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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Mario, Welcome,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Hey, good morning. So it's waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 1: We are trying to figure out why you're being ghosted.

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Speaker 1: So we got to know sort of the backstory.

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Speaker 2: How did you meet this woman?

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Speaker 1: Kristen tell us about any dates that you've been on,

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Speaker 1: and then what's going on right now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so we've actually been out on two dates.

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Speaker 4: I've been on Hinge and originally I said, hey, let's

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Speaker 4: go out, just get some dinner, classic whatever. Right, that

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Speaker 4: date went so well that I was like, hey, let's

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Speaker 4: do this again. She agreed, and so on our first date,

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Speaker 4: she was actually bragging about how good of a cook

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Speaker 4: she was, and so I was like, oh, you'll have

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Speaker 4: to cook.

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Speaker 3: For me next time, and she's like, okay, that sounds great.

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Speaker 3: So that's what we.

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Speaker 4: Did, Like we did dinner at her house and so

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Speaker 4: you know, she invited me over obviously, and we did

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Speaker 4: dinner homemade meal and I felt like they both went

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Speaker 3: We said we were going to do so I'm not

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Speaker 3: really sure what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Now, like why she goes say okay, so good, you

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Speaker 1: know connection, you know, there was chemistry. You're over at

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Speaker 1: her place, you're cooking food, everything is going so well.

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Speaker 1: You leave thinking, oh, we're going on another date for sure,

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Speaker 1: things are really developing. And then now it's radio silence.

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Speaker 1: You can't get a hold of her. She's not calling

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Speaker 1: you back, not texting, nothing.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 3: I understand why you wouldn't want to go on a

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Speaker 3: second date with someone, but this would be date number three,

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Speaker 3: so obviously she'd likes to be enough to go on

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Speaker 3: a second dat already and invite it over to her plate.

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, that's a good point. I mean, you wouldn't

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Speaker 2: have done that unless.

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Speaker 1: You felt a certain kind of way, especially in her

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Speaker 1: own space and all that. So let's call this woman, Kristen.

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Speaker 1: We'll see if we can get her on the phone.

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Speaker 1: We'll ask questions. Hopefully we can straighten things out and

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Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date that we pay for. Okay, yeah, please,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to play one song and then we'll come

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Speaker 1: back and do it. Hang on, let's see what's up

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Speaker 1: in part two of Waiting at the Phone after Hoes Year.

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Speaker 1: In two minutes, we'll do it. Say right here, it's

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Speaker 2: Mario.

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Speaker 1: Yes, hey, welcome back. Let's call Kristin. You guys met

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Speaker 1: on Hinge when on two dates. The first date went

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Speaker 1: so well that it was back to her place, or

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Speaker 1: to her place, I should say, for the second day,

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Speaker 1: you guys cooked. You really felt good about this, except

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Speaker 1: since then she's not responding to you can't get a

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Speaker 1: hold of her. Nothing's going on. You want to know why?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean there was no weird vibe or anything,

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Speaker 3: so I don't know what's up.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's call her right now. Good luck man. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: this is Kristin. Yes, Hi, Christian, good morning. My name

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Speaker 1: is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: to bother, but I do have to tell you that

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Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now, and I would

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Speaker 1: need your consent to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Is that okay? If we keep going?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, what is this about?

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much. I know it's weird, but we

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Speaker 1: appreciate that. We're calling actually on behalf of a guy

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Speaker 1: who reached out to us. His name is Mario. He says,

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Speaker 1: you guys met on Hinge and you went on two dates.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember this guy?

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Speaker 2: Yes? I remember him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Well he described a successful first date, said

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Speaker 1: the second date was great. He was excited to see

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Speaker 1: you again. But he says that you're not responding to

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Speaker 1: him at all, So what's going on?

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, you know, we met and he was

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Speaker 5: second date was a little weird, you know. He he

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Speaker 5: care of the appetizers and the drinks. And I don't know,

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Speaker 5: everything was kind of fine, and who he was about

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Speaker 5: like there was a lot of stuff, Like there was

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Speaker 5: literally the smallest amount of cheese, two small slices of salami,

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Speaker 6: That had like two SIPs left, and he like insisted.

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Speaker 5: He like made me wrap it up for him, and

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Speaker 5: he was like going over my shoulder when I was

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Speaker 5: and I don't know, it was like a turnoff for me.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean when you take I think it's

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Speaker 1: common knowledge when you take something to someone's house, you're

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Speaker 1: leaving it there when it's an appetizer, drinks, when you're

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Speaker 1: there and the person gets to keep it. Now, the

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Speaker 1: person could say, you know, you could have said, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to eat this stuff, do you want

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Speaker 1: to take it home with you, in which point he

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Speaker 1: it looks kind of stingy, right.

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Speaker 5: Yes, definitely very stingy. And it's just like a little excessive.

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Speaker 5: I feel like, not a good look for something, you know.

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Speaker 5: The second date, it's just a little intense, like it

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Speaker 5: was a very tiny amount of food. I don't even

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Speaker 7: You know, this guy mar three Markini, that little amount

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Speaker 7: of food I would not do. But like this happened

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Speaker 7: at Paulina's party. I brought drinks that I was drinking,

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Speaker 7: and I took them with me when we.

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Speaker 2: Were to talk.

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Speaker 7: It's not like they were drinks that I was sharing

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Speaker 2: There were drinks that I was drinking.

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Speaker 1: Like but that's the other thing though, When you bring

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Speaker 1: have You were eating her food. Yeah, and I took

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Speaker 1: some home with that too.

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Speaker 6: No way, guys, didn't take it in that food home.

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Speaker 1: You took a doggie bag home from her birthday party

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: But like, fam, okay, what let me bring Mario? And

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry christ and I forgot too mentioned that Mario

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Speaker 1: is here. Apparently Mario and Rufe are the best friend. Dude,

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Speaker 1: you doing, man, Like if it's just leave it, you know,

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Speaker 1: it's it isn't even worth it.

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Speaker 3: No, that wasn't anything that like I took of hers.

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Speaker 3: It was all stuck that I brought and like she

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Speaker 3: So I was like, well I'll take it. I mean,

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Speaker 3: there's no let good food go to waste.

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Speaker 2: It was good and you know what, like well with.

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Speaker 3: Clanry, I'm a little bit of wine, Like that's a

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Speaker 5: A two year old, I mean two year olds don't

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Speaker 1: It's like, dude, really, this is what my mom does.

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Speaker 1: By the way, Like my mom, my mom. We will

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Speaker 1: know whatever. And then then what happens. She'll leave Chicago

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Speaker 1: especially if you bring something to someone's house. It is

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Speaker 1: not as uncouth to take it with you. I'm trying

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Speaker 6: If everyone That's what.

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Speaker 7: I'm saying, like, if everyone brings drinks and brings food,

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Speaker 6: They don't have the giant fridge in the house. I'll

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Speaker 6: they'll say, here, take this. I don't want this.

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Speaker 2: You don't well.

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Speaker 6: I brought drinks that I was drinking from myself.

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Speaker 2: I took them home with you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because I bought them.

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Speaker 2: And I'm gonna take them.

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Speaker 1: But you're also invited into someone's home, and that's what

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Speaker 6: I was in the alley the whole time. I wasn't

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Speaker 6: invited in the house. Over the next one hired the food.

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Speaker 6: You know, I was drinking stuff that I brought. I didn't.

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Speaker 6: I didn't impose and start drinking whatever. If we had

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Speaker 7: Like normally I bring drinks that like Jess and I

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Speaker 6: Was like, I paid for it. What are you gonna

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Speaker 2: What are you doing?

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Speaker 3: More?

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Speaker 6: Trulyys in your house? What is that gonna do for

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Because you eat the food, so she keeps the truly.

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Speaker 1: No one's taking No one's counting this.

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Speaker 7: But like when I when I host the party, like

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Speaker 7: if we get catering or something, I'm telling I'm telling

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Speaker 7: everyone to pack it up. I'm telling I'm telling everyone

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Speaker 6: Because what am I going to do with this food?

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Speaker 5: Or that's true, but your truly is like you went

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Speaker 5: back for them, like that's a mission.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, guys look so DIFFERENTI of opinion here he

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Speaker 2: Will you give him another chance? Kristen? Another date.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna pay for the date, so it's you know,

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Speaker 1: no sweat off either one.

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Speaker 6: Of you can take all you want home.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can order what you want to take it home.

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Speaker 1: Would you give this half another chance?

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna have to say no. I think he's just

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Speaker 5: too stingy for my taste.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's a little weird. But anyway, we

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Speaker 1: look okay. Well he doesn't agree. That's fine. Mar she's

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Speaker 1: not interested. I'm sorry. We couldn't you know, make a

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Speaker 1: love match here. But we do appreciate both of your

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you.

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Speaker 1: The Entertainmer Report with Caleb. He's up next to trending Stories,

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Speaker 1: fun fact, all on the way back in two minutes

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Speaker 1: after the weekend, it's the Fred Show.