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Dear 12 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I've been married for three years and I 13 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 1: met my husband at my nephew's birthday party. He had 14 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 1: dropped off a bunch of tables and chairs in his 15 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:42,520 Speaker 1: pickup truck, and he spoke to me in the parking 16 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 1: lot as he left. He told me that day that 17 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 1: he was going to marry me. I got butterflies because 18 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: he was tall and bald, and he looked through my 19 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: soul when he talked to me. We stayed outside talking 20 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: for so long that I was late to the party. 21 00:00:57,520 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: A few days after the party, we went out on 22 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: a first state and he admitted that his ex wife 23 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:06,400 Speaker 1: is a party planner, and she owns an upscale events company, 24 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: and he helps her with the business because he owns 25 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: a small percentage of it. He says they're good friends 26 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 1: and have a good co parenting relationship. We got married 27 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: eight months after we met, and we've had our ups 28 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: and downs with his ex wife. She's cordial, but we've 29 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 1: never clicked. My husband told me she's not an outgoing 30 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: person and she doesn't have a lot of girlfriends. Because 31 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: of that, I have to endure her calls to my 32 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: husband whenever she wants to vent over a business matter. 33 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 1: I honestly think she should only call him when there's 34 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 1: an issue with their son, but I try not to 35 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:45,119 Speaker 1: nag him. But where I draw the line is having 36 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: her plan my fortieth birthday party. I turned forty on 37 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: October second, and my husband had a small dinner cater 38 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: in our community clubhouse. The next night, he threw me 39 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: a surprise party at a lounge, and I was truly 40 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: surprised in more ways than one. The party was beautifully 41 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: done and everyone wore black and gold, but the party 42 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: planner wore an all gold dress to upstage me. It 43 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 1: was his ex wife. He allowed this woman to plan 44 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: my birthday party. This is unacceptable. He doesn't see the 45 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 1: harm in it? Am I being a brat? 46 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: Oh boy? 47 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 3: Wrong? 48 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 1: Wrong, wrong, on just so many levels. This was just dumb. 49 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 1: What was your husband thinking. You don't let your ex 50 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 1: wife plan your current wife's birthday party, especially if they 51 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: don't get along, so you had no idea she was 52 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 1: going to help him, meaning he didn't tell you because 53 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:44,959 Speaker 1: I know you would have shut the whole thing down 54 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: if he had told you that his ex knew everything though, 55 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,839 Speaker 1: because well she had to know everything so she could 56 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: plan it and then through, you know, just throw it 57 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 1: in your face and try to upstage you, which she 58 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: did with her all gold after everybody had to wear 59 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: black and gold. This is the one time he should 60 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: not have led his ex wife plan the party because 61 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: it was for you. And again, and you and his 62 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 1: ex don't get along, so anything could have happened and 63 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: your party would have been ruined. Also, this had nothing 64 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 1: to do with her. This was supposed to be all 65 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: about you celebrating turning forty. The crazy thing is, though 66 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: you knew what he did and what they did together 67 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: before you guys got married, he was still in business 68 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: with his ex and he still helped her because he 69 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: owns part of the business. He said, So, I mean, 70 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: you know, the only thing I could tell you at 71 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: this point is that your husband, of course, was wrong. 72 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: You know that he did a very stupid thing. He 73 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: needs to find a way to fix this immediately. He 74 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: needs to become a silent partner with his wife from 75 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: now on in this business, Steve. 76 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 2: I don't know. 77 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 3: It's a couple of things in here. You met him, 78 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 3: he was gonna marry you eight months lady, y'all get married. 79 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 3: You know, hell, he was tall, he was bald. I 80 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 3: get it. You know, I get it. I'm tall, I'm bald. 81 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 3: I get I get it. I get it. You got it. 82 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 3: You saw what you wanted it and have it eight 83 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:26,039 Speaker 3: months later you did it. Yeah, okay, cool? Uh. 84 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:27,039 Speaker 2: I just don't know. 85 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 3: I don't. 86 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 2: I really don't. The problem. 87 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 3: In his letter, his ex wife is a party planner. 88 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 3: She owns an upscale events company, and he helps her 89 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 3: with the business because he owns a small percentage of it. 90 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:42,719 Speaker 2: But they're divorced. 91 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 3: He said, they're good friends and they have a good 92 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 3: co parenting relationship. Well, y'all got married, and y'all in 93 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 3: had you ups and downs with his ex wife. You 94 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 3: gonna have that. The ex wives is exies for a reason. 95 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 3: Listen to me, she's pardi. But we've never clicked, ain't 96 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 3: you ain't finna click? She don't click with nobody. Your 97 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 3: husband told you she's not an outgoing person. She don't 98 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 3: have a lot of girlfriends. Because of that, I have 99 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 3: to endure her calls to my husband whenever she wants 100 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 3: to vent over a business matter. I honestly think she 101 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:19,679 Speaker 3: should only call when there's an issue with that son, 102 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 3: but I try not to nag you. 103 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 2: Well, if he's part of. 104 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 3: Owner in the business and they own this business together, 105 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 3: I think you're gonna have to own up to this 106 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 3: little piece of baggage that he has. He's a co 107 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 3: business owner with his ex wife, so I think he's 108 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 3: gonna have to deal with that issue, and then they're 109 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 3: gonna talk about the sun. 110 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 2: But where you draw the line is her fortieth. 111 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 3: Birthday party she planned your forty. 112 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 4: God said, God, yeah, boy, all of this leads down 113 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 4: to that fortieth party. 114 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 2: I guess you knew nothing about it. 115 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 3: But when we come back, we'll get into what happened 116 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 3: at that party and what made you know that she 117 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 3: planned what was at that part. 118 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 2: That was so hurt? But not you? What did she do? 119 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 2: Good Lord of mercy happeners. 120 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 1: All right, listen, we're gonna have part two of Steve's 121 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: response to today's Strawberry letter coming up at twenty three 122 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. You don't want to miss it. 123 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry letter, subject he let her plan my party. 124 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 125 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 1: hard morning show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap 126 00:06:56,720 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter, the subject he let her plan my party? 127 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, she married this tall, handsome ball man, such a 128 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 3: such a group of us, you know you couldn't help Yeah, 129 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 3: and good looking, you know you couldn't help it. You 130 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 3: got sprung, you saw, yeah, eight months all that's in 131 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 3: the letter somewhere. And he had a pickup truck too, 132 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 3: that did it right there? To pick up truck, Well, 133 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 3: pick what you need to pick me up? You know 134 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. You got to pick up truck. You 135 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 3: need to put something in the back. You know what 136 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 3: I'm saying. Yeah, it's got all that room back down. 137 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 3: Won't you put this in the back of that down? 138 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 3: Yea anyway, they got married. Now he has an ex 139 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 3: wife and they own part of this big event playing 140 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 3: company together and they have a little child. Uh, never 141 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 3: really click with the wife because she's just not an 142 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 3: outgoing person. He told you his wife don't have a 143 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 3: lot of friends, So y'all ain't never really clicked. Y'all 144 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 3: don't have jeups and downs with the ex wife because 145 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 3: of everything. So anyway, and you have to endure when 146 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 3: she calls her husband to vent over. 147 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 2: The business matter. 148 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 3: And I honestly think she should only call him when 149 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 3: there's an issue with their son. Well, you can't realistically 150 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 3: expect that he came with the baggage. He told you 151 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 3: they had a business together, and he's a small percentage 152 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 3: on us. So I think he's gonna have to bite 153 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 3: the bullet on that one. And so those are gonna 154 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 3: be some phone calls. That's okay, I got that here 155 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 3: your problem. But where you draw the line is having 156 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 3: her plan my fortieth birthday party. 157 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 2: I turned fortieth on October second. 158 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:38,199 Speaker 3: My husband had a small dinner catered in our community 159 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 3: club house. 160 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 2: Okay, that was good. He did that and had a 161 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 2: small dinner some friends over. It's small. 162 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 3: You ain't got no, she ain't got no friends. You know, well, 163 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:49,439 Speaker 3: it's not for her. But you had a dinner party 164 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 3: at the clubhouse. My bad, wrong woman. 165 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 2: But then the. 166 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 3: Next night, though, he threw you a surprise party at 167 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 3: a lounge, and I was surprised in more ways. And 168 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:07,199 Speaker 3: the party was beautifully done, all right, now cool? Everybody 169 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 3: wore black and gold, but the party planner wore an 170 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 3: all gold dress to upstage me. Yeah, she did that dish, 171 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:19,319 Speaker 3: came out with that all gold dress on. Only thing 172 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 3: black she had on was some shoes, unless she found 173 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 3: some gold shoes too. Christian Lubiton's with the red bottle. 174 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, what did you have on? Though? Let's talk about you. 175 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 2: You told everybody to go black. 176 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 3: You want, you want that little black ass dressed with 177 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 3: the little but you wore gold jewelry. You in there 178 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 3: looking like everybody else. That's what really happened. You wore 179 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 3: that little tight black dress. But she came in with 180 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 3: a tight her gold dress. Yeah tighter. What else was 181 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 3: at the party that you let it know? It wasn't you? Well, 182 00:09:56,640 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 3: you don't really care for ham and cheese, right, had 183 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 3: a whole lot of ham and cheese. Yeah, you don't 184 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 3: like angel food cake, But your cake was angel food. 185 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,679 Speaker 2: She just in that got cake all around her mouth 186 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 2: is so good. 187 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't really like orange juice, but mimosas was 188 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 3: flowing from a fountain. 189 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, she had played this party. Now. Everybody else was 190 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 2: loving the party. 191 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:32,600 Speaker 3: But you can't believe the dress she had on. Oh lord, 192 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 3: it's the dress she had on. She was in there 193 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 3: with it right and tight. The problem is though, See, 194 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 3: you ain't got no babies. See she had a baby, 195 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 3: still got a little bit of baby wait on her. 196 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 3: But she had found some spanks that could help her, 197 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 3: and she had them spanks on too. But you knew 198 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 3: they were spanks, but nobody else knew. She looked real 199 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 3: put together. This party was a disaster, your dumb ann. 200 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 3: Her husband let her plan at the party, and she 201 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 3: came to the party. First of all, y'all ain't cool. 202 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 3: Why is she at the party? Is she the party planner? 203 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 3: She didn't have to go to the party. She ain't 204 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 3: your girlfriend. Y'all ain't cool? Why is the ex wife 205 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 3: at your party? Ain't no way I could pull that on. 206 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 3: It ain't no way closer. That don't ever happened to 207 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 3: me was my daughter got married from my first marriage. 208 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we were all there. Yeah, y'all who you 209 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: were nervous that night? 210 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 2: I sat between her and if you're on the. 211 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 1: Front, rook, you were nervous that night. 212 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 2: The rehearsal dinner the night before. I needed that to 213 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 2: be over. 214 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,319 Speaker 4: I'm afrazy, but they were cool though. 215 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:59,680 Speaker 3: They were cool, super cool. First time they ever met, 216 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 3: first time they ever talked. I'm sitting there the whole time. 217 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 3: Why are y'all. 218 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 2: Talking, sweating, pulling? 219 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 3: Please, we don't need to compare nothing this food and 220 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 3: had her at the party and invited her to the party. 221 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 3: He's so damn stupid. 222 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 2: It was bound to happen. 223 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 3: See, I think that all he can do. No, you're 224 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 3: not being a brat. That's a common thing for a 225 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 3: woman to feel that way, another woman playing in her party, 226 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 3: especially his ex. You're not being a brat. He offers 227 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 3: you an apology, he should just say, hey, baby, I 228 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 3: didn't know it would affect you that way. I'm deeply sorry. 229 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,199 Speaker 3: I was just trying to do the best I can. 230 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 3: I know she's really good at it, And no matter, 231 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 3: don't don't say that, dog, don't say I know she's 232 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 3: really good at don't say she good at anything. Say 233 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:49,199 Speaker 3: I should have left that heifer at the divorce court. 234 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 3: And I'm sorry I have any you know, but she 235 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 3: has a child of ours. God, I wish she'd just. 236 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:58,439 Speaker 2: Go away all right. 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