Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Raymer and Michael Coffin and I'm
Speaker 1: her radio podcast Sarah Yayza. I we're back listen to this.
Speaker 1: So Sarah and I have facetimed probably about three times,
Speaker 1: and I have not asked you any wedding questions because
Speaker 1: I wanted to all be on air like like legit
Speaker 1: for everybody, no idea, what's going on? And I'm dyingy Mark.
Speaker 1: Everyone should be really proud because like we haven't talked
Speaker 1: about anything because you are like, we're saving it. We
Speaker 1: need content, we need the tea, spill it now. And
Speaker 1: I was like, no, no, no, I know one thing. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean I know the one, one big thing which
Speaker 1: is the same the date, which we will not say,
Speaker 1: but you just teased on Insta it is in your
Speaker 1: twenty twenty. But here's the thing. We haven't even talked
Speaker 1: about your engagements. I know. Oh it's so weird that
Speaker 1: like we haven't. I know, oh yeah we have because
Speaker 1: you were supposed to do our live when out in
Speaker 1: Nashville and you had to take your Like I just
Speaker 1: realized that my flight connection isn't long. Then I was like, look,
Speaker 1: I'm a bride now, so my brain is not working
Speaker 1: and it was my job. It is my title. So
Speaker 1: but here's the thing though, Sarah. So the last that
Speaker 1: we knew, it was just like, all right, I'm not
Speaker 1: talking about it, not bringing it up. But then you
Speaker 1: and Ty, can you say what you guys started to do? Yes?
Speaker 1: So okay, I Tie. I was out of I was
Speaker 1: with you guys doing podcast tour, and I came home.
Speaker 1: I had been gone, and since while I had been
Speaker 1: gone t I was like, you know, I kind of went.
Speaker 1: I started going to therapy. It's something that he and
Speaker 1: I talked about for a long time that I thought
Speaker 1: he should do just for like life reasons, not like
Speaker 1: for us. But you know, I've realized that not everyone
Speaker 1: is like you guys. You know a lot of people
Speaker 1: are turned off or scared by the idea of going
Speaker 1: into a room talking to someone. You know, it freaks
Speaker 1: people out. And he was one of them. He's like,
Speaker 1: that's weird. I just feel like that would be uncomfortable,
Speaker 1: and you know, so he never wanted to do it. Whatever,
Speaker 1: so he goes and does it, and I'm like so happy.
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's amazing. I'm so proud of you. You know,
Speaker 1: I was very supportive. I was very happy that he
Speaker 1: kind of took that step and he really liked it.
Speaker 1: That's what I was most shocked about is he had
Speaker 1: gone like three times, so he was like, would you
Speaker 1: want to come with me? And by the way, when
Speaker 1: you said that to me, I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: home girls getting broken up with so therapy I was,
Speaker 1: I mean, I was you called me when I told
Speaker 1: you I was. You were like, can you come over tomorrow?
Speaker 1: I was like I can' I'm going to therapy with
Speaker 1: tie and you literally called me because you were like
Speaker 1: I just the one time I went or what I
Speaker 1: forgot what your story was. I had gone when some
Speaker 1: guy had asked me to go to therapy with him,
Speaker 1: and then I got broken off with At the therapy appointment,
Speaker 1: I was just like yeah, and so I just got
Speaker 1: really scared because I've got because some people feel more
Speaker 1: comfortable and I could totally say things in therapy totally,
Speaker 1: you know. So maybe he was just like gonna say,
Speaker 1: I'm just I just don't want to get married, or yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh god, this is you panicked panic
Speaker 1: and I'm so sorry. It's funny though, because that was
Speaker 1: the last thing I would have never thought of that
Speaker 1: about that and no, and I didn't think. I didn't think.
Speaker 1: So I went with him. I was a bad friend man,
Speaker 1: and we had a really really great conversation. I said
Speaker 1: things I've never said, he said things he never said.
Speaker 1: I think that it was really good for both of
Speaker 1: us to you know, me, I have no problem talking
Speaker 1: to a stranger about my I'm like, I talk to
Speaker 1: you about my problems on the plane, like I had
Speaker 1: no problem talking to her. But I was mostly so
Speaker 1: impressed with him. It just like made me want to
Speaker 1: cry because I was like, wow, you are really it's
Speaker 1: so not like him whatever. But here's something to take
Speaker 1: from that, though, is you You had asked, you know,
Speaker 1: basically to him, why haven't you? Yeah, and he said
Speaker 1: go ahead honestly, like I don't remember, I'll tell you.
Speaker 1: He said, you wouldn't leave. Oh yeah, yes, sorry sorry,
Speaker 1: sorry sorry. So he had told me that, yes, in
Speaker 1: in therapy he said, you know, because I was shocked.
Speaker 1: The therapist she was very neutral, but she was very
Speaker 1: much like ty, you need to understand like where she's
Speaker 1: coming from, Like this is do you understand what she
Speaker 1: says when she says this, like blah, blah blah. You know,
Speaker 1: she was very I was shocked at how much she
Speaker 1: kind of agreed with me or not agreed with me,
Speaker 1: but you know, she wanted him to understand where I
Speaker 1: was coming from. And that was one of the things
Speaker 1: he said. I mean, if I'm being honest, I didn't
Speaker 1: do it in you know, December whatever, because I knew you.
Speaker 1: I knew you weren't going to leave. And I was like,
Speaker 1: and that must have been like a gut and it was.
Speaker 1: But I was so happy that he said that. I
Speaker 1: was so happy he was honest and said that to
Speaker 1: me because I was like, Okay, that's where we're at, Like,
Speaker 1: now I know how you now, I know, oh, you
Speaker 1: know me as well as you know, like wouldn't. And
Speaker 1: there was a there was a hockey camp coming up,
Speaker 1: and there was a hockey camp coming up, and I
Speaker 1: had told him this was kind of even before all
Speaker 1: the drama with you know, him proposing or not posing,
Speaker 1: I kind of already voiced that, you know, I'm not
Speaker 1: going to go this year with you. I think that
Speaker 1: you need to go do your thing. I'll stay home
Speaker 1: because usually I go to the camps every summer with him. Well,
Speaker 1: and you said, I don't want to be I don't
Speaker 1: want to be a girlfriend again at the seventh year
Speaker 1: of camp. Like no, I just said, you know, I
Speaker 1: don't think it's fair for me to, you know, go
Speaker 1: all summer with you and when all I'm really thinking
Speaker 1: about is, you know, all the things I could be.
Speaker 1: It's just I kept say it's not fair, it's not fair. Whatever.
Speaker 1: He understood. He said, I know, okay, you've been saying that, yes,
Speaker 1: And the therapist was like, you know, maybe it'll be good.
Speaker 1: He'll be back, because he was he was going to
Speaker 1: be gone for four months, four weeks, yes, straight. So
Speaker 1: she said, you know, stay on your ground and that's
Speaker 1: good for you. So we left the session. We left
Speaker 1: the session. It was emotional, but it was good. We
Speaker 1: got in the car and we both kind of we
Speaker 1: just like held hands in the car. It was like
Speaker 1: very bizarre but good. I mean, now I kind of
Speaker 1: know how you guys probably feel sometimes, Like it felt
Speaker 1: weird to be so emotional and heightened, but then it
Speaker 1: felt good to kind of just be with each other.
Speaker 1: I don't know whatever m hm, so I will I
Speaker 1: will say that. And even when Jana kind of caught
Speaker 1: me up on all that when when that was happening
Speaker 1: and told me what Ty said, and he was honest
Speaker 1: and admitted that to me, that showed a lot about him.
Speaker 1: But then also y'all's relationship because that's such something that
Speaker 1: I could see someone using in a manipulative way where
Speaker 1: he was he was giving you the ammunition that he had, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: so he has no you know, no kind of plans
Speaker 1: of being manipulative or holding that against you and calling
Speaker 1: you out on it. It's like, no, it is what
Speaker 1: it is. And so I think that's a huge testament
Speaker 1: to y'all's relationship. I was that you don't you don't
Speaker 1: play there, no, And I'm telling you, like when he
Speaker 1: said that to me, like it got me in my
Speaker 1: gut and I think I may have started crying, but
Speaker 1: I was so happy. It was weird at how happy
Speaker 1: I was to hear him say that in a weird way.
Speaker 1: So that happens. That's on a Monday, He's leaving Friday.
Speaker 1: The week was weird. It was just kind of a
Speaker 1: weird week because you weren't going because I was, oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, and I was like, Sarah, you can't go,
Speaker 1: I can't go, babe, And I was not going fill
Speaker 1: up your weekendville. I had no intention of going. I
Speaker 1: had nothing. I was not going. Everyone knew I was
Speaker 1: not going. It's funny. One of my girlfriends was like,
Speaker 1: I literally told my boyfriend like, hey, I might need
Speaker 1: to go to LA next week because like, Sarah's not
Speaker 1: gonna be okay. So, so it's now Thursday and it's
Speaker 1: his brother's graduation and we go out there and we
Speaker 1: see his parents and you know, we're all out there
Speaker 1: and they were having a dinner. But he was being
Speaker 1: so like weird. He's like, no, we don't need to
Speaker 1: go to the dinner, like we could just go home,
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. I'm like, it's your brother's graduation dinner, okay, whatever,
Speaker 1: and he's like, no, my mom's throwing him a party tomorrow.
Speaker 1: She's throwing him a graduation party. We'll go out to
Speaker 1: the house before I leave. So it was so we
Speaker 1: get home Thursday night and I was in the shower
Speaker 1: and I was crying. I started crying in the shower
Speaker 1: and he was like what is And I was like,
Speaker 1: it's just so weird that you're gonna leave tomorrow and
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go with you, like, this isn't how
Speaker 1: it's supposed to be. I want to go with you.
Speaker 1: I love going to camp. I love seeing all the
Speaker 1: kids and being there with you. Like, I don't want
Speaker 1: to do this. You know, I was right. You cried, Yeah,
Speaker 1: calmly in the shower, the way it's supposed to be done.
Speaker 1: But yeah, no, I was you don't cry, I don't cry.
Speaker 1: I was really I was really upset and we had
Speaker 1: just been with his family and I just, you know,
Speaker 1: I was just upset. So the next day we wake up,
Speaker 1: everything's normal. He had to go to the office. He's like,
Speaker 1: i'll see you, you know, I'll come get you. And
Speaker 1: he comes and gets me to go to his parents' house. Oh,
Speaker 1: we had to take supparate cars because he was leaving,
Speaker 1: so we took supperate cars out there. It was just
Speaker 1: a normal morning whatever. I'm like, what do I wear?
Speaker 1: He's dressed up. I'm like, oh, it's one of your
Speaker 1: mom's like grand parties. Perfect. We get there and like,
Speaker 1: long story short, it wasn't a graduation party. Like an
Speaker 1: hour in he as everyone probably saw on Instagram, like,
Speaker 1: takes me around the pool, out to this little gazebo
Speaker 1: at his parents' house and then honestly I blocked out.
Speaker 1: I have no idea what was happening. There was a
Speaker 1: Hell Airline plane fly by that said Sarah, will you
Speaker 1: marry me? Love Tie, and it had been flying around
Speaker 1: Malibu for an hour waiting for us. So people were
Speaker 1: texting Tie and Jane and everyone being like, we see
Speaker 1: this plane and like we're pretty sure it's for Sarah TI.
Speaker 1: So that was wild. But I and then mind you
Speaker 1: when you are calling me. Michael and I were on
Speaker 1: our way to shoot the sizzle for this potential reality
Speaker 1: show thing and but also and in a fight, That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So we were in a fight and
Speaker 1: I see that you your face. Time called FaceTime a lot,
Speaker 1: but like everyone listening, I called her four times in
Speaker 1: a row because I was like, this bitch is gonna
Speaker 1: find out on Instagram and kill me. Like if she
Speaker 1: doesn't answer there, like she needs to. Everyone was like
Speaker 1: sterotides giving a toast. I'm like, I have gone because
Speaker 1: everyone was already posting my I was like, she's gone,
Speaker 1: and you were answering, I know. And so because Michael
Speaker 1: and I were like fighting in the car and we
Speaker 1: were having a thing and then I saw your facetiming
Speaker 1: and I, oh, no, no, this is what happened. So
Speaker 1: it was you had called, but we were we were
Speaker 1: getting an argument. I got into the car. I was like,
Speaker 1: I'll drive because like we were both hungry and we
Speaker 1: just like were hungry and arguing. And then you called again,
Speaker 1: and then you called again, and I was just like
Speaker 1: I have to answer this because and then so he goes,
Speaker 1: oh really, He's like, Mike's like, you're You're really going
Speaker 1: to answer the phone. I go, look, she's either engaged
Speaker 1: or they broke up. It's Friday, like you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. I was like I have to answer this.
Speaker 1: And I was like I was still pissed. I was
Speaker 1: like whatever, and then I heard you and you I
Speaker 1: kind of look over the corner of my eye. Mike's
Speaker 1: like trying to be mad, start screaming, and then I
Speaker 1: was kind of had smiles, like I can't be mad
Speaker 1: at this, Like oh it was I mean, I'm just
Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you. It was did not think
Speaker 1: because Everyone's like you had to have known, you had
Speaker 1: to have known. I was like I had no clue,
Speaker 1: Like people don't understand what was really going down, Like
Speaker 1: I had no clue. Oh, everyone, who's wondering. I painted
Speaker 1: my own nails, like, trust me, I would have if
Speaker 1: I thought I would have got a manicure. But I
Speaker 1: had no idea. The only time I knew it was
Speaker 1: about to go down is when he was walking me around.
Speaker 1: He played like his favorite lumineer song and it's like
Speaker 1: the drums and all. It's a very obvious song when
Speaker 1: it starts, and I literally looked at him and I
Speaker 1: was like, what the f is going on? And he
Speaker 1: wouldn't look at me, and he just kept walking and
Speaker 1: kept walking, and I asked him. I was like, what
Speaker 1: was I even saying. He's like, honestly, you just kept
Speaker 1: screaming F bombs And I was like, yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: even know, Like I don't even know what I was saying.
Speaker 1: And he's like, don't well were you saying too? Wasn't
Speaker 1: he like telling you like I should have done this,
Speaker 1: and You're like, just get to it, just get to it. Yes,
Speaker 1: he lost me over there and he he's giving me
Speaker 1: like a sh like uh. He's telling me like I'm
Speaker 1: so sorry for everything, like I'm so you know, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, stop beating yourself up. This is the glorious moment.
Speaker 1: And then he starts going on and on and then
Speaker 1: he pulls because the part of me was like, maybe
Speaker 1: he's just giving me a speech before he leaves tonight,
Speaker 1: like I don't know what's going down. But then he
Speaker 1: pulls out a ring and I was like, holy fuck, sorry,
Speaker 1: it's it all to go down. And then he starts
Speaker 1: giving me a ten minute speech but he's holding the
Speaker 1: ring and I'm like, just open it already. But the
Speaker 1: best start of all of that was that because everyone's like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, he did so good. But what I
Speaker 1: think because I fell to my knees at one point
Speaker 1: before he got down on a knee, and I think
Speaker 1: that's when he told me that this was his mom's
Speaker 1: ring and she it was one of her rings that
Speaker 1: she his grandma's been wearing and his grandma gave it
Speaker 1: to him two years ago and was like, I want
Speaker 1: you to give this to Sarah, and so like when
Speaker 1: he told me that that it was the mom and
Speaker 1: his grandma's ring, I just lost it. Okay, that's uh,
Speaker 1: that's amazing and I'm so happy for you, babe. I
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Speaker 1: all Right, so I'm kind of really pumped about Jerry
Speaker 1: O'Connell coming on the show. I know Sarah is because
Speaker 1: she's and be happier. You're living basically your best life
Speaker 1: today because apparently he's a big Bravo fan, which, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: is that the one where where the housewives are all? Yes,
Speaker 1: that is the one. That is the one. He's like
Speaker 1: a die hard way He's a diehard Bravo guy. I'm
Speaker 1: a diehard Bravo gal, So this should be interested. Do
Speaker 1: you do you sometimes not like me as your friend
Speaker 1: because I I don't know those things. No, honestly, I
Speaker 1: feel like it humbles me. You pause. It honestly humbles
Speaker 1: me because if you were obsessed, it's all I would
Speaker 1: talk about. So it's nice for me to come over
Speaker 1: and make references and you not understand and me be
Speaker 1: like wow, Bethany, wow, so exactly exactly. I am excited
Speaker 1: though to talk about his brother though, because he was
Speaker 1: on the Bachelor, which is interesting to me, which by
Speaker 1: the way, he's on the other side of it where
Speaker 1: it's like the family no idea, which, by the way, though, Sarah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you might think that I would be good on the
Speaker 1: bed one. I know that you would, literally, but I
Speaker 1: don't think you know this though, but actually Michael's the
Speaker 1: one that auditioned for the Bachelor's right. I'm never speechless.
Speaker 1: I am now speechless? What I Yeah, that is something
Speaker 1: that you're going to need to touch on a little
Speaker 1: bit more. Once upon a time, I was I didn't
Speaker 1: sign myself, Oh sure, one of my best girlfriends growing
Speaker 1: up did. I was chilling with her and her husband
Speaker 1: and she was making us watch it and she looked
Speaker 1: at me and she's like, I'm going to sign you
Speaker 1: up for that. I said, okay. A couple months later,
Speaker 1: I get the phone call and it was one of
Speaker 1: the casting directors there at ABC or whatever network it's
Speaker 1: on and a star is born, yeah or whatever that
Speaker 1: one network of those then sit with me and watch
Speaker 1: it I don't know, on like Wednesday nights or something
Speaker 1: every Monday there with He's like, what's doing now? But no,
Speaker 1: I mean it kind of What was funny is I
Speaker 1: just I was entertaining it for the time at the time,
Speaker 1: because I was single, I was my second year in
Speaker 1: the league, and I was entertaining it and kind of
Speaker 1: carried car carried along through the season. And then we
Speaker 1: were playing playing the Chargers later in the season, and
Speaker 1: one of the casting directors even brought a film crew
Speaker 1: down to our team hotel in San Diego. They took
Speaker 1: still shots video interview while my teammates are like walking
Speaker 1: around looking at me. So at first I kept it.
Speaker 1: I only told like two of my closest teammates right
Speaker 1: on the plane ride going to San Diego. It ended
Speaker 1: up somehow coming out. I told somebody else it ended
Speaker 1: up coming out TMZ got a hold of it. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: it got out amongst the locker room. So the whole
Speaker 1: flight from Buffalo to San Diego, I got a bunch
Speaker 1: of like the married guys on the plane that watch
Speaker 1: it with their wives are coming over to my seat
Speaker 1: and being like okay and just coaching me up, like
Speaker 1: I'm like I'm already on it, Like I'm already on it. Okay,
Speaker 1: don't be like this person, do like this, blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: And then even so I didn't end up doing it
Speaker 1: because I tore my a c O at the end
Speaker 1: of that season, and I thought it was probably a
Speaker 1: pretty good idea to focus on my job. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I remember I remember my offensive coordinator at the time
Speaker 1: came out to me. It was like a week after
Speaker 1: I gotten hurt and he's like, hey me, and how
Speaker 1: you feeling. I'm like, ah, you know, I'm a right,
Speaker 1: I'm struggling right now, but I'll be okay. He's like, okay,
Speaker 1: He's like, well, are you gonna still do the Bachelorette?
Speaker 1: I was like really, I was like, my own coach
Speaker 1: is asking me right now, Okay, but onto more important things.
Speaker 1: Are you still gonna do the show? Like it spread
Speaker 1: from our Janitor to our GM Emily Maynard season. I mean,
Speaker 1: imagine if I was a bachelorette, then you we get
Speaker 1: started our fairy tale a long time ago. There's oh
Speaker 1: what a fairy tale is? My love? But you know
Speaker 1: the thing is I told Gena when I told Janna
Speaker 1: story forever ago, and Emily wouldn't have even been my type. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing though, is would you still have
Speaker 1: like wanted to win? Yeah? Oh what would you do? Sarah?
Speaker 1: I think we know what Janel we know what Janel
Speaker 1: Jenna would like stomp the ground down and be like
Speaker 1: I win. But yeah, yeah, no that honestly, I'd be
Speaker 1: there for the party, like I would be like up
Speaker 1: with the bitches, like having drinks, like taking like I
Speaker 1: feel like I'd probably be like, honestly, like I'm not
Speaker 1: that into you. But me and Megan and Stephanie really
Speaker 1: hit it off and like we're just gonna leave, like
Speaker 1: we're out in the hills. It's something We're just gonna
Speaker 1: go into La for a night, like come out. Okay,
Speaker 1: Jerry's walking and I think, okay, oh yay, Jerry, how
Speaker 1: are you? Hi? Hi? Hi? This is so futuristic. I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm on Star Trek, Isn't it weird? I
Speaker 1: I am promoting what's the name of it, Jerry O' show?
Speaker 1: Oh man, Sorry, I just stays there. In a second,
Speaker 1: Jerry O tells, how'd I forget that? No, it's the
Speaker 1: Jerry O Show. I Uh, I mean, long story short.
Speaker 1: I builled in for Wendy Williams last year, and Wendy
Speaker 1: always takes August off, and they said, do you want
Speaker 1: to try doing a show for a month, And I said,
Speaker 1: let's do it, and oh man, it really is like
Speaker 1: a dream come true. I mean, I'm loving his energy
Speaker 1: right now. It's just well, it's just like you're making
Speaker 1: me so happy, you know. Full disclosure, This is like
Speaker 1: the first this is the first day of press I'm
Speaker 1: doing it. It doesn't start until August twelfth, so this
Speaker 1: is like the first time publicly I'm talking about it,
Speaker 1: and it's fun to try and like, word, what happens
Speaker 1: when you get a Televisi show. I watch pretty much
Speaker 1: all reality television. I mean all of it. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: your Bravo girl, but I mean, you know, I not
Speaker 1: only watch the Housewives. I go deep on Bravo. I
Speaker 1: watch like all the blow Decks, Mediterranean, Regular Caribbean. I
Speaker 1: mean I watch a Prey Ski, I watch Summer Home.
Speaker 1: I watch them all there. So now I have a
Speaker 1: job that pays me to go in in the morning
Speaker 1: and talk about what I watched on Bravo the night
Speaker 1: before and comment. I can't even that is literally my dream,
Speaker 1: Like what a time. You know what I'm gonna I'm
Speaker 1: gonna even make it better. I go in and talk
Speaker 1: about it. But before I go out, they give me
Speaker 1: a blowout and put a substantial amount of foundation on
Speaker 1: my face. I look good. I'm a walking Instagram filter.
Speaker 1: I don't need an Instagram I don't need a filter, wow,
Speaker 1: because I look good while I'm talking about it, and
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about it to my wife and kids
Speaker 1: before they go to school and them telling me to
Speaker 1: shut up, we're late, dad. No one cares. I do.
Speaker 1: People sit in an audience and when I finished stories
Speaker 1: talking about her and make a point about how sexy
Speaker 1: Lisa Rena is on Instagram dancing the body. Have you
Speaker 1: been following that? Are you kidding? I have a theory
Speaker 1: about her on there that she went to Andy's baby
Speaker 1: shower famous you can look it up Andy Cohen, head
Speaker 1: of Bravo, and she was filmed dancing on a table
Speaker 1: there by Kyle Richards and it, I mean, it went
Speaker 1: I know this term is used a lot, and I
Speaker 1: don't like to overuse it, but it went viral, Like
Speaker 1: the video of her dancing seductively on the table went viral. Unbelievable.
Speaker 1: And so now she's like really posting seductive dancing videos.
Speaker 1: And by the way, you would think it's you would
Speaker 1: you think it's annoying someone taping themselves selfie mode, dancing,
Speaker 1: doing regular household chores. I'm talking at the kitchen sink,
Speaker 1: cleaning out the garbage disposal, getting that gross stuff out
Speaker 1: and like throwing it away, or maybe if there's like
Speaker 1: a bottle cap or something like doing household like cleaning
Speaker 1: the calking on the sink. But she's got some music
Speaker 1: going and she's working and twerking and it looks really good.
Speaker 1: And are you ready for this? I find it. I
Speaker 1: don't want any beef with Harry Hamlin. I find it
Speaker 1: to be very arousing. Yeah, you guys, her body's unbelievable.
Speaker 1: It's unbelievable. She goes to Canada for like three months
Speaker 1: every summer, comes back it's on posting bikini pigs videos, dancing.
Speaker 1: It's really it's it's worth the follow. I know I'm
Speaker 1: supposed to be talking about Wait, what was the name
Speaker 1: of that show? I was talking about? What was the
Speaker 1: name of that show? The show I'm on, Jerry O's Show.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, the JERRYO Show. I know I'm suposed
Speaker 1: to be talking about that. But after you watch Jerio show,
Speaker 1: go go follow Lisa Red on Instagram. Yes, Jerry Yo's
Speaker 1: show is going to be very serious, only talking about
Speaker 1: serious topics like how hot is Lisa Renna on Instagram?
Speaker 1: That is gonna be breaking down the real topics in
Speaker 1: the world, the important that people actually care about. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the important things. Family and kids are great. Family and
Speaker 1: kids are great. Sure, But I mean I have I
Speaker 1: have a family and kids. I love them. My kids
Speaker 1: are Are they old enough to watch Bravo? That's a joke, everybody.
Speaker 1: My kids are ten. I have ten year old twin girls. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well don't ah, you don't live with them, so you
Speaker 1: don't know the full extent of well ten ten is fun.
Speaker 1: It gets easier, it really, it's kind of fun. Actually,
Speaker 1: they have a little bit of attitude now, my daughters,
Speaker 1: and I'm not really it's it's sort of fun. As
Speaker 1: a parent, you're sort of proud that your kids have
Speaker 1: attitude and sass, and you're like, oh, I I raised
Speaker 1: a creature that has sass, like doesn't take it, you know,
Speaker 1: So you're sort of a little bit proud, But at
Speaker 1: the same time you want to just yell like, don't
Speaker 1: you ever talk to me that way. I'm your daddy
Speaker 1: who has the sass? You or your wife? You know.
Speaker 1: What's funny is Uh, it's really I don't want to
Speaker 1: like generalize in stereotype genders at all. I am as
Speaker 1: woke I am, I am no, I'm super woke. I
Speaker 1: am so woke it's not even funny. But but I
Speaker 1: never grew up with girls. I only had a brother,
Speaker 1: and because my mom was around two boys, she became
Speaker 1: sort of like a like a dude, you know, Like
Speaker 1: my mom was, like, you know, was with boys a lot,
Speaker 1: you know, so learn to like break boys up from fighting,
Speaker 1: and like, you know, like was like I never grew
Speaker 1: up with like female energy. I just didn't grow up
Speaker 1: with that. And it's funny to have like total female
Speaker 1: energy in a house now, you know. I mean I
Speaker 1: never no one, no one ever put up a unicorn
Speaker 1: poster in any house I grew I didn't even like
Speaker 1: know what unicorn. Like. Now I find myself just staring
Speaker 1: at unicorn posters, like these are really beautiful, Like look
Speaker 1: at these rainbows, Like this is amazing, Like that's a
Speaker 1: unicorn and it's got wings and it's flying. Look at this,
Speaker 1: there's so many rainbows and that's the beautiful sky. This
Speaker 1: is beautiful. But also to watch an argument between my
Speaker 1: wife and my two daughters is it's in dance. Man,
Speaker 1: it's your own. It's crazy like when when it goes down,
Speaker 1: it's funny and it's so it's just crazy like. But also,
Speaker 1: my my daughter's fight a lot, you know, like they
Speaker 1: share a room, so they're twins. I've seen them fight
Speaker 1: over a pair of jeans. Like that's something that like
Speaker 1: I I would never I grew up with my brother.
Speaker 1: We lived with each other. I went to college, we
Speaker 1: lived together. I lived with my brother for twenty one years.
Speaker 1: I never once said to my brother, Hey man, I
Speaker 1: got to change first. Don't change the mind wear him
Speaker 1: you you take these jeans, I'll cut them up. I
Speaker 1: swear I will cut them up. I'll cut them into
Speaker 1: a million little pieces. Man, if you you don't get
Speaker 1: to wear these jeans, I grabbed them. I laid them out.
Speaker 1: I laid them out for tomorrow. He's like speaking to
Speaker 1: my soul. I have a sister, and I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: twenty eight, and I get like that. If there's a
Speaker 1: tag on that and you put that on your body
Speaker 1: before me, right, game over, I do Game of Thrones.
Speaker 1: Time here I come, I go nuts. I go nuts. Right.
Speaker 1: So I saw a quote that actually you said that
Speaker 1: because you have twins. So so the key to not
Speaker 1: getting a divorce is having twins. Oh man, it's really funny.
Speaker 1: Somebody somebody said to me once when my kids were
Speaker 1: like just months old. Somebody said hey, and like an
Speaker 1: older person said to me, hey, how old your kids?
Speaker 1: And I said they're nine months old. And they said, hey,
Speaker 1: if you can make it to like three or four,
Speaker 1: you stand a good chance of staying married. And I
Speaker 1: was like, wow, really, like I thought they were gonna say, oh,
Speaker 1: that's so cute. You're such a good family. She was like,
Speaker 1: you don't make it a three or four. It's not
Speaker 1: a good chance you could probably stay married. Wow. And
Speaker 1: then I was I sort of laughed, like you guys
Speaker 1: are now like like nervously, and she said, my my
Speaker 1: husband and I didn't make it. And I was like,
Speaker 1: oh boy, wow, I know, but it really is. It's
Speaker 1: really true. Like now that our kids are ten, it's
Speaker 1: almost like it's so funny. They sort of like it's
Speaker 1: like teams now they formed it. It's not like teams,
Speaker 1: it's like gangs. Oh, Like they formed like a gang.
Speaker 1: And my wife and I then, through these circumstances, have
Speaker 1: to form our own gang, like a gang task force,
Speaker 1: and it's like we're like bonded by this. You know.
Speaker 1: My kids are always like, you know, like this is
Speaker 1: our turf and we're like, no way, this is our corner.
Speaker 1: Get out of here. Did it just get dark? Too
Speaker 1: dark for everybody? No? I mean even Jane and I
Speaker 1: have talked about that, where like that'll be fun when
Speaker 1: the kids get to that age and we can kind
Speaker 1: of f with them a little bit. Raising kids is
Speaker 1: just like all you have to do. All you have
Speaker 1: to do is watch that show The Wire on HBO,
Speaker 1: and it's like there's two sides, the kids and the parents.
Speaker 1: I think the thing I said was my wife and
Speaker 1: I would have gotten divorced, but neither one of us
Speaker 1: wanted our children, so that's why we were staying together.
Speaker 1: We I think we realized early on that not one
Speaker 1: of us wanted soul custody, so we stayed oh together.
Speaker 1: We would actually my wife and I would have the
Speaker 1: first and only case in Hollywood of Hollywood couples breaking
Speaker 1: up where we insisted that the other partner get custody,
Speaker 1: you know how like Brangelina, I don't know if we
Speaker 1: can them that anymore. Are like it's like supposedly allegedly, Wow,
Speaker 1: I've really been taught by Wendy Williams. Allegedly a custody
Speaker 1: battle that's like happening. But that would never be the
Speaker 1: case of my wife or I. I'd be standing up
Speaker 1: a photo of judge going, your honor. I am not
Speaker 1: fit to have these kids by myself. I need someone
Speaker 1: from the state with me when I'm with them, and
Speaker 1: I don't really want them that much about every other weekend,
Speaker 1: every third month supervised visits and if I want to cancel,
Speaker 1: I can. Oh, how about that, your honor. Actually, by
Speaker 1: the way, that's a funny sketch for the Jerio Show.
Speaker 1: We should do my wife and I having an anti
Speaker 1: custody battle. Oh. A funny thing I should tell you
Speaker 1: about the Jerio Show that's gonna be different look at me.
Speaker 1: Bringing it back around is we've partnered with Funnier Die,
Speaker 1: which is that very funny Will Ferrell website, which I've
Speaker 1: worked for a bunch over the years. I have a
Speaker 1: lot of fun content on there, and they're gonna be
Speaker 1: They're gonna help us with a lot of our sketches
Speaker 1: and a lot of our comedy in the Jerio Show.
Speaker 1: So it's gonna be totally different than anything you've seen
Speaker 1: on daytime television, which is, you know, not to say
Speaker 1: that other daytime TV shows are lacking. You know, they're
Speaker 1: very fun, but you you probably won't see Doctor Phil
Speaker 1: doing a funny video with whoever is going to be
Speaker 1: a guest on that day, or doing funny or die videos,
Speaker 1: although he should because that would be pretty funny. Who's
Speaker 1: your dream guests on your show that we would love
Speaker 1: to have? You know, I gotta say, because we are
Speaker 1: a live show. August twelfth to August thirty first, the
Speaker 1: Jerio Show on Fox stations, whatever happened the night before.
Speaker 1: Like let's say, for example, when we're on air, Real
Speaker 1: Housewives of Orange County is gonna be showing lucky. I
Speaker 1: think it starts. It starts August sixth, and I'm a
Speaker 1: big I'm a big Orange County fan. I love those ladies,
Speaker 1: so it would be so fun. Let's say Vicky Gunbilson
Speaker 1: gets into an argument with Tamra. I would love to
Speaker 1: get one of them to come on the show and
Speaker 1: give their side of the story. It's really because it's
Speaker 1: it's it's really fun when you hear or you know what,
Speaker 1: I'd love to get the villain in a situation. For example,
Speaker 1: this season on Beverly Hills. Uh there was a sort
Speaker 1: of matriarch character who took a lot of heat this year. Yes,
Speaker 1: do we name her? Honestly, I'm scared, I'm afraid. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna say it. I'll just say that there was
Speaker 1: a there was sort of a matriarch of real Housewives
Speaker 1: of Beverly Hills who was feuding with a lot of
Speaker 1: people this season. It would be so fun to book
Speaker 1: her and say, what's what's going on? Because because honestly,
Speaker 1: like I'm, I'm a fair and balanced daytime TV person,
Speaker 1: and I would want to hear their side of the
Speaker 1: story because I truly believe that they have a they
Speaker 1: have a side of the story too. So uh So
Speaker 1: my dream guest would be whoever is like in the
Speaker 1: reality world, in you know, in pop culture, who is
Speaker 1: going through it? I'd love to I'd love to talk
Speaker 1: to them because I will say this, I'm I would
Speaker 1: have like a funny, fresh, not soft take on it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can't wait. Well, because here's the thing though, if
Speaker 1: you ever need someone to bounce off a housewives up
Speaker 1: with Sarah right there to come on your show and
Speaker 1: be the girl that sits there and like goes back
Speaker 1: and forth. We've we've already air dropped our contacts. He's
Speaker 1: coming to the wedding. I think, yeah, I'm there. He
Speaker 1: should officiate. Oh you should have Yeah, you know what.
Speaker 1: Hold on a second, I'm just downloading get your wedding, like,
Speaker 1: learn how to be a reverend, learn how to officiate,
Speaker 1: be in a be a marriage officiate dot com. Wait,
Speaker 1: hold on a second. I agree, done, I can do it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he's in there. You go, well, hold on a second. Oh,
Speaker 1: we we have Hold on a second. We have big news.
Speaker 1: You're getting married. What is the date? Oh, in twenty twenty, yeah,
Speaker 1: the year February. I'll give you that. I am going
Speaker 1: to show you. Hey, I'm gonna show him everything. I'll
Speaker 1: tell him whatever you want. Is it going to be local?
Speaker 1: Are we going? Is it going to be? My god,
Speaker 1: look at him right here, trying to get the tea.
Speaker 1: Is it you of course that she's marrying his son.
Speaker 1: Of course, yes, I should have I should have known.
Speaker 1: I should have known all this. I'm so sorry. I'm ashamed.
Speaker 1: You know what. Let me tell you something for the
Speaker 1: Jerio's show. I am going to do like prepare for
Speaker 1: interviews and everything and like that, no way you would
Speaker 1: ever know. No, I'm ashamed that I didn't know that.
Speaker 1: I should have known that, I should have done my research.
Speaker 1: I was really slacking, to be honest. I fell asleep
Speaker 1: in the car in the parking garage, like I had
Speaker 1: a nap, and then I just woke up and like
Speaker 1: someone said, you gotta be up here, and I should
Speaker 1: have downloaded everything. Wow, you are marrying into the Gretzki family.
Speaker 1: That's amazing. The great, great family, great family, love them,
Speaker 1: very terrific Canadian family, Canadian. You probably can't give anything away.
Speaker 1: It's going to be in twenty twenty. I bet it's
Speaker 1: going to I'm just guessing here. I have no faubt.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say somewhere because it's the Gretzky family, somewhere
Speaker 1: in Lake country in Ontario, most likely Muskoka. Boom done, Muskoka,
Speaker 1: if those who don't know, is a very expensive, very
Speaker 1: very exclusive it's where is. It's a very exclusive lake
Speaker 1: community in north north of Toronto. It's beautiful, beautiful, and wow,
Speaker 1: that's exciting. Are you going to be able to call?
Speaker 1: Are you going to be able? I mean the Great One? Wow?
Speaker 1: You know your father in law was It is known
Speaker 1: as the Great One. Yeah, that's so funny. I know.
Speaker 1: So this wedding is going to be the great wedding
Speaker 1: all right? Without giving comuny deets. Have we picked out
Speaker 1: a dress yet? Are we still going through that whole process?
Speaker 1: I love you, so I guess I'll just do it
Speaker 1: here now. So I got a dress yesterday. Wow, she
Speaker 1: didn't even know, she didn't even know. Nobody knows. Who
Speaker 1: was there to help you choose? My mom and my sister. Wow. Yeah,
Speaker 1: crying tears. No lots of alcohol, Oh okay, alcohol served
Speaker 1: by the establishment that sold you the dress. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: what they do. That's what they do. It's so funny
Speaker 1: because normally, with like a lot of alcohol, like you'd
Speaker 1: think like it would be like like like elation and
Speaker 1: then no, we lay together forever. So everyone's just My
Speaker 1: dad's mostly like just take her. No, that's good. Rush
Speaker 1: you're you're very young, you know, I mean, nobody wants
Speaker 1: to rush into anything that's super exciting? Is it nerve
Speaker 1: is it nervous? Is it exciting? Tell me the emotioning,
Speaker 1: very excited. It's exciting, really excited. Now here we go
Speaker 1: the list that's really crazy? How scary is that? It's
Speaker 1: pretty scary? It's scary. I mean, I feel like I'm
Speaker 1: watching The Jerry Show right now. I really like it. Well, listen, good, hey,
Speaker 1: Jerry Show, August twelve, Fox Stations. Right there, the list
Speaker 1: is crazy. Turned into the interviewer. I'm dying. How that
Speaker 1: was the biggest negotiation with my wife and I. My
Speaker 1: wife and I've been married, so we did it. We've
Speaker 1: been married for a while now, twelve weeks, twelve years.
Speaker 1: That's amazing. It's crazy. I listen in Hollywood, people are like,
Speaker 1: why are you guys still married? What's up with you too?
Speaker 1: Why are you guys weird or something? You guys? You freaks?
Speaker 1: He freaks? He freaks. What? Yeah, you've been married twelve years?
Speaker 1: It must be he must be pretty freaky. What we've
Speaker 1: just been married? We have kids? Yeah? Right, what's really good?
Speaker 1: What's really going on? Man? The guest list? That was
Speaker 1: the thing that my wife and I negotiated most heavily
Speaker 1: about when we were getting married. I am as a negotiation.
Speaker 1: Who can come, who can't come? Who needs to come,
Speaker 1: who needs to come, who doesn't need to come. We
Speaker 1: had a hundred person wedding, so that's it's listen. I
Speaker 1: know that doesn't sound small. I mean, listen, my parents
Speaker 1: got married. There were like three people there, and so
Speaker 1: one hundred people is a lot compared to what I
Speaker 1: knew was a wedding, you know. But I mean I
Speaker 1: remember I once said to my wife and we were planning,
Speaker 1: I was like, man, I can't believe we have one
Speaker 1: hundred people. And she was like, oh, you think we
Speaker 1: need more? And I was like more, are you crazy?
Speaker 1: I don't know if I have one hundred, I don't
Speaker 1: know if we have fifty. I don't know if I've
Speaker 1: fifty friends. And she was like, this is a this
Speaker 1: is on the smaller side, and I was like, no,
Speaker 1: come on, Yeah, it's hard because we're both one of
Speaker 1: five and our moms are both one of seven. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, so go ahead alone. Yeah, oh my gosh, yeah,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh. That's okay. And I won't get into
Speaker 1: deets like are people going to have to travel? But
Speaker 1: you got to think about all that stuff and it's crazy.
Speaker 1: But congratulations, that's exciting. Let me see this rock woo.
Speaker 1: I know this is an audio medium, so I'll explain it.
Speaker 1: I'm looking at what what I'm going to describe as
Speaker 1: a super Bowl ring. Oh my godness, I'm not you
Speaker 1: won the super Bowl. I didn't realize this is uh
Speaker 1: look at that. Yeah, you will be very happy to
Speaker 1: hear that. It is beautiful, very clean, diamond. I don't
Speaker 1: see it's very It looks very good. I know you
Speaker 1: guys are probably sponsored and I'll get in trouble for this,
Speaker 1: but I can't say this about your fiance. He went
Speaker 1: to Jerry. Every kids begins with case and to think,
Speaker 1: I'm hungover right now. Oh, how was it since you're
Speaker 1: into reality shows, how like, how was that having your
Speaker 1: brother Charlie be the Bachelor? It's so funny. This is
Speaker 1: going back, This is going way back. My brother was
Speaker 1: like the second or third bachelor. This was he was
Speaker 1: the seventh, probably like the fourth guy. Then, oh, it
Speaker 1: felt like the second. Hey once again for Jerio Show.
Speaker 1: I am gonna be doing some homework. I promise you,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get all these details down. We are never
Speaker 1: gonna make a mistake on the Jerio Show. I guess
Speaker 1: he is the seventh, but that still is pretty early
Speaker 1: on in oh yeah, in Bachelor World, it was really
Speaker 1: stressful for a family. We thought it was gonna be fun.
Speaker 1: I felt a little responsible because I was the one
Speaker 1: who was like, you gotta do this, man, this is
Speaker 1: gonna be so fun. You're the Bachelor, Go go go.
Speaker 1: And it was pre social media, so it was it's
Speaker 1: it's funny. I think now we know, like, hey, listen,
Speaker 1: the spotlight's going to be really on you. I'm not
Speaker 1: sure if you know, only do this show if you're
Speaker 1: ready to take the heat, you know. I think I
Speaker 1: think everyone's a little more savvy now with social media,
Speaker 1: Like you know, you get named the Bachelor, or you
Speaker 1: get on a reality show, and you're immediately a personality,
Speaker 1: you know, and you have a lot of followers and
Speaker 1: your celebrity, you know. And I think back then there
Speaker 1: there there wasn't that, so we were a little more
Speaker 1: innocent back then, you know. So I was really pushing
Speaker 1: him to do it, and it was like my brother
Speaker 1: who was like, this isn't me, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm not a I guess we call
Speaker 1: them reality stars back then, you know, and like the
Speaker 1: only real reality shows back then were like, uh, you
Speaker 1: know the Osborns and you know, real world, and I
Speaker 1: was like, this will be this will be great, and
Speaker 1: you know what, it was really like stressful. It was
Speaker 1: really like he pick somebody, you know, like you're there's
Speaker 1: a lot of forces telling you it's It's not like
Speaker 1: going to a bar, seeing a girl, liking her, getting
Speaker 1: her number, and then dating her. It's like you have
Speaker 1: to go through a process where you slowly eliminate people,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, where you're encouraged to start
Speaker 1: beef with people. You know, it was it was stressful.
Speaker 1: I don't know. If it was, I wouldn't describe it
Speaker 1: as a pleasant experience. I could see that it is
Speaker 1: fun to I mean there is a I do have
Speaker 1: to admit. When it was on, we would have screening
Speaker 1: parties and we'd watch it and there was an excitement
Speaker 1: to it, you know, and there is an excitement to
Speaker 1: being on TV. But you know, I gotta tell you, oh, man,
Speaker 1: you know even when like my parents, we're on for
Speaker 1: the take the dates back to your parents' episodes. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. There's a word for it, hometown visits.
Speaker 1: Thank you for the hometown visits. You know, my parents
Speaker 1: are pretty charismatic people, but the second there were cameras
Speaker 1: in their faces and a producer say, always feel bad
Speaker 1: for the parents. Well also like a producer saying that,
Speaker 1: like my mom, who is a like an opinionated person,
Speaker 1: saying to my mom like, hey, what do you not
Speaker 1: like about this girl? Like on camera my wife being like, oh,
Speaker 1: I like every I think everyone's good, and the like
Speaker 1: I need you to be like I need to hear
Speaker 1: what you don't like about them that would help us,
Speaker 1: you know, and my mom being like, I don't I
Speaker 1: want to say that. Yeah, it's rude, right, but is
Speaker 1: there anything that you maybe don't like about them, something
Speaker 1: that you are afraid that your son won't like? You know,
Speaker 1: and if we put a gun to your head, well,
Speaker 1: you know, and like alcohol is involved with everything. They're
Speaker 1: always trying to get people and what you watch. So
Speaker 1: now when I watch that show and I see people
Speaker 1: like breaking down, I know from having a family members
Speaker 1: done the show. I know they're wasted. I know it's
Speaker 1: four in the morning, I know they've been working for
Speaker 1: sixteen hours. And let me tell you something. If this
Speaker 1: interview that we're all doing here went on for sixteen hours,
Speaker 1: and you kept giving me drinks. By our sixteen I
Speaker 1: would be here talking about about I love you. I
Speaker 1: don't get a rose. I don't know what I'll fight
Speaker 1: you all. I mean anyone, even the strongest people in
Speaker 1: the world, like the greatest leaders, would like Obama would
Speaker 1: be like even after our sixteen would be like, oh
Speaker 1: old that said, I haven't missed a season, love it all.
Speaker 1: I can't wait to watch somebody gets drunk and fight
Speaker 1: and cry and hopefully gets somebody. Man, When Colton jumped
Speaker 1: that fence and ran, that was some appointment television. Man.
Speaker 1: When that virgin was just off and running, that was crazy. Man.
Speaker 1: You can have the next person, hopefully, maybe they'll be
Speaker 1: same time airing. I don't know how that works. I
Speaker 1: am not a virgin, so I can't. Oh oh, give
Speaker 1: me a show. Oh yeah, be fun to have a bachelor.
Speaker 1: Oh man, if I got that virgin on my show,
Speaker 1: forget it. So, because you're so obsessed reality, would you
Speaker 1: actually be on housewives? I would do it in a second.
Speaker 1: My wife would never do it. And my wife you
Speaker 1: can look her up on the old Graham. Rebecca Romaine,
Speaker 1: very beautiful, very high falutint model actress. I don't think
Speaker 1: it's her bag. She's not confrontational like that. I would
Speaker 1: be on there. I would be fighting with like, no
Speaker 1: you would, Hey Hamlin, Ken Todd, I'd be hooking up
Speaker 1: with them, Ken Todd trying to Ki try to kiss
Speaker 1: my husband Jerry did last night? You savage. I'm just
Speaker 1: talk about I'm in love a kid, Todd, Lisa. You
Speaker 1: can't take me away? Oh sorry, I'm sorry. Well, guys,
Speaker 1: this is it. I'm hanging. I have nothing to do.
Speaker 1: I'm sitting here all day. I have nothing to do.
Speaker 1: And I mean, say, you want me out of here
Speaker 1: because Mario Lopez is coming in or something like, you
Speaker 1: have someone else who has to sit here. I have
Speaker 1: nothing else to do. So I'm actually now just a sweat.
Speaker 1: You're gonna sit here for two hours and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: keep talking about that. He's getting the looks right now.
Speaker 1: I know my buddy Adam is here. He just he
Speaker 1: had nothing else to do today. He was like, hey, man,
Speaker 1: I want to like hang, Oh I haven't seen him
Speaker 1: some listening to my heart and just drive around. Bro. No,
Speaker 1: you guys don't understand him. I'm sweating. I haven't. Hey,
Speaker 1: congrats to the wedding. Gonda be super fun. I can't
Speaker 1: wait to see pictures when they're posted. Oh my god, yes,
Speaker 1: of course. And you're marrying it too. A great I mean,
Speaker 1: your family's great, but they are the best. They're real royalty.
Speaker 1: It's exciting. Oh that's sweet. Wow, I'm gonna cry. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm basically a Megan Markle. They are. You're
Speaker 1: I'm not even making a joke, a rare, serious comment
Speaker 1: in my eyes. You're marrying royalty. Oh wow, that's really nice.
Speaker 1: Are you a hockey fan. I'm a huge hockey fan.
Speaker 1: But also I'm a fan because I've met your in laws.
Speaker 1: I live in a little village called Calabasas in California,
Speaker 1: where all the Kardashians are from. But not only are
Speaker 1: the Kardashians from there, the Gretzkis are also from, actually
Speaker 1: a little far out. I live in the more lower
Speaker 1: income area of Calabasas. They live in the in the
Speaker 1: hiring Come area. But I have seen the Gretzky family
Speaker 1: out there are a number of times. They're a beautiful Yeah,
Speaker 1: I love them. You really, You're all gonna make beautiful
Speaker 1: Oh beautiful children. Oh thanks, Sorry, we're jumping ahead here.
Speaker 1: We're really getting getting crazy. Hey, Jerry O's show, it's
Speaker 1: gonna be funny, man, We're gonna have a good old time.
Speaker 1: I know you can't tell from this interview, but it
Speaker 1: is a reflection of my personality and it's gonna be
Speaker 1: a lot of fun awesome. We cannot wait to watch it,
Speaker 1: and we just want all our wine down listeners to
Speaker 1: watch Anus Felt the Jerio Show on Fox. Chegure it out. Okay,
Speaker 1: so huge ball event. Wow, I mean all the energy
Speaker 1: in the world. I feel like I was just watching
Speaker 1: you on the Jerio Show. He something came over me.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. He sat down next
Speaker 1: to me. We both had like this thing going. Not
Speaker 1: the day to be hungover and not have coffee, But honestly,
Speaker 1: I couldn't feel better right now. All right, I'm excited
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Speaker 1: before we get to some emails, can you just give
Speaker 1: me Okay, I know we have a dress that OBEs
Speaker 1: you're not going to tell you I found your dress?
Speaker 1: When did you find it? I can't believe you just
Speaker 1: got that out of me. I'm telling you, like, I know,
Speaker 1: I couldn't even control myself yesterday. So I got it yesterday.
Speaker 1: Y Yeah, how did you know? What was the feeling? Honestly,
Speaker 1: it was really hard for me, Like this was probably
Speaker 1: like I thought I was going to love this part.
Speaker 1: I did not like this part. I'm just so particular
Speaker 1: and picky and I just yesterday I finally was just like,
Speaker 1: this is me. I did what I felt was most
Speaker 1: me and I yeah, and I was like, at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, I'm the only one who cares.
Speaker 1: I don't care what anyone thinks like and I loved it.
Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, and everyone's gonna say you
Speaker 1: look beautiful anyway, Like everyone's no, it's always like, oh,
Speaker 1: the most beautiful bride. It's like, really, was she the
Speaker 1: most beautiful bride? Because I doubt she was, so Like
Speaker 1: why does everyone always call people the most beautiful bride?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Anyways, well, in that moment, you are
Speaker 1: the most beautiful bride. Oh for sure? Yeah? For sure?
Speaker 1: Okay are we saying are we saying city north State? No? Okay,
Speaker 1: February twenty twenty, I'll say February. Yeah, yeah. I know.
Speaker 1: People were like asking me all when I did, like
Speaker 1: the questions, Everyone's like long engagement, short engagement. I'm like, listen,
Speaker 1: I don't trust people who do long engagements. Okay, Like
Speaker 1: I don't trust them, and I've waited long enough, so
Speaker 1: let's get this going. I mean, I was really pushing
Speaker 1: for the end of this year, so what's kind of tie?
Speaker 1: But again, I didn't want to be rush rushed. I
Speaker 1: wanted to be able to enjoy it but also be rushed.
Speaker 1: But I mean, I'm trying to have a child next year,
Speaker 1: so we really need to get things going. When are
Speaker 1: you going to start trying? I mean, like as soon
Speaker 1: as I can, Like, like, I can't imagine pregnant. There.
Speaker 1: You say that all the time, and like, honestly, I
Speaker 1: just imagine it because it's happening. Oh my god, I'm
Speaker 1: so excited. Okay, guest list, guess we No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: that's that's gonna take a hot minute. I was the
Speaker 1: band that you Yeah, got a facetimed got it about it.
Speaker 1: I really got all the like quote unquote big things.
Speaker 1: I think. I just know. I feel like I'll get
Speaker 1: shoes now now that I know the dress, I'll get shoes.
Speaker 1: I need to get bridesmaids dresses. I'm people get bridesmaids.
Speaker 1: I'm doing like my like high school best friend, I
Speaker 1: don't have any Yeah, so Tyane, I don't have that
Speaker 1: many friends, so it kind of works out. And we
Speaker 1: both have like, you know, brothers and sisters. So that's
Speaker 1: taking up most of our party as our his brothers
Speaker 1: and his sisters and my sisters. So yeah, it's gonna
Speaker 1: be Are you doing all of your sisters? No? So
Speaker 1: my three older sisters they're like, we have no desire
Speaker 1: to be bridesmaids at at their ages. I won't say
Speaker 1: oh they are because they would kill me, but no,
Speaker 1: they were like, we have no desire because my sister
Speaker 1: got married last year and my younger one, and they
Speaker 1: were like, listen, we're here for the party. We're not
Speaker 1: here for the ugly bridesmaids dress. Which, let's be honest,
Speaker 1: my bridesmaids stresses won't be ugly. But no, I'm gonna do.
Speaker 1: I mean, I involved them in every other way, but
Speaker 1: they just don't have to do that part. So how
Speaker 1: many bridesmaids? Eight? Wow, that's a lot. I could barely
Speaker 1: come up with six. Yeah, I Janna, we had I
Speaker 1: had to cut mine down. I could have done like twelve. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just well, so I have ties to so it
Speaker 1: because he has two sisters, I'm having them in it,
Speaker 1: so it like he and his he has two brothers.
Speaker 1: So honestly, the most most of our party is like family.
Speaker 1: But no, it's like really fun. I'm so excited. I
Speaker 1: didn't think I really didn't think I was gonna be
Speaker 1: as happy as I was, because I'm like, I already
Speaker 1: love him so much, Like how can you love someone more? Oh,
Speaker 1: let me tell you. When he put that thing on
Speaker 1: my finger, I love it more. So I love It's
Speaker 1: been wild, but I'm so excited and like, thank God,
Speaker 1: I have you. I mean you were always here free,
Speaker 1: riving to help you. The day after everybody, let me
Speaker 1: tell you, the day after I got engaged. We are
Speaker 1: on a plane. She is already called ten venues. She's
Speaker 1: an animal. Yeah. I was like, how can I help?
Speaker 1: I love planning. I know that it's so much fun.
Speaker 1: That's like your secret job. It is. She needs to
Speaker 1: do it. I know I would love to be a
Speaker 1: wedding planner. That'd be like dream goals. All right, email
Speaker 1: before we leave? What do you wish you knew? My
Speaker 1: husband and I have been together for nine years and
Speaker 1: have struggled through infidelity, and recently the floodgates opened and
Speaker 1: I found out about a lot more. I believe my
Speaker 1: husband loves me and I'm the one he wants uh
Speaker 1: to be with. He is officially in therapy and win
Speaker 1: for himself, not to keep me, which I think is
Speaker 1: really important. We are living separately but talk every day
Speaker 1: and fighting through this. What are some things you wish
Speaker 1: you knew in the beginning? Who do you vent to
Speaker 1: when you had a hard time without totally airing your
Speaker 1: dirty laundry? That's a tough one, I think, even with
Speaker 1: infidelity or not. I mean, Sarah. You know, it's like
Speaker 1: you have to pick and choose, like who you vent
Speaker 1: to you know, Yeah, I don't want to know anything.
Speaker 1: Like in regards to her email, I'm saying, like I'm
Speaker 1: someone who I'm like, I don't want to know. I
Speaker 1: don't want to know. If it doesn't don't if it
Speaker 1: was before me doesn't involve me, I don't want to know.
Speaker 1: I don't care. What if it was during you, Oh well,
Speaker 1: I mean during me depends, But for the most part,
Speaker 1: I don't want to know. You don't want to know
Speaker 1: what your friends Dirty laundreie No, No, she's saying, like
Speaker 1: from her right is she she referring to like he
Speaker 1: told her things? I'm guessing later on? Yeah, what are
Speaker 1: some things you wish you knew in the beginning? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know in the beginning, I don't. Yeah. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's it's like you don't want to know too much.
Speaker 1: I think specific details are like a lot. But yeah,
Speaker 1: at the same time, it's really hard to pick and
Speaker 1: choose which friends you tell things too. Oh yeah, but
Speaker 1: then again, I talked to you and you were the
Speaker 1: middle seat. Southwest Girls aired Mad Dirty Launder. Do you yeah,
Speaker 1: but there's like, what do you think in sense when
Speaker 1: you think you're not going to see someone again? You know,
Speaker 1: it's true. I mean, this is this is a tough
Speaker 1: one though, because you know, the thing here is that's
Speaker 1: why through the whole there's a therapeutic process when dealing
Speaker 1: with infidelity of these kind of things. It's called disclosure,
Speaker 1: and the whole point is to alleviate from some of
Speaker 1: this where you don't start to you know, recover, mend
Speaker 1: one issue, and then you find out more and then
Speaker 1: it just feels like more lies. It feels like more secrets,
Speaker 1: more disclosure, and then it just brings everyone else back
Speaker 1: to you know, back to square one. So, I mean,
Speaker 1: it's it's tough. I mean, this is she's in a
Speaker 1: tough situation and finding a you know, she needs a
Speaker 1: therapist would be the best person to air the dirty
Speaker 1: laundry to. Because again, you're you don't want your friends
Speaker 1: if you're trying to work it out, you don't want
Speaker 1: friends to be judgmental of your partner. They don't. You
Speaker 1: don't want them to judge you for staying, which you know,
Speaker 1: let's face that a lot of people might do at first. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, that's a tough one. It's tough. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: feel for well, not to end on a heavy note,
Speaker 1: but Sarah, we're really excited for your marriage. Ye honestly same. Hey, Cruz,
Speaker 1: you want to come back on next week? Yeah? Yay?
Speaker 1: All right, awesome. Well we we love you guys, and
Speaker 1: thanks for catching us up to speed on all things wedding,
Speaker 1: of course, and we'll wind down again next week, see
Speaker 1: you next week. Bye bye bye