Speaker 1: Now for your second date update. About a year ago,
Speaker 1: we had two people on the phone for what turned
Speaker 1: out to be one of the most dramatic second date
Speaker 1: updates we've ever done. I featured a guy named Andrew
Speaker 1: and a woman named Kate. If you haven't heard it before,
Speaker 1: we're about to replay it for you, and afterwards we'll
Speaker 1: get a second date update update from them to find
Speaker 1: out what's happened since their call and where they are
Speaker 1: at today. So keep listening, because that's happening right now,
Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels Second Date Update. Today's second date update is
Speaker 1: a little different from the others because the girl that's
Speaker 1: on the phone to do a second date update today
Speaker 1: has actually had three dates with the guy that she
Speaker 1: wants to call in and come on. Normally, the rule
Speaker 1: is one date and that's it, not three dates, because
Speaker 1: that's kind of more of a relationship type band and
Speaker 1: that's not a second date update. That'd be a fourth
Speaker 1: date update. But I went ahead and I talked to
Speaker 1: the girl and she offered me a thousand dollars cash
Speaker 1: if we would do the second date update for her anyway.
Speaker 1: And you know what rules are meant to be broken sometimes,
Speaker 1: So Kate you will have my PayPal request in just
Speaker 1: a little while. Okay, yes, I'll get it right out.
Speaker 1: You didn't know the second day update was going to
Speaker 1: cost you a thousand dollars, did you Kate? Well? I didn't,
Speaker 1: but I mean I hope it's worth it. I swear
Speaker 1: when you hear the story, you're going to understand why. Okay,
Speaker 1: so your email said that you've been out on three
Speaker 1: dates with this guy and now he's just stopped calling you.
Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit about him. Okay, So his
Speaker 1: name is Andrew h It sounds really cheesy, but we
Speaker 1: were doing like a volunteered charity event and we met
Speaker 1: there and we were working together, so we just had
Speaker 1: a lot of time, you know, like hang out and
Speaker 1: talk and stuff, and you know, we had a connection
Speaker 1: and he asked me out on a date and since
Speaker 1: then it's just kind of been like a whirlwind, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like you're super into him and
Speaker 1: you see this going into like relationship status. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean obviously not like right now at this moment, because
Speaker 1: I'm I'm calling you for a reason, but no, it
Speaker 1: was definitely like it was I felt like it was
Speaker 1: headed in that direction. Yet, what did you guys do
Speaker 1: for your date dates plural. So my first date, it
Speaker 1: was actually really romantic when I'm one of those dinner cruises,
Speaker 1: which I probably would have hated if it was someone
Speaker 1: that I had turned out not to be attractive you,
Speaker 1: But we had We had so much fun, you know,
Speaker 1: like if I needed speech dropped on the boat with anyone,
Speaker 1: that would be the person that I would want to
Speaker 1: be some kind of that's actually a good idea for
Speaker 1: guys to take girls on a dinner cruise date for
Speaker 1: the first date, because there's nowhere to go. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: it does say it does say that he was like
Speaker 1: really into you, because if a guy is gonna devote
Speaker 1: that much time and energy into a first date, he's
Speaker 1: obviously wanting to impress you. Yeah. Screw time and energy,
Speaker 1: just cash. That's not a cheap date at all. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you went on a dinner cruise, that's cool. Would
Speaker 1: you do for your other days? The next date, we
Speaker 1: went on one of those like wine and tasting events
Speaker 1: at a bar, which was you know, like super casual,
Speaker 1: and it was fine because there were other people there
Speaker 1: and so we got to sort of like spend more
Speaker 1: time than in a group of people and see what
Speaker 1: that dynamic is like. And it was really fun. And
Speaker 1: then my third one was so sweet because I had
Speaker 1: just I was really stressed out at work and I
Speaker 1: think I had mentioned it like a couple of times
Speaker 1: in conversation, and so he booked up a couple of massage.
Speaker 1: What that's like relationship status stuck. Yeah, So we definitely
Speaker 1: like took our relationship to the next level after that,
Speaker 1: and I'm you know, like starting to feel emotionally connected
Speaker 1: to him and putting in you know, feelings and effort
Speaker 1: and time. And since then it has been complete radio silence.
Speaker 1: That's weird time to put that much effort into all
Speaker 1: those dates, I know. And by effort, you still mean money,
Speaker 1: don't you pretty much? But I mean you don't buy
Speaker 1: somebody a couple's massage if you don't care about absolutely No.
Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't spend that much money, and I can't.
Speaker 1: I just can't believe he'd like spent that much money
Speaker 1: for just to hook up like that. Seems laid a
Speaker 1: lot of work. That was the first night you guys
Speaker 1: hooked up after the couple's massage. Yeah, so he stopped
Speaker 1: calling you after the first night that you hooked up. Yes,
Speaker 1: I know, I know, but the lead up is so
Speaker 1: confusing because you know, everyone's been in the hook up
Speaker 1: situation before, whether they like intended to or not, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, And it usually doesn't have that
Speaker 1: much build up. Usually someone doesn't put in that much
Speaker 1: time and effort and then go completely obsecret. It sounds
Speaker 1: like he was doing all that just to get in
Speaker 1: your pants. If I'm being honest, Well it does. If
Speaker 1: he's doing all Yes, would you do that much? I wouldn't.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't know, but a lot of guys would. I mean,
Speaker 1: if he's putting in all that effort and then stops
Speaker 1: calling you the moment that you guys hook up, sounds
Speaker 1: like that's all he wanted. Yeah, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: also like, in my head, I'm kind of like wondering,
Speaker 1: was he like just getting out of a relationship and
Speaker 1: did he fixed things? Did he did he go back
Speaker 1: to me? And like all of it is totally like
Speaker 1: if that were the kid. You know, life happens. I
Speaker 1: just some kind of answer, just some kind of conversation
Speaker 1: telling you what happened. Actually, my mind goes to I think,
Speaker 1: did you stay the night at his house. Yeah, what
Speaker 1: was it like in the morning. It was really nice.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like hook up, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: If you know when it's a hook up, you're a woman,
Speaker 1: you know, like you've been there. You know. No, most
Speaker 1: women don't know when it's a hook up. I'll tell
Speaker 1: you that much. Totally disagree with that. No, I disagree
Speaker 1: to No, most don't know. That's why there's clingy women
Speaker 1: who will text you after and think that they're in
Speaker 1: a relationship when they're not. It happens all the time.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I think she's right. I think the majority
Speaker 1: of women know when a hook up is just a
Speaker 1: hook up. I completely agree. Okay, well, maybe the guy's
Speaker 1: a player and he's really good at it, and you
Speaker 1: don't know if that's what he's doing. He's really good,
Speaker 1: so I'm sure you've thought about it a ton. Then
Speaker 1: if you don't think it's just a hook up thing
Speaker 1: and he was just kind of using you, then what
Speaker 1: do you think it is. I'm trying to think of
Speaker 1: anything at this point. I mean, that's why that's why
Speaker 1: I need your help. I'm really interested to see why
Speaker 1: he would stop calling you after all those elaborate dates.
Speaker 1: And leaving his house. That was the last time you've
Speaker 1: talked to him. No, there've been like texts, like little
Speaker 1: texts like you know, I've been busy, like, oh, you're
Speaker 1: justly so yeah, he's like scheduling cruises and massages and
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, his schedule just got so packed.
Speaker 1: All right, well we'll play a song, come back, call
Speaker 1: him and get your second date update. Okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: hang up. You're looking jubil in the morning second, Kate. Yeah, seriously,
Speaker 1: I can't even believe that you want to call this
Speaker 1: dog back. Like, seriously, girl, you need to move on
Speaker 1: to greener pastures. Okay, because he totally used you and
Speaker 1: now he's not calling you back and I wouldn't even
Speaker 1: give him the time of day. You should not be
Speaker 1: doing a second date update. You need to move the along,
Speaker 1: all right, Snap out of it. Girlfriend. Let's you and
Speaker 1: I go get some cosmos and talk about this in
Speaker 1: your mind. This is how female conversations go, isn't it
Speaker 1: that that was my conversation with Kate about moving on? Kate?
Speaker 1: Are you about ready to call Andrew for your second
Speaker 1: date update? Well? After that, I'm feeling really inspired I'm
Speaker 1: sure the reason that I said that is Kate actually
Speaker 1: wants to call a guy that she has gone out
Speaker 1: on three dates with. They've all been pretty elaborate. The
Speaker 1: last one was a couple's massage. There was like a dinner,
Speaker 1: cruise and stuff in there. Anyway, after they hooked up.
Speaker 1: After the third date, he stopped calling her hasn't responded
Speaker 1: to anything. So my first thought is that he just
Speaker 1: used her and just wanted to hook up with her,
Speaker 1: and now he's not calling her at all. That's why
Speaker 1: he's a dog girl, Kate, what if that is the reason,
Speaker 1: Are you just gonna let him have it? I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be really passed. I'm gonna dial this phone uber right
Speaker 1: now and see we're gonna mo the phone. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm dialing the phone number. Hello, Hi, I was looking
Speaker 1: for Andrew. Yeah, let's to see Andrew. How are you.
Speaker 1: This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm calling you because we recently got an email about
Speaker 1: you from one of our listeners. I didn't submit for
Speaker 1: any contest or anything. Guys, Yeah, no, I know this
Speaker 1: is not about a contest. Actually, I just need a
Speaker 1: few minutes of your time in regards to in regards
Speaker 1: to a date that you went on, actually a few
Speaker 1: dates that you went on. What Yeah, we do a
Speaker 1: segment on our show. It's called the second Date Update.
Speaker 1: You recently took a girl named Kate out. She told
Speaker 1: us a little bit about your dates. They were all
Speaker 1: very elaborate and very romantic. But now you're not calling
Speaker 1: her back, and she's very confused. I'm just I'm not
Speaker 1: sure what to say. Well, you could start by telling
Speaker 1: us why you would blow her off after three dates.
Speaker 1: It's not as simple as that. Okay, Yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: trying to sound confrontational with you like it's I mean,
Speaker 1: I just want to know what happened. And more than anything,
Speaker 1: she wants to know what happened because you guys went
Speaker 1: out on so many dates and she said that they
Speaker 1: were all pretty romantic, and you seem like you guys
Speaker 1: really liked each other. Just a weird situation. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to It's been in my head and I'm just trying
Speaker 1: to figure this stuff out. Does that mean that you
Speaker 1: are actually maybe in a relationship with somebody else? No? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: certainly not. No. Okay, I wish it was that simple.
Speaker 1: It's it's complicated in that. Let me ask you a question,
Speaker 1: just an easy question to answer. Did you like Kate? Yes?
Speaker 1: Very much? So you did? I didn't still do? Okay,
Speaker 1: so you still do? Well? Then why not offer her
Speaker 1: the respect of letting her know why you're not calling
Speaker 1: her back? Well? I just, uh, I accepted a job
Speaker 1: offer in Germany that I just I couldn't turn it down.
Speaker 1: You what, I leaven a couple of weeks actually for Germany? WHOA?
Speaker 1: And that's why you're not calling her back? Well, I
Speaker 1: feel strongly before. I just don't know how to tell her,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, yeah, I don't know what to
Speaker 1: say to her. I just I just figured the easiest
Speaker 1: thing would be just to you know, disappear, fade away.
Speaker 1: Are you disappear? That's like the coward way out. You
Speaker 1: owe it to her to talk to her about what's
Speaker 1: going on. Like I said, this is not an easy situation.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm struggling as far as how to deal with
Speaker 1: this and what to do. Why are you struggling so
Speaker 1: much with I mean, you guys have been out on
Speaker 1: three days. It's not like you've been dating for months
Speaker 1: and months and months and you're leaving, why not just
Speaker 1: call her and say, hey, I'm moving. Sorry, we can't
Speaker 1: see each other anymore, you know, I mean, I really
Speaker 1: like her a lot. But okay, so you see a
Speaker 1: future with her. If if you were going to stay
Speaker 1: here and Germany wasn't in the picture, there's no question
Speaker 1: in your mind that you guys would continue this if
Speaker 1: I was going to stay here, definitely, no question in
Speaker 1: my mind. But now that the reality is Germany, there's
Speaker 1: just no chance of that. Because you know I'm moving.
Speaker 1: You guys could maybe try a long distance thing. That's
Speaker 1: not fair for me to ask her to do something
Speaker 1: like that. You know, she's super sweet, gorgeous, that's not yeah,
Speaker 1: but how do you know? You don't know? I mean,
Speaker 1: you're putting your feelings on her, like you don't know
Speaker 1: how she would react to me. I am putting her
Speaker 1: needs first. She doesn't deserve to be in a long
Speaker 1: distance relationship like that with someone. She deserves someone's going
Speaker 1: to be there with her, contributing to her life. I'm
Speaker 1: putting her needs way above mine. I still't know what
Speaker 1: to say. It sounds like you really like her a lot, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I do. Man, that sucks I honestly, if I were
Speaker 1: in your position, that would be hard to meet somebody
Speaker 1: that you're I mean, I guess it sounds like you're
Speaker 1: falling for and then you're like, man, now I gotta move. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it sucks, but some consolation, German chicks can be kind
Speaker 1: of hot. Okay, Okay, that's where we're going in the
Speaker 1: making more money obviously. Can I ask one question though,
Speaker 1: Did you know that you were going to Germany before
Speaker 1: that last couple's massage slept together night? No? No, no.
Speaker 1: In fact, this is from a previous situation I had
Speaker 1: that developed over the course of three or four months,
Speaker 1: so I thought that the opportunity had kind of fizzled out.
Speaker 1: But it turns out it was just taking a little
Speaker 1: bit more time and then they may be an offer.
Speaker 1: I just had to have to jump on this. Wow.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just really excited about this Germany thing.
Speaker 1: It's it's the dream job I've always always wanted. But
Speaker 1: at the same time, you know, I feel like I
Speaker 1: could be missing out and not being able to share
Speaker 1: something like that with someone like her. Well, then why
Speaker 1: not just talk to her about it? I agree. I
Speaker 1: know it's early on in your relationship, But why not
Speaker 1: just talk to her? Man Easier said than done, Guys,
Speaker 1: Not really, she's actually on the line listing. Excuse me,
Speaker 1: I said, she saw on the other line and listening
Speaker 1: to this conversation and wants to talk to you take
Speaker 1: on the phone. Yes she is. Yeah, Hi, Um, I
Speaker 1: don't really know what this is a lot. You've been
Speaker 1: on the phone the whole time, the whole time. I'm
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I I'm sorry I stopped calling you. I
Speaker 1: just it was the only way that I saw to
Speaker 1: handle this. It's okay, I'm um. I don't really know
Speaker 1: what I would have what I would have done in
Speaker 1: the situation either. I just I just I wish you
Speaker 1: would have told me. Um, But what I don't even
Speaker 1: like mentioned that you a lot. I know, you just
Speaker 1: like I didn't even know they don't even like applied,
Speaker 1: you know if you didn't even that wasn't mentioned. Just
Speaker 1: it's in regular conversation, you know what I mean? It
Speaker 1: was if so, it's like really out of left field. Well,
Speaker 1: I yeah, I honestly I thought that that I thought
Speaker 1: that that prospect had kind of just fizzled out long,
Speaker 1: you know, long before I even met you. So it
Speaker 1: just kind of popped out of nowhere again. It just
Speaker 1: really sucks because I like have really, I mean, I
Speaker 1: I have strong feelings for you. I have strong feelings
Speaker 1: for you too. It's just not fair for you. It's
Speaker 1: not it's not fair for us. You know, life is
Speaker 1: just not on our side. It seems um well, Andrew,
Speaker 1: maybe maybe life is on your side and that's why
Speaker 1: you guys are being connected. In a second date update
Speaker 1: to talk about it, I guess, I mean, I think
Speaker 1: about you every day and I want you know. I mean,
Speaker 1: the long distance relationship is really really hard, and it's
Speaker 1: not fair me to even imply something like that. I
Speaker 1: even asked that it's only been three dates, but you know,
Speaker 1: I can't stop thinking about you, So my heart says something,
Speaker 1: in my mind says something different, you know, Okay, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna ask for you, would you do a
Speaker 1: long distance relationship? I don't know. I mean, somebody's going
Speaker 1: to step in and ask her what is on that
Speaker 1: whole matter? I don't, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know because it's not it's not
Speaker 1: really being put on the table. It's not like a
Speaker 1: real question so I don't. I don't know. It's also
Speaker 1: it's so soon and it's so new, and in general,
Speaker 1: would I would I do along distance relationships, like in
Speaker 1: general in life, what I consider it? Well, yeah, I would,
Speaker 1: but it's not really, it's not really what's being asking now, Well,
Speaker 1: the simple fact of the matter is, you know, long
Speaker 1: distance relationships suck. You know, I mean, this is really hard.
Speaker 1: I mean, my heart says something, in my mind says
Speaker 1: something different. You know, I'm thinking that I just need
Speaker 1: to sever this, cut this off, but I can't stop
Speaker 1: thinking about you. So I'm feeling like I need to
Speaker 1: ask you to go with me. You know. I know
Speaker 1: that's crazy. I shouldn't have even said that. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I feel like I just you know, you don't want
Speaker 1: me to go with I really've been on three dates.
Speaker 1: You can't. It's not that's not like a real Is
Speaker 1: that a real question? Well, I don't. I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't want to put words in your mouth, Andrew,
Speaker 1: but I don't think you were actually asking her to
Speaker 1: go with you. I think you were saying that's the
Speaker 1: way you feel, you know. I'm just not sure at
Speaker 1: this point, this phone calls really it's even more confusing now,
Speaker 1: it seems like, but it sounds like to me that
Speaker 1: if she would say yes, that that is exactly what
Speaker 1: you're asking, I wouldn't want to ask her that. You know,
Speaker 1: that's that's just a huge bombshell to drop on somebody.
Speaker 1: You know, it's a lot of pressure to put on her.
Speaker 1: Let's let's play a game, Andrew. Let's put this relationship
Speaker 1: seven months down the road. If you guys have been
Speaker 1: dating for seven months, would you ask her to go
Speaker 1: with you to Germany? Yes? Wow? Okay, what do you
Speaker 1: think about that? If you were dating seven months, would
Speaker 1: you go This is like, oh, like anypathetical situation. I mean,
Speaker 1: if if we have been dating in the same way
Speaker 1: that it's been, if we just continued down the same
Speaker 1: path that we started, I don't see why I wouldn't
Speaker 1: consider it. But you guys, have a couple of weeks
Speaker 1: or whatever till you leave. I mean, you could bomb,
Speaker 1: you could spend every day together, you could see how
Speaker 1: it goes up until then, and then maybe in six
Speaker 1: months you could come join you you got it off
Speaker 1: figured out, Brook, This whole thing is it's just crazy. No,
Speaker 1: So let's just step back and let Kate processed this. Well,
Speaker 1: how about you guys process together. Would you like to
Speaker 1: go out in a second, well fourth date with Kate?
Speaker 1: We will pay for you guys to go out again
Speaker 1: at least before you leave. Talk about it, I mean, yeah, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: all right, Well, keep us cut, keep us updated on
Speaker 1: what happens. Ok okay, all right, we'll try all right,
Speaker 1: and until you leave, Andrew, I want you guys to
Speaker 1: process as much as possible. Just keep processing every night
Speaker 1: until you leave. Okay, broken jewel in the morning. What
Speaker 1: you just heard was a second date update with Kate
Speaker 1: and Andrew from over a year ago, and now they're
Speaker 1: back on the phone for a second date update update.
Speaker 1: I'm so excited you guys, welcome back to the show.
Speaker 1: Thanks for no problem. So you guys had a lot
Speaker 1: of options on the table, like a lot to process
Speaker 1: at the end of that phone call. I know it
Speaker 1: was about a year ago now, but what did you
Speaker 1: guys decide to do. We decided to hang out as
Speaker 1: much as we could up until the last second. UM.
Speaker 1: I think we had three more dates, um and they
Speaker 1: were really great. It was awesome, but it felt like
Speaker 1: way too much to kind of move to Germany after
Speaker 1: a month of datings. Okay, so you didn't move to
Speaker 1: Germany with him after just three more dates? No, I
Speaker 1: did not know. Probably a wise decision. So what did
Speaker 1: you guys decide to do? Just call it quits altogether. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the update. They're just over. They haven't talked to
Speaker 1: each other for a year. Yeah, we text once in
Speaker 1: a while. That yeah. Well, actually, you know, I mean,
Speaker 1: it was a bit too much for her to join
Speaker 1: me in Germany, so we decided we would try it out,
Speaker 1: you know, try the long distance thing if we could.
Speaker 1: And really yeah, hey, we decided we would meet as
Speaker 1: often as possible. Um, but it was challenging for sure.
Speaker 1: So how long did you guys go after you left
Speaker 1: for Germany without seeing each other. I was like four
Speaker 1: weeks from when I left when I saw again, almost
Speaker 1: a month. Okay. What was that like the first time
Speaker 1: you guys saw each other after not seeing each other
Speaker 1: for a month. Oh, it was great, great. I was
Speaker 1: so excited to see her. I didn't want to let
Speaker 1: her out of my site, so okay, and then obviously
Speaker 1: you had to go back to Germany though, Yeah, so yeah,
Speaker 1: you let her out of your side. Has the long
Speaker 1: distance thing been hard. I mean, it's exciting when you
Speaker 1: see each other again, but the time in between is
Speaker 1: it's almost impossible. Did you guys skype a lot? Oh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, thank you? Oh my god, yeah, I bet so.
Speaker 1: Did you feel like your relationship grew or did you
Speaker 1: just grow apart? You know, it was it was really complicated,
Speaker 1: and then it just started to feel weird. You know,
Speaker 1: like I don't know what it was, but it just
Speaker 1: wasn't working. Um, not being able to see each other,
Speaker 1: not to build that foundation just made a really you know,
Speaker 1: a trial after trial, you're rooting my romantic comedy in
Speaker 1: my head. You know. There's just all those day to
Speaker 1: day things that you want to share with someone, and
Speaker 1: you know, we'd try to fill each other in, but
Speaker 1: sometimes you only have a few minutes or I'd only
Speaker 1: have a few minutes, so we always kind of felt
Speaker 1: short changed, you know. Yeah, that'd be hard to date
Speaker 1: somebody who's halfway around the world. Yeah. Every time we
Speaker 1: were skyping, you the one person was middle to night.
Speaker 1: It was hard to get cut up on sleep or
Speaker 1: vice versa. You know, so it was just hard not
Speaker 1: to mention, like filled him in on day to day life, like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know my friend Sarah. You're like, actually I don't
Speaker 1: because we went on four dates before I moved to Germany.
Speaker 1: So I don't know any of your friends, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: so well, at least you guys can still stay friends. Then,
Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like you're cool with each other. Well,
Speaker 1: you don't know the whole story. What there's more to
Speaker 1: the story than that. There is in fact, I moved
Speaker 1: back to be with to be with Kate. What wait,
Speaker 1: you quit deutsch Land for Kate, quit the dream job
Speaker 1: for the dream life with her? Wow? So wait, you
Speaker 1: are still in love with each other, I would hope,
Speaker 1: so until we live together? Drop that honest, Like that
Speaker 1: left to Germany. You guys dated for a little while
Speaker 1: long distance, then you quit your job and move back,
Speaker 1: and now you guys are living together. I wasn't able
Speaker 1: to sleep. I was just thinking about her all the time.
Speaker 1: It just wasn't working for me. I had to you know.
Speaker 1: It wasn't not a fear. It was more along the
Speaker 1: lines of I wanted to be even more happier than
Speaker 1: I was with my dream Drop, and that means to
Speaker 1: be with Kate, and I'm very happy and plus the
Speaker 1: food in Germany is terrible, so really, so much sausage
Speaker 1: and crowd before you have to head back home. Kate,
Speaker 1: were you were you worried about him choosing you over
Speaker 1: his career, like you could be a regret at some point. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it's a lot of pressure. I feel like
Speaker 1: I was sort of playing the devil's advocate and trying
Speaker 1: to tell him that he didn't have to do that,
Speaker 1: and I was just ask him, are you sure you
Speaker 1: want to come back? And his answer was always yes,
Speaker 1: Well all right, And it sounds like you did it. Congratulations.
Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting that. It sounded like you guys broke up. No,
Speaker 1: you saved that to the last minute. Andrew, Yeah, you
Speaker 1: gotta keep you in suspense, little way. I had to
Speaker 1: wait six months, man, you can wait like five minutes. Sleven,
Speaker 1: nineteen two point five