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Speaker 1: today's second date update, we got an awesome email and

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Speaker 1: I don't really know the full story, but from reading it,

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Speaker 1: it seems like this dude, Ronald took a girl named

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Speaker 1: Carrie to a PTA meeting and they got hammered. That's

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Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Yeah, I had no idea they

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Speaker 1: did that at PTA meetings and I don't have a kid,

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Speaker 1: but I think I need to start going to more

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Speaker 1: PTA meetings. Sounds fun. Ronald looks up. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: he does sound like a drunk dad. You're right, geez. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I didn't really understand the full story from your email.

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Speaker 1: All I got was PTA meeting and drinks, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, dude, I'm in, when's the next one? Well? No,

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Speaker 1: I mean maybe we should actual star of bringing alcohol

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Speaker 1: it's not quite exactly what happened. Are you going to

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Speaker 1: tell us that you went to the PTA meeting and

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Speaker 1: then you went to drinks after. Yes, that's the normal

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Speaker 1: course of events. Yeah, geez, that's lame. At least go

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Speaker 1: to drinks before the PCA meeting. That's not a bad idea. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so what happened? What is the story with your email? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So I met this woman, her name's Carry That part

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Speaker 1: is right. Um, we both have children, we're both single parents, okay,

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Speaker 1: our kids both go to the same school. And I

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Speaker 1: met her at a PCA function. We were put in

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Speaker 1: charge of a portion of an event, a fundraising event

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Speaker 1: get to know each other. So after the event was over,

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Speaker 1: I decided to ask her out for like a celebratory

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Speaker 1: but not really right Okay, okay, right, if she didn't

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Speaker 1: I just met his friends exactly. I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: to bring it myself. Thank you. Did it turn into

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Speaker 1: celebratory drink. From my perspective, I thought it turned into

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Speaker 1: What are you getting? Adults do what adults do, well, Ronald,

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Speaker 1: But no, what are the bar? We had, you know,

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Speaker 1: She was very queer oriented. She loved her job, she

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Speaker 1: She's a good person, and it was like a lot

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Speaker 1: I speak to carry please? This is she Carrie? How

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Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a radio show in the morning. Okay,

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Speaker 1: have you ever heard of it? I don't know how

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Speaker 1: you want my number? But yeah, no, sorry, I'm just

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Speaker 1: I don't listen to the radio all that much. So okay, Well, congratulations,

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Speaker 1: well we got drinks. He was really interested in my work,

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Speaker 1: And he said that you were like an awesome career

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