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Speaker 1: My mother in law stole something priceless. I'm getting her arrested,

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Speaker 1: do it? Put her behind bars?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Part one so context. We have read the first tiny

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Speaker 1: snippet of this long saga months ago. Opie has gone

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Speaker 1: ahead and edited slash made things clearer since we last read.

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Speaker 1: This first part is relevant and it will be needed

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Speaker 1: to get all the details together. So, my mother in

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Speaker 1: law stole my collection of vintage skeleton keys to sell

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Speaker 1: at a pawn shop and buy herself a new phone.

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Speaker 1: My best friend recommended Reddit to begin with, and has

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Speaker 1: suggested this subreddit and even said that I should have

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Speaker 1: posted here first. I'm dividing this into two halves to

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Speaker 1: make it easier to read. By the way, this comes

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Speaker 1: from my keys were stolen from our slash.

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Speaker 2: And titled people.

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Speaker 1: So my mother in law is insanely entitled sounds like it,

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Speaker 1: and my wife's enabling of her has made our marriage.

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Speaker 2: Very hard at times.

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Speaker 1: Mother in law has come to us for money a

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Speaker 1: lot because she keeps spending herself into a hole since

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Speaker 1: she's a hoarder and shopaholic, the winning combination. Her house

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Speaker 1: is full of garbage, junk, and unopen stuff that she

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Speaker 2: Oh that's how you know it's bad. Yeah, you.

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Speaker 1: So she has one one semi clean room in the

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Speaker 1: whole building, and it's the master bedroom. She mocked it

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Speaker 1: in law is also overweight because she eats out a

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Speaker 1: lot eat in. Now, recently, mother in law came to

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Speaker 1: us wanting me to specifically buy her a new smartphone

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Speaker 1: as a unprompted gift, and she threw a massive fit

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Speaker 1: when I refused, and I mean a child temper tantrum

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Speaker 1: kind of fit. Now why did she want a new phone?

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Speaker 1: So suddenly you might be asking.

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Speaker 2: So she can like Google maps her way out of

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Speaker 2: her trash hord, Like.

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Speaker 1: That does seem like something you need. But here's the truth.

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Speaker 1: Hers is two years old.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's too old. Two years old. That's basically trash

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Speaker 2: at that point it is. It is one year too old. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you gotta you gotta throw that into trash heap.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we live in a world flat.

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Speaker 2: Toss it in.

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Speaker 1: So as far as I know, the phone still work

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Speaker 1: just fine. Even my wife has confirmed this. But mother

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Speaker 1: in law was resolute that she deserved a new phone,

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Speaker 1: and before leaving, mother in law yelled at us that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know you're worth old lady. She knows that

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Speaker 3: she's she needs to be treated like the queen she

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Speaker 3: is on top of her trash heap.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I know we all make fun of my age, but

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's a Yes, it's a young lady right there,

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Speaker 2: Not even going to comment on the how proxtically happening

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Speaker 1: My wife also didn't want to buy her mother of

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Speaker 1: to make sure all of her bills were paid. Now,

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Speaker 1: I have quite a collection of vintage skeleton keys, and

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Speaker 3: All right, remind me of what a skeleton key is.

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Speaker 1: My understanding, and we might get even more updated understanding

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Speaker 1: from chat and Riley in a second. Is that uh,

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Speaker 1: there's like all of these different like for instance, the

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Speaker 1: There's all of these types of rooms that have like

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Speaker 3: So is it a master because I also have I'm

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Speaker 3: thinking of the old Yeah, I was thinking of like

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Speaker 3: where it has like a little little thingy thing on it, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, that might also be it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think it's both. I believe it's it's

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Speaker 3: like the old timey skeleton keys and they're like a

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Speaker 1: We do get some more context here actually, So I

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Speaker 2: So we're talking old keys, old keys. Yep.

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Speaker 1: My collection as a whole should easily be worth two

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Speaker 1: the keys. Some of these keys are super rare. I

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Speaker 1: kept them in a locked display cabinet, but a few

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Speaker 1: days ago I came home to find my entire collection gone.

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Speaker 1: The cabinet had been forced open. I checked the CCTV

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Speaker 3: I feel like the one thing she did lock is

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Speaker 2: There's no there's no master key for that. There's no

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Speaker 1: Uh then said that it was my fault and she

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Speaker 2: So she can steal it again. The grove.

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Speaker 1: Also, it's like that's like saying, like, hey, someone stole

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Speaker 2: It's like, well, it's.

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Speaker 3: A great idea. I don't know why you're shooting down

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Speaker 3: great ideas. You're just saying great things right now.

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Speaker 1: True, our master keys, buy a new car if it's stolen.

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Speaker 2: These are all great ideas, buy a new car.

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Speaker 1: So I refuse to let it go because a lot

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Speaker 1: Even I spent ten years building that collection. But my

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Speaker 2: Ooh, open up Pandora's box. There it is right, not

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Speaker 1: I had been a lurker before, but making an account

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Speaker 1: so I asked there. The resounding advice finally made me

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Speaker 1: steals something irreplaceable from me. Now, to answer some quick

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Speaker 1: Really wouldn't you do that if you had something valuable

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Speaker 1: any substances? No idea, She's always been crazy. Question number

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Speaker 1: four did mother in law steal from us before? Not

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Speaker 2: Five What kind of phone did mother in law get?

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Speaker 1: Not a clue, but probably one of the cheaper smartphones

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Speaker 1: with the amount of money she got selling my stuff?

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Speaker 2: Seems like you have a CCTV collection, or you have

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Speaker 2: Like it's like it's just like a camera, right.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, but I don't know setting like setting up

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Speaker 4: Well, I'd like to have video content of things that

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Speaker 3: You have a video camera pointed out like at your

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Speaker 2: What, of course is this what I'm thinking? Are you

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Speaker 1: It's priceless item? Yeah, I thought you had a camera

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Speaker 1: D printing, okay, just to check up on it. But

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Speaker 1: but mostly it's you guys.

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Speaker 2: All right. That's much better than what I thought you

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Speaker 1: So number six, did my wife use my money to

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Speaker 2: Yes, she did.

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Speaker 1: We primarily have separate accounts, but we do have a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, though in hindsight, I think she only did so

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Speaker 1: I was in a bad marriage fog before, but this

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Speaker 1: whole situation has snapped me right out of it. Question seven,

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Speaker 1: her mother would be so stupid to do something like that.

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Speaker 1: After mother in law was recently arrested, why was she

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Speaker 2: Like animal, are they gonna just like throw in jail

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Speaker 2: for a while?

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Speaker 3: And I mean, I can't imagine that someone got a

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Speaker 3: life in other areas.

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Speaker 2: This is not an isolated crow you know.

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Speaker 3: And stop once you realize the power of the crowbar,

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Speaker 3: that you can get three thousand dollars or of keys

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Speaker 3: with one little pop, Like, you're not gonna stop there.

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Speaker 2: Your villain arc is just beyond getting some ideas over here.

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Speaker 2: You want to you want to get a crowbar? Yeah? Maybe,

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Speaker 2: I mean this is this is kind of rowbar ass

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Speaker 2: that's paint a foam. You know, I could, I could

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Speaker 2: open something with it.

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Speaker 1: I have gotten my collection back, so it sounds like

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Speaker 1: OPI went out and got it back, and I've hidden

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Speaker 1: idea where it is. I will provide more details in

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let us know where it's at.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we won't tell anybody, just you guys. But

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Speaker 2: But I love when we pick it. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Ken Popcorn says, what did you have to do to

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Speaker 2: Couple of days. How did the police get it?

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Speaker 1: Did Opie secretly already contact the police? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Who did, But the police are going to go into

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Speaker 3: the mother in law's house and be like, these keys

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Speaker 2: Who fuck? Like that?

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Speaker 1: You could ask the pawn shop owner like, hey, who

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Speaker 2: Right? And then probably.

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Speaker 3: Because did the wait the police confiscated them from the

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Speaker 1: Almost certainly because she had already sold them to the

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Speaker 2: Wait, so what happens to the pawn shop guy? That's

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Speaker 2: the question. Now we do have an update coming up, but.

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Speaker 1: What do we As of right now, Chat is saying

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Speaker 2: Divorce Chad, we love you, I love you.

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Speaker 1: But what do we what's the like, what's the short

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think you know, chat is of a

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Speaker 3: kind of right. This is not an isolated incidentt this.

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Speaker 3: It has continued and continued and continued, and it's made

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Speaker 3: I don't know, it seems like a fairly regular basis.

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Speaker 3: So it sounds like your life is better without your wife.

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Speaker 2: And mother in law than with your wife and mother

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Speaker 2: in law. And when that's true, like that just that

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Speaker 1: So I feel like at least marriage counseling to maybe

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Speaker 3: Because I'm going to be like, you have the conversation. Sorry, sorry, sorry,

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Speaker 3: but my intention was conversation. Conversation doesn't go well?

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Speaker 2: Divorced, yes, yeah, yeah?

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Speaker 1: And do we tell the police press charges all that

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Speaker 2: And crow?

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Speaker 3: I think I think the issue here is and what

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Speaker 3: will probably say is if you don't hold her accountable,

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Speaker 2: Like you're are they bullying me or doing me a favor?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: It depends which nipple you like twisted and how much. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I think John, they would probably be doing you a favor.

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Speaker 2: We know what you like. But yeah, I think I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna say I think I'm disagreeing with you

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Speaker 1: that if if we're assuming Opie has a conversation, goes

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Speaker 1: protect your own sanity and move on with your life.

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Speaker 2: Unless you think she's gonna strike again. I agreed.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we agree, we agree, But we're now getting into

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Speaker 1: not just the updates, but the never before seen update,

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Speaker 2: So the Snyder cut extended back to what happened. The

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Speaker 1: The police did come and take my statement a bit

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Speaker 1: I had video footage and the documentation of my collection. Ready, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's mother in law's cooked opie has all the evidence

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Speaker 1: of the world. And then there was some text mother

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Speaker 3: Said that just so naturally you said that Jen alpha slag,

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Speaker 1: And then there are some tech that went out that

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Speaker 1: I went out of my way to get from mother

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Speaker 2: She couldn't lie to the police.

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Speaker 1: When I texted her demanding she give my collection back,

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Speaker 1: I told her to at least tell me what pawn

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Speaker 1: for them. The dimwit admitted it all right away with

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Speaker 1: they'd call it a civil matter since it was thief,

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Speaker 1: since the thief was my mother in law and she

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Speaker 2: So that's how they got it.

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Speaker 1: I got it all back from the police after a

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Speaker 1: The pawnshop pretty much gave the entire key collection to

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Speaker 1: as far as I can tell, it's all there. That

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Speaker 2: Two days straight because of this ordeal.

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Speaker 1: Also, the cabinets that mother in law broke into is

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Speaker 1: for a whopping total of three hundred dollars. Wow, girl

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Speaker 1: does it no keys? She really doesn't. For a collection

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Speaker 1: three grand as a total, the low number felt like

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Speaker 1: he's like, they even devalued my precious keys.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna steal my keys? At least got a good price, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Likely the prawn broker knew how valuable the collection was

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Speaker 1: as a whole. I mean, it's not like hitting a

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Speaker 4: Easy flip, easy flip.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's not like hitting the jackpot or anything,

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Speaker 1: but the money is still money, especially when a dumb

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Speaker 2: Money is still money. Op four. I love that phrase.

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Speaker 1: Darn tutin anyone else here, mister crab's laughing money.

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Speaker 2: Many money.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, the cost of repayment to the shop was supposed

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Speaker 2: Dude. I wonder how.

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Speaker 3: Often that happens with pawn shops where they Yeah, I mean, like,

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Speaker 3: I'm I feel like people fence this kind of stuff

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend used to work for a pawn shop and

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Speaker 3: But like, like, how often is it someone stealing something

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Speaker 1: I think the vast majority are owned by the person,

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Speaker 1: but there's definitely people who come and pond and stuff

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Speaker 1: of our joint account instead. From what the shop owner said,

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Speaker 1: mother in law told them the key collection belonged to

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Speaker 1: Rest in peace to our young king.

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Speaker 4: Dude, h what do you call it? Defamation?

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Speaker 2: So court, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Sewer everything all the flat cats in her house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, god, one hundred bucks per flat cats.

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Speaker 3: She had totally forgotten that this person lives in a

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Speaker 2: Say that was so far away.

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Speaker 1: So we've had a lot of things happen about and

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Speaker 1: she was sick of the whole collection just sitting in

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Speaker 1: wait wait wait, wait wait she was saying that the yeah, yes,

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Speaker 2: Just the does she sit in the bicycle trailer. It's

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Speaker 4: So she could put more stuff in it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she can't live without her hoard. Yeah, it's like

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Speaker 4: You can find more stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, Yeah, that's her dump truck. I mean, she

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Speaker 3: I would make I feel like if she had a

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Speaker 3: she would still have more stuff to get rid of.

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Speaker 2: That true, there's teds are buried in there, and she.

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Speaker 2: It's true ever going cycle.

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Speaker 1: She lives in a long paid off house, and she

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Speaker 2: And she always counts on my wife to pick up

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Speaker 1: My wife and I got into a huge fight when

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Speaker 1: a fun thing, but I told her I am done

444
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:08,520
Speaker 1: with her enabling a forr toxic mother. I said I

445
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 1: was changing the locks asap and banning her mother from

446
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 1: the house. And I also said that either we got

447
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 1: marriage counseling or I'd be inquiring about my options for

448
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 1: separation from an attorney.

449
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 2: Woo. I thought my.

450
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:27,160
Speaker 1: Wife would beg me not to do that, but instead

451
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:30,920
Speaker 1: she just called me horrible, packed a suitcase, and walked

452
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:32,920
Speaker 1: out on me to go stay in a motel. Who

453
00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:35,359
Speaker 1: I just sat on the couch and let her go.

454
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 1: She repeatedly looked like she was waiting for me to

455
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:45,680
Speaker 1: ask her to stay, but I didn't. Lady, Dang, you've

456
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 1: locked the door shut and the keys they're not there anymore.

457
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 2: Although I do feel like he was kind of expecting

458
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 2: her to want to stay as well.

459
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 1: True, they're both like they're playing chicken. They both want

460
00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 1: the other be like, oh, no, it's okay, but then

461
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 1: they're just like.

462
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 3: No, yeah, which I mean I guess neither of them

463
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,680
Speaker 3: want to be in the relationship. Really, you're playing a

464
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 3: relationship chicken.

465
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 2: You can't wait for the other person to try to

466
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:14,880
Speaker 2: bring it all back. Done, You're done.

467
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,199
Speaker 1: In the morning, she texted saying that she'd bailed her

468
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 1: mother out of jail and wanted me to transfer her

469
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 1: the money to pay for it, since I was the

470
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 1: one who got her mother arrested. Guys, it is getting worse.

471
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: When I said no, all I got was back was

472
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 1: the sarcastic. Wow wow, And that was it long. Not

473
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 1: too long after that, I had a gut feeling and

474
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 1: I checked the balance on the shared bank account and

475
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 1: my wife had taken out a lot of money from it.

476
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 1: I wasn't sure if that was all she needed for

477
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,919
Speaker 1: the bail, so I called upon shop. Later, the owner

478
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,239
Speaker 1: confirmed that my wife had come in and paid him

479
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 1: back the three hundred dollars that he'd paid her mother

480
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,120
Speaker 1: for the keys. He was also quite angry and said

481
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: that he didn't want any of us in his shop

482
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:06,640
Speaker 1: ever again. I understood his anger, and weirdly enough, had

483
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 1: a fairly long talk with this guy, and he understands

484
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: now that I'm not part of the crazy guys. Sometimes

485
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 1: you lose a wife, a mother in law, and priceless possessions,

486
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 1: but you gain a pawnshop friend.

487
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 2: That's just how life goes sometimes.

488
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 4: Never forget that. Also, you see how he didn't chicken

489
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:27,959
Speaker 4: out on the pawnshop guy. He's like, we actually had

490
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:29,480
Speaker 4: a long talk, and when I talked him through that

491
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 4: I'm not crazy.

492
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 1: We came to a resolution. Is oping the wrong for

493
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 1: not going further? You tell me, chat, you tell me

494
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,680
Speaker 1: comment below. I tried to call and text my wife

495
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 1: for hours, but she didn't answer. That evening I managed

496
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 1: to find her. I knew which motel she'd likely go to,

497
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 1: and I was right. It was both cheap and not

498
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 1: far away.

499
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 2: Ouch.

500
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 1: I found her car and then figured out which room

501
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 1: she was in. She looked positively shocked to see me

502
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: when I opened the door. I confronted her about the

503
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,880
Speaker 1: money she'd used from our shared to count. She basically

504
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: said that since I refused to pay her mother's bail

505
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 1: after I was the one who had her arrested, she

506
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 1: got the money from me one way or another. Then

507
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,920
Speaker 1: smugly stated that she wasn't paying that money back into

508
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 1: the shared to count this time, and told me that

509
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 1: that's the karma I get, before shutting the door in

510
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 1: my face.

511
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:26,159
Speaker 3: Oh, she does not want to be in that relationship.

512
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 3: That is I think she's didn't Ooh motel, cheap motel.

513
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 4: Door already open.

514
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 2: Yep, no, no, no keys? Who was going out?

515
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:41,640
Speaker 1: And it seems the apple has not fallen far from

516
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 1: the tree. Opie's wife is getting more and acting more

517
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: and more like her mother.

518
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 4: Hey, I'm starting to see some flat cats here.

519
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 2: Mmm, who knows?

520
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 1: Maybe she goes back to that pawn shop and gets

521
00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 1: all the materials necessary.

522
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, gets the toolkit.

523
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 1: Then then she said through the door that she'd call

524
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: the cops on me if I didn't leave. The smug

525
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 1: look she'd given me reminded me of nasty teenage girls

526
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: when they get their way, and it really ticked me off.

527
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 1: I already knew my marriage was pretty much over, but

528
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 1: that night it really sank in. I had a long

529
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: sit down with some old video games in Cola to

530
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 1: think about my future. The house is rented, so I'm

531
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 1: not renewing my half of the lease, and we'll soon

532
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 1: be apartment hunting. The last month of the lease is

533
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: in March, but I may leave sooner, depending on how

534
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 1: soon I can find an apartment. We have no kids yet,

535
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: thank God, so truly, so that's another thing I currently

536
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: have in my favor now.

537
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 2: The next day, I changed the.

538
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 1: Locks on the house, and I removed all of my

539
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,400
Speaker 1: money from the joint bank account and stopped all automated

540
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:54,399
Speaker 1: payments to and from it.

541
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Speaker 4: He can't do that. He can't change the locks on

542
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 4: the house unless unless he gives copy.

543
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 3: His wife, unless he owns the house out right, And

544
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 3: it was a pre marital asset the renting. Unless she's

545
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 3: not on the lease she is, then he can't do that.

546
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 1: We've come right back around, good comment producer Riley.

547
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 2: I made sure to take only the.

548
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: Amount of money that I had put into the account,

549
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 1: so there's still more than enough in it for me

550
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 1: to break even and still leave the minimum required balance

551
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: on the account. Either way, the cost of mother in

552
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 1: law's bail and paying back the pawnshock was now entirely

553
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 1: out of my wife's pocket now, So to be clear,

554
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: not only did Ope withdraw all of his half from

555
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 1: the joint account, he also withdrew I believe the amount

556
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 1: that he for bail the and the pawn shop, and

557
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: I don't think she's notified yet, but it shouldn't be long.

558
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:58,239
Speaker 1: I've been to a couple of divorced lawyers already, and

559
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 1: I picked the second one since the first seemed like

560
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 1: they were only there for a paycheck.

561
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,160
Speaker 2: I'll have the divorce paper served soon.

562
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 1: I loved my wife, but it's clear that she didn't

563
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 1: love me, so I can't stay with her anymore. She

564
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 1: can have her thieving, hoardy mommy all to herself.

565
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 3: That thing, hordy mommy sounds like a great of kind

566
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 3: of sorry, thieving horder mommy. I still like hoardy mommy.

567
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 2: It works either way.

568
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: We both have very comparable incomes, so I'll be pushing

569
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 1: for a clean split, divorce.

570
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:29,160
Speaker 2: Nice.

571
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 1: So the woman didn't deserve me and I fell for

572
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 1: the act. The veil has, it's fully it's fully pulled.

573
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: We are seeing everything without rose tanted glasses. Now, she

574
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 1: didn't want a husband, she wanted.

575
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 2: An insurance plan O dropping force.

576
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: I'll be clear on this. I won't be changing my

577
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: mind about divorce. My soon to be ex wife can

578
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: beg and love Bambi all she wants, and even if

579
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: she bothers to. I've never been her number one, and

580
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna settle for being number two in my

581
00:28:59,560 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: own name.

582
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 2: Marriage.

583
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: It is our boom, done done.

584
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 2: We have an edda coming up. But how do you

585
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 2: feel about that?

586
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 3: I mean I feel we went into this update, you know,

587
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 3: saying like, hey, let's keep a levelhead, let's see what

588
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 3: she responds or what her response is to asking for counseling,

589
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 3: and she went even a little bit more ballistic.

590
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 2: So I think it's uh. I think it's a clear

591
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 2: cut divorced.

592
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: She's proven are we sure we're not thinking too small

593
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: like our We're not putting our heads in such a tiny,

594
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: tiny space that we're not thinking of all of the possibilities.

595
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, are we are? We psych right on top

596
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 2: of our heads and we don't even know what's happening,

597
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

598
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we've we've fully assessed every little nook

599
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,479
Speaker 3: and cranny. I think our heads are warm with the thoughts,

600
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 3: that's true. Yeah, I think I think we're chilling.

601
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: So let's get into the editge. Yes, I asked the

602
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 1: landlord to allow me to change the locks. Okay, so, okay, cool,

603
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 1: But is that I feel like it's still not a

604
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 1: still not Yeah, it's like even the landlord said that

605
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 1: may not be legal. Yeah, maybe we're not sure. Let

606
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: us know in the chatt and comments if you know.

607
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: He was all for it when I told him what

608
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 1: had happened. All I had to do was mail him

609
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 1: a copy of the new key, and always comes back

610
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: around to the keys. He doesn't want mother in law

611
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 1: to ever have a key to that house again.

612
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 4: Okay, So I think it's for the mother in law

613
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 4: that they changed the locks.

614
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 3: Oh so, so she still has access to the key.

615
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 2: Mother in law does not.

616
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 4: We we don't know the if she has access to

617
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 4: the key.

618
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: I feel like it might be for I think he

619
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: said a bit earlier that he's changing it for the

620
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: wife as well.

621
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:49,959
Speaker 2: Oh wow, and that he doesn't want her back. Well yeah,

622
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 2: but if she's on the lease, is that like allow?

623
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. That is still unclear. We don't know.

624
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 1: He doesn't want my mother in a lot to have

625
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: a key to the house again. So onto some relevant comments.

626
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 1: Irish Una says, I am so sorry, however justified, it

627
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: still hurts Opi oh, and Opie says, I've become numb

628
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 1: to the pain now, but it was bad when it hit. Okay,

629
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: Lady nineteen fifty two says, let us know if there

630
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: are any updates, because she's probably going to be pretty

631
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: pissed when she finds out that she is the one

632
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: that ended up paying up for her mother's bail. Karma

633
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 1: came back around and bit her in the butt. Good luck,

634
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: Opie says, I have another post to update to make soon,

635
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: so keep an eye out for that, which we are

636
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 1: about to get into.

637
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 2: The title is update three ooh divorce. Okay, so we're

638
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 2: getting we're getting into divorced territory.

639
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: That's what we're getting into. Okay, one quick question before

640
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: we get into it. Yeah, is it also where we

641
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: were asking about, is it like legal to change the

642
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 1: locks on the on the on the wife. Is it

643
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 1: also legal for OPI to take out that money from

644
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 1: the shared account?

645
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 3: I mean she took out them, that's true, that's and

646
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 3: she took out the money. Like he's just rectifying.

647
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 2: This.

648
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 3: It's neutral at this point, it's new, it's yeah, but

649
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 3: still neutral, but still in Opie's favor, Like I think,

650
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 3: I think it's not like.

651
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: We're still in her favor because there's less money in

652
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: the overall. But yeah, still legal. Okay, so there's not

653
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: a double I mean, I don't know.

654
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 3: I'm no lawyer. I'm just a man with a tiny hat.

655
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 3: But right, I think a big heart, Yeah, trying trying

656
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 3: to try

657
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 2: We try, we try a big goodness gracious well