1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,639 Speaker 1: I just want to start off the episode by saying, 2 00:00:01,639 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: Happy Veterans Day. 3 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, guys, so much. 4 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 3: Seriously, I'm the daughter and the grand daughter of Marine, 5 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,039 Speaker 3: so you know, thank you so much for all of 6 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 3: your service out there, and and today we got an 7 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 3: awkward Tuesday for you. 8 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: Yes, do you want to start with a comment? Alexis 9 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 1: you got something? Yes? Our Mattlocke said, please launch more merch. 10 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:23,600 Speaker 4: I wasn't listening to you guys the last time you 11 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 4: did it, and since then, I've listened to hundreds of 12 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 4: episodes across YouTube and TikTok. 13 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 1: You guys are my daily. 14 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 4: Podcast while I'm working and studying for grad school. You 15 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 4: guys deal with some crazy people every day and it 16 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 4: makes me feel sane. And now I can say this 17 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 4: happy holiday. 18 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 1: I have been plotting another merch for a cause. Launch hat. 19 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 20 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 3: Well, I don't know if we're gonna have hats, but 21 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,639 Speaker 3: you knoweah, you have a. 22 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 1: Hat on right now. 23 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 3: All right, let's get our awkward Tuesday phone call going 24 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 3: and just keep your ears open because something's coming. 25 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: It's fricking Jeffrey. 26 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 5: If you thought being stuck in the friend zone was 27 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 5: the worst feeling, we just heard about another hopeless zone 28 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 5: of no romance. That sounds even more frustrating. 29 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 1: Wow, please don't tell me it's the dead zone. Please 30 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: don't tell me it's the dead zone. 31 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 2: It's not. 32 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,639 Speaker 5: But one of our listeners is stuck in it right now. 33 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:22,279 Speaker 5: He's been desperately searching for a way to finally spark 34 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 5: a love connection with a person that he's known for years. Oh, 35 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 5: they're not exactly friends. Their relationship is a little stranger, 36 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 5: more complicated than that. Really, he's gonna tell us all 37 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 5: about it. We're going to try and help him get 38 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 5: out of that zone in a brand new awkward Tuesday 39 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 5: phone call. 40 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 2: Next, it's awkward. 41 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: It's Tuesday. 42 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 2: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. When you run into an 43 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 2: old friend or acquaintance from your past, is that exciting 44 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 2: for you? Is that kind of awkward friend the other day? 45 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 3: I like it for like twenty five minutes, and then 46 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 3: after twenty five minutes, I'm like, oh, that's why we 47 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 3: don't talk anymore personally. 48 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 5: If I see anybody I knew back in the day, 49 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 5: I'm pulling the fire alarm and getting the heck out 50 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 5: of there. 51 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: Oh oh wow. 52 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 2: Not rehashing old memories with you today? 53 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:15,679 Speaker 6: Sorry. 54 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know, I know some people are a 55 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 5: little bit more amicable to that. Yeah, like our listener Mark, 56 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 5: who recently ran into someone from his past and now 57 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 5: he's looking to get a little bit of advice. 58 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 2: So Mark, welcome to the show Man. 59 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 6: Oh my god, thank you so much for inviting me. 60 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 6: It is amazing. 61 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 3: Oh my god, amazing because you like the show. Were 62 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 3: amazing because the issue is that big. 63 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 6: Well, I mean, I listened to your show every day. 64 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 6: But oh, I don't know. I gotta talk to you. 65 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 6: I gotta lay it down. 66 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, it sounds like it's juicy. 67 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 2: Who'd you run into from your past? 68 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 6: Oh? I randomly bumped into my old childhood babysitter. 69 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 2: Wow, oh wow. 70 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: That's crazy. 71 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 3: Did she recognize or he? I guess I shouldn't say that, 72 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 3: but all my babysitters were girls. 73 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: Did they recognize you? 74 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 6: Not? At first? I was at a coffee shop and 75 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 6: I saw her come in while I was waiting for 76 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 6: my drink, and I went up there and I just yelled, Kendra, 77 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 6: question Mark. 78 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 2: What did she say? 79 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 6: She was just like, uh, who aren't you? 80 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 2: That means, yes, I am, but I don't recognize you. 81 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:23,839 Speaker 1: Okay, it makes sense. 82 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 2: You were a kid. It's awkward. 83 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 1: Better than her saying go to your room. 84 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 6: I said, oh, I'll give you a hint. I was like, 85 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 6: can you do what? Can you put on my foot? Gimme? 86 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: Oh no, what'd you say? 87 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 6: It's like, oh my god, Marky? 88 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: Can we call you Marky? 89 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 2: Now? It worked. 90 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 6: I was just like, yeah, I'm all growing up. And 91 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 6: we laughed and he's super cute. 92 00:03:55,000 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: Now, Oh, so many Marky's got to say for the 93 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: babysitters sounds. 94 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, yeah, I'm curious. How old were you when 95 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 2: you knew her? 96 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 6: So I was nine as you were fourteen at the time. 97 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: Oh it's not five year difference. 98 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, Now when you're adults, that's nothing. How old How 99 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 2: old are you now? Are you past your teens? 100 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 6: Yes, it's a balanced question, like this was three years 101 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 6: eighty seven years old. 102 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 2: You're like, Kendrew, you're nine. 103 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 6: No, No, I'm around twenty five right now. But we 104 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 6: just couldn't stop telling stories and we were joking around. 105 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 6: You could tell there was a vibe, you know between us. 106 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: Okay, did you ask her out? What did you do? 107 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: Did you make a move? 108 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 6: Oh, here's what happened. She was with another lady from 109 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 6: her work. Okay, so you said let's catch up over 110 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 6: dinner sometime, and I was like, yeah, absolutely. So you 111 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:55,919 Speaker 6: know a few days later we went to dinner. It 112 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 6: was amazing. I mean, it felt better than going on 113 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 6: a normal date because we are had a connection and. 114 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: So this was a this was a date that you 115 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: two went on. 116 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 6: It wasn't officially a date. It was more of a 117 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 6: catch up. 118 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 3: Like from his side of the story, it's like cool 119 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 3: and sexy and hot. As someone who I'm sure Alexis 120 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 3: feels the same, has been a babysitter. 121 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: It would be really weird even. 122 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 3: As adults, because you just still see that person as 123 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 3: a kid, like I leave them back. 124 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, you watch them pick their nose. You know where 125 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 1: they kept their booger collection. 126 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 6: I don't know. 127 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 2: It sounds like you guys have actually considered and thought 128 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 2: about dating them. But she talked to herself out. 129 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 3: Well, I just I've tried to think from her side, 130 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 3: what was her reaction to this? Did she give any 131 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 3: indication that she had any interest? 132 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 6: So my tick on it, honestly was she was being 133 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 6: pretty flirty back at me. 134 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 2: Okay, bit that's good. 135 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, Yeah, is there anything specific that you can 136 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 3: bring up about that. 137 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean she was twirling her hair. She was laughing. 138 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 6: It was amazing, Like, Okay, try her when you're bored. 139 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: Men don't believe. 140 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 2: That scientific room and you also do it when you're flirting. 141 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 2: But you're right. It could be either. She could have 142 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 2: been bored and not having a good time. 143 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 1: I keep forgetting that this isn't a second date, right, like. 144 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, we're doing an awkward phone call here? What what 145 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:19,839 Speaker 5: makes this awkward? 146 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 6: So things were going well till halfway through the meal. 147 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 6: She leaned over and said, Markie, you need to finish 148 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 6: your vegetables. 149 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 2: Oh wait, wait wait did you laugh? 150 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 6: I mean I laughed, and then she says, I'm serious. 151 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 6: Oh so I ate my vegetables while she watched me, 152 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 6: and it was it was embarrassing. 153 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 3: Though, Well, you are a stronger boy because you did 154 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 3: eat those veggies. 155 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 2: So let me ask you this. At the end of 156 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 2: the night, how did you and Kendra leave things? 157 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 6: Like? 158 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 2: Was it romantic at all? 159 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 6: We walked out, We had a huge hug. I told her, 160 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 6: I was it's gonna text her. Yeah, it was like 161 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 6: you better, it's important to keep promises. 162 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 2: Kind of preachy teach your babysitter motive. Yeah, how long 163 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 2: ago was this? 164 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 6: It was just so only a few nights ago. 165 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: So okay, so what do you what do you want 166 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: our advice with? Because that's like the awkward thing, is right, 167 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: we give advice. 168 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, I just need advice on how to just to 169 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 6: say that I'm grown and that I feel like you 170 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 6: need to see me as someone that can be with. 171 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 5: You go on a serious day with him. 172 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 3: I think, stomp your feet and say this is not fair. 173 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 1: I know, I get it, I get it. 174 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 2: Let's try and figure this out. We're gonna come back. 175 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 2: We're gonna give you some solid advice on how to 176 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: help you ask out your babysitter so that she sees 177 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 2: you as a man still paying her right. 178 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 6: No, no, I'm not like no wonder All right. 179 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 2: We're gonna do it with your awkward Tuesday phone call. Next, 180 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 2: it's awkward. 181 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 1: It's Tuesday. 182 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 2: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 183 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 5: Imagine going out with a girl you haven't seen in years. 184 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 5: You're at the dinner table together. 185 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 2: She looks over at you, seductively, leans in and says, 186 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 2: eat your veggie so you can grow up to be 187 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 2: a big boy. 188 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: It's weirdness. 189 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 3: I think that there's some people that are into them. 190 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 3: Yeah more our listener isn't. 191 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 5: It did actually happen though, to one of our listeners 192 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 5: name Marky. Well, I'm calling him Markie because the person 193 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 5: across the table was his ex babysitter from when he 194 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 5: was younger. 195 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, he was nine years old. She was fourteen at 196 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 2: the time. But now they're both grown adults and Mark 197 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 2: wants to play doctor the real way. But does she 198 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 2: see him that way? 199 00:08:57,240 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 3: Well, she kept calling him MARKI yeah, probably not not 200 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 3: a good sign yet, not yet. 201 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 5: He needs to get our advice on how to change 202 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:04,559 Speaker 5: that for himself. 203 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 2: So let's go to Brooks for the whole advice. What 204 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 2: do you think he should do? 205 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 3: Bro, Well, I've been thinking about this a lot, and 206 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 3: I mean you have to switch her mindset, right. You 207 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 3: have to have her start thinking of you like a man. 208 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,559 Speaker 3: I never suggest this, but I think you should bring 209 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 3: up exes because if she can see you in an 210 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 3: adult relationship, if she can imagine that, maybe then she 211 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 3: can imagine herself in an adult relationship with you. 212 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 2: Okay, you ready to drop your body count on her? 213 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 2: What do you think Mark? 214 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 6: I don't want her to get you know, jealous or anything. 215 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:48,319 Speaker 3: If you do, you do, yeah, yes, you could just 216 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 3: say like when I was traveling Europe with Candace God, 217 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:52,839 Speaker 3: you know, stuff like that. 218 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 1: She was great, but she didn't really work out, you. 219 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 2: Know, snobby boyfriend now. 220 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 3: Trying to make him sound rich, adult, and well traveled, Jeffrey. 221 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 2: Those are good things to remember. Act rich, act grown up, 222 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 2: and act well traveled. 223 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 6: I think I can do that. 224 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 2: Okay, we're here for you. We all believe in you, buddy. 225 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 5: We're gonna call Kendra for you, your ex babysitter, and let 226 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 5: you try and make this thing. 227 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 2: Official with her, get a real date. Okay, sorry, not official. 228 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 2: What's the wrong word, calor ken? Is that more of 229 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 2: like an adult? No? Just just go respectful manly. We're 230 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 2: here for you. Okay, I'm down a number right now, 231 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 2: here we go. 232 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 6: Hello, Kendra, it's me. Who is this It's it's Mark. 233 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, marky Hi. 234 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 7: I must not have faked your number right in my phone. 235 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 7: I don't didn't pop up with this number. How are you? 236 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 6: I'm great? How are you? 237 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 7: I'm good? I'm good. I'm just kind of hanging out. 238 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 7: I just ordered some food waiting for it to show up. 239 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 6: Cool. I love food. Food's great. 240 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 7: I know I remember that, you do. 241 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 6: I know you? Yeah, I kind of need to admit 242 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 6: something to you. Okay, Uh so when I was nine, 243 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 6: I kind of had a crush on you. 244 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 7: Oh my god, tell me something I don't know. 245 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 6: Oh wait, you knew that. 246 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 7: Well, I kind of had a feeling. I mean when 247 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:45,680 Speaker 7: my boyfriend stopped by that one time you called nine 248 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 7: one one and told them that there was an intruder 249 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 7: at the door. 250 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 6: So right, God, I totally forgot about that. Anyway, Oh 251 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 6: you said that was cute. 252 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, it was so cute. 253 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 6: Anyway, did you have a good time the other night 254 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 6: when we hung out? 255 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? 256 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 3: I did. 257 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 7: It was really nice, but it was like a little late. 258 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 6: What do you mean? 259 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 7: I mean, Well, you know, you told me you had 260 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 7: a big meeting the next day, and I felt like 261 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 7: I was keeping you up past your bedtime. 262 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 6: Well I'm older now, so I don't really have a bedtime. 263 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 7: Well I know that, but like everybody needs their sleep, 264 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:39,559 Speaker 7: even like big boys like you. 265 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I guess that's true. But I should 266 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 6: probably listen to you more. I mean, you should. 267 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 7: That was the meeting. 268 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 6: It was good. I mean, I think I made a 269 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 6: good impression. 270 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 7: Did you brush your teeth before? 271 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 6: Yeah? But look here's the it's like that I have. 272 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 6: And I'm just gonna be honest. I don't know if 273 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 6: you see it, but I feel like there's like an 274 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 6: attraction between us. 275 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, I feel that. 276 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 6: Right. But like you've heard of people being like friend 277 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 6: zoned before, I feel like I'm being nanny zoned. 278 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:29,440 Speaker 7: Wait what are you talking about? 279 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,719 Speaker 6: You know, like the brush your teeth common and on 280 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 6: the date you made me eat vegetables. It's just stuff 281 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 6: you would have said to me as a kid, And 282 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:40,319 Speaker 6: I don't want the potential of this to have some 283 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 6: the same nanny kid power structure. 284 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 7: Okay, okay, how about this? How about you come over 285 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 7: to my place this Friday night. I'll make you dinner 286 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 7: and I won't make you eat vegetables. 287 00:13:56,360 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 6: Okay, yeah that sounds good. 288 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, and then we can watch a movie that's you know, 289 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 7: not too scary because I remember that you don't like 290 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 7: the scary one. And the best bard is if you 291 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 7: stay out past eleven and I won't make you go home. 292 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 6: Oh wow? 293 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, you can stay over and I'll read you 294 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 7: a bedtime story. 295 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 6: And Tucky Joky. 296 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, Kendra, Hey, who is Kendra. 297 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 5: You're on the radio right now with a show called 298 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 299 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 7: Huh okay, Jeffrey. 300 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 2: We're a morning radio show right and we're doing a 301 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 2: segment with Mark called Awkward Tuesday Phone Call. We're trying 302 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 2: to help him have this conversation. 303 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 1: With you about like dating, not about bedtime stories. 304 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 7: Mark, what's happening right now? I don't like this? 305 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 1: Sorry, Mark? 306 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 2: Mark? Do you want to explain? 307 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 6: So listen. I have feelings for you, and I want 308 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 6: you to see me as an equal because I really, 309 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 6: I really see its being a thing. 310 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 5: Do you feel like there's a connection there, maybe, Kendra, 311 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 5: like a grown up, mature, romantic connection. 312 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 3: I mean I kind. 313 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 7: Of see something. But at the same time, it's just 314 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 7: like really hard to shake the image I have of 315 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 7: you as a little boy, Like in my mind, you're 316 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 7: still a little boy. 317 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: But listen to his voice. 318 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 3: That's a man voice, and you're sitting across from him 319 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 3: at the dinner table. 320 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 1: He's got facial hair. 321 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 2: Give a chance to say something manly right now? Mark, 322 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 2: go ahead. 323 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 6: I mean I do have facial hair. 324 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 2: I mean, come on, Wow, I'm certainly convinced. 325 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 7: I just think he's adorable, but I just can't like 326 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 7: he's this Marky, I don't know, and I can't. 327 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 2: Okay, but you admit it. 328 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 1: You admitted there was an attraction when you two were talking. 329 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: I heard you. You said, yeah, I get it. 330 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 2: But then she told him to make sure he brushes 331 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 2: his teeth every night, So like each other out like, 332 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 2: do you do you realize that you're doing that, Kendra? 333 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 2: Or do you even know that I habit? 334 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 7: What do you want from me? 335 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 4: It's habits. 336 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 5: This could just be a case of two people trying 337 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 5: to force a romantic connection when really it is what 338 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 5: it is. And maybe you're just meant more to be 339 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 5: just friends. 340 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, or Mark just wants his girlfriend to do everything 341 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 3: for him, you know, like changes down. 342 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 1: I mean, he obviously kind of likes it. 343 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 3: Because like, how could anyone listen to that and still 344 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 3: be attracted? 345 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 6: I mean, I like when she does that too, I 346 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 6: like when she reached me time stories. 347 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 2: Maybe he does like it. Maybe the tickle monster can 348 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 2: come out again and be like the grown up tickle. 349 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 6: No. 350 00:16:56,760 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 2: Maybe yeah, maybe we're all just trying too hard to 351 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 2: make this happen and it's not going there naturally. I mean, 352 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 2: do you see that, Mark? 353 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 6: I mean maybe in another lifetime if she, if she 354 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 6: wasn't my babysitter, there could have been something. 355 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 1: Okay, you're given up, you're letting it go. 356 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 3: Maybe you guys can be friends, or you can't stay 357 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 3: Nanny's owned or is. 358 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 2: Trying to find a time machine to go back and 359 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 2: cancel her. 360 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 6: I'm working on it and I'm starting tonight. 361 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 2: Kendra. Are you okay just staying friends with Mark? 362 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 7: Yeah? I think that's fine for me. 363 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:33,880 Speaker 2: Okay, may not do the babysitting terms around him a lot, 364 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:35,639 Speaker 2: to just be like normal adult friends. 365 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 1: Did you not hear him? He likes it. 366 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:38,399 Speaker 6: Yeah, to. 367 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 2: Stay in friends, stay in touch and see what happens, 368 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 2: and maybe something will naturally develop from that. 369 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 1: Okay, what's your favorite bedtime story? Mark? 370 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 6: Oh my god, they are a man. 371 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. This is a couple. I wish 372 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:04,679 Speaker 1: we could get an update from. 373 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 3: Yes. 374 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:08,679 Speaker 4: I need to know if things got more romantic. 375 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I think they got less. 376 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 3: I think that it's gone to where he's probably just 377 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 3: paying her hourly at this point. 378 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 1: Come over and cut up his steak. 379 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 4: For him like he got a little like revisit of 380 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 4: it from what he's like, Wait, this is I see 381 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 4: why we hired her. 382 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 1: Yes, she was good. 383 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:26,199 Speaker 3: I mean to his credit, kids made they wait for 384 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 3: people to make them food. 385 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 1: We got their stuff off the floor. Yeah, exactly, be 386 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 1: all cute and babysittery. It is a good life. 387 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 3: I don't blame him at all. 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