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Speaker 1: They talk better than they These are the radio blogs

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Speaker 1: on the Fresh Show. A right, I like writing in

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Speaker 1: our diaries, except we say them aloud. We call them blogs.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to do one today, deer blog. And I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure if anyone has ever been in this situation before.

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Speaker 1: But so last week, of course, was the holiday, and

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Speaker 1: we were off and my sister had the baptism for Mayve,

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Speaker 1: my almost one year old niece, and so we were

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Speaker 1: in Dallas at the beginning of it, and we did

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Speaker 1: the baptism thing and that was very nice. And then

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Speaker 1: normally we would travel to we go to the same place.

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Speaker 1: It's like a beach vacation. We go, and we've gone

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Speaker 1: every year for like twenty something years. We didn't go.

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Speaker 1: This year's plans got a little messed up. But like

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Speaker 1: for my parents, this is their one vacation a year

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Speaker 1: that they take and they invite everybody to come from

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Speaker 1: the family and it's fun. And it originally started because

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Speaker 1: we were trying to avoid certain family members and so

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Speaker 1: we literally just isolated ourselves to it an island where

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Speaker 1: certain people couldn't find us. Literally that was how this started.

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Speaker 1: It was it was it was to partition ourselves away

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Speaker 1: from members of the family that were required to be

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Speaker 1: included because my grandparents mandated it, and then my mom

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Speaker 1: of course had to host it too. So it was like,

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Speaker 1: in your house, you do the work, you do And

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Speaker 1: I love my grandparents, all right, Pete, but it was

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Speaker 1: you do the work, you do everything. And by the way,

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Speaker 1: we're inviting some folks that you do not like to

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Speaker 1: be in your home, well, because it's Thanksgiving. So anyway,

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Speaker 1: that got snapho and my sister's like, now we're having

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving in Dallas and have a nice Thanksgiving. Basically I

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Speaker 1: don't have enough room for everybody, which I love her,

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Speaker 1: but it's kind of true. She has a kind of

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Speaker 1: a small house. So we wind up going third wheeling,

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Speaker 1: your boy, you're third wheeling with my parents, as I

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Speaker 1: have been doing for decades now, to California, to Malibu

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Speaker 1: outside of LA and we stayed in a hotel and

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Speaker 1: my mom planned all of this. It was like, you

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Speaker 1: got your own room and want you to come with us,

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Speaker 1: you know, so you know, cause I don't know where

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Speaker 1: they I don't know where they I was supposed to

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Speaker 1: go and Thanksgiving because if I don't hang out with them,

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Speaker 1: I don't know where I'm supposed to go, and so we

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Speaker 1: show up to this place and I just have to

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Speaker 1: just say it like it is. This is a very

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Speaker 1: nice hotel on the beach, very very nice. This was

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Speaker 1: a this is a place you take someone to have

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Speaker 1: an affair. This was a sex hotel. Now it wasn't

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Speaker 1: if you're in the Chicago Land area, this wasn't Ciberis.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't like an actual like by the our sex

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Speaker 1: rental hotel that someone's parents on this show used to

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Speaker 1: go to when someone on this show was a child. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and that's traumatic now that you know what they what

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Speaker 1: they were doing when they went there.

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Speaker 2: Now that I'm aware of what happens there, and.

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Speaker 1: If you don't know, if again, if you're unfamiliar with

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Speaker 1: the Siberis, I would encourage you, if you're above over

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Speaker 1: the age of eighteen, to google what that is. It's

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Speaker 1: a it's a it's a slip and slide extravaganza. It's

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Speaker 1: a room with a shaky bed in a hot tub,

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Speaker 1: and it's or a hotel with rooms that have I

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Speaker 1: mean it is you go there to do that mirrors

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Speaker 1: and lads, yeah, swings and know into a garage and

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Speaker 1: you're right into the next door is the hotel room.

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Speaker 1: And none of you have ever been there. No, but

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Speaker 1: it's like even designed for discretion. Yes, like design No,

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Speaker 1: a little too fast right, so that people don't know

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Speaker 1: you're there. Even so, it wasn't that kind of hotel,

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Speaker 1: but it was like it was a sex It was

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Speaker 1: a very sexy hotel. Like this is absolutely a place

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Speaker 1: that you take someone to beat romantic. I had a

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Speaker 1: vibrating bed. No, I was a microwave in there. I

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Speaker 1: wish I did. No, But the hotel I was at prior,

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Speaker 1: I saw a microwave in the hallway, and that's how

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Speaker 1: I knew you were there. I was like, Kiki came

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Speaker 1: put it in your room. I literally put that on

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Speaker 1: my story. I'm walking down the hallway of this first

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Kiky's here.

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Speaker 2: Everybody knows I love a microwave in my hotel.

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Speaker 1: It's a birthday surprise. But like there were it was

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Speaker 1: all couples. There was like an old guy and a

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Speaker 1: this is absolutely the place that you take your girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: not your wife. And here I am just cruising around

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Speaker 1: my parents at this place. And it was kind of

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Speaker 1: go there when I was a kid. I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: I know what was happening. You know, did you ever

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Speaker 1: stay in this room? I hope not. It was it

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Speaker 1: was just weird. It was it was weird, and it

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Speaker 1: just made me feel very alone because I needed I

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Speaker 1: felt like I needed to be doing what everyone else

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Speaker 1: was doing at this place, which was just it. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not sure I have you guys, I ever

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Speaker 1: felt completely out of place? Like have you ever been

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Speaker 1: like on a romantic I almost felt like I was

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Speaker 1: crashing my parents romance, Like I think I should have laughed,

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Speaker 1: like I should have just gone back to it. I'll

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Speaker 1: see in Arizona, like I'll be there. I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: get a turkey sandwich or something. And this is not

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Speaker 1: to make me feel bad. I'm just like I'm third

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Speaker 1: wheeling my parents at this very sexy, romantic place, and

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Speaker 1: I felt like, I don't know, I felt a little inferior,

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Speaker 1: find somebody, you know what I mean? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: But you guys, have ever been e like been invited

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Speaker 1: to something and you're like, oh god, this is absolutely

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Speaker 1: a couple's affair. I mean most of you, most of

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Speaker 1: so I guess it wouldn't matter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't go ahead, people, I'll just say I

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Speaker 2: haven't been in a relationship ever, pretty much like I mean.

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Speaker 1: Well, you're married, so, but.

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Speaker 2: IED's a marriage. I swear like my little boyfriends, like

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Speaker 2: you know, like my little rug dealer boyfriend, Like that

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Speaker 1: That was a bit of going. Should be taking you

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Speaker 1: to these nice places. He was a street pharmacist.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we learned that today, a street pharmacist, So shout

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Speaker 2: out to them.

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Speaker 1: This dude was flushed.

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Speaker 2: Should have been taken you to everywhere you think he would.

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Speaker 2: Apparently business was bad, but that's okay. So I feel

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Speaker 2: like I always make myself at home though with any

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Speaker 2: would just make myself at home, like you don't hang out,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna come with you, guys. I'm gonna chit chat,

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Speaker 2: We're gonna yap. I never wanted to fill out of place,

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I mean I love I do love to

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Speaker 3: a third wheel. It's never made me feel weird. But

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Speaker 3: the part I resonated with your story is I think

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Speaker 3: it was over COVID, Like in my Thanksgiving plans like

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Speaker 3: finally changed, like when there finally was like a different

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Speaker 3: plan for it felt very odd and I don't remember

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Speaker 3: where my parents were, but for some reason I couldn't

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Speaker 3: be with them, and so I had to do Thanksgiving

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Speaker 3: with a friend, you know, and like we cooked and stuff.

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Speaker 2: But that's odd.

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Speaker 3: I mean, your tradition was like the same thing for

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Speaker 3: so long. That was the part that I felt weirder about.

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Speaker 3: I think it was just a big emboldened acknowledgment that

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Speaker 3: I probably should just just throw the talent and get

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Speaker 3: married or something, because I was just I just felt like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: one of these kids is not like the other, like

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Speaker 3: it's probably time, you know, right, Yeah, that's a reason

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Speaker 3: to get a relationship, though I'm.

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Speaker 1: Not saying that's the reason. I'm saying that, like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm the only one, Like maybe I didn't need to

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Speaker 1: get my act together here, Like I don't know.

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Speaker 2: You are together? Like what are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: Well, I just mean it's enough is enough? Come on,

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Speaker 1: enough is enough being the only guy at the party

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Speaker 1: that is on coupled consciously uncoupled. So like, what did you.

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Speaker 3: Do like when they were off or whatever would you

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Speaker 3: do at this whole Oh no, I just you drank it.

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Speaker 1: I just went everywhere with I did everything they did. Well.

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Speaker 1: The funny thing is, I think my mom was more

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Speaker 1: excited to be hanging out with me than my dad.

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Speaker 1: She hangs out with him all the time. Look, I'll

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Speaker 1: be honest, I don't hope my parents again lived to

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Speaker 1: be four thousand years old. But you know, I cherished

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Speaker 1: the time because it's very rare that I get isolated

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Speaker 1: grandkids and all the distractions. So I'm grateful for that,

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Speaker 1: but it's all It was also just just big sort

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Speaker 1: of like I just felt like someone's supposed to At

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Speaker 1: this point in my life, someone's supposed to be doing

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Speaker 1: this with me, and I don't know who that person is.

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Speaker 3: According to who though, what's supposed to.

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Speaker 1: Well, I agree, but I guess it's there are times

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Speaker 1: one of the times where I'm like, this could be

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Speaker 1: so much better and more balanced if I wasn't just

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Speaker 1: in a room eating everyone's chocolates that were on the pillow.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's a waste of a hotel, hotel room

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Speaker 1: for you know what I mean, it's really sexy hotel room. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: those views were sexy. You Posted's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Your parents can waste of time, you know, you know,