1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: The Jewels show on demand Jewels Dirty Little Secret? Hello, Hey, 2 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 1: what's up? Hello. It's always super awkward because naturally, in 3 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 1: a conversation you want to go, hey, what's your name? 4 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: But I can't do that because it's a dirty little 5 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 1: secret and everybody remains anonymous. So you have a dirty 6 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 1: little secret you want to share with us? I do. Okay, 7 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:33,880 Speaker 1: now's your time, go for it. So my soon to 8 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: be ex husband is cheating on his girlfriend with me? 9 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: Oh wow, Scar with who you're soon to beat me? Oh? Okay, 10 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: that's what it is. So you're all you would like 11 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: have divorced him basically, Yeah, it's almost done and he 12 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: has a girlfriend that he lives with. But you guys, 13 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: he's still up with me. Yeah, you guys still hooking 14 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: up If you guys are getting divorce. Um, that's a 15 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: good question. Worse, it's good. It's good. It's just we're 16 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: still friends. Everything's like mutual, you know what I mean? Right? 17 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: But do you want to be hooking up with him? 18 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 1: Or is it like you? I mean, you know what 19 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: I mean, like our is it the one that you're 20 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: in the same rooms? I've done with him from the 21 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 1: roomber you know, like sixteen years, so it's kind of 22 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 1: what I'm used to, I guess. Okay, so she has 23 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: no idea, no idea. How often do you guys hook up? 24 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 1: Maybe once a week? Okay, so it's a regular thing. Well, 25 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 1: I have a personal question for you. So, like you, 26 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 1: you're very aware obviously that you two are hooking up. 27 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: Does it not bother you knowing that he's out here 28 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: hooking up with another girl too? Like, yeah, you're helping 29 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,559 Speaker 1: him keep a secret. But how does that not because 30 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: that would eat me away, eat away? Oh well, I 31 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: mean that's kind of part of our divorces. So he 32 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: wasn't a faceful person. He's never going to be. Oh no, no, no, 33 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: no no, because now he has his cake and he's 34 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: eating it really is, and you're you're giving him all 35 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: the goods and it's like, I think that you need 36 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: to do your fund somewhere else. Girl. You should tell 37 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: his girlfriend or that. Yeah, I mean he's getting over 38 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 1: on everybody, right, Like he's getting over on you. For sure. 39 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 1: You divorced him because no, I filed right because he cheated, right, 40 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 1: That's why I was I would answer, was assuming, But 41 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 1: you divorced him because he was cheating on you. Now 42 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: he's got a new girlfriend and he's cheating on that 43 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 1: girlfriend with you. You say he's never gonna be faithful. 44 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 1: I mean, is it that good? I mean no, I 45 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: just I don't really know who still I feel like 46 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: maybe once the divorce is final, a little stop. Are you? 47 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: Were you upset? Like? Are you upset that he cheated 48 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: on you? And stuff? Does it because make you angry? 49 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 1: I mean I was in at the beginning, but it's 50 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: should I mean, we're better off separate apart, right for exactly, 51 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: So maybe you should actually be separate and apart and 52 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 1: not let him be continuing to mess with your feelings 53 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 1: like this, because I think, unfortunately that might be way. Yeah, 54 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: he's gonna keep doing it because he's he's got you 55 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: under his thumb. I don't mean that in a rude way, 56 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: but he definitely does like what you're right, Yeah, okay, 57 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: and he's going to keep using you. Don't don't let 58 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: that happen to yourself because also, I'm sure at some 59 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,519 Speaker 1: point you want to move on, right I do, yeah? Yeah, 60 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: and you probably you probably don't want to cheat on 61 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 1: your person, no, right, but I guarantee you you keep 62 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,079 Speaker 1: talking to this cat. Even if you find a new boyfriend, 63 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 1: he's going to get you to cheat because you just 64 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: give into him. If you stop giving into him, then 65 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: you can find someone else. Also, you can know for 66 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: yourself you're not going to be unfaithful. Yeah yeah, I 67 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: mean I just don't want to. I just don't like 68 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: seeing people get used like that. Do you guys have kids? Okay, 69 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: well that makes it more a little bit more difficult. 70 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: Yeah sure, yeah, guy, have like a other person too, 71 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: because I'm not gonna piss off someone to throw on 72 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: my kids, you know, yeah, for sure. You know what 73 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: you should do is just make it for you because 74 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: obviously you have trouble saying no to this dude, right 75 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: never just meet up with him when you guys are 76 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: switching off kids or whenever you have to be around, 77 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: and meet up with him in public. Just don't let 78 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: yourself be alone, because if you're alone, you might do 79 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 1: stuff that you might do stuff you want to do 80 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: but don't want to do, like because you obviously enjoy it. 81 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: But don't do that to yourself. That's what I think. 82 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:24,919 Speaker 1: Meet in the McDonald's parking lot, and if it happens there, 83 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: you guys are getting arrested and everybody's gonna come, so 84 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: don't be doing anyway. You're right, you're right. The Jebel 85 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: Show on demand,