1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for stealing my dad's one 2 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: million dollar inheritance without telling him? You know, if I'm 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: just going off the bat, I would say, you're kind 4 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: of an asshole. 5 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 2: But think of the millions, the millions. You gotta think 6 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 2: of the money, John. 7 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: What about what about me? That is a good question, 8 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:20,760 Speaker 1: you know, what about my needs? 9 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 2: Hey, Hey, don't let anyone stop you from being a 10 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:25,959 Speaker 2: selfish piece of shit. 11 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: All our fathers did was raise us and care for 12 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: us all our lives. I mean, that's it. That's all 13 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: they've done. 14 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 2: That's all they've done, and it should uh, it should 15 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 2: be given a small nod yep, and then if fuck 16 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: you exactly, they blurw this out, blow. 17 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 1: This out, just kidding. We love you dads. 18 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love your dad. I had a great walk 19 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 2: with my dad this morning. 20 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: Actually, there we go, see fatherly wisdom. Don't give him 21 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: a million dollars, but you I can bet your ass 22 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: if he's getting a million dollars and take that chair 23 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: right away, all right. My mother died when I was sixteen. Ouch, 24 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: not a great start. My dad married a woman two 25 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:14,399 Speaker 1: years later. This feels like a haiku. Let's way. My 26 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:21,119 Speaker 1: mother died close. That's the feeling. Wait it's five seven 27 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: five yeah, yes, yeah, I think my mother. My mom 28 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: died at singing. 29 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 2: My dad married another another another woman two years later 30 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 2: woman woman to make sixteen haku. 31 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 1: Yes, this is we did it. We did it. Call 32 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: his Japanese poets that sneeze because brilliant. There we go 33 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: that that that's that's the comedy though, that's the comedy 34 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: that people pay to see. He pay us. 35 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 2: Please, I'm trying to get that tesla money not not 36 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 2: not a car, just a testa coil. I don't want to 37 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 2: do that, the magic stuff. 38 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: Of course. 39 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:17,959 Speaker 2: My grandparents, my dad's parents hate my stepmother. I really 40 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 2: don't like her either. I love how like short and sweet. 41 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 2: It's like bam bam punch. Even after my half siblings 42 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 2: were born, my grandparents never warmed up to her. 43 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, hey, stepmother, how you doing what? I hate you? 44 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 1: I hate you, and my family hates you. 45 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 2: We don't hate you. My grandparents are quite wealthy. My 46 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 2: thought my father has been banking on this inheritance for 47 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 2: a while. It's so like the sun structure is very clear. 48 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 2: He has even not been paying into his retirement because 49 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 2: he's so sure that hell inherit millions. 50 00:02:56,080 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if I go that far down, daddy, daddy, Oh, oh, 51 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: we gotta go. We gotta have a talk. We gotta 52 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 1: put some milled at that four oh one. Ka. 53 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 2: I just found out on Saturday that I'm getting the 54 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 2: majority of my grandparents' estate. My father is getting a 55 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:17,119 Speaker 2: token amount of fifty thousand dollars, so we can't dispute it. Oh, 56 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 2: so he think he's thinking he's getting millions and like, hey, 57 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 2: here's here's fifty k, which. 58 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 1: Is not bad, not bad, but it's it's. 59 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 2: Really giving that to him, so he can't be like, whoh, no, 60 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 2: I was screwed out of this money. It's like no, no, 61 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 2: this is very intentionally. We're giving you this sum of money, 62 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 2: but no more. 63 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: Oh that is so painful. 64 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 2: But I feel like the person in this story that 65 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 2: we need to watch out for is a stepmother that 66 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 2: everyone hates. 67 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: Like why does everyone hate her? And what is she planning? Yeah, 68 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: this evil stepmother definitely has some skeletons in her closet, 69 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: Like OP needs to make sure to research her with 70 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: public data check just to be safe. 71 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and if you want to research the people around you, 72 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 2: absolutely check her bio do it. My grandparents made me 73 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 2: promise not to give out any money after to like 74 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 2: the father, right, and I intend to keep my word. Okay, 75 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 2: So Daddy's not getting shit, yeah, I mean guess except 76 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 2: the fifty k. 77 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 1: I'm I'm curious to see why. 78 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 2: But I do feel really guilty that my father just 79 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 2: spends his money as it's coming in because he's relying 80 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 2: on money he won't get. I also found out that 81 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 2: my dad isn't a lot of debt. Am I the 82 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 2: a hole for not telling him? 83 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: There's more we need to know. 84 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like there's definitely something going behind the scenes. 85 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: Is it just because the grandfarents hate the step mother 86 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: that much? 87 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: I think it's probably both they they don't like the 88 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: stepmother and something else. Something, something's up with the dad. 89 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:37,119 Speaker 1: That's my suspicion. Maybe he killed the real mother. Done done, 90 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: That's how she died, and they're like, hey, as a 91 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: as a, that's a plot twist. 92 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 2: So so you learn your lesson. We're not You're only 93 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 2: giving you fifty thousand. 94 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 1: Dollars, no more murdering. But there is an update. 95 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 2: Well, actually, before we go to an update, is op 96 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: the a hole for not telling you think. 97 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: Okay, no, but I think, op, he's got to figure 98 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 1: out something because I don't know. I don't think he 99 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 1: should leave his dad hanging. I think you should figure 100 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:14,919 Speaker 1: out a way to respect his grandparents' wishes while still 101 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: figuring out if he can get his dad to like yeah, 102 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 1: because there's gonna be so much drama, and he's just 103 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: like he's like depending on this. He's like blowing his 104 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:25,239 Speaker 1: money like it's not going to be good for him. Yeah, 105 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: and then he might come back way later in life 106 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 1: and be like, Ope, I need help take care of 107 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 1: daddy baby. Yeah. A lot of people have asked me 108 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: for updates, so I thought i'd make one. It was 109 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 1: kind of positive. 110 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 2: I agreed with many of the comments my first post 111 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 2: where they said my grandparents were setting me up for drama, which, dude, 112 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 2: one thousand percent, they definitely were. 113 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: That is true. Yeah. 114 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 2: I talked to my grandparents and shared these concerns they 115 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 2: were understanding and set up a family meeting with them, 116 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 2: their lawyer, my dad, his wife, and myself. I sent 117 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 2: some tea coming tea and crumpets there will be I 118 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 2: was secretly hoping that my grandparents would over some of 119 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 2: their issues with my dad and his wife. But no, 120 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 2: my dad's wife started crying and wailing when they revealed 121 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 2: that I would be getting most of the inheritance. I 122 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 2: could see my grandmother almost exploding. My dad, to his credit, 123 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 2: looked disappointed, but said it was their money to do 124 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 2: as they wish. 125 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 1: Okay, that's a respectable move on the dad's part, but 126 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:24,159 Speaker 1: still like fuck, a respectable move. But but he's fucked. 127 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 1: But he's fucked. Yeah, it's his own fault. Yeah. 128 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,479 Speaker 2: Is it just because he married this guy? I feel 129 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 2: like it's just because he married this time mother. I'm 130 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 2: really confused. 131 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 132 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 2: The new agreement is that my father will receive seventy 133 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 2: five thousand dollars twenty five k bomb okay, all right, 134 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 2: and each of my younger siblings will receive a fifty 135 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 2: thousand education fund. My dad's wife did call me a 136 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 2: few days later and acted very foolishly. 137 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: You foolish? Whoa you thought your tomfoolery would get this money. 138 00:06:56,040 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 1: You sound like an old time villain, like you could 139 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: thwart by evil plan. Will nay? I say, this is 140 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 1: not your day. I came to do more than play, 141 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: and when my say has been said, you will all 142 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 1: be dead, so go ahead, the floor will still be red. 143 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: You should definitely be like those people that do the 144 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 1: shows at like Disney or whatever, which, by the way, 145 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: can me tell you a tale or two that made 146 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 1: you know Jake Novak SNL cast member and I'm the 147 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: next contender. Yes, yeah, he works at Disney, like like 148 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: like the barber shop in tree or whatever. And then 149 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 1: people on TikTok found out and they started going there 150 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: just to like film him, and like, wow, TikTok fame 151 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 1: man changes you. That's right. And she somehow thought that 152 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: insulting my mother would help her. How someone give her 153 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: assaulting it's a problem mom, Jesus Christ. I told her 154 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: that if she ever said something bad about my mom again, 155 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 1: I would tell my grandparents about it, and that seemed 156 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 1: to shut her up. There we go. I like that, snap, bro. 157 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 2: My relationship with my dad has never been the greatest, 158 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 2: but I haven't really seen any further decline in the relationship. 159 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 2: But I feel a lot of relief now. Thanks everyone. 160 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm still like confused, as I agree, it's like 161 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 1: very harsh to totally like remove him so much. Remove 162 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,559 Speaker 1: the dad from the will just because of like this 163 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: wife he knew. I feel like Ope may or somebody's 164 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: leaving something out because this doesn't make this. This math 165 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: ain't math. And literally it's like, why would you not 166 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: give your own at least like and then it's Ope 167 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: getting millions, but the rest of the siblings are getting 168 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: just a fifty k fund Like that's weird too. I 169 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: think Ope is omating some stuff. Honestly, why is Op 170 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:57,679 Speaker 1: getting all the money? Because yeah, ohp he's getting all 171 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 1: the money. His siblings are getting fifty K four education, 172 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 1: not even fifty k cash, and then the dad is 173 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 1: getting seventy five k, Like I don't. 174 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 2: Know, and dad thought he was going to inherit million millions, 175 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 2: not one million millions. So that that there, there's there's 176 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:15,080 Speaker 2: a few million left over here. 177 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: I'm suspicious. I'm suspicious of Ouk. Yeah, I'm sorry. I 178 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: just don't know what's going on. I'm confused. I don't 179 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: think the step mom. I think there's there's more to this. 180 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: There's more, there's more. 181 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 2: Maybe I think someone was mad at tell us, tell us, 182 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 2: I know, what do you guys think