WEBVTT - She Said Yes with Jerry O'Connell 0:00:01.880 --> 0:00:05.120 Wind Down with Janet Raymer and Michael Coffin and I'm 0:00:05.120 --> 0:00:18.280 her radio podcast Sarah Yayza. I we're back listen to this. 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:23.119 So Sarah and I have facetimed probably about three times, 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:25.960 and I have not asked you any wedding questions because 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:28.800 I wanted to all be on air like like legit 0:00:29.320 --> 0:00:32.640 for everybody, no idea, what's going on? And I'm dyingy Mark. 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:35.760 Everyone should be really proud because like we haven't talked 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:38.120 about anything because you are like, we're saving it. We 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:42.120 need content, we need the tea, spill it now. And 0:00:42.200 --> 0:00:45.280 I was like, no, no, no, I know one thing. Well, 0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:47.560 I mean I know the one, one big thing which 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:49.320 is the same the date, which we will not say, 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:52.040 but you just teased on Insta it is in your 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:58.480 twenty twenty. But here's the thing. We haven't even talked 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:01.840 about your engagements. I know. Oh it's so weird that 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:04.759 like we haven't. I know, oh yeah we have because 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:06.480 you were supposed to do our live when out in 0:01:06.560 --> 0:01:09.240 Nashville and you had to take your Like I just 0:01:09.280 --> 0:01:13.440 realized that my flight connection isn't long. Then I was like, look, 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:17.040 I'm a bride now, so my brain is not working 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:21.840 and it was my job. It is my title. So 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:24.320 but here's the thing though, Sarah. So the last that 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:26.760 we knew, it was just like, all right, I'm not 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:29.760 talking about it, not bringing it up. But then you 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:32.600 and Ty, can you say what you guys started to do? Yes? 0:01:33.200 --> 0:01:44.679 So okay, I Tie. I was out of I was 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:49.639 with you guys doing podcast tour, and I came home. 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:52.880 I had been gone, and since while I had been 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:54.840 gone t I was like, you know, I kind of went. 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.920 I started going to therapy. It's something that he and 0:01:57.960 --> 0:01:59.800 I talked about for a long time that I thought 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:03.400 he should do just for like life reasons, not like 0:02:03.440 --> 0:02:08.760 for us. But you know, I've realized that not everyone 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:10.000 is like you guys. You know a lot of people 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:12.160 are turned off or scared by the idea of going 0:02:12.160 --> 0:02:14.519 into a room talking to someone. You know, it freaks 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:15.919 people out. And he was one of them. He's like, 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:18.680 that's weird. I just feel like that would be uncomfortable, 0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:20.919 and you know, so he never wanted to do it. Whatever, 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:23.240 so he goes and does it, and I'm like so happy. 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:25.160 I'm like, that's amazing. I'm so proud of you. You know, 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:27.280 I was very supportive. I was very happy that he 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:29.240 kind of took that step and he really liked it. 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:31.240 That's what I was most shocked about is he had 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:33.840 gone like three times, so he was like, would you 0:02:33.880 --> 0:02:36.280 want to come with me? And by the way, when 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.400 you said that to me, I was like, oh my god, 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:40.920 home girls getting broken up with so therapy I was, 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:44.240 I mean, I was you called me when I told 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:45.560 you I was. You were like, can you come over tomorrow? 0:02:45.560 --> 0:02:46.679 I was like I can' I'm going to therapy with 0:02:46.760 --> 0:02:48.520 tie and you literally called me because you were like 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:51.080 I just the one time I went or what I 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:53.359 forgot what your story was. I had gone when some 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:55.160 guy had asked me to go to therapy with him, 0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:58.359 and then I got broken off with At the therapy appointment, 0:02:58.440 --> 0:03:03.760 I was just like yeah, and so I just got 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:06.400 really scared because I've got because some people feel more 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:09.920 comfortable and I could totally say things in therapy totally, 0:03:10.040 --> 0:03:12.000 you know. So maybe he was just like gonna say, 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:14.519 I'm just I just don't want to get married, or yeah, 0:03:14.560 --> 0:03:17.639 I'm just like, oh god, this is you panicked panic 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:20.560 and I'm so sorry. It's funny though, because that was 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:22.080 the last thing I would have never thought of that 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:25.360 about that and no, and I didn't think. I didn't think. 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:28.240 So I went with him. I was a bad friend man, 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:35.480 and we had a really really great conversation. I said 0:03:35.520 --> 0:03:38.000 things I've never said, he said things he never said. 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:39.720 I think that it was really good for both of 0:03:39.800 --> 0:03:42.080 us to you know, me, I have no problem talking 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:43.840 to a stranger about my I'm like, I talk to 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:45.880 you about my problems on the plane, like I had 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:49.400 no problem talking to her. But I was mostly so 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:51.360 impressed with him. It just like made me want to 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:53.960 cry because I was like, wow, you are really it's 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:57.520 so not like him whatever. But here's something to take 0:03:57.600 --> 0:04:01.600 from that, though, is you You had asked, you know, 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:06.640 basically to him, why haven't you? Yeah, and he said 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:11.200 go ahead honestly, like I don't remember, I'll tell you. 0:04:11.240 --> 0:04:14.400 He said, you wouldn't leave. Oh yeah, yes, sorry sorry, 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:16.480 sorry sorry. So he had told me that, yes, in 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:20.119 in therapy he said, you know, because I was shocked. 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:23.000 The therapist she was very neutral, but she was very 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:25.279 much like ty, you need to understand like where she's 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:27.320 coming from, Like this is do you understand what she 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:29.440 says when she says this, like blah, blah blah. You know, 0:04:29.480 --> 0:04:32.000 she was very I was shocked at how much she 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:34.479 kind of agreed with me or not agreed with me, 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:37.479 but you know, she wanted him to understand where I 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:39.240 was coming from. And that was one of the things 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:42.240 he said. I mean, if I'm being honest, I didn't 0:04:42.240 --> 0:04:44.479 do it in you know, December whatever, because I knew you. 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:46.400 I knew you weren't going to leave. And I was like, 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:48.800 and that must have been like a gut and it was. 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:52.200 But I was so happy that he said that. I 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:54.440 was so happy he was honest and said that to 0:04:54.480 --> 0:04:57.240 me because I was like, Okay, that's where we're at, Like, 0:04:57.480 --> 0:05:00.440 now I know how you now, I know, oh, you 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.840 know me as well as you know, like wouldn't. And 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:05.720 there was a there was a hockey camp coming up, 0:05:05.720 --> 0:05:07.159 and there was a hockey camp coming up, and I 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:09.720 had told him this was kind of even before all 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:13.320 the drama with you know, him proposing or not posing, 0:05:13.360 --> 0:05:16.560 I kind of already voiced that, you know, I'm not 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:18.479 going to go this year with you. I think that 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:21.040 you need to go do your thing. I'll stay home 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:24.280 because usually I go to the camps every summer with him. Well, 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:26.039 and you said, I don't want to be I don't 0:05:26.040 --> 0:05:28.120 want to be a girlfriend again at the seventh year 0:05:28.160 --> 0:05:30.880 of camp. Like no, I just said, you know, I 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:33.360 don't think it's fair for me to, you know, go 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:35.760 all summer with you and when all I'm really thinking 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:37.360 about is, you know, all the things I could be. 0:05:37.520 --> 0:05:40.040 It's just I kept say it's not fair, it's not fair. Whatever. 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:43.640 He understood. He said, I know, okay, you've been saying that, yes, 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:46.000 And the therapist was like, you know, maybe it'll be good. 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.360 He'll be back, because he was he was going to 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:50.640 be gone for four months, four weeks, yes, straight. So 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:53.200 she said, you know, stay on your ground and that's 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:57.159 good for you. So we left the session. We left 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:59.560 the session. It was emotional, but it was good. We 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:02.080 got in the car and we both kind of we 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:03.560 just like held hands in the car. It was like 0:06:03.760 --> 0:06:07.560 very bizarre but good. I mean, now I kind of 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:09.640 know how you guys probably feel sometimes, Like it felt 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:13.400 weird to be so emotional and heightened, but then it 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:15.080 felt good to kind of just be with each other. 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:17.880 I don't know whatever m hm, so I will I 0:06:17.920 --> 0:06:20.520 will say that. And even when Jana kind of caught 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:22.479 me up on all that when when that was happening 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:25.040 and told me what Ty said, and he was honest 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:28.920 and admitted that to me, that showed a lot about him. 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:32.960 But then also y'all's relationship because that's such something that 0:06:33.279 --> 0:06:37.320 I could see someone using in a manipulative way where 0:06:37.400 --> 0:06:41.120 he was he was giving you the ammunition that he had, right, Yeah, 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:44.920 so he has no you know, no kind of plans 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:47.839 of being manipulative or holding that against you and calling 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:49.280 you out on it. It's like, no, it is what 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:51.680 it is. And so I think that's a huge testament 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:53.800 to y'all's relationship. I was that you don't you don't 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:55.960 play there, no, And I'm telling you, like when he 0:06:56.040 --> 0:06:57.880 said that to me, like it got me in my 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.520 gut and I think I may have started crying, but 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:03.800 I was so happy. It was weird at how happy 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:06.120 I was to hear him say that in a weird way. 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:10.560 So that happens. That's on a Monday, He's leaving Friday. 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:13.520 The week was weird. It was just kind of a 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:18.040 weird week because you weren't going because I was, oh 0:07:18.080 --> 0:07:19.760 my gosh, and I was like, Sarah, you can't go, 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:21.840 I can't go, babe, And I was not going fill 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:25.160 up your weekendville. I had no intention of going. I 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:27.400 had nothing. I was not going. Everyone knew I was 0:07:27.400 --> 0:07:29.960 not going. It's funny. One of my girlfriends was like, 0:07:30.080 --> 0:07:32.120 I literally told my boyfriend like, hey, I might need 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:34.800 to go to LA next week because like, Sarah's not 0:07:34.840 --> 0:07:39.520 gonna be okay. So, so it's now Thursday and it's 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:41.800 his brother's graduation and we go out there and we 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:43.640 see his parents and you know, we're all out there 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:46.000 and they were having a dinner. But he was being 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:47.600 so like weird. He's like, no, we don't need to 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:49.080 go to the dinner, like we could just go home, 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:52.239 blah blah blah. I'm like, it's your brother's graduation dinner, okay, whatever, 0:07:52.280 --> 0:07:54.560 and he's like, no, my mom's throwing him a party tomorrow. 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:57.160 She's throwing him a graduation party. We'll go out to 0:07:57.200 --> 0:08:00.400 the house before I leave. So it was so we 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:02.400 get home Thursday night and I was in the shower 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:04.000 and I was crying. I started crying in the shower 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:07.480 and he was like what is And I was like, 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:10.240 it's just so weird that you're gonna leave tomorrow and 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:11.640 I'm not gonna go with you, like, this isn't how 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:13.080 it's supposed to be. I want to go with you. 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:15.840 I love going to camp. I love seeing all the 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:18.239 kids and being there with you. Like, I don't want 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.680 to do this. You know, I was right. You cried, Yeah, 0:08:21.880 --> 0:08:25.040 calmly in the shower, the way it's supposed to be done. 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:30.000 But yeah, no, I was you don't cry, I don't cry. 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:32.760 I was really I was really upset and we had 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:34.280 just been with his family and I just, you know, 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:38.280 I was just upset. So the next day we wake up, 0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:41.880 everything's normal. He had to go to the office. He's like, 0:08:42.960 --> 0:08:46.280 i'll see you, you know, I'll come get you. And 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:49.360 he comes and gets me to go to his parents' house. Oh, 0:08:49.360 --> 0:08:50.880 we had to take supparate cars because he was leaving, 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:53.160 so we took supperate cars out there. It was just 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:55.240 a normal morning whatever. I'm like, what do I wear? 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:57.280 He's dressed up. I'm like, oh, it's one of your 0:08:57.280 --> 0:09:00.280 mom's like grand parties. Perfect. We get there and like, 0:09:00.320 --> 0:09:03.559 long story short, it wasn't a graduation party. Like an 0:09:03.559 --> 0:09:07.560 hour in he as everyone probably saw on Instagram, like, 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:11.400 takes me around the pool, out to this little gazebo 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:13.679 at his parents' house and then honestly I blocked out. 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:16.120 I have no idea what was happening. There was a 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:20.160 Hell Airline plane fly by that said Sarah, will you 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:22.920 marry me? Love Tie, and it had been flying around 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:25.480 Malibu for an hour waiting for us. So people were 0:09:25.480 --> 0:09:28.960 texting Tie and Jane and everyone being like, we see 0:09:28.960 --> 0:09:31.959 this plane and like we're pretty sure it's for Sarah TI. 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:36.479 So that was wild. But I and then mind you 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:38.720 when you are calling me. Michael and I were on 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:41.800 our way to shoot the sizzle for this potential reality 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:46.280 show thing and but also and in a fight, That's 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:47.719 what I'm saying. So we were in a fight and 0:09:48.040 --> 0:09:50.679 I see that you your face. Time called FaceTime a lot, 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:53.439 but like everyone listening, I called her four times in 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:55.320 a row because I was like, this bitch is gonna 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:58.120 find out on Instagram and kill me. Like if she 0:09:58.480 --> 0:10:02.800 doesn't answer there, like she needs to. Everyone was like 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:05.839 sterotides giving a toast. I'm like, I have gone because 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:07.960 everyone was already posting my I was like, she's gone, 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:11.160 and you were answering, I know. And so because Michael 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:12.920 and I were like fighting in the car and we 0:10:12.960 --> 0:10:15.319 were having a thing and then I saw your facetiming 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:17.560 and I, oh, no, no, this is what happened. So 0:10:18.320 --> 0:10:20.120 it was you had called, but we were we were 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:21.800 getting an argument. I got into the car. I was like, 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:23.400 I'll drive because like we were both hungry and we 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:27.200 just like were hungry and arguing. And then you called again, 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:29.760 and then you called again, and I was just like 0:10:29.960 --> 0:10:32.360 I have to answer this because and then so he goes, 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:35.640 oh really, He's like, Mike's like, you're You're really going 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:37.880 to answer the phone. I go, look, she's either engaged 0:10:37.960 --> 0:10:40.120 or they broke up. It's Friday, like you know what 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:41.920 I mean. I was like I have to answer this. 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:44.800 And I was like I was still pissed. I was 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:47.160 like whatever, and then I heard you and you I 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:49.400 kind of look over the corner of my eye. Mike's 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:52.200 like trying to be mad, start screaming, and then I 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:54.240 was kind of had smiles, like I can't be mad 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:57.200 at this, Like oh it was I mean, I'm just 0:10:57.440 --> 0:11:00.920 I'm so happy for you. It was did not think 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:02.480 because Everyone's like you had to have known, you had 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:03.679 to have known. I was like I had no clue, 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:05.560 Like people don't understand what was really going down, Like 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:08.960 I had no clue. Oh, everyone, who's wondering. I painted 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:12.520 my own nails, like, trust me, I would have if 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:15.760 I thought I would have got a manicure. But I 0:11:15.800 --> 0:11:17.839 had no idea. The only time I knew it was 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:19.720 about to go down is when he was walking me around. 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:22.000 He played like his favorite lumineer song and it's like 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:24.679 the drums and all. It's a very obvious song when 0:11:24.679 --> 0:11:26.200 it starts, and I literally looked at him and I 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:29.000 was like, what the f is going on? And he 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:30.640 wouldn't look at me, and he just kept walking and 0:11:30.720 --> 0:11:32.640 kept walking, and I asked him. I was like, what 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:34.520 was I even saying. He's like, honestly, you just kept 0:11:34.520 --> 0:11:36.960 screaming F bombs And I was like, yeah, I don't 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:38.680 even know, Like I don't even know what I was saying. 0:11:38.679 --> 0:11:40.440 And he's like, don't well were you saying too? Wasn't 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:42.320 he like telling you like I should have done this, 0:11:42.840 --> 0:11:44.439 and You're like, just get to it, just get to it. Yes, 0:11:45.000 --> 0:11:47.840 he lost me over there and he he's giving me 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:50.280 like a sh like uh. He's telling me like I'm 0:11:50.280 --> 0:11:52.200 so sorry for everything, like I'm so you know, and 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:55.559 I'm like, stop beating yourself up. This is the glorious moment. 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:57.520 And then he starts going on and on and then 0:11:57.559 --> 0:11:59.480 he pulls because the part of me was like, maybe 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:01.319 he's just giving me a speech before he leaves tonight, 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:03.280 like I don't know what's going down. But then he 0:12:03.280 --> 0:12:06.280 pulls out a ring and I was like, holy fuck, sorry, 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:08.640 it's it all to go down. And then he starts 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:10.360 giving me a ten minute speech but he's holding the 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:13.439 ring and I'm like, just open it already. But the 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:16.480 best start of all of that was that because everyone's like, 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:19.160 oh my god, he did so good. But what I 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:20.960 think because I fell to my knees at one point 0:12:21.000 --> 0:12:22.439 before he got down on a knee, and I think 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:25.160 that's when he told me that this was his mom's 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:29.840 ring and she it was one of her rings that 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:32.199 she his grandma's been wearing and his grandma gave it 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:33.840 to him two years ago and was like, I want 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:35.679 you to give this to Sarah, and so like when 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:38.280 he told me that that it was the mom and 0:12:38.320 --> 0:12:41.400 his grandma's ring, I just lost it. Okay, that's uh, 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:44.000 that's amazing and I'm so happy for you, babe. I 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:46.600 want to hear more though about the wedding but first, 0:12:47.600 --> 0:12:50.880 all of our beds are Brooklynen sheets. True story. 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You're living basically your best life 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:06.160 today because apparently he's a big Bravo fan, which, oh yeah, 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:11.199 is that the one where where the housewives are all? Yes, 0:14:11.520 --> 0:14:14.960 that is the one. That is the one. He's like 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:17.800 a die hard way He's a diehard Bravo guy. I'm 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:22.360 a diehard Bravo gal, So this should be interested. Do 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:24.840 you do you sometimes not like me as your friend 0:14:24.880 --> 0:14:28.160 because I I don't know those things. No, honestly, I 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:33.840 feel like it humbles me. You pause. It honestly humbles 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:36.560 me because if you were obsessed, it's all I would 0:14:36.600 --> 0:14:38.360 talk about. So it's nice for me to come over 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:40.240 and make references and you not understand and me be 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:49.000 like wow, Bethany, wow, so exactly exactly. I am excited 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:50.840 though to talk about his brother though, because he was 0:14:50.880 --> 0:14:53.200 on the Bachelor, which is interesting to me, which by 0:14:53.240 --> 0:14:54.680 the way, he's on the other side of it where 0:14:54.680 --> 0:15:00.200 it's like the family no idea, which, by the way, though, Sarah, yeah, 0:15:01.240 --> 0:15:02.520 you might think that I would be good on the 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:06.680 bed one. I know that you would, literally, but I 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:08.840 don't think you know this though, but actually Michael's the 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:14.680 one that auditioned for the Bachelor's right. I'm never speechless. 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:22.080 I am now speechless? What I Yeah, that is something 0:15:22.120 --> 0:15:23.680 that you're going to need to touch on a little 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:27.520 bit more. Once upon a time, I was I didn't 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:31.000 sign myself, Oh sure, one of my best girlfriends growing 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:33.080 up did. I was chilling with her and her husband 0:15:33.120 --> 0:15:35.640 and she was making us watch it and she looked 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:36.720 at me and she's like, I'm going to sign you 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:39.600 up for that. I said, okay. A couple months later, 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:41.520 I get the phone call and it was one of 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:44.520 the casting directors there at ABC or whatever network it's 0:15:44.560 --> 0:15:48.720 on and a star is born, yeah or whatever that 0:15:50.600 --> 0:15:54.440 one network of those then sit with me and watch 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:56.760 it I don't know, on like Wednesday nights or something 0:15:58.640 --> 0:16:04.760 every Monday there with He's like, what's doing now? But no, 0:16:05.160 --> 0:16:07.600 I mean it kind of What was funny is I 0:16:07.680 --> 0:16:09.720 just I was entertaining it for the time at the time, 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:11.880 because I was single, I was my second year in 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:15.040 the league, and I was entertaining it and kind of 0:16:15.240 --> 0:16:18.800 carried car carried along through the season. And then we 0:16:18.800 --> 0:16:21.920 were playing playing the Chargers later in the season, and 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:24.320 one of the casting directors even brought a film crew 0:16:24.440 --> 0:16:26.840 down to our team hotel in San Diego. They took 0:16:26.880 --> 0:16:31.040 still shots video interview while my teammates are like walking 0:16:31.120 --> 0:16:36.400 around looking at me. So at first I kept it. 0:16:36.480 --> 0:16:38.920 I only told like two of my closest teammates right 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:44.760 on the plane ride going to San Diego. It ended 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:47.720 up somehow coming out. I told somebody else it ended 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:52.800 up coming out TMZ got a hold of it. No, no, no, 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:56.160 it got out amongst the locker room. So the whole 0:16:56.200 --> 0:16:58.960 flight from Buffalo to San Diego, I got a bunch 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:01.120 of like the married guys on the plane that watch 0:17:01.200 --> 0:17:03.440 it with their wives are coming over to my seat 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:06.800 and being like okay and just coaching me up, like 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:09.160 I'm like I'm already on it, Like I'm already on it. Okay, 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:12.320 don't be like this person, do like this, blah blah blah. 0:17:12.359 --> 0:17:14.240 And then even so I didn't end up doing it 0:17:14.240 --> 0:17:15.720 because I tore my a c O at the end 0:17:15.720 --> 0:17:17.760 of that season, and I thought it was probably a 0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:22.560 pretty good idea to focus on my job. Yeah, and 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:25.880 I remember I remember my offensive coordinator at the time 0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:27.800 came out to me. It was like a week after 0:17:27.840 --> 0:17:29.399 I gotten hurt and he's like, hey me, and how 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:30.760 you feeling. I'm like, ah, you know, I'm a right, 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:33.560 I'm struggling right now, but I'll be okay. He's like, okay, 0:17:33.600 --> 0:17:36.200 He's like, well, are you gonna still do the Bachelorette? 0:17:36.760 --> 0:17:39.879 I was like really, I was like, my own coach 0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:42.600 is asking me right now, Okay, but onto more important things. 0:17:42.640 --> 0:17:45.320 Are you still gonna do the show? Like it spread 0:17:45.400 --> 0:17:51.159 from our Janitor to our GM Emily Maynard season. I mean, 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:55.720 imagine if I was a bachelorette, then you we get 0:17:55.840 --> 0:17:58.720 started our fairy tale a long time ago. There's oh 0:17:58.960 --> 0:18:01.320 what a fairy tale is? My love? But you know 0:18:01.359 --> 0:18:02.960 the thing is I told Gena when I told Janna 0:18:03.040 --> 0:18:08.199 story forever ago, and Emily wouldn't have even been my type. Yeah. 0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:10.840 But here's the thing though, is would you still have 0:18:10.920 --> 0:18:14.480 like wanted to win? Yeah? Oh what would you do? Sarah? 0:18:15.920 --> 0:18:17.920 I think we know what Janel we know what Janel 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:20.119 Jenna would like stomp the ground down and be like 0:18:20.400 --> 0:18:27.520 I win. But yeah, yeah, no that honestly, I'd be 0:18:27.560 --> 0:18:30.000 there for the party, like I would be like up 0:18:30.000 --> 0:18:32.760 with the bitches, like having drinks, like taking like I 0:18:32.760 --> 0:18:35.040 feel like I'd probably be like, honestly, like I'm not 0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:38.360 that into you. But me and Megan and Stephanie really 0:18:38.440 --> 0:18:41.000 hit it off and like we're just gonna leave, like 0:18:41.119 --> 0:18:43.120 we're out in the hills. It's something We're just gonna 0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:46.920 go into La for a night, like come out. Okay, 0:18:47.000 --> 0:18:51.600 Jerry's walking and I think, okay, oh yay, Jerry, how 0:18:51.640 --> 0:18:56.600 are you? Hi? Hi? Hi? This is so futuristic. I 0:18:56.600 --> 0:19:00.040 feel like I'm on Star Trek, Isn't it weird? I 0:18:59.840 --> 0:19:05.680 I am promoting what's the name of it, Jerry O' show? 0:19:05.800 --> 0:19:08.439 Oh man, Sorry, I just stays there. In a second, 0:19:08.920 --> 0:19:15.520 Jerry O tells, how'd I forget that? No, it's the 0:19:15.600 --> 0:19:18.359 Jerry O Show. I Uh, I mean, long story short. 0:19:18.440 --> 0:19:24.199 I builled in for Wendy Williams last year, and Wendy 0:19:24.400 --> 0:19:28.920 always takes August off, and they said, do you want 0:19:28.960 --> 0:19:32.040 to try doing a show for a month, And I said, 0:19:32.160 --> 0:19:35.639 let's do it, and oh man, it really is like 0:19:35.640 --> 0:19:38.840 a dream come true. I mean, I'm loving his energy 0:19:38.880 --> 0:19:42.080 right now. It's just well, it's just like you're making 0:19:42.119 --> 0:19:47.119 me so happy, you know. Full disclosure, This is like 0:19:47.200 --> 0:19:49.360 the first this is the first day of press I'm 0:19:49.359 --> 0:19:52.679