WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Nanny Zoned

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to start off the episode by saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Happy Veterans Day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, guys, so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Seriously, I'm the daughter and the grand daughter of Marine,

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<v Speaker 3>so you know, thank you so much for all of

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<v Speaker 3>your service out there, and and today we got an

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<v Speaker 3>awkward Tuesday for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, do you want to start with a comment? Alexis

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<v Speaker 1>you got something? Yes? Our Mattlocke said, please launch more merch.

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't listening to you guys the last time you

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<v Speaker 4>did it, and since then, I've listened to hundreds of

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<v Speaker 4>episodes across YouTube and TikTok.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are my daily.

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<v Speaker 4>Podcast while I'm working and studying for grad school. You

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<v Speaker 4>guys deal with some crazy people every day and it

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<v Speaker 4>makes me feel sane. And now I can say this

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<v Speaker 4>happy holiday.

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<v Speaker 1>I have been plotting another merch for a cause. Launch hat.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't know if we're gonna have hats, but

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<v Speaker 3>you knoweah, you have a.

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<v Speaker 1>Hat on right now.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, let's get our awkward Tuesday phone call going

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<v Speaker 3>and just keep your ears open because something's coming.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fricking Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 5>If you thought being stuck in the friend zone was

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<v Speaker 5>the worst feeling, we just heard about another hopeless zone

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<v Speaker 5>of no romance. That sounds even more frustrating.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, please don't tell me it's the dead zone. Please

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<v Speaker 1>don't tell me it's the dead zone.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not.

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<v Speaker 5>But one of our listeners is stuck in it right now.

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<v Speaker 5>He's been desperately searching for a way to finally spark

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<v Speaker 5>a love connection with a person that he's known for years. Oh,

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<v Speaker 5>they're not exactly friends. Their relationship is a little stranger,

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<v Speaker 5>more complicated than that. Really, he's gonna tell us all

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<v Speaker 5>about it. We're going to try and help him get

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<v Speaker 5>out of that zone in a brand new awkward Tuesday

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<v Speaker 5>phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>Next, it's awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 2>It's awkward Tuesday phone call. When you run into an

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<v Speaker 2>old friend or acquaintance from your past, is that exciting

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<v Speaker 2>for you? Is that kind of awkward friend the other day?

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<v Speaker 3>I like it for like twenty five minutes, and then

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<v Speaker 3>after twenty five minutes, I'm like, oh, that's why we

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<v Speaker 3>don't talk anymore personally.

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<v Speaker 5>If I see anybody I knew back in the day,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm pulling the fire alarm and getting the heck out

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<v Speaker 5>of there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Not rehashing old memories with you today?

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<v Speaker 6>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but you know, I know some people are a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit more amicable to that. Yeah, like our listener Mark,

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<v Speaker 5>who recently ran into someone from his past and now

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<v Speaker 5>he's looking to get a little bit of advice.

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<v Speaker 2>So Mark, welcome to the show Man.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, thank you so much for inviting me.

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<v Speaker 6>It is amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, amazing because you like the show. Were

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<v Speaker 3>amazing because the issue is that big.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean, I listened to your show every day.

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<v Speaker 6>But oh, I don't know. I gotta talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>I gotta lay it down.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Oh, it sounds like it's juicy.

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<v Speaker 2>Who'd you run into from your past?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh? I randomly bumped into my old childhood babysitter.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, oh wow.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Did she recognize or he? I guess I shouldn't say that,

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<v Speaker 3>but all my babysitters were girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Did they recognize you?

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<v Speaker 6>Not? At first? I was at a coffee shop and

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<v Speaker 6>I saw her come in while I was waiting for

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<v Speaker 6>my drink, and I went up there and I just yelled, Kendra,

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<v Speaker 6>question Mark.

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<v Speaker 2>What did she say?

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<v Speaker 6>She was just like, uh, who aren't you?

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<v Speaker 2>That means, yes, I am, but I don't recognize you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 2>You were a kid. It's awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Better than her saying go to your room.

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<v Speaker 6>I said, oh, I'll give you a hint. I was like,

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<v Speaker 6>can you do what? Can you put on my foot? Gimme?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, what'd you say?

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<v Speaker 6>It's like, oh my god, Marky?

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<v Speaker 1>Can we call you Marky?

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<v Speaker 2>Now? It worked.

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<v Speaker 6>I was just like, yeah, I'm all growing up. And

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<v Speaker 6>we laughed and he's super cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, Oh, so many Marky's got to say for the

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<v Speaker 1>babysitters sounds.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, yeah, yeah, I'm curious. How old were you when

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<v Speaker 2>you knew her?

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<v Speaker 6>So I was nine as you were fourteen at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it's not five year difference.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Now when you're adults, that's nothing. How old How

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<v Speaker 2>old are you now? Are you past your teens?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, it's a balanced question, like this was three years

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<v Speaker 6>eighty seven years old.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, Kendrew, you're nine.

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<v Speaker 6>No, No, I'm around twenty five right now. But we

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<v Speaker 6>just couldn't stop telling stories and we were joking around.

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<v Speaker 6>You could tell there was a vibe, you know between us.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, did you ask her out? What did you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you make a move?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, here's what happened. She was with another lady from

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<v Speaker 6>her work. Okay, so you said let's catch up over

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<v Speaker 6>dinner sometime, and I was like, yeah, absolutely. So you

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<v Speaker 6>know a few days later we went to dinner. It

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<v Speaker 6>was amazing. I mean, it felt better than going on

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<v Speaker 6>a normal date because we are had a connection and.

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<v Speaker 2>So this was a this was a date that you

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<v Speaker 2>two went on.

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<v Speaker 6>It wasn't officially a date. It was more of a

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<v Speaker 6>catch up.

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<v Speaker 3>Like from his side of the story, it's like cool

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<v Speaker 3>and sexy and hot. As someone who I'm sure Alexis

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<v Speaker 3>feels the same, has been a babysitter.

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<v Speaker 1>It would be really weird even.

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<v Speaker 3>As adults, because you just still see that person as

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<v Speaker 3>a kid, like I leave them back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you watch them pick their nose. You know where

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<v Speaker 1>they kept their booger collection.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like you guys have actually considered and thought

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<v Speaker 2>about dating them. But she talked to herself out.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I just I've tried to think from her side,

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<v Speaker 3>what was her reaction to this? Did she give any

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<v Speaker 3>indication that she had any interest?

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<v Speaker 6>So my tick on it, honestly was she was being

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<v Speaker 6>pretty flirty back at me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, bit that's good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, definitely, Yeah, is there anything specific that you can

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<v Speaker 3>bring up about that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean she was twirling her hair. She was laughing.

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<v Speaker 6>It was amazing, Like, Okay, try her when you're bored.

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<v Speaker 1>Men don't believe.

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<v Speaker 2>That scientific room and you also do it when you're flirting.

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<v Speaker 2>But you're right. It could be either. She could have

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<v Speaker 2>been bored and not having a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>I keep forgetting that this isn't a second date, right, like.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we're doing an awkward phone call here? What what

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<v Speaker 5>makes this awkward?

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<v Speaker 6>So things were going well till halfway through the meal.

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<v Speaker 6>She leaned over and said, Markie, you need to finish

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<v Speaker 6>your vegetables.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, wait wait did you laugh?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I laughed, and then she says, I'm serious.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh so I ate my vegetables while she watched me,

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<v Speaker 6>and it was it was embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 3>Though, Well, you are a stronger boy because you did

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<v Speaker 3>eat those veggies.

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<v Speaker 2>So let me ask you this. At the end of

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<v Speaker 2>the night, how did you and Kendra leave things?

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<v Speaker 6>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Was it romantic at all?

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<v Speaker 6>We walked out, We had a huge hug. I told her,

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<v Speaker 6>I was it's gonna text her. Yeah, it was like

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<v Speaker 6>you better, it's important to keep promises.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of preachy teach your babysitter motive. Yeah, how long

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<v Speaker 2>ago was this?

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<v Speaker 6>It was just so only a few nights ago.

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, so what do you what do you want

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<v Speaker 1>our advice with? Because that's like the awkward thing, is right,

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<v Speaker 1>we give advice.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I just need advice on how to just to

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<v Speaker 6>say that I'm grown and that I feel like you

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<v Speaker 6>need to see me as someone that can be with.

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<v Speaker 5>You go on a serious day with him.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, stomp your feet and say this is not fair.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I get it, I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's try and figure this out. We're gonna come back.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna give you some solid advice on how to

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<v Speaker 2>help you ask out your babysitter so that she sees

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<v Speaker 2>you as a man still paying her right.

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, I'm not like no wonder All right.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna do it with your awkward Tuesday phone call. Next,

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<v Speaker 2>it's awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 2>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 5>Imagine going out with a girl you haven't seen in years.

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<v Speaker 5>You're at the dinner table together.

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<v Speaker 2>She looks over at you, seductively, leans in and says,

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<v Speaker 2>eat your veggie so you can grow up to be

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<v Speaker 2>a big boy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's weirdness.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that there's some people that are into them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah more our listener isn't.

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<v Speaker 5>It did actually happen though, to one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 5>name Marky. Well, I'm calling him Markie because the person

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<v Speaker 5>across the table was his ex babysitter from when he

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<v Speaker 5>was younger.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he was nine years old. She was fourteen at

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<v Speaker 2>the time. But now they're both grown adults and Mark

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<v Speaker 2>wants to play doctor the real way. But does she

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<v Speaker 2>see him that way?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she kept calling him MARKI yeah, probably not not

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<v Speaker 3>a good sign yet, not yet.

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<v Speaker 5>He needs to get our advice on how to change

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<v Speaker 5>that for himself.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's go to Brooks for the whole advice. What

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<v Speaker 2>do you think he should do?

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<v Speaker 3>Bro, Well, I've been thinking about this a lot, and

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<v Speaker 3>I mean you have to switch her mindset, right. You

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<v Speaker 3>have to have her start thinking of you like a man.

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<v Speaker 3>I never suggest this, but I think you should bring

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<v Speaker 3>up exes because if she can see you in an

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<v Speaker 3>adult relationship, if she can imagine that, maybe then she

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<v Speaker 3>can imagine herself in an adult relationship with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you ready to drop your body count on her?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think Mark?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want her to get you know, jealous or anything.

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<v Speaker 3>If you do, you do, yeah, yes, you could just

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<v Speaker 3>say like when I was traveling Europe with Candace God,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>She was great, but she didn't really work out, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, snobby boyfriend now.

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<v Speaker 3>Trying to make him sound rich, adult, and well traveled, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>Those are good things to remember. Act rich, act grown up,

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<v Speaker 2>and act well traveled.

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<v Speaker 6>I think I can do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're here for you. We all believe in you, buddy.

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<v Speaker 5>We're gonna call Kendra for you, your ex babysitter, and let

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<v Speaker 5>you try and make this thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Official with her, get a real date. Okay, sorry, not official.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the wrong word, calor ken? Is that more of

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<v Speaker 2>like an adult? No? Just just go respectful manly. We're

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<v Speaker 2>here for you. Okay, I'm down a number right now,

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<v Speaker 2>here we go.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello, Kendra, it's me. Who is this It's it's Mark.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, marky Hi.

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<v Speaker 7>I must not have faked your number right in my phone.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't didn't pop up with this number. How are you?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm great? How are you?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm good? I'm good. I'm just kind of hanging out.

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<v Speaker 7>I just ordered some food waiting for it to show up.

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<v Speaker 6>Cool. I love food. Food's great.

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<v Speaker 7>I know I remember that, you do.

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<v Speaker 6>I know you? Yeah, I kind of need to admit

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<v Speaker 6>something to you. Okay, Uh so when I was nine,

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<v Speaker 6>I kind of had a crush on you.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, tell me something I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh wait, you knew that.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I kind of had a feeling. I mean when

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<v Speaker 7>my boyfriend stopped by that one time you called nine

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<v Speaker 7>one one and told them that there was an intruder

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<v Speaker 7>at the door.

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<v Speaker 6>So right, God, I totally forgot about that. Anyway, Oh

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<v Speaker 6>you said that was cute.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it was so cute.

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<v Speaker 6>Anyway, did you have a good time the other night

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<v Speaker 6>when we hung out?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I did.

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<v Speaker 7>It was really nice, but it was like a little late.

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<v Speaker 6>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, Well, you know, you told me you had

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<v Speaker 7>a big meeting the next day, and I felt like

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<v Speaker 7>I was keeping you up past your bedtime.

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<v Speaker 6>Well I'm older now, so I don't really have a bedtime.

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<v Speaker 7>Well I know that, but like everybody needs their sleep,

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<v Speaker 7>even like big boys like you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean I guess that's true. But I should

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<v Speaker 6>probably listen to you more. I mean, you should.

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<v Speaker 7>That was the meeting.

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<v Speaker 6>It was good. I mean, I think I made a

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<v Speaker 6>good impression.

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<v Speaker 7>Did you brush your teeth before?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? But look here's the it's like that I have.

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm just gonna be honest. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 6>you see it, but I feel like there's like an

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<v Speaker 6>attraction between us.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, yeah, I feel that.

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<v Speaker 6>Right. But like you've heard of people being like friend

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<v Speaker 6>zoned before, I feel like I'm being nanny zoned.

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<v Speaker 7>Wait what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 6>You know, like the brush your teeth common and on

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<v Speaker 6>the date you made me eat vegetables. It's just stuff

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<v Speaker 6>you would have said to me as a kid, And

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want the potential of this to have some

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<v Speaker 6>the same nanny kid power structure.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, okay, how about this? How about you come over

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<v Speaker 7>to my place this Friday night. I'll make you dinner

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<v Speaker 7>and I won't make you eat vegetables.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, yeah that sounds good.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, and then we can watch a movie that's you know,

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<v Speaker 7>not too scary because I remember that you don't like

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<v Speaker 7>the scary one. And the best bard is if you

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<v Speaker 7>stay out past eleven and I won't make you go home.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh wow?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, you can stay over and I'll read you

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<v Speaker 7>a bedtime story.

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<v Speaker 6>And Tucky Joky.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Hey, Kendra, Hey, who is Kendra.

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<v Speaker 5>You're on the radio right now with a show called

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<v Speaker 5>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Huh okay, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>We're a morning radio show right and we're doing a

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<v Speaker 2>segment with Mark called Awkward Tuesday Phone Call. We're trying

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<v Speaker 2>to help him have this conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>With you about like dating, not about bedtime stories.

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<v Speaker 7>Mark, what's happening right now? I don't like this?

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, Mark?

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<v Speaker 2>Mark? Do you want to explain?

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<v Speaker 6>So listen. I have feelings for you, and I want

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<v Speaker 6>you to see me as an equal because I really,

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<v Speaker 6>I really see its being a thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you feel like there's a connection there, maybe, Kendra,

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<v Speaker 5>like a grown up, mature, romantic connection.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I kind.

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<v Speaker 7>Of see something. But at the same time, it's just

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<v Speaker 7>like really hard to shake the image I have of

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<v Speaker 7>you as a little boy, Like in my mind, you're

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<v Speaker 7>still a little boy.

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<v Speaker 1>But listen to his voice.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a man voice, and you're sitting across from him

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<v Speaker 3>at the dinner table.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got facial hair.

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<v Speaker 2>Give a chance to say something manly right now? Mark,

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<v Speaker 2>go ahead.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I do have facial hair.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, come on, Wow, I'm certainly convinced.

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<v Speaker 7>I just think he's adorable, but I just can't like

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<v Speaker 7>he's this Marky, I don't know, and I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but you admit it.

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<v Speaker 1>You admitted there was an attraction when you two were talking.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard you. You said, yeah, I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>But then she told him to make sure he brushes

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<v Speaker 2>his teeth every night, So like each other out like,

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<v Speaker 2>do you do you realize that you're doing that, Kendra?

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<v Speaker 2>Or do you even know that I habit?

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<v Speaker 7>What do you want from me?

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<v Speaker 4>It's habits.

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<v Speaker 5>This could just be a case of two people trying

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<v Speaker 5>to force a romantic connection when really it is what

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<v Speaker 5>it is. And maybe you're just meant more to be

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<v Speaker 5>just friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, or Mark just wants his girlfriend to do everything

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<v Speaker 3>for him, you know, like changes down.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he obviously kind of likes it.

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<v Speaker 3>Because like, how could anyone listen to that and still

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<v Speaker 3>be attracted?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I like when she does that too, I

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<v Speaker 6>like when she reached me time stories.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe he does like it. Maybe the tickle monster can

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<v Speaker 2>come out again and be like the grown up tickle.

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<v Speaker 6>No.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe yeah, maybe we're all just trying too hard to

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<v Speaker 2>make this happen and it's not going there naturally. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>do you see that, Mark?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean maybe in another lifetime if she, if she

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't my babysitter, there could have been something.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you're given up, you're letting it go.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe you guys can be friends, or you can't stay

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<v Speaker 3>Nanny's owned or is.

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<v Speaker 2>Trying to find a time machine to go back and

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<v Speaker 2>cancel her.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm working on it and I'm starting tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>Kendra. Are you okay just staying friends with Mark?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah? I think that's fine for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, may not do the babysitting terms around him a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>to just be like normal adult friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you not hear him? He likes it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, to.

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<v Speaker 2>Stay in friends, stay in touch and see what happens,

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<v Speaker 2>and maybe something will naturally develop from that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what's your favorite bedtime story? Mark?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, they are a man.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning. This is a couple. I wish

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<v Speaker 1>we could get an update from.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>I need to know if things got more romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know. I think they got less.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that it's gone to where he's probably just

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<v Speaker 3>paying her hourly at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>Come over and cut up his steak.

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<v Speaker 4>For him like he got a little like revisit of

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<v Speaker 4>it from what he's like, Wait, this is I see

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<v Speaker 4>why we hired her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, she was good.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean to his credit, kids made they wait for

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<v Speaker 3>people to make them food.

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<v Speaker 1>We got their stuff off the floor. Yeah, exactly, be

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<v Speaker 1>all cute and babysittery. It is a good life.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't blame him at all. Hey, if you ever

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<v Speaker 3>have an awkward you know, conversation that you need to

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<v Speaker 4>I was gonna say, or more nanny situation, you know,

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