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Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with her radio. Hi, Hi, everybody,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the o Geez. We're back in the house.

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Speaker 1: We're back. We're back another week. You can't get us yet,

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Speaker 1: you cannot cannot get rid of us yet. We are

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Speaker 1: back and this week with a very special Uh you know,

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Speaker 1: I guess we'd say a special special, very special special

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Speaker 1: because you know, a lot of news right now about

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Speaker 1: the bachelor's stuff is regarding the breakup stuff right like,

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of the couples that are hitting the

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Speaker 1: skids this month and last month. Um, Michelle Young uh,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not sure how to say her fiance is

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Speaker 1: it Nate? Is it is a cool way to spell Nate.

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Speaker 1: Katie Thurston her second break up with someone from her

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Speaker 1: seasonally going through and then Tasia Adams and Zach Wow

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Speaker 1: back but still yeah, right Claire in Dale, Claire, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm Claire for a long time. I know you have

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Speaker 1: to She kind of has been around, kicking around for

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Speaker 1: a while. She literally like bailed on her season early

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Speaker 1: like half yea because she was finally answered, she you know,

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Speaker 1: put it all done and they split up. Peter Webber,

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Speaker 1: the Pilot, he had his second breakup, right, Kelly flannagain

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Speaker 1: or maybe third break up? So he was he was

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Speaker 1: definitely staying in his dating pool. He wasn't. He wasn't

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Speaker 1: kicking around as far as we know. But well, I'm

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Speaker 1: I have I think the news of or the gossip

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Speaker 1: at least was that he was kicking around outside of

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Speaker 1: his pool as well. But you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I remember Old I Am Funny from his season. For

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Speaker 1: some reason, I remember his mom. That's why I remember

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Speaker 1: from his season. I don't even remember him. I don't

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Speaker 1: remember what he doesn't remember his mom? Who handful? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: holy gol. I yeah, I agree, um, And I hope

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Speaker 1: that she learned a little bit about herself and communication.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know, I just I that was a

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Speaker 1: hard season, man, especially as a mother, like I remember

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Speaker 1: being like, really would I I don't know that I

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Speaker 1: would say these things to my son's fiance or friend

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Speaker 1: or girlfriend. Yeah, you know, I think I was accused

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Speaker 1: that whole time and for many years after that, I

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Speaker 1: was probably a little too uh nice and polite stuff

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Speaker 1: you know, just people who used to. I used to

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Speaker 1: do these specials where people would go, you know, hey,

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Speaker 1: were you like hungover something? Today? I'm like, why because

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Speaker 1: you were way meaner and funnier on this one than

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Speaker 1: you usually are. Like, so, I feel like I get

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Speaker 1: a little bit of a wrap for being the nice guy,

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Speaker 1: and I'm okay with that. But I just think there's

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Speaker 1: a time and place for certain things, and that she

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Speaker 1: was piece work. Um, so I feel like talking about

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Speaker 1: the breakups that what's interesting to me. I actually just

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Speaker 1: asked Ryan what his thoughts were. You know, what are

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Speaker 1: your thoughts on bachelor breakups? And why do they happen?

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Speaker 1: And and um, obviously there are many reasons that they

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Speaker 1: can happen. I mean, just like you take the relationships

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Speaker 1: that are within Bachelor Nation, take them outside of Bachelor Nation.

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Speaker 1: I've said this before, I think on the podcast, but

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Speaker 1: you basically like, if you compare our relationships with within

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Speaker 1: the show to the relationships that you've had outside of

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Speaker 1: the show, how many don't work out before you're on

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Speaker 1: the Bachelor. Like I have felt like it's always been

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Speaker 1: unfair for people to say there's so many breakups within

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation, but there's so many breakups in real life too,

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Speaker 1: so so I just want that to be known to

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Speaker 1: start this conversation, because even though we do have breakups

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Speaker 1: within Bachelor Nation, it's going to happen. I mean, it's

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Speaker 1: real life, and and you get to know these people

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Speaker 1: in a very short period of time and totally isolated

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Speaker 1: have to worry about your family, your work, your friends,

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Speaker 1: any other obligations, responsibilities, even your rent, like you know

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Speaker 1: that stuff is paid for prior. I just feel like

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Speaker 1: we live in a bubble and to compare it to

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Speaker 1: what happens in real life would be a bit more fair. Um,

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Speaker 1: in terms of how many breakups happen. I think you

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Speaker 1: and I are a direct reflection of the success rate

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Speaker 1: of the show. Right, you had a successful relationship coming

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Speaker 1: off the show. My relationship coming off of the show,

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Speaker 1: you know, I think, and and you can definitely speak

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Speaker 1: from your personal relationship as to why you guys were successful.

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Speaker 1: I think you know a lot of it is a

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Speaker 1: lot of it's going to be How would I even

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Speaker 1: say ancillary to the to the relationship in and of itself, right,

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Speaker 1: we especially during our times on the show, which is

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Speaker 1: that show. Either I gave a promise ring you got

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Speaker 1: but you did. I proposed and or you didn't. Let

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Speaker 1: Charlie you do no, no, no no, yeah no, Charlie

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Speaker 1: didn't propose. You got proposed to and I gave a

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Speaker 1: promise ring rather, But it was really when you look

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Speaker 1: at the first day of taping to last day of taping,

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Speaker 1: we were at best five and a half six weeks.

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Speaker 1: At best we were six weeks. Yeah, right, So to

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Speaker 1: fentail we were six weeks, and that included the first

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Speaker 1: probably talking more about five weeks and a pressure cook

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Speaker 1: even that, I mean, your your quality time with this

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Speaker 1: you know, not talking to anybody except focusing on this relationship.

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Speaker 1: So you get one day and right one day, get

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Speaker 1: one day to meet their family, and not even an

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Speaker 1: and that and it's crazy. That mean, when you look

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Speaker 1: interested like you you won the lottery in then you

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Speaker 1: and Ryan found each other. I mean, I will say

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Speaker 1: Even in house when Ryan and I started, beds were

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Speaker 1: say it to this day whenever I'm asked. But I

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Speaker 1: was always like, man, don't get me wrong, I had

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Speaker 1: end up on Hometowns with you. So I went home

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Speaker 1: and I was watching it unfold with everybody else. But

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Speaker 1: I knew I was right. You know, it's gotta be Ryan.

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Speaker 1: that is for sure. But it's not like we're perfect.

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Speaker 1: it's it's because it's because these people get so much

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Speaker 1: Remind me of you saying that you continue your story.

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Speaker 1: But that's what I think. There's a couple of things

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Speaker 1: she was awesome. Um. But you know you said it best.

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Speaker 1: You said, you know, some people just aren't ready. Well,

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Speaker 1: I was at this point where, you know, I didn't

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Speaker 1: propose for a reason. And the reason I didn't propose,

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Speaker 1: and I used to say it to you all the

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Speaker 1: time jokingly when we talked about, like I don't want

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Speaker 1: a bunch of you know, marriages and divorces. But you

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Speaker 1: know I did that anyway. Um. But the point is,

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Speaker 1: like your annual break up and then yeah, I was like, okay, well,

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00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: and it would last like a month and then we

426
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 1: get back together. That's why finally I was like, I

427
00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,679
Speaker 1: gotta leave l A. If I don't leave l A,

428
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 1: We're to keep doing this till we're like nine, right,

429
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 1: and never get married. Okay, So how was it the

430
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 1: first time, maybe the first time that you guys broke

431
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 1: up in um, you know, a public arena because you

432
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 1: had been on the show and he also, you know,

433
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 1: has Jerry and kind of was in the public eye

434
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:28,119
Speaker 1: anyway a bit. So how was that break up for you? Well?

435
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,399
Speaker 1: I think you know, I had moved to l A

436
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 1: after the show, and that was the only reason I

437
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: had moved there, obviously, And so when you when you're

438
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: in that situation, I felt so vulnerable to him and

439
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 1: like I knew that the breakup needed to happen because

440
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 1: he was going to rehab and I but I also

441
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 1: at the same time felt like public pressure to stay

442
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: together and to like make it work. Um. And then

443
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 1: I also felt like, oh god, I just moved out here,

444
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 1: I sold my home in Texas. I what am I

445
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,479
Speaker 1: going to do? I don't have anyone, I don't know anyone.

446
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 1: I was just totally at his mercy in terms of friends, yeah,

447
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 1: and everything. So it was it was weird. I mean,

448
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,880
Speaker 1: it was not the easiest situation. Hence why we kept

449
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: getting back together, right right, That makes total sense that

450
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:23,439
Speaker 1: you felt at his mercy. You know, those are perfect

451
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,119
Speaker 1: words I feel like to describe it. It's it's hard.

452
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: I feel like being in the public eye, people have

453
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: asked me that over the years, do you feel pressure

454
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 1: to stay together? And even though I don't, um, I

455
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 1: don't necessarily, I do feel like if we ever broke up,

456
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 1: holy cow, people would be coming at us like why

457
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 1: did you do it? Well, I don't think about like Ashley,

458
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 1: what was it? Ashley? What was the Bachelorette? And the

459
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 1: guy with JP and Ashley? A JP and Ashley? Yeah,

460
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 1: I had only met them one time, but for some reason,

461
00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 1: I felt like I knew them so well. You know,

462
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:01,679
Speaker 1: it broke up. I took your heart and I like

463
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:05,639
Speaker 1: started going to therapy just to work through it. But

464
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:07,439
Speaker 1: it was one of those things where it was just like,

465
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 1: wait a minute, what, Like, you guys can't split up,

466
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: you know, you're on the Bachelor, Like what So I

467
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: remember thinking that, you know that if we didn't go

468
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 1: through the the share like I did right out of

469
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,199
Speaker 1: the gates, then they shouldn't break up ever, you know,

470
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 1: And that's kind of it was right that, I mean,

471
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 1: I guess that's kind of true. Like I wonder one

472
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:30,160
Speaker 1: of the producers was saying, um, actually with Sugarman, she said,

473
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 1: how long I would love to see kind of like

474
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:37,400
Speaker 1: a pie chart or something of how long had when

475
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,680
Speaker 1: couples break up? When do they break up? If they

476
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 1: break up within a year, is that the most common time?

477
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:49,239
Speaker 1: When did you and Charlie break up first? Well, the

478
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: first time was probably right out a year. Yeah. And

479
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 1: then but again it was not because we didn't care

480
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:00,080
Speaker 1: about each other love each other. It was because he

481
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: had a major drinking problem. And so it's kind of like, okay,

482
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: you can't die if you don't go to rehab. So

483
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: it was different. Um. True, But I think that I

484
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 1: think it kind of falls within the normal kind of

485
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 1: relationship numbers. To be honest, I think it's probably around

486
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 1: two years. Like I think eighteen months to two years

487
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 1: is probably when most people break up. It's when you

488
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 1: need to really know someone well. And I think also

489
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: this show, we were talking about it before you came

490
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: on is you know, you're together for such a short

491
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: period of time, and you're in this bubble where you

492
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,880
Speaker 1: don't have to deal with anything else in your life,

493
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 1: your work, your family, your friends or anything. And and

494
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 1: so it's very you can't even drive anywhere, yes, especially

495
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: worry about going to the grocery store. Realm. You're in

496
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 1: the same realm that we were in, which is basically

497
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: like we boil it down, it's about six weeks. But really,

498
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 1: when you think about it, with all the free stuff

499
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: in the post, it's about five weeks that you're hanging

500
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 1: out with this person and twenty four of your other suitors.

501
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 1: So it's like you know, and it's you never you know.

502
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 1: Like you said, it takes about two years for a

503
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: normal couple to really get to know each other through

504
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 1: trials and tribulations. For a couple off the show, I mean,

505
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:18,679
Speaker 1: it's such a pressure cooker and so fast that you

506
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: know you're accepting everybody at that kind of face value

507
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 1: until you go through it, and going through a rehab

508
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:28,360
Speaker 1: situation like you guys did, had to be so just unbelievable.

509
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I can image the pressure on that oh

510
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,479
Speaker 1: so hard, and you know, I think about the couple's

511
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,880
Speaker 1: now to do it, and I think, God, think about

512
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 1: the added pressure of social media exactly and the competitiveness

513
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 1: of that and what they go through. Like, I feel

514
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: like those relationships we're gonna start to see dwindle a

515
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 1: lot quicker because it's probably not as much substance there,

516
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: just with social media aspect. Yeah, you're right, you said competitiveness.

517
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 1: But it's like the comparisons as I you know, I

518
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: have a third sen year old daughter and she uh,

519
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: they both have social media accounts, but um, I try to,

520
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: you know, at least talk to him about a lot

521
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: of the things that are happening, and the comparison question

522
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: comes up a whole lot more. I mean I brought

523
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,479
Speaker 1: up to Blakesley that when I was young, there were

524
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 1: still comparisons. I mean, you compared yourself to your best

525
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: friend and to your friend that friend who got invited

526
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: to the party and why didn't you? And the one

527
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: who's dating the boy that you like and so why

528
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: did he choose her? And like, the comparisons are like,

529
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: you know, have always been around, but now it's like

530
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: hyper focused on comparisons. So it's hard, it's really hard.

531
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 1: I can't imagine um having had tried to solidify a

532
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 1: relationship with social media around. You know, it would have

533
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: been extremely difficult. Not that we couldn't have done it,

534
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 1: because I believe in our relationship, but at the same time,

535
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 1: like that would have been really hard. Yeah, if you've

536
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: ever been a angle guy in l a um like me,

537
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 1: I have time in my life, I have exclusive you

538
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: know you and you say you date someone who's really

539
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 1: popular on Instagram, right, which everyone who does on this

540
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: show comes off now and they are. I mean, it

541
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: was a full time job watching a girl I was

542
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 1: dating basically you know, live her life, like we were

543
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: never at at a restaurant where she didn't never phone

544
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 1: in her hand or you know, like it wasn't killing

545
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 1: her food or you know, don't know how people do that.

546
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 1: So really now it probably takes like five years to

547
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 1: really get to know someone if you're dating them, probably Yeah,

548
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 1: like with their phone, like they're constantly sharing their life

549
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: with their phone. Yeah, it's always more important to put

550
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 1: it out there than it is to live the moment, right, right,

551
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 1: So sad drives me crazy. It drives me crazy too,

552
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: Like so Sarah, we had we're old, I guess now

553
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: the world. This is why this podcast is called the

554
00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 1: o g Yes, we're the original gangsters, but our gangs

555
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 1: does but I like to call us old gals and

556
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: old guys, so yeah, we're the old people. This question

557
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 1: has come up to would you go on the show

558
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 1: knowing what you know now about how social media impacts

559
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: things and you know, change it from back then to now?

560
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: And I still would, just because my relationship has been successful,

561
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: but it would be really difficult, really difficult. I give

562
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 1: it to the people who who have had a relationship

563
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:49,239
Speaker 1: from the show where social media was around and they

564
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: are still successful, Like maybe Rachel and Brian are probably

565
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: one of those, and then um Jade and Tanner. I

566
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 1: bet social media has been around with them. But also

567
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: I think that it is so in my relationship. I

568
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 1: am more of the Instagram poster or you know, social

569
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: media um active on social media. Okay, I'm way more

570
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 1: active than Ryan is, but even that I'm not that active.

571
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 1: So I think you need to have a relationship where

572
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: you either understand each of your roles, so one of

573
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 1: you is really active, one of you isn't, or both

574
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 1: of you were active. If you understand, if you come

575
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: into a relationship understanding each other and respecting each other

576
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 1: for what you want to do, then great. But if

577
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 1: one of you is, like Jade and Tanner are pretty active,

578
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: but they both are, and they do it in a

579
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 1: very kind of humorous way, I feel like, so I

580
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 1: think that that's probably easier than if one of the

581
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: people in the relationship was posting about everything and the

582
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:56,719
Speaker 1: other person was like, why can't you just sell things private? Yeah,

583
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 1: if you're not on board with it, it's bad news.

584
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 1: Experience good news. Yeah, And I think that's where communication

585
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 1: comes in. That's where you know, from from the get go,

586
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: from when you're on the show, you need to just

587
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: be super open and honest with each other about what

588
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: you want to do. And then I think that the

589
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: problems come when one person changes their mind, you know,

590
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 1: and and that's bound to happen. People are allowed to

591
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 1: change their minds, but in a relationship, if they change

592
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 1: their mind and they want to be somebody else, that's

593
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 1: kind of difficult. And don't forget like we were also

594
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: from a different time too, when we were you know,

595
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 1: the model syllabic job description. Even though you know, mortgage

596
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 1: broke up financial as you know, it was like, you know,

597
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: not when they go on there and they're like, you know, uh,

598
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: wearing a dolphin costume is their job, you know or whatever.

599
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 1: So it's like things have changed so much. The show

600
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: has a little more of a sense of humor about

601
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: itself today, which is nice. But you know, as far

602
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: as it goes from that, So you guys go through it,

603
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 1: you end up breaking up, then you end up you

604
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 1: go back to Dallas and is that where you met

605
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: your husband and and started you know, Sarah Bryce two

606
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: point oh or or how is it? How did it go? Yeah?

607
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 1: So I, um, I we had that fifth breakup and

608
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I've got to leave town if

609
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 1: if this is gonna work, And so I moved to Dallas.

610
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 1: He did come and find me a Dallas one time,

611
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 1: and he did for that trip other than like a

612
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 1: quick twenty four hour fling, which was fun. And then

613
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 1: us and but now my former husband, I tested, did

614
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: you know that I just got a divorce. I don't

615
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 1: know if you knew. So so okay, so I've been

616
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 1: obviously we follow each other and on on social and

617
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 1: I literally one day I was like, why is she

618
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 1: not posting anything about him? I like I kind of

619
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: went back and I'm like, are they broken up? But

620
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 1: I didn't want to call you or write you and

621
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: be like because you're got a divorce, Like how do

622
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,399
Speaker 1: you say that? Do you have people who have reached

623
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: out to you and said right? Like I figured that

624
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 1: it would come up and conversation. Yeah, I know I

625
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: would be the same way. But still I was like, did,

626
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 1: I mean you look really happy? So I figured that

627
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 1: maybe okay, good, Yeah, that's all that matters. That's what

628
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 1: matters is that you're happy and the boys are happy.

629
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: We've got the best co parenting situation, Like we really

630
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 1: got We're really unusual, like but we're so happy. Um,

631
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 1: and we're apart and it's fantastic. But yeah, So I

632
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 1: moved back to Dallas, met him like really fast. You know,

633
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 1: I got pregnant, Yeah, did the whole thing, kept getting pregnant,

634
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 1: three kids, and here we are. I have two boys.

635
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 1: So I'm excited that you're a boy mom eight and seven?

636
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 1: You say that, Um yeah, yeah, basically like and she

637
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:58,800
Speaker 1: got a new puppy not too long ago, Like you know,

638
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 1: we're already in a Yeah, let's just sit here for

639
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 1: a little bit. Why not just stir it up. I

640
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: love it. Um, okay, so are you dating? Maybe do

641
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: we need to put it out there that you're dating? Therapist.

642
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 1: I'm just starting to date. But I'm really enjoyed. Just

643
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 1: I just turned forty two. I feel like I'm in

644
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 1: my prime. I have I have everything, lying do were

645
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 1: and everything is good and I'm just this is the

646
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 1: this is fun. So yeah, yeah, good. I'm so happy

647
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:46,239
Speaker 1: to hear that. Okay. So wait, so when you say

648
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 1: you're dating, does that mean you're getting set up on

649
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: blind dates? So I'm going on the apps, like, what

650
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: does that look like? Right now? No? Apps? I did,

651
00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: so I didn't meet someone. Um, and I'm okay, I'm

652
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 1: not really like I haven't told a lot of people

653
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 1: about it yet. But we met organically, like on an

654
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: airplane situation. Oh, that's kind of fine. Does he live

655
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 1: in Dallas? Interesting? Yeah, it's kind of nice. Though, when

656
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 1: you're newly diced, I will say this, I don't know

657
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: how new it is, but as a divorce formally divorced man,

658
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:27,800
Speaker 1: I actually enjoyed when I could fly and meet somebody

659
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:30,280
Speaker 1: for the weekend. That was kind of fine. It's actually

660
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: really amazing because he has kids, I have kids, So

661
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 1: when we're at our homes, we're just like in with

662
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 1: our families and then we get to yeah, it's just

663
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: kind of like sneak off into our thing and have

664
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 1: our time and it's not it's just it's kind of

665
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 1: like this fantasy world that we just get to live

666
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 1: in for a little bit and then come back home

667
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 1: to reality and not like to worry of the co parenting.

668
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know, I'm really enjoying it. It's

669
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 1: just fun and yeah, that's awesome. I'm so happy for you. Yes,

670
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:16,320
Speaker 1: two five. I don't know, it's a really good Sarah.

671
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: It's like the new the new me. It's super It's

672
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 1: just I love it. Yeah, for you. You got to

673
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 1: be happy. If you're not happy, you can't help anybody

674
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: else be happy. Right now, life like we have what

675
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 1: life there's and I want to live with just no regrets.

676
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: And I don't know, I just but the one thing

677
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 1: I said I would never do is the app dating.

678
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: I think that is just I could not do it.

679
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: I can't imagine doing it. I literally have never even

680
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,919
Speaker 1: seen one of the apps. Like I know, people talk

681
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:55,800
Speaker 1: about how they love like going through their friends phones

682
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: and swiping for them. I've never even seen an app

683
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 1: like that. I don't even know what it looks like.

684
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 1: You guys, I have something so relevant to share with

685
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 1: the Last night, a friend of mine, a girl from Seattle,

686
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: sends me a picture and she goes, guess who I

687
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 1: just found on Bumble And she sent it to me

688
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 1: and to my wife Jessica, and this picture of me

689
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: and I go, but but it's with another guy, and

690
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: the guy's got his arm around me, and it says, um,

691
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 1: I love I love spending time with family and friends.

692
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: And she sends us to me, and I'm like, I

693
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 1: don't know who helps us. It was so funny, like

694
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 1: I've always I always said to be like I though

695
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: always thought it would be cool to be on one

696
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,280
Speaker 1: of those apps, you know, And now I'm on it.

697
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: I did it all right, good stuff. But yeah, these

698
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 1: dudes like my family and friends, I don't know which

699
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: one I am. Do you remember meeting in I've never

700
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 1: met this dude in my life. I mean, well, I

701
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 1: clearly have. I took a picture with him. I was

702
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: obviously on a golf course because I'm dressed like I'm

703
00:39:54,520 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: golfing and I'm smiling he's smiling, and that's how that

704
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 1: is so funny but strange. Guy, Like, what if the

705
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,280
Speaker 1: poor girls that go on the date with this guy

706
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 1: and he's like, oh my good yeah yeah, I'm like, okay,

707
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 1: avoid that guy, swipe right or whatever you do when

708
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 1: you don't, whatever you do, Oh my goodness, pretty funny.

709
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 1: I mean, oh my gosh, um okay, I have to

710
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 1: ask you guys. So we were talking about the breakups

711
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 1: in the beginning of the show and Michelle and Nate.

712
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:36,800
Speaker 1: I know you both probably don't follow them on social

713
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,880
Speaker 1: or the show, but what happened, um, I feel like

714
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 1: like a month ago is Michelle was caught without her

715
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 1: engagement ring on and someone called her out on social

716
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,839
Speaker 1: or I don't know where it was, but someone called

717
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 1: her out and said she's not wearing her engagement ring.

718
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 1: Does that mean there's trouble in paradise, you know? And

719
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:59,280
Speaker 1: she went on her Instagram and said, for the person

720
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: who's calling us out, I just for like a momentary

721
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 1: blink of and I let my friend borrow my like

722
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 1: try on my engagement ring and that's why I wasn't

723
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 1: wearing it. And then it comes out and maybe it

724
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: was a couple of weeks before this, but it comes

725
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:17,759
Speaker 1: out fairly quickly after she had been called out that

726
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: they were breaking up, and I feel like it's it

727
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: makes it. This is validation for why people don't believe

728
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: the people from Bachelor Nation when they say they're together,

729
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 1: they say they're broken up or whatever. Like she went

730
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: on there kind of like saying, shame on all of

731
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 1: you for questioning our relationship. We're fine, and then they

732
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: break up. So clearly there, I mean, it seems like

733
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 1: there had been trouble in Paradise and they were trying

734
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 1: to kind of cover it up and and be the

735
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:50,799
Speaker 1: the people who narrated their own story. And so I

736
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: get that, like keeping control of your own story. But

737
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 1: at the same time, like I don't know, I just

738
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,240
Speaker 1: don't call people out, just let it go out into

739
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: you know, have people forget about it. I started bringing

740
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 1: it up, right, It's more it's more than that, right,

741
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: I mean the maturity thing, to be honest, Like I

742
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 1: think that that is something you do, but like twenties,

743
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:17,959
Speaker 1: early thirties, I just I mean that's like that. Yeah,

744
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: So I think that's a maturity thing. I think it's

745
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:25,280
Speaker 1: something that probably anyone that age, would you know, maybe

746
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 1: do that's just my personal what's the you know, there's

747
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 1: a saying like thou doth protest too much? And it's

748
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 1: I always think about that when things like this come up.

749
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,760
Speaker 1: You're like, whoa by the defensiveness, you know, if atually,

750
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: if it's all good and then just be like, hey

751
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:46,279
Speaker 1: it's all good, I just up, Yeah, but exactly, don't

752
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: even address it. It could be on the show too,

753
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,880
Speaker 1: you know, Like I mean, I remember when Mistella and

754
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 1: I were splitting up and we've been together five months

755
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,240
Speaker 1: from the time we finished taping, which you know everyone

756
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 1: always thinks it's wait it aired the finale and uh,

757
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 1: you know, Thanksgiving weekend. They broke up before Christmas. They

758
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 1: were together less than a month. It's like, no, dude,

759
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 1: I remember at the time they were like yeah, guys,

760
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 1: that come on. You know they were like, you know,

761
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 1: I remember the producers at the time, we're sort of like,

762
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:16,839
Speaker 1: you know, just give it some time, you guys, can

763
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 1: you know, try to work through it, and and you know,

764
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: we don't really any announcements right now and things like that,

765
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,319
Speaker 1: so I remember, you know, there was sort of like this,

766
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 1: you know, trying to figure out do we stay in it?

767
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 1: Is it disingenuous to you know, let it fly? Nowadays, yeah,

768
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: I would be like forget it. But back then, I

769
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 1: remember I was just like, Okay, well, you know, I'll

770
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: do what the show that's tlling me to do, you know,

771
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 1: and you know, and I mean I think that might

772
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: be when they're more current, you know, like Michelle and

773
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 1: uh and Nate are a little more current, you know,

774
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 1: maybe than you know, if they've already been together over

775
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 1: a year. I don't know, I don't know how that works,

776
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: but I mean, I know back then in the in

777
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 1: the stone ages of the show, there was a little

778
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: encouragement to try and you know, let's let's not be

779
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 1: so quick to shoot this thing down. Let's give it

780
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 1: a chance. We'll get you guys back together, you know,

781
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 1: you know what, you're right. I wonder how involved the

782
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:14,720
Speaker 1: producers are still in their relationships today, Like how long

783
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: they stay involved because obviously they're under contract for I

784
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 1: think two years still, um, but I wonder how involved

785
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 1: they are and if they're still talking to them and

786
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 1: if they still give them input on their relationship or

787
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,319
Speaker 1: they just let them be. You know, who knows, but

788
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: it would be embarrassing though, to come out super strong

789
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:37,320
Speaker 1: like whatever people, you know, you guys are so stupid

790
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,399
Speaker 1: to think this, and then like less than a week later,

791
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 1: be like, okay, we decided to go separate ways, please respect.

792
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, a week ago you were coming at

793
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 1: me hard that you know, you guys are fine and

794
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: don't respect your privacy, So yeah, I get it. You know.

795
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 1: It is kind of a weird, twisted world in the

796
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 1: I think they're again social media man. Back in the days,

797
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 1: we have to worry about that now. It's like was

798
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: the only thing we had to worry about was my Space,

799
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:09,359
Speaker 1: which I was fine, Yeah, yeah exactly, or the chat

800
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: room you know you like uh, which my mom my

801
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 1: mom was. It was crazy. My mom actually had a

802
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:23,320
Speaker 1: group of people. My mom had a group of people

803
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: I wish I could remember their name from Facebook. And

804
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:29,319
Speaker 1: there was like a whole group of them. My mom

805
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,400
Speaker 1: was kind of running the show, and they made us

806
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 1: wedding presents. They would show up at different like if

807
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 1: we were doing signings or taking pictures somewhere. What the

808
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,280
Speaker 1: Trista Fancizam group I think is what it was called.

809
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 1: Like my mom was wheah is hilarious. Still have to

810
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: this day. They made us like, you know, one of

811
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: those recipe boxes that you keep all your recipes in.

812
00:45:56,640 --> 00:46:00,120
Speaker 1: They made us like as new as newlyweds. Who doesn't

813
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:03,919
Speaker 1: it a recipe box with lots of ideas. We did,

814
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 1: and we still do. I've so many rescue boxes. Okay, well, Sarah,

815
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,280
Speaker 1: thank you so much for being here. I love seeing

816
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:23,319
Speaker 1: your beautiful face and I'm so happy you're happy. Yeah, absolutely,

817
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 1: thank you. What a pleasure. Melanie. Melanie is text to

818
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,240
Speaker 1: me though, and she wanted to say. She said, I'm sorry,

819
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:31,239
Speaker 1: I can't be listening because I'm actually working, which I

820
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: think I should technically, and she's like, but make sure

821
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: I love her, And I said, all right, sounds good, guys,

822
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. All right, Trista, You're right, she's

823
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 1: even more lovely in person, because I thought she was

824
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 1: lovely before I ever met her, but now she's awesome.

825
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 1: So we met, um we touch base. So she was

826
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 1: working for a company called Kota and they do lasers,

827
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: like laser hair removal and like skincare lasers. And she

828
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 1: was like, would you ever want to, you know, work

829
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:22,320
Speaker 1: with a doctor locally. I can set you up and um,

830
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 1: you know, do kind of like a trade situation. And

831
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:30,280
Speaker 1: so she hooked me up royally at UM, this amazing

832
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: asceticition in Denver called Vital and I still to this

833
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 1: day go there because I love what they do, UM,

834
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:41,959
Speaker 1: just in terms of lasers and stuff. So but then yeah,

835
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 1: she wrote me and she's like, Okay, so now I'm

836
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 1: working with UM. What was what was the name of it?

837
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 1: You said it? It was like it was a C

838
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 1: word or something like that. Yeah, something like that. So

839
00:47:54,880 --> 00:48:01,720
Speaker 1: I believe it's like women's sexual clio Vana. That's it, UM,

840
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 1: women's sexual health. I believe it might have been lasers

841
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:11,360
Speaker 1: as well, or maybe yeah, I think there's lasers sound

842
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: science for better sex. Okay, there you go, so for

843
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:18,239
Speaker 1: better sex. So basically sexual health for women. And then

844
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:21,800
Speaker 1: you're saying that you believe that she's now working with

845
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:27,439
Speaker 1: sexual health health for men. You know what, I am

846
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 1: all for anyone out there trying to help relationships. And

847
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 1: let's be honest, sex is a huge part of any relationship.

848
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Speaker 1: If you're married, I would think, uh, and so if

849
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 1: she's trying to help it, if you're having it and

850
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 1: it's good, it's like when you're not having it, it's

851
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:53,279
Speaker 1: a I could agree with that. It is. I think

852
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 1: it's incredibly important. So I love what she's doing. I

853
00:48:56,520 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: love that even though there's this big you know, um,

854
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 1: people don't like to talk about it in this country. Um,

855
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 1: and I think why not talk about it, especially if

856
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:11,840
Speaker 1: it's it's just like communication, forgiveness, like all the things, trust, honesty,

857
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 1: like all the things that you're supposed to have in

858
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: a good relationship. I think, Um, you know, being able

859
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 1: to help people with their sexual relationships is awesome. So

860
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: I think I wish her all the best. And I'm

861
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: excited for it too. I mean, she seems really happy,

862
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: and it's like, you know, she does said you get

863
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:28,359
Speaker 1: one life and so you got to make the most

864
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,840
Speaker 1: of it, and like sometimes people aren't meant to be

865
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 1: together forever, you know, and that's I mean, I would

866
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,240
Speaker 1: never slag someone for that. I went through it and

867
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 1: and found my happiness. You know, it took me a while,

868
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 1: but I found it. And I'm pretty thankful for that too,

869
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: And so I get it. You know, everybody's got a

870
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,759
Speaker 1: different path, so that's right, and we all just have

871
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 1: to respect each other and each other's past because you

872
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 1: never know what people are going through unless you're in

873
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 1: their shoes, preach its sister. Oh righty. Then well so

874
00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:02,320
Speaker 1: next week I believe we've got some questions from Instagram

875
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:06,880
Speaker 1: from the people that I think we'll get into. And

876
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Speaker 1: I don't know who will have as a guest, but

877
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Speaker 1: I um oh, I was going to say Ryan, but no,

878
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 1: he'll be our guests later. That won't be until Yeah,

879
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 1: we're going to have with our spouses on Canyon has

880
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 1: agreed that she would do it. She said she just

881
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,359
Speaker 1: wants to do some donkey kicks and some with some

882
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 1: squat thrust donkey kicks. Yeah, she wants to be she

883
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 1: wants me feel good. So I'm like, all right, So

884
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:31,760
Speaker 1: it's got to be once our once our nanny starts,

885
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: which will be coming up, so that'll be huge. When

886
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 1: does that happen? August eighteen? You're counting down the days

887
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Speaker 1: do you have? Like in high school when I was

888
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:43,879
Speaker 1: going on spring break because it's like the only time

889
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,800
Speaker 1: I got to travel when I was young, I literally

890
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 1: made a calendar and it would have a countdown calendar

891
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: and every day I would ex off the days. So

892
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:56,759
Speaker 1: are you exiting off the days? We haven't been, but

893
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: we should because my wife is I mean canyon. She

894
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:01,919
Speaker 1: works her ass off and we got two boys under

895
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:03,959
Speaker 1: the age of four. You know, it's like I can't

896
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 1: really put one down front nap without the other one

897
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 1: going bananas, and it's just sort of you know, and

898
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 1: so you know, she's got her hands full. And we

899
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 1: have some help, you know, with with with babysitters here

900
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 1: and there, and thankfully we have a really good one

901
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:17,240
Speaker 1: for the summer. But before we got Hurt on board,

902
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,879
Speaker 1: it was tough because you had to deal with cancelations.

903
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 1: We make plans and then one of us would have

904
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 1: to bail, and you know, so it's it's gonna be

905
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,799
Speaker 1: really nice to have someone you know, it's gonna live

906
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 1: in She's gonna live here. That's awesome, amazing from Sweed

907
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 1: And but I think that's actually Switzerland, so I'm not

908
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:40,680
Speaker 1: entirely sure. Still working out that part. And nicknames are

909
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 1: you know, an integral part of the game, so we

910
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 1: gotta figure that. Yeah, all right, well, thanks again Mr

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Speaker 1: Bob Guinea, and thank you everybody for listening. Um, we

912
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 1: love you here at a fo G. We sure do

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Speaker 1: have a great week. Everybody. Maybye. D