WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Dating Is Such A Chore 0:00:00.030 --> 0:00:00.770 We're still here. 0:00:00.950 --> 0:00:03.730 We're doing it again. Another new episode. It's Brick and Jeffrey. 0:00:04.170 --> 0:00:06.350 And thank you for finding the Second Date Podcast. 0:00:06.410 --> 0:00:07.090 Yeah. 0:00:07.290 --> 0:00:09.170 Yeah, we're going to get to the new one here 0:00:09.190 --> 0:00:09.870 in just a second. 0:00:10.130 --> 0:00:13.530 I've seen a lot of people commenting on second dates 0:00:13.550 --> 0:00:13.830 that are. 0:00:13.870 --> 0:00:14.760 Over a decade old. 0:00:15.230 --> 0:00:15.620 Yeah. 0:00:15.700 --> 0:00:18.640 Which is wild to me. And they're like, this is 0:00:18.680 --> 0:00:23.640 a repeat. And I'm like, yo. You listen to 2014, 0:00:23.630 --> 0:00:24.030 my friend. 0:00:24.050 --> 0:00:25.730 Yeah, you're like, that's not even the right show. 0:00:25.790 --> 0:00:26.730 Yeah. 0:00:26.750 --> 0:00:29.460 Scooch up to the present. We got new episodes for you. 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:31.660 What do you got in the comments, Alexis? 0:00:31.800 --> 0:00:34.909 Yeah, Brody Thompson said... I always try playing these in 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:37.150 the car with my friends, but they all think it's weird. 0:00:37.510 --> 0:00:39.190 So I go home or drive home and listen to 0:00:39.229 --> 0:00:41.089 it myself because I love you guys and are my 0:00:41.150 --> 0:00:42.670 favorite podcast. 0:00:42.909 --> 0:00:44.230 A little secret. 0:00:44.310 --> 0:00:46.269 Yeah, that's right. You could be ashamed of us. We're 0:00:46.290 --> 0:00:48.589 okay with that. You're not the only people in our 0:00:48.630 --> 0:00:49.740 lives that are ashamed of us. 0:00:49.950 --> 0:00:52.990 So let's get to your brand new episode right now. 0:00:53.150 --> 0:00:56.070 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. 0:00:57.210 --> 0:01:00.300 When it comes to dating, at least for guys... A 0:01:00.340 --> 0:01:03.900 big part of impressing them is demonstrating your value. 0:01:04.080 --> 0:01:05.400 What do you mean? 0:01:05.459 --> 0:01:08.050 Well, some guys can do it just by dressing nicely 0:01:08.110 --> 0:01:10.910 for the date or treating the server really well. 0:01:10.930 --> 0:01:11.550 Yes. 0:01:11.670 --> 0:01:14.970 Other guys do it by accidentally dropping their bank receipt 0:01:15.030 --> 0:01:16.209 right on the dinner table. 0:01:16.370 --> 0:01:16.570 Okay. 0:01:17.050 --> 0:01:17.949 Oh, whoops. 0:01:18.350 --> 0:01:21.170 Is that my checking account balance? Why are there so 0:01:21.209 --> 0:01:23.760 many commas and extra digits in there? 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:26.140 That's weird. I know that looks like a bank error, 0:01:26.180 --> 0:01:26.780 but it's not. 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:29.440 Alexis is smiling really big, by the way, as I'm 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:30.040 saying that. 0:01:30.160 --> 0:01:32.190 It's what all real rich people do, I'm sure. 0:01:32.280 --> 0:01:37.190 Definitely. But our listener, Mike, said he demonstrated his value 0:01:37.209 --> 0:01:41.390 a few different ways, including using humor with a funny 0:01:41.590 --> 0:01:42.530 opening line. 0:01:42.569 --> 0:01:45.970 See, that's what I'm talking about. Charming, funny, there's value. 0:01:46.130 --> 0:01:48.370 I can't wait to hear this. So, Mike, welcome to 0:01:48.390 --> 0:01:48.990 the show, man. 0:01:49.390 --> 0:01:50.330 Hey, how's it going? 0:01:50.350 --> 0:01:50.990 Oh, wow. 0:01:51.090 --> 0:01:52.770 I thought you were going to give more of a 0:01:53.070 --> 0:01:53.930 better opening here. 0:01:53.950 --> 0:01:56.850 Oh, you wanted a joke? You're not charming the pants 0:01:57.010 --> 0:02:00.810 off Brooke quite enough. Try again, Mike. Welcome to the show, buddy. 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:03.360 Hey, hey, glad to be here. 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:03.800 Hey! 0:02:03.820 --> 0:02:05.260 This is the. 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:05.960 Guy we love. 0:02:05.980 --> 0:02:06.640 Look at Mike. 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:08.040 He doesn't want to hang out with him. 0:02:08.190 --> 0:02:08.430 All right. 0:02:08.450 --> 0:02:12.810 That guy sounds loaded. Okay. Now we're off and running. So, Mike, 0:02:12.910 --> 0:02:15.430 tell us about this pickup line that you used on 0:02:15.470 --> 0:02:15.890 this girl. 0:02:16.310 --> 0:02:16.770 Yeah. 0:02:16.850 --> 0:02:19.370 So, her name is Chrissy, and we matched on the 0:02:19.490 --> 0:02:22.600 apps and whatever. And listen, she's, like, very good looking. 0:02:22.700 --> 0:02:25.140 And I was like, she might be out of my league, but, like, 0:02:25.740 --> 0:02:26.580 let's just go for it. 0:02:26.660 --> 0:02:28.120 So, we ended up matching. 0:02:28.139 --> 0:02:28.480 Uh-huh. 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:32.079 And so my opening line was, hey, I saw your 0:02:32.100 --> 0:02:36.490 future boyfriend. And she was like, oh, yeah. I was like, yeah. 0:02:36.500 --> 0:02:38.350 I said I tried to hug him, but I almost 0:02:38.370 --> 0:02:39.549 knocked my mirror off the wall. 0:02:43.130 --> 0:02:45.730 I mean, that humor will definitely work on some people. 0:02:45.790 --> 0:02:47.250 How did Chrissy respond? 0:02:47.970 --> 0:02:50.930 I got the LOL, you know, LMAO, you know, whatever. 0:02:51.510 --> 0:02:54.850 So she was like, let's get together. She didn't really 0:02:54.889 --> 0:02:58.060 care what we did. But like she was really adamant 0:02:58.100 --> 0:03:00.760 that I go pick her up. And I drive and 0:03:00.780 --> 0:03:02.959 I was like, that's fine. Like, no problem. 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:04.980 That's so strange to me because I feel like in 0:03:05.020 --> 0:03:06.919 the dating world and the dating apps, I mean, I 0:03:06.960 --> 0:03:07.820 haven't done it, but. 0:03:07.740 --> 0:03:09.060 That's like the opposite of what you want. 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:12.160 Yeah. Like I would recommend to all my girlfriends, like 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:13.459 meet them in a public place. 0:03:13.480 --> 0:03:14.440 Don't give them your address. 0:03:14.460 --> 0:03:14.760 Yeah. 0:03:14.780 --> 0:03:14.960 Yeah. 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:17.279 I mean, I think that's a positive. She obviously trusts you. 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:18.760 Definitely. So how did it go? 0:03:19.389 --> 0:03:22.320 I mean, I thought it went okay, but I get 0:03:22.340 --> 0:03:26.660 to the place, I park, I text her, here. No response. 0:03:27.500 --> 0:03:28.880 I'm like, okay, I'm just going to go up to 0:03:28.919 --> 0:03:29.220 the door. 0:03:29.240 --> 0:03:31.380 Well, yeah, I think that probably should have been the 0:03:31.430 --> 0:03:32.220 move to begin with. 0:03:32.250 --> 0:03:35.390 Don't just pull up and honk, like, get out, I'm here! 0:03:35.470 --> 0:03:37.850 That's what the text here is exactly like. It's like 0:03:37.890 --> 0:03:38.810 the modern-day honk. 0:03:39.110 --> 0:03:41.170 So you knock on the door, and what happens? 0:03:41.230 --> 0:03:43.460 Well, I actually don't get to knock on the door, 0:03:43.470 --> 0:03:46.800 because right before I was going to... She comes around 0:03:46.860 --> 0:03:47.760 from the side of the house. 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:49.220 Oh, it's a house, Shira. 0:03:49.240 --> 0:03:52.410 She says, hey, you're here. I wasn't expecting, you know, 0:03:52.430 --> 0:03:55.050 this is like the last track of time. I'm just 0:03:55.090 --> 0:03:56.290 doing some yard work. 0:03:56.810 --> 0:03:57.970 Oh, shoot. 0:03:58.270 --> 0:04:00.290 So she probably just didn't even have her phone on her. 0:04:00.930 --> 0:04:01.330 Maybe. 0:04:01.530 --> 0:04:04.470 Yeah. And me being me, I'm like, OK, totally cool. 0:04:04.510 --> 0:04:08.500 I mean, like, do you need help? And she said, yeah, 0:04:08.660 --> 0:04:09.240 come on back. 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:10.080 Okay. 0:04:10.140 --> 0:04:15.050 Wow. Now you're demonstrating your gardening skills. More value. You're 0:04:15.070 --> 0:04:16.750 the most valuable man we've ever had on the show. 0:04:16.770 --> 0:04:17.450 Here's the issue. 0:04:17.529 --> 0:04:21.700 I imagine you in your best sneakers and cute outfit. 0:04:21.779 --> 0:04:23.460 Like, you're ready for a date. You don't want to 0:04:23.500 --> 0:04:24.839 get dirty in what you're wearing. 0:04:24.860 --> 0:04:25.500 That's a good point. 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:25.920 Yeah. 0:04:26.020 --> 0:04:26.520 What do you do? 0:04:27.670 --> 0:04:30.110 Well, I would say we did yard work, but to 0:04:30.130 --> 0:04:32.130 be honest, I did most of the yard work. 0:04:32.330 --> 0:04:32.830 Wait, what? 0:04:33.190 --> 0:04:33.770 Really? 0:04:33.830 --> 0:04:34.109 Yeah. 0:04:34.190 --> 0:04:37.450 And I'm talking like I was hauling branches. I was 0:04:37.490 --> 0:04:38.470 cutting stuff down. 0:04:38.490 --> 0:04:39.370 Oh my gosh. 0:04:39.410 --> 0:04:41.890 Are you feeling used at any point? I know it 0:04:41.930 --> 0:04:43.150 does feel kind of like a ruse. That it's just 0:04:43.180 --> 0:04:44.010 like intentional. 0:04:44.100 --> 0:04:44.450 Yes. 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:47.260 But we were talking, so I was like down for it. 0:04:47.700 --> 0:04:50.359 But I will say something that was strange was apparently 0:04:50.420 --> 0:04:53.230 she like lives with her brother. And he didn't want 0:04:53.250 --> 0:04:55.750 to help her, but he watched us through the window. 0:04:55.850 --> 0:04:57.890 So I saw him. 0:04:57.910 --> 0:04:57.990 What? 0:04:58.050 --> 0:05:00.310 Wait, he never came out and even said hi? 0:05:00.830 --> 0:05:03.170 No, not a wave, not a hi. She was like, oh, 0:05:03.170 --> 0:05:04.990 that's my brother. Yeah, he doesn't really want to help. 0:05:06.150 --> 0:05:06.529 Weird. 0:05:06.589 --> 0:05:08.310 You think he would help his sister? 0:05:08.390 --> 0:05:09.950 This wasn't a red flag for. 0:05:09.850 --> 0:05:10.490 You in any way? 0:05:10.930 --> 0:05:12.330 I told you she was out of my league and 0:05:12.350 --> 0:05:13.080 I was just happy. 0:05:12.890 --> 0:05:13.830 To be there. Okay. 0:05:13.940 --> 0:05:16.840 All right. At any point, does the yard work portion 0:05:16.860 --> 0:05:19.580 of the day end and like the romantic date begin? 0:05:20.740 --> 0:05:23.460 Here's the thing, I finished my chores, so to speak, right? 0:05:23.900 --> 0:05:26.029 And she was like, you know, I'm too gross, and 0:05:26.270 --> 0:05:28.110 let's just reschedule, let's reschedule. 0:05:28.190 --> 0:05:28.430 What? 0:05:28.670 --> 0:05:31.789 She owes you at least a cocktail. She totally used you. 0:05:32.180 --> 0:05:34.020 Yeah, at least order a pizza. 0:05:34.140 --> 0:05:35.680 And use your shower inside. 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:36.860 Oh, there you go. 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:39.560 To put what clothes on after? Like the sweaty ones 0:05:39.600 --> 0:05:40.140 back on? 0:05:40.180 --> 0:05:41.600 His brother's. Her brother's clothes. 0:05:41.820 --> 0:05:42.290 Oh, that's weird. 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:42.790 Oh, yeah. 0:05:42.810 --> 0:05:43.990 She wants to go on a date with a guy 0:05:44.010 --> 0:05:44.830 wearing her brother's. 0:05:44.610 --> 0:05:44.950 Clothes, Jeff. 0:05:44.970 --> 0:05:45.650 Yeah, it's a good idea. 0:05:45.670 --> 0:05:47.710 Oh, okay. Get them, ladies. How do I always end 0:05:47.750 --> 0:05:51.510 up with the weird ones? Okay, so she says no. 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:53.599 She doesn't want to grab drinks. And what? 0:05:53.920 --> 0:05:56.700 So we have been texting back and forth like for 0:05:56.720 --> 0:06:00.719 a while. And I've been asking her about, can you 0:06:00.740 --> 0:06:02.140 go out on this day? Can you go on this day? 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:03.960 I've asked like three times to like go out for 0:06:03.980 --> 0:06:07.360 these drinks and she's always too busy, but then continues 0:06:07.400 --> 0:06:08.200 to text with me. 0:06:08.220 --> 0:06:09.100 Okay. 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:10.880 So that's why I need your help. 0:06:11.080 --> 0:06:13.370 So maybe she's just waiting until her shrubs grow back 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:14.870 so that you have to cut them again. 0:06:14.890 --> 0:06:17.290 You did too good. Now you're useful to her again. 0:06:17.310 --> 0:06:19.970 You're like her better brother, which is awful. You got 0:06:20.050 --> 0:06:20.750 family zone. 0:06:20.810 --> 0:06:21.370 Yeah. 0:06:21.410 --> 0:06:21.890 You know what I mean? 0:06:21.950 --> 0:06:24.750 It's like a productive brother you rely on. What level 0:06:24.810 --> 0:06:25.250 is that? 0:06:26.110 --> 0:06:27.030 That's worse than friend zone. 0:06:27.050 --> 0:06:30.390 That's weird. Okay. So you're looking for us to help 0:06:30.430 --> 0:06:33.089 you actually lock down like a date. 0:06:33.150 --> 0:06:33.650 Romantic. 0:06:33.710 --> 0:06:35.490 Get it on the calendar once and for all. 0:06:36.700 --> 0:06:38.700 Yeah, I need your help to like get a date 0:06:38.740 --> 0:06:40.400 going or even just like get to the bottom of 0:06:40.490 --> 0:06:41.530 what is actually going on. 0:06:41.529 --> 0:06:43.370 I was going to say, figure out if she was 0:06:43.390 --> 0:06:45.390 just using you for the yard work. I mean, that 0:06:45.430 --> 0:06:48.109 seems like an important piece of this, right? 0:06:48.410 --> 0:06:51.539 Yeah, that thought has like crossed my mind, but she's 0:06:51.620 --> 0:06:54.479 initiating a lot of our conversations. And when I ask 0:06:54.500 --> 0:06:55.840 her to go on these dates, she's like, I mean, 0:06:55.860 --> 0:06:57.580 I want to, but I got to do this, this 0:06:57.660 --> 0:07:00.080 and this. So there seems to be some interest. 0:07:00.500 --> 0:07:04.169 Yeah, she just wasn't responding any easier. 0:07:04.210 --> 0:07:07.970 That's strange. Because if you really want to, you make time. Yeah, totally. 0:07:08.010 --> 0:07:10.369 We'll hopefully figure out what's going on when we come back. 0:07:10.530 --> 0:07:13.970 Call Chrissy and get your second date update. Hopefully her 0:07:14.010 --> 0:07:17.120 brother's not snooping in on the conversation. Listening. 0:07:17.150 --> 0:07:18.920 Well, if he's listening to you, he's got to figure 0:07:18.940 --> 0:07:20.140 out who borrowed his clothes, Jeff. 0:07:20.220 --> 0:07:21.100 So I wouldn't blame him. 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:23.500 And hopefully the boyfriend isn't still in the mirror peeking 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:25.440 at us either. We'll do it. 0:07:25.460 --> 0:07:26.360 You really like that joke. 0:07:26.380 --> 0:07:27.280 It's called a callback. 0:07:27.400 --> 0:07:27.780 All right. 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:28.700 Let's edit that out. 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:33.820 Pat myself. Excellent humor. Second date update continues. Peak comedy 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:34.540 right after this. 0:07:35.440 --> 0:07:36.920 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:07:36.940 --> 0:07:38.320 Second date update. 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:42.430 Man, how much fun does a yard work date sound? 0:07:43.710 --> 0:07:44.710 Sounds fun for her. 0:07:44.730 --> 0:07:47.350 I mean, it might be fun if you had actually 0:07:47.510 --> 0:07:50.650 planned on doing it, but our listener Mike didn't know 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:53.820 until he showed up to his date Chrissy's house and 0:07:53.880 --> 0:07:56.520 learned that she'd lost track of time, was in the 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:59.900 middle of doing yard work, and he offered, like a gentleman, 0:08:00.250 --> 0:08:02.940 to go and help her out with it. But after 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:07.420 a few hours of cutting branches and mulching leaves and 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:10.280 whatever they were doing, Chrissy said, oh, now I'm feeling 0:08:10.320 --> 0:08:13.790 too gross and tired to go grab drinks. Let's reschedule 0:08:13.810 --> 0:08:17.430 this for another time. And to her credit, she has 0:08:17.490 --> 0:08:20.090 stayed in contact, but just can't seem to find an 0:08:20.670 --> 0:08:24.110 open slot in the calendar for that second date. And 0:08:24.170 --> 0:08:26.910 both Brooke and Alexis were saying red flag. 0:08:27.130 --> 0:08:30.150 Why, Brooke? It's hard not to speculate that she planned 0:08:30.190 --> 0:08:32.410 it all, right? I don't know. 0:08:32.610 --> 0:08:34.630 Maybe in the story we missed where she was like 0:08:34.670 --> 0:08:38.620 super apologetic and incredibly grateful and wanted to pay you 0:08:38.660 --> 0:08:39.580 back in some way. 0:08:40.059 --> 0:08:40.679 Did that happen? 0:08:41.700 --> 0:08:43.819 I mean, yes and no, right? Like she was thanking 0:08:43.860 --> 0:08:45.620 me and was like, and said I did a good 0:08:45.660 --> 0:08:48.240 job or whatever, but like, no, she hasn't like attempted 0:08:48.260 --> 0:08:49.719 to pay me back for it or anything. 0:08:49.800 --> 0:08:52.440 I mean, just like buy you dinner, right? Like it 0:08:52.620 --> 0:08:53.179 feels like. 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:54.760 Or have her come to your house and do your 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:55.330 yard work. 0:08:55.710 --> 0:08:57.709 Oh, that'd be sweet. 0:08:57.870 --> 0:08:59.330 Let's hope you don't live in an apartment building. 0:09:00.220 --> 0:09:02.620 I mean, look, I don't know what's up with this girl. 0:09:02.960 --> 0:09:04.740 I just need the closure. Like, what's going on? Is 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:06.260 it yes or no? You know what I mean? 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:08.600 Okay. Let's try to get you some of that right now. 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:11.880 We'll call Chrissy and hopefully get you some closure. And 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:14.319 if not that, at least book you for another yard 0:09:14.360 --> 0:09:14.880 work session. 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:15.459 Yay! 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:17.520 Because it sounds like you did a great job. So 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:20.160 let's lock it in. I'm going to dial it right now. 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:20.620 Here we go. 0:09:20.780 --> 0:09:21.420 Hello? 0:09:29.450 --> 0:09:33.920 Hey, is this Chrissy? Yes, it's Chrissy. Hey, I'm not 0:09:33.940 --> 0:09:36.400 sure if you know us, but we are a radio 0:09:36.420 --> 0:09:37.860 show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:39.590 Hey, Chrissy. Welcome to the show. 0:09:39.670 --> 0:09:40.410 Hey, good morning. 0:09:41.370 --> 0:09:44.719 I think I recognize those voices. I've heard you guys. 0:09:45.100 --> 0:09:46.660 We go viral sometimes online. 0:09:46.700 --> 0:09:49.459 That's actually kind of like my friends. I was just 0:09:49.500 --> 0:09:50.320 with some girlfriends. 0:09:50.340 --> 0:09:52.470 They're like, hey, a friend of mine sent me one 0:09:52.490 --> 0:09:54.510 of your clips. She has no idea that I know you. 0:09:54.790 --> 0:09:57.250 Yeah i'm like wow this is kind of cool because 0:09:57.290 --> 0:09:59.809 now you get to be on that famous segment. 0:09:59.790 --> 0:10:06.120 Hey me okay what's this about this is about a 0:10:06.170 --> 0:10:08.660 guy that you were scheduled to go on a date 0:10:08.700 --> 0:10:11.240 with and you you did kind of hang out according 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:12.400 to him his name's mike. 0:10:14.350 --> 0:10:18.689 Oh, Mike. Okay. Nice guy. He's real nice. Yeah. Good 0:10:18.730 --> 0:10:19.490 looking too. 0:10:19.970 --> 0:10:22.130 Oh, he's going to be excited to hear that. I mean, 0:10:22.150 --> 0:10:23.530 I guess this is kind of different too, because you 0:10:23.550 --> 0:10:25.030 guys have, you're still talking. 0:10:25.050 --> 0:10:28.750 We're texting. Yeah. We've been trying to see each other. Yeah. 0:10:29.410 --> 0:10:33.459 He mentioned that to us, but according to Mike, there's 0:10:33.500 --> 0:10:37.240 been a struggle to lock down a specific date and 0:10:37.860 --> 0:10:40.580 he feels like it's more in your court. Like you're 0:10:40.620 --> 0:10:42.640 shutting it down. He doesn't know why. 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:45.939 Well, I've been kind of busy with different things here 0:10:45.980 --> 0:10:48.650 and there, and I'm trying to sort out a few things. 0:10:49.630 --> 0:10:52.770 That always sounds like maybe you're in a relationship right now. 0:10:52.830 --> 0:10:53.610 Is that what it is? 0:10:55.210 --> 0:10:56.070 No, no. 0:10:56.170 --> 0:10:57.929 I'm no longer married. 0:10:59.130 --> 0:11:00.410 Married? 0:11:00.470 --> 0:11:03.550 Well, that would be a relationship. 0:11:03.590 --> 0:11:06.160 No longer married. 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:08.480 Has it just not been enough time since the divorce? 0:11:08.540 --> 0:11:09.540 Is that what it feels like? 0:11:09.559 --> 0:11:13.880 Yeah. It's just super messy right now, but I do 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:16.840 want to see Mike. 0:11:16.980 --> 0:11:19.800 We love messy. I would love to hear more. 0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:21.800 I know we're kind of strangers to you, but would 0:11:21.820 --> 0:11:24.870 you mind opening up a little bit about what's holding 0:11:24.900 --> 0:11:28.170 you back from seeing Mike again? Or even just going 0:11:28.210 --> 0:11:31.330 into more details about your date. He mentioned the yard 0:11:31.370 --> 0:11:34.489 work situation. We thought that was pretty noble of him. Like, 0:11:34.510 --> 0:11:35.190 step in and help. 0:11:35.250 --> 0:11:38.630 Yeah, he was great with that. He really helped me 0:11:38.690 --> 0:11:41.650 with all the branches and the trees, and I've been 0:11:41.700 --> 0:11:43.740 trying to get that done for some time, and he's 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:44.940 really awesome. 0:11:44.980 --> 0:11:46.960 Hey, why didn't your brother help with that? 0:11:46.980 --> 0:11:47.500 Can I ask? 0:11:48.980 --> 0:11:49.580 Brother? 0:11:50.240 --> 0:11:52.760 I don't have a brother. 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:55.640 No, your brother was inside watching. 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:57.679 The yard work. Did you just say you don't have 0:11:57.720 --> 0:11:58.059 a brother? 0:11:58.080 --> 0:12:01.209 I don't have a brother, no. 0:12:01.610 --> 0:12:02.140 A brother-in-law? 0:12:02.230 --> 0:12:08.490 Wait. But now what you said is actually making sense now. 0:12:08.790 --> 0:12:09.670 What's making sense? 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:11.199 Nothing is making sense right now. 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:11.480 Hold on. 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:13.839 Mike was under the impression that you lived with your brother. 0:12:14.500 --> 0:12:16.120 That's what he said you told him. 0:12:17.340 --> 0:12:20.609 I might have told him that. Yeah. 0:12:21.350 --> 0:12:23.230 So who was the dude in the house? 0:12:23.250 --> 0:12:24.260 What's going on? 0:12:25.110 --> 0:12:28.850 Oh, don't hate me, but it was my ex-husband. We're 0:12:28.910 --> 0:12:31.710 still living together, but we are divorced. What? 0:12:32.270 --> 0:12:34.150 And he's watching and not helping? 0:12:34.210 --> 0:12:37.350 No wonder you divorced him. Tell him to get his 0:12:37.429 --> 0:12:39.270 ass out there and do the yard work himself. 0:12:39.290 --> 0:12:40.790 That doesn't make it better than being married and he's 0:12:40.809 --> 0:12:42.210 not doing the yard work. 0:12:42.550 --> 0:12:44.950 I don't want him to be out there. 0:12:45.350 --> 0:12:47.050 I wanted to make him jealous. 0:12:47.790 --> 0:12:48.010 Oh, no. 0:12:48.970 --> 0:12:49.729 Oh, yeah. 0:12:49.830 --> 0:12:52.290 Seeing another guy. 0:12:52.429 --> 0:12:55.740 You were using Mike. The whole thing was planned. I 0:12:55.780 --> 0:12:58.500 was speculating that you just wanted him to come over 0:12:58.520 --> 0:12:59.960 to do the yard work. 0:13:00.260 --> 0:13:01.219 A little of both. 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:02.220 Yes and no. 0:13:02.320 --> 0:13:03.920 I mean, he's a good looking guy. 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:07.400 I wanted to make your ex jealous. You were married 0:13:07.420 --> 0:13:07.620 to him. 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:08.350 You already had him. 0:13:08.730 --> 0:13:09.430 Yes. 0:13:09.710 --> 0:13:11.590 It does feel good, though, to get back at your 0:13:11.610 --> 0:13:12.250 ex a little bit. 0:13:12.390 --> 0:13:14.530 It was the only thing I could do to think 0:13:14.610 --> 0:13:16.850 of getting him to feel jealous, and he got to 0:13:16.910 --> 0:13:19.130 watch all of it, and I'm sure he was burning 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:20.459 up a bit from watching it. 0:13:20.540 --> 0:13:21.620 Oh, my God. 0:13:22.620 --> 0:13:26.460 You're probably right that your ex was burning up watching 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:30.260 that happen. But I feel like Mike might be burning up, too, 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:32.760 as he's listening to this conversation because he. 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:33.699 Is on the other line. 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:35.160 Yeah. 0:13:35.900 --> 0:13:37.660 And he's been waiting to talk to you. 0:13:37.679 --> 0:13:43.740 You've got a lot of men watching you from afar. Yeah. 0:13:43.940 --> 0:13:45.800 Yeah. 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:47.330 Yeah. I'm sorry. 0:13:47.390 --> 0:13:49.290 I just got to go through this again. All right. 0:13:49.429 --> 0:13:53.390 So you wanted me to pick you up so that 0:13:53.460 --> 0:13:56.040 you could show me off in front of your ex-husband 0:13:56.059 --> 0:13:58.679 that you told me was your brother. Just to make 0:13:58.720 --> 0:13:59.160 him jealous? 0:13:59.210 --> 0:14:02.910 You're really, well, you're a really handsome guy, yeah. 0:14:03.370 --> 0:14:05.209 I mean, that is flattering. 0:14:05.230 --> 0:14:07.309 And I do like you, though. I do. 0:14:08.630 --> 0:14:11.230 So, I mean, like, was there ever a moment where, like, 0:14:11.690 --> 0:14:13.130 you actually wanted to go on a date with me? Like, 0:14:13.170 --> 0:14:15.590 I'm confused. Did you just bring me over there to 0:14:15.610 --> 0:14:17.990 make him feel jealous? Because that's what it sounds like, right? 0:14:18.510 --> 0:14:21.630 That was the main reason. But in the two hours 0:14:21.670 --> 0:14:24.500 when I'm watching you cut and mow and do all 0:14:24.540 --> 0:14:26.860 those manly things, I was like, wow. 0:14:30.450 --> 0:14:34.270 So once you saw my manual labor, you were like, well, maybe. 0:14:34.290 --> 0:14:34.450 I was. 0:14:36.150 --> 0:14:38.030 Definite, not a maybe. 0:14:38.770 --> 0:14:42.570 Definite. You're still living with an ex-husband you're not over. 0:14:42.730 --> 0:14:43.970 What's definite about it? 0:14:44.190 --> 0:14:46.950