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Speaker 1: Nicole is on the phone and apparently she paid for

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Speaker 1: the second date. Actually, Okay, Well, we'll see if we

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Speaker 1: how to garnish his wages. So we're cool. We got

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Speaker 1: you covered. Tell us a little bit about the guy.

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Speaker 1: What's his name? His name is Andy? Andy? All right,

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Speaker 1: and what did you do with Andy? Well? We met

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Speaker 1: like I mind opening the door, right right, Okay, but

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Speaker 1: He Nicole, I hate to stop you, but you want

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Speaker 1: to call this guy for another date? Right? I think

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Speaker 1: exactly what I'm thinking. Yeah, sounds horrible. No, he's super hot, Nicole.

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Speaker 1: Is that what it is? He's super hot and you

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Speaker 1: a project and change the guy that you want to date.

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Speaker 1: I don't work. I know how that sounds. I know that,

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Speaker 1: know what, Nicole, you tell yourself anything you need to

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Speaker 1: next thing up looking jubil in the morning dates. If

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Speaker 1: They went out for dinner and Andy didn't open a

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Speaker 1: Let's give him a call. I mean, have you told

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Speaker 1: they don't understand. They weren't there, Nicole. They didn't get

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Speaker 1: ignoring you to talk about his fantasy. You guys don't

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, I'm gonna dallas on him right now

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Speaker 1: get it, trust me, Okay you say so? Here we go. Hello. Hi?

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Speaker 1: Is this Andy? Yes? This is him Andy. What's up? Dude?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: All right, how can I help you? Well, I'm calling

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Speaker 1: somebody who listens to the show this show meaning what now,

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Speaker 1: I don't understand the radio show Brook and Jewel in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. The one that you're currently on. Oh I'm sorry, man,

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Speaker 1: WHOA can I go? Said? Okay, well, can you give

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Speaker 1: I can't do this. She looked exactly like my sister. Okay,

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Speaker 1: purposely doing those things. Hell yeah, I did that. And

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Speaker 1: I totally I totally get it, and I'm glad to know. Now. Wait, Nicole,

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Speaker 1: Andy was kind of a jerk on the date. That's

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