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Speaker 2: I don't have whole friends.

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Speaker 1: You just don't know.

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Speaker 2: No, I know my friends. I have a small amount

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Speaker 2: of friends and none of them are hoes. And I

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Speaker 1: It's back.

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Speaker 2: We could bet it. I don't have whole friends. We

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Speaker 2: could bet it.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: What like, I don't have whole friends like oh no,

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Speaker 2: my friends are all either in a relationship, married, like

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Speaker 2: they're not hoes.

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Speaker 1: Like you know you got some everybody got whole friends.

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Speaker 2: I have whole acquaintances. I know somebody has whole friends.

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Speaker 1: Your sister taking over the game.

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Speaker 3: All right, everybody, Welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that men or women are more toxic?

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Speaker 2: Welcome everybody to another episode of the Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 2: I'm your host. It is our Paraday.

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Speaker 1: The Truth in the Building.

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Speaker 2: Is that too loud or is that going to affect anything?

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Speaker 2: I like yelling, yodelingk Okay, Hello, beautiful people, Welcome to

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Speaker 2: another episode of the Truth after Dark. I'm your host,

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Speaker 2: Czar Faraday.

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Speaker 1: Truth in the Building.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Truth in the Building is popping. How are you

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Speaker 2: feeling today?

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Speaker 3: I'm good.

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Speaker 2: I'm good. I'm good.

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Speaker 1: So a lot of a lot of shit going on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, another day, another set of bullshit.

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Speaker 1: You got the black cat woman outfit looking cool? Thank

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Speaker 1: you looking cool? All right, let's hit it.

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Speaker 2: So basically, I know, your last video kind of went

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Speaker 2: viral and you're talking about Cardi B being some work.

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Speaker 2: Everyone had different feelings about it. You know. Some people

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Speaker 2: were saying, like, she's a wife. She was a wife

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Speaker 2: at one point, so like, what do you mean? And

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Speaker 2: then a lot of people agree with you. Honestly, I

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Speaker 2: think more people agree with you than not. But recently

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Speaker 2: it looks like Offset is trying to spend the block.

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Speaker 2: He got her ten k, ten thousand roses and balloons

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Speaker 2: on Valentine's Days, so he's like, oh, she's single again.

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Speaker 2: See that's why I told them. Then they be creeping

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Speaker 2: them x's and all that. The man be waiting.

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Speaker 1: Really like he never really let go either. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I could see that, you know, because he.

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Speaker 3: Was like always coming talking to her and you know,

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Speaker 3: staying in touch. I mean, they got they got history,

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Speaker 3: you know, so it's like it is.

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Speaker 1: What it is. And I mean, you know, yeah, he.

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Speaker 2: Couldn't have been in that of love because the way

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Speaker 2: he was dogging around and sheting on her every chance

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Speaker 2: he got. So men want to say they're in love,

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Speaker 2: but then they do all of this cheating and lies

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Speaker 2: and all of this. So I pray that she don't

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Speaker 2: take him back. But black Love, I'm not hating on

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Speaker 2: Black Love. That's crazy that she would say that. I

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Speaker 2: just want my sister to find someone who actually is

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Speaker 2: gonna treat her like she deserves to be treated. And obviously,

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Speaker 2: like I don't double back on no X, especially if whatever,

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Speaker 2: like and Maxis have done grand gestures all of that.

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing that, like we we not, Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, like there's a reason in my opinion that

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Speaker 2: for her. But you know, speaking of that, there was

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Speaker 2: was like thank and everybody, and then he started crying

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Speaker 2: and he was just like, I want to give an

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Speaker 2: apology to my to the girl that I was with

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Speaker 2: six months wet. I met the love of my life

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Speaker 2: six months ago and then three months in I cheated

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Speaker 2: on her. Ooh, and he's like crying and he's like,

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Speaker 2: she's the love of my life. I only have eyes

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Speaker 2: for her. I don't know if she'll see this, but

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Speaker 3: She got to take him back after that, When you

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Speaker 3: get out in the public apology, yeah, that's hard. That's

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Speaker 1: On the line and cry and cry and.

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Speaker 3: Save their relationship made itself vulnerable. That's about his most

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Speaker 1: He want this woman.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not mad at him. I feel like it

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Speaker 3: Take him back, running back one more time. You know

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Speaker 3: what I'm saying. What's the worst that can happen? Y'all

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Speaker 3: have love there, I know. But the thing is, you

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Speaker 3: know what the red flag about all that is? Y'all

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Speaker 3: don't even to gather six months Yeah, like in three

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Speaker 2: That's great, Come.

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Speaker 3: On now, I mean, I know he went out and

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Speaker 1: What happened? Like straight up?

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Speaker 3: That's like, come on, like you wasn't You ain't really

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Speaker 1: But I don't know that, Like that's that's tough. That's tough.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, like before year, if there's already them

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Speaker 1: Yeah, before a year even I wish I knew the

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Speaker 1: he went out and got vulnerable.

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Speaker 3: I guess if you're gonna try to get back, that's

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Speaker 3: the way you gotta do it, so well, you know,

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Speaker 3: I mean he was in love. He was in love.

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Speaker 1: I mean, players fuck up?

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Speaker 2: Do you think that when you're in love? Do you

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Speaker 2: think it's possible to be very deeply in love with

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Speaker 3: I think it's happened, But like, maybe there's certain circumstances

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Speaker 3: You know, you can be deeply in love, I mean

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Speaker 3: but you're so used to the person that you just.

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Speaker 1: Don't go nowhere, you know what I'm saying. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's just like then you become I didn't heard a

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Speaker 1: But it's like this the way it is, you know

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Speaker 3: It's just it's love is hard, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Love is hard. There's ups and down. And I said

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Speaker 3: what I'm saying. And that's like what love is. And

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Speaker 3: they might not be intentional and it might not be

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Speaker 1: And you just it's hard.

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Speaker 3: It's hard to like describe one definition of love and

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Speaker 3: why would you do something like that? Yeah, I get it,

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Speaker 3: but you know, humans, human nature sometimes and then influences

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Speaker 3: And sometimes you get in a vulnerable position to where

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well speaking, have you ever cheated on your No,

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Speaker 2: I'm never cheated. I always say, like when I was fourteen,

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Speaker 1: I stole when I was fourteen, but I never stole.

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Speaker 2: Before and really cheat, like it was.

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Speaker 1: Robbed the bank, but it don't count because I was young.

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Speaker 2: Like I don't think that relationships that under eighteen their juvenile.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't like I was having sex, so it doesn't

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Speaker 2: what I do is I just emotionally withdraw a lot,

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Speaker 2: I'm not purposely or intentionally doing anything to hurts you.

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Speaker 2: I think I just get beat Like you feel beaten

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Speaker 2: what I mean. And like I've been in that position

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Speaker 2: you try and you try, but you're just like I

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Speaker 2: can't feel the same way anymore. I don't believe.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what's working on it is you can feel

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Speaker 2: Heal, but it's never going to look the same. It

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Speaker 2: can look the same when you got stabbed. Do you

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Speaker 2: have wounds that are still there?

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Speaker 1: Have scars that are there.

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Speaker 2: But you have a lot that are.

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Speaker 1: That's deep wounds.

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Speaker 2: So that's what I'm saying, after time and time and

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Speaker 2: time again, those deep wounds never.

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Speaker 3: Covered it up with a tattoo. So now you can't

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Speaker 3: see it, yeah, because.

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Speaker 2: It's still but it's still there. That's like numbing the pain,

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Speaker 2: but it's still there.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not there no more.

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Speaker 2: I think that after a while, it's being cheated on

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Speaker 2: and lied to. It's just like you get to a

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Speaker 2: certain point where it's just like damn.

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Speaker 3: Well, you say, get to a certain point it has

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Speaker 3: multiple then now it's most.

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Speaker 2: That's what I just said, A deeper wound. You can't

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Speaker 2: hide a deeper wound. Like it gets to a point

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Speaker 2: where now it's like you done did so much shit

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Speaker 2: And now I don't feel the same, to where I

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Speaker 2: feel like my whole light has been like shut off.

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Speaker 1: Do you believe people change. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I believe people change if they want to change, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: But I don't believe it can change to it. But

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Speaker 3: And keep it like that and value us right here

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Speaker 3: It's little words that go a long way every single

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Speaker 1: It's the body that they do this. The spy.

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Speaker 3: Do, what your girls, you could do right here, why

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Speaker 3: Then let's start doing that. Let's start going out of

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Speaker 2: What do you think about what how do you think

473
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Speaker 2: men can temptation when they are not in the best

474
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,199
Speaker 2: place with their partner, maybe like maybe you guys had

475
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 2: to fight or you're just like, didn't have a good week,

476
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 2: because that happens often and then you're put in a

477
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,639
Speaker 2: position where you're tempted. You know, like, how do you

478
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:23,000
Speaker 2: what advice you give to stay vigilant during those type

479
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 2: of times?

480
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 3: Well, when you go through with your partner and did

481
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:28,719
Speaker 3: y'all have a spad and you're not talking? It's just

482
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 3: it's it's up to the man. It's always on the man.

483
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 1: But like.

484
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 3: We as a society saying the man is the one

485
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,160
Speaker 3: always fucking up? What about the girl? What are y'all doing?

486
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 3: What are you doing to make him feel in a

487
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 3: safe place when he ain't like that? Because it's always

488
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 3: about the man when we talk about these subjects.

489
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 1: It's like, what's the man gonna do when she's not? Like?

490
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:51,880
Speaker 1: What about the man?

491
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,360
Speaker 2: Well, I just say that because I feel like the

492
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 2: men have more temptations and desires, Like men are animalistic

493
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:02,440
Speaker 2: by nature, their natural hunter, and they like we make

494
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 2: a joke like when we ovulate as women were very

495
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 2: like sexual and we're very like turned on during that

496
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 2: period of time it's like a week, and we say

497
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 2: that men feel like that twenty four to seven, you know, So,

498
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 2: like it's just different for a man. Temptation is more

499
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 2: prevalent in a man's life than it is a woman.

500
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 2: You know, I don't go outside and look at a

501
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 2: man's ass when he's walking. I'm not looking at his

502
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 2: like I'm not outside like damn, I want to hit.

503
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:34,719
Speaker 1: The look and his height and look how his swag is.

504
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 3: Now y'all don't look at that anyway, y'all looking like, damn,

505
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,440
Speaker 3: look cool it swag us through the roof.

506
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, But that's rare. Like I can honestly

507
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:43,359
Speaker 2: say it's rare for me to see a man and

508
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 2: be like, damn, like that's a rare thing for me.

509
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,640
Speaker 2: But women with bbls and fat asses are walking down

510
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 2: the street everything.

511
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 3: But that's like we see that every day. So why

512
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 3: are we all gassed off?

513
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: Of that.

514
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 3: Not just a thirsty motherlugger. That's just thirsty all us time.

515
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 3: He's just thirsty. Like we see the same I see

516
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 3: the same girl or every goddamn day they got the libs.

517
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 3: It's the same look, Like give me a new look,

518
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 3: like come on, like like original is never gonna be outdated.

519
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 3: But when I'll see the same look at all places

520
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 3: in years, it's more temptations.

521
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 1: It's definitely, especially.

522
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 3: When the girl is flirting and got wondering eyes and

523
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 3: they like just throwing it at a dude. But you go,

524
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 3: where are you going to put yourself in that position?

525
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:27,360
Speaker 2: I mean you go anywhere?

526
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:31,400
Speaker 3: Like honestly, like that ain't happening that like the places

527
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 3: I go. It ain't happening at the grocery store. It

528
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,439
Speaker 3: ain't happen in at the studio, it ain't happen at

529
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 3: my at the when I go play basketball or even

530
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 3: girls in there and they're like, take yourself, remove yourself

531
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 3: from all of that. I only e think and then

532
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 3: when I'm around that, let me be on my one.

533
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:51,360
Speaker 2: But what happens when you are like this is the thing.

534
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:56,640
Speaker 2: It's easy to stay faithful when you're not around it, right,

535
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,440
Speaker 2: like it's easy if I'm addicted to desserts, I never

536
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 2: go anywhere with desserts. But what about when the dessert

537
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:04,440
Speaker 2: is right in front of you? How do you have

538
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 2: the discipline to not eat it?

539
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 3: Because you know and your man or your woman, how

540
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 3: disciplined they are in life, they have it in them,

541
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,159
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. If you got a undisciplined man,

542
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 3: you're gonna see them traits already.

543
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: Like damn, you ain't gonna know this. He can't like damn,

544
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 1: hell no, he can't.

545
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 3: Like he can't in case, stay consistent on nothing on

546
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:27,919
Speaker 3: nothing he do, Like you gonna see that. Like, so

547
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 3: you gonna know your person and you're gonna know what

548
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,160
Speaker 3: they up to or your intuition.

549
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 1: You're gonna tell you something.

550
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 3: And it's just you're gonna see it early, you know

551
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like, you know what, he ain't consistent

552
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 3: to nothing?

553
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: She ain't consistent to nothing.

554
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta be consistent in a relationship what you

555
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,880
Speaker 3: do on it every day? You gotta be like, man,

556
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 3: he consistently like you, man, you I know her and

557
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,160
Speaker 3: I ain't got to check up on her cause she's

558
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 3: consistently doing this, this is I know that it's almost

559
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:02,880
Speaker 3: got to be to the point where you know your

560
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 3: damn near your man routine, you know, with his TV shows,

561
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 3: what the time you go to bed, where he be going,

562
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,719
Speaker 3: what he doing with, who he with? You always can

563
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:14,640
Speaker 3: tell a lot about a man and a woman by

564
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 3: based on their friends too. Yeah, like when you start

565
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 3: looking like, damn if he go, if he around that

566
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 3: and he with him, it's gonna make you uncomfortable, you

567
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying based on who they are around?

568
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:27,199
Speaker 2: I mean is that true though? Because I've been with

569
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 2: someone and their friends are thirsty as hell and they

570
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 2: want to be with girls. All they talk about is

571
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 2: women all day. They have different women everywhere. So if

572
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 2: that's the truth, we got to reevaluate some things.

573
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 3: Are they always around them? Are they always around them?

574
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:44,159
Speaker 3: And too when he's around them? Is his girlfriend with him?

575
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:47,400
Speaker 2: But it doesn't matter. It's basically what you said. Think

576
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 2: you're saying, examine their friends.

577
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 1: What about if he's only with his friends with his girl.

578
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 2: That's not realistic though. That's like again gonna be you

579
00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 2: want to have a guy's night and you're gonna be

580
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 2: with your homies.

581
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 3: All I'm gonna go over here, guys night, we could

582
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 3: just chill in the backyard.

583
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 2: All I'm saying is I'm.

584
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 1: Cool with that.

585
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 3: Let's get on the barbecue catt let's go like, come on,

586
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 3: don let's let's just chill, drink, do whatever we're gonna do,

587
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 3: and just be chilling. Like if your guy's night, Like,

588
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:20,160
Speaker 3: what does a guy's night consistent? Like sometimes it's dinner.

589
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 3: If your guy come from out of town, like you

590
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 3: are we going to dinner?

591
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 1: You know? You know my guy come in town once

592
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: every blue moon, were going to dinner.

593
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 3: This is what we do. And you know, and you

594
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:31,400
Speaker 3: don't even know what dinner spot we're going to because

595
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 3: we probably gonna go to the same spot every time.

596
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 3: And if you want to pull up, pull up, because

597
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 3: this is what we're gonna be straight up, like you know,

598
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 3: the consistency of your dude and your girl.

599
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 2: But you can't say that and they.

600
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 1: Don't never deviate from it, And you can't say what.

601
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 2: That if the friends are thirsty or this or that,

602
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 2: that just means that person's automatically thirsty.

603
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: No, I can't say that.

604
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 2: Well you said that right now, look at the friends.

605
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: But you gotta say like.

606
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 3: I got thirsty friends, like a mother like, they thirsty

607
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 3: and I don't like like, I ain't gonna they thirsty

608
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 3: as hell like, But man, I gotta be careful when

609
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 3: I go wherever if I'm going with them somewhere, but

610
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 3: I don't never really go nowhere with them, like y'all

611
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 3: could be thirsty, and you gotta be comfortable with your man,

612
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 3: like I know anyone there. I know my man ain't thirsty,

613
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 3: but I done been around him with him with his

614
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 3: friend that's thirsty. But I know my man ain't thirsty.

615
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 3: You know, yo, man thirsty though, Liken, he got some

616
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 3: thirsty tendencies, like oh dog, like I could be around

617
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 3: my girl, she got thirsty friends and then it might

618
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 3: not even move me. But like, how often do they

619
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 3: go out with them? How often are they if they're

620
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 3: with them a lot? Two, three times a week, once

621
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:57,959
Speaker 3: a week. That's that's tricky without you, without your person,

622
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 3: you gotta say, like, damn, but when I'm out with

623
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 3: him or her with the thirsty friend, all right, cool,

624
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 3: I know he's thirsty. Cool, I'm gonna let's go somewhere, baby. No,

625
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 3: you know this nigga thirsty, all right? You know he's

626
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 3: gonna have a new one with him every time. It's

627
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 3: all good, you know that. You know, let's go on

628
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 3: to double Day. You might go to double Day with

629
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 3: your man and he got to do with every time

630
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 3: when his thirsty friend, you know, you might look at

631
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 3: him like this, what you kick it with? Yeah, but

632
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 3: only kicking with him ninety nine percent of the time

633
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 3: I'm with you and the one percent of the other.

634
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 2: Time he at the credit and then then what if

635
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 2: it's not, then you can't trust him because it's like

636
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 2: if you have a if you have a thirsty because

637
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 2: I don't think you get the same grace. Like if

638
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 2: a woman has a whole friends.

639
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 1: All women got whole friends.

640
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 2: I don't have whole friends.

641
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: You just don't know.

642
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 2: No, I know my friends. I have a small amount

643
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 2: of friends and none of them are holes. And I

644
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 2: can stand on that. Let's back, we could bet it.

645
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 2: I don't have whole friend. We could bet it.

646
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I'm gonna know. I don't know.

647
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:11,239
Speaker 2: What like I don't have whole friends. Oh no, my

648
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 2: friends are all either in a relationship, married, like they're

649
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 2: not whole.

650
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 1: Like you know, you got some everybody got a whole friends.

651
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 2: I have whole acquaintances.

652
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 3: I know somebody has whole friends. Everybody has whole friends.

653
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 3: Now I'm account many times you kick it with the

654
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 3: whole friend? Now that's I'm gonna check that off. She

655
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 3: kicking with her night? Why she kicked her? Why she

656
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 3: ain't kick it with the all right? Let me see

657
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 3: you want to kick with the whole friend again? They're like, da,

658
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 3: how many times you're gonna kick it? Herds of a

659
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 3: feather flock together?

660
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 1: Right?

661
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 3: I got no kicking it with the whole friend. It's

662
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 3: just like, how often are you kicking it with the

663
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 3: whole friend?

664
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 1: Like? Like, then where y'all going going with the whole friend? Though?

665
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 2: And this is another thing, Okay, I know some holes.

666
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 2: Let's just keep it real so I know. But they're

667
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 2: not my friend friends. Like you know what I'm saying,

668
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 2: friend a friend, this is not my friend friends. But

669
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 2: mind you, yes, yes, yes, yes. The difference is I

670
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 2: don't talk to her on the phone. I don't text her,

671
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 2: I don't call her. I don't go out with her

672
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 2: one on one like I'm saying, like I kicked it

673
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 2: like we kicked it on some a bunch of people

674
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 2: out type thing, right, but the point about a whole

675
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 2: let me say about a whole friend. A whole friend

676
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 2: don't respect if you're in a relationship, because when they're

677
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 2: in a relationship, they hoe, and a whole friend is

678
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 2: going to no matter what, be like, come over here,

679
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 2: let's walk by these men, let's come right here, let

680
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Speaker 2: it be seen. Let then put you in a position

681
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 2: to be all with these men that be on you

682
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 2: like a period, point blank, like they're gonna be like,

683
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 2: let's walk by this table where these men are. Let's

684
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 2: go right here, da da da da day because she

685
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 2: don't want to go alone and you with her. So

686
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 2: now I'm in the position and usually when you have

687
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 2: a whole friend, then want you more than the whole

688
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 2: friend because they're like, oh she more cracking, who is she?

689
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 2: I ain't seen her out, I ain't seen her in

690
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 2: about So now you're in a position where I'm with

691
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Speaker 2: this whole and now all these men want me. She

692
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 2: trying to get the attention, but they gonna want me

693
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Speaker 2: more than her. So now I'm in a position where

694
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Speaker 2: all these men are on me, and then I could

695
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Speaker 2: look crazy, like what if someone's like oh they call

696
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Speaker 2: my man, or like oh yo, girl out here with

697
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: all these men like they're chopping, like it puts you

698
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 2: in a weird predicament. So you can't go out just

699
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 2: one on one with a whole friend. That's just the truth.

700
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 2: If you're in a relationship, period, point blank. It's just

701
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Speaker 2: like if you're with a thirsty guy and you guys

702
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 2: go out, he's gonna have a bunch of girls with him.

703
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Speaker 3: A lot of these thirsty guys got girls like that.

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Speaker 1: I'm cry, You're stupid as they really.

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Speaker 2: there is a girl right and she went viral because

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Speaker 2: she got kicked out of her friend group because her

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Speaker 2: friend said she wears Sheen. You know that brand, Sheenne?

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Speaker 2: t Move, you know Ali Baba, Like it's like cheap, cheap,

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Speaker 2: cheap from China. Right, But no, she as much as

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Speaker 2: it's like she we have little items out there, you.

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Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying.

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00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and she's so she's basically wearing like cheap clothing,

722
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 2: they're saying, and she drives at twenty nineteen Mercedes, right,

723
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 2: and her friends were her friends in the group chat

724
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 2: were like, look, honestly, we don't think you can hang

725
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 2: out with us anymore because basically you're wearing these sheep

726
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Speaker 2: ass clothes and you're driving a twenty nineteen car and

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Speaker 2: you live in an apartment when all of us have homes,

728
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Speaker 2: all of us live, we have twenty twenty four cars

729
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 2: are up, and all of us wear designer every day?

730
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Speaker 2: Do you think, yeah, do you think more people should

731
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 2: be like judging off of those type of standards when

732
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:41,560
Speaker 2: it comes to friends, Right, look.

733
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:47,240
Speaker 3: At moving what I'm driving. No, you ain't my friend

734
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 3: because I'm doing what the best I got. If we

735
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,800
Speaker 3: real cool and all of that, what do that even matter?

736
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 2: I agree with that?

737
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 1: Like what the what kind of shit is that?

738
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 2: That's trifling to me?

739
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 1: So that's so generation type of shit. I don't even

740
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: feel that I hate that, Like.

741
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 3: All my friends ain't got what I got, right, I'll

742
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:09,359
Speaker 3: still rock with them.

743
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,439
Speaker 2: And they also trying to tell like you have more

744
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 2: money than to be doing all of that, Like why

745
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 2: are you doing that when it's not like you have

746
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 2: any less money than us.

747
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 3: I show you about girls friendships, it's based on I

748
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 3: see a lot of girls have so many different friends,

749
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 3: and it's.

750
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 2: Based on like looks and status and that type of stuff. Yeah, girl,

751
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 2: that's like.

752
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:31,319
Speaker 3: But then at the end of the day, it's like

753
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:35,399
Speaker 3: that's artificial. Yeah, for sure, together based on what y'all

754
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 3: can get out of each other, because if you hang

755
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 3: on with baddies, you're going to attract.

756
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,800
Speaker 1: More men to y'all exactly.

757
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 3: Different places, flying different places, doing all this, But like

758
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 3: that ain't real friendship.

759
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 2: I think more people should care about, like what kind

760
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 2: of heart you have and like how genuine you are.

761
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,359
Speaker 2: Like I'm not gonna say my friends aren't baddies or whatever,

762
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 2: because I'll never do them like that, but like I

763
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 2: don't care about people and how they look and what

764
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 2: they're wearing and with they're cracking. Like my friends are

765
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:06,239
Speaker 2: seriously genuine people and they're very like they're just like

766
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,360
Speaker 2: super loving and down for me, and they're gonna ride

767
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 2: for me. And that's what I care about. I don't

768
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 2: care about how much more money you got to me,

769
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 2: how many more like popping celebrity friends, how much more

770
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:22,400
Speaker 2: cracking you are, Like, I don't care about any of that, honestly.

771
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:29,439
Speaker 1: Yeah. The women in today's society who are really out to.

772
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 2: Get more status, yeah, person.

773
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, or like when you're in an influencer type of situation,

774
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 3: it's like, we want more influence, so you don't carry

775
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 3: the status of us being influencers because everybody's a fucking influencer.

776
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: I'm tired of that. Yeah.

777
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 3: One day when I was like, hey, what's up. What's

778
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 3: She's like, Hey, what do you do? I was like,

779
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 3: you know whatever, I was like, what about you? I'm

780
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:57,320
Speaker 3: an influencer, Like what the fuck is that at the

781
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 3: end of the day, Like, seriously, what are you influencing?

782
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 3: Influence and everything? Don't give me that.

783
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, and half of these people don't even

784
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 2: be influencing anything. Like that's the thing, Like, I was

785
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 2: an influencer before I ever even was on social media

786
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 2: because I uplift people, motivate people, encourage people to do

787
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 2: certain things. I talk to women, give them advice. I'm

788
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:19,399
Speaker 2: always doing that. I've always influenced people and I've never

789
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 2: said I'm an influencer. And I think that we just

790
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 2: live in a generation now. Even some people I know

791
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 2: y'all want to kick it with the more cracking girls

792
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 2: that are out and now that like even me, like

793
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 2: I'm more cracking on Instagram or whatever, like if people

794
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 2: want to kick it, like let's go here, let's go

795
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 2: to dinner, and I'm like, girl, I don't know you,

796
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:37,399
Speaker 2: like I'm not. I have friends. I don't need new

797
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 2: friends just to look cracking, just to be out and

798
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 2: pool the man or whatever take an Instagram photo like

799
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 2: I'm cool on that. That's my problem because it's like

800
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 2: I am a content creator. Maybe I should be doing

801
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 2: more of that, but I just don't because I just

802
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 2: don't care to do that. I just no one can

803
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 2: convince me, like go kick it with people that are

804
00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 2: influencing and do like content. But it's I just can't

805
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 2: find it in my heart to go do that, Like

806
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 2: I don't want to be around people I don't know

807
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 2: and I don't care to know. Like I've never been

808
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 2: one so pressed to make friends, like I don't want.

809
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 2: I don't care. If you're a vibe and you're genuine,

810
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 2: you're cool, I'll rock with you. But I'm an energy person.

811
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,240
Speaker 2: I can read your energy before you even speak, baby,

812
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,439
Speaker 2: So you you don't even got to say too much

813
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 2: to me.

814
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody you know I hate you. Go on to

815
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 1: girl page.

816
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 3: She's showing all her assets, shaking this, showing that, And

817
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 3: I'm influencing because everybody.

818
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 2: Likes exactly, I'm an influencer because I'm shaking the ass.

819
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:40,919
Speaker 2: I'm influencing.

820
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 3: What influence is what you like because.

821
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:51,360
Speaker 2: Of what you and the half of the you have.

822
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:54,320
Speaker 3: Terrible society a bad place. We are in the worst

823
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 3: place of society of all time. I truly believe that.

824
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 2: Well, I mean we were in the worst place, honey,

825
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 2: when our ancestors were a slave, didn't getting whipped in

826
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:09,799
Speaker 2: the chains and they couldn't even walk outside people just.

827
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 3: As a whole humanity, this is like the worst time ever. Like,

828
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 3: like our influences, what we look at, what people do

829
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 3: on the day to day. The friendships are more fake.

830
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 3: It's access to everybody.

831
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, like what you're saying, Yeah, it's.

832
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 1: Just not real to me. This is not real. Life.

833
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Speaker 2: And that's why I say, if you have a real

834
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Speaker 2: one in your life, don't take real ones for granted.

835
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Speaker 2: I have a viral little post like that because God

836
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 2: is barely making those anymore. If you know someone that's real,

837
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Speaker 2: genuine cool, like the people that I know that are

838
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Speaker 2: real ones, I'm not playing around with them. You're not

839
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 2: taking that for granted, because you're not getting that any

840
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Speaker 2: a lot out here, I promise you not. You know

841
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Speaker 2: what I mean, Like, don't take that them people for

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Speaker 2: Ray is on there and she told Justin like, I

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Speaker 2: for sure think liking another woman's pick is cheating period

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Speaker 2: point Blake Dming a woman is cheating and he's like,

854
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Speaker 2: so you're gonna say, liking a pick is in the

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Speaker 2: same category as me sleeping with a girl. And she's like, yeah, period,

856
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,240
Speaker 2: point blank is in the same category. She said, liking

857
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 2: a He's like, what if I was scrolling and I

858
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Speaker 2: liked it by accident, Now I cheated on you. And

859
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Speaker 2: she's like, yeah, don't be liking nothing on accident. You're

860
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Speaker 2: gonna piss me off. So they were going back and

861
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Speaker 2: forth about it, and he was like, I'm not gonna

862
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Speaker 2: mess up. I'm not doing none of that shit, and

863
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Speaker 2: you ain't got to worry about me. So she wasn't

864
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Speaker 2: saying he does it, but she was saying, in her mind,

865
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 2: that's cheating one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: It depends on who you like.

867
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 2: She said, any girl, if you liking girls pictures cheating, Well,

868
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 2: what if.

869
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,760
Speaker 3: I'm in the industry and I need some video girls,

870
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 3: or I like that outfit and I just like you what?

871
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just trying to figure out what

872
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:12,839
Speaker 1: the name.

873
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 2: That sounds stupid as hell. You liked an outfit as

874
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 2: a grown man, You liking an outfit on another woman,

875
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 2: That sounds stupid as hell. I don't think that liking

876
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 2: a picture is cheating. But I think that liking a

877
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:26,439
Speaker 2: picture like it depends.

878
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 1: On what the girl look like. If she looks cracket,

879
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: is she looking like damn, like you can't do that.

880
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 3: No, you can't do that. But if she just like

881
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 3: damn her work? What if she like giving a seminar

882
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 3: and it's like like she is on it, but like

883
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:45,840
Speaker 3: she's educating.

884
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: Me on something.

885
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, and no other woman should be educating by man, period.

886
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 2: What are you educating? No other man should be educating me.

887
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 2: I don't like that.

888
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 3: But like she's on her Instagram talking about dieting and

889
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 3: cooking like she's like, you know, like the one girl

890
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 3: who was clapping it and cooking like he's like, dad,

891
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:05,399
Speaker 3: that food look good.

892
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 1: I can't like I liked her, you know, I'm talking

893
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:13,360
Speaker 1: about the girl.

894
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 2: Who was cooking with yeah, girls like eighteen.

895
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:21,600
Speaker 1: No, No, I don't know the point. I'm just saying.

896
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 3: It was, you know, people cooking and they you know,

897
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 3: and I liked it. I like the food, But she

898
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 3: just happened to be cool over there. So is that something?

899
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say this if a man was like this

900
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 2: wiggling his dick and then he started cooking on Instagram. Yeah,

901
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 2: they do. You know that there's men because I've seen it. Yeah,

902
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 2: I've seen it.

903
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 1: Algorithm.

904
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 2: No, there's a man. No, because there's man. There's man. Listen,

905
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 2: there's man. What is your algorithm? Because you see woman?

906
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

907
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 2: So anyways, there's men who do like algorithm listen, there's

908
00:43:56,719 --> 00:44:00,840
Speaker 2: men who do sexual cooking where they like massaged to

909
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 2: me and then they like stuff it like this and

910
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:06,319
Speaker 2: they be doing all this stuff. So that's cool too

911
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 2: because I'm just looking up the cooking tutorial, right, so

912
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 2: that's cool. Yeah. And then it's like he's in a

913
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 2: great sweat and he got a dig print out and

914
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 2: he's like moving around with it, shirt off, dripping, licking

915
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:23,359
Speaker 2: something off because it's spilled. Like all of that. I'm

916
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 2: just saying, I'm just I'm just saying, because that's what

917
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 2: these men be doing on here. I'm not saying I'm

918
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,280
Speaker 2: liking that. I'm saying, is that okay for a woman

919
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 2: to be liking that in a relationship?

920
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? Go ahead.

921
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 2: So because last time, just the last episode we did

922
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 2: and you said it was not okay.

923
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 3: But I'm saying, are you following it now? Are you

924
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:48,879
Speaker 3: liking you? Can't like him follow. Let's just do that.

925
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:50,399
Speaker 3: It's one o the other.

926
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 2: That's that's that's you.

927
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 1: Can't like and follow. That's cheating.

928
00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 3: Like and follow is cheating, and and not follow or

929
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 3: follow and not like.

930
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 1: For real, like and follow.

931
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 2: Us too much like your follow.

932
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:11,360
Speaker 1: And follow you both.

933
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 2: I don't want. I don't want. My biggest fear and

934
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 2: I hate this when I go to a woman's page

935
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 2: and then I see my person following them and it's

936
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 2: like ill, like it turns me off of everything. I

937
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 2: have to leave the page. Then I'm scrawling little bubble.

938
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 2: See the person is liking the picks. Then you're just like,

939
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:31,879
Speaker 2: h thirsty, like I cannot stand it. Then you gotta

940
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:36,799
Speaker 2: get off of the page like this thirsty. But you

941
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 2: could see it because now you see the bubble. If

942
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:41,399
Speaker 2: someone likes something right up, anyone you follow, if they

943
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 2: liking a picture, you see a picture of they face

944
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 2: and I'm done, like, I'm pissed, I'm irritating. It happens, it's.

945
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 1: Happened, it happened, and he following it.

946
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 2: It's thirsty to me, And y'all, yeah, because why are

947
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 2: you following this person? First of all, you're thirsty and

948
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 2: then you know what like? And you know what else

949
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 2: I don't like is when you're following, like you used

950
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 2: to talk to this person and you're still following this

951
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,799
Speaker 2: person and they're commenting stuff, and then you're just like

952
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 2: cool with that. No, this person has to go Unlike, No,

953
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 2: it's that's happening, honey, and you gotta you gotta follow

954
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 2: that person and have this person removed. You're like, that's

955
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:27,319
Speaker 2: that happens. And I've seen that in my situations. I've

956
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 2: seen that. Yeah, and that's blowing me because I'm like, what, like,

957
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 2: I don't follow none of my exes. But you know

958
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 2: what else I noticed recently? My ex came on my

959
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 2: Explore page.

960
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,720
Speaker 1: Right, how do you know these things?

961
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 2: Because I'm on my Explorer So my ex, not my

962
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 2: my not some my right following me?

963
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:48,760
Speaker 1: Who was on my page?

964
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 2: What do you mean you're just crawling and they come

965
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 2: up like it just came up on my explorergorithm. No,

966
00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 2: I don't know how because it was someone it was no,

967
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 2: because it was two people tag like a collaborated post

968
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 2: with like Nike or something. Right, So I look at

969
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:07,879
Speaker 2: the page and I was like, oh and who and

970
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,319
Speaker 2: the people who I love, and I know, I saw

971
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 2: y'all still following that person, and y'all are traveling for that.

972
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 2: Some of my families and people that I know, y'all

973
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 2: better unfollow that verson right now. And I was like, wow,

974
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,720
Speaker 2: y'all are still following him. That's weird.

975
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 1: Him and got people follow him.

976
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 2: They're following years later, that's tricky. And I went to

977
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 2: that and I saw that recently. I said, why y'all

978
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,359
Speaker 2: still following him? And I know a lot of it

979
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 2: is because like y'all may not even realize you follow him,

980
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 2: but some of it, whoever it is, if you're following

981
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 2: him and you my friend, that's weird to me. And

982
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,800
Speaker 2: I don't get down like that. You should be unfollowing everything.

983
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 2: Do you think that your people should unfollow your exes

984
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 2: when you guys break up on Instagram?

985
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,439
Speaker 3: Do I think like my girl, like okay, my girl

986
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 3: should unfollow the act?

987
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: I ain't really worried about. I ain't even looking into it.

988
00:47:57,600 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 2: Knowing that if you just happen to see, you know,

989
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:00,359
Speaker 2: is it foul?

990
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: How do I see it?

991
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 2: Just you happen to know that she follows her X somehow.

992
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:05,640
Speaker 1: So I have to go on her page and look,

993
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:06,800
Speaker 1: no you're not looking.

994
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 2: Just someone told you, like, you know, this is her ex,

995
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 2: she still follows him. Is it blowing you?

996
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 1: You know what?

997
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:15,320
Speaker 2: I'm not from that era.

998
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 3: That era to where like you know, people get mad

999
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 3: from unfollowing and liking things. I'm not from that air

1000
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 3: like people will say, you are following that's like slapping

1001
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 3: the fat, and I'm not. Don't don't put me in

1002
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 3: that category.

1003
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:29,400
Speaker 2: Well, this is why I'm going to say that I

1004
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 2: don't like it. If I'm following my ex, I'm keeping

1005
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 2: up with them. Why am I keeping up with My

1006
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 2: thing is?

1007
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: I will tell you this, I don't fuck with that.

1008
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 1: I will tell you this.

1009
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,479
Speaker 3: I have people that I follow right that I will

1010
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:44,240
Speaker 3: scroll and I never see them. You know why because

1011
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:46,839
Speaker 3: I don't like them and they're not in my algorithm,

1012
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 3: so it don't matter. I don't never see them if

1013
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 3: I'm following them. If there's only a select things that

1014
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 3: I see of people that I follow.

1015
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 2: But it will sometimes randomly come up.

1016
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 1: Never comes up. That's why never comes up.

1017
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 3: I swear to you, minds never comes up because I

1018
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 3: never liked it, I never commented on it, so they

1019
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 3: not in my algorithm. So I don't even know what

1020
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 3: that's all about, So it's gonna stay over there.

1021
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 2: But I think it's just like me out of respect

1022
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,760
Speaker 2: for anyone that I've been with, I always follow my exes,

1023
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 2: but not even just for that for me, like, I

1024
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 2: don't want to follow you. I don't want to see

1025
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 2: what you have going on. I don't care consuming it's

1026
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 2: one person. How many excesses does it one have? Like,

1027
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 2: it's one person, it's not that consuming. I know who

1028
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 2: my exes where I'm following you, all right, So it's

1029
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 2: not that do you.

1030
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:38,280
Speaker 1: Want to follow all the guys you've ever dated?

1031
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about a relation.

1032
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:42,320
Speaker 3: Just say to all the guys, do you still follow

1033
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 3: guys that you used to date?

1034
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 2: Yeah? I probably have guys that I used to date,

1035
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 2: like here and there.

1036
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 1: But what wasn't different.

1037
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 2: The difference is a full blown relationship. We lived together,

1038
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 2: we were together. It was a committed thing. There's people

1039
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 2: you date that you don't even look at like that,

1040
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 2: You're like, whatever, I dated this person once five years ago.

1041
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:00,720
Speaker 2: I don't even talk to this I don't care. It's different,

1042
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 2: But like being in a relationship with someone, intertwining families,

1043
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 2: intertwining friends being bowed up. This is someone that I

1044
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 2: lived with. This is someone I don't consider all the

1045
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 2: people they like, Okay, cool, this is someone I dated.

1046
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 2: It's not that deep. But like having a deep relationship

1047
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 2: with someone who actually meant something to you on a

1048
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 2: deep level and was your partner for real, that's different.

1049
00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 2: I've only had three serious boyfriends. Yeah, so that's what

1050
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like that, it's not that hard to unfollow

1051
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 2: that person, Like you shouldn't be keeping up.

1052
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:33,800
Speaker 3: I don't have nobody like that that that I follow,

1053
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 3: Like because the two people that I had the relationships with, uh,

1054
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 3: you know, I was with them.

1055
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:44,959
Speaker 2: Like right, that's what I'm saying, so a certain way.

1056
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:47,839
Speaker 3: You know, I live with them, I had children with them, right,

1057
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 3: Like that's it. Everybody else who I dated or whatever,

1058
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 3: they're not even in my algorithm, you know.

1059
00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,399
Speaker 2: Yeah. He was just saying. All I'm saying, I'm talking

1060
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:02,359
Speaker 2: about real people that I've been with. It's like, I'm

1061
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:06,399
Speaker 2: not I'm not following that person. And that's just like

1062
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 2: any like my friends, I don't know why they still

1063
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:09,360
Speaker 2: follow that person.

1064
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:11,320
Speaker 1: That's weird.

1065
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 2: Follow No. I just saw my ex come up and

1066
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 2: I went to the page, and I saw all my

1067
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 2: people who still follow him, and I'm like, y'all are

1068
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 2: weird for that? Like for real, got a move your

1069
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 2: mic up? Okay? So anyways, okay, we're gonna do this

1070
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 2: one last thing and we're done. So this woman says, so,

1071
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:31,560
Speaker 2: you know, how do you remember back in the day.

1072
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 2: I don't know if you remember this, but you know

1073
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 2: how women used to say, like they used to like

1074
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 2: check their man's situation when they came home, like smelt it,

1075
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 2: see if their balls were shrunk, because that means they

1076
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 2: had sex with someone. So a woman says that she

1077
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 2: would see if her man comes a lot, he that

1078
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:55,800
Speaker 2: means he hasn't cheated. But if it was only a

1079
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 2: little bit, She's like, you're cheating on me.

1080
00:51:58,040 --> 00:51:58,800
Speaker 1: That's not true.

1081
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 2: Did I submit? Or that's not true?

1082
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 1: It sub myth because what if he played with himself?

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Speaker 2: Playing with yourself sounds crazy?

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Speaker 1: But yes, how does that sound crazy?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying that, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: And do that, So say like you're gone for the day.

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00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:19,359
Speaker 3: He whipped one, let it go and get his day

1088
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 3: going because he feel good. He had to let one go,

1089
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 3: like damn. Then he come home and and then you

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00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,839
Speaker 3: see that it ain't at the normal capacity of what

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00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 3: it usually is. It could be that, like, don't come on,

1092
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 3: y'all be just making up, y'all, just inspector gadget on

1093
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:37,319
Speaker 3: every little thing. It ain't the same amount as it

1094
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Speaker 3: was now because he probably let you know, released one.

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Speaker 2: Do you feel like if your girl, like, y'all haven't

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Speaker 2: had sex, and then you came home and she was

1097
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 2: doing her things for herself, would you feel away like, damn,

1098
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Speaker 2: like we ain't even had sex and that's what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: I go ahead and get yourself off. I'm tired.

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Speaker 2: A good look, Jay, look okay, So let's do one

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Speaker 2: fan question before we wrap up. My boyfriend proposed after

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Speaker 2: I caught him cheating. He says he realized he almost

1103
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 2: lost me. Do you think that that he's just panicking

1104
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 2: or is he really growing and wants to.

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Speaker 1: Be with him?

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Speaker 3: He before like, let you get her back. No, any

1107
00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 3: chance you get a chance, some man, you better take it. Though,

1108
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 3: he was like, this is the only way. There's no

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00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:35,480
Speaker 3: way out of this.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying.

1111
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 3: He was in some deep ship. He was like, I

1112
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:44,320
Speaker 3: gotta propose. Now he blew hisself. I gotta just propose.

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Speaker 3: That's the only thing left. I can't ain't no words,

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00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 3: and then I can do This is the only thing

1115
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 3: I could do is just bury her.

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Speaker 1: He paned.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be like, no.

1118
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Speaker 1: That's gonna buy you some time before the wedding.

1119
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Speaker 2: To cheat some more.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna bottle time. And just like damn, is this

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00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 3: something I want to do? But he paniced to keep

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Speaker 3: the relationship.

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Speaker 2: But you can't. Then you're gonna traumatize her more by

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Speaker 2: proposing and taking it away.

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Speaker 1: That was the question, that was the answer.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you guys so much for joining another episode

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Speaker 2: Do you think that men or women are more toxic