WEBVTT - Wardrobe Change: Episode 64 with Joe Gatto and Steve Byrne 0:00:02.880 --> 0:00:08.200 We're taking. Now we're two cool moms. Okay, just have 0:00:08.280 --> 0:00:10.840 one cool mom. Thanks so much for suiting up, Stevie. 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:11.719 I'm Joe Gatto. 0:00:14.640 --> 0:00:15.640 I'm Steve Burne. 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:21.400 We are to ye. We got our shirts on. So 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:23.320 I was walking in Target and I was on the 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:25.479 road and me and Jiggy were doing a shop and 0:00:25.520 --> 0:00:28.040 I walked by it and I said, oh, I said, 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:30.960 that's funny. I have to get that. So then I 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:33.320 picked this one up. But I grabbed that one you 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:35.760 have on an XCEL but it was too taut. Yeah, 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:37.720 I couldn't breathe. It wasn't comfy. I needed a double 0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:40.120 Excel and the double XL was on the mannequin. So 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:44.000 I asked the person to work there to disassemble it together. Like, 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:46.159 who's that? Oh you get that? I said, yes for me, 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:50.040 So this guy had to take it off. I get 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:50.440 it from me. 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:54.040 So here we are, Here, we are, we we feel cool. 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:56.720 Now here's the thing. You walked in with the shirt on. 0:00:57.440 --> 0:01:00.320 And I started dying laughing. Right, I'm like, that's hillarious. 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:04.920 And as soon as I wipe my tears, you throw 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:07.000 another one at me and I'm like, oh no, And 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:08.200 now it's not so funny. 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:12.360 It's not so fun. You look great though, no pipes 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:18.080 out look at him? Oh they don't, they don't. Joey beefcakes, 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:21.600 I have no muscle tonge. Oh come on, it's just 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:29.600 like slabs of salami. You're pale. Oh yeah, well comparison. 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:32.360 I was just hit Florida this weekend, so that's what happened. 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:36.080 So sorry about that. You're getting washed out completely. You don't, 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:39.600 I'm powder. Apparently you're great. I love it, man, I 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:42.280 love it too. Cool Moms. I'm a big graphic tea guy. 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:44.120 I love a good graphic tea. I love a good 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:45.640 I love a good slogan logo. 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:49.400 I love a good woman's tank top. So this worked 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:52.280 out perfectly. Yeah, I can't wait, tool woman. 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:55.120 So let you tell you something about it. And it's 0:01:55.160 --> 0:02:00.720 blousey on you, which is nice. Is it's meant to 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:02.680 be got room for the movies. 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:06.320 It's very nice an ex woman. You think these days 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:07.480 this would be a lot bigger. 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:11.400 A lot bigger for woman, but because the the size 0:02:11.440 --> 0:02:15.680 of a lot of women, the breast enhancements, so many enhancements, 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:18.000 you know, the cool, the. 0:02:18.000 --> 0:02:23.919 Cool, the cool would be cool cool, mom, I've never 0:02:23.960 --> 0:02:25.480 been tank top guy though. If you've been tank top 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:27.600 guy never, never. 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:28.720 This is uncomfortable for me, is it really? 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:33.239 Yeah? Oh my goodness, it's wonderful for me. Are you uncomfortable? 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:37.280 I love? Yeah, it's none. It's easy breezy cover girl 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:42.800 in the in the home alone. 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:44.800 Yes, I would, I would. I would wear something like 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:45.440 like a tank top. 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:47.160 Do you own tank tops that are non Jerseys? 0:02:47.800 --> 0:02:49.720 Nope? No, I mean I don't know, wrong tank top. 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:51.280 You know a lot of people, a lot of people 0:02:51.280 --> 0:02:53.960 do this under a suit shirt, like they'll do the 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:55.840 white you know, not that I'm a cool mom want, 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:57.840 but like a suit they'll wear a tank top to 0:02:57.919 --> 0:02:59.959 be under their dress shirt. Okay, I don't do that. 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:01.560 I do a full T shirt underneath. 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:05.160 Well you're talking like when you dress up, and yeah, 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:06.679 I don't. I never understood that. 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:08.440 Do you do a bear do you do bear chested? 0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:09.200 Just a button up? 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:09.560 That's it? 0:03:10.040 --> 0:03:12.000 What's your pit situation? Do you sweat a lot? You 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:13.440 don't need it. You don't need a raincatcher? 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:16.560 Is that what they're called? 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:17.160 Yeah? 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:19.679 When I used to have to wear those on h 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:23.640 when I when I taped Sullomon Sun the makeup because 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:25.320 I would just you know, you're sitting under the lights. 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:28.000 And I was always stressed and I every every goddamn 0:03:28.080 --> 0:03:30.239 line of the thing, so it would it would literally 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:32.760 look like I'm just like a fire hydrant. Yeah I 0:03:32.800 --> 0:03:35.920 went off, but uh, but normally I don't know. It's weird, 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:38.960 Like sometimes it's fine, sometimes it's not. I don't think 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:41.720 you own Are you consistently face sweats? 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:44.680 Yeah, that's it. When I'm when I'm hot or nervous, 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:47.320 face sweats. It's all about face face lit. That's where 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:49.680 I'm coming out of. Yeah, the pit's not so much, 0:03:50.040 --> 0:03:53.320 no ball area A little bit from being honest, you know, 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:56.119 my Dagoba system as up. Sometimes Yodah's out there doing 0:03:56.160 --> 0:03:59.160 his thing. I get a little bit of swampy it happens, 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:02.360 but mostly it's on the face. For sure. I get 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:05.880 a glean. I get a glean going. Did you now? 0:04:06.440 --> 0:04:08.640 I never what tank tops growing up either. I never 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:10.400 you wore basketball jerseys. 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:12.360 Though, no, no, really never. 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:15.440 I only the only basketball jersey I ever owned was 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:18.440 a was an LA Sparks really yeah, and I used 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:21.760 to wear it like as for the Funnies. But yeah, 0:04:21.760 --> 0:04:23.479 it was like in in the summer or something if 0:04:23.520 --> 0:04:25.240 I was checking my mail. I would never like wear 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:26.040 a tank top out. 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:30.159 Really, yeah, I would love if you were just rocket 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:32.039 tank about town. 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:32.840 Never had it? 0:04:33.080 --> 0:04:33.440 Really? 0:04:33.520 --> 0:04:34.719 Have you owned tank tops? 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:34.800 No? 0:04:35.200 --> 0:04:38.320 Never. I'm an Italian from Staten Allen. I was born 0:04:38.360 --> 0:04:40.200 and that they swallowed me in it. I came out 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:42.360 of my mother. They were like, here it is, let's 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:47.599 get on this. Ain's white ribbed. Yeah. They put it 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:49.320 right on that, Chris, and you're right there. I didn't. 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:51.039 I never really got into tank tops. I was never 0:04:51.160 --> 0:04:53.800 had a defined body, but I did wear them when 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:58.760 I played basketball and my body was fine. I never 0:04:58.800 --> 0:05:01.760 had any sort of muscle tone anything to show off. 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:03.440 Why would I wear it? 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:04.159 Yeah? 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:06.560 You know now I have body confidence through the roof, 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:08.440 so I don't care. I'll rock one right now. I'm 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:14.200 by wear this on stage? Yeah, yeah, we're together this weekend, together, 0:05:14.240 --> 0:05:17.000 this weekend. Come on, we end the show in them? Okay, 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:18.440 Mom will come out. 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:20.200 The minute I put this on, I was like, I 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:22.919 was like, I know we're going out to lunch and 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:25.080 I'm just praying to God Joe doesn't say, you know, 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:26.000 we're wearing these to lunch? 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:30.280 People ask for march guys, here it is now, this 0:05:30.360 --> 0:05:34.279 is this is trademark, this is from Target. Yeah, I 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:36.120 never really got tank tops. I never What's some other 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:38.920 stuff you never wore? I wish I could have got 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:40.560 into a couple of things, but I want to hear 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:42.240 you like, I can't. I don't wear baseball hats. I 0:05:42.240 --> 0:05:43.520 don't loo get in the hat. We talked about this, 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:44.240 I love it. 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:48.320 Yeah, anything brown, like brown leather, I've never I can't 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:49.040 get into brown's. 0:05:49.400 --> 0:05:50.960 And my wife loves brown. 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:54.080 She's like brown baijer tony, she's earth tony. 0:05:54.160 --> 0:05:58.000 Yeah, I like blues, blacks and yeah, I guess it's 0:05:58.040 --> 0:05:59.560 most guys probably, but I don't know. 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:01.200 I just don't wear anything brown. 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:02.320 Do you wear salmon? 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:05.560 Do you go into the one of pink salmon? 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:09.120 Come on, no, salmon, You're wearing pink right now. I 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:13.000 was forced to pick this out. It was blue, you 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:16.359 would have been like, love it, that's true black? 0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:19.480 No, So so yeah, what about you? What always wanted 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:19.560 to do? 0:06:19.640 --> 0:06:21.280 I always want to do like a leather jacket, and 0:06:21.320 --> 0:06:22.120 I could never pull it off. 0:06:22.120 --> 0:06:23.600 I always like to wear a leather jet. 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:26.039 Well, no, because I looks way too like stereotypical, like 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:27.919 it didn't. I never felt comfortable on it. 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:30.320 Yeah, but you can get a nice leather jacket. There's 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:33.240 like the Fonsi and then there's like the. 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:35.080 Foni is the nice one. 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:36.600 But we talked about Fonzie before it. 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:42.440 Yeah right, yeah, yeah, okay, but yeah, I think you 0:06:42.480 --> 0:06:44.679 could get a nice black leather jack scarfs scarf. 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:45.400 I've never done it. 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:48.440 I love a scarf, never, I'd love. I love. 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:52.320 There's people that wear like a dress scarf, you know, like. 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:59.600 Paul Pauli Figy. Sorry, yeah, yeah, okay, famously. No, it's 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:02.200 not him. I'm thinking of somebody else who directed Spy. 0:07:04.120 --> 0:07:04.560 That was right. 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:08.240 Yeah, an ascot ascot never wore an ascot. 0:07:07.839 --> 0:07:09.720 Loves him, loves me, can't get enough of them, the 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:13.680 fig fig Figs, Kevin Figy and Paul Fieg right fig 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:14.840 Yes fig. 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:18.480 An ascot never loves them. He wears an ascot famously 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:20.480 like thirston Hell. 0:07:20.280 --> 0:07:22.240 No, is it a bow tie? He wears something he's 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:27.360 always dressed up. Bow tie the most famous ascot for sure. Yeah, 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:30.280 a bow tie with a tuxedo, Yes, a bow tie. 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:30.880 Casual. 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:35.560 Liberaci were a I mean ascots. I feel like you 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:38.040 were a lot. I feel I feel like they would 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:42.200 be uncomfortable though, like turtlenecks. I can't do a turtleneck. No, 0:07:42.280 --> 0:07:45.440 but it looks so comfortable. No, but I can't wear him. 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:47.600 I don't like it. That's something I'd never got into. 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:49.480 It's like, you gotta it's like you got a rug 0:07:49.520 --> 0:07:50.239 around your throat. 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:52.080 No, you wear a turtlenick. It's like the back of 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:55.120 a book cover. Author Steve kind. 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:59.200 Of like this is you do you right here? This 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:00.480 is our author cover for Too Cool. 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:02.920 But you gotta you gotta imagine the eternal neck. 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:08.600 No, I want you in this screen grab in this 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:10.640 like this, this is a screen grab. This is gonna 0:08:10.640 --> 0:08:15.640 be the thumbnail market. 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:19.200 Did you are we wearing these out today? 0:08:19.920 --> 0:08:22.160 I mean we should put on the next episode because 0:08:22.160 --> 0:08:23.480 it was all like we're going to lunch next Yeah, 0:08:23.480 --> 0:08:27.600 it's wearing lunch. I don't even mention them. 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:32.400 Fuld you imagine if you're walking around, man, you two 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:33.520 dudes in their forties. 0:08:35.760 --> 0:08:38.880 I'm not We're not evenna wear our jackets. Okay, because 0:08:38.880 --> 0:08:42.800 it's also not this nice out, it's not tag top 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:45.520 weather out. We'll take some photos in the wild and 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:46.160 we'll upload them. 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:47.679 Okay, we can see it all right? All right, what 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:48.319 were we gonna ask? 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:50.000 Oh? I love this? You know what? We gotta take 0:08:50.000 --> 0:08:50.559 this for a photo? 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:52.680 See you love this? I do you love this? 0:08:52.840 --> 0:08:55.880 But so do you? Yeah? No, not as much. 0:08:56.360 --> 0:08:57.480 I mean, I'll do it for the funnies. 0:08:57.520 --> 0:08:58.960 Yeah, that's why you love being funny? 0:08:59.280 --> 0:09:01.880 Yeah, with a microphone? 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:03.560 And do you do you not like that? We are 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:06.280 partners in crime because I am so anti embarrassed. I'm 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:07.280 so pro embarrassment. 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:10.320 This is this is you are in your zone right now, 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:13.120 like this walking down the street. 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:15.920 Two dudes tank tops and I'm a cool mom. 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:17.280 Do that? 0:09:17.760 --> 0:09:20.319 You're you don't have a care in the world. I 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:22.839 would feel a little inhibited, Yeah, a little bit. I'll 0:09:22.880 --> 0:09:25.439 be like, okay, but I do it. I'll do it 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:28.000 all right, for the funnies. Not comfortable, but I. 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:30.920 Don't want you to be Yes, I do do it. 0:09:30.920 --> 0:09:33.120 It'll be fine, that'll be fine, that'll be fine. I 0:09:33.120 --> 0:09:35.719 won't make it. We won't have to perform them. We 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:37.600 do not get on stage in front of our you know, 0:09:37.760 --> 0:09:40.640 thousands of adoring fans this weekend in Florida. 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:43.120 Dozens thousands. 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:47.040 Yes, well, you walk out with almost thousands of fans 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:50.560 you don't win. Everybody over, No, don't win. 0:09:52.000 --> 0:09:54.360 Had a few, Uh, had a few walkouts. 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:58.480 You will couple. We'll wait till Joe takes the stag. 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:01.360 We do these. You know what, my own, my own, 0:10:01.840 --> 0:10:02.640 your own, my own? 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:02.960 Yeah? 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:04.680 No, did you recently? 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:06.199 Yeah? Texas? 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:09.400 Oh, Texas is tough for you though, And then Vegas 0:10:09.400 --> 0:10:10.920 had a had an odd incident. 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:14.080 Uh, doesn't matter, doesn't matter. 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:16.000 I'm here, you're here. You made it, you made it, 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:18.000 but you you cannot. 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:20.319 I don't think you can do a show these days 0:10:20.320 --> 0:10:25.040 and not there's gonna be somebody that just everybody's gon 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:26.080 somebody's gonna find something. 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:28.040 But I always remind you before you take my stage, 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:31.520 be nice, Stephen. Yeah, it's so great. Oh I love it. 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:34.120 I love when you're out there, just two cool moms 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:36.840 hitting the roads. Dudes, what are we getting for lunch 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:38.320 is a question. We have to go get like a 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:43.280 like like you know, mimosas. Right, we have to wade some. 0:10:43.400 --> 0:10:50.160 Bosies somewhere with a sidewalk, uh apparently, Yeah, with a plant. 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:51.040 You just chill out. 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:54.800 I want to drink with some with some garnish in it. Yeah, 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:56.920 of breezy lemonade I'm gonna do this a lot too. 0:10:56.920 --> 0:10:58.120 I just feel like this is gonna be a thing 0:10:58.160 --> 0:11:04.360 for me adjusting, right, Yeah, yeah, h when we do it. 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:05.920 When I do the meet and greets sometimes, I used 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:07.760 to do some sillies to make a time pass when 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:08.760 me and the boys of meet and greets, and I 0:11:08.760 --> 0:11:10.600 would always do this thing where I would when somebody's 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:12.160 walking up, I'll be like, I'm gonna touch their face 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:14.319 in the picture. Don't, don't, don't, and I would just 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:21.160 hug them a walkily and just have my That would get 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:21.679 so right. 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:26.840 But imagine, I mean, you're waiting this whole time to 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:29.320 meet you, you're such a huge fan, and then a 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:30.920 like a digit just. 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:35.400 Random yeah, yeah, all. 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:36.760 Right, all right, let's get into it. 0:11:36.920 --> 0:11:39.080 So go moms. Thank you so much for subscribing to 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:41.000 our YouTube. That's a big thing. Please do that. And 0:11:41.040 --> 0:11:43.840 then also of course sliding into the d MS. 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:48.079 Yeah, rate review, subscribe. This has been a podcast. 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:51.959 I think you and I have discussed this, uh off. 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:53.800 The air or whatever, but I think we do it. 0:11:53.800 --> 0:11:54.640 It's a lot of fun. 0:11:55.080 --> 0:11:57.920 But I think, uh, you know, there's gonna be you know, 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:02.800 more of a focus uh two to kind of you know, 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:05.080 make make it more than you know. 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:10.480 First question, Oh, I think you're te up the question. 0:12:10.520 --> 0:12:11.680 Were you trying to say something? 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:14.640 No, but I think this has almost been kind of 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:17.960 like a hobby, you know. But then you know, and 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:19.440 just talking to you lately, it's like, Oh, I think 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:20.280 we're gonna talk. 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:21.000 About amping it up. 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:22.520 Yeah, amp it up? 0:12:22.600 --> 0:12:25.320 Yeah, yeah, big plans of the Cool Moms. 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:28.640 Yeah, it starts with wardrobe and it builds out from there. 0:12:28.679 --> 0:12:31.960 It's a lifestyle choice, guys. It's it doesn't only happen here. 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:35.880 It happens here and here and here. That's right, That's 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:39.640 where it is. It's almost importantly that's right here, right here. 0:12:40.120 --> 0:12:43.200 Okay, this is coming on us from Alita. 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:46.720 Okay, Hi, love the laughs when I listened to both 0:12:46.800 --> 0:12:49.040 you Cool Moms. 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:49.440 Brandon. 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:52.280 Father's Day is about a month away. I need ideas 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:56.000 for gifts for my husband. I'm I'm a notoriously bad 0:12:56.000 --> 0:12:57.840 gift giver, especially to my husband. 0:12:57.920 --> 0:12:59.280 Any suggestions would help. 0:12:59.320 --> 0:13:00.640 You know what you used to crush it for me 0:13:00.679 --> 0:13:02.840 for a Father's Day gift? On both sides of it, 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:05.679 I loved the j C. Penny walkway. You know when 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:08.000 j C Pennies when they did j C. Pennies. They 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:10.160 did the whole little like tables they would set up 0:13:10.160 --> 0:13:11.880 on the way up to the cash wrap and it 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:16.400 would just be all the stupid little like fathers, like desktop, golf, 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:19.200 all those things that would I would always find stuff 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:21.520 there that I liked. And my dad WO used to 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:22.840 like those gifts, So maybe he just told me you 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:25.440 liked them, But I always thought that was really cool. 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:28.439 But for me for Father's Day gifts, for sure, handwritten 0:13:28.440 --> 0:13:30.840 note from the kids, something that's a moment in time, 0:13:31.360 --> 0:13:33.240 what you mean about me? Like that kind of thing. 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:34.880 I always think those are fun and awesome. 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:37.280 I don't think that's a that's not a bad call 0:13:37.280 --> 0:13:40.160 at all. My son drew a picture for me recently 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:44.280 and out framed it put it next to my you 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:46.160 know when I get up in the morning and you 0:13:46.200 --> 0:13:48.160 know the bathroom. 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:51.640 Were you losing for the word? You didn't know what 0:13:51.760 --> 0:13:54.360 the bathroom was called? What is the matter? You're really 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:59.719 uncomfortable right now? I'm having my dog. Okay, So he 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:01.280 drew a picture you put in a frame and put 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:02.719 in your bathroom. Totally normal, there you go. 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:06.720 Yeah, but it says it says you got this and 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:09.839 my son drew a picture of me holding my my 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:13.160 my wife's, my wife's hand, and my two kids hands 0:14:13.200 --> 0:14:14.280 and it's just the four of us. 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:16.679 And I was like, that's so sweet. That's a nice 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:17.520 thing to see in the morning. 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:17.839 Cool. 0:14:18.160 --> 0:14:21.720 So so with that, my daughter knows I love this 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:24.720 seventy eighth Superman. So she looked up an. 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:27.800 Image and drew it and colored it in and was 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:29.760 it good. Just went, yeah, it's really good. Actually, so 0:14:29.880 --> 0:14:31.200 I framed it that she's. 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:34.760 Not listening, I'm telling you it is really good on it. 0:14:34.800 --> 0:14:36.240 So I framed to put that in my office. And 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:39.040 those things, of all the things in my office, those 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:41.520 are like the two things that's super cool, really really cool. 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:45.080 But my my refrigerator is just filled with stuff that 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:48.760 my son has drawn. And he also bought do it 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:51.000 yourself magnet thing we had for him, and he made 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:53.360 the magnets that are on my fridge, like calls it. 0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:55.560 It's just his name and like picture I love Dad 0:14:55.600 --> 0:14:57.960 and stuff. It's really cool. Like my whole thing is 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:00.680 like a little shout out to his gallery artwork. Yeah, 0:15:00.720 --> 0:15:01.400 it's really cool. 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:04.960 Yeah, I would I so Father's Day gifts suggestions, though, 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:07.000 I would think here's here's what I think is kind 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:07.240 of fun. 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:07.600 Lately. 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:11.480 I was New Orleans. I went to some antique stores. Yep, 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:14.080 I was in Vegas. I went to this great antique store. 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:16.800 Every time I'm walking through there, I'm like, oh, so 0:15:16.840 --> 0:15:18.440 and so would love that. So and so would love that. 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:21.560 Or they have like these old school mechanical like nineteen 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:25.680 thirties forties, like those old mechanical banks. 0:15:26.080 --> 0:15:26.280 Fun. 0:15:26.320 --> 0:15:26.960 Do you remember those? 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:27.720 So fun? 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:29.040 It was like a golf one. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:31.240 There's like a one with the do you put the 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:33.720 penny there and it drops? It's just like, I don't know, 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:35.080 things like that are pretty. 0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:38.800 Nostylegic, big for dads. So yeah, for sure, I walk around. 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:42.040 I just found a wily coyote glass that I used 0:15:42.080 --> 0:15:43.400 to have growing up, and I bought it on the road. 0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:45.640 Were you right, Jake, Yeah, we were an antique store 0:15:45.680 --> 0:15:48.680 and I bought a wily coyote glass and a roadrunner 0:15:48.760 --> 0:15:50.840 mug that I used to have growing up. It was 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:52.960 so cool, and I was like, stuff like that because 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:54.640 we don't need anything at this point, you know, we 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:57.040 we buy it, you know that kind of thing, as 0:15:57.120 --> 0:15:59.280 dads always do that they buy for themselves for the family. 0:15:59.320 --> 0:16:01.440 I think for the most parts are I think thoughtfulness 0:16:01.440 --> 0:16:03.320 even more than the mom gift. I think it goes 0:16:03.320 --> 0:16:07.000 into for a dad, because dads are notoriously I know 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.000 between my mom and my dad. My dad was hard 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:12.000 at a shop for mostly because it was dead and 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:15.400 you didn't know really if you liked it or not. 0:16:15.440 --> 0:16:16.880 I would have to bear, I'd have to dig up 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:20.400 and bury, had to bury the gift, and I'd just 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:22.200 see if you liked and anyone to tell me if 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:30.760 you liked it. Never said thank you that fuck. You 0:16:30.800 --> 0:16:39.440 didn't see that one going at all? Love it? Oh 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:43.520 what are you get in your live father for Father's Day? 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:45.360 Uh? 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:45.840 Do you do that to? 0:16:45.880 --> 0:16:45.920 You? 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:48.320 Exchange gifts with your dad? Because I got some people 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:49.400 give up on it. Yeah. 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:51.440 I get him some stuff every now. Yeah, I mean 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:53.960 for sure. I mean birthdays, like I think last birthday, 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:58.040 got them like McCartney tickets l McCartney. But yeah, yeah, 0:16:58.080 --> 0:16:59.960 I always make sure to send them something. 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:00.880 No father this day. 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:05.000 Yeah you know what my uh my son started getting 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:06.080 into it, and I was like, oh, this'd be kind 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:10.000 of fun. Baseball cards. There's different kinds of baseball cards 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:13.800 or or whatever sport he likes. Like before When you 0:17:13.800 --> 0:17:14.840 were younger, it was just Tops. 0:17:14.840 --> 0:17:15.240 That was it. 0:17:15.359 --> 0:17:18.600 You just Tops or Fleer, and that was kind of it. 0:17:18.680 --> 0:17:22.040 Now they have all these specialty kind of like Alan 0:17:22.080 --> 0:17:25.720 and Ginter and these high end like types of things. 0:17:26.080 --> 0:17:28.480 Those are fun because my son's like, hey, will you 0:17:28.480 --> 0:17:30.399 open these with me? And we're going through it's like 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:32.960 you got Aaron Judge. It's like it's fun. So I 0:17:33.000 --> 0:17:36.320 don't know even as to go to that nostalgia bent. 0:17:36.600 --> 0:17:38.600 I would I would say, what kind of sport does 0:17:38.600 --> 0:17:40.800 he like? Maybe find like some of those high end cards. 0:17:40.840 --> 0:17:43.159 Get him a box of those and watch them light up. 0:17:43.240 --> 0:17:47.760 My buddy Wyatt, who you met in Vegas, we went 0:17:47.800 --> 0:17:49.560 to lunch and he showed up and he gave me 0:17:49.920 --> 0:17:52.560 three packs of hockey cards and it was like, oh 0:17:52.960 --> 0:17:55.000 I got a Mario Lemieux on the very first card 0:17:55.000 --> 0:17:56.440 and it made my day. 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:58.160 Was like this great. Yeah, that's fun. 0:17:58.200 --> 0:17:59.439 I think that that'd be kind of fun. 0:17:59.520 --> 0:18:01.639 I would say, take your dad to the movies. I 0:18:01.640 --> 0:18:03.640 feel like most dads like movies and dads like spend 0:18:03.720 --> 0:18:06.280 time with people. So you just go out for take 0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:08.200 and that's you know, go out for a movie, get 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:10.120 some popcorn, hang out. I think that'd be fun. Eighty 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:10.720 for Brady? 0:18:10.960 --> 0:18:12.120 Would you say eighty for Brady? 0:18:12.160 --> 0:18:12.720 Eighty for Brady? 0:18:12.760 --> 0:18:14.000 There you go go do that? 0:18:14.080 --> 0:18:16.280 Where are the father Day? Perfect? Father Day? 0:18:16.320 --> 0:18:18.080 Wear this when you go yeah, I can't believe this 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:18.760 is the next hell. 0:18:19.840 --> 0:18:23.600 Double XL two X on this. Pitch yea on this, 0:18:23.720 --> 0:18:25.080 sassy broad All. 0:18:25.080 --> 0:18:28.560 Right, this is coming us from This is actually a 0:18:28.560 --> 0:18:30.119 good question. This is coming ups from Warren. 0:18:30.880 --> 0:18:33.280 Hey, cool moms. I love you guys podcast. I listened 0:18:33.280 --> 0:18:35.840 to it every episode. Want to hear your guys' thoughts 0:18:35.880 --> 0:18:39.159 on tipping. Is it tips something of workers entitled to 0:18:39.760 --> 0:18:41.680 or something that has earned Who do you tip? 0:18:41.800 --> 0:18:42.119 Service? 0:18:42.160 --> 0:18:45.879 Bartenders, baristas, movers, bell hops, all the above? Do you 0:18:45.960 --> 0:18:50.119 always tip the same percentage or does it depend? Great question, 0:18:50.440 --> 0:18:53.920 Great question, and I just dealt with this in in. 0:18:53.840 --> 0:18:54.919 New Orleans This is Fresh. 0:18:55.359 --> 0:18:58.879 Went to a bar, ordered around of drinks or another 0:18:58.920 --> 0:19:01.360 round of drinks, and then you get the thing back 0:19:01.400 --> 0:19:03.719 and it says, do you want to tip twenty twenty 0:19:03.760 --> 0:19:07.359 five or thirty percent or whatever? And like, no, that's 0:19:07.400 --> 0:19:10.640 what a server gets. A server gets twenty twenty five 0:19:10.720 --> 0:19:14.080 or thirty percent of a bill. A bartender, at least 0:19:14.119 --> 0:19:16.200 for me, after having worked in that profession. 0:19:16.200 --> 0:19:17.520 I'll give you maybe. 0:19:17.280 --> 0:19:20.639 Ten because you're literally just pouring a drinking given it 0:19:20.680 --> 0:19:23.840 to a server's there for the whole meal, hoof it 0:19:24.240 --> 0:19:26.680 red refills. You want to go box what I mean? 0:19:26.720 --> 0:19:28.679 You think at all the things you want to accommodate. 0:19:28.840 --> 0:19:30.520 You forget the dressing on the side. Here you go 0:19:30.760 --> 0:19:34.000 just I think a bartender, you want to if you're 0:19:34.080 --> 0:19:37.280 drinking there for a while, start heavy with the tipping, 0:19:37.720 --> 0:19:40.400 hit him up, top, hit him up top, set a precedent, 0:19:40.640 --> 0:19:43.159 and then slowly wean it back. But then maybe at 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:45.800 the end of the night, double up if they're really good. 0:19:46.280 --> 0:19:51.200 But then I think barista's drivers, Yes, you got to 0:19:51.240 --> 0:19:54.200 tip the driver. I think like when you're getting picked 0:19:54.280 --> 0:19:55.639 up at the airport for a show or something, you 0:19:55.680 --> 0:19:58.320 always tip the driver. That's what Brian duol Murray always 0:19:58.359 --> 0:19:59.560 told me. Oys tip the driver. 0:20:00.040 --> 0:20:03.040 I'll hop grease some two or three bucks. I think. 0:20:03.920 --> 0:20:04.040 Uh. 0:20:04.480 --> 0:20:08.359 And then now, like when you go to get fast 0:20:08.400 --> 0:20:13.280 food or a barista or coffee, Yeah, there's time, Like, 0:20:13.400 --> 0:20:15.320 especially if I'm getting it to go, I don't. 0:20:15.160 --> 0:20:17.840 Leave a tip. It's like for what Yeah, absolutely not. 0:20:18.440 --> 0:20:22.520 The single is dead to me. Five dollars is where 0:20:22.640 --> 0:20:24.520 you're starting. For me, you got to start at a 0:20:24.520 --> 0:20:25.200 five dollar tip. 0:20:25.280 --> 0:20:27.560 But does somebody at like Jersey Mike's deserve a five 0:20:27.560 --> 0:20:28.160 dollars tip? 0:20:29.000 --> 0:20:33.200 Well, they're working harder, I would say than somebody at McDonald's. 0:20:33.600 --> 0:20:36.879 Well I think, isn't the tip option there at McDonald's too, 0:20:36.960 --> 0:20:38.399 don't I don't think so. 0:20:38.560 --> 0:20:42.560 No, no, But I would say Jersey, the tip jug 0:20:42.600 --> 0:20:44.840 has made its way to many a place now. It's 0:20:44.840 --> 0:20:48.200 basically everywhere. I will say many places. I always do it. 0:20:48.480 --> 0:20:50.119 And sometimes you want to make sure that I like 0:20:50.160 --> 0:20:52.000 to make sure they see I'm tipping. So like at 0:20:52.000 --> 0:20:54.840 the car wash, you know there's just that box, there's 0:20:54.840 --> 0:20:59.040 a box on the side. I'll be like, good job, guys, 0:21:00.080 --> 0:21:01.960 put it in like that loud, and I make sure 0:21:02.119 --> 0:21:04.840 my contact this is me tipping a tenor yeah, right 0:21:04.840 --> 0:21:06.479 in there, because it's going between everybody. You got six 0:21:06.560 --> 0:21:07.640 or seven guys working on the car. 0:21:07.560 --> 0:21:08.879 Boom, car wash, aps, what you got to go? 0:21:08.960 --> 0:21:11.320 I washed there and that's just a box out of nowhere, 0:21:11.359 --> 0:21:12.560 and you want to let people know you're doing it, 0:21:12.600 --> 0:21:14.760 so they go, they wash, they take care of the wheels. 0:21:14.480 --> 0:21:18.479 Yogurt food to go a coffee. Fuck that. I'm not 0:21:18.520 --> 0:21:20.000 into that at all. I don't like that. 0:21:20.119 --> 0:21:24.280 I'm I tip. I do tip a lot, and I 0:21:24.320 --> 0:21:26.840 will a lot meaning often, and I will say I 0:21:26.920 --> 0:21:29.760 do it just because I feel like, first of all, 0:21:29.760 --> 0:21:31.320 I always have cash in my pocket. I come from 0:21:31.320 --> 0:21:32.920 a world where it's always good to have cash in 0:21:32.960 --> 0:21:34.119 your pocket. A lot of people don't do that. A 0:21:34.119 --> 0:21:35.920 lot of people have cash in their pocket. So I'll 0:21:35.960 --> 0:21:37.880 peel off a five spot and drop it in. I 0:21:37.960 --> 0:21:41.080 love to make I love to make a scene about 0:21:41.119 --> 0:21:43.480 it for the jokes, Like every time we check it out, 0:21:43.480 --> 0:21:45.119 I tell Jigy, what do I do? I take out 0:21:45.160 --> 0:21:47.359 a twenty, I do a double, I go, this is 0:21:47.400 --> 0:21:50.400 for you. You take care of yourself in a big, 0:21:50.480 --> 0:21:52.320 like silly way, just to do it. But also I 0:21:52.359 --> 0:21:53.720 feel like the people at the front you're. 0:21:53.600 --> 0:21:56.680 Doing, you're also doing a kind gesture gesture but also 0:21:56.720 --> 0:21:57.280 self serving. 0:21:57.520 --> 0:22:00.200 I want to get upgraded to that corner suite. Could 0:22:00.240 --> 0:22:01.439 hit a button and it's the same thing, they'll do 0:22:01.480 --> 0:22:03.560 it for you. But it's also just because I know 0:22:03.560 --> 0:22:05.439 how people work hard, and I've always come from you know, 0:22:05.480 --> 0:22:07.040 I've come from a place of not having money. Now 0:22:07.080 --> 0:22:08.679 I'm lucky enough to have a little bit in my pocket. 0:22:08.840 --> 0:22:11.480 I like to share the wealth. But also it's it's 0:22:11.520 --> 0:22:14.400 for me, it's the entertainment. I'll always do this, I 0:22:14.440 --> 0:22:16.280 always do and Sally used to hate it. I'd be like, 0:22:16.359 --> 0:22:18.040 who broke him off? Do we break this guy off? 0:22:18.160 --> 0:22:19.520 We break him over? You need a piece? Do we 0:22:19.520 --> 0:22:21.240 break him off a piece? Like, I'll make a thing 0:22:21.280 --> 0:22:23.239 like the driver like we're getting out of the car, 0:22:23.320 --> 0:22:25.440 the farmer's getting out of the getting out of the van. 0:22:25.720 --> 0:22:27.440 Who broke him off a piece? Get a piece? We 0:22:27.480 --> 0:22:30.159 got a piece for him? And Salur is getting more 0:22:30.200 --> 0:22:32.560 beat red like I got no pieces, I got no pieces. 0:22:32.680 --> 0:22:34.560 This guy who's got a piece? Like, we'll do like 0:22:34.920 --> 0:22:37.640 that guy stuff. But I'll I don't really. If it's 0:22:37.720 --> 0:22:41.239 bad service, I will definitely dial it back. And if 0:22:41.240 --> 0:22:44.880 it's great surface, I will definitely go overboard. I'll I'll die. 0:22:45.000 --> 0:22:46.800 You have I've been with you where we've dialed it up. 0:22:46.800 --> 0:22:49.840 We made somebody's evening one night when we were together 0:22:49.840 --> 0:22:51.840 in Louisville. I know if remember we hit him too. 0:22:51.840 --> 0:22:53.480 We hit it two times. You did it on the 0:22:53.520 --> 0:22:54.840 card and on the way. I was like, this guy's 0:22:54.880 --> 0:23:05.120 so good I threw him. I exposed elbow because I'm 0:23:05.119 --> 0:23:09.200 an attacker. I'm gonna tack top right in the f bone. 0:23:10.760 --> 0:23:18.000 It's a bad spot for that. Guys. Jiggy double up. 0:23:18.680 --> 0:23:20.840 I've got this saying, But yes I do. I just 0:23:20.920 --> 0:23:25.520 tipped obnoxiously somewhere. Because here's the thing. We were there late. 0:23:25.600 --> 0:23:27.439 This was in New Orleans, New Orleans. This was in 0:23:27.440 --> 0:23:27.960 New Orleans. 0:23:28.000 --> 0:23:29.240 We were there the last table. 0:23:29.240 --> 0:23:30.040 We were the last table. 0:23:30.080 --> 0:23:32.080 If you're the last three tables, it's the end of 0:23:32.080 --> 0:23:36.120 the night. You gotta tip. You gotta tip more than thirty. Absolutely, 0:23:36.400 --> 0:23:37.120 we were there late. 0:23:37.680 --> 0:23:41.720 They gave us lots lots of food on the bronch. 0:23:41.960 --> 0:23:43.320 They were like, oh, this is for you, this is 0:23:43.400 --> 0:23:45.880 this is bubble law. And then that doesn't go in there. 0:23:45.880 --> 0:23:47.639 But the service still this still. 0:23:47.920 --> 0:23:48.679 Yeah, is another one. 0:23:48.720 --> 0:23:51.480 Dandink think. Let me get those shink think doing a 0:23:51.520 --> 0:23:53.880 five courser and here we are. They only get paid 0:23:53.920 --> 0:23:55.359 for a three courser. You're not going to do that. 0:23:55.359 --> 0:23:56.840 That's all the bill show. So if you do ten 0:23:56.880 --> 0:23:59.560 percent of that, twenty percent of that, it's not reflective 0:23:59.760 --> 0:24:03.320 of the work they've done. So I go in deep 0:24:03.320 --> 0:24:05.520 in a pock, dig that out I go on, tell 0:24:05.560 --> 0:24:09.080 me when to stop, tell me whant to stop. That's 0:24:09.080 --> 0:24:10.720 what I do. And that was, that was and that 0:24:10.840 --> 0:24:12.840 was worth every penny because it was a good really 0:24:12.840 --> 0:24:15.399 good food, really great team of people. That's the other 0:24:15.440 --> 0:24:18.159 thing too, when you get an influx of people helping you, 0:24:18.160 --> 0:24:19.760 I feel like you have to go harder if it's 0:24:19.760 --> 0:24:21.639 not just one waiter. Like sometimes you get this is me, 0:24:21.880 --> 0:24:23.480 this is Frank, will be taking care of you. The 0:24:23.840 --> 0:24:25.480 bus boys are coming over. It's a lot. 0:24:25.720 --> 0:24:30.240 Well, you're look, you're a national treasure, a national treasure. 0:24:30.400 --> 0:24:33.119 So you're dining experiences for the most part, are a 0:24:33.119 --> 0:24:35.600 little different. You're getting hooked up quite often, I think 0:24:35.600 --> 0:24:39.920 for the average person. Look, being a bartender is a 0:24:39.960 --> 0:24:42.720 rough job. Being a waiter is tough, and you're not 0:24:42.880 --> 0:24:45.160 just like though, the tip to the waiter is not 0:24:45.240 --> 0:24:46.720 just to the waiter, it's. 0:24:46.600 --> 0:24:47.560 To the bus boy. Yeah. 0:24:47.720 --> 0:24:50.399 Sometimes the kitchen staff they pull it with uh, the 0:24:50.440 --> 0:24:53.080 folks in the dish tank. So it's like that tip 0:24:53.600 --> 0:24:56.119 sometimes I would say fifty to sixty percent of the 0:24:56.200 --> 0:24:57.440 time is getting pulled out. 0:24:57.520 --> 0:25:00.000 Yeah, so they don't keep it with that in mind. Yeah, 0:25:00.040 --> 0:25:02.399 I will say this too, though, you have your means 0:25:02.920 --> 0:25:04.880 everybody's got a job, everybody's working for money. You could 0:25:04.920 --> 0:25:06.879 tip what you can tip. You know, you don't have 0:25:06.920 --> 0:25:08.960 to go put yourself out to help. If you do 0:25:09.040 --> 0:25:10.840 a gesture and you do what you could do, there's 0:25:10.840 --> 0:25:13.600 no percentage. For me, It's like, okay, what what could 0:25:13.600 --> 0:25:15.520 you do? Is where it comes from, you know. So 0:25:15.720 --> 0:25:17.240 that's a big part of it too. But I tip. 0:25:17.280 --> 0:25:20.040 I I do like to tip everybody that that I 0:25:20.080 --> 0:25:22.359 come across with. I do. I tip more often than 0:25:22.359 --> 0:25:22.680 I don't. 0:25:22.920 --> 0:25:28.320 If you have the slightest uh like modicum of of 0:25:28.400 --> 0:25:32.040 like being a decent server, you'll get a good tip, yeah, 0:25:32.040 --> 0:25:34.000 from from either of us if you're if you go 0:25:34.160 --> 0:25:36.720 the extra yard. I think that's where it's just like 0:25:36.760 --> 0:25:38.280 absolutely yeah, because I know how hard that. 0:25:38.400 --> 0:25:42.280 Because then also people at the table will also okay, no, 0:25:42.400 --> 0:25:46.399 not not Rex, not t Rex. We should we should 0:25:46.440 --> 0:25:52.720 not not not too short arms. That's Jiggy's podcast, two 0:25:52.720 --> 0:25:57.560 short arms. He's trying to get in his wallet. 0:25:57.800 --> 0:26:00.760 When I heard when when Gary Coleman past he gave 0:26:00.760 --> 0:26:06.480 his arms to Jui, Oh god. 0:26:06.280 --> 0:26:08.520 I love it. I will say. The other thing too, 0:26:08.600 --> 0:26:11.320 is the time to tip is very important because. 0:26:11.040 --> 0:26:12.480 You just look at Jiggy the whole time we do 0:26:12.560 --> 0:26:13.040 this podcast. 0:26:13.080 --> 0:26:16.800 Yeah, so the time tipping, there's this question from him. 0:26:17.520 --> 0:26:18.680 I think, yeah, well. 0:26:18.560 --> 0:26:22.560 No, he's like I got the answer. Very different podcasts. 0:26:22.600 --> 0:26:24.479 We went on for what what's the clock? At fifteen 0:26:24.480 --> 0:26:29.520 minutes ish? About tipping? He would have been like, nah, 0:26:29.680 --> 0:26:31.600 Ashley right, that's where he would have been. That would 0:26:31.640 --> 0:26:33.639 have been him on two short. 0:26:33.440 --> 0:26:35.760 Arms, even if he even if he was in a canoe, 0:26:35.760 --> 0:26:37.120 he wouldn't tip for sure. 0:26:38.600 --> 0:26:40.000 Nice, well done. 0:26:40.600 --> 0:26:42.320 Oh well, I'll give this one. He was a cow. 0:26:42.760 --> 0:26:46.840 Here's one that that I run into. Necessary necessary things 0:26:46.880 --> 0:26:51.320 you need. Perfect example is the hotel shuttle to the airport. 0:26:52.359 --> 0:26:54.000 That's always a tough one for me. Do you tip 0:26:54.040 --> 0:26:54.600 that guy or not? 0:26:55.040 --> 0:26:57.600 Or the rental car pickup guy if he gets off 0:26:57.640 --> 0:26:59.320 the rental car bus and he helps people. 0:26:59.080 --> 0:27:00.720 With their bags, I do you gotta give him a 0:27:00.720 --> 0:27:01.080 bucker TiO. 0:27:01.119 --> 0:27:02.240 I get him a bucker ti Yeah, what. 0:27:02.280 --> 0:27:03.280 If he doesn't touch the bags? 0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:04.680 I feel like that's the common thing you get in 0:27:04.760 --> 0:27:06.200 those shuttle buses' is just driving. 0:27:06.320 --> 0:27:07.440 I don't know that's his job. 0:27:07.800 --> 0:27:10.439 Oh my god, can I tell you what happened to me? 0:27:10.640 --> 0:27:15.200 Please? This is bananas, butsers this. 0:27:15.119 --> 0:27:18.320 Is B A N A N A N A. So 0:27:18.960 --> 0:27:21.359 I'm at A L A X. 0:27:22.920 --> 0:27:26.280 I get I I I I finished doing this. This 0:27:26.280 --> 0:27:29.840 this gig okay. And I'm running to the airport because 0:27:30.119 --> 0:27:32.399 LA actually never know. It's a crap shoot. So I 0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:35.600 rented a car, drop off the rental car, get on 0:27:35.600 --> 0:27:39.200 the Hurts rental shuttle, and I'm going to UH Southwest 0:27:39.440 --> 0:27:44.000 Terminal one. I get off, grab my bag, go through security, 0:27:44.480 --> 0:27:46.080 and I'm like, you know, I'm wearing this dress shirt 0:27:46.119 --> 0:27:47.720 all day. I want to put on my T shirt 0:27:47.880 --> 0:27:52.760 when I fly. Wrong bag, wrong bag, I grab the 0:27:52.800 --> 0:27:53.520 wrong shoe case. 0:27:53.560 --> 0:27:55.040 Wow, and I'm going. 0:27:56.359 --> 0:27:59.439 It's gone. And now I'm like, oh my god. 0:28:01.119 --> 0:28:03.960 I hope to God somebody else on the on the 0:28:04.000 --> 0:28:08.639 rental thing realizes this. B I got a call Hurts. See, 0:28:08.880 --> 0:28:11.000 I'm supposed to go to Vegas. I'm not going to 0:28:11.040 --> 0:28:14.800 Vegas now because because I'm not making my flight, because 0:28:14.800 --> 0:28:17.480 I got to get my bag back and get whoever's 0:28:17.480 --> 0:28:20.359 bag this is that I'm back to that individual. So 0:28:20.400 --> 0:28:23.480 I'm sitting there cold panic name on the tag or 0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:25.200 the no name on the tag, and I didn't want 0:28:25.200 --> 0:28:27.399 to open it either, and I'm just sitting there and 0:28:27.440 --> 0:28:30.480 I'm calling Hurts at LAX automated thing. 0:28:30.600 --> 0:28:31.720 I go, God damn. 0:28:32.119 --> 0:28:34.040 And while I'm making the phone call and I walk 0:28:34.080 --> 0:28:37.280 out of security, I remember LAX is shaped like you. 0:28:38.120 --> 0:28:41.959 Southwest is the first gate, United's the seventh. Now if 0:28:42.000 --> 0:28:44.760 I can just get out and run across, I can 0:28:44.840 --> 0:28:47.560 catch I can catch the HURTS thing. 0:28:48.560 --> 0:28:50.720 I get out, I run over it again. 0:28:51.320 --> 0:28:54.360 Run. It's like eighty degrees on the tarmac. 0:28:56.360 --> 0:28:58.240 I wish I had that day. 0:28:58.960 --> 0:29:01.760 Get over there. And as I get over there, our 0:29:01.840 --> 0:29:03.120 Hurts is pulling up. Mike. 0:29:03.400 --> 0:29:05.400 There could be six or seven of these, I don't know, 0:29:05.920 --> 0:29:08.280 and I go, I go, hold on, hold on, hold on. 0:29:08.720 --> 0:29:11.560 And as the guy's pulling up to the rental car 0:29:11.640 --> 0:29:14.000 thing where I happen to run right. 0:29:13.840 --> 0:29:15.960 To the spot. Thank god, it's right there. 0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:19.680 I see there's one bag left on the thing, and 0:29:19.760 --> 0:29:22.120 a guy grabs a bag and comes off. I go, 0:29:22.240 --> 0:29:25.680 oh my god, sir, I grabbed your bag. He goes, 0:29:25.680 --> 0:29:28.280 what I go, I grabbed your bag. I'm drenched in sweat. 0:29:28.320 --> 0:29:30.760 He goes, where did you come from? I go Southwest. 0:29:30.800 --> 0:29:31.720 I just ran over here. 0:29:32.160 --> 0:29:35.520 We switched bags and he's like, oh my God, it's 0:29:35.520 --> 0:29:36.680 this same exact bag. 0:29:36.800 --> 0:29:39.240 The chances of that astro believe it. 0:29:39.320 --> 0:29:41.520 So I told my wife, as you know, you gotta 0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:43.360 I like, I can tell somebody. So I told my 0:29:43.400 --> 0:29:47.800 wife worst case scenario turned into best case scenario. But 0:29:48.200 --> 0:29:51.360 it never happens if I'm not an absolute dipshit, right, 0:29:52.040 --> 0:29:53.320 it's all of my own making. 0:29:53.600 --> 0:29:54.040 I did it. 0:29:54.120 --> 0:29:56.600 I'm such an idiot. I should have looked and made sure. 0:29:56.680 --> 0:29:58.560 But it was literally the exact same bag. 0:29:59.080 --> 0:30:02.160 But you you made the mistake, then corrected the mistake. 0:30:02.240 --> 0:30:03.720 Thought I thought I had to do it, but you 0:30:03.760 --> 0:30:06.280 put yourself in that own situation. That wouldn't happen if 0:30:06.280 --> 0:30:08.400 you're just like, this is my bag. Yeah, but you're exactly. 0:30:08.400 --> 0:30:10.840 You probably had a couple of woo woos. No no, no, 0:30:10.920 --> 0:30:12.600 no no after the. 0:30:12.600 --> 0:30:22.720 Giggis was during the day, and I literally, okay, what 0:30:22.760 --> 0:30:23.600 else your honor? 0:30:25.880 --> 0:30:28.840 But then I literally ran to Southwest and did you 0:30:28.840 --> 0:30:31.200 make a flight to Vegas? Made barely made my flight 0:30:31.960 --> 0:30:37.960 drenched in sweat, by the way, that's amazing crazy, But 0:30:38.080 --> 0:30:42.320 again it's so it's all because I'm an actual did 0:30:42.360 --> 0:30:43.080 you tip the drive? 0:30:48.800 --> 0:30:49.120 All right? 0:30:49.200 --> 0:30:52.440 So thank you Warren for that, uh great question. And 0:30:52.800 --> 0:30:57.640 bringing up a haunting memory for me. Okay saying it's 0:30:57.680 --> 0:31:02.320 coming to from Michael, mister motorcycle, I'm looking to regularly 0:31:02.360 --> 0:31:03.720 tune into this podcast. 0:31:04.200 --> 0:31:05.120 What can I expect? 0:31:09.080 --> 0:31:14.760 Need we say more? Look at this? You're welcome, bang Michael? 0:31:14.760 --> 0:31:16.360 What can we expect from you as a listener? Why 0:31:16.400 --> 0:31:17.960 is it on us? Yeah? How are you gonna? What 0:31:18.200 --> 0:31:19.760 are you going to contribute better than this to the 0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:23.160 conversation because so far I'm unimpressed. 0:31:23.240 --> 0:31:25.480 Thank you. And if you're on venmo, you could tip us. 0:31:25.640 --> 0:31:28.960 Yeah, we should take tips. We should put a tip 0:31:29.040 --> 0:31:31.320 jar up for this episode. We'll do a tip jar 0:31:31.400 --> 0:31:33.440 up for this episode. What do you think I think 0:31:33.480 --> 0:31:35.840 people You think people will tip us? I don't think 0:31:35.840 --> 0:31:36.200 they will. 0:31:36.960 --> 0:31:39.640 Well, it's called Patreon these days, right, is that what, Liz? Yeah, 0:31:39.680 --> 0:31:40.719 you can do that basically. 0:31:40.760 --> 0:31:42.240 Yeah, we'll put a tip jar up for this. How 0:31:42.240 --> 0:31:43.720 do we do that? Jiggy, you gotta figure it out, 0:31:43.920 --> 0:31:47.880 gig you'll produce it for this Buy me coffee. 0:31:49.000 --> 0:31:50.120 Coffee for one off? 0:31:52.120 --> 0:31:54.280 Amazing, buy me coffees, all right? 0:31:54.320 --> 0:31:54.360 You? 0:31:54.720 --> 0:31:56.800 Or you could yeah, you could change your venmo handle 0:31:56.880 --> 0:32:00.920 to something, you know, like two cool moms tips at 0:32:00.920 --> 0:32:02.000 two cool mom's tips. 0:32:02.880 --> 0:32:05.200 All right, we'll figure it out. It'll be in the comments, okay, 0:32:05.520 --> 0:32:07.040 or maybe we'll even put it on as the tag 0:32:07.080 --> 0:32:08.280 at the end of this once we figure it out. 0:32:08.400 --> 0:32:11.000 But yes, that's what we'll do. Okay. 0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:16.800 This is coming to us from team Hey Cool, Hey Cool, 0:32:16.840 --> 0:32:19.520 and the Mommy's Gang. Got I love it, Hey Cool, 0:32:19.520 --> 0:32:24.200 The Mommies Gang of course new No Joey Boy first 0:32:24.240 --> 0:32:30.280 from his boob tube antics already already love you both, 0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:33.000 and the two Cool Moms Pod Steve, your comedy special 0:32:33.120 --> 0:32:37.160 is classical late okay, Okay, the question either mommies have 0:32:37.880 --> 0:32:41.240 pre stand up show rituals? Do you have any pre 0:32:41.360 --> 0:32:44.720 show rituals? Or with mommy Steve being a sportsman, any 0:32:44.720 --> 0:32:49.400 pregame rituals getting ready to get a sport on unrelated question, 0:32:49.480 --> 0:32:53.400 but still curious, would Joey Dogs for Days allow Steve 0:32:53.440 --> 0:32:53.880 to make a. 0:32:53.840 --> 0:32:59.600 Documentary on him? So do you have any pre show rituals? 0:32:59.640 --> 0:33:00.600 What the fuck is going on? 0:33:00.640 --> 0:33:02.280 I have no idea. I think he's having a stroke 0:33:03.360 --> 0:33:04.280 pre show rituals. 0:33:04.280 --> 0:33:05.760 But also he wants you to make a documentary. Oh 0:33:05.760 --> 0:33:07.560 that's because the joke I always make that you watch 0:33:07.640 --> 0:33:10.680 documentaries all the time. Got it. Okay. So now do 0:33:10.760 --> 0:33:12.520 we have any pre show rituals? I feel like you 0:33:12.520 --> 0:33:13.520 disappear for a minute. 0:33:14.240 --> 0:33:18.240 I the only ritual I have is in a perfect world, 0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:21.880 if the show is at seven, right, and I go 0:33:21.920 --> 0:33:24.000 on at seven thirty five, I would show up at 0:33:24.000 --> 0:33:27.200 seven thirty four. That'd be my my perfect that that 0:33:27.360 --> 0:33:29.000 is my that would be my pre show ritual. I 0:33:29.200 --> 0:33:31.800 don't want to do anything other than just like enjoy 0:33:31.880 --> 0:33:33.840 my day. And then it's like all right, show up 0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:36.840 and walk in the door and it's like ladies and gentlemen, Steve. 0:33:36.680 --> 0:33:37.800 It's like, wow, it's perfect. 0:33:37.960 --> 0:33:41.200 Yeah, that's that's like best case scenario. But in terms 0:33:41.240 --> 0:33:41.920 of rituals, I don't. 0:33:41.960 --> 0:33:45.040 I don't have any cup of coffee iron my shirt. Yeah, 0:33:45.320 --> 0:33:47.000 a cup of coffee, iron my shirt. I think that's 0:33:47.000 --> 0:33:49.200 my pre show ritual pretty much. That's what I do. 0:33:49.600 --> 0:33:51.600 I'll get a cup of coffee, yeah, and I'll iron 0:33:51.640 --> 0:33:52.960 my shirt and then I'll be like ready to go. 0:33:53.200 --> 0:33:56.520 I'll feel fresh and pressed, nice and caffeinated. Okay, just 0:33:56.520 --> 0:34:00.800 to get this right, press my coffee, drink my shirt. 0:34:00.960 --> 0:34:03.040 Got it in what order? 0:34:03.320 --> 0:34:07.320 First I drink the shirt and then I pressed the coffee. 0:34:07.440 --> 0:34:08.680 Got it French press coffee. 0:34:09.000 --> 0:34:15.160 Yeah, I I normally I've been doing this thing that 0:34:15.239 --> 0:34:16.960 like when we have a bus, I'm kind of like 0:34:17.000 --> 0:34:18.839 in my comfy pants of the latest moment I could 0:34:18.880 --> 0:34:19.160 be in. 0:34:19.440 --> 0:34:20.879 And there'll be a lot of times when Jiggy gets 0:34:20.960 --> 0:34:22.399 up there and he's doing his yuck yucks and laugh 0:34:22.440 --> 0:34:24.360 them ups and he has a big closer and I 0:34:24.360 --> 0:34:25.880 can hear him warmed himself up for it, and his 0:34:25.960 --> 0:34:28.000 voice changes a lot, and I hear that tone. I'm like, 0:34:28.120 --> 0:34:30.600 it's like a dog whistles like you gotta get dressed, bitch. 0:34:30.880 --> 0:34:32.880 Like I'm like, oh shit, and I'll realize what bit 0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:36.120 that's how he's going into And there has been times 0:34:36.840 --> 0:34:41.600 where I've been shaving as he's oh Jesus, as he's 0:34:41.640 --> 0:34:44.280 like getting into his things. He buttoned it up, cutting 0:34:44.360 --> 0:34:48.360 it close. But yeah, I've I've I did that. But 0:34:48.400 --> 0:34:51.200 I love a cup of coffee, iron my shirt and 0:34:51.320 --> 0:34:52.200 that's pretty much it. 0:34:52.440 --> 0:34:53.520 Yeah, do you listen to. 0:34:53.600 --> 0:34:57.320 Music, I'll listen to music, or like if I there's 0:34:57.440 --> 0:35:00.160 like a you know, some new monologue jokes whatever, but 0:35:00.200 --> 0:35:02.240 don't forget to do this that one. 0:35:02.360 --> 0:35:04.520 So if I like ever, like when I'm backstage, with 0:35:04.560 --> 0:35:05.000 you guys. 0:35:05.080 --> 0:35:07.080 I'll just pace for a minute or two, and I'm like, Okay, 0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:09.080 don't forget to do this one, and that joke goes 0:35:09.080 --> 0:35:11.040 here yep, and the wording is da da da da. 0:35:11.120 --> 0:35:12.400 But then it all goes out the window when you 0:35:12.440 --> 0:35:13.840 walk out there and you start your crowd work and 0:35:13.880 --> 0:35:16.319 you find somebody, right, it all goes great. 0:35:16.320 --> 0:35:16.759 I love that. 0:35:17.320 --> 0:35:19.160 And then the great thing about your show is that 0:35:20.000 --> 0:35:23.480 is that there's so many like, you know, kids, teenagers 0:35:23.520 --> 0:35:25.799 sometimes twelve or thirteen, and so I think what the 0:35:25.840 --> 0:35:29.080 audience responds to, at least from my perspective, as I'm 0:35:29.080 --> 0:35:32.160 coming out a little like you know, like almost like 0:35:32.200 --> 0:35:34.600 a sucker punch yep, that goes other fuckers. And then 0:35:34.760 --> 0:35:37.040 and then all of a sudden, you're setting that precedent, 0:35:37.120 --> 0:35:39.600 and then you're feeling like you're being rained in by 0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:42.279 a kid, which you are because you still want to 0:35:42.280 --> 0:35:45.080 be respectful to that kid and their and their parents 0:35:45.120 --> 0:35:50.960 or whatever. And then that odd dichotomy of like circumstances, 0:35:51.440 --> 0:35:53.279 what is what creates the tension in the room. 0:35:53.600 --> 0:35:54.879 So that becomes a lot of fun. 0:35:55.000 --> 0:35:58.600 Do you listen to Jiggy when he goes on all right? No, no, no, 0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:02.680 when I because you don't want to put yourself in 0:36:02.680 --> 0:36:04.200 a bad mood before you get to take. 0:36:04.080 --> 0:36:07.960 This tired, exhaust so tired. 0:36:08.520 --> 0:36:09.880 You want to put yourself for it. You want to 0:36:09.880 --> 0:36:13.120 put yourself in the in the mindset of the audience 0:36:13.160 --> 0:36:16.879 of like, oh my god, I just want this to end. Well. 0:36:17.000 --> 0:36:20.640 The good news is that when when people come, people 0:36:20.719 --> 0:36:23.840 come to your show and and they love when Jiggy's 0:36:23.960 --> 0:36:26.839 on the show opening for you, especially because they get 0:36:26.880 --> 0:36:28.840 it too. For one, they get a comedy show and 0:36:28.880 --> 0:36:36.759 an escape room. No, I do listen to Jiggy and 0:36:37.680 --> 0:36:40.640 I think, what what And we always respond to this 0:36:40.719 --> 0:36:44.399 because we the minute he comes off, like I can 0:36:44.480 --> 0:36:46.239 I can know when I listened to the crowd, I'm like, oh, 0:36:46.239 --> 0:36:48.600 they're fucking great, right right, And he'll come over and 0:36:48.640 --> 0:36:50.960 he'll just kind of like as we shake or whatever, 0:36:51.120 --> 0:36:54.640 Jiggy will like smile a little more, and I'm like, okay, you. 0:36:54.920 --> 0:36:56.399 Have to work, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:36:56.440 --> 0:36:58.759 But we have that like your thing where like as 0:36:58.800 --> 0:37:00.399 soon as he's coming off, you just know, and then 0:37:00.480 --> 0:37:03.160 I'll come off and we both immediately say the same thing. 0:37:03.200 --> 0:37:05.680 Whether it's like oh that was a little work, we 0:37:05.840 --> 0:37:08.480 both always I would say one hundred percent of the time. 0:37:08.480 --> 0:37:12.760 We both always sit on the same page until Joey 0:37:12.800 --> 0:37:14.040 Bang Bangs goes. 0:37:22.080 --> 0:37:24.759 But when I come up, it's tippy tippy pause, tip pause. 0:37:27.120 --> 0:37:30.960 Okay, it's coming us from m J. 0:37:32.560 --> 0:37:32.759 MJ. 0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:33.200 Hi. 0:37:33.239 --> 0:37:35.120 Your Mommy's love you both so much. You make me 0:37:35.200 --> 0:37:37.400 laugh every week and I always look forward to the podcast. 0:37:37.719 --> 0:37:41.560 Amusement parks throw rides Hell, yeah or no way. I 0:37:41.640 --> 0:37:45.600 love them, but my kids are leery. We live in 0:37:45.600 --> 0:37:50.520 Pittsburgh by Kennywood Love. Oh it's mo so mosas love. 0:37:50.560 --> 0:37:52.600 But uh but yeah, that that's when you go to 0:37:52.640 --> 0:37:56.480 amusement park with kids. That's a tough yeah, because you 0:37:56.480 --> 0:37:58.600 you wonder how how far do you push it? 0:37:58.680 --> 0:38:01.600 Yeah, you're gonna have fun, just relax. Has to make 0:38:01.640 --> 0:38:03.080 them get on it. You have to make them get 0:38:03.120 --> 0:38:04.880 on to see if they hate it or love it. Yeah, 0:38:04.920 --> 0:38:06.640 any kid would probably be afraid of it. Like my 0:38:06.719 --> 0:38:09.319 daughter though take so it loves it. My son hates it, 0:38:09.840 --> 0:38:12.040 but when we get him on stuff will eventually. Like 0:38:12.239 --> 0:38:13.480 he wanted to go in the first wheel but it 0:38:13.520 --> 0:38:15.800 was too high, and we went on it. He absolutely 0:38:15.880 --> 0:38:17.440 loved it and it was Yeah, but we had to 0:38:17.480 --> 0:38:19.319 talk him into going on it. But then there's another ride. 0:38:19.440 --> 0:38:21.200 We put him on him and you're going to see 0:38:21.200 --> 0:38:23.680 therapy in a couple of years because he was again. 0:38:23.760 --> 0:38:25.319 I talked about on stage about how the Star Wars 0:38:25.440 --> 0:38:27.640 right has ruined him for life, like it's crazy. 0:38:27.640 --> 0:38:28.479 One of the best lines. 0:38:28.520 --> 0:38:31.680 Yeah, it's it's it's nutty to do that. I find 0:38:31.680 --> 0:38:33.480 that's the hardest part. One of the hardest parts of 0:38:33.520 --> 0:38:38.120 parenting is knowing that line of like pushing and coddling. 0:38:39.080 --> 0:38:41.520 Right, yeah, my son is the same, it's the same dynamic. 0:38:41.640 --> 0:38:44.920 My daughter's gung ho. My son's a lot more apprehensive 0:38:44.960 --> 0:38:47.839 about things. But once he does it, and so that 0:38:47.880 --> 0:38:51.000 becomes the precedent of like, well, remember this and you 0:38:51.040 --> 0:38:53.359 did it and you were really nervous, but you had fun. Right, 0:38:54.120 --> 0:38:56.120 So what I do now is I just don't push it. 0:38:56.120 --> 0:38:57.399 I'm like, all right, you either want to do. 0:38:57.360 --> 0:38:57.919 It or you don't. 0:38:58.080 --> 0:39:01.000 Yeah, I don't care, because eventually he's going to be 0:39:01.080 --> 0:39:02.400 ten or eleven and he'll want to do it. 0:39:02.400 --> 0:39:05.279 So it's fine. My daughter is an absolute daredel will 0:39:05.360 --> 0:39:07.640 never really worried about her. I did have one experience 0:39:07.680 --> 0:39:12.040 with her though, that was really traumatic for me, as well, 0:39:12.120 --> 0:39:16.040 we did a you know those ropes courses where you 0:39:16.280 --> 0:39:18.640 click in, Yeah, right, you do that. So there was 0:39:18.640 --> 0:39:20.759 this outdoor one somewhere out on Long Island. We were 0:39:20.760 --> 0:39:22.640 somewhere and she really wanted to do it, and I said, okay, 0:39:22.680 --> 0:39:25.560 let's do it. So we went and it was one 0:39:25.600 --> 0:39:27.520 of those things where first of all, was being run 0:39:27.560 --> 0:39:29.480 by a guy who really didn't care about anything, and 0:39:29.480 --> 0:39:33.120 my daughter was clearly too small for it. She's not age, why, 0:39:33.200 --> 0:39:36.120 she's fine, but she's smaller. And there's parts where you 0:39:36.160 --> 0:39:38.080 had to like grab a top thing and walk right 0:39:38.120 --> 0:39:41.160 and you're dangling from a thing. So now I'm up 0:39:41.200 --> 0:39:43.440 there and I'm not the most because Bessie won't go right. 0:39:43.480 --> 0:39:45.200 She doesn't do that kind of thing. She's holding Remo 0:39:45.280 --> 0:39:47.439 and watching and cheering from the ground. So we're going 0:39:47.520 --> 0:39:49.160 up and well let's do it. Fine, so we're going 0:39:49.239 --> 0:39:51.279 doing it, and we got two parts and I was like, 0:39:51.400 --> 0:39:54.759 I'm having problems doing this. The problem was like she's 0:39:54.800 --> 0:39:56.479 in front of me because the way you click in. 0:39:57.160 --> 0:39:59.400 You can't move to go first, So first of all I. 0:39:59.400 --> 0:40:01.359 Should have been for and the guy I didn't even 0:40:01.400 --> 0:40:03.520 realize it, and he clicks her in so she has 0:40:03.560 --> 0:40:05.080 to go, and she's scared to death of this part 0:40:05.120 --> 0:40:07.160 because she can't. It's the highest part of it. There's 0:40:07.160 --> 0:40:08.920 only one route to go, and you have to go 0:40:09.080 --> 0:40:11.520 up this rope thing and you have to hold the 0:40:11.520 --> 0:40:14.520 top rope, and she can't reach the top rope. So 0:40:14.600 --> 0:40:16.799 I'm like all right. She's like what do I do? 0:40:16.880 --> 0:40:18.279 And I'm like all right. I said, well, you're good 0:40:18.280 --> 0:40:21.239 at balancing. Just balance hold your thing that's dangling, and 0:40:21.280 --> 0:40:24.320 just balance as best you can. And she was screaming, crying, 0:40:24.320 --> 0:40:25.440 and I couldn't do anything. 0:40:25.200 --> 0:40:25.600 To help her. 0:40:25.600 --> 0:40:29.000 And you're stuck, and I'm stuck and behind her, behind you, and. 0:40:29.080 --> 0:40:32.000 My god, those people don't get some people. 0:40:31.880 --> 0:40:34.520 You fucking shut up, Like, my daughter is scared death. 0:40:34.520 --> 0:40:37.960 I've ship I dare you to say, go, I'll throw 0:40:38.000 --> 0:40:40.120 you off this thing. So my daughter like, I'm really 0:40:40.400 --> 0:40:42.080 And we were at the top and there's only one 0:40:42.160 --> 0:40:43.600 route up and then you have to go back down. 0:40:44.440 --> 0:40:46.680 So she was screaming crying, and I was like, oh 0:40:46.680 --> 0:40:48.600 my god. I was like I felt so helpless. And 0:40:48.640 --> 0:40:50.680 when we were off sh she just wanted to be held. 0:40:50.880 --> 0:40:53.279 And I was like, I am the worst parent in 0:40:53.320 --> 0:40:55.000 the world, even though I know I'm not. I was 0:40:55.080 --> 0:40:57.600 just felt so bad and that was the only time 0:40:57.640 --> 0:41:00.120 I saw my daughter get bested by something and it 0:41:00.160 --> 0:41:02.600 was very humbling I think for her too, And since 0:41:02.600 --> 0:41:04.960 then I've seen her she's still brave as ship. But 0:41:05.000 --> 0:41:07.480 take a pause, like can I do this all right? 0:41:07.600 --> 0:41:09.400 You know, at like kind of deal. So it was 0:41:09.440 --> 0:41:11.719 definitely you could see that moment where it's like bravado 0:41:12.160 --> 0:41:17.320 versus like weighing the circumstance, Yeah, versus reality. 0:41:18.520 --> 0:41:22.800 Remember we went cave exploring my kids. 0:41:22.840 --> 0:41:24.440 Is that but not down? The not down? 0:41:24.480 --> 0:41:27.600 The rope is spurlunk no no splunking, as you're going 0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:30.120 into a dark, cavernous void and you don't know what's 0:41:30.160 --> 0:41:30.880 on the inside. 0:41:31.320 --> 0:41:33.480 That's what people call jiggy show it. 0:41:38.239 --> 0:41:43.680 With t W. That's also his wallet no tips allowed. 0:41:43.719 --> 0:41:47.080 Yeah, but but my kids were in front of me, 0:41:47.400 --> 0:41:49.640 and there's parts where you got to like, you get 0:41:49.680 --> 0:41:52.640 really clustrophobic, and that's like one of my biggest fears. 0:41:52.680 --> 0:41:54.480 But my thank god my kids were in front of me. 0:41:54.520 --> 0:41:56.759 I had the opposite. My kids were in front of me. 0:41:57.360 --> 0:41:59.239 They were if I was the first one, but you 0:41:59.239 --> 0:41:59.879 can't turn around. 0:42:00.239 --> 0:42:02.319 Yeah, I would have been nervous. Then they would have 0:42:02.320 --> 0:42:04.560 been nervous. You have a ripple effect, right, and then 0:42:04.760 --> 0:42:06.440 my son probably would have been scared. But he was 0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:08.680 like this is awesome, and he's just zipping through it. 0:42:08.719 --> 0:42:10.879 I'm like, oh, thank god, I see like these little 0:42:10.920 --> 0:42:12.680 feet in front of him, and I could just like, 0:42:13.120 --> 0:42:15.719 but I mean, have you ever done I know you 0:42:15.760 --> 0:42:17.880 did for the for the movie, but to actually like 0:42:18.080 --> 0:42:19.200 fall through that stuff, well. 0:42:19.120 --> 0:42:21.480 That was cool the cave because it was freaky as 0:42:21.520 --> 0:42:23.440 ship because I had to hide, so I had to 0:42:23.480 --> 0:42:25.359 They they're like, no, you just got through the here right, 0:42:25.640 --> 0:42:27.840 complete dark and I'm in full makeup and they're like, 0:42:28.960 --> 0:42:31.440 they're like, the guy goes to me, the guy goes 0:42:31.480 --> 0:42:33.000 to me, and the so in the movie, I played 0:42:33.000 --> 0:42:39.480 a cave, especially how you look to it. I have 0:42:39.520 --> 0:42:43.279 two great stories about this, just two great stories about this. 0:42:43.800 --> 0:42:46.680 I just gotta sit here by myself in the dark. 0:42:46.719 --> 0:42:48.480 I mean, that is so crazy. 0:42:48.200 --> 0:42:50.560 Waiting for the crowd to come. And they're calling off 0:42:50.560 --> 0:42:52.160 groups that aren't good groups like this in a good group, 0:42:52.200 --> 0:42:53.520 don't do it. Wait wait, wait, and I'm sitting there 0:42:53.560 --> 0:42:55.960 waiting there. So I'm sitting there, crouch crouched a tiger 0:42:56.040 --> 0:43:03.200 hidden fatto like this right, So turn the turner there 0:43:03.200 --> 0:43:03.440 I am. 0:43:03.640 --> 0:43:14.600 Look, so they turned, they turn in the corners, just 0:43:14.640 --> 0:43:15.680 sitting there in the dark. 0:43:15.840 --> 0:43:17.839 But wait, let me tell you. So here's the whole 0:43:17.880 --> 0:43:20.480 thing with with it. There's a there's a path that 0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:22.359 they go on. This isn't a spelunking. This is a 0:43:22.400 --> 0:43:31.680 cave tour. Okay, just on the bef that is so good. 0:43:32.560 --> 0:43:35.480 The graphic t we spoke of it. So the thing 0:43:35.560 --> 0:43:37.000 is that the cave we did it, and it wasn't 0:43:37.000 --> 0:43:39.160 a spelunking cave. It was a cave tour. It's a 0:43:39.239 --> 0:43:42.960 paved thing. What I did was plunking because I had 0:43:42.960 --> 0:43:45.080 to hide in it. So the guy goes, Okay, to 0:43:45.080 --> 0:43:46.680 get to where you have to go, you have to 0:43:46.680 --> 0:43:48.520 make the way the tour went. You came down the 0:43:48.520 --> 0:43:50.000 elevator and you made it right and you went around 0:43:50.040 --> 0:43:51.880 and this is the first stop. Us where I'm at. 0:43:52.200 --> 0:43:54.680 Forget to that first stop. They're like, you can't go 0:43:54.719 --> 0:43:56.600 over the thing. You have to go around the back. 0:43:56.640 --> 0:43:58.840 So I had to make a left, go over the 0:43:59.080 --> 0:44:01.040 over the ropes in where you're not allowed to go 0:44:01.120 --> 0:44:04.400 into the ravine, go down through the ravine. Through a 0:44:04.400 --> 0:44:07.080 little thing again. No, no, I'm going I had my 0:44:07.120 --> 0:44:09.680 phone like this to go there. They didn't think of 0:44:09.719 --> 0:44:12.480 it doing and I went, right, it sounds scary. It 0:44:12.480 --> 0:44:14.000 was a little scary. Yeah, it's little scary, and I'm 0:44:14.000 --> 0:44:15.880 not very athletic, so I'm not gonna phone down here. 0:44:15.920 --> 0:44:17.640 But it was fine, right whatever. So I get there, 0:44:17.840 --> 0:44:21.000 but they was They didn't They had a change in 0:44:21.040 --> 0:44:23.880 the guard of the people that worked there, and they 0:44:23.880 --> 0:44:27.239 didn't know I was in makeup. They didn't know I 0:44:27.280 --> 0:44:29.240 was supposed to be off to being passed. 0:44:29.520 --> 0:44:29.600 No. 0:44:30.080 --> 0:44:32.600 So there's this guy sees me coming in and he 0:44:32.640 --> 0:44:34.719 goes hey, hey, hey, and I turned I looking at him, 0:44:34.760 --> 0:44:38.399 and he goes hey. He goes hey, hey, hey hey, 0:44:38.560 --> 0:44:40.520 and I go no, no, no, wa're filming here. And he 0:44:40.560 --> 0:44:42.719 calls it and he's like, there's a guy. There's a 0:44:42.760 --> 0:44:45.000 guy here. I go tell him, go to him, Tell 0:44:45.080 --> 0:44:50.840 him on the beef, Tell tell on the beef. So 0:44:50.880 --> 0:44:52.480 the guys are and they're like, no, no, no, Phil, 0:44:52.480 --> 0:44:56.160 they're filming because oh nobody told me. What a moment 0:44:56.239 --> 0:44:59.000 for that guy to see a gray human being. Yeah, 0:44:59.520 --> 0:45:02.120 not allowed to be that. Oh my god, Yes, that's 0:45:02.120 --> 0:45:07.319 what my spelunking experience. Jesus, thanks for listening to two 0:45:07.360 --> 0:45:09.680 cool moms. Is that enough? What time we had? Yeah, 0:45:09.680 --> 0:45:13.439 we're great. Well we did it. Steven too cool mom? 0:45:13.480 --> 0:45:16.000 Did you could change? Buddy? What a great app? 0:45:16.200 --> 0:45:16.920 We really did it. 0:45:17.080 --> 0:45:17.520 We did it. 0:45:17.600 --> 0:45:18.759 I do feel like a cool mom. 0:45:18.920 --> 0:45:19.640 You are cool mom. 0:45:19.719 --> 0:45:20.280 Thank you, Buddy. 0:45:20.280 --> 0:45:22.040 I love you, pal love enjoy your shirt. 0:45:23.280 --> 0:45:25.160 These mommies love you, so show us some love. 0:45:25.320 --> 0:45:27.319 Please rate us and review us, follow us on all 0:45:27.360 --> 0:45:29.240 social media, and subscribe to our YouTube