1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: Caitlin's Entertainer report is on the Fread show. 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 2: Wow, we were having an off air conversation and that 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 2: came real quick, real quick. 4 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 3: Sometimes we got to talk on the air. Yeah, this 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 3: is the job, right. 6 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes I forget that I was, but I was 7 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 2: enthralled in what you were talking about about etiquette, and 8 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 2: so I was distracted. 9 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: And I'll add it to my list of things. We 10 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: talked about it before. But I think it's a generation 11 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: but we're talking about gift giving and it's a generational thing. 12 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't know. I looked up etiquette for baptisms yesterday. 13 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 2: I didn't know what I was supposed to do. Same, 14 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 2: So I gave cash. That's what I did. That's the 15 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 2: greatest gift of all time. I said, this is for 16 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 2: her college fund. 17 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: I know we can come back to it probably tomorrow, 18 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: but like it's my mom is of the generation that 19 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: you give gifts, the wedding gifts. Yeah, and what she 20 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: doesn't understand is that people don't really want that anymore. 21 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: And I understand that there's also that generation. Giving cash 22 00:00:56,960 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: is rude. Getting money to loved ones is rude. It's 23 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 1: not really all that thoughtful. But the reality is I 24 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: find most people our age and younger would rather you 25 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: just give them money. 26 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 2: I always thought gifts were for the shower, you know, 27 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 2: that's what you register for. And then but I don't know, 28 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 2: And you also didn't you say it was like a 29 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 2: southern thing too. 30 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 4: So I don't know. 31 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 3: I really don't know. 32 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,559 Speaker 1: But it's like, I guess, it gets a little tricky 33 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: when you're giving money to like an infant, you know, 34 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: like for example, I gave a gift to someone and 35 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: then they commingled the funds. They like, hey, can you 36 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,639 Speaker 1: sign this over or no, no, there was I opened 37 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: an account and put money in it, and then they 38 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: commingled the funds. 39 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 4: Oh yeah. 40 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 2: My boyfriend yesterday was like, I never saw any of 41 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 2: my baptism money. 42 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, you did it. I got mine, like my 43 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 3: little bonds. 44 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:47,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, honestly, I'm not enticed. I shouldn't really 45 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: be entitled to anything. That was no raising twenty once 46 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: since they paid for college and every day. If you 47 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: want to keep the fifty dollars savings and a little 48 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: piece of silver whatever, you can have it. But I 49 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: guess my thing is I can see you for a baptism. 50 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: Why you would give money, because it's if it all 51 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: goes into an account for her. And even if it's 52 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,359 Speaker 1: like five hundred bucks now you know, I mean combined 53 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: or a thousand or whatever all the guests combined to give. 54 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 1: Then once she turns eighteen, that's gonna be more. 55 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:20,639 Speaker 5: Yes, you know, I'm grateful for whatever, and I'm very 56 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 5: honest about that. 57 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 3: Like a gift is a gift, so thank you. 58 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 5: There's envelope or a plate of food cookies, Like I 59 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 5: won't take any gift Like that is very sweet and 60 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 5: it's all for the baby, and I appreciate it, but 61 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 5: I think it doesn't really matter, right, Like would you care? 62 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 4: No, I wouldn't care either. But like when when you 63 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 4: do get married, like you have to realize that I 64 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 4: have to do something with that gift, Like I have 65 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 4: to try to pack that away, Like I got a 66 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 4: table full of gifts, so boxes. 67 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 3: I'm like, we'll send you to the house. 68 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think you also have to sort of read 69 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,119 Speaker 1: the room too. And if someone's very very young getting married, 70 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: they might want or just want a house, and they 71 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: might want actual stuff because they don't have anything. If 72 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: I get married, you don't know, he needs to buy me, 73 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: you know, a plate or something, because I have it. 74 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: I have a plate. 75 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 3: You have one plate. 76 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: I have one. 77 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 3: I noticed that I. 78 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 1: Might need another one for her. 79 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 3: Right in her own house, right right? 80 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 1: Well that's true, right, so yeah, maybe she will need 81 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: some things all one story. 82 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 3: Should we not? 83 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: Yeah? 84 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 3: It was like the red lights blinking at me. 85 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 2: Will Smith is never going to live down his Oscars 86 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 2: slap because it was brought up at the Emmys last 87 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,239 Speaker 2: night for no reason. 88 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 3: Really, he wasn't even involved. 89 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 2: But Slow Horses creator also named Will Smith, won the 90 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 2: Emmy for writing the show, and when he got to 91 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 2: the mic, he couldn't help but mention the other Will saying, 92 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 2: first of all, relaxed despise. 93 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 3: Despite my name, I come in peace. 94 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 2: Even though that was years ago, people still thought it 95 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 2: was really funny. 96 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 3: A lot has obviously happened since then. 97 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 2: And just speaking of the Emmys Real Quick, the Bear 98 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 2: Hacks Showgun Big Winners Morning Show, The Crown, that reality 99 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 2: competition show, The Traders, Baby Reindeer, the woman who played 100 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 2: Martha one for Best Supporting Actress. 101 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 3: So there you go. 102 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 2: If you want to catch up with The Fred Show 103 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 2: on social do so on Instagram. 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