1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Raymer and Michael Coffin and I'm 2 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 1: her radio podcast Sarah Yayza. I we're back listen to this. 3 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 1: So Sarah and I have facetimed probably about three times, 4 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 1: and I have not asked you any wedding questions because 5 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: I wanted to all be on air like like legit 6 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: for everybody, no idea, what's going on? And I'm dyingy Mark. 7 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: Everyone should be really proud because like we haven't talked 8 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: about anything because you are like, we're saving it. We 9 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: need content, we need the tea, spill it now. And 10 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: I was like, no, no, no, I know one thing. Well, 11 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 1: I mean I know the one, one big thing which 12 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: is the same the date, which we will not say, 13 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: but you just teased on Insta it is in your 14 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: twenty twenty. But here's the thing. We haven't even talked 15 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: about your engagements. I know. Oh it's so weird that 16 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:04,759 Speaker 1: like we haven't. I know, oh yeah we have because 17 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 1: you were supposed to do our live when out in 18 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 1: Nashville and you had to take your Like I just 19 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: realized that my flight connection isn't long. Then I was like, look, 20 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 1: I'm a bride now, so my brain is not working 21 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 1: and it was my job. It is my title. So 22 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 1: but here's the thing though, Sarah. So the last that 23 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 1: we knew, it was just like, all right, I'm not 24 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 1: talking about it, not bringing it up. But then you 25 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: and Ty, can you say what you guys started to do? Yes? 26 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: So okay, I Tie. I was out of I was 27 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:49,639 Speaker 1: with you guys doing podcast tour, and I came home. 28 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: I had been gone, and since while I had been 29 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: gone t I was like, you know, I kind of went. 30 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: I started going to therapy. It's something that he and 31 00:01:57,960 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: I talked about for a long time that I thought 32 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: he should do just for like life reasons, not like 33 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: for us. But you know, I've realized that not everyone 34 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: is like you guys. You know a lot of people 35 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: are turned off or scared by the idea of going 36 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 1: into a room talking to someone. You know, it freaks 37 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 1: people out. And he was one of them. He's like, 38 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 1: that's weird. I just feel like that would be uncomfortable, 39 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 1: and you know, so he never wanted to do it. Whatever, 40 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: so he goes and does it, and I'm like so happy. 41 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, that's amazing. I'm so proud of you. You know, 42 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: I was very supportive. I was very happy that he 43 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 1: kind of took that step and he really liked it. 44 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: That's what I was most shocked about is he had 45 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: gone like three times, so he was like, would you 46 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: want to come with me? And by the way, when 47 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: you said that to me, I was like, oh my god, 48 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 1: home girls getting broken up with so therapy I was, 49 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: I mean, I was you called me when I told 50 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: you I was. You were like, can you come over tomorrow? 51 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:46,679 Speaker 1: I was like I can' I'm going to therapy with 52 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: tie and you literally called me because you were like 53 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 1: I just the one time I went or what I 54 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 1: forgot what your story was. I had gone when some 55 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: guy had asked me to go to therapy with him, 56 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 1: and then I got broken off with At the therapy appointment, 57 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: I was just like yeah, and so I just got 58 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: really scared because I've got because some people feel more 59 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 1: comfortable and I could totally say things in therapy totally, 60 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: you know. So maybe he was just like gonna say, 61 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 1: I'm just I just don't want to get married, or yeah, 62 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh god, this is you panicked panic 63 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: and I'm so sorry. It's funny though, because that was 64 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: the last thing I would have never thought of that 65 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: about that and no, and I didn't think. I didn't think. 66 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 1: So I went with him. I was a bad friend man, 67 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: and we had a really really great conversation. I said 68 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: things I've never said, he said things he never said. 69 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: I think that it was really good for both of 70 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: us to you know, me, I have no problem talking 71 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: to a stranger about my I'm like, I talk to 72 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: you about my problems on the plane, like I had 73 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: no problem talking to her. But I was mostly so 74 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: impressed with him. It just like made me want to 75 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 1: cry because I was like, wow, you are really it's 76 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: so not like him whatever. But here's something to take 77 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: from that, though, is you You had asked, you know, 78 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: basically to him, why haven't you? Yeah, and he said 79 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: go ahead honestly, like I don't remember, I'll tell you. 80 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: He said, you wouldn't leave. Oh yeah, yes, sorry sorry, 81 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 1: sorry sorry. So he had told me that, yes, in 82 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:20,119 Speaker 1: in therapy he said, you know, because I was shocked. 83 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: The therapist she was very neutral, but she was very 84 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 1: much like ty, you need to understand like where she's 85 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 1: coming from, Like this is do you understand what she 86 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: says when she says this, like blah, blah blah. You know, 87 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 1: she was very I was shocked at how much she 88 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 1: kind of agreed with me or not agreed with me, 89 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 1: but you know, she wanted him to understand where I 90 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 1: was coming from. And that was one of the things 91 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: he said. I mean, if I'm being honest, I didn't 92 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,479 Speaker 1: do it in you know, December whatever, because I knew you. 93 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: I knew you weren't going to leave. And I was like, 94 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: and that must have been like a gut and it was. 95 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: But I was so happy that he said that. I 96 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: was so happy he was honest and said that to 97 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 1: me because I was like, Okay, that's where we're at, Like, 98 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: now I know how you now, I know, oh, you 99 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 1: know me as well as you know, like wouldn't. And 100 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 1: there was a there was a hockey camp coming up, 101 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 1: and there was a hockey camp coming up, and I 102 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 1: had told him this was kind of even before all 103 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: the drama with you know, him proposing or not posing, 104 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: I kind of already voiced that, you know, I'm not 105 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:18,479 Speaker 1: going to go this year with you. I think that 106 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 1: you need to go do your thing. I'll stay home 107 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: because usually I go to the camps every summer with him. Well, 108 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:26,039 Speaker 1: and you said, I don't want to be I don't 109 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: want to be a girlfriend again at the seventh year 110 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: of camp. Like no, I just said, you know, I 111 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 1: don't think it's fair for me to, you know, go 112 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: all summer with you and when all I'm really thinking 113 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 1: about is, you know, all the things I could be. 114 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:40,040 Speaker 1: It's just I kept say it's not fair, it's not fair. Whatever. 115 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: He understood. He said, I know, okay, you've been saying that, yes, 116 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: And the therapist was like, you know, maybe it'll be good. 117 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 1: He'll be back, because he was he was going to 118 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: be gone for four months, four weeks, yes, straight. So 119 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: she said, you know, stay on your ground and that's 120 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 1: good for you. So we left the session. We left 121 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 1: the session. It was emotional, but it was good. We 122 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: got in the car and we both kind of we 123 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: just like held hands in the car. It was like 124 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: very bizarre but good. I mean, now I kind of 125 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: know how you guys probably feel sometimes, Like it felt 126 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: weird to be so emotional and heightened, but then it 127 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 1: felt good to kind of just be with each other. 128 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: I don't know whatever m hm, so I will I 129 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: will say that. And even when Jana kind of caught 130 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:22,479 Speaker 1: me up on all that when when that was happening 131 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 1: and told me what Ty said, and he was honest 132 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 1: and admitted that to me, that showed a lot about him. 133 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: But then also y'all's relationship because that's such something that 134 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 1: I could see someone using in a manipulative way where 135 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: he was he was giving you the ammunition that he had, right, Yeah, 136 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: so he has no you know, no kind of plans 137 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,839 Speaker 1: of being manipulative or holding that against you and calling 138 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 1: you out on it. It's like, no, it is what 139 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: it is. And so I think that's a huge testament 140 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: to y'all's relationship. I was that you don't you don't 141 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: play there, no, And I'm telling you, like when he 142 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 1: said that to me, like it got me in my 143 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: gut and I think I may have started crying, but 144 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: I was so happy. It was weird at how happy 145 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: I was to hear him say that in a weird way. 146 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: So that happens. That's on a Monday, He's leaving Friday. 147 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: The week was weird. It was just kind of a 148 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: weird week because you weren't going because I was, oh 149 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: my gosh, and I was like, Sarah, you can't go, 150 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: I can't go, babe, And I was not going fill 151 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: up your weekendville. I had no intention of going. I 152 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 1: had nothing. I was not going. Everyone knew I was 153 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: not going. It's funny. One of my girlfriends was like, 154 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: I literally told my boyfriend like, hey, I might need 155 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: to go to LA next week because like, Sarah's not 156 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: gonna be okay. So, so it's now Thursday and it's 157 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: his brother's graduation and we go out there and we 158 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: see his parents and you know, we're all out there 159 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 1: and they were having a dinner. But he was being 160 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: so like weird. He's like, no, we don't need to 161 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 1: go to the dinner, like we could just go home, 162 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,239 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. I'm like, it's your brother's graduation dinner, okay, whatever, 163 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: and he's like, no, my mom's throwing him a party tomorrow. 164 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: She's throwing him a graduation party. We'll go out to 165 00:07:57,200 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: the house before I leave. So it was so we 166 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: get home Thursday night and I was in the shower 167 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: and I was crying. I started crying in the shower 168 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: and he was like what is And I was like, 169 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: it's just so weird that you're gonna leave tomorrow and 170 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go with you, like, this isn't how 171 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: it's supposed to be. I want to go with you. 172 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: I love going to camp. I love seeing all the 173 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,239 Speaker 1: kids and being there with you. Like, I don't want 174 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: to do this. You know, I was right. You cried, Yeah, 175 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: calmly in the shower, the way it's supposed to be done. 176 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 1: But yeah, no, I was you don't cry, I don't cry. 177 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 1: I was really I was really upset and we had 178 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: just been with his family and I just, you know, 179 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: I was just upset. So the next day we wake up, 180 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: everything's normal. He had to go to the office. He's like, 181 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: i'll see you, you know, I'll come get you. And 182 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: he comes and gets me to go to his parents' house. Oh, 183 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: we had to take supparate cars because he was leaving, 184 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: so we took supperate cars out there. It was just 185 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: a normal morning whatever. I'm like, what do I wear? 186 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: He's dressed up. I'm like, oh, it's one of your 187 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: mom's like grand parties. Perfect. We get there and like, 188 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,559 Speaker 1: long story short, it wasn't a graduation party. Like an 189 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 1: hour in he as everyone probably saw on Instagram, like, 190 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: takes me around the pool, out to this little gazebo 191 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 1: at his parents' house and then honestly I blocked out. 192 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: I have no idea what was happening. There was a 193 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 1: Hell Airline plane fly by that said Sarah, will you 194 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 1: marry me? Love Tie, and it had been flying around 195 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: Malibu for an hour waiting for us. So people were 196 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 1: texting Tie and Jane and everyone being like, we see 197 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:31,959 Speaker 1: this plane and like we're pretty sure it's for Sarah TI. 198 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:36,479 Speaker 1: So that was wild. But I and then mind you 199 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 1: when you are calling me. Michael and I were on 200 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 1: our way to shoot the sizzle for this potential reality 201 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 1: show thing and but also and in a fight, That's 202 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:47,719 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So we were in a fight and 203 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 1: I see that you your face. Time called FaceTime a lot, 204 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 1: but like everyone listening, I called her four times in 205 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 1: a row because I was like, this bitch is gonna 206 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 1: find out on Instagram and kill me. Like if she 207 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: doesn't answer there, like she needs to. Everyone was like 208 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:05,839 Speaker 1: sterotides giving a toast. I'm like, I have gone because 209 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 1: everyone was already posting my I was like, she's gone, 210 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: and you were answering, I know. And so because Michael 211 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: and I were like fighting in the car and we 212 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,319 Speaker 1: were having a thing and then I saw your facetiming 213 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 1: and I, oh, no, no, this is what happened. So 214 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: it was you had called, but we were we were 215 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: getting an argument. I got into the car. I was like, 216 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 1: I'll drive because like we were both hungry and we 217 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 1: just like were hungry and arguing. And then you called again, 218 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 1: and then you called again, and I was just like 219 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 1: I have to answer this because and then so he goes, 220 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 1: oh really, He's like, Mike's like, you're You're really going 221 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: to answer the phone. I go, look, she's either engaged 222 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 1: or they broke up. It's Friday, like you know what 223 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 1: I mean. I was like I have to answer this. 224 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: And I was like I was still pissed. I was 225 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 1: like whatever, and then I heard you and you I 226 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: kind of look over the corner of my eye. Mike's 227 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 1: like trying to be mad, start screaming, and then I 228 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 1: was kind of had smiles, like I can't be mad 229 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 1: at this, Like oh it was I mean, I'm just 230 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you. It was did not think 231 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: because Everyone's like you had to have known, you had 232 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:03,679 Speaker 1: to have known. I was like I had no clue, 233 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 1: Like people don't understand what was really going down, Like 234 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 1: I had no clue. Oh, everyone, who's wondering. I painted 235 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 1: my own nails, like, trust me, I would have if 236 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 1: I thought I would have got a manicure. But I 237 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:17,839 Speaker 1: had no idea. The only time I knew it was 238 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 1: about to go down is when he was walking me around. 239 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: He played like his favorite lumineer song and it's like 240 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 1: the drums and all. It's a very obvious song when 241 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 1: it starts, and I literally looked at him and I 242 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 1: was like, what the f is going on? And he 243 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: wouldn't look at me, and he just kept walking and 244 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: kept walking, and I asked him. I was like, what 245 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: was I even saying. He's like, honestly, you just kept 246 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 1: screaming F bombs And I was like, yeah, I don't 247 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 1: even know, Like I don't even know what I was saying. 248 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:40,440 Speaker 1: And he's like, don't well were you saying too? Wasn't 249 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 1: he like telling you like I should have done this, 250 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 1: and You're like, just get to it, just get to it. Yes, 251 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 1: he lost me over there and he he's giving me 252 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 1: like a sh like uh. He's telling me like I'm 253 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 1: so sorry for everything, like I'm so you know, and 254 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 1: I'm like, stop beating yourself up. This is the glorious moment. 255 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: And then he starts going on and on and then 256 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: he pulls because the part of me was like, maybe 257 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:01,319 Speaker 1: he's just giving me a speech before he leaves tonight, 258 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: like I don't know what's going down. But then he 259 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 1: pulls out a ring and I was like, holy fuck, sorry, 260 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: it's it all to go down. And then he starts 261 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: giving me a ten minute speech but he's holding the 262 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,439 Speaker 1: ring and I'm like, just open it already. But the 263 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 1: best start of all of that was that because everyone's like, 264 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 1: oh my god, he did so good. But what I 265 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 1: think because I fell to my knees at one point 266 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:22,439 Speaker 1: before he got down on a knee, and I think 267 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 1: that's when he told me that this was his mom's 268 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 1: ring and she it was one of her rings that 269 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:32,199 Speaker 1: she his grandma's been wearing and his grandma gave it 270 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: to him two years ago and was like, I want 271 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:35,679 Speaker 1: you to give this to Sarah, and so like when 272 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: he told me that that it was the mom and 273 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 1: his grandma's ring, I just lost it. Okay, that's uh, 274 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: that's amazing and I'm so happy for you, babe. I 275 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: want to hear more though about the wedding but first, 276 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 1: all of our beds are Brooklynen sheets. True story. I 277 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: said this before, but when we changed the sheets, Mike goes, 278 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, these are really comfortable, Like who's Who's Like, 279 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 1: where's this from? And I was like, Brooklyn and bebe Linen. Yeah, 280 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 1: she took off she took off our restoration hardware sheets 281 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 1: and put the Brooklynen ones on it as a game changer. 282 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 1: We have not changed since. Yeah. 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You're living basically your best life 300 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: today because apparently he's a big Bravo fan, which, oh yeah, 301 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:11,199 Speaker 1: is that the one where where the housewives are all? Yes, 302 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 1: that is the one. That is the one. He's like 303 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: a die hard way He's a diehard Bravo guy. I'm 304 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 1: a diehard Bravo gal, So this should be interested. Do 305 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:24,840 Speaker 1: you do you sometimes not like me as your friend 306 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: because I I don't know those things. No, honestly, I 307 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: feel like it humbles me. You pause. It honestly humbles 308 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 1: me because if you were obsessed, it's all I would 309 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 1: talk about. So it's nice for me to come over 310 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: and make references and you not understand and me be 311 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: like wow, Bethany, wow, so exactly exactly. I am excited 312 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 1: though to talk about his brother though, because he was 313 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: on the Bachelor, which is interesting to me, which by 314 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 1: the way, he's on the other side of it where 315 00:14:54,680 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 1: it's like the family no idea, which, by the way, though, Sarah, yeah, 316 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: you might think that I would be good on the 317 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: bed one. I know that you would, literally, but I 318 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 1: don't think you know this though, but actually Michael's the 319 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 1: one that auditioned for the Bachelor's right. I'm never speechless. 320 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 1: I am now speechless? What I Yeah, that is something 321 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: that you're going to need to touch on a little 322 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: bit more. Once upon a time, I was I didn't 323 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: sign myself, Oh sure, one of my best girlfriends growing 324 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 1: up did. I was chilling with her and her husband 325 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 1: and she was making us watch it and she looked 326 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 1: at me and she's like, I'm going to sign you 327 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 1: up for that. I said, okay. A couple months later, 328 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: I get the phone call and it was one of 329 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 1: the casting directors there at ABC or whatever network it's 330 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 1: on and a star is born, yeah or whatever that 331 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: one network of those then sit with me and watch 332 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 1: it I don't know, on like Wednesday nights or something 333 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 1: every Monday there with He's like, what's doing now? But no, 334 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: I mean it kind of What was funny is I 335 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 1: just I was entertaining it for the time at the time, 336 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 1: because I was single, I was my second year in 337 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 1: the league, and I was entertaining it and kind of 338 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 1: carried car carried along through the season. And then we 339 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 1: were playing playing the Chargers later in the season, and 340 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 1: one of the casting directors even brought a film crew 341 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: down to our team hotel in San Diego. They took 342 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 1: still shots video interview while my teammates are like walking 343 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 1: around looking at me. So at first I kept it. 344 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: I only told like two of my closest teammates right 345 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:44,760 Speaker 1: on the plane ride going to San Diego. It ended 346 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 1: up somehow coming out. I told somebody else it ended 347 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 1: up coming out TMZ got a hold of it. No, no, no, 348 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 1: it got out amongst the locker room. So the whole 349 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: flight from Buffalo to San Diego, I got a bunch 350 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 1: of like the married guys on the plane that watch 351 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 1: it with their wives are coming over to my seat 352 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 1: and being like okay and just coaching me up, like 353 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:09,160 Speaker 1: I'm like I'm already on it, Like I'm already on it. Okay, 354 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 1: don't be like this person, do like this, blah blah blah. 355 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:14,240 Speaker 1: And then even so I didn't end up doing it 356 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 1: because I tore my a c O at the end 357 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 1: of that season, and I thought it was probably a 358 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 1: pretty good idea to focus on my job. Yeah, and 359 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:25,880 Speaker 1: I remember I remember my offensive coordinator at the time 360 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 1: came out to me. It was like a week after 361 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:29,399 Speaker 1: I gotten hurt and he's like, hey me, and how 362 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: you feeling. I'm like, ah, you know, I'm a right, 363 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 1: I'm struggling right now, but I'll be okay. He's like, okay, 364 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 1: He's like, well, are you gonna still do the Bachelorette? 365 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:39,879 Speaker 1: I was like really, I was like, my own coach 366 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: is asking me right now, Okay, but onto more important things. 367 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: Are you still gonna do the show? Like it spread 368 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 1: from our Janitor to our GM Emily Maynard season. I mean, 369 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 1: imagine if I was a bachelorette, then you we get 370 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: started our fairy tale a long time ago. There's oh 371 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 1: what a fairy tale is? My love? But you know 372 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 1: the thing is I told Gena when I told Janna 373 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:08,199 Speaker 1: story forever ago, and Emily wouldn't have even been my type. Yeah. 374 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 1: But here's the thing though, is would you still have 375 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 1: like wanted to win? Yeah? Oh what would you do? Sarah? 376 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:17,920 Speaker 1: I think we know what Janel we know what Janel 377 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 1: Jenna would like stomp the ground down and be like 378 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 1: I win. But yeah, yeah, no that honestly, I'd be 379 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 1: there for the party, like I would be like up 380 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 1: with the bitches, like having drinks, like taking like I 381 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 1: feel like I'd probably be like, honestly, like I'm not 382 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:38,360 Speaker 1: that into you. But me and Megan and Stephanie really 383 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 1: hit it off and like we're just gonna leave, like 384 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:43,120 Speaker 1: we're out in the hills. It's something We're just gonna 385 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:46,920 Speaker 1: go into La for a night, like come out. Okay, 386 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 1: Jerry's walking and I think, okay, oh yay, Jerry, how 387 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 1: are you? Hi? Hi? Hi? This is so futuristic. I 388 00:18:56,600 --> 00:19:00,040 Speaker 1: feel like I'm on Star Trek, Isn't it weird? I 389 00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:05,680 Speaker 1: I am promoting what's the name of it, Jerry O' show? 390 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,439 Speaker 1: Oh man, Sorry, I just stays there. In a second, 391 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 1: Jerry O tells, how'd I forget that? No, it's the 392 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:18,359 Speaker 1: Jerry O Show. I Uh, I mean, long story short. 393 00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:24,199 Speaker 1: I builled in for Wendy Williams last year, and Wendy 394 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 1: always takes August off, and they said, do you want 395 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 1: to try doing a show for a month, And I said, 396 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:35,639 Speaker 1: let's do it, and oh man, it really is like 397 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 1: a dream come true. I mean, I'm loving his energy 398 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: right now. It's just well, it's just like you're making 399 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:47,119 Speaker 1: me so happy, you know. Full disclosure, This is like 400 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:49,360 Speaker 1: the first this is the first day of press I'm 401 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:52,679 Speaker 1: doing it. It doesn't start until August twelfth, so this 402 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 1: is like the first time publicly I'm talking about it, 403 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:59,120 Speaker 1: and it's fun to try and like, word, what happens 404 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:02,719 Speaker 1: when you get a Televisi show. I watch pretty much 405 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: all reality television. I mean all of it. Yeah, I'm 406 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:12,159 Speaker 1: your Bravo girl, but I mean, you know, I not 407 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 1: only watch the Housewives. I go deep on Bravo. I 408 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:22,440 Speaker 1: watch like all the blow Decks, Mediterranean, Regular Caribbean. I 409 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 1: mean I watch a Prey Ski, I watch Summer Home. 410 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: I watch them all there. So now I have a 411 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 1: job that pays me to go in in the morning 412 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:38,239 Speaker 1: and talk about what I watched on Bravo the night 413 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 1: before and comment. I can't even that is literally my dream, 414 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:44,919 Speaker 1: Like what a time. You know what I'm gonna I'm 415 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:46,920 Speaker 1: gonna even make it better. I go in and talk 416 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 1: about it. But before I go out, they give me 417 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: a blowout and put a substantial amount of foundation on 418 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:59,920 Speaker 1: my face. I look good. I'm a walking Instagram filter. 419 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,360 Speaker 1: I don't need an Instagram I don't need a filter, wow, 420 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: because I look good while I'm talking about it, and 421 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about it to my wife and kids 422 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: before they go to school and them telling me to 423 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 1: shut up, we're late, dad. No one cares. I do. 424 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 1: People sit in an audience and when I finished stories 425 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:24,399 Speaker 1: talking about her and make a point about how sexy 426 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 1: Lisa Rena is on Instagram dancing the body. Have you 427 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:30,400 Speaker 1: been following that? Are you kidding? I have a theory 428 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,879 Speaker 1: about her on there that she went to Andy's baby 429 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 1: shower famous you can look it up Andy Cohen, head 430 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 1: of Bravo, and she was filmed dancing on a table 431 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 1: there by Kyle Richards and it, I mean, it went 432 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 1: I know this term is used a lot, and I 433 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 1: don't like to overuse it, but it went viral, Like 434 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: the video of her dancing seductively on the table went viral. Unbelievable. 435 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 1: And so now she's like really posting seductive dancing videos. 436 00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 1: And by the way, you would think it's you would 437 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:04,920 Speaker 1: you think it's annoying someone taping themselves selfie mode, dancing, 438 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,480 Speaker 1: doing regular household chores. I'm talking at the kitchen sink, 439 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 1: cleaning out the garbage disposal, getting that gross stuff out 440 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 1: and like throwing it away, or maybe if there's like 441 00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:18,400 Speaker 1: a bottle cap or something like doing household like cleaning 442 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,359 Speaker 1: the calking on the sink. But she's got some music 443 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: going and she's working and twerking and it looks really good. 444 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 1: And are you ready for this? I find it. I 445 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:32,199 Speaker 1: don't want any beef with Harry Hamlin. I find it 446 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 1: to be very arousing. Yeah, you guys, her body's unbelievable. 447 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,600 Speaker 1: It's unbelievable. She goes to Canada for like three months 448 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:43,120 Speaker 1: every summer, comes back it's on posting bikini pigs videos, dancing. 449 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: It's really it's it's worth the follow. I know I'm 450 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 1: supposed to be talking about Wait, what was the name 451 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 1: of that show? I was talking about? What was the 452 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 1: name of that show? The show I'm on, Jerry O's Show. 453 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, the JERRYO Show. I know I'm suposed 454 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:58,160 Speaker 1: to be talking about that. But after you watch Jerio show, 455 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 1: go go follow Lisa Red on Instagram. Yes, Jerry Yo's 456 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 1: show is going to be very serious, only talking about 457 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 1: serious topics like how hot is Lisa Renna on Instagram? 458 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:15,639 Speaker 1: That is gonna be breaking down the real topics in 459 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 1: the world, the important that people actually care about. Yeah, 460 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 1: the important things. Family and kids are great. Family and 461 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 1: kids are great. Sure, But I mean I have I 462 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 1: have a family and kids. I love them. My kids 463 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:39,119 Speaker 1: are Are they old enough to watch Bravo? That's a joke, everybody. 464 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 1: My kids are ten. I have ten year old twin girls. Yeah, 465 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 1: well don't ah, you don't live with them, so you 466 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 1: don't know the full extent of well ten ten is fun. 467 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 1: It gets easier, it really, it's kind of fun. Actually, 468 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,959 Speaker 1: they have a little bit of attitude now, my daughters, 469 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,719 Speaker 1: and I'm not really it's it's sort of fun. As 470 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,679 Speaker 1: a parent, you're sort of proud that your kids have 471 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 1: attitude and sass, and you're like, oh, I I raised 472 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:12,479 Speaker 1: a creature that has sass, like doesn't take it, you know, 473 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:14,359 Speaker 1: So you're sort of a little bit proud, But at 474 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 1: the same time you want to just yell like, don't 475 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 1: you ever talk to me that way. I'm your daddy 476 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 1: who has the sass? You or your wife? You know. 477 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 1: What's funny is Uh, it's really I don't want to 478 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 1: like generalize in stereotype genders at all. I am as 479 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:36,240 Speaker 1: woke I am, I am no, I'm super woke. I 480 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 1: am so woke it's not even funny. But but I 481 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 1: never grew up with girls. I only had a brother, 482 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:49,679 Speaker 1: and because my mom was around two boys, she became 483 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 1: sort of like a like a dude, you know, Like 484 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 1: my mom was, like, you know, was with boys a lot, 485 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,800 Speaker 1: you know, so learn to like break boys up from fighting, 486 00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: and like, you know, like was like I never grew 487 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 1: up with like female energy. I just didn't grow up 488 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,520 Speaker 1: with that. And it's funny to have like total female 489 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 1: energy in a house now, you know. I mean I 490 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 1: never no one, no one ever put up a unicorn 491 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,320 Speaker 1: poster in any house I grew I didn't even like 492 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 1: know what unicorn. Like. Now I find myself just staring 493 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 1: at unicorn posters, like these are really beautiful, Like look 494 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 1: at these rainbows, Like this is amazing, Like that's a 495 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 1: unicorn and it's got wings and it's flying. Look at this, 496 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 1: there's so many rainbows and that's the beautiful sky. This 497 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:37,199 Speaker 1: is beautiful. But also to watch an argument between my 498 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:40,400 Speaker 1: wife and my two daughters is it's in dance. Man, 499 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 1: it's your own. It's crazy like when when it goes down, 500 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 1: it's funny and it's so it's just crazy like. But also, 501 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: my my daughter's fight a lot, you know, like they 502 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 1: share a room, so they're twins. I've seen them fight 503 00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,399 Speaker 1: over a pair of jeans. Like that's something that like 504 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 1: I I would never I grew up with my brother. 505 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 1: We lived with each other. I went to college, we 506 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: lived together. I lived with my brother for twenty one years. 507 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 1: I never once said to my brother, Hey man, I 508 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:12,200 Speaker 1: got to change first. Don't change the mind wear him 509 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,359 Speaker 1: you you take these jeans, I'll cut them up. I 510 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 1: swear I will cut them up. I'll cut them into 511 00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 1: a million little pieces. Man, if you you don't get 512 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 1: to wear these jeans, I grabbed them. I laid them out. 513 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 1: I laid them out for tomorrow. He's like speaking to 514 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 1: my soul. I have a sister, and I mean, I'm 515 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 1: twenty eight, and I get like that. If there's a 516 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 1: tag on that and you put that on your body 517 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 1: before me, right, game over, I do Game of Thrones. 518 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,639 Speaker 1: Time here I come, I go nuts. I go nuts. Right. 519 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:44,119 Speaker 1: So I saw a quote that actually you said that 520 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 1: because you have twins. So so the key to not 521 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:51,479 Speaker 1: getting a divorce is having twins. Oh man, it's really funny. 522 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:56,240 Speaker 1: Somebody somebody said to me once when my kids were 523 00:26:56,280 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 1: like just months old. Somebody said hey, and like an 524 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,680 Speaker 1: older person said to me, hey, how old your kids? 525 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 1: And I said they're nine months old. And they said, hey, 526 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,440 Speaker 1: if you can make it to like three or four, 527 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,479 Speaker 1: you stand a good chance of staying married. And I 528 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:13,479 Speaker 1: was like, wow, really, like I thought they were gonna say, oh, 529 00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,199 Speaker 1: that's so cute. You're such a good family. She was like, 530 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,919 Speaker 1: you don't make it a three or four. It's not 531 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 1: a good chance you could probably stay married. Wow. And 532 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,160 Speaker 1: then I was I sort of laughed, like you guys 533 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 1: are now like like nervously, and she said, my my 534 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:27,719 Speaker 1: husband and I didn't make it. And I was like, 535 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 1: oh boy, wow, I know, but it really is. It's 536 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 1: really true. Like now that our kids are ten, it's 537 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 1: almost like it's so funny. They sort of like it's 538 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,719 Speaker 1: like teams now they formed it. It's not like teams, 539 00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 1: it's like gangs. Oh, Like they formed like a gang. 540 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 1: And my wife and I then, through these circumstances, have 541 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,400 Speaker 1: to form our own gang, like a gang task force, 542 00:27:55,640 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 1: and it's like we're like bonded by this. You know. 543 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 1: My kids are always like, you know, like this is 544 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 1: our turf and we're like, no way, this is our corner. 545 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:09,400 Speaker 1: Get out of here. Did it just get dark? Too 546 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 1: dark for everybody? No? I mean even Jane and I 547 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,640 Speaker 1: have talked about that, where like that'll be fun when 548 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 1: the kids get to that age and we can kind 549 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 1: of f with them a little bit. Raising kids is 550 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 1: just like all you have to do. All you have 551 00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 1: to do is watch that show The Wire on HBO, 552 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,200 Speaker 1: and it's like there's two sides, the kids and the parents. 553 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:30,399 Speaker 1: I think the thing I said was my wife and 554 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 1: I would have gotten divorced, but neither one of us 555 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,879 Speaker 1: wanted our children, so that's why we were staying together. 556 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 1: We I think we realized early on that not one 557 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 1: of us wanted soul custody, so we stayed oh together. 558 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 1: We would actually my wife and I would have the 559 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 1: first and only case in Hollywood of Hollywood couples breaking 560 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 1: up where we insisted that the other partner get custody, 561 00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 1: you know how like Brangelina, I don't know if we 562 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 1: can them that anymore. Are like it's like supposedly allegedly, Wow, 563 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 1: I've really been taught by Wendy Williams. Allegedly a custody 564 00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 1: battle that's like happening. But that would never be the 565 00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 1: case of my wife or I. I'd be standing up 566 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 1: a photo of judge going, your honor. I am not 567 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 1: fit to have these kids by myself. I need someone 568 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 1: from the state with me when I'm with them, and 569 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 1: I don't really want them that much about every other weekend, 570 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 1: every third month supervised visits and if I want to cancel, 571 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 1: I can. Oh, how about that, your honor. Actually, by 572 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 1: the way, that's a funny sketch for the Jerio Show. 573 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:42,600 Speaker 1: We should do my wife and I having an anti 574 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 1: custody battle. Oh. A funny thing I should tell you 575 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,640 Speaker 1: about the Jerio Show that's gonna be different look at me. 576 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 1: Bringing it back around is we've partnered with Funnier Die, 577 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 1: which is that very funny Will Ferrell website, which I've 578 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 1: worked for a bunch over the years. I have a 579 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 1: lot of fun content on there, and they're gonna be 580 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,080 Speaker 1: They're gonna help us with a lot of our sketches 581 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,320 Speaker 1: and a lot of our comedy in the Jerio Show. 582 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 1: So it's gonna be totally different than anything you've seen 583 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 1: on daytime television, which is, you know, not to say 584 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,960 Speaker 1: that other daytime TV shows are lacking. You know, they're 585 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 1: very fun, but you you probably won't see Doctor Phil 586 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 1: doing a funny video with whoever is going to be 587 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,520 Speaker 1: a guest on that day, or doing funny or die videos, 588 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:31,200 Speaker 1: although he should because that would be pretty funny. Who's 589 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 1: your dream guests on your show that we would love 590 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 1: to have? You know, I gotta say, because we are 591 00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,880 Speaker 1: a live show. August twelfth to August thirty first, the 592 00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:47,120 Speaker 1: Jerio Show on Fox stations, whatever happened the night before. 593 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:51,680 Speaker 1: Like let's say, for example, when we're on air, Real 594 00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 1: Housewives of Orange County is gonna be showing lucky. I 595 00:30:55,880 --> 00:31:00,880 Speaker 1: think it starts. It starts August sixth, and I'm a 596 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,520 Speaker 1: big I'm a big Orange County fan. I love those ladies, 597 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 1: so it would be so fun. Let's say Vicky Gunbilson 598 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: gets into an argument with Tamra. I would love to 599 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 1: get one of them to come on the show and 600 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 1: give their side of the story. It's really because it's 601 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 1: it's it's really fun when you hear or you know what, 602 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 1: I'd love to get the villain in a situation. For example, 603 00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:34,920 Speaker 1: this season on Beverly Hills. Uh there was a sort 604 00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 1: of matriarch character who took a lot of heat this year. Yes, 605 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,720 Speaker 1: do we name her? Honestly, I'm scared, I'm afraid. I'm 606 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,440 Speaker 1: not gonna say it. I'll just say that there was 607 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 1: a there was sort of a matriarch of real Housewives 608 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 1: of Beverly Hills who was feuding with a lot of 609 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 1: people this season. It would be so fun to book 610 00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 1: her and say, what's what's going on? Because because honestly, 611 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:07,520 Speaker 1: like I'm, I'm a fair and balanced daytime TV person, 612 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 1: and I would want to hear their side of the 613 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 1: story because I truly believe that they have a they 614 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:15,720 Speaker 1: have a side of the story too. So uh So 615 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 1: my dream guest would be whoever is like in the 616 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:26,120 Speaker 1: reality world, in you know, in pop culture, who is 617 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 1: going through it? I'd love to I'd love to talk 618 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,680 Speaker 1: to them because I will say this, I'm I would 619 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 1: have like a funny, fresh, not soft take on it. Yeah, 620 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 1: I can't wait. Well, because here's the thing though, if 621 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 1: you ever need someone to bounce off a housewives up 622 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 1: with Sarah right there to come on your show and 623 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 1: be the girl that sits there and like goes back 624 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:49,560 Speaker 1: and forth. We've we've already air dropped our contacts. He's 625 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 1: coming to the wedding. I think, yeah, I'm there. He 626 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,880 Speaker 1: should officiate. Oh you should have Yeah, you know what. 627 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 1: Hold on a second, I'm just downloading get your wedding, like, 628 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 1: learn how to be a reverend, learn how to officiate, 629 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 1: be in a be a marriage officiate dot com. Wait, 630 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 1: hold on a second. I agree, done, I can do it. Yeah, 631 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:12,959 Speaker 1: and he's in there. You go, well, hold on a second. Oh, 632 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:16,080 Speaker 1: we we have Hold on a second. We have big news. 633 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 1: You're getting married. What is the date? Oh, in twenty twenty, yeah, 634 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: the year February. I'll give you that. I am going 635 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 1: to show you. Hey, I'm gonna show him everything. I'll 636 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 1: tell him whatever you want. Is it going to be local? 637 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:30,880 Speaker 1: Are we going? Is it going to be? My god, 638 00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:32,400 Speaker 1: look at him right here, trying to get the tea. 639 00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:37,960 Speaker 1: Is it you of course that she's marrying his son. 640 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 1: Of course, yes, I should have I should have known. 641 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:44,160 Speaker 1: I should have known all this. I'm so sorry. I'm ashamed. 642 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 1: You know what. Let me tell you something for the 643 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,800 Speaker 1: Jerio's show. I am going to do like prepare for 644 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 1: interviews and everything and like that, no way you would 645 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 1: ever know. No, I'm ashamed that I didn't know that. 646 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,520 Speaker 1: I should have known that, I should have done my research. 647 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 1: I was really slacking, to be honest. I fell asleep 648 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 1: in the car in the parking garage, like I had 649 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 1: a nap, and then I just woke up and like 650 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 1: someone said, you gotta be up here, and I should 651 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:09,640 Speaker 1: have downloaded everything. Wow, you are marrying into the Gretzki family. 652 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:13,640 Speaker 1: That's amazing. The great, great family, great family, love them, 653 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:18,280 Speaker 1: very terrific Canadian family, Canadian. You probably can't give anything away. 654 00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 1: It's going to be in twenty twenty. I bet it's 655 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,920 Speaker 1: going to I'm just guessing here. I have no faubt. 656 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say somewhere because it's the Gretzky family, somewhere 657 00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:34,040 Speaker 1: in Lake country in Ontario, most likely Muskoka. Boom done, Muskoka, 658 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 1: if those who don't know, is a very expensive, very 659 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:44,840 Speaker 1: very exclusive it's where is. It's a very exclusive lake 660 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:52,800 Speaker 1: community in north north of Toronto. It's beautiful, beautiful, and wow, 661 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:56,320 Speaker 1: that's exciting. Are you going to be able to call? 662 00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,879 Speaker 1: Are you going to be able? I mean the Great One? Wow? 663 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,640 Speaker 1: You know your father in law was It is known 664 00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 1: as the Great One. Yeah, that's so funny. I know. 665 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,440 Speaker 1: So this wedding is going to be the great wedding 666 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,239 Speaker 1: all right? Without giving comuny deets. Have we picked out 667 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 1: a dress yet? Are we still going through that whole process? 668 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 1: I love you, so I guess I'll just do it 669 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:18,759 Speaker 1: here now. So I got a dress yesterday. Wow, she 670 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:24,120 Speaker 1: didn't even know, she didn't even know. Nobody knows. Who 671 00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:29,080 Speaker 1: was there to help you choose? My mom and my sister. Wow. Yeah, 672 00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:35,840 Speaker 1: crying tears. No lots of alcohol, Oh okay, alcohol served 673 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:38,239 Speaker 1: by the establishment that sold you the dress. Yeah, that's 674 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 1: what they do. That's what they do. It's so funny 675 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:42,839 Speaker 1: because normally, with like a lot of alcohol, like you'd 676 00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:46,440 Speaker 1: think like it would be like like like elation and 677 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 1: then no, we lay together forever. So everyone's just My 678 00:35:55,080 --> 00:36:00,359 Speaker 1: dad's mostly like just take her. No, that's good. Rush 679 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,680 Speaker 1: you're you're very young, you know, I mean, nobody wants 680 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,960 Speaker 1: to rush into anything that's super exciting? Is it nerve 681 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 1: is it nervous? Is it exciting? Tell me the emotioning, 682 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 1: very excited. It's exciting, really excited. Now here we go 683 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 1: the list that's really crazy? How scary is that? It's 684 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 1: pretty scary? It's scary. I mean, I feel like I'm 685 00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,919 Speaker 1: watching The Jerry Show right now. I really like it. Well, listen, good, hey, 686 00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:28,760 Speaker 1: Jerry Show, August twelve, Fox Stations. Right there, the list 687 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 1: is crazy. Turned into the interviewer. I'm dying. How that 688 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 1: was the biggest negotiation with my wife and I. My 689 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:38,040 Speaker 1: wife and I've been married, so we did it. We've 690 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:46,920 Speaker 1: been married for a while now, twelve weeks, twelve years. 691 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,880 Speaker 1: That's amazing. It's crazy. I listen in Hollywood, people are like, 692 00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:51,719 Speaker 1: why are you guys still married? What's up with you too? 693 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,880 Speaker 1: Why are you guys weird or something? You guys? You freaks? 694 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:59,040 Speaker 1: He freaks? He freaks. What? Yeah, you've been married twelve years? 695 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:04,160 Speaker 1: It must be he must be pretty freaky. What we've 696 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:07,759 Speaker 1: just been married? We have kids? Yeah? Right, what's really good? 697 00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 1: What's really going on? Man? The guest list? That was 698 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,920 Speaker 1: the thing that my wife and I negotiated most heavily 699 00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 1: about when we were getting married. I am as a negotiation. 700 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:27,239 Speaker 1: Who can come, who can't come? Who needs to come, 701 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,279 Speaker 1: who needs to come, who doesn't need to come. We 702 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 1: had a hundred person wedding, so that's it's listen. I 703 00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,320 Speaker 1: know that doesn't sound small. I mean, listen, my parents 704 00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:42,160 Speaker 1: got married. There were like three people there, and so 705 00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 1: one hundred people is a lot compared to what I 706 00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:48,360 Speaker 1: knew was a wedding, you know. But I mean I 707 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 1: remember I once said to my wife and we were planning, 708 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:51,400 Speaker 1: I was like, man, I can't believe we have one 709 00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:53,000 Speaker 1: hundred people. And she was like, oh, you think we 710 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,600 Speaker 1: need more? And I was like more, are you crazy? 711 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 1: I don't know if I have one hundred, I don't 712 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:57,799 Speaker 1: know if we have fifty. I don't know if I've 713 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 1: fifty friends. And she was like, this is a this 714 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 1: is on the smaller side, and I was like, no, 715 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:07,560 Speaker 1: come on, Yeah, it's hard because we're both one of 716 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 1: five and our moms are both one of seven. Oh 717 00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:15,439 Speaker 1: my gosh, so go ahead alone. Yeah, oh my gosh, yeah, 718 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,640 Speaker 1: oh my gosh. That's okay. And I won't get into 719 00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:19,400 Speaker 1: deets like are people going to have to travel? But 720 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 1: you got to think about all that stuff and it's crazy. 721 00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:25,239 Speaker 1: But congratulations, that's exciting. Let me see this rock woo. 722 00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,600 Speaker 1: I know this is an audio medium, so I'll explain it. 723 00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,440 Speaker 1: I'm looking at what what I'm going to describe as 724 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,160 Speaker 1: a super Bowl ring. Oh my godness, I'm not you 725 00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:37,719 Speaker 1: won the super Bowl. I didn't realize this is uh 726 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,080 Speaker 1: look at that. Yeah, you will be very happy to 727 00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:42,959 Speaker 1: hear that. It is beautiful, very clean, diamond. I don't 728 00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 1: see it's very It looks very good. I know you 729 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,520 Speaker 1: guys are probably sponsored and I'll get in trouble for this, 730 00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,960 Speaker 1: but I can't say this about your fiance. He went 731 00:38:52,000 --> 00:39:05,080 Speaker 1: to Jerry. Every kids begins with case and to think, 732 00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:08,319 Speaker 1: I'm hungover right now. Oh, how was it since you're 733 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,960 Speaker 1: into reality shows, how like, how was that having your 734 00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:15,920 Speaker 1: brother Charlie be the Bachelor? It's so funny. This is 735 00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:19,440 Speaker 1: going back, This is going way back. My brother was 736 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:23,080 Speaker 1: like the second or third bachelor. This was he was 737 00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,880 Speaker 1: the seventh, probably like the fourth guy. Then, oh, it 738 00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:29,879 Speaker 1: felt like the second. Hey once again for Jerio Show. 739 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:31,800 Speaker 1: I am gonna be doing some homework. I promise you, 740 00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get all these details down. We are never 741 00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:39,839 Speaker 1: gonna make a mistake on the Jerio Show. I guess 742 00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,279 Speaker 1: he is the seventh, but that still is pretty early 743 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:47,439 Speaker 1: on in oh yeah, in Bachelor World, it was really 744 00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,080 Speaker 1: stressful for a family. We thought it was gonna be fun. 745 00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:52,960 Speaker 1: I felt a little responsible because I was the one 746 00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:54,680 Speaker 1: who was like, you gotta do this, man, this is 747 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:58,000 Speaker 1: gonna be so fun. You're the Bachelor, Go go go. 748 00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:07,600 Speaker 1: And it was pre social media, so it was it's 749 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 1: it's funny. I think now we know, like, hey, listen, 750 00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,319 Speaker 1: the spotlight's going to be really on you. I'm not 751 00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:16,959 Speaker 1: sure if you know, only do this show if you're 752 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,600 Speaker 1: ready to take the heat, you know. I think I 753 00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:22,000 Speaker 1: think everyone's a little more savvy now with social media, 754 00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,480 Speaker 1: Like you know, you get named the Bachelor, or you 755 00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:28,399 Speaker 1: get on a reality show, and you're immediately a personality, 756 00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,399 Speaker 1: you know, and you have a lot of followers and 757 00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:36,320 Speaker 1: your celebrity, you know. And I think back then there 758 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:38,759 Speaker 1: there there wasn't that, so we were a little more 759 00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,640 Speaker 1: innocent back then, you know. So I was really pushing 760 00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 1: him to do it, and it was like my brother 761 00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 1: who was like, this isn't me, you know, you know, 762 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:50,359 Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm not a I guess we call 763 00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:52,759 Speaker 1: them reality stars back then, you know, and like the 764 00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:56,080 Speaker 1: only real reality shows back then were like, uh, you 765 00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:59,319 Speaker 1: know the Osborns and you know, real world, and I 766 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:01,799 Speaker 1: was like, this will be this will be great, and 767 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 1: you know what, it was really like stressful. It was 768 00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 1: really like he pick somebody, you know, like you're there's 769 00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:13,400 Speaker 1: a lot of forces telling you it's It's not like 770 00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:16,840 Speaker 1: going to a bar, seeing a girl, liking her, getting 771 00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:19,040 Speaker 1: her number, and then dating her. It's like you have 772 00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 1: to go through a process where you slowly eliminate people, 773 00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:27,040 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, where you're encouraged to start 774 00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:31,200 Speaker 1: beef with people. You know, it was it was stressful. 775 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. If it was, I wouldn't describe it 776 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:38,440 Speaker 1: as a pleasant experience. I could see that it is 777 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,120 Speaker 1: fun to I mean there is a I do have 778 00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 1: to admit. When it was on, we would have screening 779 00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,560 Speaker 1: parties and we'd watch it and there was an excitement 780 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,759 Speaker 1: to it, you know, and there is an excitement to 781 00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:56,479 Speaker 1: being on TV. But you know, I gotta tell you, oh, man, 782 00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:01,279 Speaker 1: you know even when like my parents, we're on for 783 00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 1: the take the dates back to your parents' episodes. You 784 00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:08,760 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. There's a word for it, hometown visits. 785 00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:15,640 Speaker 1: Thank you for the hometown visits. You know, my parents 786 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,760 Speaker 1: are pretty charismatic people, but the second there were cameras 787 00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:21,440 Speaker 1: in their faces and a producer say, always feel bad 788 00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:23,960 Speaker 1: for the parents. Well also like a producer saying that, 789 00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:28,440 Speaker 1: like my mom, who is a like an opinionated person, 790 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:30,759 Speaker 1: saying to my mom like, hey, what do you not 791 00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 1: like about this girl? Like on camera my wife being like, oh, 792 00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,880 Speaker 1: I like every I think everyone's good, and the like 793 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:39,839 Speaker 1: I need you to be like I need to hear 794 00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,120 Speaker 1: what you don't like about them that would help us, 795 00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:44,600 Speaker 1: you know, and my mom being like, I don't I 796 00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:47,880 Speaker 1: want to say that. Yeah, it's rude, right, but is 797 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:51,080 Speaker 1: there anything that you maybe don't like about them, something 798 00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:53,200 Speaker 1: that you are afraid that your son won't like? You know, 799 00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,560 Speaker 1: and if we put a gun to your head, well, 800 00:42:56,640 --> 00:43:00,239 Speaker 1: you know, and like alcohol is involved with everything. They're 801 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:02,960 Speaker 1: always trying to get people and what you watch. So 802 00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,760 Speaker 1: now when I watch that show and I see people 803 00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:10,760 Speaker 1: like breaking down, I know from having a family members 804 00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 1: done the show. I know they're wasted. I know it's 805 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,480 Speaker 1: four in the morning, I know they've been working for 806 00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:21,279 Speaker 1: sixteen hours. And let me tell you something. If this 807 00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:24,960 Speaker 1: interview that we're all doing here went on for sixteen hours, 808 00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,880 Speaker 1: and you kept giving me drinks. By our sixteen I 809 00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:35,600 Speaker 1: would be here talking about about I love you. I 810 00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:44,280 Speaker 1: don't get a rose. I don't know what I'll fight 811 00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:50,600 Speaker 1: you all. I mean anyone, even the strongest people in 812 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:55,040 Speaker 1: the world, like the greatest leaders, would like Obama would 813 00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 1: be like even after our sixteen would be like, oh 814 00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:03,160 Speaker 1: old that said, I haven't missed a season, love it all. 815 00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:05,359 Speaker 1: I can't wait to watch somebody gets drunk and fight 816 00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:08,719 Speaker 1: and cry and hopefully gets somebody. Man, When Colton jumped 817 00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:11,160 Speaker 1: that fence and ran, that was some appointment television. Man. 818 00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:14,239 Speaker 1: When that virgin was just off and running, that was crazy. Man. 819 00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:16,719 Speaker 1: You can have the next person, hopefully, maybe they'll be 820 00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,239 Speaker 1: same time airing. I don't know how that works. I 821 00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:21,520 Speaker 1: am not a virgin, so I can't. Oh oh, give 822 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:26,960 Speaker 1: me a show. Oh yeah, be fun to have a bachelor. 823 00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 1: Oh man, if I got that virgin on my show, 824 00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:32,359 Speaker 1: forget it. So, because you're so obsessed reality, would you 825 00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:36,440 Speaker 1: actually be on housewives? I would do it in a second. 826 00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,360 Speaker 1: My wife would never do it. And my wife you 827 00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:42,840 Speaker 1: can look her up on the old Graham. Rebecca Romaine, 828 00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:48,319 Speaker 1: very beautiful, very high falutint model actress. I don't think 829 00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:51,319 Speaker 1: it's her bag. She's not confrontational like that. I would 830 00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,440 Speaker 1: be on there. I would be fighting with like, no 831 00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:57,839 Speaker 1: you would, Hey Hamlin, Ken Todd, I'd be hooking up 832 00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:02,560 Speaker 1: with them, Ken Todd trying to Ki try to kiss 833 00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:09,520 Speaker 1: my husband Jerry did last night? You savage. I'm just 834 00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:11,560 Speaker 1: talk about I'm in love a kid, Todd, Lisa. You 835 00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,479 Speaker 1: can't take me away? Oh sorry, I'm sorry. Well, guys, 836 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,840 Speaker 1: this is it. I'm hanging. I have nothing to do. 837 00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:18,960 Speaker 1: I'm sitting here all day. I have nothing to do. 838 00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 1: And I mean, say, you want me out of here 839 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:26,359 Speaker 1: because Mario Lopez is coming in or something like, you 840 00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 1: have someone else who has to sit here. I have 841 00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:30,839 Speaker 1: nothing else to do. So I'm actually now just a sweat. 842 00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:32,680 Speaker 1: You're gonna sit here for two hours and I'm gonna 843 00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:35,200 Speaker 1: keep talking about that. He's getting the looks right now. 844 00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:43,040 Speaker 1: I know my buddy Adam is here. He just he 845 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:44,839 Speaker 1: had nothing else to do today. He was like, hey, man, 846 00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 1: I want to like hang, Oh I haven't seen him 847 00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:58,080 Speaker 1: some listening to my heart and just drive around. Bro. No, 848 00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:04,560 Speaker 1: you guys don't understand him. I'm sweating. I haven't. Hey, 849 00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:06,680 Speaker 1: congrats to the wedding. Gonda be super fun. I can't 850 00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:09,520 Speaker 1: wait to see pictures when they're posted. Oh my god, yes, 851 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,560 Speaker 1: of course. And you're marrying it too. A great I mean, 852 00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:15,360 Speaker 1: your family's great, but they are the best. They're real royalty. 853 00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:19,600 Speaker 1: It's exciting. Oh that's sweet. Wow, I'm gonna cry. Yeah, 854 00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:22,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm basically a Megan Markle. They are. You're 855 00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:27,440 Speaker 1: I'm not even making a joke, a rare, serious comment 856 00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:32,839 Speaker 1: in my eyes. You're marrying royalty. Oh wow, that's really nice. 857 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:34,799 Speaker 1: Are you a hockey fan. I'm a huge hockey fan. 858 00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:37,720 Speaker 1: But also I'm a fan because I've met your in laws. 859 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:41,040 Speaker 1: I live in a little village called Calabasas in California, 860 00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:44,360 Speaker 1: where all the Kardashians are from. But not only are 861 00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:48,200 Speaker 1: the Kardashians from there, the Gretzkis are also from, actually 862 00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:50,319 Speaker 1: a little far out. I live in the more lower 863 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:53,480 Speaker 1: income area of Calabasas. They live in the in the 864 00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:56,800 Speaker 1: hiring Come area. But I have seen the Gretzky family 865 00:46:56,880 --> 00:47:00,640 Speaker 1: out there are a number of times. They're a beautiful Yeah, 866 00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:04,920 Speaker 1: I love them. You really, You're all gonna make beautiful 867 00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:08,279 Speaker 1: Oh beautiful children. Oh thanks, Sorry, we're jumping ahead here. 868 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:12,960 Speaker 1: We're really getting getting crazy. Hey, Jerry O's show, it's 869 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,000 Speaker 1: gonna be funny, man, We're gonna have a good old time. 870 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,520 Speaker 1: I know you can't tell from this interview, but it 871 00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:20,160 Speaker 1: is a reflection of my personality and it's gonna be 872 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:23,319 Speaker 1: a lot of fun awesome. We cannot wait to watch it, 873 00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,759 Speaker 1: and we just want all our wine down listeners to 874 00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:32,680 Speaker 1: watch Anus Felt the Jerio Show on Fox. Chegure it out. Okay, 875 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:36,840 Speaker 1: so huge ball event. Wow, I mean all the energy 876 00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:38,320 Speaker 1: in the world. I feel like I was just watching 877 00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:40,960 Speaker 1: you on the Jerio Show. He something came over me. 878 00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:43,120 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. He sat down next 879 00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:46,080 Speaker 1: to me. We both had like this thing going. Not 880 00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,280 Speaker 1: the day to be hungover and not have coffee, But honestly, 881 00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,640 Speaker 1: I couldn't feel better right now. All right, I'm excited 882 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 1: to hear more about the wedding, but first we have 883 00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,160 Speaker 1: to talk about clutter. So, whether you're moving to a 884 00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,360 Speaker 1: new place, having a baby, or just you know whatever 885 00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,359 Speaker 1: life you're probably looking to free up some space. Well, 886 00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:03,640 Speaker 1: now there is meat Clutter, the world's largest on demand 887 00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,520 Speaker 1: storage provider. 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All right, So, Sarah, yes, 911 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,719 Speaker 1: before we get to some emails, can you just give 912 00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:22,479 Speaker 1: me Okay, I know we have a dress that OBEs 913 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:24,600 Speaker 1: you're not going to tell you I found your dress? 914 00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:26,040 Speaker 1: When did you find it? I can't believe you just 915 00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:28,000 Speaker 1: got that out of me. I'm telling you, like, I know, 916 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,880 Speaker 1: I couldn't even control myself yesterday. So I got it yesterday. 917 00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:35,120 Speaker 1: Y Yeah, how did you know? What was the feeling? Honestly, 918 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:37,040 Speaker 1: it was really hard for me, Like this was probably 919 00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:38,600 Speaker 1: like I thought I was going to love this part. 920 00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:40,600 Speaker 1: I did not like this part. I'm just so particular 921 00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:45,279 Speaker 1: and picky and I just yesterday I finally was just like, 922 00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,520 Speaker 1: this is me. I did what I felt was most 923 00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:51,640 Speaker 1: me and I yeah, and I was like, at the 924 00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:56,120 Speaker 1: end of the day, I'm the only one who cares. 925 00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:59,520 Speaker 1: I don't care what anyone thinks like and I loved it. 926 00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:01,920 Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, and everyone's gonna say you 927 00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:06,319 Speaker 1: look beautiful anyway, Like everyone's no, it's always like, oh, 928 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,319 Speaker 1: the most beautiful bride. It's like, really, was she the 929 00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:10,320 Speaker 1: most beautiful bride? Because I doubt she was, so Like 930 00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:12,720 Speaker 1: why does everyone always call people the most beautiful bride? 931 00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:15,799 Speaker 1: I don't know. Anyways, well, in that moment, you are 932 00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:19,920 Speaker 1: the most beautiful bride. Oh for sure? Yeah? For sure? 933 00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:24,440 Speaker 1: Okay are we saying are we saying city north State? No? Okay, 934 00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:30,640 Speaker 1: February twenty twenty, I'll say February. Yeah, yeah. I know. 935 00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:32,360 Speaker 1: People were like asking me all when I did, like 936 00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,720 Speaker 1: the questions, Everyone's like long engagement, short engagement. I'm like, listen, 937 00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,600 Speaker 1: I don't trust people who do long engagements. Okay, Like 938 00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,480 Speaker 1: I don't trust them, and I've waited long enough, so 939 00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:45,120 Speaker 1: let's get this going. I mean, I was really pushing 940 00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:46,880 Speaker 1: for the end of this year, so what's kind of tie? 941 00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,360 Speaker 1: But again, I didn't want to be rush rushed. I 942 00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:51,600 Speaker 1: wanted to be able to enjoy it but also be rushed. 943 00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:53,440 Speaker 1: But I mean, I'm trying to have a child next year, 944 00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:55,480 Speaker 1: so we really need to get things going. When are 945 00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:57,680 Speaker 1: you going to start trying? I mean, like as soon 946 00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:02,719 Speaker 1: as I can, Like, like, I can't imagine pregnant. There. 947 00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:04,759 Speaker 1: You say that all the time, and like, honestly, I 948 00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:07,680 Speaker 1: just imagine it because it's happening. Oh my god, I'm 949 00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:11,719 Speaker 1: so excited. Okay, guest list, guess we No, no, no, no, 950 00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:14,920 Speaker 1: that's that's gonna take a hot minute. I was the 951 00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:18,319 Speaker 1: band that you Yeah, got a facetimed got it about it. 952 00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,720 Speaker 1: I really got all the like quote unquote big things. 953 00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 1: I think. I just know. I feel like I'll get 954 00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:28,520 Speaker 1: shoes now now that I know the dress, I'll get shoes. 955 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:32,280 Speaker 1: I need to get bridesmaids dresses. I'm people get bridesmaids. 956 00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:37,160 Speaker 1: I'm doing like my like high school best friend, I 957 00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:39,759 Speaker 1: don't have any Yeah, so Tyane, I don't have that 958 00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:41,319 Speaker 1: many friends, so it kind of works out. And we 959 00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:43,719 Speaker 1: both have like, you know, brothers and sisters. So that's 960 00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:46,960 Speaker 1: taking up most of our party as our his brothers 961 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:51,480 Speaker 1: and his sisters and my sisters. So yeah, it's gonna 962 00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:54,319 Speaker 1: be Are you doing all of your sisters? No? So 963 00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:57,360 Speaker 1: my three older sisters they're like, we have no desire 964 00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:00,920 Speaker 1: to be bridesmaids at at their ages. I won't say 965 00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:02,719 Speaker 1: oh they are because they would kill me, but no, 966 00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:04,439 Speaker 1: they were like, we have no desire because my sister 967 00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:05,920 Speaker 1: got married last year and my younger one, and they 968 00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:09,080 Speaker 1: were like, listen, we're here for the party. We're not 969 00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:11,400 Speaker 1: here for the ugly bridesmaids dress. Which, let's be honest, 970 00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:14,000 Speaker 1: my bridesmaids stresses won't be ugly. But no, I'm gonna do. 971 00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:16,319 Speaker 1: I mean, I involved them in every other way, but 972 00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:18,120 Speaker 1: they just don't have to do that part. So how 973 00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:23,799 Speaker 1: many bridesmaids? Eight? Wow, that's a lot. I could barely 974 00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,520 Speaker 1: come up with six. Yeah, I Janna, we had I 975 00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:29,240 Speaker 1: had to cut mine down. I could have done like twelve. Yeah, 976 00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:33,279 Speaker 1: I just well, so I have ties to so it 977 00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:35,520 Speaker 1: because he has two sisters, I'm having them in it, 978 00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:37,640 Speaker 1: so it like he and his he has two brothers. 979 00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:41,640 Speaker 1: So honestly, the most most of our party is like family. 980 00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:44,799 Speaker 1: But no, it's like really fun. I'm so excited. I 981 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,279 Speaker 1: didn't think I really didn't think I was gonna be 982 00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:48,800 Speaker 1: as happy as I was, because I'm like, I already 983 00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:51,080 Speaker 1: love him so much, Like how can you love someone more? Oh, 984 00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,279 Speaker 1: let me tell you. When he put that thing on 985 00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:56,279 Speaker 1: my finger, I love it more. So I love It's 986 00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,799 Speaker 1: been wild, but I'm so excited and like, thank God, 987 00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:02,160 Speaker 1: I have you. I mean you were always here free, 988 00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:05,880 Speaker 1: riving to help you. The day after everybody, let me 989 00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:08,400 Speaker 1: tell you, the day after I got engaged. We are 990 00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:12,719 Speaker 1: on a plane. She is already called ten venues. She's 991 00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,879 Speaker 1: an animal. Yeah. I was like, how can I help? 992 00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:17,799 Speaker 1: I love planning. I know that it's so much fun. 993 00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:21,000 Speaker 1: That's like your secret job. It is. She needs to 994 00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:22,040 Speaker 1: do it. I know I would love to be a 995 00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:25,000 Speaker 1: wedding planner. That'd be like dream goals. All right, email 996 00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:26,640 Speaker 1: before we leave? What do you wish you knew? My 997 00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:28,279 Speaker 1: husband and I have been together for nine years and 998 00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:31,400 Speaker 1: have struggled through infidelity, and recently the floodgates opened and 999 00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:34,040 Speaker 1: I found out about a lot more. I believe my 1000 00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:37,480 Speaker 1: husband loves me and I'm the one he wants uh 1001 00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,680 Speaker 1: to be with. He is officially in therapy and win 1002 00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:41,440 Speaker 1: for himself, not to keep me, which I think is 1003 00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:44,000 Speaker 1: really important. We are living separately but talk every day 1004 00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:46,040 Speaker 1: and fighting through this. What are some things you wish 1005 00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:49,080 Speaker 1: you knew in the beginning? Who do you vent to 1006 00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:51,600 Speaker 1: when you had a hard time without totally airing your 1007 00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:55,359 Speaker 1: dirty laundry? That's a tough one, I think, even with 1008 00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:57,480 Speaker 1: infidelity or not. I mean, Sarah. You know, it's like 1009 00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:59,399 Speaker 1: you have to pick and choose, like who you vent 1010 00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:01,800 Speaker 1: to you know, Yeah, I don't want to know anything. 1011 00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:05,759 Speaker 1: Like in regards to her email, I'm saying, like I'm 1012 00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:07,400 Speaker 1: someone who I'm like, I don't want to know. I 1013 00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,560 Speaker 1: don't want to know. If it doesn't don't if it 1014 00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:11,400 Speaker 1: was before me doesn't involve me, I don't want to know. 1015 00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:13,640 Speaker 1: I don't care. What if it was during you, Oh well, 1016 00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:18,200 Speaker 1: I mean during me depends, But for the most part, 1017 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:21,360 Speaker 1: I don't want to know. You don't want to know 1018 00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:25,520 Speaker 1: what your friends Dirty laundreie No, No, she's saying, like 1019 00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:29,759 Speaker 1: from her right is she she referring to like he 1020 00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,759 Speaker 1: told her things? I'm guessing later on? Yeah, what are 1021 00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:34,680 Speaker 1: some things you wish you knew in the beginning? Yeah, 1022 00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:39,520 Speaker 1: I don't know in the beginning, I don't. Yeah. I mean, 1023 00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:41,520 Speaker 1: it's it's like you don't want to know too much. 1024 00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:45,320 Speaker 1: I think specific details are like a lot. But yeah, 1025 00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:47,600 Speaker 1: at the same time, it's really hard to pick and 1026 00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:50,400 Speaker 1: choose which friends you tell things too. Oh yeah, but 1027 00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:52,080 Speaker 1: then again, I talked to you and you were the 1028 00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:58,160 Speaker 1: middle seat. Southwest Girls aired Mad Dirty Launder. Do you yeah, 1029 00:54:58,200 --> 00:54:59,879 Speaker 1: but there's like, what do you think in sense when 1030 00:54:59,880 --> 00:55:01,960 Speaker 1: you think you're not going to see someone again? You know, 1031 00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,919 Speaker 1: it's true. I mean, this is this is a tough 1032 00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:09,879 Speaker 1: one though, because you know, the thing here is that's 1033 00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:12,720 Speaker 1: why through the whole there's a therapeutic process when dealing 1034 00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,400 Speaker 1: with infidelity of these kind of things. It's called disclosure, 1035 00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:20,080 Speaker 1: and the whole point is to alleviate from some of 1036 00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:25,360 Speaker 1: this where you don't start to you know, recover, mend 1037 00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:28,400 Speaker 1: one issue, and then you find out more and then 1038 00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:30,680 Speaker 1: it just feels like more lies. It feels like more secrets, 1039 00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,040 Speaker 1: more disclosure, and then it just brings everyone else back 1040 00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:36,399 Speaker 1: to you know, back to square one. So, I mean, 1041 00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:39,680 Speaker 1: it's it's tough. I mean, this is she's in a 1042 00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:43,160 Speaker 1: tough situation and finding a you know, she needs a 1043 00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:45,840 Speaker 1: therapist would be the best person to air the dirty 1044 00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:48,960 Speaker 1: laundry to. Because again, you're you don't want your friends 1045 00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:50,600 Speaker 1: if you're trying to work it out, you don't want 1046 00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:53,719 Speaker 1: friends to be judgmental of your partner. They don't. You 1047 00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:57,000 Speaker 1: don't want them to judge you for staying, which you know, 1048 00:55:57,120 --> 00:55:59,719 Speaker 1: let's face that a lot of people might do at first. Yeah, 1049 00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:02,680 Speaker 1: you know, that's a tough one. It's tough. Yeah, I 1050 00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:05,239 Speaker 1: feel for well, not to end on a heavy note, 1051 00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:10,680 Speaker 1: but Sarah, we're really excited for your marriage. Ye honestly same. Hey, Cruz, 1052 00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,839 Speaker 1: you want to come back on next week? Yeah? Yay? 1053 00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:16,640 Speaker 1: All right, awesome. Well we we love you guys, and 1054 00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:19,360 Speaker 1: thanks for catching us up to speed on all things wedding, 1055 00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:22,919 Speaker 1: of course, and we'll wind down again next week, see 1056 00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:25,440 Speaker 1: you next week. Bye bye bye