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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update, we got an awesome email and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know the full story, but from reading it,

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like this dude, Ronald took a girl named

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<v Speaker 1>Carrie to a PTA meeting and they got hammered. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm talking about. Yeah, I had no idea they

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<v Speaker 1>did that at PTA meetings and I don't have a kid,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think I need to start going to more

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<v Speaker 1>PTA meetings. Sounds fun. Ronald looks up. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>he does sound like a drunk dad. You're right, geez. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really understand the full story from your email.

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<v Speaker 1>All I got was PTA meeting and drinks, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, dude, I'm in, when's the next one? Well? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe we should actual star of bringing alcohol

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<v Speaker 1>to some PTA meetings. Doing it kind of boring, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's not quite exactly what happened. Are you going to

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<v Speaker 1>tell us that you went to the PTA meeting and

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<v Speaker 1>then you went to drinks after. Yes, that's the normal

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<v Speaker 1>course of events. Yeah, geez, that's lame. At least go

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<v Speaker 1>to drinks before the PCA meeting. That's not a bad idea. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so what happened? What is the story with your email? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So I met this woman, her name's Carry That part

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<v Speaker 1>is right. Um, we both have children, we're both single parents, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>our kids both go to the same school. And I

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<v Speaker 1>met her at a PCA function. We were put in

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<v Speaker 1>charge of a portion of an event, a fundraising event

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<v Speaker 1>for the school. So we got paired up. We're handling

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<v Speaker 1>our portion of the event, and so of course now

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<v Speaker 1>we're working together for a few hours. Isn't like really

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<v Speaker 1>get to know each other. So after the event was over,

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<v Speaker 1>I decided to ask her out for like a celebratory

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<v Speaker 1>drink kind of like that like kind of a day

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<v Speaker 1>but not really right Okay, okay, right, if she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like you, you could pull out and be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I just met his friends exactly. I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>put too much pressure on her, you know, okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>we did. She said yes, So we went out to

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<v Speaker 1>a nearby bar where they supplied alcohol. I didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>to bring it myself. Thank you. Did it turn into

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<v Speaker 1>a date or was it more of just an actual

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<v Speaker 1>celebratory drink. From my perspective, I thought it turned into

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<v Speaker 1>a date. Uh. It was away from all your other parents,

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<v Speaker 1>away from two kids, just being on our own, two

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<v Speaker 1>adults people in an adult establishment. I mean the bar

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<v Speaker 1>that could have gone the wrong way. Yeah, hey, let's

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<v Speaker 1>leave this pta meeting and go to an adult club.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you getting? Adults do what adults do, well, Ronald,

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<v Speaker 1>But no, what are the bar? We had, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like more in depth conversation, and she was really witty.

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<v Speaker 1>She was very queer oriented. She loved her job, she

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<v Speaker 1>works fully heart like. She was like a really good mom.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a good person, and it was like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun to be around. My gosh, Ronald, you should

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<v Speaker 1>write her resume. Yeah. I really think she's great. Um, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>except for her communication skills, because she's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>Well yes, I mean we have spoken since the date

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<v Speaker 1>um at other meetings and around the school, and I've

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<v Speaker 1>asked her out, but I did that only through text.

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<v Speaker 1>She hasn't said no, and she's not giving me any

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<v Speaker 1>vibes that she's you know, is definitely not interested. But

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<v Speaker 1>I can I feel like she's hesitant to actually say yeah. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>what did she respond to you when you texted her

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<v Speaker 1>asking her out on a real date? What was her

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<v Speaker 1>text response? She didn't really forthrightly answer my text question. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>she said that she would look forward to seeing me

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<v Speaker 1>at the next PPA function, but she never like directly

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<v Speaker 1>answered my question. Yeah, yea, sounds like she's saying no

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<v Speaker 1>without those words. I mean, I can, I can understand that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, why, why she's trying to be nice to me,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a nice brush off, but we had such a

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<v Speaker 1>good time and it seemed like we did kind of

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<v Speaker 1>connect a little bit. And I know it's hard for

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<v Speaker 1>you know, divorced parents to you know, behind the connection

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<v Speaker 1>and like an adult connection with another person. And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want this one to slip away. Like I really

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<v Speaker 1>feel like Carrie and I have at least a shot

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<v Speaker 1>at something that we both you know, haven't had in

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<v Speaker 1>a while. Have you tried showering her kid with gifts?

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<v Speaker 1>She's just out of the blue, get the kid to

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<v Speaker 1>like you. Then she's forced to deal with you probably,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I mean, I have a hard enough time

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<v Speaker 1>showering my kid with gifts. I can afford a second

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<v Speaker 1>shot already. Well, you only have to buy gifts long

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<v Speaker 1>enough until she sleeps with you, and then you're fine,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a month or two. Maybe that is horrible. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think rolls that way, man. Okay, now, Ronald,

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot to ask, did she give you any indication

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<v Speaker 1>other than just your guys? Is great conversation that she

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<v Speaker 1>was romantically interested in you while you guys were out

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<v Speaker 1>to drinks. Actually, while we were at the bar drinking,

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<v Speaker 1>the bartender at one point came up to us and said, um,

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<v Speaker 1>excuse me, sir, but would you and your wife like

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<v Speaker 1>to order? And she said no, no, no, no, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not married. But then I quickly kind of said, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is our dating anniversary, uh, and she laughed. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then we got like, you know, we got some free

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<v Speaker 1>drinks and stuff um for the rest of the night. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>that's nice. Yeah, which technically is true. You know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was an anniversary of the first night, so it was

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<v Speaker 1>the first night. But okay, yeah, there we go. So

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<v Speaker 1>we had a really good connection. We had a great

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and I just I feel like there is something

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<v Speaker 1>more there. Okay, well we'll play a song and then

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<v Speaker 1>come back and get your second date update. All right, great? Thanky, yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on broking Cuble in the morning, right in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of a second date update, and Ronald is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and he wants to call Carrie and Ronald

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<v Speaker 1>before I give a recap of the date and everything else.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting messages lately on social media from people who go, hey, ju, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you never say that you like anybody. You always sound

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<v Speaker 1>like such a jerk. So Ronald, yeah, out of obligation,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to tell you I like you. That sounded

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<v Speaker 1>so sincere, and I hope this is really successful second

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<v Speaker 1>date for you. There? That was hard, wasn't it, buddy?

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<v Speaker 1>It was a little difficult, but good I did it.

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<v Speaker 1>And Ronald, you're probably pretty pumped too. Oh, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Just to recap, Ronald met Carrie at a PTA meeting.

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<v Speaker 1>They actually worked on a project together, and then after

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<v Speaker 1>he invited her out for a celebratory drink. They had fun,

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<v Speaker 1>but now she's not committing to another date with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants to know why Ronald, Now, it does

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<v Speaker 1>sound like maybe Carrie isn't romantically interested in you yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think you can convince her on a second

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<v Speaker 1>date that you are I don't know, sexy, I hope. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think we're attracted to each other. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's just a matter of I guess, being comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>with the idea of dating another parents at the school

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<v Speaker 1>your kid goes to. Yeah, I could see that it'd

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<v Speaker 1>be risky. Man. Plus, how do you go to a

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<v Speaker 1>PTA meeting with your significant other and not make out

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time? You know? I never thought about that. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I look at all the angles. All right, Well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna dial her number right now and see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can get her on the phone and find out what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on. Okay, all right, hell well all right, can

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<v Speaker 1>I speak to carry please? This is she Carrie? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. It's a radio show in the morning. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>have you ever heard of it? I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>you want my number? But yeah, no, sorry, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>a little like I have heard of it. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I don't listen to the radio all that much. So okay, Well, congratulations,

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<v Speaker 1>you're about to be on it because we do a

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<v Speaker 1>segment on our show called the Second Date Update. And Ronald,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a dude that you met in your PTA meetings,

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<v Speaker 1>said that he really enjoyed going out to drinks with

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<v Speaker 1>you the other night. But it seems like you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to see him again. Um no, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>had it. I had a nice time with him when

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<v Speaker 1>we went out, but um, I don't know. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. He sounds like a really nice guy

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<v Speaker 1>and he emailed us, you know, because he feels like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he did something wrong or you don't feel the

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<v Speaker 1>same about him, but he really liked you. So is

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<v Speaker 1>there a reason you don't want to see him? I

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just don't know that it's a

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good idea to data another parents from my

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<v Speaker 1>kids school, so I could see how that's valid that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to complicate things at your child's school.

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<v Speaker 1>But also as a woman, if you really like someone,

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't care that much. I feel, um, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, a little bit of a nervous laugh there, though.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it makes you feel like there's something else.

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<v Speaker 1>Um okay, So honestly, Um, the real reason is, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he was a nice guy, but another parent had warned

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<v Speaker 1>me sort of about him, and yeah, you warned you

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<v Speaker 1>about what? Well, she kind of warned me, or this

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<v Speaker 1>person warned me about about him. And then I found

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<v Speaker 1>out that the other parents at the PTA were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about us like he was telling them. Huh, he was

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<v Speaker 1>telling them what what do you mean? It just the

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that she was telling me. It didn't make sense

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<v Speaker 1>to me at the time, but now now it sort

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<v Speaker 1>of does, Like, well, we weren't in on that conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>so we have no idea what the stuff is. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you tell us what the stuff is? I really just

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to embarrass him. Okay, well, I mean that's valid.

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<v Speaker 1>But Ronald, by the way, is a good friend of

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<v Speaker 1>mine and he doesn't mind being embarrassed. He also is

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<v Speaker 1>the one that asked for us to do this, And

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<v Speaker 1>we tell everybody, if you're gonna do a second at update,

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<v Speaker 1>you might hear something that you don't want to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's prepared. Yeah, and I'm sure he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know what other parents are saying about him at the

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<v Speaker 1>PTA meeting. I know I would want to know okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>well we got drinks. He was really interested in my work,

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<v Speaker 1>and I at the time great, but yeah, he was

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<v Speaker 1>just really interested. He was overly interested in my work

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<v Speaker 1>and asking me a lot of questions about my job.

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<v Speaker 1>And he said that you were like an awesome career

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<v Speaker 1>woman and that was something that was really attractive to him. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's more to that, Like the person told me

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<v Speaker 1>that he's mainly interested in the benefits of my work.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do, Um, I work, Okay, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to brag. I worked a really a really well

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<v Speaker 1>known company, okay, and I do really well for myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very fortunate. And it was basically told me that

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<v Speaker 1>he's using me for my benefits, Like I get one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent medical and dental, I get free vision like

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<v Speaker 1>those kind of benefits. Actual benefits, Yeah, not sextual, not

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that. Yeah, Like he wants better health coverage

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<v Speaker 1>for his family and he's willing to date someone to

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<v Speaker 1>get it. Well yeah, basically, yeah, that's exactly how it

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<v Speaker 1>was put to me. And right, like, all of those

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<v Speaker 1>questions on the date made sense because I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been out with somebody that's just excited about

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<v Speaker 1>what I do. Like, as soon as I said, the

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<v Speaker 1>company was like all over it really so so they

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<v Speaker 1>get they give you dental and vision there, Like, how

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<v Speaker 1>does the what's the percentage? Is? That's crazy? Right? I

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<v Speaker 1>know they choot us really really well. So, Um yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's that must be a huge

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<v Speaker 1>issue for him, But I really don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who's benefit wagon, you know what I mean? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but what if though, he just really really liked you

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<v Speaker 1>and then that was just kind of a bonus to him.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I prefer it's he thought I was

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<v Speaker 1>really charming, really beautiful, Like this shouldn't even be a

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<v Speaker 1>should be sort of like a bonus. It shouldn't it

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<v Speaker 1>be a priority. Yeah. I think that he does feel

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<v Speaker 1>that way, but you know, we should just ask him. Hey, Ronald,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that she's also beautiful and has a

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<v Speaker 1>great personality? Ronald? Yeah, Ronald's on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>to this conversation. Don't want to talk to you. Hi, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>it's Ronald. Hello. Um, oh my god, guys, No, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I apologize if that's how everything came off, and

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<v Speaker 1>that that's what you were hearing about. Me. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I do like the benefits. It's I don't see the

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<v Speaker 1>huge issue is about it because, uh, you know, as

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke said, like that your benefits package is a part

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<v Speaker 1>of who you are as a person, is like where

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<v Speaker 1>you are in life, taking your whole deep I'm supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be saying to recover right now. Man, So you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're admitting that it is for the benefits. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's I'm saying that. It's like like you said, it was,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's a bonus. I mean, I really enjoyed spending

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<v Speaker 1>time with you, but like you know, we have kids,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we have responsibilities and stuff, and the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that you are very well taken care of at your

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<v Speaker 1>job it is a wonderful bonus to who you are

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<v Speaker 1>as a person, all right, besides all of the other

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<v Speaker 1>awesome stuff about you. God, I don't know I feel

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<v Speaker 1>about a guy telling me like basically like I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to be taken care of from Like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be taken care of. Well, the good

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<v Speaker 1>news is with your benefits from your company, we'll both

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<v Speaker 1>be taken care of. That is true, And so Carrie,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should think about it. Would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with Ronald again on a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>we will pay for it again. Something else you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are getting for free. And then you can see if

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<v Speaker 1>Ronald is really only interested in your wait before you

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<v Speaker 1>went after Like, I know, everyone gets obsessed with love

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<v Speaker 1>and people really want to focus on that and that,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's great and that's part of it. But the

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<v Speaker 1>thing is, like, eventually love's not going to pay the bills,

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<v Speaker 1>like like look full fade and stuff like that, but

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<v Speaker 1>like benefits are forever, Okay, okay, Ronald, Yeah, Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate what you're you know, trying to do, and um

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<v Speaker 1>think you're a nice guy. And I well, I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>we'll continue to have fun at the PTA meetings, but

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's where maybe it needs to end.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't get Yeah, he didn't get you with your

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<v Speaker 1>dental coverage is sexy. He didn't. And I'm sure there's

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<v Speaker 1>some girl out there that will love that. But for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I yeah, it's a little too practical maybe right, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I would prefer my lips or something like but Carrie,

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<v Speaker 1>all the other stuff, you know, we can do that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something we can grow and learn and and and

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<v Speaker 1>and it can happen naturally. I'm not saying I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be a part of that. I do think you're beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>and we can stay beautiful together with all of the

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<v Speaker 1>health benefits you have. All right, Ronald, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna work for you. Man, I don't think Carry

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<v Speaker 1>wants to go out with you again. But I was

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to be practical and honest. I mean, that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all I'm trying to do. I appreciate your honesty.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think Carry wants to date you though now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I at the end of the day, do you

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it as well? But it's a definite note for me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>there it is. So I wish you all the basket

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<v Speaker 1>luck with everything. Um, I'm sure you'll find your your

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<v Speaker 1>benefit sugar mama. All right, thanks Carrie. Well, Ronald, looks

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<v Speaker 1>like you didn't get a second date. And also more

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<v Speaker 1>bad news for your second date. Updates aren't covered under

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<v Speaker 1>your insurance plants, or you're gonna have to pay out

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<v Speaker 1>a pocket for this your bill. Okay, Wow, way to

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<v Speaker 1>kick a man while it's down. Don't get too hurt

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<v Speaker 1>when you're down there, because again the insurance broken jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning text in at seven eight five nine

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<v Speaker 1>two that says my company offers terrible health benefits. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess what I need to do is just start looking

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<v Speaker 1>for somebody to date who has good ones. The guy

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<v Speaker 1>in today's second date update if you missed it, Ronald

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call Carry. They met at a PTA meeting.

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't calling him back. He was confused. We got

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone and it turns out that Ronald

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<v Speaker 1>was actually more interested in her health benefits that she

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<v Speaker 1>gets at her job than her No. He said that

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<v Speaker 1>it was an added bonus, right. He wouldn't stop talking

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<v Speaker 1>about her health benefits. So it makes me think he's

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to find somebody to take care of him,

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<v Speaker 1>not really necessarily a gold digger healthcare digger. Yeah, something

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I don't know. Remember, if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second day up date, all you have to

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<v Speaker 1>do an email of the show. We will call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who didn't call you back.