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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glazer Podcast. Yes here I am. Hey guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show Fresh Week of the Nicki Glazer Podcast.

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Speaker 1: For you guys, it's Monday. You know, you get a

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Speaker 1: little discombobulated when there was a week. Uh, last Monday

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Speaker 1: was a holiday, and then this Sunday felt like we

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Speaker 1: should be raging tonight. Last night I was like, I

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Speaker 1: really got used to last week being Sunday being God,

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Speaker 1: I love a Sunday that's a Saturday. Oh it feels good.

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Speaker 1: It's like the adult version of a snow day. Um. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I I had a great weekend. I worked all weekend,

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Speaker 1: but it doesn't feel like work, you know. Um, I've

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Speaker 1: said that before about this podcast. I've made it so

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Speaker 1: that it never feels like a burden or like um.

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Speaker 1: And this week weekend I was in Charlotte or I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I was in Orlando on on Friday and then Charlotte

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Speaker 1: on Saturday. One show Orlando, two shows in Charlotte, Orlando.

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Speaker 1: I was at the hard Rock Live, which was just

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Speaker 1: a giant venue. Um, and the crowd was just so

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Speaker 1: excited and drunk, and they were blowing up the condoms

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Speaker 1: that we hand out and like, you know, tossing them

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Speaker 1: a I don't know a b C Boys concert. I

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Speaker 1: don't know who does the That was just just a

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Speaker 1: show that I picked in my head. I'm sure at

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Speaker 1: BC Boys shows they've blown up beach balls and pass

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Speaker 1: them around. That's a gentle fun thing at a at

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Speaker 1: a concert, and it is embarrassing to get hit on

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Speaker 1: the head with a beach ball. You don't know what's coming.

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Speaker 1: So but there's no harm, Like, no one gets hurt

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Speaker 1: with that. Um. But it was really fun. Uh, it

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Speaker 1: was you know me Anya, Anya does the theme song

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Speaker 1: for the show of course on your Marina Uh, Andrew

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Speaker 1: Emil Joachim, Uh, my assistant Gen and my uh tour

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Speaker 1: manager Matt, and we just had it was just fun.

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Speaker 1: Even though we traveled on Saturday and then had two

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Speaker 1: shows on Saturday night. Charlotte was like so beautiful and

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Speaker 1: the shows there were so fun and two shows my

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Speaker 1: feet hurt so bad though. It's weird, like my feet

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Speaker 1: as soon as I walk off stage, it's like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, I have numbness in one of my toes

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Speaker 1: from heels, but that's the price you gotta pay. And

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Speaker 1: for heels it is like, oh, for sure, Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean my feet are all jacked up, but if I'm

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Speaker 1: not wearing heels, they're fine, you know, Like I'm never

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Speaker 1: gonna get bunion surgery because I think it would just

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Speaker 1: be purely for esthetic reasons. But yeah, I mean, you

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Speaker 1: know the pain of heels, Noah, and you don't have bunions,

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Speaker 1: Like heels are fucking awful. Do you remember when you

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Speaker 1: first started wearing heels and why it was? I think

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Speaker 1: guess what about you, like, do you remember? Because I

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Speaker 1: don't think I. I was always doing stand up. It

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Speaker 1: like taking us to pay Less to get something to

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Speaker 1: Apparently because my feet, my toes. No, do you have

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Speaker 1: Like I probably know more about bunyans than most podiatrists too.

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Speaker 1: I have probably researched them. I'm close to ten thousand hours.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking Bunyan footage, looking at surgery methods. I could

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Speaker 1: Bunyon because I've watched all like the instructional videos that

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Speaker 1: I know pretty much everything about them. And they're not genetic.

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Speaker 1: That's why I probably shouldn't be a surgeon at any point.

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Speaker 1: But they're not passed down. The thing that's passed down

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Speaker 1: I say something that's a good one. Um, but you

424
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Speaker 1: were in your room and I just wanted company while

425
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 1: I eat my breakfast, and I wanted to like talk

426
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,199
Speaker 1: about like stuff that we don't talk about on the

427
00:22:57,200 --> 00:23:01,199
Speaker 1: podcast and stuff. So, um, you like sneaking in your

428
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 1: room and I go, are you are you going to

429
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,119
Speaker 1: take a ship? And you go no, And I go

430
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:06,919
Speaker 1: what's going? Can you come out here? And you were

431
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 1: just like um, and I go, what are you doing,

432
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 1: and I don't want to have to be like, are

433
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 1: you masturbating or whatever? Jerk off in the morning. And

434
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: I knew that too, Like I just I know your

435
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:20,399
Speaker 1: sketch for some reason on that and did a minute.

436
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 1: I just know you're not a morning jerk off. Guy.

437
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 1: It just doesn't strike me as someone the thing you

438
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,399
Speaker 1: do a morning person would jerk off in the morning.

439
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 1: You were just kind of peeking in your room and

440
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: like it was because you were hiding this this the

441
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 1: highlighter shirt. See, I you like getting attention of very close.

442
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,200
Speaker 1: I hate it, and that's why I never liked getting

443
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 1: attention for my clothes. Would why would you hide it?

444
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 1: Last time I dressed like a crayon? I dressed. I

445
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 1: had a green hat and a purple shirt. Yeah, you

446
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 1: mentioned it, so I thought it would be fun to

447
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,479
Speaker 1: come in with this thing, which is by far the

448
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:59,439
Speaker 1: highest colored thing I've ever worn in my life. Like you,

449
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 1: like like you cut your hair something, you'll kind of

450
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,359
Speaker 1: like kind of hover around me, like kind of like

451
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 1: giggle a little bit, like waiting for me to say something.

452
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: And I'm always just like, you did something different with

453
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: your looks? What is it? Or you'll be like, but

454
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 1: when you're digging for it, it's just I don't dig

455
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: get Addie here, Oh Andrew, you're a digger. No, I'm not. Now,

456
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 1: I'm not. I don't dig it all. I really don't

457
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,959
Speaker 1: like I I don't you dig at night when you

458
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 1: want to look good, you want to look good? No,

459
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't go like like guys, like,

460
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 1: when are you gonna say something like I don't do

461
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,199
Speaker 1: that and that's not me because I'm better than you

462
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: or something that's not that's not what it's about. Like, I, um,

463
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 1: and I'm into. Maybe I want a compliment, but I

464
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 1: would never ask for it because I would feel like

465
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:48,440
Speaker 1: it would be forcing someone to give me one. You

466
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I don't think I've ever asked

467
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: for a compliment. Oh my god, you did? I have?

468
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 1: I have one? When do you mind? I don't care.

469
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: We went. I love that you have one ready to go.

470
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 1: But it was just so cute because it was like

471
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 1: it just it was really just well, this is why

472
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 1: I never wanted to go see you go golfing, because

473
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 1: I just knew that I wasn't going to give you

474
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 1: the amount of compliments that you wanted for your golfing,

475
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 1: like you keep going, like come to the come to

476
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: the range, come see me. Maybe I have come out

477
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:19,919
Speaker 1: of my room a few times and ask you. But

478
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: you're the only friend I have in St. Louis. No, no, no,

479
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: you go. So I run. I run in Forest Park,

480
00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 1: I run, and sometimes we go out at the same

481
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 1: time at night, and he goes to the golf rage

482
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 1: and Forest Park is gigantic, and I'll sometimes go run

483
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:36,400
Speaker 1: to the range and meet him on my third mile

484
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:38,399
Speaker 1: and then we drive home and go to Whole Foods.

485
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: So I ran up and and I was watching his

486
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 1: swing and like trying to be like, wow, that's far,

487
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 1: Like I don't know what, like you look strong when

488
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 1: you do that, Like I don't know anything about golf,

489
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 1: so I don't know what I could like. I don't

490
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:55,199
Speaker 1: have any thing to base it off of. Really, So

491
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: I don't like you looking for any kind of feedback

492
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: from me. I don't know what you're looking to get.

493
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,640
Speaker 1: And I I'm not saying that like what do you want?

494
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:03,880
Speaker 1: I just I actually want to know, Like what could

495
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: I say that you would feel like, oh, she knows

496
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 1: what she's talking because I don't know what. No, it's

497
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,639
Speaker 1: not about how you're dressed so that we're driving home,

498
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:13,879
Speaker 1: and I tried to compliment him as much as possible.

499
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,239
Speaker 1: But I also really hate when people are waiting for

500
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 1: you to say something like I know that I do

501
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: it with guitar, like with your dad. You do it

502
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:25,160
Speaker 1: with your dad with guitar. But I tell my dad,

503
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 1: why don't you ever say anything? I just want to

504
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: know the reason. And I'm telling you, I don't say

505
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: anything because I don't know anything about golf. That's why

506
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 1: I don't say anything about your swing, and because the

507
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 1: I am it's an ugly part of myself. But me

508
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: and my friend Robin, she has this to where she

509
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 1: feels like sometimes uh, someone that she knows will be

510
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 1: looking for like we'll do something kind of wait for

511
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 1: them to say like thank you or like like you're

512
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,199
Speaker 1: the best, and she's just like, God, I would say it,

513
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: but the fact that they want it makes me not

514
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: want to say it. It's like, what do you relate

515
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 1: to that at all? Like when people want something, you

516
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 1: don't want to give it to them as much as

517
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 1: if you just like yeah. It's like when a comic

518
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: gets off stage and they do well, but they have

519
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,919
Speaker 1: this look like, who's gonna say, I supposed to just

520
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: like walk normally, and we know you want it, But

521
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: there's a way to not look so desperate. Here's the

522
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: thing I've I've worked very hard on my golf, like

523
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: a ton. You've never seen me hit a golf ball ever,

524
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 1: I think, and I, and I don't know, part of

525
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 1: me was like, wow, look at this work I've done.

526
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 1: And I value your opinion even though you don't know

527
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 1: about it. You could say, hey, wow, it looks like

528
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 1: you've worked without it's not even like no, But I

529
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,719
Speaker 1: do that all the time when you come and tell me,

530
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:38,920
Speaker 1: like scores, so I can understand scores like I went

531
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: from this to this, Yeah, whoa, that ball just fucking

532
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,199
Speaker 1: explode off my club like a like a rocket. But

533
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 1: the only golf I've seen is professional golf, so that

534
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 1: just looks like it looks professional. I could say that

535
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,199
Speaker 1: that's and I gave you some of those like I

536
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: was like whoa, like damn, like I would give you

537
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: like holy sh it. And then I don't have good eyes,

538
00:27:58,280 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: so I don't know where and I don't know where

539
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:02,199
Speaker 1: you're aiming, so I don't know if it's and I

540
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: don't know how close you're supposed to get to it

541
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 1: that is going to be successful. So like, if it's so,

542
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know that kind of and oh,

543
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 1: admit I used to have that energy getting off stage

544
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: or that, and I honestly feel like and it's not

545
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,680
Speaker 1: just because it's just like it's maturing and I really

546
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 1: don't like I could go and serf on my own

547
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 1: without having someone yeah, you did good, you did good boy,

548
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 1: Although it does feel nice like there's nothing wrong with

549
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:30,360
Speaker 1: like wanting compliments, are wanting to be reassured what you're doing.

550
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,440
Speaker 1: That's why people pay trainers, That's why they pay coaches,

551
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 1: that's why you pay a guitar teacher, because you need

552
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 1: someone to lie to you. I was talking to someone

553
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: about going back for my I know, well, not lie

554
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 1: to you. I hate when people lie to me. But yes,

555
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: I know, but but you're you're right though, like I

556
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: there's nothing I mean, I did a special about it.

557
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: Like I love compliments. They they direct me in every

558
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: course of my life, but they have to come from

559
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: someone who's opinion I actually value. Where I just didn't

560
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: know that. I just it it didn't make sense to

561
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: me that you wanted my validation for golf because I

562
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 1: don't know anything about golf, but I could have. I

563
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: did say the things that I thought I could give you,

564
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 1: and then we were driving to pull foods and you go,

565
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: so I'm getting pretty good, aren't I? Like you said

566
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,719
Speaker 1: something like that that I was just like, oh, like,

567
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: I guess I didn't give enough like you need. Maybe

568
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 1: it just felt good because how many people watch me.

569
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 1: I have my friend Jordan's and I have a golf

570
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: pro sometimes and at the time, I was any feel

571
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 1: less good when you've asked for it, like I would

572
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: never like. There are a lot of comics I was

573
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 1: talking at least a last week where comics when I

574
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: worked with her, I would never go, will you watch

575
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 1: my set? Because the comics aren't looking for criticism, They're

576
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 1: looking for you to say you're great this, I love this.

577
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 1: There's something. I would never ask a comic to do

578
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 1: that because I would feel That's why I don't look

579
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: people in the eyes, because I it's tricking them into

580
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 1: laughing when they don't want to laugh. But you do

581
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 1: like when people say you're great because when they do

582
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 1: it without me asking, because if I ask, then they're

583
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: doing it because I asked, and then you get the upset.

584
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 1: Sometimes people say that I'm good in front of you. Oh,

585
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: everyone hates that, every every comic case that we talked

586
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: about that all the time. But do you like it

587
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: when someone goes to you about a meal, like I

588
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 1: think it was great? I honestly would take no offense

589
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: to it. If he walked right past me and said

590
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: a meal you were fantastic, it wouldn't hurt you at all.

591
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 1: You're a stronger person than I'm not trying to I'm

592
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 1: not trying to like, I'm just saying, it's like interesting

593
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: because compliments, I don't know, compliments are weird. I I

594
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 1: do like I remember like that, not because they like

595
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 1: you or I'm like I'm not as good as him.

596
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 1: It's that's so rude because you know I'm standing right

597
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 1: here and you could do that in a way where

598
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: I don't have to hear it, and it's not done.

599
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: It's done to hurt me. And I hate when people

600
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: do it. It's not like I'm like, that's what I'm saying.

601
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: So you hate it, so you acknowledge that it's a

602
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 1: rude thing. No, No, I hate when people say it

603
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 1: to me and know exactly, so you know my feelings.

604
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 1: I tell him to blog about it later though, but

605
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: it's just it's just as it makes me disappointed in humans.

606
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: I think because I used to think I took took

607
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 1: it personally. Now I take it probably ten percent personally,

608
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I suck. I should be more like

609
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 1: Andrew to get that person to like me. And then

610
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 1: the other nine percent of me has all the other

611
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 1: reasonings for it, like they're just a rude person. Something

612
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 1: I said triggered them they wanted to it off. Often

613
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: happens with women where they're like, there there's something they

614
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 1: didn't like about me, and they go like this girl

615
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 1: this weekend. She goes, can I be honest? Can I

616
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: be like? She goes, I'm just gonna tell the truth.

617
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna Can I just tell the truth. It

618
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 1: was one of the girls we met in UM Orlando,

619
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: and she was like lovely to us up into this point.

620
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 1: She was like, I stayed for your show. I'm a

621
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 1: huge fan. I was like, oh my god, I found

622
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 1: ot Nicky Glaisher was going to be here. I'm staying

623
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 1: for the show. She works there. If you're listening, z

624
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 1: shout out you were beautiful, and I wanted to approval

625
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 1: so much, falling apart. Who knows how long you'll be here? Yeah,

626
00:31:55,840 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: that's and she was like very lovely, and she was like,

627
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: you know, I work at this venue. I never stay

628
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: for shows, but when I found out Nicky Glacier was here,

629
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 1: I was like, I love her. I'm staying. She was

630
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 1: very complimentary, and then she said to a meal in

631
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 1: the elevator like you were Oh, he was great, And

632
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 1: I thought that was kind of rude because you were there,

633
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: and I was like, that sucks, but I don't think

634
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: you heard it because you were talking to someone. Then

635
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 1: we get to the meet and greet and she's standing

636
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:23,719
Speaker 1: there too, and then she kind of goes, wait, can

637
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 1: I just be honest? Can I just like, no, lie,

638
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: like you were? She says to me, like you were great,

639
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 1: but like you And then she pointed out she was

640
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: like he was funny, Like he was funny, and it

641
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: was like, why we don't need that, Like why can't

642
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 1: everyone be I think I feel empathy, Like if you

643
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 1: were in a position where you were, like, you know,

644
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: your co workers, and someone said that to you, like

645
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: people just don't think It's just like with accepting compliments,

646
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 1: humility has something to do with it. Um well, the

647
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: recipient is kind of like, not a part of this

648
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: complaint that I have, Like, it's it doesn't it's what

649
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 1: do you say? So I'm sorry? So, going back to

650
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 1: receiving compliments and giving compliments, a person who's humble would

651
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: not be expecting the compliment but would probably receive it well.

652
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 1: And then a person like the person that you interacted

653
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: with at the show is someone also who could use

654
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: a little bit more humility to not say something like that.

655
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. I think it's I don't because I gave

656
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 1: her compliments too, because I was like, you look like

657
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 1: Jamie Lindzigler. Do you ever get that meadow from the Sopranos?

658
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 1: And she was like, I do get that. It hasn't

659
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 1: happened in a while. Then she revealed to us that

660
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:44,239
Speaker 1: she was like, I actually I got to get home

661
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 1: to my She was like, I have kids, and she goes,

662
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: I have a twenty four year old, and I go boyfriend,

663
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 1: she goes son and I was like, what the fox

664
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: did you have a baby when you were too? And

665
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 1: then we joked that she tells everyone that so because

666
00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: everyone has that reaction yeah, I mean old. Yeah, I

667
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: think we started being like my son is older than me,

668
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: my son died of old age. And because this woman

669
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 1: was so young looking that it is no one would

670
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 1: ever respond to her having a two year old son

671
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 1: and go, oh that makes sense. They don't go what

672
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: because she was beautiful. But it's more about just have empathy,

673
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,359
Speaker 1: like do unto others. I guess, like, how would you

674
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 1: feel if you imagine that you were in and maybe

675
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: you can't imagine being a commune what it is. Honestly,

676
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 1: I do think that I just didn't get it from

677
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,399
Speaker 1: my parents at all growing up, like when I did

678
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 1: well in sports because they weren't at the game or whatever.

679
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:37,879
Speaker 1: I remember, like in like ninth grade, I I made

680
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: a great hit on it. There was a punt return

681
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 1: and I destroyed this kid, like destroyed, like unbelievable hit.

682
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: And one of my friends dad's was driving us home

683
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 1: and he goes, hey, man, hey, Andrew, I saw that hit.

684
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: That was great, And it just felt so amazing to

685
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: get like a parent to say I was good. And

686
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: so then the whole car ride, I kept having him

687
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: explain how it looks like yeah, like I was like,

688
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 1: so what did he look like? How did I hit him? Like?

689
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 1: How did he fly? Did he fly? Like? Far did

690
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: he fly? I know? But that's like that, so I

691
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 1: think I obviously still have that because I want someone

692
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 1: to say I'm good. Yeah. I love compliments too, and

693
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 1: I got too many of them from my parents and

694
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: I didn't didn't think deserve well. My therapist Donna, when

695
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 1: I was like felt really ugly, my dad would always

696
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: say it was like beautiful, breathtaking, Oh my god. The

697
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 1: thing I hated more about myself than anything was that

698
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 1: my hair was frizzy and BacT when you know, straight

699
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 1: sleek Jennifer Aniston like bone straight hair was in Like

700
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: I hated having cow licks and like when I put

701
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 1: up my hair, I just wanted to be all slick

702
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: like Kursten's. I didn't want these like little pieces that

703
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: never grow to be coming out like I hated it.

704
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 1: And my dad was always just like, you're so beautiful,

705
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: you could be a model, and I just it just

706
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 1: wasn't it wasn't on. Yeah. My my Therapistona was like,

707
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 1: you just you were lied to. You weren't cute, and

708
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:07,760
Speaker 1: like your parents lied to you so you don't trust

709
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,879
Speaker 1: anyone when they actually give you compliments because you think

710
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 1: it's just they're they're trying to be nice or or

711
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:16,360
Speaker 1: they The thing is, my dad did think I was beautiful,

712
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 1: but it's because I was his daughter. You know. It's

713
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 1: like it you and you can go, no, Nikki, you

714
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: were beautiful, but it's like not in the way. My

715
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,840
Speaker 1: feelings weren't validated that I felt ugly, and like you

716
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:30,880
Speaker 1: can tell a child they're beautiful at the time, but

717
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:32,879
Speaker 1: if a child feels ugly, you don't need to say, yeah,

718
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 1: you're ugly, that's valid, but you can say I've you know,

719
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 1: it's it's so sad to feel that way about yourself.

720
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 1: Let's talk about it as opposed to like, just stop it.

721
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,240
Speaker 1: You're beautiful, and it's just like that doesn't that doesn't

722
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 1: change when people feel like I feel like, they take

723
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: it in and they go they go through life thinking

724
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: they're beautiful because everyone is beautiful. As a great joke

725
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,800
Speaker 1: about it that her parents told her she was so beautiful,

726
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: and then she went into kindergarten and she was like, hey, guys,

727
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 1: and she liked, like everyone get in line to meet me,

728
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 1: and she had like curly bangs and the cats the

729
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: musical sweatshirt and she's like you're welcome, I'm here, and

730
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: they're like gross, and it was like yeah, like it

731
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:12,439
Speaker 1: can it can go either way. I just want to say,

732
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: like there's no judgment of the cheetah outfit, like if

733
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 1: you want to rock you know, Leopard tomorrow or like

734
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 1: there's never like I don't want to I don't judgment

735
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: I look amazing, but it's like it just I just

736
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: think it's a funny thing when guys compliment the thing

737
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: that you're doing because you ran out of underwear. Like

738
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: it feel like if I was wearing a batsuit and

739
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 1: you're like hello, and I'm like no, I ship and

740
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 1: everything else, Like it doesn't mean that I'm not like

741
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 1: a fancier woman today. I'm actually, ironically so much more

742
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 1: gross than you think I am because I'm wearing a ballgount.

743
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: It's all I have laughed. Because it's fashion week. Yeah,

744
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: oh my god. Fashion Let's get to the news. I

745
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: had so much more to get to, but um, I

746
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 1: feel like that was a good segment talking about um,

747
00:37:51,840 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 1: let's get to the newsstt you boy, I hope you

748
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 1: had a great weekend out there. Apparently we did. If

749
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 1: you look at our pictures on Instagram there, uh, we

750
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:10,360
Speaker 1: took a lot of um, there's a lot of on Instagram.

751
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:14,800
Speaker 1: There's a lot of jugs of water. Yeah, pictures, pictures.

752
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 1: I think you said callix. I think he said calix wrong. Calx.

753
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 1: How do you say it calix? How do you say noah? Oh?

754
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: I think I say colic cox. Yeah. I think it

755
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:30,360
Speaker 1: could be pronounced that way too. I think it's like

756
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 1: caramel and caramel. How do you say you have caramel

757
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 1: in your hair those days? I say cow cowlic? How

758
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:44,240
Speaker 1: do you say caramel, caramel, carmel? Really? Yeah, I say carmela, caramel,

759
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 1: caramel corn weird, You're gonna have bad carmel for How

760
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,399
Speaker 1: you say that? Okay, so here we go the way.

761
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: This one's really small, alright. A twenty one year old

762
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 1: creates a seventeen page relationship contract for her boyfriend to

763
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 1: weeks after the first date. How did she get him

764
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: to be your boyfriend? Cont did he sign it? How

765
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,399
Speaker 1: did this get us? She say? He brought it up.

766
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 1: According to the article, he said he wanted to he

767
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 1: wanted a contract. No, they wanted he wanted to be

768
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 1: boyfriend and girlfriends. She was the one. Okay, well no,

769
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 1: well no, she got burnt a lot in her past relationship.

770
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 1: I'm sure she told the guy he said, I want

771
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 1: to be your boyfriend. She goes, okay, well, now you're

772
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 1: gonna have to let's hear let's hear what this one

773
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 1: year old um hasn't her contract? Well, it came with

774
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 1: four objectives honesty, awareness of your partner's needs, clear communication,

775
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: and alignment in both parties and tentions. I mean, no, uh,

776
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:46,479
Speaker 1: these these these little gen z e ars, what's up?

777
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: I mean, this girl, I'm not I don't disagree with

778
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 1: any of this yet, go on. I mean, essentially, she

779
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:56,399
Speaker 1: wants her boyfriend to be romantic, give romantic jesters at

780
00:39:56,480 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 1: least once every two weeks, not crazy, and to work

781
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 1: out at least five times. And then you're asking for

782
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 1: the compliment. You're asking for the thing if you ask

783
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: for it, If you tell your boyfriend you're not being

784
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: romantic enough, and then he comes home with flowers that day,

785
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,359
Speaker 1: there's a little bit of you that's like, you only

786
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 1: do this because I told you too, And there's like,

787
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:16,920
Speaker 1: I don't you know it's that Jennifer Anderston line in

788
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 1: the breakup or it's like he's like, I'll do the dishes.

789
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 1: I'll do the dishes. And she's like, I want you

790
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 1: to want to do the dishes. And he's like, why

791
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 1: would I want to do the dishes? And it's like,

792
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:29,359
Speaker 1: because you think of me beyond, you think of what

793
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 1: might make me happy before Like, it's not about wanting

794
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: to do the dishes, not about wanting to get flowers.

795
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: Like he likes buying flowers, he likes making doing something

796
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 1: that will make me feel good. I do think, though,

797
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 1: if you get a lot of compliments in your life,

798
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:47,279
Speaker 1: you tend to stop needing them, or some people still need.

799
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 1: You know, sometimes models are the most insecure people ever,

800
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: and a lot of times models don't get any compliments

801
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: because people think they get compliments all the time. It's

802
00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 1: the bystander effect, which someone had written to me, The

803
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 1: Kitty Genevie story is completely um false and like not

804
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 1: what but it was, but you know the Kitty genev story,

805
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:08,400
Speaker 1: that girl that was all the people witnessed, apparently all

806
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 1: or the old story goes all these people witnessed it.

807
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 1: No one called the cops because everyone said someone else

808
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 1: is doing it. It happens to me all the time.

809
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:20,399
Speaker 1: When I that's a good point, she was very yeah,

810
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 1: but um she uh know. Whenever I'm on TV for something,

811
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,239
Speaker 1: and sometimes it's the things air that I don't know

812
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: are on, or someone will bring me up, like you know,

813
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 1: Rogan will talk about me on a podcast, or Bert Chryser,

814
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 1: someone will mention me to say something nice. I get

815
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 1: one person going, I'm sure a million people have written

816
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: to you about this, but you were on blah blah blah,

817
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:41,720
Speaker 1: and I go, you're the only one because everyone else

818
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 1: thought that everyone was bothering me about it. So I

819
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:48,400
Speaker 1: get so. So just if you do see me on something,

820
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 1: please tell me because I will. But she's not asking. No,

821
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,480
Speaker 1: I am asking otherwise. And it's not about a compliment.

822
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: You don't have to say I looked pretty. Just tell

823
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: me I'm on it so I can post about it.

824
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 1: You know, Now, do you think this contract a mean

825
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 1: romance should not have I mean, granted, when you get married,

826
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 1: you get the government involved. It is a contract eventually,

827
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: but this early on it just feels like it takes

828
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 1: away that. That's what I'm saying. It's like that, So

829
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 1: you leave the business at home. At word, the word

830
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 1: contract does suck some of the romance out of it.

831
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 1: But let me say, like, these are things that you need.

832
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 1: You need to actually have these things figured out before

833
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,760
Speaker 1: you enter into a relationship, and you should. You should

834
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: know that a relationship is a lot to ask of

835
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:34,439
Speaker 1: both parties. You're going to close yourself off to other opportunities,

836
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 1: shut down a portion of your life where you could

837
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 1: be open to meeting someone. If you're looking to get

838
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:41,320
Speaker 1: married and have kids. You know, time is of the essence,

839
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 1: especially as a woman, and if you're going to devote

840
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 1: your time to one person in cultivating a relationship, you

841
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 1: better know for damn sure that that person at least

842
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 1: has the things in mind that are going to make

843
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:54,760
Speaker 1: you happy. So having a contract is a little much,

844
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 1: But I think it's more for clicks than anything. And

845
00:42:57,920 --> 00:42:59,319
Speaker 1: I think that you know, the fact that we know

846
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 1: about this means this person knows how to work social

847
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: media in a in a way that it makes things

848
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: sticky and pages. I mean, I hope it was courier

849
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 1: new and yeah, I mean that that's but all the

850
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 1: things she's asking for, like I don't know when I

851
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:17,239
Speaker 1: go on dates now or or look into dat someone.

852
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 1: I want to know what are they? What are their

853
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 1: thoughts on marriage? What are there? Uh? Do you have

854
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:25,399
Speaker 1: five five questions that you would what are your top

855
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: five or top three? I really like asking someone if

856
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 1: I asked your ex girlfriends what would be the number

857
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: one thing that they would complain about you in a relationship?

858
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 1: And I'll share mine too, as honestly as I can

859
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 1: and write down their number for references. UM, I like

860
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 1: to um. You know, you can't really ask someone do

861
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 1: you lie? But you can get a sense of their

862
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 1: how honest they are? Um, just by kind of observing

863
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 1: how um. Like I was out with someone recently and

864
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 1: they had told a story and this is just like

865
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 1: a friend, but it just showed me who they told

866
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: a story where they lied to someone just to get

867
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: out of a thing that they didn't want to do

868
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: with this person. But it was just an innocuous like

869
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: I'm not feeling well, But it was really about they

870
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 1: didn't want to go, and I'm like, just say you

871
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,399
Speaker 1: don't want to go, like you don't have to. Now

872
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: you lied and said you're sick, So then they're going

873
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 1: to follow up and ask how you're feeling and then

874
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 1: this and the person eventually revealed to me. I got

875
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,880
Speaker 1: busted up for lying like about it, Like later on

876
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 1: it came back this thing that I thought they'd never

877
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:25,800
Speaker 1: check up on, it came back that I lied. And

878
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 1: it's just you're entitled to not want to go do

879
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: something like it doesn't mean that you hate the person.

880
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 1: The person if they take it personally, that's their problem,

881
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:34,920
Speaker 1: and you could say it in a gentle way. So

882
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: things like that I test for, like honesty, kids, Do

883
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 1: you want kids? Is a deal break up for you?

884
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 1: Because I'm not sure? Now. That's when I kind of

885
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: push because I feel, yeah, I feel scared that I

886
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: get so scared, Like well, it's it wouldn't be if

887
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 1: you really knew you wanted kids death, Like for sure,

888
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: you should know that a girl that you are seeing

889
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 1: doesn't want that. Ever, No, I feel bad too, because

890
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 1: I want someone to be inquisitive and ask me questions

891
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: and try to figure out like what they're kind of

892
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 1: getting into. But at the same time, you just don't

893
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 1: want to feel like there's a there's a like a

894
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 1: checklist going on of like you know what you're doing,

895
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: how well are you doing it? It just feels very

896
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 1: like what do you think about the kids question? Because

897
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: for me, I am on the fence about it, which

898
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 1: is a perfect answer because I could go either way

899
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 1: someone doesn't want them or wants them. However, I am

900
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: thirty seven. Yeah, I think it's cool to be totally

901
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: fluid with that, and you know, to not even have

902
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 1: a set answer because I was always like, I don't

903
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:41,839
Speaker 1: want kids. I don't want kids, and then I met

904
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 1: a person who I really love and care about, and

905
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 1: then I was like, oh, okay, I think I really

906
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: wanted kids. Know this is weird, So I think it's however,

907
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 1: that's you. Though there are some people that know they

908
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 1: don't want kids, like very defendant, I didn't. I didn't

909
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 1: want kids up until like, okay, that's a good point,

910
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: all right. Did it change too when you moved to

911
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,520
Speaker 1: I'm not like from Arizona from New York. I feel

912
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: like when people live in New York, the feeling of

913
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: wanting it's like dad to get yeah, get him in school.

914
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 1: I gotta paid nine million just so they get one

915
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 1: of those women like on the train who like, if

916
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 1: you're not cute enough, no one will help you with

917
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: your fucking baby. Thing and then the baby's crying and

918
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 1: everyone hates you and like, oh god, yeah, how am

919
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: I going to get through the turnstile with the baby

920
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:29,839
Speaker 1: carriage everything? It's just times a million in a big city. Yeah,

921
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:31,919
Speaker 1: that's a good point. Did it change for you, Noah,

922
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: moving out to the West. I think it definitely encouraged

923
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 1: me to m absolutely. Yeah. I couldn't imagine having dogs

924
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 1: when I was in l A. I mean, I don't

925
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 1: mean to make it, but it was just so it

926
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: was a non starter. I mean it was not a

927
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 1: non start, it was a it was a no brainer.

928
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:48,919
Speaker 1: Was like, of course, get a dog. I want a dog.

929
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: I have a yard, it's nice outside all the time.

930
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: And then moving to New York, I was like, this

931
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 1: is fucking hell you lived. Transportation is when Nikki lives

932
00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 1: in that five flight walk up and having to take

933
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,759
Speaker 1: Mary and it was brutal and it and it never

934
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 1: occurred to me in getting a dog out West that

935
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 1: that would ever be there would be a scenario where

936
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 1: the dog would be such a burden. But now that's

937
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:14,720
Speaker 1: my husbitancy with kids is like I don't with COVID,

938
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: no one knew, no parents knew that they would have

939
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 1: to be around their kids twenty four hours a day,

940
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 1: like we didn't know that. They're sure they were like

941
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:26,760
Speaker 1: war and like apocalyptic things that could happen, but nothing

942
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 1: like COVID. No parents signed up for having to do that.

943
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:31,879
Speaker 1: And I really my heart goes out to so many

944
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 1: parents that had to homeschool their kids and be around

945
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 1: them so much, especially moms that you know, the dad

946
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: was able to be out and like, you know, just

947
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 1: working from home with kids. It's I mean, no one

948
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:43,840
Speaker 1: knew that when they signed up for kids and that

949
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:46,319
Speaker 1: was me moving to New York. Was my COVID kind

950
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 1: of like shit? My brother I asked him about that.

951
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,400
Speaker 1: I was like, does it suck that you can't go

952
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 1: to the and he actually, I don't know. I mean,

953
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 1: who knows if he's lying or not, but no, I'm

954
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:59,280
Speaker 1: just kidding. But like he said, he liked the fact

955
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 1: that he got to spend more time like some people

956
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:05,839
Speaker 1: but they have names, but they have names. Yeah, yeah,

957
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: but a lot of people have nanny's that you still

958
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,839
Speaker 1: have to be with the kids. I understand that, but yes,

959
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 1: if you don't have any help and you live in

960
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:14,920
Speaker 1: a two better room apartment and you have three kids,

961
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:18,280
Speaker 1: and you have a husband, you're already making a minimum

962
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:21,479
Speaker 1: wage and now you're both out of work, Like fuck, dude.

963
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 1: The kids are supposed to usually be in school, all

964
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 1: Like school is a huge it's a babysitter school. Um

965
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 1: so yeah, I I don't know, um, but deal breakers

966
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 1: in terms of stuff, there's it's it's interesting. I I'm

967
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,479
Speaker 1: you know, in dating and realizing like is it worth

968
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 1: it to me to put up with the stuff that

969
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to put up with in order to

970
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 1: have someone who will be around and be like my person?

971
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: Like relationships? Is it worth it? Because it's a huge

972
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 1: sacrifice to be in a relationship. There's you lose so much,

973
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:54,320
Speaker 1: you have to give so much. There's kids are just

974
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,760
Speaker 1: no in a relationship. I think it's just everyone thinks

975
00:48:57,840 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 1: I always just wanted a boyfriend and thought that's an

976
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 1: your life. But it isn't always. I really now going

977
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 1: into it realized, I am, I've been fine single most

978
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 1: of my life. I'm really happy, and so you really

979
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 1: got to make my life better in order for me

980
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 1: to put up with all the bullshit that comes along

981
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:15,320
Speaker 1: with a relationship. Because no relationships are going to be perfect.

982
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 1: You're gonna hate that person. At times, you're gonna want

983
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: to scream and yell at that person. You're not gonna

984
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:22,839
Speaker 1: want to go to the thing that that person has

985
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 1: to bring their spouse or their partner to, because you

986
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 1: want to go do your thing, but you have to

987
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: put them first. It's like there's a lot of sacrifice

988
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 1: to regularly fuck someone and have someone be there to

989
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 1: like call the electrician or whatever you need a partner for.

990
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: You could always add an addendum to the contract. I

991
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 1: guess yeah, you know, like, Oh, I didn't even know

992
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 1: I was gonna hate this about you. I bet that

993
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:46,720
Speaker 1: girl is going to add some stuff. What's the next story.

994
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:51,760
Speaker 1: Research reveals that anxiety makes people more attractive because anxious

995
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:57,319
Speaker 1: individuals appear nicer, more engaging, more interesting, more conversational, having

996
00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: a learned royal royal tone, all of which increased desirability.

997
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 1: What does that word? Oh yeah, left like a idiot? Um, okay,

998
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:18,360
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Like, but I would say that stupid

999
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 1: people are more attracted to people with anxiety because if

1000
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 1: you're anxious and a people pleaser and like want everyone

1001
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 1: to like you, and you're like constantly like worried about things,

1002
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 1: so you're like, I'm more engaging and I'll tell a

1003
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: funny story and ask you about your day because I'm

1004
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: so nervous about this and you it's done from a

1005
00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:36,799
Speaker 1: place if you don't like yourself, and the people that

1006
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: are just like can keep to themselves and just know

1007
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 1: that they're okay. Alone are maybe less attractive because they

1008
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 1: seem standoffish, but it's because they don't desperately need approval

1009
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 1: from others or you know, they're complete already. A partner

1010
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 1: might like increase their life, but like they're not going

1011
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:56,359
Speaker 1: to attract as many people. I would guess because I think,

1012
00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:59,320
Speaker 1: I mean, we know the general public is easily duped.

1013
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 1: We'veing it with like you know politics, uh, just you

1014
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 1: know social media, how it's made people like people can

1015
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:13,280
Speaker 1: Fox news, people can be brainwashed so easily. So of course,

1016
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:16,399
Speaker 1: someone who suffers with anxiety and has learned to put

1017
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: on a mask um and and kind of mask mask

1018
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 1: their anxiety with friendliness is going to be more attractive.

1019
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:25,879
Speaker 1: I guess it is nice to know, Like if I'm

1020
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 1: going out on a first date, I don't go because

1021
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 1: I'm too nervous. I get too nervous, Like it's a

1022
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,319
Speaker 1: negative thing, Like it is kind of nice to see

1023
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:35,760
Speaker 1: it as a positive, you know, you kind of flip

1024
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:37,320
Speaker 1: the script. It's like when I have a d D

1025
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 1: and you read a book on a d D and

1026
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 1: you're like, well, you're not good at this, but this

1027
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 1: is good. Or like when you have anxiety before you

1028
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 1: go on the stage, and maybe it makes you more

1029
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: magnetic because there's more energy inside of you. So if

1030
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: you go to dinner, just like, essentially, I hope this

1031
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:53,280
Speaker 1: article you'll read it and you won't avoid things because

1032
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: you get nervous, you know what I mean? Right, Like

1033
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's the thing about dating that you know,

1034
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:03,280
Speaker 1: most people will suffer with anxiety. It's like more common

1035
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 1: than not having anxiety. Anxious about the end of the date.

1036
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: I was, I am. I'm anxious the whole thing because

1037
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:14,399
Speaker 1: like it's just I feel like I um, I will

1038
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: want to get away from that person and I will

1039
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:19,240
Speaker 1: feel I will start resenting them because now they've wasted

1040
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 1: my time and I'm sitting across from this person who

1041
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,839
Speaker 1: duped me into being here and I could be doing

1042
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:26,760
Speaker 1: anything else and now I have to be like and

1043
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: then I get mad at them, and then at the end,

1044
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 1: I feel like they want to do something physically with

1045
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:32,919
Speaker 1: me that I don't want to do, but they bought

1046
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 1: me dinner, so they'll be mad at me and they'll

1047
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: think I'm a tease and that's just it. So I

1048
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 1: just wouldn't go on dates. And then I watched that

1049
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 1: show Dating Around, which I've ret ferenced before on this show,

1050
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:45,520
Speaker 1: and that the show really changed my perception of dating.

1051
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 1: Of like the thing I've said before, you're not unique, Nikki,

1052
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:52,440
Speaker 1: that you don't like dating. It's awkward, it's not fun.

1053
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 1: It's like it's nerve wracking, it's it's scary less. So

1054
00:52:57,160 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 1: I just don't. I'm I'm tired of telling myself this narrative,

1055
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: like you're special, you don't like dating. I don't like dating,

1056
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 1: so I'm not gonna do it. It's like you're not special.

1057
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 1: Stop it with this, Like, no, it's not for me.

1058
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 1: I'm like different than most people. I can't dat. No,

1059
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 1: everyone doesn't like it. Just do it, bitch. It's like

1060
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 1: it's and and find something you like about it? Yeah,

1061
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 1: you know, do you find doing it more though? That

1062
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 1: you find that you you can? Oh? Yeah, Whenever I

1063
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:22,399
Speaker 1: go on one, I go I could do this again

1064
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 1: and again and against. It's on so many things. It's

1065
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 1: many things. I will say now that, like I, what

1066
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: you just said has completely changed how I've um yesterday

1067
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 1: an epiphany that I want to share. Um. I uh

1068
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 1: so I've been wanting to, like, I quit smoking pot

1069
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:44,880
Speaker 1: about a month a little over a month ago, and

1070
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 1: there's times where I just like have this voice that's like, goes,

1071
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 1: I want to smoke pot, like, I just like, oh,

1072
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 1: I want to feel something. I want to feel high

1073
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 1: like I like, and I don't do it. Last night

1074
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: I said it to you. I would go, god, I

1075
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 1: want to smoke pot, and you go, don't do it,

1076
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 1: and I go, no, I'm not gonna do it. I

1077
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: just want to say that that feeling. I need to

1078
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 1: mark those feelings when it goes, Nikki, go grab a bowl, like,

1079
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 1: because that that used to happen to me, you know,

1080
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 1: a hundred times a day, and I would like smoke

1081
00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:15,319
Speaker 1: take a hundred hits a day, probably sometimes on a

1082
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 1: bad day, sometimes a good day. Um. But so I'm

1083
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 1: verbalizing it now. It happened on Saturday night too, after

1084
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 1: the second show, I was just like, I want to

1085
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:27,760
Speaker 1: smoke pot now, and I used to think that feeling

1086
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 1: was truly like I want to feel high, like I

1087
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 1: want to get I want to like loosen enough, I

1088
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:36,240
Speaker 1: want to feel good like it was me desiring feeling

1089
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 1: a fun feeling right which there's something to that, but

1090
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:42,439
Speaker 1: what it really is And I realized this yesterday. Even

1091
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 1: though I have dealt with so many addictions, read so

1092
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:48,360
Speaker 1: many things about recovery, I've never put this these two together,

1093
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 1: is that the I'm I know that it's trying to

1094
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 1: escape a feeling. I've always known that, but I really

1095
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:56,719
Speaker 1: yesterday when I said it and you go, don't but don't,

1096
00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 1: and I go, no, I'm not going to. I just

1097
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: want to acknowledge that there's something about this moment that

1098
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 1: makes I'm feeling something right now that I want to

1099
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:06,440
Speaker 1: get away from. What am I feeling? What is it?

1100
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: So I kind of like sat with it and I'm like,

1101
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:12,880
Speaker 1: holy sh it, wait a second. What what if being

1102
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:15,680
Speaker 1: high like the excitement of being high? Of like, what's

1103
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: this gonna be like? Am I gonna like feel paranoid?

1104
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 1: Am I gonna like our sound's gonna sound cooler? Is

1105
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: it gonna like when you get high? You kind of

1106
00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 1: don't know what's going to happen, And that's kind of

1107
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: the fun of it. It's like, yeah, so I thought

1108
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 1: about that for whatever feeling that was coming through, I'm like,

1109
00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:34,080
Speaker 1: wait a second, get high off this feeling, Like, get

1110
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:37,719
Speaker 1: excited about the mystery that is this feeling that you're

1111
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:41,200
Speaker 1: trying to subdue. So get high off your own supply.

1112
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:43,319
Speaker 1: Like I've never gotten high on my feelings. I think

1113
00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 1: that feelings for me are like a d m T,

1114
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 1: like a drug that I want to try but I'm

1115
00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:50,360
Speaker 1: too scared to do, or like coke or like drugs

1116
00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:52,880
Speaker 1: i've avoid. Yeah, I've just been like I don't want

1117
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 1: to try that drug, like and not for me yet,

1118
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 1: I'm too scared. Like d m T. I might like

1119
00:55:56,200 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 1: meet the devil and he'll like tell me that, you know,

1120
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:02,479
Speaker 1: Like I just don't want to feel like whatever Megan

1121
00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: Fox said about doing d m T, like she died

1122
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: and was being tortured for eternity, but then it was

1123
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 1: like freed her. I'm like that sounds great, but I

1124
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 1: don't I'm scared of it even though I want to

1125
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:15,279
Speaker 1: do it. So anyway, I've decided now that like the

1126
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 1: feeling is my drug, and I have never done those

1127
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 1: drugs before. I've never like gone on the roller coaster.

1128
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,319
Speaker 1: That might be like a wave of sadness or a

1129
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 1: wave of anxiety, or a wave of like fuck. And

1130
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:29,440
Speaker 1: so I just like went in this room and like

1131
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:31,919
Speaker 1: played some songs that would help me like get into

1132
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 1: those feelings. And I kind of just like I just

1133
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 1: like felt it, and I didn't get I didn't like

1134
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 1: get high, but I like micro dose that feeling. So

1135
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:44,720
Speaker 1: now I'm very excited about when I want to get stoned.

1136
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:46,839
Speaker 1: Those things come up to not do it, because then

1137
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,399
Speaker 1: I get to try the Now I get to I'm

1138
00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:51,920
Speaker 1: restructuring it in my brain where it's like my feelings

1139
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 1: are the drug. Now that I've never done that drug,

1140
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:56,279
Speaker 1: I get a new drug that I've never done. Would

1141
00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:58,439
Speaker 1: you get to see what's behind that door that you've

1142
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 1: been closing with we? And it could be an awesome

1143
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:05,160
Speaker 1: fucking drug or cable and it might be both. You know,

1144
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 1: some people do llest and they have the worst trip

1145
00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:09,760
Speaker 1: and sometimes they have great ones. So like the feelings

1146
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:12,240
Speaker 1: might lead to something so cool. So now I'm getting

1147
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 1: high off my own supply, Like I I'm not sober,

1148
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 1: Like I don't like the idea of being like I

1149
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: do nothing, Like my feelings can take me on a

1150
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 1: fucking trip if I let them. And I want to

1151
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 1: try to do those drugs now. So if that helps

1152
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 1: anyone out there when you want to grab the bag

1153
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 1: of food, or you want to uh cut yourself, or

1154
00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 1: you want to go take a nap to avoid your

1155
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 1: feelings or whatever you do to escape, like, maybe look

1156
00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 1: at the feeling as the drug or the exciting unknown

1157
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 1: and and maybe that'll work for you too, because it

1158
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: worked for me yesterday. Let's take a quick break and

1159
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 1: we'll get back to why do I care? Why do

1160
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 1: I care? All right, Andrew? Why do I care? I

1161
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:57,680
Speaker 1: asked myself that every day, even when we don't do

1162
00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 1: the show. Know you asked me, Am I getting pretty

1163
00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 1: good at golf? Nick, Look, it was one time. Okay.

1164
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 1: Billie Eilish apparently shades Jennifer Lopez at MS and a

1165
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 1: disc caught on camera as Jenny from the Block made

1166
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 1: an appearance at Sunday Nights VM as she received cheers

1167
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 1: and claps from the audience. As Billie Eilis sat still,

1168
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:26,320
Speaker 1: Billy was in her own head. Billy is very anxious.

1169
00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 1: There's no way Billy is thrown shade at anyone if

1170
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 1: you saw her documentary. She is a sweet girl. She

1171
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 1: is a huge Justin Bieber from She doesn't think she's

1172
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 1: cooler than anyone we heard nightmares about. Um uh, we've

1173
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 1: heard that she can know. I've heard both great things

1174
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 1: and bad things, so I don't trust either of them.

1175
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 1: And I'm guessing she's just a person that has different

1176
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: sides to herself. But I've heard she can be really

1177
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:53,800
Speaker 1: lovely to people, and likely they've met each other before.

1178
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 1: So what happened with everyone's clapping and Billy just goes

1179
00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 1: like this, Yeah, I mean, I mean, it's obviously ridiculous

1180
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:04,400
Speaker 1: that we're even talking about it, but it's no I mean,

1181
00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 1: I actually do care about this. Okay. So it's a

1182
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 1: reaction shot and she's not applauding. Um, I can't really

1183
00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 1: see it that well, smiling, very stiff. You know, when

1184
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 1: you're when you got a camera in your face for

1185
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 1: a two and a half three hour show and your

1186
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:23,760
Speaker 1: reaction is being recorded to everything, there comes a point

1187
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 1: where you are exhausted from clapping and smiling and you're

1188
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 1: maybe thinking about the fact that you didn't just win

1189
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:32,440
Speaker 1: an award. Or the fact that you just perfore and

1190
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 1: you forgot one of the lines, like that's the face

1191
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 1: you make. There's a there's a story about a comedian.

1192
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 1: It's just I mean, what if it comes out that

1193
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 1: j Lo, like, you know, talk shit or like what's

1194
00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:50,320
Speaker 1: mean to her in the past, well then good she

1195
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 1: should sit there stoically. But I just don't think that

1196
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:54,800
Speaker 1: that was what was happening. And I think people want

1197
00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 1: to read into stuff. Um. I do think though that

1198
00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:01,920
Speaker 1: there's this to give you an example of when this

1199
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 1: has happened before. There Um there's uh like with not

1200
01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 1: even within the common community. I just know about it

1201
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: as a roaster that I learned. When you get done

1202
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 1: with your set, no matter how it goes, be animated

1203
01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:18,760
Speaker 1: the rest of the show, because they're gonna edit your

1204
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:21,120
Speaker 1: set to look like you killed no matter what. So

1205
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 1: just look like you killed, like, have a good time

1206
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:27,440
Speaker 1: afterwards you're sitting there, you're still on stage, have good reactions.

1207
01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 1: Because there's someone who bombed their set and you would

1208
01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 1: never know it because they made it look like this

1209
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:35,840
Speaker 1: person killed. So but you can tell that they bombed

1210
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:38,240
Speaker 1: because the rest of the show you can see them

1211
01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:43,560
Speaker 1: in the background. Just like this, you look so much

1212
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 1: like the person that I already know you're talking about.

1213
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 1: And that's why it's such a good impression. Is darting around, um,

1214
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 1: you know, leg the leg shaking, all the things you

1215
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 1: do when you're filling out, and and I've been that person.

1216
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 1: I when I did I would always go first on

1217
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 1: the roads on the Alcalde Rods. I forgot two of

1218
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 1: the jokes that I wanted to do so badly, and

1219
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 1: I was sobbing after the show. But during the show,

1220
01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 1: I tucked that away and I looked like I was

1221
01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 1: having the best time. But there were moments where I

1222
01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 1: did catch myself. I do it on to tell the

1223
01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 1: truth that TV show. Sometimes I'll see that and I'll

1224
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 1: forget there's I'll forget I'm on camera and I'll just

1225
01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:25,919
Speaker 1: look like my face like it's been like that where

1226
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 1: I'm just like thinking about like what am I gonna

1227
01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 1: eat later? Or like, oh, I wonder if I'm going

1228
01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:32,080
Speaker 1: to get out of here in time to like go

1229
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: to that set, and like you know, your mind wonders.

1230
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:36,560
Speaker 1: You forget there's a camera on you. It's reality TV

1231
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 1: almost because you just you no matter how much you

1232
01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 1: know what cameras on you. You can't keep it up.

1233
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 1: It's exhausting to there's her behavior of being like okay,

1234
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:51,560
Speaker 1: like um, I don't need to give it up fifty times,

1235
01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:54,919
Speaker 1: where she doesn't need the compliments that maybe I need,

1236
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, listen, she's getting a

1237
01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 1: lot more pressed today because she didn't clap than if

1238
01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 1: she did, so. I will say I am so over

1239
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:08,680
Speaker 1: j Lo and Ben Affleck. I. I think it is

1240
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:12,600
Speaker 1: when they like appeared together at whatever the funk they

1241
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 1: got on the crowd for and there's slow motion like

1242
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:18,440
Speaker 1: you know, drone shots of them embracing and it's like

1243
01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:21,400
Speaker 1: they're back together, and just her walking down a hallway

1244
01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:24,240
Speaker 1: thinking she looks like badass before there's a video today

1245
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:26,640
Speaker 1: of her like looking just amazing and she's just like

1246
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:30,240
Speaker 1: kind of cat walking backstage. It's just like, I'm so

1247
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:33,920
Speaker 1: tired of people thinking they're cool, Like, I know, you

1248
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:36,320
Speaker 1: look amazing, and it's hard not to like walk like

1249
01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:39,000
Speaker 1: that when you're wearing these shoes with this amazing outfit

1250
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: and and sometimes I feel that way to where I'm

1251
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,680
Speaker 1: like I look fucking great. It's it'd be embarrassing to

1252
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 1: walk like a normal person. But just I think j

1253
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 1: Loo's care. Yeah, I think everyone's. When you see the

1254
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:55,960
Speaker 1: outfits what everyone's wearing, they're the most absurd outfits ever me.

1255
01:02:56,320 --> 01:03:00,919
Speaker 1: So that's fighter, that's fun. But if you think you're

1256
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 1: cool and you like have this air of like per

1257
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:06,120
Speaker 1: slip and like you're better than people and you're so serious,

1258
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:09,640
Speaker 1: you're wearing an outfit that was made for you because

1259
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 1: you're famous, and because that person not because they like you,

1260
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 1: but because you are famous, and that person wants to

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Speaker 1: be famous too. It's all based on bullshit. And I'm

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01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:22,880
Speaker 1: just like I'm as much as I you know, and

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01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:26,280
Speaker 1: the things Jo's care, Yeah, well maybe she's right. And

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01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 1: by the way, Jaylo's ben Affleckska. Everyone who thinks they're

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01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:33,360
Speaker 1: sweet because they're famous is and I have been I

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01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:36,000
Speaker 1: have been that person before too. I have been cut too.

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01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 1: But celebrities are not more special than you. They just aren't.

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01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 1: They were talented at a thing that they just have

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01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:47,080
Speaker 1: one talent and some of them don't even have that.

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Speaker 1: They're just beautiful and it's like it's just this. The

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01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 1: met Gala is my biggest, my biggest people. No, we

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01:03:56,720 --> 01:03:59,920
Speaker 1: would never I'll never get to go. Um, I would go.

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01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 1: If I got invited and I do the whole thing

1274
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:04,320
Speaker 1: on the red carpet, I would like, you know, look

1275
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: like very like serious and like my lips would be

1276
01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:09,520
Speaker 1: puckered like I was, like, you know, I would look

1277
01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:11,880
Speaker 1: I would take it very seriously and stand in a

1278
01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 1: way that's like I'm I. You know, we all act

1279
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 1: like we're like sucking a mall clooney when we put

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01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:19,720
Speaker 1: on an outfit that's tight, it's like you've done nothing

1281
01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:23,800
Speaker 1: for the world. Angeline Jolie, she's actually done stuff that

1282
01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: she deserves to stand on a red carpet and we

1283
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:28,720
Speaker 1: should all praise her. She does. She does meet movies

1284
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 1: just for the money, do you know that? Which I

1285
01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 1: actually respect, just so that she can do more work

1286
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:38,520
Speaker 1: with on refugee missions and go to places and like

1287
01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 1: get the word out. She just wrote a book, like

1288
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 1: she's actually a good fucking person. And everyone else in Hollywood,

1289
01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:47,840
Speaker 1: including myself, at times you're all sad and what what's

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01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:52,840
Speaker 1: important to you unless is mostly yourself And I still

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01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 1: worship celebrities, but the j LO thing, it kind of

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01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:59,440
Speaker 1: that really all I could think of was, like, why

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01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:03,080
Speaker 1: does anyone care about this? Do you? And the things

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01:05:03,120 --> 01:05:07,000
Speaker 1: I do. I do. I care because it's bullshit and

1295
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:09,160
Speaker 1: I see it so clearly now. But I'm still if

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01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:10,560
Speaker 1: I met Ben and jay Loo would be like it

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01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:15,120
Speaker 1: was amazing and I would give them everything they wanted.

1298
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 1: So I take I'm a hypocrite through and through. But

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01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 1: they just aren't better than us. I know that, even

1300
01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:24,919
Speaker 1: though they just have better um doctors that give them,

1301
01:05:25,080 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 1: you know, things that you and I cannot. Okay, let's

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01:05:29,160 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 1: get to our Monday segment. It's top one, bottom one.

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01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:39,840
Speaker 1: Today's category is guilty Pleasures. Guilty pleasures, your favorite guilty

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01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 1: pleasure and your least favorite. I'm reluctant to even share

1305
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:45,200
Speaker 1: my least favorite because I don't believe that you should

1306
01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 1: be guilty about anything that brings you pleasure unless it

1307
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:52,040
Speaker 1: hurts someone. Um. But you know, let's let's go in Andrew,

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01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 1: Do you have yours ready? I mean, mine's pretty simple.

1309
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 1: And your least favorite guilty pleasure, I know it's it's

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01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 1: almost hack this point, biting my nails. I'm forty one,

1311
01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 1: it's I've done it for thirty thirty years. Probably I

1312
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 1: just need to stop. And every time I get done,

1313
01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 1: and I don't even know where I'm in a trance,

1314
01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:15,160
Speaker 1: said that HI have not doing it, which I did

1315
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 1: feel when COVID first came out, I didn't buy my nails,

1316
01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:20,360
Speaker 1: and I was so proud of when cod first dropped you,

1317
01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:23,160
Speaker 1: when COVID came out of the closet and said hey,

1318
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:27,200
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, Oh my god. Okay. So so when came out,

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01:06:27,320 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 1: why why you weren't biting your nails? Because I was

1320
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,560
Speaker 1: in Brooklyn, people were like there was there was drive

1321
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:36,360
Speaker 1: up truck Morgues. I was worried were gonna get it. Yeah,

1322
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 1: So I didn't buy my nails because they said, it's

1323
01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:40,320
Speaker 1: on your hands. Tell me the feeling you have right

1324
01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 1: before you go for a bite, like it's it's anxiety

1325
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:45,120
Speaker 1: for sure. A lot of times I'll bite three fingers

1326
01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 1: and still didn't even know I bad them. So I

1327
01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 1: look at them and they're bleeding, and I'm like, what

1328
01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:51,480
Speaker 1: the funk am I doing? Yeah? When I see you

1329
01:06:51,520 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 1: doing it, the thing is going on, um like you're

1330
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:57,240
Speaker 1: trying and you catch me picking like that's I mean,

1331
01:06:57,280 --> 01:06:59,800
Speaker 1: I'll do my note right now to my guilty pleasure

1332
01:06:59,840 --> 01:07:03,120
Speaker 1: is picking at this thing on my knee, which I've

1333
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 1: been picking out all day today. Because it just and

1334
01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:07,440
Speaker 1: the other day Andrew goes, you're picking and I go,

1335
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:09,240
Speaker 1: I know, and he goes, do you want to be?

1336
01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 1: And I go, yeah, I do want to be, Like

1337
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:13,840
Speaker 1: I need to do this, Like why don't we try

1338
01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:16,680
Speaker 1: this this week? No picking the knee, no biting, and

1339
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:18,440
Speaker 1: we'll check in next week and see how we do.

1340
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:19,840
Speaker 1: I need to put a band aid on it. Then

1341
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:23,800
Speaker 1: I got I got maderna maderma. It's not I got

1342
01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:26,200
Speaker 1: the maderna. No, I got the maderma, which is the

1343
01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 1: scar because I have a huge scar from this picking this.

1344
01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:32,959
Speaker 1: But it just there's something about taking away and my

1345
01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:35,920
Speaker 1: my cuticles too, dude, I read this one is just

1346
01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:39,520
Speaker 1: when they get dry. I want to just peeling, peeling

1347
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 1: them off when they're dry. I hate blood. I don't

1348
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:44,080
Speaker 1: want to make blood. I always just wanted to be

1349
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:46,640
Speaker 1: dry underneath. And it's you know, on redd it. I

1350
01:07:46,680 --> 01:07:49,320
Speaker 1: just came across the thing about this girl posted it

1351
01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 1: before and after she stopped picking her face, and she

1352
01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 1: said that she was able to do it by um

1353
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 1: not looking in the mirror, getting rid of all her

1354
01:07:56,280 --> 01:07:58,440
Speaker 1: picking tools. Um, so you need to get rid of

1355
01:07:58,520 --> 01:08:03,080
Speaker 1: your teeth, uh, trying there's Um, there's a lot of

1356
01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 1: there's a supplement that you can take that will help

1357
01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:08,560
Speaker 1: you with your picking problems. And um, I'll say I'll

1358
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:11,040
Speaker 1: save it for Reddit dump tomorrow, but I screenshot at

1359
01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:13,120
Speaker 1: it to send it to Carlisle because Carlos talked about

1360
01:08:13,120 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 1: her tricky to Lamania, which is you pull out your

1361
01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 1: hair and you twist it and you like do different

1362
01:08:17,920 --> 01:08:21,560
Speaker 1: things with it, and so many people have that. Soval

1363
01:08:24,120 --> 01:08:31,080
Speaker 1: Miley Cyrus is headlining trickt to Lemania two one. It's

1364
01:08:32,080 --> 01:08:37,439
Speaker 1: where would it be underneath? Yeah? Um, oh my god

1365
01:08:37,600 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 1: Ham Group. Okay, so yeah, that's my guilty pleasure is

1366
01:08:41,280 --> 01:08:44,680
Speaker 1: picking things I love. Um, I love picking dry so

1367
01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:46,880
Speaker 1: let's try. Yeah, I'll do it. If you do, okay,

1368
01:08:46,880 --> 01:08:52,320
Speaker 1: besties busties who pickstick bite nails or when you want

1369
01:08:52,320 --> 01:08:54,439
Speaker 1: to go do it, Like if you catch yourself doing it,

1370
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:57,160
Speaker 1: it's okay, but just see what happens if you try

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01:08:57,200 --> 01:09:00,240
Speaker 1: to stop, or you like put gloves on, do something

1372
01:09:00,320 --> 01:09:01,880
Speaker 1: that will because I gotta I'm gonna put a band

1373
01:09:01,880 --> 01:09:03,080
Speaker 1: aid on this, because if I have a band aid

1374
01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:06,839
Speaker 1: on it or pants, I don't. I can't. You know. However,

1375
01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:08,840
Speaker 1: I do think that is just putting a band aid

1376
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:12,519
Speaker 1: on the problem literally and figuratively, like it's it's more

1377
01:09:12,560 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 1: than that, but it is going to feel the feeling

1378
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:16,760
Speaker 1: that comes up. What what is it your clear nail

1379
01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:19,840
Speaker 1: polish to put on? You have clear nail polish. I

1380
01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:22,440
Speaker 1: would love to paint your nails, not clear nail polish.

1381
01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:24,439
Speaker 1: Oh my god, maybe I will. Maybe that will make

1382
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:28,880
Speaker 1: me not bite them. Okay, surely. Savorite guilty pleasure. Uh well,

1383
01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:31,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would say it's Miley's favorite

1384
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 1: guilty pleasure, but it's very like a misunderstood guilty pleasure.

1385
01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:40,880
Speaker 1: And it's my love of wrestling and watching wrestling. That's

1386
01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 1: what sounds like? Yeah that does That's so funny. Just

1387
01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:49,920
Speaker 1: trick each other. So your love of wrestling um like

1388
01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:56,240
Speaker 1: um like wwww. There's other like organizations that have just

1389
01:09:56,280 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 1: like the like sports entertainment theater. I love it so much,

1390
01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:04,600
Speaker 1: it makes me so happy. Who in your life doesn't understand?

1391
01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:08,639
Speaker 1: Like is it something you you feel like embarrassed about,

1392
01:10:08,680 --> 01:10:13,000
Speaker 1: because it's just like this is why she moved. It's yeah,

1393
01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:19,320
Speaker 1: isolating does like it. He doesn't mind it, but he

1394
01:10:19,360 --> 01:10:21,760
Speaker 1: doesn't get as excited. I mean, I'm like jumping up

1395
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:24,800
Speaker 1: and down on the couch like I I get really

1396
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:29,880
Speaker 1: really into it. Yeah, I love that though. I love

1397
01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:32,680
Speaker 1: that like finding someone the thing that you love so

1398
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:35,320
Speaker 1: much that brings out a childlike enthusiasm and you that

1399
01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:40,080
Speaker 1: you know, most adults don't enjoy as much as you like.

1400
01:10:40,200 --> 01:10:44,240
Speaker 1: And I started watching thirty five like age thirty five. Whoa,

1401
01:10:46,360 --> 01:10:48,040
Speaker 1: oh my god, I didn't know that. So you got

1402
01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 1: into it late? So late. I just what got you

1403
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:53,439
Speaker 1: into it? I think it was just like um So

1404
01:10:53,520 --> 01:10:56,640
Speaker 1: there was this tag team or actually it was like

1405
01:10:56,680 --> 01:11:01,200
Speaker 1: a three like three guys called UM You Day, and

1406
01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:04,439
Speaker 1: they were all about like the power of positivity and

1407
01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:06,800
Speaker 1: they did like these dances and everything. I just I

1408
01:11:06,840 --> 01:11:09,639
Speaker 1: love the whole gimmick. And I was watching Summer Slam.

1409
01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 1: There was this like romantic storyline and I was just like,

1410
01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:15,000
Speaker 1: this is so entertaining. I need to find out what

1411
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 1: happens next. So I just watched it. I kept watching

1412
01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:20,040
Speaker 1: and I got so into it. And then going to

1413
01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:24,800
Speaker 1: wrestling shows, there's just this like very welcoming and accepting

1414
01:11:24,920 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 1: environment of all sorts of people, and UM love it.

1415
01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:33,240
Speaker 1: What's what's different than UM watching? Like being into going

1416
01:11:33,240 --> 01:11:36,760
Speaker 1: to see musicals or any kind of live traumatic. I

1417
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:42,240
Speaker 1: would similar violence. I would is people try to say

1418
01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:44,920
Speaker 1: it's real, and then people don't. Don't people do. I

1419
01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:47,479
Speaker 1: don't think people do. See Okay, that's what irks me.

1420
01:11:49,560 --> 01:11:52,360
Speaker 1: That's that's the rob is that everyone thinks that they

1421
01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:54,680
Speaker 1: are claiming it to be real when no one's ever

1422
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:58,800
Speaker 1: claimed it. People that don't know don't assume that the

1423
01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:00,800
Speaker 1: people that like it think it's real. But the people

1424
01:12:00,880 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 1: that like it know that. These people are children think

1425
01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:07,960
Speaker 1: it's real just like children think. I think we put

1426
01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:10,720
Speaker 1: a poll. I think more adults go. They might not

1427
01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:14,040
Speaker 1: say it's real fighting, but they'll say the pain's real

1428
01:12:14,560 --> 01:12:19,200
Speaker 1: because it is real. But as much as Kiana really

1429
01:12:19,360 --> 01:12:22,120
Speaker 1: reeves is really neo like. He does train and does

1430
01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:23,840
Speaker 1: know how to do a lot of things that most

1431
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:26,519
Speaker 1: people don't know how to do, stunts wise, but he's

1432
01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:28,880
Speaker 1: not neo like, and I think you know what you're

1433
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:30,960
Speaker 1: This is the thing about wrestling that I always rolled

1434
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:33,240
Speaker 1: my eyes at is I assumed wrestling fans thought it

1435
01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:35,960
Speaker 1: was real. The truth is, people who aren't wrestling fans

1436
01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:38,680
Speaker 1: think that the wrestling fans think it's real. They are

1437
01:12:38,720 --> 01:12:42,360
Speaker 1: in on the joke too. Is that correct? Yes, I mean,

1438
01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:46,040
Speaker 1: for me personally, I just appreciate the fact that they

1439
01:12:46,040 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 1: can um like last for these matches for like almost

1440
01:12:50,120 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 1: an hour. They have to be like funny on the

1441
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 1: fly and like or like or like improvise these promos

1442
01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:59,800
Speaker 1: and stuff. So it's just like I just appreciate the

1443
01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:03,919
Speaker 1: effort that it takes to be UM a good wrestler,

1444
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:07,920
Speaker 1: and it's a lot more than a script. I would

1445
01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:09,719
Speaker 1: almost go back to the j Lo thing and say

1446
01:13:09,720 --> 01:13:12,519
Speaker 1: that like that is theatrical as well, Like this person

1447
01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 1: is clearly like a mom who wears sweatpants and works

1448
01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:18,200
Speaker 1: out to have that body, and there's so much behind

1449
01:13:18,200 --> 01:13:19,439
Speaker 1: the scenes that you don't see, and then she's on

1450
01:13:19,479 --> 01:13:21,760
Speaker 1: a red carpet and it's all like, you know, it's

1451
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 1: it's it's improvising that you're a queen, and we don't

1452
01:13:24,840 --> 01:13:28,080
Speaker 1: We can say she's a queen, but she's not royalty,

1453
01:13:28,160 --> 01:13:31,040
Speaker 1: but we're treating these people Ben and her like. And

1454
01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:34,559
Speaker 1: I don't even think that, you know, royalty is really anything.

1455
01:13:34,600 --> 01:13:37,360
Speaker 1: It's just a but every ms act. I feel the

1456
01:13:37,400 --> 01:13:40,439
Speaker 1: same way, like I really almost everyone. They're all wearing

1457
01:13:40,479 --> 01:13:45,200
Speaker 1: like the most absurd things. Fun though that's why them know,

1458
01:13:45,360 --> 01:13:48,240
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, is doing that same if she wasn't

1459
01:13:48,280 --> 01:13:50,719
Speaker 1: doing anything absurd, or to me at least, it wasn't.

1460
01:13:50,920 --> 01:13:53,439
Speaker 1: It's not about her outfits, about the way she walks,

1461
01:13:53,479 --> 01:13:57,360
Speaker 1: and like just the like there's just the just the

1462
01:13:57,400 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 1: way that they move where it's just like you think

1463
01:14:00,280 --> 01:14:04,360
Speaker 1: you're a princess, like you're just a person. Yeah, persona

1464
01:14:04,439 --> 01:14:07,120
Speaker 1: and you know what, I take on that as well sometimes,

1465
01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 1: but I just want you to admit it, you know,

1466
01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:10,960
Speaker 1: Like it's like the comedians we talked about that they'll

1467
01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:12,880
Speaker 1: be off stage and they're talking normally, and then they

1468
01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:14,840
Speaker 1: get on stage and they're doing this voice, and it's

1469
01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:18,200
Speaker 1: just like, just admit you do a voice. It's okay,

1470
01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:22,360
Speaker 1: it's you're performing. But j Lo, you admit don't. Maybe

1471
01:14:22,400 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 1: she would admit it if you talk to her. I

1472
01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:25,920
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just saying I'm not trying to play

1473
01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:28,720
Speaker 1: Devil's out, but maybe she's aware. I mean a lot

1474
01:14:28,800 --> 01:14:31,040
Speaker 1: of these people, remember we were talking about on Instagram,

1475
01:14:31,040 --> 01:14:34,040
Speaker 1: when they make these the most cheesy, most absurd Instagram

1476
01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:37,960
Speaker 1: posts where they're squatting down and they're looking and then

1477
01:14:38,000 --> 01:14:39,479
Speaker 1: if you ask them, they go, yeah, I know, I

1478
01:14:39,520 --> 01:14:43,840
Speaker 1: look like a dickhead. But this is I Yeah, but

1479
01:14:43,960 --> 01:14:46,639
Speaker 1: that to me playing off of people. But you're putting

1480
01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:48,240
Speaker 1: that out there because you think that people are going

1481
01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:51,639
Speaker 1: to perceive that as your cool. So that's whereas if

1482
01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:53,599
Speaker 1: you just go, I'm doing this thing because it obviously

1483
01:14:53,640 --> 01:14:56,120
Speaker 1: makes my leg look better. That's why you know, Bo

1484
01:14:56,240 --> 01:15:00,800
Speaker 1: Burnham is the anti you know, like and I I

1485
01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:04,040
Speaker 1: kind of float more into his direction, where like, if

1486
01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:06,160
Speaker 1: I do something self serving, I need to call it out.

1487
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:09,880
Speaker 1: I need to be like, guys, my legs are painted tonight,

1488
01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:11,600
Speaker 1: that's why they look good. I have to tell you,

1489
01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:13,320
Speaker 1: like I have makeup on, That's why I look hot.

1490
01:15:13,479 --> 01:15:15,720
Speaker 1: I learned to stand this way that like I'm not

1491
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:19,040
Speaker 1: actually anything that you think. Uh you know I have

1492
01:15:19,280 --> 01:15:23,559
Speaker 1: way Island season two. That doesn't make you the compliment. Yeah,

1493
01:15:23,560 --> 01:15:25,800
Speaker 1: but I want to tell them you take away the

1494
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:29,320
Speaker 1: smoking mirrors, but they're still but you look hot, like

1495
01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:31,639
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's a weird balance. That's

1496
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:34,040
Speaker 1: like telling me that a mask I'm wearing is hot,

1497
01:15:34,120 --> 01:15:36,439
Speaker 1: Like I just want to I take it away from myself.

1498
01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:39,360
Speaker 1: I need to still get compliments for the mask, I know,

1499
01:15:39,400 --> 01:15:41,920
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't a compliment on my mask would never

1500
01:15:42,120 --> 01:15:44,040
Speaker 1: I bought a mask. It was like, it's a compliment

1501
01:15:44,040 --> 01:15:46,360
Speaker 1: on good job picking out that mask, as opposed to

1502
01:15:46,560 --> 01:15:48,720
Speaker 1: this is who you are. Whereas when people write into

1503
01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 1: the podcast and say, you made it so I could

1504
01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:54,479
Speaker 1: go on a boat in my bikini in front of

1505
01:15:54,479 --> 01:15:57,000
Speaker 1: girls whose bodies I envied and I didn't care how

1506
01:15:57,040 --> 01:16:00,120
Speaker 1: I looked that ship that I don't have to Oh,

1507
01:16:00,400 --> 01:16:02,160
Speaker 1: you only did that because I lied to you. That

1508
01:16:02,240 --> 01:16:05,040
Speaker 1: ship you did because I was I was me, and

1509
01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:08,320
Speaker 1: I can let that. Those compliments in much easier than

1510
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:12,720
Speaker 1: oh my god, you're waste. Well, I'm sucking in so

1511
01:16:12,800 --> 01:16:18,080
Speaker 1: much and I'm dehydrated. That's why my waist looks like that. Yeah,

1512
01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:21,120
Speaker 1: let's talk about the real facts. Okay. So Number one

1513
01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:23,960
Speaker 1: guilty pleasure your favorite thing you never want to give

1514
01:16:24,040 --> 01:16:29,240
Speaker 1: up you're not embarrassed about. Uh, I guess my obsession

1515
01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:33,000
Speaker 1: with high school football, Like it just feels like laying

1516
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:34,920
Speaker 1: in the dark at one am watching a bunch of

1517
01:16:35,000 --> 01:16:37,680
Speaker 1: high schoolers play sports. If it makes you feel good, Oh,

1518
01:16:37,800 --> 01:16:39,720
Speaker 1: I love it. I love it, But I could see

1519
01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:41,960
Speaker 1: how it could be something like that. That's why I

1520
01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:45,120
Speaker 1: want to like sports. Someone wrote in wrote into the

1521
01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:48,599
Speaker 1: to our podcast to the Instagram saying, you know, Andrew

1522
01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:51,080
Speaker 1: would think this is cud. But pro athletes if they

1523
01:16:51,080 --> 01:16:53,559
Speaker 1: go what college did you go to? And people start

1524
01:16:53,600 --> 01:16:55,880
Speaker 1: saying they're high school instead of our college? And she

1525
01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:57,519
Speaker 1: thought that I would think that's kuld. But I think

1526
01:16:57,560 --> 01:17:00,360
Speaker 1: that's cool. I love the high school shout out. I

1527
01:17:00,400 --> 01:17:04,280
Speaker 1: love high school sports because it's not tainted yet. Also,

1528
01:17:04,800 --> 01:17:08,599
Speaker 1: the kid that isn't the best athlete can maybe get

1529
01:17:08,640 --> 01:17:10,800
Speaker 1: on the field and there's just a pureness to it

1530
01:17:10,920 --> 01:17:13,280
Speaker 1: that just goes as far as you went. I mean

1531
01:17:13,320 --> 01:17:15,280
Speaker 1: that might have something to do with it, for sure,

1532
01:17:15,360 --> 01:17:18,400
Speaker 1: Like I didn't experience heird if I loved high school

1533
01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:22,439
Speaker 1: musical theater, you know what I mean? No, No, they're

1534
01:17:22,520 --> 01:17:24,639
Speaker 1: they're trash. They're not good. I mean some of them

1535
01:17:24,640 --> 01:17:27,599
Speaker 1: are good, but like their standouts, but most of it

1536
01:17:27,720 --> 01:17:30,280
Speaker 1: is bad. And there's some I guess humor in that.

1537
01:17:30,360 --> 01:17:32,720
Speaker 1: But um, but don't you like that. Don't you think

1538
01:17:32,720 --> 01:17:34,920
Speaker 1: about the fact that, like, oh wow, this person got

1539
01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:37,719
Speaker 1: to be the understudy or tree number nine or whatever

1540
01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:41,160
Speaker 1: who people didn't believe in. And I want to know that,

1541
01:17:41,360 --> 01:17:43,040
Speaker 1: like in retrospect, I don't want to know it in

1542
01:17:43,080 --> 01:17:45,439
Speaker 1: the moment because I'm not going to be paying attention

1543
01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:47,960
Speaker 1: to Twishtown's person. I'm gonna be at tainting attention to

1544
01:17:48,040 --> 01:17:50,519
Speaker 1: the lead and going, God, she's probably gonna get everything

1545
01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:52,360
Speaker 1: in life, and like I'm gonna be I would be

1546
01:17:52,400 --> 01:17:56,320
Speaker 1: too jealous of watching Younger. There's just something pureness about it,

1547
01:17:56,360 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 1: I think with with drama and stuff. Yeah, if you

1548
01:17:59,040 --> 01:18:01,280
Speaker 1: get on Broadway, I mean that's a whole another that's

1549
01:18:01,280 --> 01:18:04,559
Speaker 1: the pros, right, but anything in between that, it's just

1550
01:18:04,600 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 1: the higher up you go, the more it's done just

1551
01:18:06,960 --> 01:18:10,400
Speaker 1: for money. And and I can't wrap my head around

1552
01:18:10,479 --> 01:18:13,760
Speaker 1: these people carrying I just don't think I've talked to

1553
01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:15,880
Speaker 1: We talked to our friend Joe Buck and he's like,

1554
01:18:16,080 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 1: you know, baseball players, they'll go over five and then

1555
01:18:19,479 --> 01:18:22,320
Speaker 1: they're in the locker room like laughing, like they made

1556
01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:25,360
Speaker 1: a hundred million dollars, Like, yeah, we could take out

1557
01:18:26,280 --> 01:18:28,000
Speaker 1: to it. Yeah, no, we don't need to. I think

1558
01:18:28,040 --> 01:18:30,519
Speaker 1: he would be fine saying that. Um. I love Choe Buck.

1559
01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:32,639
Speaker 1: We it's so nice to be friends with someone who's

1560
01:18:32,720 --> 01:18:36,400
Speaker 1: voice here here, I wanted to do a meditation app. Yeah.

1561
01:18:36,439 --> 01:18:40,000
Speaker 1: I love his voice. It's so confident. He just he

1562
01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:43,720
Speaker 1: just has a swagger. I'm just like, I hate to say,

1563
01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 1: I'm like horny for his voice. I said that Andrew

1564
01:18:46,560 --> 01:18:49,080
Speaker 1: was watching football in his room yesterday and I wanted company,

1565
01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:50,439
Speaker 1: and I go, you can watch in the living room,

1566
01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:52,400
Speaker 1: and I go with this Joe Buck because I was

1567
01:18:52,439 --> 01:18:55,280
Speaker 1: listening and I was like, God, it's just like I

1568
01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:58,200
Speaker 1: love it. Maybe it's because it's just familiar, but I

1569
01:18:58,200 --> 01:18:59,760
Speaker 1: was just like, I want this on because I just

1570
01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:03,040
Speaker 1: love hearing someone who's so good and comfortable at doing

1571
01:19:03,120 --> 01:19:06,360
Speaker 1: something that to me is he's so good at not

1572
01:19:06,400 --> 01:19:10,000
Speaker 1: having like announcer voice and not having two series of

1573
01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:12,559
Speaker 1: a voice where it's like, I don't know St. Louis

1574
01:19:12,600 --> 01:19:15,600
Speaker 1: man STI was friendly, like real, I don't know. I

1575
01:19:15,680 --> 01:19:20,200
Speaker 1: just love it. Okay, let's go into a final thought. Um,

1576
01:19:20,240 --> 01:19:22,800
Speaker 1: and no, what is your your number one is? Wait?

1577
01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:26,040
Speaker 1: What's your number one one? Nikki? My number one is

1578
01:19:26,240 --> 01:19:28,600
Speaker 1: obviously Taylor Swift. Like I, I used to have a

1579
01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:31,240
Speaker 1: lot of guilt around it, and there's still a little

1580
01:19:31,240 --> 01:19:34,760
Speaker 1: bit of that for me because it people areca and

1581
01:19:34,840 --> 01:19:37,960
Speaker 1: think that she isn't as great as she is. But um,

1582
01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:40,840
Speaker 1: I just you know. I I said it on Busy

1583
01:19:40,840 --> 01:19:43,600
Speaker 1: Phillips podcast and I posted a quote that they like

1584
01:19:43,680 --> 01:19:47,960
Speaker 1: kind of highlighted her kid Bertie, Um, they love Taylor

1585
01:19:48,000 --> 01:19:49,439
Speaker 1: Swift as much as I do. And she was like,

1586
01:19:49,479 --> 01:19:51,160
Speaker 1: you would really get along with Bertie and I was like,

1587
01:19:51,479 --> 01:19:53,960
Speaker 1: Bertie and I are so I feel so lucky that

1588
01:19:54,040 --> 01:19:56,200
Speaker 1: I love something that so many people are just like,

1589
01:19:56,200 --> 01:19:57,720
Speaker 1: why do you like that? And that's why I like

1590
01:19:57,760 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 1: to hear about wrestling and about your high school football

1591
01:19:59,920 --> 01:20:02,719
Speaker 1: thing like imagining you in your room, like loving watching

1592
01:20:02,760 --> 01:20:04,880
Speaker 1: this thing that like brings you so much joy and

1593
01:20:04,920 --> 01:20:07,360
Speaker 1: you're not there's nothing, you don't have anything writing on it,

1594
01:20:07,520 --> 01:20:10,920
Speaker 1: you know, like like Taylor Swift, Like I'm there was

1595
01:20:11,120 --> 01:20:14,360
Speaker 1: something that someone sent me recently that said, um, like

1596
01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:16,040
Speaker 1: sometimes I want to kill myself. It was like a

1597
01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:17,320
Speaker 1: really dark thing, but it was like sometimes I want

1598
01:20:17,320 --> 01:20:19,360
Speaker 1: to kill myself. And then I realized, like I might

1599
01:20:19,479 --> 01:20:22,639
Speaker 1: miss Taylor's like next album, and I truly I did

1600
01:20:22,640 --> 01:20:24,960
Speaker 1: a joke about it, and um, the show that we

1601
01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:27,040
Speaker 1: shot where I was I was going to do this

1602
01:20:27,320 --> 01:20:29,400
Speaker 1: E show called Obsessed with Nicki Glazer and it was

1603
01:20:29,439 --> 01:20:31,759
Speaker 1: like all things I'm obsessed with in our pilot episode

1604
01:20:31,760 --> 01:20:33,760
Speaker 1: was about Taylor Swift, and I made the joke but

1605
01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:36,000
Speaker 1: this was inspired by real events where I was crossing

1606
01:20:36,000 --> 01:20:38,479
Speaker 1: the street and I saw my life flash like like

1607
01:20:38,520 --> 01:20:41,080
Speaker 1: a car almost hit me a truck like like seconds,

1608
01:20:41,080 --> 01:20:44,439
Speaker 1: and I was like, my first thought was, thank god

1609
01:20:44,560 --> 01:20:48,320
Speaker 1: I didn't miss like lover is coming out this week

1610
01:20:48,400 --> 01:20:50,800
Speaker 1: or something like I don't want to miss the ten

1611
01:20:50,840 --> 01:20:53,599
Speaker 1: minute version of um all too Well, because it's gonna

1612
01:20:53,680 --> 01:20:55,920
Speaker 1: be it's just gonna feel so good. It's gonna feel

1613
01:20:55,920 --> 01:21:00,600
Speaker 1: like it's got so many people had feeling with the

1614
01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:04,000
Speaker 1: Beatles or like so many bands that just stopped performing together. Oh,

1615
01:21:04,000 --> 01:21:06,719
Speaker 1: when John Lennon died, like I can't imagine the sorrow

1616
01:21:06,760 --> 01:21:09,120
Speaker 1: people felt, and like I understand now, like if something

1617
01:21:09,160 --> 01:21:11,840
Speaker 1: happens to her, it will be it'll be just as

1618
01:21:11,880 --> 01:21:14,000
Speaker 1: bad as losing a friend to me, and people might

1619
01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:17,639
Speaker 1: like joke and be like, you know, if something ever

1620
01:21:17,720 --> 01:21:20,519
Speaker 1: does happen to her, and like people should reach out

1621
01:21:20,560 --> 01:21:23,040
Speaker 1: to me, like it will be like a very bad time.

1622
01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:26,200
Speaker 1: And you know I was affected by sucking Anthony Bourdaine

1623
01:21:26,280 --> 01:21:28,160
Speaker 1: dying or like there's there's a lot of people that

1624
01:21:28,360 --> 01:21:30,600
Speaker 1: could die and I would be very petty got me

1625
01:21:30,680 --> 01:21:33,000
Speaker 1: pretty good even though he was older, but he wasn't

1626
01:21:33,040 --> 01:21:36,000
Speaker 1: old enough, you know, Yeah, No, it's just it makes

1627
01:21:36,040 --> 01:21:38,439
Speaker 1: you so sad. Um No, what is your number one?

1628
01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:42,439
Speaker 1: All right? Well, I am a sucker for a good

1629
01:21:42,479 --> 01:21:46,720
Speaker 1: pep talk, so like all those like videos of like

1630
01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:50,840
Speaker 1: motivational speakers and you know, so funny you say that

1631
01:21:50,960 --> 01:21:53,920
Speaker 1: because Nikki just started doing it before that we go

1632
01:21:54,000 --> 01:21:57,639
Speaker 1: on stage. Yeah, I started doing like a circle where

1633
01:21:57,680 --> 01:22:00,160
Speaker 1: we just like hold hands, well not COVID, we watch

1634
01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:01,920
Speaker 1: elbows and we just kind of do a pep talk

1635
01:22:01,960 --> 01:22:04,840
Speaker 1: of like awesome before we start performing. You know, they

1636
01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:07,400
Speaker 1: kind of do it on every music documentary I've seen,

1637
01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 1: like you know usually remember Amy used to do it

1638
01:22:10,479 --> 01:22:13,120
Speaker 1: before her like theater shows when she started just like

1639
01:22:13,120 --> 01:22:15,880
Speaker 1: getting everyone on the same page, like reminding everyone nothing

1640
01:22:15,880 --> 01:22:18,000
Speaker 1: matters and like just have fun kind of thing. What

1641
01:22:18,120 --> 01:22:20,240
Speaker 1: kind of um? Who's your favorite pep talker? You're you

1642
01:22:20,360 --> 01:22:25,000
Speaker 1: Goggins girl? I don't mind Goggins, I do. I do

1643
01:22:25,080 --> 01:22:27,439
Speaker 1: really like him. I like that guy Ed my Let.

1644
01:22:27,479 --> 01:22:30,759
Speaker 1: I didn't know him until you were on his podcast. Yes,

1645
01:22:31,040 --> 01:22:33,880
Speaker 1: Ed's great. And then there's a guy he's like very

1646
01:22:33,960 --> 01:22:36,760
Speaker 1: New York. He's from like a New York hardcore band.

1647
01:22:36,800 --> 01:22:39,960
Speaker 1: His name is John Joseph. He does these like pep

1648
01:22:40,000 --> 01:22:42,639
Speaker 1: talks and like the Bronx or something where he lives

1649
01:22:42,680 --> 01:22:44,639
Speaker 1: when he's walking his dog, and they're always like so

1650
01:22:44,760 --> 01:22:47,800
Speaker 1: like motivating, and he's just like, go out there and

1651
01:22:47,840 --> 01:22:50,559
Speaker 1: do something, and it's just put a little pep in

1652
01:22:50,600 --> 01:22:54,120
Speaker 1: my step. Do you like it when you're already in

1653
01:22:54,120 --> 01:22:56,400
Speaker 1: the mood to be pep talk or do you like

1654
01:22:56,479 --> 01:22:59,599
Speaker 1: it any of you're feeling like I okay, because sometimes

1655
01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:01,280
Speaker 1: I don't in a pep talk when I'm feeling low,

1656
01:23:01,439 --> 01:23:03,920
Speaker 1: like that's the last thing I want. I was reading

1657
01:23:03,920 --> 01:23:06,200
Speaker 1: a lot about Oh I should have said nine eleven

1658
01:23:06,280 --> 01:23:09,200
Speaker 1: is my guilty pleasure that I'm ashamed of. I love nine.

1659
01:23:09,439 --> 01:23:12,599
Speaker 1: I don't love nine eleven, but I like every nine eleven,

1660
01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:14,840
Speaker 1: especially on these big you know, the five year, ten year,

1661
01:23:14,880 --> 01:23:18,519
Speaker 1: fifteen year, twenty I got I go hard, and I

1662
01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:20,800
Speaker 1: gotta say, there is a there is an article in

1663
01:23:20,840 --> 01:23:24,200
Speaker 1: the Atlantic that you've got to read about nine eleven

1664
01:23:24,360 --> 01:23:27,720
Speaker 1: and um it's uh I posted on my story yesterday.

1665
01:23:28,200 --> 01:23:30,680
Speaker 1: Um it's it's not gonna be available by the time

1666
01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:32,360
Speaker 1: you get this, but I just want to direct you

1667
01:23:32,360 --> 01:23:35,640
Speaker 1: guys to it. Um that you know. I sent it

1668
01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:36,920
Speaker 1: to Ony and she goes, I don't want to read

1669
01:23:36,960 --> 01:23:38,720
Speaker 1: this because I'm I'm not in the mood to read

1670
01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:41,519
Speaker 1: something sad. But it's like it's like a set. It's

1671
01:23:41,520 --> 01:23:45,200
Speaker 1: like reading the best documentary you've ever read, and it's um,

1672
01:23:45,240 --> 01:23:47,840
Speaker 1: it's The Atlantic. You can go on their Instagram and

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Speaker 1: it's uh, it's called What eleven, nine eleven Did to

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01:23:50,840 --> 01:23:52,920
Speaker 1: One Family, and it's it took me a half hour

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01:23:53,000 --> 01:23:56,200
Speaker 1: to read. It's a really long read, but it's made

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01:23:56,200 --> 01:24:00,839
Speaker 1: me cry of happiness, sadness. It's beautiful. So watching footage

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01:24:00,840 --> 01:24:03,280
Speaker 1: of nine eleven watching the Waving Woman, if you've ever

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01:24:03,360 --> 01:24:05,280
Speaker 1: seen that footage, that's a new one to me. There's

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01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:08,080
Speaker 1: always something new that's like, oh my cons something the

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01:24:08,120 --> 01:24:10,280
Speaker 1: thing that I love about nine eleven and I say

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01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:14,559
Speaker 1: love being like why I'm fascinated by and Sam Harris

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01:24:14,600 --> 01:24:17,360
Speaker 1: did at the No, maybe it wasn't Sam Harris. Someone

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01:24:17,439 --> 01:24:21,120
Speaker 1: was talking about how where I read that. Um, we

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01:24:21,200 --> 01:24:23,799
Speaker 1: don't as much as we know about it, we don't

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01:24:23,920 --> 01:24:27,040
Speaker 1: know the individual struggle of people who died, Like we'll

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01:24:27,080 --> 01:24:30,000
Speaker 1: never know what they saw, what they witnessed, will never

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01:24:30,520 --> 01:24:34,599
Speaker 1: all those people died. We don't know what what killed them,

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01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:37,040
Speaker 1: what they what they thought what they felt like. There

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01:24:37,120 --> 01:24:40,679
Speaker 1: was no survivors really that have the story of standing

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01:24:40,720 --> 01:24:43,200
Speaker 1: next to someone who died next to them, like you

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01:24:43,200 --> 01:24:44,960
Speaker 1: either died or you did it. There was no one

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01:24:45,080 --> 01:24:48,160
Speaker 1: between really. On sixty minutes, there was a nine eleven

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01:24:48,160 --> 01:24:51,200
Speaker 1: phone call. So I've heard them all. Oh my god,

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01:24:51,200 --> 01:24:53,320
Speaker 1: there's one that you listen to and he's just like,

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01:24:53,600 --> 01:24:56,479
Speaker 1: we're in the tower and then it cuts out and

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01:24:56,520 --> 01:24:58,880
Speaker 1: it's like the worst thing you've ever heard. But I

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Speaker 1: don't know why. I I don't like that stuff, but

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01:25:01,200 --> 01:25:05,360
Speaker 1: I why you like murder documentary or why people do

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01:25:05,680 --> 01:25:11,000
Speaker 1: it's morbidity video. I watched the the the other thing

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01:25:11,080 --> 01:25:14,080
Speaker 1: you posted. Oh yeah, that was amazing right with the

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01:25:14,680 --> 01:25:21,680
Speaker 1: Eventsio in Virginia and Mike Attendant. Oh how good was

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01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:24,200
Speaker 1: that video? I really choked up. I did think of

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01:25:24,240 --> 01:25:27,120
Speaker 1: a really funny thing though. We gotta we gotta post

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01:25:27,160 --> 01:25:31,800
Speaker 1: it on our story. We should try to that video. Yeah,

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01:25:31,880 --> 01:25:33,960
Speaker 1: let's talk about it tomorrow. Go watch that video. It

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01:25:34,080 --> 01:25:36,439
Speaker 1: is something that I think if they made mandatory in

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01:25:36,520 --> 01:25:39,160
Speaker 1: schools to watch or like man, mandatory for human beings

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01:25:39,160 --> 01:25:41,479
Speaker 1: to watch it once a year. It just made me

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01:25:41,520 --> 01:25:44,080
Speaker 1: be so much nicer to strangers. Yesterday, and to have

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01:25:44,120 --> 01:25:47,200
Speaker 1: so much more empathy for a situation that I normally

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01:25:47,200 --> 01:25:51,600
Speaker 1: be like funk, like annoyed. It's just it was we

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01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:55,240
Speaker 1: should all be like Mike, Mike. Yeah, when he was like,

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01:25:55,479 --> 01:25:57,800
Speaker 1: what can we do to help you? It was like

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01:25:58,880 --> 01:26:01,920
Speaker 1: that that question he goes, you don't need to say

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01:26:01,920 --> 01:26:06,280
Speaker 1: sorry to me. Yeah, but I hate to tell you,

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01:26:06,320 --> 01:26:08,640
Speaker 1: but Mike lost his life. And when he was at

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01:26:08,680 --> 01:26:11,439
Speaker 1: the age of like fifty something, I know he's gone.

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01:26:12,280 --> 01:26:13,960
Speaker 1: We don't know what he died of. It was a

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Speaker 1: reddit like I read the reddit thread and it was

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01:26:16,040 --> 01:26:18,800
Speaker 1: like Mike's Mike's dad. But what a lovely man when

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01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:20,360
Speaker 1: he was around. And I'm so glad we have that

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01:26:20,400 --> 01:26:22,280
Speaker 1: memory of him. And like I want to asseminate. I

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01:26:22,320 --> 01:26:23,960
Speaker 1: want to put it out there. I want everyone to

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01:26:24,000 --> 01:26:26,320
Speaker 1: see it. Spread this video, go watch it, and we'll

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01:26:26,320 --> 01:26:28,400
Speaker 1: talk about it tomorrow. See you on the podcast. What

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01:26:28,479 --> 01:26:30,160
Speaker 1: a fun show today, even though we went to some

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01:26:30,240 --> 01:26:32,439
Speaker 1: dark places at the end. I have a good one

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01:26:32,439 --> 01:26:34,080
Speaker 1: out there to be kind to each other. And I

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01:26:34,080 --> 01:26:37,120
Speaker 1: mean that not in an Ellen way. Um and uh,

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Speaker 1: we'll see tomorrow, don't And