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Speaker 1: Are you a cheater? No, it's a Jebal show. You

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Speaker 1: might be as a matter of fact. I know it's early,

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Speaker 1: but you may have already cheated on your significant other

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Speaker 1: numerous times. What or they might be cheating on you

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Speaker 1: right this very second. I say that because a new

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Speaker 1: poll is going viral where they ask thousands of Americans

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Speaker 1: and relationships what they consider cheating, and some of the

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Speaker 1: answers might surprise you. You'll find out what they are

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Speaker 1: next and see if you're a big old cheater or not. Oo. Next,

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Speaker 1: it's the show my boyfriend had a dream about Selena

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Speaker 1: Gomez and I'm thinking about breaking up with him for cheating?

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Speaker 1: Am I wrong? What's a text message? We just got in?

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Speaker 1: Have four one six one? Because there's a new poll

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Speaker 1: going viral where they asked thousands of Americans in relationships

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Speaker 1: what they consider cheating, and some of the answers might

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Speaker 1: surprise you. You might find out if you're a cheater

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Speaker 1: or if you're being cheated on. Right now, No, we'll

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Speaker 1: go over here with that them right, we'll go over

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Speaker 1: them right now, waiting everybody riled up in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Thirty percent of adults and relationships think that reading spicy

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Speaker 1: erotica books is cheating forty three percent? Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: I mean it's kind of like putting a relationship together

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Speaker 2: in your head, but you're not doing anything.

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Speaker 3: So that's like the most tame and safest way to

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Speaker 3: have some other type of fantasies, because there's other things

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Speaker 3: that you could be doing that are a little bit

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Speaker 3: more graphic that might make your head uncomfortable for.

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Speaker 1: Just reading an erotica book.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I'm sorry to put Gabby on the spot,

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Speaker 3: but our social media producer Gabby is a smart reader.

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Speaker 3: And how does your husband feel about you reading smut?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: He's fine with it.

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Speaker 4: I even make mentions to my book boyfriend sometimes, and

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Speaker 4: you're what my book boyfriends is.

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Speaker 1: That like the star of the book.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like if he's acting up, I'll be like Cassie

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Speaker 4: and Lord of Bloodshed would never anything that's funny.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, apparently, according to forty three percent of adults

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Speaker 1: and relationships, you're cheating every single time you read your

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Speaker 1: smutty erotica books.

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Speaker 3: Conversation you got to have with your partner because I

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Speaker 3: don't understand why someone secure about it.

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Speaker 1: We're going over a survey that they just did. That's

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Speaker 1: going viral where they ask thousands of people in relationships

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Speaker 1: with what they consider cheating dancing with someone else. Thirty

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Speaker 1: four percent consider that cheating. Okay, I could see that

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Speaker 1: being Did you say forty three percent? Again? No, thirty

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Speaker 1: four percent. That's less than the blood. Yes, that's less

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Speaker 1: than the book. That's actual physical contact. People like are grinding.

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Speaker 3: It's that whole thing too, especially like we're dudes. For dudes,

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Speaker 3: it's never innocent dancing because you know, when they walk

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Speaker 3: up to some girl, their hips all of a sudden, right.

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Speaker 1: They move forward.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So, however they're dancing with you, touching or not,

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Speaker 3: their hips are forward and that's telling you something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess it depends on the kind of dancing too.

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Speaker 1: If you're in a group of friends and you're all

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Speaker 1: kind of dancing together, I guess. But if you're grinding

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Speaker 1: on someone else side, I wouldn't be cool with that

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Speaker 1: at all. I don't know if i'd consider it cheating,

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Speaker 1: but I would definitely consider it not cool.

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Speaker 2: What if you.

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Speaker 3: Weren't there, and your person was out with their friends

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Speaker 3: and everybody's got drinks flown, they're having a great time

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Speaker 3: and you find out or see pictures later that your

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Speaker 3: person is like dancing with somebody else and I'm like,

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Speaker 3: bab I'm just dancing here.

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Speaker 1: Was that with my friends? Yeah? That would upset me, right,

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Speaker 1: that definitely would have said.

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Speaker 2: But what if you were there and like you saw

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Speaker 2: it happen, like that would still upset you? Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be like, you could just dance with me? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that would wouldn't it be upset? I'd just be hurt.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm right here. I mean, I know I'm not

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Speaker 1: the best dancer in the world, but it's no reason

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Speaker 1: be cool with that either. Yeah, I see that. I

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Speaker 1: could see that. There's a pole that's going viral where

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Speaker 1: they asked thousands of Americans in relationships what they consider

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Speaker 1: cheating texts from an ex. Sixty two percent of people

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Speaker 3: Oh, it really depends on what's in the text, right,

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Speaker 3: I mean I'm not good with this, but like, if

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Speaker 3: your ex is texting you Happy Birthday?

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Speaker 1: Why is he texting?

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Speaker 2: But like, if you like any communications with your ex,

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Speaker 2: like why are they texting high Birthday?

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Speaker 3: Some people have like actual decent your friends with their

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Speaker 3: ex Yeah, but like, why are you?

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Speaker 1: I feel that way too. I feel like that just.

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Speaker 2: Kind of leads into y'all, y'are still connected somehow? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and that would I agree with you. But I think

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Speaker 2: that there are some people who are more mature than

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Speaker 2: we are. Oh, okay that, but can you handle that?

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Speaker 2: So what's the percentage of things that that's cheating?

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Speaker 1: Sixty?

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, there are a lot of people that are

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Speaker 1: So they got it. I'm cool with a couple of exes.

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Speaker 1: And if they texted me, it wouldn't It would be innocent.

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Speaker 2: What if whoever you're seeing, if they're ex texted them

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Speaker 2: and like constantly texted them like hey, like what are

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Speaker 2: you up to? Like Hey, what are you doing? Or

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Speaker 2: like hey, happy holidays and happy birthday?

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Speaker 1: Would you be okay with it?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: If it the happy holidays, happy birthday? Possibly, hey what

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Speaker 1: are you doing? Probably you won't ask some questions. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that might, that might raise eyebrow. We're going over a

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Speaker 1: what they consider cheating letting someone else buy them a drink.

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Speaker 1: Thirty one percent of people think that that's cheating. Oh,

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Speaker 1: that is not cheating. That is just being worth yeah whole.

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Speaker 1: I just think that's a smart financial move, especially if

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Speaker 1: I'm like living with someone or in like a really

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Speaker 1: serious relationship. Save us both of money. Get a free drink.

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Speaker 1: You don't owe anybody anything for a drink.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I always sometimes think you do. But I went

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Speaker 2: out with a friend recently and her boyfriend like encourages

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Speaker 2: her to go get a drink from like a random guy,

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Speaker 2: like hey, babe, go have your thing, go do your thing.

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Speaker 1: She'll text them and be like.

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Speaker 2: Hey, babe, much you got a drink from like a

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Speaker 2: random guy. And he'll celebrate her, like, good job, congrats,

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Speaker 2: I'd love you so much.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's like, my girl, got it. Everybody wishes.

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Speaker 1: But hiding your phone password, seventy three percent of people

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Speaker 3: If you're just hiding the password, well that's sketchy, like

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Speaker 3: hiding intentional.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like not giving your significant other the password.

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Speaker 2: But it's like your that's like your privacy, Like what

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Speaker 2: if you have I mean, I guess things you can

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Speaker 2: share with them, but things you don't want to share

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Speaker 2: with them right on your phone.

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Speaker 3: I have a lot of questions about this because I

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Speaker 3: think the older that you get and the more experiences

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Speaker 3: that you have, there's different levels to your trauma your experiences.

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Speaker 3: So if you're like, hey, babe, I'm a trust you.

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Speaker 3: There's probably nothing in your phone, but it will help

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Speaker 3: me sleep at night to know that you are open

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Speaker 3: with me, and you give me your password, you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean? Like that I could see and if

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Speaker 3: he says no after I ask that way, I'll be like, oh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what are you hiding? Give you that face recognition

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Speaker 1: while you're sleeping. I've always been cool if people have

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Speaker 1: my password really, yeah, Like, it doesn't bother me. I'm

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Speaker 1: not trying to hide anything. Nobody's ever asked me really

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Speaker 1: because I think that they know what it's like the

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Speaker 1: end of g They know you're not the one that's

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Speaker 1: cheating because I'm loyal. My last relationship, my phone auto

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Speaker 1: updated and it made you have like a six digit password,

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Speaker 1: so I had to change it. Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: And so yeah, that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: Getting like streamed that and I'm like, I don't know it,

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Speaker 1: I'll date it. I literally just happened last night. Also,

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Speaker 1: why are you trying to get on my phone right now?

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Speaker 1: That was a stupid question,