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Speaker 1: I share will Good morning everybody. You are listening to

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Speaker 1: Steve harvey Man got a radio show. What God doing, y'all? Huh?

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Speaker 1: What are he doing? What are you doing in your life?

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Speaker 1: He's doing something, He moving, he working. Don't lose your

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Speaker 1: Don't don't. Don't get so sick of waiting that you

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Speaker 1: take matters into your own hands. Don't do that. Boy,

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Speaker 1: who's done it that way. I had a dream, I

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Speaker 1: God gave me the power of decision, what I had

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Speaker 1: All of that, All of that, it's gotta go down.

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Speaker 1: You can't do something wrong and not pay for it.

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Speaker 1: It's you call it, calma, call it whatever you wanna

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Speaker 1: call it. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction

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Speaker 1: no snitching. With that hignorant mess, you don't even understand.

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Speaker 1: No snitching was created by criminals as a code of honor.

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Speaker 1: Let me share something I learned. I was doing what

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Speaker 1: He said, that's what's wrong with you young people to day.

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Speaker 1: This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Yeah, today's show

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Speaker 1: is dedicated to people who don't have pleasant voices. All

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Speaker 1: show is dedicated to people with unpleasant voices. Oh. Now,

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Speaker 1: uncredibly irritating voices, ladies and gentlemen. This show is dedicated

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Speaker 1: to Mississippi. Money for this show is dedicated to Tania,

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Speaker 1: my stage crew, Tanya. Can Monica be together talking? It's

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Speaker 1: like a rep group called Squeaky and Crashing? Hey, Steve,

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Speaker 1: how you doing? I need a demonstration later? Please? Okay? Well,

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Speaker 1: no problem, hey Steve. Hey, Shirley, the moaning mornary. But

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Speaker 1: what's wrong? It's wrong? No? Oh, you didn't sound like

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Speaker 1: mister Hiby, how are you today? Welcome to family feud?

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Speaker 1: He don't need to be welcome to family feud? Child?

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Speaker 1: We need and we ain't bring no catfish with it now?

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Speaker 1: morning man today today calling Hi Monica time, Shirlotte. It's

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Speaker 1: just happy today gunpoint, Yeah, gunpoint and fit into Monica Steve,

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Speaker 1: what I mean, quits she doesn't like noise. I'm not

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Speaker 1: good morning, mister Harvey, how are you today? Fine? How

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Speaker 1: But right now it's time for the nephew to run

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Speaker 1: Everybody read it? All right, there, buckle up, here we go.

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Speaker 1: daddy Bote. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach a mister Wilson. Please,

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Speaker 1: mister Wilson, how are you today? Who is it? My

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Speaker 1: Ain't now I want you. I'm gonna touch my daddy's both.

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Speaker 1: That's only left me. I got one one thing I

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Speaker 1: Excuse me. All I have to say is this, This

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Speaker 1: I got up, all right, man, that's your brother told me.

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Speaker 1: He said, Man, he'd be going eddie with the homeowner Sodier,

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Speaker 1: He said, he'd killed you behind that dog. But I

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Speaker 1: it don't matter at all because that was daddy's boat.

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Speaker 1: That's all that mattered. It was my daddy boat. That's

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Speaker 1: the only thing my daddy left me with, this ragged

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Speaker 1: head boat. All y'all is going down. The Nephews coming

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Speaker 1: to town. September twenty four and twenty fifth. I would

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Speaker 1: be at West Palm Beach im prop tickets her own

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Speaker 1: sale right now, twenty four twenty fifth, two shows each night,

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Speaker 1: get them white of getting as good. I promise you

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Speaker 1: you will hear those famous words and show business. You

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Speaker 1: will hear sold out, all right, that's right. Twenty four,

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Speaker 1: twenty fifth September, Land in the Cup. I told b sixteenth, Troit, Michigan. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I gotta line up for your baby. I already told

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Speaker 1: you my girl. Oh Dominique is Dominique a beast junior Dominie? Yes?

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Speaker 1: All right? If Rodney Perry of beast, I'm just saying,

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Speaker 1: is he your beast? Yeah? Okay, Tommy Davidson, Oh what's

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Speaker 1: bigger than the beast? Was full of beast? God? Tori

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Speaker 1: is a beast for show baby and it's hosted by

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Speaker 1: yours truly nephew, Tommy. That right there, it's October the sixteenth.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to miss it. That's in Detroit, Michigan.

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Speaker 1: Tickets on sale red not laying in the cut in

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Speaker 1: November Jacksonville, Flayda and Dave know how yo, the Nephew's

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Speaker 1: coming to town. That it is. You want more information,

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Speaker 1: go to my website Thomas Miles dot com. All right,

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Speaker 1: coming up next, more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Steve Show. All right now, Jay,

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Speaker 1: this is a common the segment you wrote what it's

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Speaker 1: all things men say when they don't want to talk

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Speaker 1: about it. For example, phrases they say, just little words,

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Speaker 1: little phrases like the phrase I don't know come up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is just a more creative way lying. Come on,

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Speaker 1: just a list of summer summer? All right, that's what

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Speaker 1: you got? You know, I'm know hoping to get in trouble.

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Speaker 1: I don't worry about time you got your dad ain't

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Speaker 1: got nothing to do with it. I gonna live here, Junior,

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Speaker 1: just one of my favorites. Also, we back there again?

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Speaker 1: Are we back there again? I thought we'd covered this.

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Speaker 1: These are lines, whatnot? I j Lines that men use

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Speaker 1: when they don't want to talk about it at all. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I got you got? Did you see me? You see me?

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Speaker 1: Did you see me? I got? Here? We go? Here

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Speaker 1: we go? Please? Please? Not today? Really not today? All right?

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Speaker 1: Not today? Whatever? Today? All day? Tell me? Can I

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Speaker 1: just watch the game and I do that? That bad boy? Don't? It?

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Speaker 1: Don't make no sense. But I'll tell you one thing.

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Speaker 1: This is what I always like to say, because I

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Speaker 1: because of my condition, because I have my hip hurt.

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Speaker 1: These are things men say when they don't want to

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Speaker 1: talk about it. What you got, Steve? I just can't

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Speaker 1: do nothing right here? We go. I got what things

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Speaker 1: been saying they don't want to talk about. That was

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Speaker 1: ten years ago. Damn, Oh my god? And what things

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Speaker 1: you don't want to talk ab what you got? Look?

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Speaker 1: I got to be on the radio in the morrow

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Speaker 1: with a trim mans. I cannot do this. I've used

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Speaker 1: that one before, my felt men saying they don't want

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Speaker 1: to talk about it. I just walked into dough. Now

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Speaker 1: can I just get in the house right now, Jane?

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Speaker 1: Men saving that one time? About what you got? Steve?

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Speaker 1: I know you got one man? Damn what now? I

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Speaker 1: like that straight to Damn? What now? It's fun about what? What? What? What?

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Speaker 1: I mean like that? Fuck? What? God? I don't mean no,

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Speaker 1: I don't mean no harm. Is it just that time

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Speaker 1: of the month, right, you're gonna get told? Yeah, come on, see,

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Speaker 1: don't do this to you before. Don't do this. Don't

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Speaker 1: put the baby in it and think we're gonna back right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: Let's get to the news, ladies and gentlemen, Miss Anne

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Speaker 1: and trip. This is an trip with the news. It's

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Speaker 1: very interesting and not that good. Thirteen US service members

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Speaker 1: killed in Afghanistan yesterday thirteen, marking the first time any

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Speaker 1: Americans had lost their life over there, and over a

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Speaker 1: year and fifteen other US military personnel were injured. Dozens

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Speaker 1: of Afghan civilians also killed and were turned out to

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Speaker 1: be two suicide bombies just outside Cabal Airport. For days,

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Speaker 1: the Biden administrations have been telling anybody in that area

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Speaker 1: who would listen to stay away from the airport. But

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Speaker 1: I guess folks just really wanted to get out of

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Speaker 1: the country and they didn't listen. In a news conference

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Speaker 1: later in the day, President Biden's tone was somber but

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Speaker 1: also resolute. To those who carried out this attack, as

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Speaker 1: well as anyone who wishes America harm, know this. We

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Speaker 1: will not forgive. We will not forget. We will hunt

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Speaker 1: you down and make you pay. The State Department says

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Speaker 1: the Taliban sworn enemies, a group called isis K, was responsible,

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Speaker 1: but added that meanwhile, the rescue would an evacuation mission

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Speaker 1: continues as planned, and that, of course, of course, will

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Speaker 1: be August thirty first, that's going to be the last

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Speaker 1: day that we were out. That's fast approaching. Once more.

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Speaker 1: Thirteen Americans killed yesterday, along with ninety five Afghan Authorities

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Speaker 1: looking for members of a group that claim responsibility isis K. Meanwhile,

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Speaker 1: the exit strategy continues. Seventy five hundred people were flown

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Speaker 1: out of Afghanistan yesterday, meaning that at least one hundred

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Speaker 1: and four thousand people have so far been evacuated. The

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Speaker 1: US military is flying in food everybody supplies to remote

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Speaker 1: mountain areas of Haiti, where residents still struggling to survive

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Speaker 1: yet another big quake that struck that country over a

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Speaker 1: week ago, a toll of eight state, setting new records

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Speaker 1: for the most hospitalized COVID patients since the star of

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Speaker 1: the pandemic. Several US Capital police officers have filed a

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Speaker 1: federal lawsuit against foreign president Donald Trump and others for

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Speaker 1: inciting the January sixth assault on the Capitol. Saint also

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Speaker 1: named in the suit of Trump's pal Roger Stone, and

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Speaker 1: far right groups the Proud Boys and the OA. He

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Speaker 1: is just the latest with several lawsuits filed against Trump

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Speaker 1: and his supporters aimed at holding them all accountable for

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Speaker 1: what happened that day. Finally, the people who make your

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Speaker 1: Oreos chips, Ahoy and rich Crackers on strike in five

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Speaker 1: states Oregon, Illinois, Colorado, Virginia, Georgia. Works at the company

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Speaker 1: say Mandalay the boss unreasonable demands that they're making at

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Speaker 1: the contract table, like instituting twelve hours shifts and stuff.

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Speaker 1: You gotta settle, guys, because I love my oreos and

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Speaker 1: my chips. Ahoy, I have to have them. That guy

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Speaker 1: loves cookie. You got that right, and so does this girl.

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Speaker 1: Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to show. Well, guess what, Steve, we have more relationship

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Speaker 1: questions for you from Steve Harvey FM. You know you're

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Speaker 1: our Chief Love Officer CLO, so your help? Yeah, all right?

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Speaker 1: This is from Sherwanna in Dallas. Swanna says Steve. I've

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Speaker 1: been dating a great guy for seven years and we've

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Speaker 1: known each other for thirteen years. Things have been great,

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Speaker 1: and I don't want I want to be with him forever.

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Speaker 1: My question for you is kind of woman proposed to

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Speaker 1: a man? No? No, But the question, your deeper question,

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Speaker 1: is you want to be with him forever? You need

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Speaker 1: to ask the question does he want to be with

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Speaker 1: you forever? And what's in it for him to get married?

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Speaker 1: If you all have been seeing each other for seven years, been,

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Speaker 1: what did she say they're doing for thirteen they've known

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Speaker 1: each other for thirteen, known each other thirteen being seeing

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Speaker 1: each other seven? Did she say how old she was? No,

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Speaker 1: she did not. Maybe he don't want her, Maybe he

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Speaker 1: just wants something from her at seven years. I think

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Speaker 1: all she has to do is sit down and say, hey,

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Speaker 1: can we have ain't listen to me? I want to

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Speaker 1: say something to you that I think you should hear. Hell, yeah, baby,

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Speaker 1: what's that? I love you? You have told me that

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Speaker 1: you love me, and we've been together for seven years.

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Speaker 1: Can you tell me exactly what your plans are for

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Speaker 1: me moving forward? Yeah, that's a simple question. That ain't

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Speaker 1: that ain't making him marry you. That ain't no ultimatum,

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Speaker 1: And just let him tell you what he wants from

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Speaker 1: you moving forward. You've already had seven years, and if

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Speaker 1: he says the same thing that you already got, then

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Speaker 1: he has no other plans for you than what you

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Speaker 1: already getting. But Steve, I'm going to assume that she's

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Speaker 1: a young woman. So and a lot of young women

563
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Speaker 1: believe it or not feel this way, that it's okay,

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Speaker 1: you know, we don't care blah blah blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: So you need to laser in on why a woman

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Speaker 1: should not propose to a man. Not that why you can.

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Speaker 1: But let me ask you a question. If you're leaving

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Speaker 1: it up to a man to say whether he wants

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Speaker 1: to get married or not, and he hasn't asked you,

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Speaker 1: and you force him to tell you the answer is no,

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Speaker 1: that is a much slicker way to go about it,

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Speaker 1: because if the man wanted to marry you, he'd ask you.

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Speaker 1: You asking him ain't gonna make him jump. If a

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Speaker 1: man don't want to jump, he's not jumping, he's not

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Speaker 1: jumping because you asked him. You. You're gonna get some

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Speaker 1: answers like, hey, you know, I'm trying to give myself together.

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Speaker 1: Y'all thought about it with you. You're gonna hear stuff like,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm cool the way it is. I love you.

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Speaker 1: You know why you're gonna hear this from right here?

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00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 1: Why mess this up? We got a good thing. You

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00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:36,439
Speaker 1: want to mess this up? Oh me? And got all

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Speaker 1: types of wonderful stuff that make you second guess yourself.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 1: Show right after this. You're listening to show all right

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Speaker 1: time now for a comedy roulette. Come on, Jay, set

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Speaker 1: it up, please, let me break it down for you.

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Speaker 1: We take three subjects, put those three subjects on a wheel,

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Speaker 1: spun the wheel where the wheel stops be. Because we

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Speaker 1: are comedians, we can make the damn thing funny. Watch

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Speaker 1: us watches all right. Here are today's categories. Number one,

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Speaker 1: Things people say when they don't know they are on

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Speaker 1: speaker phone. Things your mate, things your mate has that

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Speaker 1: you wish they would throw away. And then how about

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Speaker 1: this one. Things that a friend says to embarrass you.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, those are three good ones. Ready ye throw away?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, it stops on. We've all been here. Things

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Speaker 1: people say when they don't know they are on speaker phone.

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Speaker 1: Let's go, here we go. Things people say when they

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Speaker 1: don't know they don't speak a phone. I ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: that whole house. Think I ain't gonna the whole house.

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Speaker 1: Look here, I'm gonna say this here. If if Larry

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Speaker 1: them over there, I ain't coming because you know I

603
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Speaker 1: don't blank it blank with Larry. You already know that

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Speaker 1: you know I don't. This is things people say when

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Speaker 1: they don't know they don't speaker phone. Here's ass on

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Speaker 1: the phone on the phone, people saying they don't know

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Speaker 1: they don't speaker phone. Yeah, I got five dollars, but

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna len it the hert ass. I wish

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Speaker 1: the hell out. Hey, listen, it's uh Is the runner

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Speaker 1: got her big answer. People off my couch because she

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Speaker 1: the reason why the couch uneven. Not she the main ring.

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Speaker 1: Why honey, Hey you're on speaker phone. They can hear

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Speaker 1: your people say speak man, I can't stay none of

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Speaker 1: their ass. You want speaker let me pick up. I

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Speaker 1: think people say when they don't know they don't speaker phone.

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Speaker 1: I went to hell, I would go to the funeral.

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Speaker 1: I didn't like you when he was alive. Hey, they

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Speaker 1: looking in can tell you something? I won't let me

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Speaker 1: tell you something. Girl. I want you to do what

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Speaker 1: you did with the jelly, that same thing, what you

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Speaker 1: do with that lad? You do that strange say when

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Speaker 1: they don't know that. Come see things people say when

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Speaker 1: they don't know they don't speaker phone. It's his uglass

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Speaker 1: mama over there. I love it. I love it things

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Speaker 1: people say what they don't know they don't speaker phone.

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Speaker 1: He got a brand new cop, but he missing sixteeth.

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Speaker 1: Now that don't make no damn. See, you're right about

628
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: that hey, hey, hey, hey, why ain't over there? You

629
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Speaker 1: don't You don't even know I'm hitting his old lady.

630
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 1: You don't even know that. I don't know. Dog loves

631
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:08,800
Speaker 1: it out man. Thanks. People say when they don't know.

632
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 1: They all speak a phone. Hey, hey, no, you left

633
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:25,720
Speaker 1: your panties over here? Mama's everybody looking at the phone.

634
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 1: Oh hey, I'll oh hey, miss Jacobs speaking all right,

635
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: Thank you, guys. That's comedy Roulette. Coming up next, nephew

636
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 1: in the building with today's praying phone call. Right after this,

637
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 1: you're listening, coming up at the top of the hour,

638
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today,

639
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: subject my lady acts like a man and thinks like

640
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 1: a man. Okay, but right now the nephew is here

641
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: with today prying phone call. What you got now, doctor Petrie?

642
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 1: I need some help, Doctor Petrie. I need some help, Rennie. Hello,

643
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach doctor Petrie. Please. This is doctor Petrie,

644
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 1: Doctor Petrie. I'm my name is a Jared Jared, and

645
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: I was open you can help me. I would have

646
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 1: would would have with a problem that I have. Okay, Hello, Jared, um,

647
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 1: I would love to help you. Out with a problem, unfortunately,

648
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: Doctor Petrie. Right, I am, but this is my personal number.

649
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 1: How did you get this number? Somebody gave me this

650
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: number so I could call you and and and try

651
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:40,399
Speaker 1: to get some counseling from you, because I gotta I mean, I'm, I'm,

652
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: I'm I'm, I'm really in a bad situation right now. Okay,

653
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 1: I can I can recognize that that you're in a

654
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 1: bad situation. But how did you get my number? This

655
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: is my personal line? Who gave you my number? Are you? You?

656
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: You the doctor? You're the counselor to help people with

657
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: with with with with situations and problems and stuff. Right, yes,

658
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 1: I am, Ared? What can I do for you? Jared? Uh?

659
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 1: I got a problem that just seemed like I'm just

660
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 1: you know, I've been married to my wife for six years. Okay, wait,

661
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 1: wait wait Jared, Now this what you're what you're about

662
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 1: to get into. You're about to you want to go

663
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,800
Speaker 1: into a counseling session. And so in order to do that,

664
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: I do that through making an appointment all of that.

665
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:23,320
Speaker 1: But to you, you all understand I'm trying to What

666
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you is that I gotta situate

667
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:28,760
Speaker 1: and I know it's gonna happen again to night because

668
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 1: it's been happening it all the time. I'm just I

669
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 1: just need something. If you could just give me a

670
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 1: little bit of help and then I'll come in next week.

671
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 1: But I mean, I just need you to tell me

672
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 1: how to handle my problem and then I'll come in

673
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: next week. I just I just I need this bad

674
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 1: right now, Jared. Jared, Jared, I need you to focus. Okay.

675
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 1: I don't do this over the phone, However, it sounds

676
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 1: to me like you really need I need you. Can

677
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: you can you be there for me just for a week. Yeah,

678
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm here right here for calling you and disrupting your weekend,

679
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,439
Speaker 1: but can you help me out? I don't know what's

680
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: going on. Someone Jason Hello, Hell them, I'll call him back. Hello,

681
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 1: I'm here, Jared, doctor patriot. I'm here. Tell me telling

682
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: what's going on? Jared. I'm here to listen to you. Okay, listen.

683
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 1: I've been I've been mad to my wife for like

684
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 1: six years now, and I don't know what it is.

685
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 1: But whenever, whenever we intimate, you know, I guess scared

686
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 1: and I'm going to the closet and I got a

687
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 1: TV in then I watched old TV shows because I'm scared.

688
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: I'm scared of the intimacy between me and huh. Okay, Jared,

689
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:37,720
Speaker 1: this this sounds like a particular case. Um, it's different

690
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:41,439
Speaker 1: from anything that I've experienced thus far. And I want

691
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 1: to make sure that I address you were up in

692
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:47,719
Speaker 1: the big league. Get not turn it back? What Lord?

693
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,839
Speaker 1: Will we live? You will leave? Baby? He ain't nothing

694
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: long with that? Okay, Jared's focus. You called me and

695
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: you need me. I'll be going. I'll be going through

696
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 1: it and be army. Okay, Jared. What I need to

697
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 1: do is I need to make sure three o'clock, four

698
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 1: o'clock Rock, five, six o'clock, and o'clock Rock o'clock Rock.

699
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 1: We're going to rock Rock the clock to night, whin

700
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:17,399
Speaker 1: the clock right through all win the band, go down,

701
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 1: kick kick, but to breed, breed? Oh, how did you

702
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 1: get my number? How did you get my personal number?

703
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:32,879
Speaker 1: They gave me a number and said you you would

704
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 1: be the one that would that would that would that

705
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:39,280
Speaker 1: would that would take care of me. I'm here, Okay,

706
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 1: let's take a difference. And you knew where you were

707
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 1: then girls were girls and men were men. Wishing we

708
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:50,280
Speaker 1: could use a man like her. But Hubert Rack again,

709
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 1: let's just sat together. I want to help you. I

710
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: want to help you, and I want to help your situation.

711
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:56,400
Speaker 1: I want to help you with your wife. But you

712
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: you called me, and I mean if you're looking for

713
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 1: a lifeline for an anchor, I'm trying to do that.

714
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: I mean, easy to help me, help me with more acacy.

715
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 1: I know my wife is gonna leave me if I

716
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: don't quit doing this. Here's this story of a lovely lady,

717
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 1: not three barely lovely girl. Jared. My technique is a

718
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:23,400
Speaker 1: little bit different, is and maybe a little unorthodox. Not

719
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 1: a fearless crew. The minto would be lost, the mood

720
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 1: would be lost. The minta look here, look here. I

721
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: means you needs you to help me. I need to

722
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 1: get you into my office. I need to schedule an

723
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 1: appointment with you. You need to erase my personal number

724
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: from your cell phone because everybody knows your name. Jared. Focus, Focus, focus,

725
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 1: Jared focus. There's a lot more going on here. But

726
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 1: once you're making out of fun now with me and

727
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 1: all the game learning from each other. Why we do

728
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:05,880
Speaker 1: I say gonna have a good time? You know what Jared's.

729
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: My patience is fed up. I have no more patience

730
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 1: with you now. I need you to face fuckers and

731
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 1: get it together back. Why didn't you call me? Why

732
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:17,800
Speaker 1: didn't you? How did you get my number? At me?

733
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:20,720
Speaker 1: Why don't you supposed to be a doctor. You're supposed

734
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 1: to be the doctor, and my doctor. Don't question my credential.

735
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: Shoe man, you called me. I want to help you,

736
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: but this has gone on too far. This is Tommy.

737
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:34,760
Speaker 1: Gave me yo number for me too, Steve? You know Steve,

738
00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: don't you? Now? Look I want to help you, but

739
00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: you are not allowing me to do so. So who

740
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 1: is Tommy? Who is Stephen? And how did you get

741
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 1: my number? Is on the radio? No, no, it's Stephen

742
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 1: on the Steven on the radio as in I'm a

743
00:49:56,840 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 1: radio as in Tommy, mas are you? Tommy? You have

744
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 1: been prank Who knows you didn't go? Oh? My god?

745
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 1: Do you have a colleague named Charles? You know what

746
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ki? Oh? Look that I can't believe Charlie

747
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 1: did this to me? My gosh, do you know what

748
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,800
Speaker 1: time you got? What? You got? Me? Flustered? I was

749
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:30,439
Speaker 1: recording you I have you know that Oh, I gotta

750
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: ask you something though, what is the baddest and I

751
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 1: mean the baddest radio show in the land. That's Steve

752
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: have and Shuttle Baby good just Donna fry An the kids,

753
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 1: Things don't burn? Does that the fact of the poor

754
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 1: doctor Petriet myself? My music? You just talk busting out

755
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 1: of him? Damn. So yeah, man, leave me something now

756
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:28,320
Speaker 1: we up? Keep stupid? Keep you stupid? You do that

757
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 1: running a cloth looking old TV show? What you think?

758
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 1: President and CEO of Team Tommy, thank you, thank you

759
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:48,319
Speaker 1: appreciate that. That's a compliment. That's definitely a compliment. Oh

760
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:53,360
Speaker 1: my god, Breaking, I'm gonna tell y'all something, Break and eighty. No,

761
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 1: it's not. That's a nice little shirt right there. Breaking.

762
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:58,879
Speaker 1: You know that's somebody I got to do it. Yeah.

763
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 1: By the fact, Will that's a new TV show, Frank

764
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 1: and as you know, they will packer you list easy

765
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: bank at Easy. I like that. By the fact, breaking

766
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:13,279
Speaker 1: ain't easy? Will pack If you're listening Frank and Easy,

767
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:17,440
Speaker 1: come on right after riding a little or right before?

768
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 1: How do you want to do it? But pranking eight easy?

769
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 1: Are you having a meeting on the air? Yeah? Either

770
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 1: it's either meeting or he's vegan. He wanted to go

771
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 1: to hell team time it didn't. Just all right, stay tuned,

772
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 1: stay tuned. In fact, go to my website. Just good grits.

773
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:42,880
Speaker 1: That's g R I t Z Just good grits and

774
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 1: try time his flavors. All right, all right, look, we

775
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:48,439
Speaker 1: gotta get out of here. Thank you, nephew. Coming up next,

776
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 1: it is my Strawberry Letters. Subject my lady acts like

777
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,839
Speaker 1: a man and thinks like a man, Steve Harvey. We'll

778
00:52:55,880 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 1: get into the letter right after this. You're listening show.

779
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:05,839
Speaker 1: All right, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen.

780
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, on work, on dating,

781
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:14,719
Speaker 1: on sex, on parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry

782
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 1: Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay,

783
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 1: we could be reading your letter live on the air,

784
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,320
Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one live. You hear that,

785
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:27,640
Speaker 1: buggle up, Hold on tight, We got it for you. Here.

786
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter, subject my lady acts like

787
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:34,840
Speaker 1: a man and thinks like a man. Little play on

788
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 1: words there with the title of your book, Steve, you

789
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:42,720
Speaker 1: get that well anyway, Dear Stephen Shirley. I am dating

790
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:48,120
Speaker 1: a beautiful, strong, talented woman, and everything was okay in

791
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 1: the beginning until we had sex for the first time.

792
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: She controlled everything from start to finish, and she did

793
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 1: not let me do anything. She got on top and

794
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: that was it, and it seemed to go on forever.

795
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: I tried to talk to her and plead with her

796
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: to let me do some of the work, but she

797
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 1: was not trying to have it. The second time we

798
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:20,840
Speaker 1: had sex, she brought in toys. Yes, my girl had toys,

799
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 1: and thought she was going to use them on us.

800
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 1: I stood my ground and told her that was not

801
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 1: going to happen. After that, I started noticing things like

802
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 1: her wanting to drive all the time when we go out,

803
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 1: and she always rubs my back in public and helps

804
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:42,160
Speaker 1: me out when I'm ordering food in restaurants. We were

805
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:45,960
Speaker 1: out last weekend and she grabbed my butt in public

806
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 1: in front of several of my boys, and they are

807
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 1: still joking with me about that. When we ride the

808
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 1: train together, she always insists that I sit and she

809
00:54:57,239 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: prefers to stand up. I that she is a very

810
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:06,440
Speaker 1: independent woman and that's why I love her, But I

811
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:09,320
Speaker 1: can't get with this type of behavior. I wear the

812
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 1: pants and I need her to know it. What can

813
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 1: I do to get her to back down and let

814
00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 1: me lead? Please give me your opinions on how I

815
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:21,879
Speaker 1: should handle this situation. Well, one thing's for sure. She's

816
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:24,759
Speaker 1: not a shy girl, is she not at all? No?

817
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 1: And she is a bit controlling. Wouldn't you say? I

818
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:33,280
Speaker 1: don't like the controlling part. I really don't. I wouldn't

819
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 1: like it if a man did it to a woman.

820
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:39,239
Speaker 1: I think she's a bit much. However, a lot of

821
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 1: men in your position would welcome this, they really would,

822
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: especially the sex part. Now, the public part about her

823
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 1: sitting on the you sitting on the train, and her

824
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 1: insisting that she stands, and and all of this and

825
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:58,799
Speaker 1: grabbing your But you know she's too much. I think

826
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:02,040
Speaker 1: you think she's too much to the point where it

827
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: isn't even fun for you. Uh. And I got to

828
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:08,399
Speaker 1: ask you, she did all this the very first time,

829
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 1: and then the second time she brought toys. You said

830
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:14,600
Speaker 1: you spoke up when she brought the toys. I guess you,

831
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: you know, put your foot down or something. And and

832
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 1: I just think you're gonna have to do much more

833
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 1: of that if it isn't too late. It might be

834
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 1: too late because she is in control of this relationship

835
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 1: whether you like it or not. You say, you wear

836
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:30,840
Speaker 1: the pants in the family, and you need her in

837
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:34,080
Speaker 1: the relationship and you need her to know it. Well, um,

838
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it's never too late. But you know,

839
00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:41,800
Speaker 1: she's wearing the pants. Okay, she's wearing the pants, and

840
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 1: she's in control, and you're doing what she's telling you

841
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:47,359
Speaker 1: to do. She tells you to sit down on the train,

842
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:51,359
Speaker 1: and guess what you do? Sit down on the train? Yeah,

843
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:56,799
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, what is it? Why? Why don't

844
00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:58,879
Speaker 1: you speak up? Why don't you let her know how

845
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:02,080
Speaker 1: you feel? What is going on here? Are you the

846
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 1: man in this relationship? You need to ask yourself that

847
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:08,840
Speaker 1: because she's pretty strong and you're doing exactly what she says.

848
00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:13,239
Speaker 1: That's my opinion in this situation. If you want to

849
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:15,719
Speaker 1: do something different, you got to talk to her about it.

850
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 1: If she'll listen. And if you're sitting and she's standing Steve, well, well, well,

851
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: my lady, act like a man and think like a man. Yeah,

852
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 1: you know, everything was okay in the beginning to we

853
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 1: mess my hand sex for the first time, she controlled

854
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 1: everything from start to finish. She did not let me

855
00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 1: do anything. She got on top, and that was it,

856
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 1: and it seemed to go on forever. Let's focus here.

857
00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: I don't know when the last time I've been had sex,

858
00:57:56,120 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 1: And I said, it seemed to go on forever? What

859
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 1: hell was going on in there? Where your your statement was?

860
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 1: It seemed to go on forever. I've heard women say that,

861
00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: you know, dom, you can end this anytime. Yeah, just

862
00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 1: a little bit of focusing, you can end this here. Oh,

863
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 1: it can be over now. So she controlled everything. She

864
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 1: got on top, and that was it. I tried to

865
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:32,360
Speaker 1: talk to her, plead with her. Let me do something, baby, baby, baby,

866
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 1: get on baby, baby, baby, come on, okay baby, baby

867
00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 1: stop for a minute. Baby, hold up, baby, baby you

868
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 1: bound stop bounding? Baby, baby, baby come here, baby, hold up, baby,

869
00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 1: hold it down, baby, hold on. Please please let me

870
00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: do something, baby, you get out. Let me get on top, baby, baby,

871
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: let me get on top, baby, please please baby, let

872
00:58:57,240 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: me get on top. Please baby stop me. Too much

873
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 1: hurt me. I'm just going on just too long. I

874
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:04,280
Speaker 1: don't like it. Just long right here. It bother me.

875
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 1: I'm feeling some kind of way by myself. Maybe please stop, please,

876
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,240
Speaker 1: please baby, literally get on talk. Don't don't do that

877
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 1: no more? Baby, Please. I'll ask you about five six times.

878
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 1: A matter of fact, I had thirteen times. Stop maybe

879
00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 1: just stop? Please please. I don't want it like that.

880
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 1: No more. You spanking me, y'a. Don't want you spanking

881
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 1: me like that. Baby, stop spanking me. I want to

882
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 1: spank you. Stop. Baby. Don't slap me in the mouth

883
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 1: no more. Okay, don't don't slap me in the damn

884
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 1: mouth no more. It's too much. All right, listen, Steve,

885
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 1: hold it right there. Okay, make me crap. Oh. We'll

886
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 1: have part two of Steve's a response coming up at

887
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 1: twenty three after the hours. Subject of today's Strawberry Letter

888
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 1: my eighty. My lady acts like a man and thanks

889
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: like a man. Uh. We'll be back right after this.

890
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Steve, come on, let's recap

891
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:04,520
Speaker 1: today Strawberry letter. Uh, it ain't much of a recap

892
01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 1: because we didn't go nowhere. Coaches. If he was dating

893
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:10,400
Speaker 1: this beautiful, strong, talented woman, everything was going fine, then

894
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:15,560
Speaker 1: they didn't didn't it had sex for the first time.

895
01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:19,200
Speaker 1: She controlled everything to stop to bendy finished. She let

896
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 1: me do nothing. She got on top, and that was

897
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:24,920
Speaker 1: in scene to go on for him. I tried to

898
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 1: talk to you and plead with let me do some work,

899
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 1: but she wasn't having it. Baby stopped just too much.

900
01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 1: It's going on too long. She was just bounced too hard.

901
01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:36,439
Speaker 1: That's too hard, baby, baby pulled up? Hold hold baby, baby, baby?

902
01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 1: Can we turn over just one time? They would just

903
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 1: turn up one time. Let me get on top. I know,

904
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: I know, baby, but I just want to try. They

905
01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:45,120
Speaker 1: just let me try. What you me? Shut up? Baby,

906
01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 1: hold on? Hold on baby? All right now, I'm gonna

907
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 1: shut up, but let me turn over and trying to

908
01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 1: shut up. Okay, See now that's going on. The second

909
01:00:53,560 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 1: time we had sex, she bought in toys. Yes, my

910
01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:00,960
Speaker 1: girl had toys and thought she was gonna use them

911
01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: on us. See, I'm gonna cut it on and use

912
01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:06,440
Speaker 1: it on me. Then I'm gonna cut it on and

913
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 1: use it on you. And you're gonna shut up. Now

914
01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 1: you're gonna take this hill. I'm gonna get a time.

915
01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 1: Shut up, boy. Yes, Jesus tors, don't weary about what

916
01:01:23,080 --> 01:01:28,360
Speaker 1: it is. Don't wear about it. Now what you're gonna

917
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:32,440
Speaker 1: do is you're gonna stop just what You're gonna just

918
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 1: be a little punk now. And then after that I

919
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:41,480
Speaker 1: started noticing things like she want to drive all the time.

920
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:48,560
Speaker 1: Sit your punk hats over there in the past, matter fact,

921
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:52,760
Speaker 1: sit in the back. Then we go out, she always

922
01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 1: rubbed in my back with both hands, just giving me

923
01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 1: a neck massage in public. Then when I'm trying to

924
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 1: order my food, she don't let me. He gonna have

925
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 1: what I have? Bring him a Cosmopolitan with extra flud?

926
01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:12,600
Speaker 1: What color he want? An umbrella? Can you put an

927
01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 1: umbrella in it? The umbrella shut up? And then we

928
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 1: was out last week and she grabbed my butt in

929
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 1: public in front of several of my board And they

930
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 1: still joke with me about that. But we know you

931
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 1: ain't gonna say nothing to them, dude, because you ain't

932
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 1: gonna say nothing to her, so they lighten your hands up.

933
01:02:31,640 --> 01:02:34,800
Speaker 1: When we ride to train together, she always insisted I sit,

934
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 1: and she preferred to stand up right here. I stand

935
01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 1: up and hold this damn rail. I don't want your

936
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: little weak hands falling because you got some business you're

937
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 1: gonna take care of tonight. I'm back on top and

938
01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:56,960
Speaker 1: I want you rested, and it's gonna go Yes, it's

939
01:02:57,000 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 1: gonna go on forever. But I know she's a very

940
01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:06,840
Speaker 1: independent woman and that's why I love her. But I

941
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 1: can't get with this type of behavior. But hold on

942
01:03:09,600 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 1: what you're fee to do bout it? Though you know?

943
01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:17,640
Speaker 1: I know, and I can't get with this type of behavior.

944
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 1: My question, you don't so far based on this letter

945
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:23,919
Speaker 1: what you feel I stole to suggest you don't open

946
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:27,920
Speaker 1: your damn cause because then you said I wear the

947
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:29,640
Speaker 1: pants and I need her to know it. Well, if

948
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 1: she don't know it, it's because she thinks she got

949
01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:34,120
Speaker 1: them on. I wouldn't dog on the real, on the

950
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:36,320
Speaker 1: real just reading this that right here, you better leave alone.

951
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:39,520
Speaker 1: I ain't talking about leave her because she's gonna hunt

952
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 1: you down. I'm talking about just let it go the

953
01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:43,360
Speaker 1: way it is because you ain't. You ain't got the

954
01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 1: pants on it. Now you got you got some p

955
01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 1: A N T on, but it ain't no wyn even

956
01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:52,480
Speaker 1: no ass pans. You need an eye and the E

957
01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 1: and yours. Yeah, I'm sorry, though I wear the pants

958
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:00,880
Speaker 1: and I need her to know it. Well, Tell what

959
01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 1: can I do? Get her to back down and let

960
01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 1: me lead why don't you leave? See, I don't even

961
01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 1: I don't know how to tell you this the way

962
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:10,480
Speaker 1: a woman will let you leave, or a woman will

963
01:04:10,560 --> 01:04:12,440
Speaker 1: walk side by side with you if she figured you

964
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 1: the one, But she ain't letting you leave because she

965
01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 1: don't think you got it? So what can I do

966
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:18,880
Speaker 1: to get her to bad down and let me leave?

967
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 1: Let me? I ain't never had to ask some woman

968
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:22,760
Speaker 1: let me lead, because I'm gonna lead. I'm I'm a

969
01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:26,280
Speaker 1: at for mail. Please give me your opinions on how

970
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:29,000
Speaker 1: shit handling this situation. You probably need to shut your

971
01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 1: little podcast. I'm gonna just be real with you. You

972
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 1: don't need to say nothing to the skills. I don't

973
01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:35,560
Speaker 1: think you whoop. And you just got to get ready

974
01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:37,680
Speaker 1: for tonight because she's getting back up on top. And

975
01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 1: it ain't nothing to a matter of fact, it's in

976
01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 1: the last forever a moment. Now that's what you got

977
01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:48,840
Speaker 1: to do. And you and write another letter into Steve

978
01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 1: and see what happened to your ass? And next time

979
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:53,160
Speaker 1: I bring some toys and here you don't be talking

980
01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 1: about what what? What? What? Doing? Come inside? Is it?

981
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 1: Because this the side we use. We don't use feathers

982
01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 1: in here, Get that other one out, Get that one out,

983
01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 1: touch it, your hands on it, now, throw it over here.

984
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:13,600
Speaker 1: He says. She acts like a man and thinks like

985
01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:17,400
Speaker 1: get your mother too. Cut him on. All right, see,

986
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:19,760
Speaker 1: we gotta get out of here. Email us or Instagram

987
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:23,440
Speaker 1: at your thoughts on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM,

988
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:26,680
Speaker 1: or you can check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.

989
01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve,

990
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 1: your nephew is here with things you whisper. Come on now. Now,

991
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 1: you gotta know, there are some things that you just whisper.

992
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 1: You know, when you in the middle of something is

993
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 1: going down and it ain't going right. That's some things

994
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:48,160
Speaker 1: that you just whisper all the time. You know what

995
01:05:48,200 --> 01:05:51,640
Speaker 1: I say. What I'm saying, you hear me, She said,

996
01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:54,840
Speaker 1: I know a lot of okay when you whisper it,

997
01:05:56,960 --> 01:06:04,440
Speaker 1: but there are some things that you whisper. Okay. Now,

998
01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:09,440
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna ask. I'm just gonna ask you shut up, junior.

999
01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:15,920
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just gonna ask you. On dog, have

1000
01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:19,400
Speaker 1: you ever been in that moment where there's things that

1001
01:06:19,560 --> 01:06:27,160
Speaker 1: you just whisper? Yeah, that ain't how you said. Okay,

1002
01:06:27,320 --> 01:06:30,680
Speaker 1: but if you have been, If I'm not, I'm not

1003
01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 1: gonna do this then. But tell me the things. Tell

1004
01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 1: me when you've been in the heat of the moment

1005
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 1: that you just knew you needed to whisper. All of

1006
01:06:47,120 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 1: mine ain't been in the heat of the moment. Mine

1007
01:06:49,360 --> 01:06:55,439
Speaker 1: has been other times like what like here on your

1008
01:06:55,520 --> 01:07:02,720
Speaker 1: pants on? God, y'all, that's a good whisper. That's a

1009
01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:06,000
Speaker 1: good question. That's a good quispe. Yeah, that's a good question.

1010
01:07:06,360 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 1: What else? What else? Timmy my wife just walked in. God. Yeah,

1011
01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 1: you think you're on the damn floor. Yeah? You just

1012
01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:26,400
Speaker 1: having a good time? Yeah, y'all. Yeah, you're at the

1013
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 1: sauce of club with your boy. The girl tripped and

1014
01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:35,800
Speaker 1: showed up at the same club you at. That's good, y'all.

1015
01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:41,080
Speaker 1: Got huh? Come on, okay, things you need to whisper.

1016
01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:55,880
Speaker 1: He ain't your daddy what we're talking about? Malcol Malcolm, Yeah, Malcolm,

1017
01:07:56,200 --> 01:08:00,919
Speaker 1: my daddy, I got one for you. Holyes in here?

1018
01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:10,160
Speaker 1: What what did you say? What's in here? Which one?

1019
01:08:13,720 --> 01:08:21,080
Speaker 1: So ignorant boy? All right, thank your nephew. I think

1020
01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:27,439
Speaker 1: we get the point. You're listening to all right, So

1021
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:31,799
Speaker 1: what's something you and your significant other can't do without

1022
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:36,000
Speaker 1: getting into an argument? Steve. Here's an email from Jermaine,

1023
01:08:36,080 --> 01:08:39,759
Speaker 1: who's a loyal listener from Dallas. Uh. It says, Dear Steve,

1024
01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:42,880
Speaker 1: there are many things my wife and I love to

1025
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:46,720
Speaker 1: do together, but one thing we cannot do together is

1026
01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:50,639
Speaker 1: to go grocery shopping. When I go to the store,

1027
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:53,639
Speaker 1: I like to run in and out as fast as

1028
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 1: I can. When my wife goes grocery shopping, she likes

1029
01:08:57,479 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 1: to look and touch every item in the store, and

1030
01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:04,960
Speaker 1: it just leads us to arguing. So, hey, morning, crew,

1031
01:09:05,160 --> 01:09:07,680
Speaker 1: most of you all are married. I'm curious what do

1032
01:09:07,800 --> 01:09:11,360
Speaker 1: you guys in your spouses avoid doing together because it

1033
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 1: always leads to an argument. Um. So again, Steve. That

1034
01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:25,000
Speaker 1: was from Jermaine and Dallas. And we're gonna first y'all. Y, Yeah,

1035
01:09:25,040 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 1: we started. I hope it go. I hope it's long

1036
01:09:27,560 --> 01:09:34,360
Speaker 1: enough that we go to the break. Come on, we started. Yeah,

1037
01:09:35,040 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 1: me and Margie, we can't sit down and watch no

1038
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:44,880
Speaker 1: damn sporting movement, not now one. Oh, we're not fitting

1039
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:47,519
Speaker 1: the ague about who aught to win or nothing like that.

1040
01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:53,800
Speaker 1: She don't know a damn thing about no sports. She

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Speaker 1: don't know none of the rules. I want to sit

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01:09:57,840 --> 01:10:01,800
Speaker 1: down and ask questions the whole damn ten, I can't.

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Speaker 1: Why are you holly? Because they scored? What did they

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01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 1: score a touchdown? How many points? Is that six? Why

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01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:11,479
Speaker 1: they got seven because they kicked the extra point? Why

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01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:15,680
Speaker 1: they kicked a point because they got a touchdown? Why

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01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:18,040
Speaker 1: they only got three because they kicked the field goal?

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01:10:18,360 --> 01:10:21,040
Speaker 1: How come they ain't get a touchdown because they didn't

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Speaker 1: score a touchdown? Who you houling that? Steve? Yes? Okay,

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Speaker 1: the baby I was in here watching again. Oh so

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01:10:30,000 --> 01:10:31,640
Speaker 1: you don't want me to watch the game with you?

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01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:34,479
Speaker 1: I said this, I thought I said it under my

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01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 1: bro That's what I thought. I she heard that because

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01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:44,280
Speaker 1: she got mother hitting All right, I'll tell you what

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01:10:44,479 --> 01:10:48,559
Speaker 1: mine is. But it's indirectly related to cooking, like when

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Speaker 1: we go out. Like when we go out, like, for instance, Saturday,

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01:10:53,040 --> 01:10:55,840
Speaker 1: went out to my friends. They had they had a party,

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01:10:55,880 --> 01:10:59,519
Speaker 1: my girlfriend celebrated her birthday. Whenever we go out to

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01:10:59,640 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 1: a party to someone's house, Nesto piles his plate when

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01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 1: he gets to the hell, yeah, why do you think

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01:11:06,439 --> 01:11:10,479
Speaker 1: he wouldn't? Right? It's embarrassing, but it's embarrassing to me.

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01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: And he goes back for a second, and my girlfriends

1063
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:18,920
Speaker 1: are like, oh, Nesto, go ahead. Their husband's man, come on,

1064
01:11:19,280 --> 01:11:22,080
Speaker 1: eat what you want. All the time that embarrasses me.

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01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 1: So in the car it is an argument. It is

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01:11:25,040 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 1: an argument on the way home. And then he gonna

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01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 1: bring home a plate. Come on, boys, on the seat.

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01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:38,400
Speaker 1: Somebody got to keep your weight up. Hey, Shirley, it's

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01:11:38,479 --> 01:11:40,880
Speaker 1: on the back seat and it don't even move it's

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01:11:40,920 --> 01:11:47,320
Speaker 1: so heavy. Exactly, see, exactly were you there? Exactly? This

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01:11:47,560 --> 01:11:49,720
Speaker 1: is every time we go to a party. So you

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01:11:49,880 --> 01:11:53,080
Speaker 1: just that damn hungry. You're gonna get that much baby,

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01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:56,040
Speaker 1: I'm just at the party. Everybody else's you ain't got

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01:11:56,120 --> 01:12:00,360
Speaker 1: to eat that much damn food. Now, just shame god

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01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 1: all in here, all the food falling off your plate

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01:12:03,600 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 1: while you walk it. Yeah, and then everybody in the party,

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01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:09,040
Speaker 1: come on, Nesto, it's okay, and so can get you

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01:12:09,160 --> 01:12:13,600
Speaker 1: some food. Come eat. I'm then you sitting up there

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01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:18,519
Speaker 1: eating and crime, why did you climb? Yeah you got

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01:12:18,640 --> 01:12:23,400
Speaker 1: some neat? Yeah? What is teens coming down? Your face? Fall?

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01:12:24,280 --> 01:12:28,960
Speaker 1: Because it's the moment he had, Lord, I don't need

1082
01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:35,160
Speaker 1: no season. Everybody's all around him. Make me sick yourself?

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01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:41,519
Speaker 1: Oh man? All right, so that's mine anyway, at the

1084
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:45,080
Speaker 1: time they dog make complete, Gonna take it to the house.

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01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:47,360
Speaker 1: They've been talking about surely on the radio all the time.

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01:12:47,640 --> 01:12:52,080
Speaker 1: Gonna make self plate though I'm already in the car.

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01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:57,360
Speaker 1: Take the pot nest off. We're good. You're gonna bring

1088
01:12:57,439 --> 01:12:59,800
Speaker 1: him back later. Well, time me you got out of it.

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Speaker 1: Coming up more of today's trending stories on the Steve

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01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:08,479
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. We'll be back in twenty minutes after

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01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:11,759
Speaker 1: the hour. Right after this. You're listening to the Steve

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01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:16,800
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, So today quickly in our

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01:13:16,880 --> 01:13:19,360
Speaker 1: Friday Girl Chat, Carla, we got to talk to the

1094
01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:22,120
Speaker 1: ladies a little bit and tell them that the way

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01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:28,240
Speaker 1: you start each morning has a huge impact, positively or negatively, Okay,

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01:13:28,720 --> 01:13:31,400
Speaker 1: on the rest of your day. Right now, kicking off

1097
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:33,200
Speaker 1: your day, you know what I'm saying. Kicking off your

1098
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 1: day with a healthy morning routine can increase productivity, it

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01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:40,599
Speaker 1: can lower stress, and it can boost your mood. Okay,

1100
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:44,479
Speaker 1: Set your alarm to work for you, not against you. Okay,

1101
01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:48,320
Speaker 1: quiet the snooze button a bottom right before I get up? Right?

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01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:52,400
Speaker 1: All facts, Yeah, and then you know, you gotta have

1103
01:13:52,520 --> 01:13:55,320
Speaker 1: some time for yourself for self care in the morning.

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01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:59,240
Speaker 1: That's always important, all right, And take time to breathe

1105
01:13:59,439 --> 01:14:02,280
Speaker 1: in this new day. Instead of reaching for your phone

1106
01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:03,720
Speaker 1: as a lot of people do as soon as you

1107
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 1: open your eyes, going straight to the Graham or TikTok

1108
01:14:06,439 --> 01:14:11,040
Speaker 1: or whatever, try taking six long, deep breath first and

1109
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:15,320
Speaker 1: focus on things that you're grateful for it in your life. Okay,

1110
01:14:15,360 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 1: I like that, sherlot I give. Okay, okay, okay, So

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01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 1: what carlin, I got some stuff. Drink water before you

1112
01:14:24,240 --> 01:14:29,200
Speaker 1: drink coffee. So there's a research that shows that rehydrating

1113
01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:31,759
Speaker 1: with a glass of water the first thing in the morning,

1114
01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:36,679
Speaker 1: you can boost your metabolism up by thirty percent. Also,

1115
01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:40,080
Speaker 1: move your body stretch when you wake up. You know

1116
01:14:40,200 --> 01:14:43,599
Speaker 1: your body wants to be active. Move us both sides

1117
01:14:43,640 --> 01:14:47,240
Speaker 1: of your body, and repeat your routine. I love it, girl,

1118
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:50,320
Speaker 1: Chat yes yet, yea, yea, and thank the Lord for

1119
01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:53,720
Speaker 1: waking you up. All right, We'll be back with more

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Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty

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01:14:56,000 --> 01:14:59,719
Speaker 1: three minutes after Right after this. You're listening to Steve

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01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:03,320
Speaker 1: every morning show. Well, guess what, Steve, we have more

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01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:07,560
Speaker 1: relationship questions for you from Steve Harvey FM. Uh. You

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01:15:07,680 --> 01:15:12,479
Speaker 1: know you're our chief Love Officer CLO, so ready to help? Yes?

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Speaker 1: All right? This is from Sherwanna in Dallas. She Wanna says, Steve,

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01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:19,400
Speaker 1: I've been dating a great guy for seven years and

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01:15:19,520 --> 01:15:22,599
Speaker 1: we've known each other for thirteen years. Things have been

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01:15:22,680 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 1: great and I don't want I want to be with

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01:15:24,600 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 1: him forever. My question for you is kind of woman

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01:15:28,280 --> 01:15:32,880
Speaker 1: proposed to a man? No? No, But the question, your

1131
01:15:33,320 --> 01:15:36,799
Speaker 1: deeper question, is you want to be with him forever?

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01:15:37,320 --> 01:15:39,439
Speaker 1: You need to ask the question does he want to

1133
01:15:39,479 --> 01:15:44,320
Speaker 1: be with you forever? And what's in it for him

1134
01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:47,000
Speaker 1: to get married? If you all have been seeing each

1135
01:15:47,040 --> 01:15:50,320
Speaker 1: other for seven years, then what did she say they're

1136
01:15:50,360 --> 01:15:54,000
Speaker 1: doing for thirteen? They've known each other for thirteen, known

1137
01:15:54,080 --> 01:15:57,400
Speaker 1: each other thirteen, being seeing each other seven? Did she

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01:15:57,520 --> 01:16:01,040
Speaker 1: say how old she was? No? She didn't. Maybe he

1139
01:16:01,160 --> 01:16:05,200
Speaker 1: don't want her, Maybe he just wants something from her

1140
01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:09,519
Speaker 1: at seven years. I think all she has to do

1141
01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:11,400
Speaker 1: is just sit down and say, hey, can we have

1142
01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:14,679
Speaker 1: I ain't listening to me. I want to say something

1143
01:16:14,760 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 1: to you that I think you should hear. Hell yeah, baby,

1144
01:16:17,600 --> 01:16:21,120
Speaker 1: what's that I love you. You have told me that

1145
01:16:21,240 --> 01:16:24,639
Speaker 1: you love me, and we've been together for seven years.

1146
01:16:25,920 --> 01:16:29,240
Speaker 1: Can you tell me exactly what your plans are for

1147
01:16:29,439 --> 01:16:33,120
Speaker 1: me moving forward? You have it. That's a simple question.

1148
01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:36,080
Speaker 1: That ain't That ain't making him marry you. That ain't

1149
01:16:36,080 --> 01:16:39,320
Speaker 1: no ultimatum, And just let him tell you what he

1150
01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:42,880
Speaker 1: wants from you moving forward. You've already had seven years

1151
01:16:43,200 --> 01:16:45,960
Speaker 1: and if he says the same thing that you already got,

1152
01:16:46,280 --> 01:16:48,600
Speaker 1: then he has no other plans for you than what

1153
01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:54,120
Speaker 1: you already getting. But Steve, I'm going to assume that

1154
01:16:54,240 --> 01:16:57,160
Speaker 1: she's a young woman. So and a lot of young

1155
01:16:57,280 --> 01:16:59,799
Speaker 1: women believe it or not feel this way, that it's okay,

1156
01:17:00,160 --> 01:17:02,080
Speaker 1: you know, we don't care blah blah blah blah blah.

1157
01:17:02,360 --> 01:17:06,280
Speaker 1: So you need to laser in on why a woman

1158
01:17:06,400 --> 01:17:11,160
Speaker 1: should not propose to a man. Not that why you can't.

1159
01:17:11,280 --> 01:17:14,439
Speaker 1: But let me ask you a question. If you're leaving

1160
01:17:14,520 --> 01:17:17,679
Speaker 1: it up to a man to say whether he wants

1161
01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:20,680
Speaker 1: to getting married or not, and he hasn't asked you,

1162
01:17:21,600 --> 01:17:25,280
Speaker 1: and you force him to tell you the answer is no,

1163
01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:29,080
Speaker 1: that is a much slicker way to go about it,

1164
01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:33,280
Speaker 1: because if the man wanted to marry you, he'd ask you.

1165
01:17:34,720 --> 01:17:37,200
Speaker 1: You asking him ain't gonna make him jump. If a

1166
01:17:37,280 --> 01:17:39,439
Speaker 1: man don't want to jump, he's not jumping. You're not

1167
01:17:39,520 --> 01:17:43,360
Speaker 1: jumping because you asked him. You you're gonna get some

1168
01:17:43,479 --> 01:17:46,880
Speaker 1: answers like, hey, you know, I'm trying to get myself together.

1169
01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:50,560
Speaker 1: Y'all thought about it with you. You're gonna hear stuff like,

1170
01:17:50,800 --> 01:17:53,760
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm cool the way it is. I love you.

1171
01:17:53,800 --> 01:17:56,000
Speaker 1: You know why you gonna hear this from right here?

1172
01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:58,160
Speaker 1: Why mess this up? We got a good thing. You

1173
01:17:58,240 --> 01:18:00,639
Speaker 1: want to mess this up? Oh me, and got all

1174
01:18:00,720 --> 01:18:04,440
Speaker 1: types of wonderful stuff that make you second guess yourself.

1175
01:18:04,640 --> 01:18:07,040
Speaker 1: All right, coming up our last break of the day

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01:18:07,160 --> 01:18:11,280
Speaker 1: and some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, we'll be back at forty nine after

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01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:19,680
Speaker 1: you're listening to show last break of the day. We've

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01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:22,800
Speaker 1: had a great morning today, Yes, yes, we did. We

1180
01:18:22,920 --> 01:18:25,760
Speaker 1: have fun today. Steve. It's time for you now to

1181
01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:28,439
Speaker 1: take us home with your closing remarks. What you got

1182
01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:32,679
Speaker 1: for us today, Steve? Today, I was thinking of something

1183
01:18:32,800 --> 01:18:38,080
Speaker 1: that's another jewel that has really helped me in my quest,

1184
01:18:39,439 --> 01:18:43,320
Speaker 1: and it's about my dreams and my goals. And I

1185
01:18:43,479 --> 01:18:49,320
Speaker 1: was wanted to share this with you today. One of

1186
01:18:49,439 --> 01:18:56,880
Speaker 1: the greatest dangers for most of us is not that

1187
01:18:57,080 --> 01:19:03,479
Speaker 1: our aim is too high and we miss it, but

1188
01:19:03,760 --> 01:19:08,960
Speaker 1: that is too low and we reach it. Can I

1189
01:19:09,080 --> 01:19:11,840
Speaker 1: say that to you again? This is actually a quote

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01:19:11,880 --> 01:19:17,240
Speaker 1: from Michael Angelo. He said, the greatest danger for most

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01:19:17,320 --> 01:19:20,439
Speaker 1: of us is not that our aim is too high

1192
01:19:21,080 --> 01:19:24,000
Speaker 1: and we miss it, but that is too low and

1193
01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:30,120
Speaker 1: we reach it. That's crazy, man. My father used to

1194
01:19:30,240 --> 01:19:34,360
Speaker 1: say something to me all the time, very similar. He says, son,

1195
01:19:35,080 --> 01:19:40,160
Speaker 1: aim for the moon, because if you miss, you'll still

1196
01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:44,719
Speaker 1: be amongst the stars. And that's pretty much the same

1197
01:19:44,920 --> 01:19:48,439
Speaker 1: thing that he's saying. That the greatest danger for most

1198
01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:51,559
Speaker 1: of us it's not that our aim is too high

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01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:55,040
Speaker 1: and we miss it, but that is too low and

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01:19:55,120 --> 01:19:58,599
Speaker 1: we reach it. Let me explain something to you about

1201
01:19:58,680 --> 01:20:03,400
Speaker 1: low aspirations and low goals. When you reach a low

1202
01:20:03,520 --> 01:20:06,840
Speaker 1: aspiration and a low goal and there's nothing after that,

1203
01:20:07,680 --> 01:20:12,200
Speaker 1: you think you've arrived, You think you that you actually

1204
01:20:12,320 --> 01:20:17,320
Speaker 1: get comfortable. Man, I made it, when in essence, there's

1205
01:20:17,439 --> 01:20:21,080
Speaker 1: so much more to life to live, so much more

1206
01:20:21,160 --> 01:20:23,880
Speaker 1: that you could accomplish if you would just reset your

1207
01:20:23,920 --> 01:20:27,599
Speaker 1: goals in aspiration. I remember, Man, a long time ago,

1208
01:20:27,720 --> 01:20:30,920
Speaker 1: this dude in my high school. He said, Man, all

1209
01:20:31,080 --> 01:20:33,720
Speaker 1: I want I know two dudes like this about a car.

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01:20:34,360 --> 01:20:38,439
Speaker 1: He said, Man, all, I won't. Man, it's this grand Torino. Man.

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01:20:38,520 --> 01:20:41,200
Speaker 1: If I had a Grand Torino, Man, I wouldn't want

1212
01:20:41,280 --> 01:20:47,160
Speaker 1: nothing else. For his senior graduation. This dude's father gave

1213
01:20:47,360 --> 01:20:53,479
Speaker 1: him a Grand Torino. It was like unbelievable in high school. Man,

1214
01:20:54,200 --> 01:20:57,000
Speaker 1: nineteen seventy four grand Torino with the two windows and

1215
01:20:57,080 --> 01:20:59,640
Speaker 1: the slits in the back. I was looking at this

1216
01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:03,360
Speaker 1: like wow. Man. He drove it to the prom to

1217
01:21:03,439 --> 01:21:07,120
Speaker 1: still had a brand new cars father bought it. I

1218
01:21:07,400 --> 01:21:13,519
Speaker 1: saw him like twenty years later. You know, he had

1219
01:21:13,560 --> 01:21:19,679
Speaker 1: the same car. He had the same car. It happened

1220
01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:22,439
Speaker 1: to another dude. I knew, Man that wanted this Cadillac. Man,

1221
01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:25,599
Speaker 1: if I ever get this Cadillac, Man, this white Cadillac,

1222
01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:31,120
Speaker 1: the red seats. Man, he got it. I saw him

1223
01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 1: years later, years later, I don't really remember how many,

1224
01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:38,479
Speaker 1: but he still had the same car. Always beat to hell,

1225
01:21:39,080 --> 01:21:42,240
Speaker 1: but he had the same car because that was his

1226
01:21:42,360 --> 01:21:45,960
Speaker 1: aspiration and he reached it. But when he reached it,

1227
01:21:46,280 --> 01:21:50,840
Speaker 1: he got comfortable. I got it and he quit wanting more,

1228
01:21:50,920 --> 01:21:55,400
Speaker 1: he quit reaching for higher things. You have to reassess

1229
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Speaker 1: your life constantly, man, because you are going to continue

1230
01:21:58,520 --> 01:22:03,680
Speaker 1: to live, you have to aspire to something that requires

1231
01:22:03,840 --> 01:22:08,439
Speaker 1: God's help. Quit wanting and reaching for stuff that you

1232
01:22:08,560 --> 01:22:11,960
Speaker 1: can do. Why would you say to yourself, man, if

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01:22:12,000 --> 01:22:14,560
Speaker 1: I could just get me a used car, if I

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01:22:14,640 --> 01:22:20,679
Speaker 1: could give me a nineteen eighty five maximum, really, really

1235
01:22:21,680 --> 01:22:24,880
Speaker 1: get your money, save your money and go on and

1236
01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:27,960
Speaker 1: get it. But if that's your only goal and you

1237
01:22:28,080 --> 01:22:31,760
Speaker 1: get it, where you go from now? You are never

1238
01:22:32,080 --> 01:22:37,040
Speaker 1: too old to keep reaching your goal. One more time.

1239
01:22:37,280 --> 01:22:40,000
Speaker 1: You are never too old to keep reaching your goal.

1240
01:22:40,920 --> 01:22:43,839
Speaker 1: It's goals out there, it's things that you can achieve.

1241
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:47,920
Speaker 1: Get out of your comfort zone. Man, if you try

1242
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:51,120
Speaker 1: to survive in your comfort zone, your comfort zone, you

1243
01:22:51,200 --> 01:22:56,519
Speaker 1: will fail in it. Everybody fails in the comfort zone

1244
01:22:56,840 --> 01:23:00,480
Speaker 1: because in order to be successful, you got to get uncomfortable.

1245
01:23:01,360 --> 01:23:03,240
Speaker 1: You got to get You gotta do somethings. You got

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Speaker 1: to go when you don't want to go. You gotta

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Speaker 1: do when you don't want to do. That's what discipline is.

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Speaker 1: It requires discipline to achieve great things. It requires discipline

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Speaker 1: to reach your goals. Because discipline is simply doing everything

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Speaker 1: you have to do and need to do, even if

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Speaker 1: you don't want to. That's what discipline is. It's doing

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Speaker 1: the things that you have to do and need to do,

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Speaker 1: even when you don't want to. You go do it anyway.

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Speaker 1: That's what discipline is. That's how you achieve goals, that's

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Speaker 1: how you reach higher heights. Aim for the moon, because

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Speaker 1: if you miss, you'll still be amongst the stars. But

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Speaker 1: it's real simple, man. It's just like Michelangelo said, the

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Speaker 1: greatest danger for most of us is not that our

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Speaker 1: aim is too high and we miss it, but that

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Speaker 1: is too low and we reach it. Because it's danger. Man,

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Speaker 1: when you ain't got nothing after that, because you get

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Speaker 1: to settling and you get the thanking you there. When

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Speaker 1: you ain't there, you got so much more life to live.

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Speaker 1: God has so much more for you. God comes to

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Speaker 1: give you life and give you life more abundantly. God

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Speaker 1: ain't no mediocre God. God don't do mediocre things. God

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Speaker 1: do great things. God performs miracles. God makes dreams come true.

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Speaker 1: God is in the blessing business, the healing business, the

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Speaker 1: saving business, the recovery business, to get your life together business.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you let him do that for you? Aim High,

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Speaker 1: God may take you some places you've never been. Those

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Speaker 1: are my closing remarks. Y'all have a great weekend, all

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Speaker 1: right now, BT expressed. Do it, do it until you're satisfied.

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Speaker 1: Come on and do it good. It's ready for all.

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