who are
Speaker 1: more into their like rocker fast run, like guys have
Speaker 1: nail polish lines like they're putting out you know, men
Speaker 1: wearing makeup. They definitely not into that. And waste trainers
Speaker 1: and not into that space. And person yeah and person,
Speaker 1: well yeah, it started with the person started. They swear
Speaker 1: us not a purse, it's a person. I did the
Speaker 1: stuff in phone charger, they put in their money, they
Speaker 1: pocket because you gotta have your phone based. My dad
Speaker 1: used to have like he would take the crown dust
Speaker 1: bags in there whatever from that to putting them in
Speaker 1: fannies and putting them across the got it. Yeah, but yeah,
Speaker 1: now he will never do the purse. But most guys
Speaker 1: these days that do be carrying whatever on them is
Speaker 1: the personality. Yeah, I think they should have something nice
Speaker 1: like we you know, to carry their stuff in. Yeah. Man,
Speaker 1: person doesn't bother me, It doesn't. It don't bother me.
Speaker 1: It used it bothered me at one point, But I
Speaker 1: think this was because this guy gave me vibes and
Speaker 1: then that just was He was more like the cheery
Speaker 1: Sunday Yeah. And the way he was so care it's
Speaker 1: how they carry it too. The one one time not
Speaker 1: a lie. I was tight. I had got a purse
Speaker 1: from Channel and I was with the led light Yes,
Speaker 1: and then young Thug headed on stage. I was like,
Speaker 1: I felt like I was like one time, and then
Speaker 1: I was like, damn it. Why he got the vibe?
Speaker 1: I feel like he's the only one that could get
Speaker 1: away with it all right. Now, do you remember your
Speaker 1: first time falling in love? Yeah? I do. I was
Speaker 1: like seventeen, and that's that relationship was too toxic. It
Speaker 1: was at seventeen. What was toxic about it? Uh? He
Speaker 1: was just way too just hood and just he had
Speaker 1: no ambition and where I was trying to go with
Speaker 1: my life, he was just trying to bring me down.
Speaker 1: What did you think you wanted to do at seventeen?
Speaker 1: Go to school regular ship and he would be like, oh,
Speaker 1: what you going to class war Like what you doing
Speaker 1: that corny class ship? Yeah? Which now you so in love?
Speaker 1: Like I didn't need that, And I dropped out of school. Yes,
Speaker 1: because I feel like he was my biggest influence at
Speaker 1: the time. And how much older was he than you, um,
Speaker 1: twenty six, I was seventeen. Parents must have been so
Speaker 1: disappointed when you dropped out of school. Yeah, my mom
Speaker 1: wanted to be my eyes, but I kind of like
Speaker 1: fake ran away, didn't speak to them till I was
Speaker 1: like nineteen. It was all because it is guy. I
Speaker 1: was looking a man. How why did you guys end?
Speaker 1: What ended it? I don't know. I feel like I
Speaker 1: wouldn't say I take back anything in life, but he
Speaker 1: was the starter of my life. I feel like because
Speaker 1: he was fake in the industry. He was friends with
Speaker 1: a rapper from Harlem or whatever. So I used to
Speaker 1: be in that little limelight at seventeen, thinking like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is the wave, you know, And then I think
Speaker 1: I just wanted to be somewhat in that lifestyle. So
Speaker 1: then I was just doing whatever I started dancing at eighteen,
Speaker 1: well like seventeen turn eighteen, and they encouraged that. He
Speaker 1: didn't encourage it, but it was like whatever. So then
Speaker 1: I was like fake paying the bills and he was
Speaker 1: taking advantage of me. And I was only like eighteen
Speaker 1: years old and I would come home to a hundred
Speaker 1: bitches and I was young and I didn't have my
Speaker 1: mom or anybody to rely on. So it made me
Speaker 1: this like crazy like girl that had it get it
Speaker 1: on her own and I'm and it made me the
Speaker 1: girl that I am today because it like just threw
Speaker 1: me into the world, like right right there, like I'm dancing,
Speaker 1: I'm paying bills. I don't really have family to rely
Speaker 1: on right now. Yeah, So that's how this whole thing started.
Speaker 1: And I started dancing. Then I started bartending. Then I
Speaker 1: had a baby, and then I was like, okay, fuck this,
Speaker 1: let me go back to what I really know. My
Speaker 1: mom was an industry. This then the third I want
Speaker 1: to rap, And that's how my life started. How did
Speaker 1: you go back to your parents? Like I went back
Speaker 1: to my parents when I was bartending. They was not
Speaker 1: with the stripping ship, Like right, why did you stop
Speaker 1: stripping in it? And go to bartending. One of my
Speaker 1: uncles that came saw me in the club and was like,
Speaker 1: we're not doing this. We're not doing this. Um it's
Speaker 1: so crazy because he was like, I know a guy
Speaker 1: as Starlets. You could work there and work your way up.
Speaker 1: That's how to hold. That's how my whole life started. Like,
Speaker 1: so I was dancing in Atlanta because I would go
Speaker 1: back and forth. I was at Folly's. Okay, so I
Speaker 1: used to work there and he came in Folly's and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, so embarrassed was the
Speaker 1: movie I was? It was it was at the time.
Speaker 1: And then he was like, no, we're not doing this.
Speaker 1: He was like, I could get you to work on
Speaker 1: Wednesdays at Starlets. And that was when they had they startenders.
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's when it was like Bernice and Greece
Speaker 1: and the startenders used to make more than the dancers.
Speaker 1: Yeah Starlets. Yeah, it was a big that was like
Speaker 1: New York culture. Yeah, the bartenders made more money than
Speaker 1: the dancers. But the guys like it was like it
Speaker 1: was like a feat to be able to date like
Speaker 1: one of the startender in order to go out with him.
Speaker 1: Remember Drake used to go there all the time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, so startender. So how was that at Starlet's. Uh,
Speaker 1: it was good. I feel like it was good for
Speaker 1: the moment. Then I just grew out of that, right,
Speaker 1: Like I just feel like I have a bigger purpose.
Speaker 1: I don't want to keep arguing over guys and who's
Speaker 1: short on the money. And then I'm the thing with
Speaker 1: that is like you're in beef with a girl every day.
Speaker 1: Damn there like a girl feels like this is my
Speaker 1: ex or this my baby daddy, you don't even know.
Speaker 1: Then you got fighting with your own partner. I was like,
Speaker 1: I can't It's not my life. Yeah. And then after
Speaker 1: I had my son, I was like, I just can't
Speaker 1: do it. I refuse. So when did you know you
Speaker 1: was going to be a rapper? I would say, I
Speaker 1: would say after I had him. And I had him
Speaker 1: at L twenty one, twenty two, go turning twenty two,
Speaker 1: and like I said, like, my mom used to work
Speaker 1: for the Sores, she used to style people this and
Speaker 1: a third my dad his name is Nitty, So he's
Speaker 1: the one that used to be Oh now it is
Speaker 1: back with Nicki Minaj and all those people. So family. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I felt like, this is something I grew up
Speaker 1: my whole life. I've been surrounded by the music industry,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I used to play rap, used to
Speaker 1: be in the studio, this and the third, so I'm like,
Speaker 1: this is something I want to try. I think I
Speaker 1: could do it, And then I did, and I was
Speaker 1: like at first I was playing and I was like, no,
Speaker 1: actually I funk with this, and then I turned around
Speaker 1: to love it and I've been doing it ever since.
Speaker 1: So and I also feel like, I mean, like you
Speaker 1: said you had your family and everything that could help
Speaker 1: you with that, but you lived a life already. Yeah good.
Speaker 1: I feel like when you have stories to tell and
Speaker 1: your music, Yeah, what would you say has been like
Speaker 1: your most personal song? Most personal song would be this
Speaker 1: one boying mine and the one before that, which is
Speaker 1: been popping. And I feel like in that record, I
Speaker 1: just kind of talked about being a mom and coming
Speaker 1: from where I came from. I used to dance. Now
Speaker 1: I'm rapping not only in my girl that is getting
Speaker 1: to a bag, but I also have a real life
Speaker 1: that I have to juggle so so fun. Fact um,
Speaker 1: we used to be neighbors meal where in clipside part
Speaker 1: across the street from Neinoka. Yeah. So the reason why
Speaker 1: I know that is because not that I was stalking you.
Speaker 1: But the reason why I know that is because my
Speaker 1: daughter shot a video for you in your apartment. Oh yes, yes,
Speaker 1: that was Yeah, that's crazy. Yeah, that's my daughter. She
Speaker 1: looked just like me. I'll show you a picture for later,
Speaker 1: but her name is Kaylee in the pre but yeah,
Speaker 1: that was like my first one of it was in
Speaker 1: the early It was beginning a year rap career, ye,
Speaker 1: and she was so excited at the time and she
Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, she looks right there like
Speaker 1: we lived in the next mid over. Yeah, how's crazy
Speaker 1: of you? Early on, like when you decided you wanted
Speaker 1: to start rapping, it was like, I don't think day
Speaker 1: was very excepting at all, if I'm gonna be completely honest,
Speaker 1: because I feel like I was pushing this I'm a
Speaker 1: bartender role and then when I was like kind of
Speaker 1: disgusted with that lifestyle, I just switched and started putting
Speaker 1: out music. I feel like for a lot of girls
Speaker 1: that was in the same linelne as me, Like I
Speaker 1: didn't get in a love at all, Like still don't
Speaker 1: to this day. But I feel like for like a
Speaker 1: lot of DJs and stuff like, I feel like people
Speaker 1: wanted to see consistency first before they could just sit
Speaker 1: there and be like, you're really doing this, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I think it was it was
Speaker 1: definitely a challenge to get people to understand that I'm rapping.
Speaker 1: What do you think was the moment that you was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: it's happening. I would say when I did the song
Speaker 1: thought Box, yeah, I went to this day, everybody'd be like,
Speaker 1: you need to get back in your bag like that,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't know, I just wrapped it.
Speaker 1: But I feel like that's when a lot of people
Speaker 1: were like, oh shit, right, you did your thing on this,
Speaker 1: so she's serious. And I feel like that was the moment.
Speaker 1: I'm sure everyone knows this by now, but how did
Speaker 1: you come up with your name? I made my name.
Speaker 1: I don't know why people be thinking it's so crazy,
Speaker 1: but I just made my name because I am have
Speaker 1: Chinese and people always used to call me Kitty growing
Speaker 1: up all the time because they would say I was mysterious.
Speaker 1: Oh god, that was the name I had. So then
Speaker 1: I just made a Twitter before I started dancing before,
Speaker 1: and I was like seventeen and I just came up
Speaker 1: with the name Chinese Kitty, and then when Instagram first
Speaker 1: came out, I just kept that. And then what's crazy
Speaker 1: is when I started making a name, I changed my
Speaker 1: name to like China Hing and they were like, no,
Speaker 1: I liked the Chinese Kitty, you gotta ring to it.
Speaker 1: And it's just been that everything. How did your parents
Speaker 1: get together? Young Love, Young Love? My mom used to
Speaker 1: be outside outside and my dad is a very popular guy,
Speaker 1: and I feel like they just linked up. So they
Speaker 1: crossed paths and it was yeah, because well my dad's
Speaker 1: Chinese and my mom is black. But they used to
Speaker 1: work together in a department store and they were teenagers.
Speaker 1: Your mom is Chinese, Yeah, well we're mixed up. We're
Speaker 1: from Guyana, so it's like a melting pot. Yeah, but um,
Speaker 1: she's like Chinese and like a couple of other things.
Speaker 1: But my last name is Hanging, so it's like we've
Speaker 1: just been running with the whole thing. But she kind
Speaker 1: of looks like me, but just way lighter. So, but
Speaker 1: she grew up in Brooklyn, so it's like it's not
Speaker 1: like a regular Asian girl. It's like a Asian girl
Speaker 1: with a lot of spice to her. So have you
Speaker 1: been in Guyana? No? I have not been a Guyana.
Speaker 1: You know, I know you're gonna take that. Yeah, they
Speaker 1: pook me for Carnival when COVID before calling, and then
Speaker 1: it happened and it was like a dumb and you
Speaker 1: gotta circle back. I have to. I said I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go this year. I'm gonna go this year. So have
Speaker 1: you ever, um been a side check? Yeah? I have?
Speaker 1: I have. No, I don't because I don't want nobody
Speaker 1: to be a side check to my situation. But I
Speaker 1: have one with one person. Okay, and did you, um, like,
Speaker 1: did you know? Did you go into the situation knowingly
Speaker 1: or did something? And they found out after Yeah, I
Speaker 1: was in a situation out here. And then it's like,
Speaker 1: uh not even It's more like he was so manipulating
Speaker 1: that it's like you, he made it seem as if
Speaker 1: this person really didn't exist, right, So I think after
Speaker 1: a while I was like, is he lying? Oh, I
Speaker 1: don't really care. I'm blinded, I'm dipatized. And then after
Speaker 1: a while I'm like, mmm, I'm about to be fighting.
Speaker 1: You heard this? She found out? Yeah, how did she
Speaker 1: find out? I don't know. She probably went through this,
Speaker 1: I don't know, but it was definitely caused on my phone. Wow,
Speaker 1: like a little bit too much for me when that happens.
Speaker 1: Are you honest? Like, yes, I am sucking him? I do?
Speaker 1: I know? You know, because when a girl calls, either
Speaker 1: you could either tell the truth and be like, yes,
Speaker 1: this happened, or you could cover because sometimes women, I'm
Speaker 1: lord right, I'm more like, I mean, I let you
Speaker 1: talk before I talk, and I'm about to sit there
Speaker 1: and spill all the tea. But I do take it
Speaker 1: with a grain assault because I don't know. I just
Speaker 1: never want to be in that situation, right, So, which
Speaker 1: I have been right, so I kind of be like
Speaker 1: respecting women when they say, like, you know, I don't know,
Speaker 1: it's just a little weird to me. You think all
Speaker 1: men cheat? I do? Wow, I do hesitation. I do.
Speaker 1: I feel like at the right moment, if it's given
Speaker 1: to them, they will take the opportunity if they think
Speaker 1: no one's gonna find out. It depends on how much
Speaker 1: access the men has, right I think, yeah, because if
Speaker 1: a man has access to anyone and has money and
Speaker 1: has all these things and everyone loves him, and it's
Speaker 1: kind of harder that kind of man to say, do
Speaker 1: you guys know man that don't cheat? I do? I do?
Speaker 1: I do. And that's why I know at this point
Speaker 1: most because y'all know, remember before, I ain't no weight,
Speaker 1: But I feel like I've learned. Somebody told me different.
Speaker 1: I saw my own two eyes right there. There can
Speaker 1: be a faithful man. Yeah, I think so they all
Speaker 1: went to most for me. But I do think, like
Speaker 1: Angelas say, given the opportunity, Jasiness said no, But I
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't think all men, but I think
Speaker 1: if they have access a lot of that would have
Speaker 1: you ever cheated? You say, yes, I have? I have.
Speaker 1: I have Why I feel like because it's the same
Speaker 1: thing like it's it's the access, Like it's like you
Speaker 1: could be in a relationship with some money and then
Speaker 1: it's like this person who has number one hit record
Speaker 1: hot song is like, and I don't just go after
Speaker 1: just because he hit me up, like I'm talking about
Speaker 1: like we'll be just thirsting, like I want I want
Speaker 1: to get where are you out? Let's hop on the
Speaker 1: jet and then you'd be like you're like I love you,
Speaker 1: but damn man, it's offering me. Shit, I never did before.
Speaker 1: How do you explain that to you? Man? What do
Speaker 1: you say? Like where you're going? Like, I'm her girl,
Speaker 1: I'm booked them busy. She never got caught. You just
Speaker 1: keep that my card. That's why I got my ape
Speaker 1: took back. That's right. Yeah, no, but I don't get caught.
Speaker 1: I don't cheat again. But it happened in the past.
Speaker 1: Learn it happened. It happened. She's you think, Um, so
Speaker 1: you're back on with this guy with a we'll call
Speaker 1: him a baby, right, So you're back on with him.
Speaker 1: So do you feel like this is it? Y'all have
Speaker 1: been through a lot together. You feel like, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: on this journey now. I got a song right now
Speaker 1: that's popping. I'm freestyle doing this in the club. I
Speaker 1: got a project coming out. I need to have like
Speaker 1: a good guy in my corner. Is that how you
Speaker 1: feel about him? Or do you feel like I focus
Speaker 1: better when I'm single. I do focus better when i'm single.
Speaker 1: But I am giving him the benefit of the doubt.
Speaker 1: So if he does right by me, I'm gonna do
Speaker 1: right by him. Okay, So it's up to him. It's
Speaker 1: really up to him because if you do something dumb,
Speaker 1: I'm going I can't because sometimes, you know, sometimes you
Speaker 1: have relationship could be damaged where both people don't trust
Speaker 1: each other. Then nobody's talking all yeah, no, but we
Speaker 1: are giving each other all. But I don't think he
Speaker 1: trusts me. I don't trust him, and it's a little
Speaker 1: too much sometimes. Do you think that you could call
Speaker 1: up any of your exes if you wanted to and
Speaker 1: still smash Yeah, any or all? Period. I don't want
Speaker 1: them though. Period. I feel like if you was an ex,
Speaker 1: you'd be circling back people. Okay, so other than those
Speaker 1: two people, all the other exes now they out of here. No, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't want that. By the way, we got a
Speaker 1: nice mention on her song Lit that French Montana was on. Yes, serious,
Speaker 1: you know, so how did you get French? Like? How
Speaker 1: are you in French? Montana has such a good relationship too. Um,
Speaker 1: I would say from the strip club. I feel like
Speaker 1: I met a lot of people in the nightlife from
Speaker 1: me just being a bartender now when I was a
Speaker 1: stripper though, but um, and I feel like them seeing
Speaker 1: me grow into an artist is like shit, she's really
Speaker 1: doing something for herself, and I feel like the respect
Speaker 1: kind of more came from just like, okay, let me
Speaker 1: try to put her on, you know, like it's a
Speaker 1: new artist. Um, And I feel like that's the way
Speaker 1: French came at me. He actually DM me because I
Speaker 1: was previewing a whole another song that I was working
Speaker 1: at the time, and then he was like, yo, that's fire, Yo,
Speaker 1: lets get the studio. Let me hear some of the
Speaker 1: songs you got. That's nice. Yeah, So I pulled up
Speaker 1: and Um, most of the time guys be on bullshit
Speaker 1: like and I honestly thought going into that's how first
Speaker 1: was gonna be. But it was not like that at all.
Speaker 1: It wasn't more like like a family brother uncle type
Speaker 1: of vibe. And um, I played him lit bitch and
Speaker 1: it already had Fabio on it because um, me and
Speaker 1: Fabio was just always been friends or whatever and exactly,
Speaker 1: and then um, he was like I'm hopping on this
Speaker 1: and hopped on. They were right then and there that's dupe.
Speaker 1: And I was honestly in shock. I'm not gonna lie,
Speaker 1: I was putting this out right. Yeah, I was in shock.
Speaker 1: But yeah, and what other dms have you slid in?
Speaker 1: To get some work done, Like, who are some people
Speaker 1: that you've been like, Oh, like, yeah, you should work
Speaker 1: with me, um this because we want to call them
Speaker 1: out now so that we can they can respond. Right.
Speaker 1: I did just slided somebody's DM the other day and
Speaker 1: we just did the record. Um too rare. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you heard him too rare, too rare. He's
Speaker 1: like a young field artists. They're in that whole little
Speaker 1: drill jersey bounce wave. But he's like up and coming.
Speaker 1: So if I feel like if I'm gonna slide slide
Speaker 1: in somebody's DM, I kind of wanted to be more
Speaker 1: of a mutual thing or like me sliding and drinks DM, Like, yo,
Speaker 1: do a record with me? I mean I could, but
Speaker 1: I like to balance, Like I like to take things
Speaker 1: where like if I'm at this level, I want to
Speaker 1: work with somebody it's like and then I do like
Speaker 1: to work with people that's bigger than me too. But
Speaker 1: I kind of be feeling like we crossed that bridge
Speaker 1: when we get there. Okay, that's a different approach, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1: What are some of the best dms You've gotten? Some
Speaker 1: some really cool guys. Um. I feel like I did
Speaker 1: have a really, really, really famous guy hit me up
Speaker 1: and was like, Yo, your record is hard, and at
Speaker 1: first it threw me off, but I was like, the fuck,
Speaker 1: I couldn't believe it. Um, that definitely was exciting. Okay,
Speaker 1: And do you tell your man like if a guy
Speaker 1: tries to slide in your DMS and hollight at you
Speaker 1: or is that something you just keep to yourself? I'm
Speaker 1: keeping asking myself. I'm girls right, you're just trying to
Speaker 1: start a war. And could sometimes you be like, man,
Speaker 1: look who just you know? No, feel like they gotta
Speaker 1: tell them in everything Tomorrow I'll fly out. It's gonna
Speaker 1: make you uncomfortable. You're gonna think it's him. Put that
Speaker 1: heat on yourself. Yes, you're trying to add a target. Now,
Speaker 1: what about I'm being with a guy who makes less
Speaker 1: money than you? Does that matter to you? I think so.
Speaker 1: I know I sound superficial, but I feel like the
Speaker 1: work that I put in, I want somebody that put
Speaker 1: in just much work. Like I don't know, I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm one of them girls where I work my
Speaker 1: eyes off. So I don't want to be with anybody
Speaker 1: that's not working as hard as me, but working hard
Speaker 1: and making money. It's two different things. She says. She
Speaker 1: don't want to buy with less money to her, know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, But working hard and making money it's
Speaker 1: two different things because you could work really hard, but
Speaker 1: she want somebody work smart too, you know, I mean mean,
Speaker 1: but work hard? I mean what y'all? Yeah? Yeah, me personally, No,
Speaker 1: I'm saying I feel like the kind of money I
Speaker 1: make sometimes it's not realist. I'm not a rapper, but
Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes what I have sometimes it's not
Speaker 1: realistic for the average guy. Sometimes I just feel like
Speaker 1: for me, it's a lifestyle thing. Yeah, And like if
Speaker 1: you can't meet me where I'm at or taking me
Speaker 1: further than we can't really Now, maybe when I get
Speaker 1: to the MS like in I might feel you know,
Speaker 1: I would, period, But yeah, I just personally feel like,
Speaker 1: you know, if I can provide, and I've gotten to
Speaker 1: the point where I had my lifestyle provided for me
Speaker 1: and now I'm able to do the same things on
Speaker 1: my own. So I take pride in coming through that
Speaker 1: transition and being where I am today. So if you
Speaker 1: can't meet me here and you're trying to take me
Speaker 1: down here, like what if you're renting so he doesn't
Speaker 1: take a lot of money, but he does a lot
Speaker 1: of amazing things. I'm yeah, well, that's not taking care
Speaker 1: of somebody. They can take care of themselves. I'm saying
Speaker 1: I'm not taking care of anybody, that's all. Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: I'm not thinking here of nobody. Well, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I feel like if I meet a guy and his
Speaker 1: game is like super crazy and like maybe he's just
Speaker 1: like so fine, I might so yes they do. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I'm one of them people. I went to a face
Speaker 1: where I would date an ugly guy and maybe since
Speaker 1: I wanted something or whatever, but I'm in the face
Speaker 1: right now an ugly guy. No, I'm looking is just
Speaker 1: mad they look good because I want to wake up
Speaker 1: and look at you and be like this is a
Speaker 1: good Yeah, I really like, I don't really care that
Speaker 1: much for a look. I feel like I was and
Speaker 1: I want the sex to be good. Have you ever
Speaker 1: woke up like, so, let's just say, when you was
Speaker 1: dating like some ugly guys and looks just been like
Speaker 1: the stick stick Yeah, disgusted, Like why so I had
Speaker 1: like a really fine guy but the sex wasn't good, right,
Speaker 1: That's what happened to know he gotta go to and
Speaker 1: it was like a lot of passion and everything. It
Speaker 1: never was just like blow my back out, just fuck
Speaker 1: the shit out of me. Can you have it all?
Speaker 1: Has there anything ever been in a situation where you
Speaker 1: haven't had it all? Yeah? I mean the sex, the money,
Speaker 1: and not the loyalty rights. Had a guy where he
Speaker 1: was like spending on me crazy. He looked so good,
Speaker 1: sex was amazing, but that nigga cheated is so crazy
Speaker 1: disrespectful man. Is it easier to forgive cheating in a
Speaker 1: situation like that. I wouldn't say forgive you always for
Speaker 1: having there, but it's easy to just try to patch
Speaker 1: it up right and like move on on. It's easy
Speaker 1: to forgive then when the sex is really good, but
Speaker 1: then you can't stop thinking about it. Yeah, but you
Speaker 1: don't forget, yeah, and then you having the flashbacks like
Speaker 1: I just want to be him up so bad. You'd
Speaker 1: be like, I'm not sucking his dick. I don't know
Speaker 1: who else his mouth was here, and you're like, I
Speaker 1: don't want him putting that dirty mouth on, right. He
Speaker 1: probably just came from that bitch and he came over here,
Speaker 1: probably didn't even clean his dick. No, have you ever
Speaker 1: been with that guy who didn't eat pussy? I feel like, yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah I was. I was, and then I was like nah, yeah,
Speaker 1: like no, I can't that. It's like number one to me.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I might as well be a lesbian because
Speaker 1: that's like number one to me. But um no, that
Speaker 1: had to change within like three weeks. Like get it together.
Speaker 1: Oh so he did it? You got him? Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: he did it, but he was claiming that he doesn't
Speaker 1: do it. Stop throw up, stop it and get Yeah.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I'm not in the sexist whack if
Speaker 1: you don't do that, like just one part penetration to me, yes,
Speaker 1: it's crazy. You know they said the majority of women
Speaker 1: can't orgasm from penetration alone. Yeah yeah, do you also
Speaker 1: you agree with that? Yeah? I do so. But you
Speaker 1: can't can you orgasm during sex? I have the moment.
Speaker 1: I have moments where my body will start shaking, but
Speaker 1: I feel like a real good orgasm is going to
Speaker 1: come from oral stimulation. Yeah, orgasm from penetration me too.
Speaker 1: There's a different feeling, it's a different type of organs. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I get like this, like goose bumps, body change. But
Speaker 1: I feel like i'd like, come from oral. Can you
Speaker 1: have multiple orgasms? I don't think I've experienced that yet. No,
Speaker 1: not yet. Every woman could do it. It It just take
Speaker 1: the right penis to pull it out of your pose.
Speaker 1: I've never had. I've never squirted, So I went to
Speaker 1: someone for a very long time and thought that I
Speaker 1: just couldn't do it, and then somebody else made it happen,
Speaker 1: and then I learned how to make it happy myself.
Speaker 1: So yeah, there was a time when I thought I
Speaker 1: wasn't the squirting, so you can just yourself teach me
Speaker 1: so so I can squirt during masturbation, really really, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're a long masturbation. Yeah, if the orgasm is intense enough,
Speaker 1: it's gonna squirt. My first time squiring was from the top,
Speaker 1: like I was riding him, and he was like, bad,
Speaker 1: you ain't telling me you squirt like that. I was like, well,
Speaker 1: I peed, Yeah, I felt like I pee. It was
Speaker 1: my first time, and that's when I learned that it was.
Speaker 1: He told me he was like, you peede on me,
Speaker 1: and I'm like no, yeah, And then years later I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, that's what he is is there besides squirting?
Speaker 1: What else haven't you done that you want to do
Speaker 1: m I feel like in the situation that I am
Speaker 1: right now, he will not let me eat his ass,
Speaker 1: and I want to Oh me thought, why do you
Speaker 1: want to do it? Because I've never had it before
Speaker 1: now and I've done it before, yeah, one time, and
Speaker 1: I feel like, I don't know. For me, I just
Speaker 1: like to do all types of wild, crazy shit when
Speaker 1: you did it that one time, because I've done it
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna do it again and again. But when
Speaker 1: you did it that one time, did you feel a
Speaker 1: sense of like power power? Yes, because you got them
Speaker 1: in such a compromised position, pun intended and it's like
Speaker 1: talk about having man by the balls, like you really
Speaker 1: got him in such a vulnerable state. And it's then
Speaker 1: and it's the enjoyment that you know you were providing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it makes me feel so like, Yeah, you get your
Speaker 1: ap back if you do that. You won't let you
Speaker 1: do it. You might have to speak up on them.
Speaker 1: You might have to catch him, No one of them,
Speaker 1: one of them push he drunk. Listen, a man will
Speaker 1: bop you over the he was drunk. He just wont
Speaker 1: he just so big on. I don't pay them type
Speaker 1: of games. Because he's not gonna do it. I might
Speaker 1: let me tell you, he might get violent, don't even dry.
Speaker 1: Yeah damn, that's funny that you want to do that though,
Speaker 1: and that he won't let you. I would think a
Speaker 1: guy would be like, Okay, I really I never wanted
Speaker 1: to do that, right, No, But I also don't like
Speaker 1: it done to me when you did it that one time,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. What did he ask or you just tried it?
Speaker 1: It was just in a moment or was it something
Speaker 1: that he told you that he liked. I feel like
Speaker 1: it was more like, it's so weird that I was
Speaker 1: giving head and then like he just started doing this,
Speaker 1: he lifted money I was doing, so let me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the unspoken yea. And how long do you stay
Speaker 1: down there? And how do you know when to stop? Yeah? Question,
Speaker 1: good question. It's like, I mean, I know you're not
Speaker 1: gonna relate to the angela, but it's like eating pussy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what do they enjoy that? A little bit too much?
Speaker 1: Enjoy it? They enjoy it? Did you put a finger
Speaker 1: in there too? Or your tongue? Would you? Yeah? You
Speaker 1: put your tongue in it? Yeah you Yeah? But I
Speaker 1: feel like if he likes a tongue, and he likes
Speaker 1: it that much. He probably with like a finger, yeah,
Speaker 1: he would probably, That's that's usually what comes next, a finger. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then it's like the reason why they call it
Speaker 1: rimming is like once you do insert a finger, you
Speaker 1: don't have to go like deep in and like penetrate
Speaker 1: m It's like around the rim you could feel like
Speaker 1: a like a little like section. Feel this. Why is
Speaker 1: did you using her finger as a god hole? Because
Speaker 1: that's the same thing. So you brought there as if
Speaker 1: you're playing with it like if it's if adds, if
Speaker 1: it to click. That's why I like, let me you
Speaker 1: gonna try this, right? Do you feel that right here?
Speaker 1: That rum? Right? There's like a doctor. I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't know how to look like you're having something. Do
Speaker 1: you like you can? But so the point that I'm
Speaker 1: getting into with this is almost as if you're it's
Speaker 1: up up and come here like this. You have to
Speaker 1: you have to run right, Okay. So the amount that
Speaker 1: they get from just that one move, I'm talking about
Speaker 1: his whole body with tense up is it's crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe it'd be easier for you to try to slide
Speaker 1: a little finger than first. It's the same man that
Speaker 1: didn't don't listen to seeither, but he does now. So
Speaker 1: you never know, right, don't get four years, don't get
Speaker 1: all the time for the next dude. You should go
Speaker 1: get hit. Don't get it's not ap here. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm like for me when I did do it, like
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just got wetter. More like its
Speaker 1: more like when you yeah, did he come from it? Yeah?
Speaker 1: He all types of like I'm about to die faces
Speaker 1: like right, but checking him off at this hand, oh wow,
Speaker 1: oh my god. Yeah, a lot of finger and then
Speaker 1: it's the most I mean, you know, it's a lot
Speaker 1: going power it is for me personally. That that's why
Speaker 1: I asked, because I say this when we talk about
Speaker 1: it every time. It's a power thing for me, Like
Speaker 1: why do you like it so much? Because it just
Speaker 1: it just gives me so much power, like because you
Speaker 1: never see control vulnerable, especially get them hands if you
Speaker 1: can get them on all force. So that's when I
Speaker 1: say to you, guys flip like at their feet their
Speaker 1: legs over there, like on the edge of the couch
Speaker 1: like this, so then you down here, or they hold
Speaker 1: their own legs up like they be holding their leg
Speaker 1: like this, Okay, I got it. You gotta open your mind.
Speaker 1: I don't think who I deal with or dealt with
Speaker 1: that that would do this like I never know. I say, like,
Speaker 1: start sucking at it and play with his balls and
Speaker 1: if you do like this, yeah, to that just yet
Speaker 1: the shower. It's got to be a player. I feel
Speaker 1: like you gotta just like slide the tongue down the
Speaker 1: goose and if he's okay, then stop you then that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try it, just like trying if he would,
Speaker 1: I report back to you guys, like eating pussy, have
Speaker 1: you ever eaten pussy before? She has? Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: do like it? If you don't say no right away
Speaker 1: like she has you like it? I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know if I like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: you don't like it, or if you did it? No,
Speaker 1: I know I did, Okay, I don't know her like
Speaker 1: if you like, yes, you gotta like you. I can't
Speaker 1: asking a vagina is different? What would you rather do it?
Speaker 1: It's different, but a weird thing like attach to females like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's so weird to me. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I get this like weird feeling like if I'm making
Speaker 1: another girl feel good, it just makes me feel weird,
Speaker 1: uncomfortable or uncomfortable, like I don't know, I don't like.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I just like being a
Speaker 1: girl so much. That is like if I'm eating another
Speaker 1: girl out, I feel a little like I'm the man
Speaker 1: in the situation. It's weird. You don't mind being you
Speaker 1: don't mind being eaten out? Though, No, I don't mind.
Speaker 1: Do you do three sums? Have you had three sums
Speaker 1: with your guy that you go back and forth with? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't usually be the one doing it.
Speaker 1: I might like just like for two seconds, do you
Speaker 1: pick the girl? Does he picked the girl? If he
Speaker 1: ever picked the girl, he will get shine. Tell you
Speaker 1: that's the rule of the three sime. The girl has
Speaker 1: to pick the other girl. Yeah, because like how long
Speaker 1: you knew Harry, Like, was it something? I've tried it
Speaker 1: with my friends and I'll be feeling like I don't
Speaker 1: want to see all that with you, like uncomfortable. I
Speaker 1: couldn't do that with my friend. Maybe that's uncomfortable with
Speaker 1: it because it was Yeah, because I feel like I've
Speaker 1: had three sums with other girls, but I was like
Speaker 1: completely drunk. But I feel like when I do be
Speaker 1: like semi drunk and I'll be with my friends or
Speaker 1: like my home girls, it made me feel weird. Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe not the home girls. Next time you'd be like, girl,
Speaker 1: you wanna go go get a drink and then I
Speaker 1: gotta see you. We gotta talk about family stuff. But listen,
Speaker 1: Chinese Kitty, I just want to thank you so much
Speaker 1: for coming through. Last time we did it on zoom
Speaker 1: and you were really fine, and I just knew in
Speaker 1: person it would be next level. And you don't disappoint, right, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's very older. You do not disappoint. What can we
Speaker 1: expect now? You know, boy Ain't Mine is out? But
Speaker 1: what else is going on? What's the whole project? What's
Speaker 1: the plan? Yes, I'm gonna be dropping soon. Actually next
Speaker 1: week I'm dropping a new single UM called spind the
Speaker 1: Block and I'm just gonna be it's so rid. Spend
Speaker 1: the Block to me, but we know the wraps. I
Speaker 1: just want to put that out there. This is me. Yeah, um,
Speaker 1: and I'm just dropping mad singles. I got merch coming
Speaker 1: soon too. Okay, you know that's pretty much it for now,
Speaker 1: so but we like it now now you do. I'm
Speaker 1: in movies and all types of stuff that we see it. Yes,
Speaker 1: we see it coming. Yeah. When you do a song
Speaker 1: about you, be like yeah, that's yeah, when the girl
Speaker 1: I got you. Well, Chinese Kittie, thank you so much.
Speaker 1: We appreciate it. We had a good times. Yeah, let's
Speaker 1: service to you.