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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if

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Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now. You

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Speaker 2: Buckle up and hold on time. We got it for

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Speaker 2: you here. It is the straw very letter.

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Speaker 1: That sexy Tommy, or to hear it is.

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Speaker 3: It's not a little scary, right yeah, all right. Subject.

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Speaker 3: He tells his sister everything.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband and I have been together

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Speaker 1: for six years and married for two. His sister and

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Speaker 1: I work together in high school, and after we graduated,

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Speaker 1: we lived together until I started dating her brother. It

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Speaker 1: was awkward because she was all up in our business

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Speaker 1: and even walked in on us having sex. Once I

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Speaker 1: was ready to move out, and he suggested we get

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Speaker 1: an apartment together. His sister was at our apartment every

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Speaker 1: night for the first week, claiming she was afraid to

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Speaker 1: stay alone. I put an end to that quickly, and

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Speaker 1: she ended up resenting me, so now that I'm married

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Speaker 1: to her brother, she comes at me rude and wrong

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Speaker 1: a lot. He asked me to take to look over her,

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Speaker 1: and he says she's jealous because I have a man

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Speaker 1: and she doesn't. On the other hand, he keeps bringing

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Speaker 1: her into our relationship by telling her all of our business.

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Speaker 1: She made a stride remark about me being anemex, saying

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Speaker 1: she hopes I don't pass out during sex because I

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Speaker 1: won't take iron pills. I let that slide, but I

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Speaker 1: yelled at my husband later. She told my mother in

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Speaker 1: law not to expect any grand baby soon because I

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Speaker 1: still want my husband to wrap it up during sex.

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Speaker 1: It's been one thing after another, but the final straw

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Speaker 1: was when I overheard my husband telling her that he

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Speaker 1: wishes I was a bit more submissive and not a

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Speaker 1: headstrong black business woman in pursuit of a career.

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Speaker 3: He's told me that too.

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Speaker 1: But he knows I'm not slowing down anytime soon, and

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Speaker 1: I'm about to open another salon suite for nails. It

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Speaker 1: seems like the two of them team up to hate

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Speaker 1: on me together, and at this point he gossips to

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Speaker 1: her like a woman. Why does he feel the need

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Speaker 1: to share so much with his sister when he knows

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Speaker 1: she's hateful. Is he a hater too?

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Speaker 3: You know? The way I see it is this, you

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Speaker 3: have two huge problems.

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Speaker 1: You have your husband and yes you have your hating

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Speaker 1: sister sister in law, his hating sister, and there is

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Speaker 1: a reasonable amount of jealousy on her part.

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Speaker 3: But one thing for sure, you.

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Speaker 1: Don't have to guess about what your husband told his sister.

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Speaker 1: He told her that he wishes you were more submissive

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Speaker 1: and you were not a head strong black businesswoman in

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Speaker 1: pursuit of a career.

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Speaker 3: Now whatever that means.

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Speaker 1: You heard him say it with your own ears, and

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Speaker 1: you said he told you the same thing, but you're

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Speaker 1: not slowing down. Why would he tell his sister in

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Speaker 1: law that? It's a question, you know, why does he

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Speaker 1: tell her anything? Clearly, you know there's a problem here.

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Speaker 1: It's both communication and resentment. And why aren't you guys,

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Speaker 1: meaning you and your husband talking about this. He resents

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Speaker 1: the fact it sounds like that you work too much,

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Speaker 1: you're a boss, and you know you resent him for

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Speaker 1: telling his sister everything. His sister does not respect your

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Speaker 1: marriage boundaries. But then again, your husband just invites her in,

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Speaker 1: so she feels like she has free reign and can

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Speaker 1: say whatever she wants. He's wrong for that, But I

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Speaker 1: still think the problem between you two is communication. You're

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Speaker 1: both frustrated with each other, him because you work and

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Speaker 1: you're headstrong, he says. And you know, you guys are

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Speaker 1: going to have to try and work this out. You're

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Speaker 1: frustrated and resent him because he tells his sister everything.

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Speaker 1: I just think of you. You guys could really hear

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Speaker 1: each other. You could probably reach some sort of compromise.

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Speaker 1: Your problems aren't that bad, though. I'm going to tell

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Speaker 1: you that. Honestly, your problems aren't that bad. I mean,

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Speaker 3: But if you guys could just sit.

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Speaker 1: Down and have a conversation, I think a lot of

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Speaker 1: this stuff could be cleared up and keep his sister.

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Speaker 1: Tell him please to keep his sister out of the marriage.

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Speaker 4: Steve, Well, he tells his sister everything. I know exactly

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Speaker 4: why he does this. I'll save it for the end

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Speaker 4: in case there's a woman out there that's struggling with

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Speaker 4: this with her.

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Speaker 2: Man, which it is a lot of this happened.

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Speaker 4: My husband and I've been together six years, married for

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Speaker 4: two His sister and I work together in high school,

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Speaker 4: and after we graduated, we lived together. So now this

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Speaker 4: is a twenty year old company or twenty four year

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Speaker 4: old company. Yeah, if you graduated at eighteen and he

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Speaker 4: been together six years, were looking at about twenty four,

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Speaker 4: twenty four, twenty five. His sister and I worked together

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Speaker 4: in high school, and after we graduated, we lived together

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Speaker 4: until I started dating her brother. So it was after

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Speaker 4: they graduated they lived together. Let's say another year. Didn't

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Speaker 4: start dating a brother, and it got a little awkward

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Speaker 4: because she was all up in their business and even

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Speaker 4: walked in on us having sex. One all right, I

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Speaker 4: was ready to move out, and he suggested that we

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Speaker 4: get an apartment together. So now this was his idea,

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Speaker 4: his idea, This is a critical piece of this letter.

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Speaker 2: This was his idea to move out and get apartment together.

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Speaker 4: But his sister came over to the y'all's apartment every

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Speaker 4: night for the first week, claiming that she was afraid

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Speaker 4: to stay alone because you and the sister.

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Speaker 2: You and the sister were roommates for a while.

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Speaker 4: I put it in to that quickly and she sended

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Speaker 4: up ended up resenting me. You moved out because she

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Speaker 4: was all up in your business. She didn't want you

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Speaker 4: to move out, but it was her husband's idea.

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Speaker 2: After you said you wanted to move out.

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Speaker 4: It was your husband's idea, her brother's idea to say, hey,

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Speaker 4: let's get an apartment together. Now the resentment started, and

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Speaker 4: now you're married to a brother. She comes that you

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Speaker 4: rude and wrong a lot. And the reason she comes

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Speaker 4: at you rut and wrong a lot is because she's lonely,

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Speaker 4: bitter and needs a relationship of her own.

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Speaker 2: I don't mind. It is the devil's playground.

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Speaker 4: If you ain't got no relationship your own, you got

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Speaker 4: time to get another people's business.

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Speaker 2: That's all. It'd be back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 5: All right.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steven's response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's subject. He tells

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Speaker 1: his sister everything. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is he tells his sister everything.

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Speaker 4: Well, he does all the time. You and the girl

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Speaker 4: with friends in high school. Y'all work together, y'all such

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Speaker 4: good friends. Y'all got an apartment together until you started

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Speaker 4: dating her brother.

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Speaker 2: Y'all been together six years now.

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Speaker 4: And cause you started dating her brother got a little

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Speaker 4: awk which she stayed in your business and walked in

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Speaker 4: on y'all have a sex one time.

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Speaker 2: Well, you said, enough of this, I'm moving out. I

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Speaker 2: can't take this no more.

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Speaker 4: The brother, which is your HU now decides, hey, let's

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Speaker 4: get out some an apartment together. You said, okay, But

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Speaker 4: every day the first week she was over there every

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Speaker 4: night because she said she couldn't sleep along. Now remember now,

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Speaker 4: this was the your husband, her brother's idea to get

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Speaker 4: the apartment. And the reason she's in y'all's busin is

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Speaker 4: that she comes that you rude now because she resents

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Speaker 4: you because you put a stop to her coming over.

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Speaker 4: She comes at you, rut it wrong a lot because

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Speaker 4: she's lonely, bitten, in need a.

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Speaker 2: Relationship of her own.

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Speaker 4: He asked me to look over her and says she's

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Speaker 4: jealous because you got a man and she don't. All right,

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Speaker 4: I just said that, but and that don't help your

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Speaker 4: situation out though. On the other hand, he keeps bringing

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Speaker 4: her to our relationship by telling her all y'all bess.

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Speaker 4: She made a snide remark about me being a knemix,

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Speaker 4: saying she hope I don't pass out doing sick because

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Speaker 4: I won't take iron pill. I don't take iron pills myself,

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Speaker 4: Damn Neil.

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Speaker 2: But not quite.

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Speaker 3: Iron.

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Speaker 4: I don't know of going to sleep immediately and passing

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Speaker 4: out is the same thing.

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Speaker 2: But I've had that experienced before.

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Speaker 4: Uh, I let that slide, But then you yell at

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Speaker 4: your husband later. She told your mother in law not

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Speaker 4: to expect any grand baby soon because I still want

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Speaker 4: my husband to wrap it up during sex. Now, your

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Speaker 4: husband just running his mouth anemic. You need iron pills.

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Speaker 4: You know you're making him wear a condom. He just

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Speaker 4: running his damn mounth. I'm gonna tell you why that

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Speaker 4: is in a minute, in a second. It's been one

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Speaker 4: thing after another. But the final straw when you overheard

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Speaker 4: your husband telling his sister that he wishes I was

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Speaker 4: a bit more submissive and not a headstrong black businesswoman

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Speaker 4: in pursuit of her career.

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Speaker 2: That's interesting.

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Speaker 3: What is she supposed to be?

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Speaker 4: Well, he told me that too, but he know I'm

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Speaker 4: not slowing down anytime soon. I'm about to open up

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Speaker 4: another salon sweet for nail. Now, she says, it seems

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Speaker 4: like the two of them team up to hate me together.

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Speaker 4: And at this point he gossips to her like a woman.

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Speaker 4: Why does he feel the need to share so much

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Speaker 4: with his sister when he knows she's hateful? Is he

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Speaker 4: a hater too? Well, let me answer all those questions.

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Speaker 4: Fuse number one. Obviously, this goes back to their past.

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Speaker 4: They were very close growing up. Now here's what your

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Speaker 4: husband is. Your man is a sister boy. That's the

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Speaker 4: same thing as a mama's boy, except he tucked up

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Speaker 4: under his sister. Sometimes you can be closer to your

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Speaker 4: sister than your mother if you all grow up close

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Speaker 4: in a relationship, even as a child. And now a

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Speaker 4: lot of sister boys out there, which is almost as

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Speaker 4: bad as a mama's boy, except sister boy is an

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Speaker 4: unknown term, so you don't know what to call. Why

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Speaker 4: I just gave it to you. Get married to a

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Speaker 4: sister boy. He was so close to his sister growing

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Speaker 4: up that closest has remained, and their friends and friends tell.

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Speaker 2: Each other everything.

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Speaker 4: That's why I was never friends with my sister, because

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Speaker 4: what I was doing in no way I can repeat

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Speaker 4: to my sister. You, on the other hand, have the

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Speaker 4: direct opposite. So now let me introduce you to a

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Speaker 4: new term. Your man is a sister boy. He's closer

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Speaker 4: to his sister than his mother, and sometimes he latches

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Speaker 4: on to not the apron strings, but the friendship. All right,

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Speaker 4: and now let me share something else with you. You ask,

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Speaker 4: why does he feel the need to share so much

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Speaker 4: with his sister when he knows she's hateful.

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Speaker 2: The answer to that question is your man, listen to

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Speaker 2: this one.

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Speaker 4: Carefully has at least one unman manly characteristic because running

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Speaker 4: not respected or known as a manly characteristic. So your

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Speaker 4: man has one unmanly characteristic, and it's a dangerous characteristic

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Speaker 4: to have, because.

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Speaker 2: Now he run in his mouth. He gossiped.

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Speaker 4: See, you can't gossip about your woman to your boys,

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Speaker 4: because we know not to do that. I ain't sitting

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Speaker 4: talking about this, and she wear this, and she say this,

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Speaker 4: and then I don't do that, and I sure can't

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Speaker 4: do that to no other woman.

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Speaker 2: So now you got a dangerous situation.

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Speaker 4: Lastly, but not ladies, Not last but not least, you

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Speaker 4: ask him when he knows she's hateless. He a hater too.

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Speaker 4: They are both haters. And you saw the signs of

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Speaker 4: this before you married him, but you married him anyway.

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Speaker 4: You knew they was too close before you got mad.

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Speaker 4: You saw the signs. You knew who he was before

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Speaker 4: the whole time. So now you got a sister's boy. Congratulations,

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Speaker 4: good luck. But you can put a stop to this

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Speaker 4: by saying, if you tell one more damn thing, I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna slap all the flavor out your mouth.

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Speaker 3: Sister boy, all right, like sister boy all Right.

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Speaker 4: Hey, good morning, this is your man, Steve Harvey. Tis

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Speaker 4: the season for love, peace, happiness and soul. Happy Holidays

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I wrote that myself