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Speaker 1: well a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice?

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Speaker 1: Come on dig me now one it only Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: been on it, so today is no different. I'm telling you,

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Speaker 1: I've just reinvigorated myself. I'm more determined to share the

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Speaker 1: I have really been through it. I kid you not.

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Speaker 1: You know. I used to say, Okay, God, you know,

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Speaker 1: why is all this happening to me? But as I've

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Speaker 1: the stuff that I didn't think tastes so good. All

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Speaker 1: much as I did not like the taste of the ingredients,

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Speaker 1: little did I know God was making this cake, not me.

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Speaker 1: But what he did was and you've heard you the

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Speaker 1: old saying God could turn lemons into lemonade, Well that's

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Speaker 1: But little did I know that I needed everything that

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Speaker 1: is what I want to give to you today. I

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Speaker 1: want you to understand something that discipline determines your destiny,

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Speaker 1: not your desire. Discipline determine your destiny, not your desire.

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Speaker 1: You've heard me say this how many times on the

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Speaker 1: show Okay, here we go against it. I got it.

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Speaker 1: Faith with our works is dead. But let me tell

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Speaker 1: be disciplined. That's one of the hardest lessons I'm trying

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Speaker 1: We're gonna let you go fast. But seventy is the limit.

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Speaker 1: But if you're an undisciplined person, if you don't have

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Speaker 1: That's just what you're saying. But discipline determines your destiny,

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Speaker 1: not your desire. So now let's talk about this discipline.

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Speaker 1: The fact that you had a bad day at the

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Speaker 1: But because you keep having these bad days, because you

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Speaker 1: Now you have to combine with some slow times that

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Speaker 1: for people who limit them bad days, who got the

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Speaker 1: if you ain't grinding, if you ain't hurting, if you

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Speaker 1: not your desire. You're listening show, ladies and gentlemen, it

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Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry calling for rel Mississippi Monica. That dog on

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Speaker 1: Steve Man the other night and that Father's Son case.

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Speaker 1: Man had me hollerand boy, that Father's Son case wasn't

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Speaker 1: That's a disturbing thing about it. It's when they do

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Speaker 1: You know? You know, I mean, it'd be real life situations,

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Speaker 1: and it's always something that I told them what happened.

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Speaker 1: Well she was working, your ignorant ass and went off

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Speaker 1: of me some stupid ass decision. Now you should up

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Speaker 1: here talking about I ain't no good ass pad. How

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Speaker 1: we don't start putting Blarry every long? You was a

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Speaker 1: ragged ass shot. Thank you, Julia, go ahead, wrong, that's

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Speaker 1: gonna feel better now, Steve, thank you because that was

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Speaker 1: we're gonna start the show off with nephew Tommy's run

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. Well, to start your morning off, here's the

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Speaker 1: nephew with run that frank back. What you got now?

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Speaker 1: I need a reference. I need a reference. Let's go

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Speaker 1: quet don't hello, Yeah, I'm trying to I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: reach Scotty please, yeah, Yeah, what's up? Hey, Scotty. How

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Speaker 1: are you doing, man, I'm trying to actually get a

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Speaker 1: reference for for Monica Monica or you're talking about Monica

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Speaker 1: my ex wife. Yeah, I'm trying to get a reference

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Speaker 1: on her if possible. Okay, so what's the applying for

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Speaker 1: a jobs? He trying to go to work? Now? Uh no,

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Speaker 1: this reference is actually for like a relationship, a relationship

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Speaker 1: you you're talking about a job relationship? No, no, no no, no.

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Speaker 1: all right? Moving on to Knetra in Charlotte. Knetra right time.

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Speaker 1: Thirty years old and I've been in an open relationship

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Speaker 1: for most of my adult life. My boyfriend and I

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Speaker 1: do not live together, so it's fine if I have

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Speaker 1: company or if he has friends over. It gets awkward though,

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Speaker 1: if I have company and he wants to stick around

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Speaker 1: and watch us being intimate. I never do that to him,

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Speaker 1: So why is he being like this all of a sudden?

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Speaker 1: Is this jealousy or what? What do you care? Y'all

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Speaker 1: ain't gotten nothing. He don't want you. You in an

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Speaker 1: open relationship. You just didn't know it was wide open.

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Speaker 1: Ye don't, I don't. Yeah, you get you're in an

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Speaker 1: open relationship. He wants to stick around and watch. Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Ain't gotten nothing. Why is he liked this all of

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Speaker 1: a sudden? Why is he like? What? What do you have?

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Speaker 1: You have no barriers in your relationship. You have no rules, y'all,

437
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 1: just two people that see each other and can go

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Speaker 1: see who you want to see. What do you have? Why?

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00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: Why is he like this? That's what you like? You

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00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: like open relationships? Well, let's open it all the way.

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Speaker 1: Let's get this thing open. What open? Open? Open? Coming

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Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, Thank you, clo.

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Speaker 1: We'll have some entertainment news right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to show. Okay, So, no matter how much a father

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Speaker 1: likes his daughter's boyfriend, he doesn't want to see his

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Speaker 1: baby girl engaging in PDA with him. He just doesn't.

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00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 1: And of course, Steve, you are no exception to this rule.

448
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 1: Your daughter. This is about you, Yeah, your daughters five

449
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 1: PA public display of effect. I thought about bowling you thought.

450
00:29:52,520 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 1: I thought it was what your daughter Laurie is currently dating,

451
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Speaker 1: Michael B. Jordan, the actor. Uh so doing an During

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Speaker 1: an appearance on The Ellen de Generous Show, you were

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Speaker 1: showing a photo of her sitting on Michael B. Jordan's lap.

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Speaker 1: Think a listen, look at that that's happening in front

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Speaker 1: of you. I've never seen that picture before. Very uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: with that picture right now, really feeling that picture. Oh

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Speaker 1: the wedding, got the picture phone, but when she put

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Speaker 1: it up on that big screen, I was mortified. She

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Speaker 1: was sitting on his Lapful, What did you got your

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Speaker 1: hand on her? Faftful? Get your ass off my damn daughter. Steve,

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Speaker 1: you also said you do like Michael bach Jordan because

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Speaker 1: he's a good gift giver. Take a listen. So he

463
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Speaker 1: bought me this big one hundred cigar box of the

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Speaker 1: most most hard to get cigars, one hundred of them

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Speaker 1: in this big box, and gay that to me. He

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Speaker 1: gave my wife some skis? Who do that? Only way

467
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 1: you give your potential mother in law some skis? It's

468
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Speaker 1: because you want her to be your mother in law. Yeah, yeah, course, yeah, glory,

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Speaker 1: But you meant yourself. You met you and Marjorie. Oh,

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Speaker 1: you gotta get good gifts. Yeah, and I'm pulling for

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Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, Like he got good family, his father. Oh,

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Speaker 1: we know the same people in that you got. He

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Speaker 1: got good family. Man. He's good dude. He's really a

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Speaker 1: cool dude, really is you know, on the Ellen Show,

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Speaker 1: you know, I still hum. I don't know that yet.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I got to wait and see.

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Speaker 1: That's up to her. You know, it's up to her

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Speaker 1: and him. I hope they make it. If they don't,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm just sh Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: But like I said on the show, you know, I

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Speaker 1: didn't told him. I didn't threaten him. I really I

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Speaker 1: don't really see myself being able to Oh, everybody getting

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00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 1: back everybody, everybody I threatened everybody. Look, you can break

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00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 1: up with him. You can stop speaking to all my daughters.

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00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 1: You can quit speaking to them, you can stop texting,

486
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 1: you can leave them, you can walk out on them,

487
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: you can do you can do everything, but you can't

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Speaker 1: put your hand on them. If you put your hand

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Speaker 1: on them, I just got news for you. There's no

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00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 1: where you can go. But I had to talk with him.

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Speaker 1: But it wasn't really necessary. He from that cut. But

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00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 1: you know, like I still got my own him. But

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Speaker 1: you know, I can't whoop it. I know already know that.

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Speaker 1: I don't see all the Creed movies. Yeah I saw

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Speaker 1: the Creed movie. That's good enough for me. I can't. Yeah,

496
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Speaker 1: I know, but I can't even I can't even act

497
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Speaker 1: that way, no more so. But I'm clear about it though.

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Speaker 1: If you turn your back, though, I'm gonna knock your ass.

499
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: Ain't no doubt, Ain't no doubt. I'm gonna get you.

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Speaker 1: You in shape, but your eyeball, your eyeball is not

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00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: that in shape. Your eyeball anyway, We're moving on and

502
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 1: other entertainment news, Tyler Perry is bringing Medea back from retirement.

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Speaker 1: He dropped the news with the hilarious promo poster resembling

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Speaker 1: Beyonce's homecoming Netflix special Homegoing, Uh, I want to think

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Speaker 1: my Incredible moth I Mitchella Netflix coming soon. Tyler decided

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Speaker 1: to revive the character of media to give fans a

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Speaker 1: good laugh during these crazy times. He says, I was

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Speaker 1: looking at the state of the world and how polarized

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Speaker 1: it is. Nobody's laughing, he said, and I'm like, what

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Speaker 1: tool do I have in my arsenal that can bring

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Speaker 1: that kind of laughter? So there you go. So he's

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Speaker 1: bringing media back, and I think it will. I think

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Speaker 1: he's right. That would go give everyone a laugh, a

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Speaker 1: good laugh, good belly laugh. The mop Hive, the mom

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Speaker 1: I've love homegoing though. Yeah. Also, finally, some sad news

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Speaker 1: from the fashion world, seventy three year old Andre Leon

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Speaker 1: Tally has passed away. Mister Tallely was a towering figure,

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Speaker 1: both literally and figuratively in the world of fashion. He

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Speaker 1: was six foot six. He was an icon that wrote

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Speaker 1: about fashion. Served as Vogues news editor, creative director, and

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Speaker 1: editor at large. Andrea was instrumental in getting more models

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Speaker 1: and fashion designers of color on the runway and in

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Speaker 1: the magazines. At one point, he even served as a

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Speaker 1: stylist for President and First Lady Michelle Obama. UH, President

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Speaker 1: Barack Obama. Our deepest condolence is going out to the

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Speaker 1: Tally family. You knew him too. I met him. Once

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Speaker 1: I met him, was made him at Neiman Marcus. Had

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Speaker 1: a jewelry show. M h and heck of a nice guy,

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Speaker 1: very nice. He night. He complimented me on what I

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Speaker 1: had on which that's all I cared about, right, dude, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that was that. I felt terrific man after that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I allowed him met him was yeah. Yeah. Rest

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Speaker 1: in peace. Andre Leon tally Well. Coming up at twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, a special treat for our audience.

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Speaker 1: We love this woman. CNN's Laura Coats will be our

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Speaker 1: very special guest. She's going to tell us about her

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Speaker 1: brand new book. It's called just Pursuit, A Black Prosecutors

538
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Speaker 1: Fight for Fairness. Right after this. You're listening, l right, everybody,

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Speaker 1: our special guests this morning is a CNN senior legal analysts.

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Speaker 1: She's also a serious XM host and she was She

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Speaker 1: is a professor at George Washington University School of Law.

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Speaker 1: She's a former federal prosecutor and a civil rights attorney.

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Speaker 1: And to add to her Stella resume, she's also an

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Speaker 1: author and she's got a new book out and it's

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Speaker 1: called Jess Pursuit, A Black Prosecutors Fight for Fairness. We've

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Speaker 1: invited her to the show to talk to us about

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Speaker 1: this book called Jess Pursuit. Please welcome to the show

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Speaker 1: for the first time. One of the most respected legal

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Speaker 1: analysts of our time on CNN. Please welcome for the

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Speaker 1: first time, Miss Laura Coates. Welcome, welcood morning, Welcome, good morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy to be with you all. How are you, Laura,

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00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:07,360
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. First time for you. We've been waiting. Well,

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Speaker 1: I am so happy to be here, and I am

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Speaker 1: so glad you called and so excited. I put a

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00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 1: big fan of the show. I listen all the time.

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Speaker 1: So it's for you to hear myself now on this

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Speaker 1: program because I'm so giddy inside and I'm going to

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Speaker 1: try not to fan girl and be respectable. Lad. Hey,

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Speaker 1: well listen, Laura. We got a new book out, and

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Speaker 1: you wrote a book. It's called Just Pursuit, and they're

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Speaker 1: describing it as an urgent, deeply personal, and groundbreaking account

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Speaker 1: of bias in the courtroom. Now and all this is

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Speaker 1: from your perspective as a black female federal prosecutor at

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Speaker 1: the US Department of Justice. So give us an overview

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Speaker 1: of the book. So you know, this is not the

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Speaker 1: kind of book I think people expect for lawyers to write.

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Speaker 1: They expect it to be something very stuffy, let me

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Speaker 1: be signed in a law school classroom. But I intentionally

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Speaker 1: made sure that it was a narrative memory are that

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Speaker 1: every chapter stands alone as its own separate episode for

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Speaker 1: people to really understand not only what the law is,

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Speaker 1: but what justice feels like, what justice really looks like,

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Speaker 1: the ways in which justice creates injustice at times. And

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Speaker 1: I take you through a journey of my own personal

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Speaker 1: battles of allegiance where you all know we don't have

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Speaker 1: the luxury of shedding any facet of our identity at

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Speaker 1: the door. I come in as a woman, a black woman,

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Speaker 1: a mother, a wife. I come in as a civil

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Speaker 1: rights advocate, and I'm immediately struck by the idea that

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Speaker 1: I have the lived experience as a black woman, and

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Speaker 1: yet the orders that I'm being given or the role

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Speaker 1: I must play within the system are at complete odds

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Speaker 1: in tension with what I am experiencing. And I walk

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Speaker 1: you through from anything in terms of having to aid

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Speaker 1: in the deportication to what mistaken identity really looks like

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Speaker 1: on the front end, to the idea of victim blaming

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Speaker 1: of sexual assault survivors, to what it's like to actually

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Speaker 1: investigate voting excrimination. There are moments of triumphs, there are

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Speaker 1: moments of tragedy. There are moments of connected CHISSI that

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Speaker 1: tells you, look, it's not a justice system. It's a

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Speaker 1: legal system, but perhaps you can get to the pursuit

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Speaker 1: of justice and actually catch it one day and I

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Speaker 1: write about all of it. Yes, and Laura, hang on,

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Speaker 1: when we come back, we're going to talk about some

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Speaker 1: of these very very interesting chapters in the book. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, when we come back. We got Laura Coats

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Speaker 1: on the show. Everybody, We'll be right back, Steve Alving

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening, all right, everybody, we're back in

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Speaker 1: our special guests at CNN senior legal analysts. Uh. And

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Speaker 1: she's on CNN all the time now she I'll notice

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Speaker 1: that she stepped in and feel a set of shoes

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Speaker 1: over there. You see her every night, almost coming on

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Speaker 1: right behind Don Lemon, or in front of Don Lemon

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Speaker 1: sometimes but most of them mostly behind Don Lemon, I think.

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Speaker 1: And so we've been watching that. We're a fan of hers,

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Speaker 1: and she's a fan of the show. She's on here

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Speaker 1: today talking about her new book. It's called Just Pursuit.

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Speaker 1: And when I was going out on the break, she

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Speaker 1: has some chapters that you really don't expect to see

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Speaker 1: in a book from an attorney, and I'm gonna ask

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Speaker 1: her about these. Chapter one, please don't come. Chapter two,

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Speaker 1: want to see something funny. Chapter three, I want no

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Speaker 1: part of this. Chapter four, she needed me to believe her.

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Speaker 1: In chapter five, that's not me. Wow. I mean, this

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Speaker 1: doesn't sound like words from a lawyer, Laura, Well, I

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Speaker 1: hope they sound like words from a human being, because

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Speaker 1: we have to be in our justice system, and we

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Speaker 1: have to have the wherewithal to bring our whole selves

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Speaker 1: into it, and we have to think about the role

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Speaker 1: of black and brown people in our criminal justice system

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Speaker 1: as more than simply a defendant. We know there's no

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Speaker 1: monopoly on the commission of crime, and yet we see

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Speaker 1: the parade of human misery. We see the idea of

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Speaker 1: how disproportionately impacted black and brown community is in the

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Speaker 1: targeting and the policing and the prosecution. And so I

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Speaker 1: really wanted to peel back the curtain and personify the

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Speaker 1: issues we've been talking about all across the table. And

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Speaker 1: I'll begin with that first chapter because that was one

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Speaker 1: of the most difficult ones for me to write. I

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Speaker 1: felt so vulnerable. You see me on CNN talking about

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Speaker 1: the law, but rarely do you see how I feel

632
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Speaker 1: about the law and what it really means when you

633
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 1: are having your marching orders for justice. Here's what it

634
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Speaker 1: can look like. And sometimes, Steve and everyone, the pursuit

635
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:36,920
Speaker 1: of justice creates injustice. And case in point here, I

636
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 1: was running a regular background check like we have to

637
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Speaker 1: do for anyone who's going to go into the courtroom,

638
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:45,840
Speaker 1: whether it's a victim of a crime, obvious superdefendant, and

639
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 1: any witnesses you are going to call. My victim had

640
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:52,840
Speaker 1: a deportation laurrant. It was decades old, he had been

641
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:56,359
Speaker 1: in the country illegally, had raised his family, was an

642
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 1: a law abiding person who wanted to be a citizen

643
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Speaker 1: with tributing member. Hadn't go to sneeze at a police

644
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: officer in the time that he remained in the country,

645
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Speaker 1: And because the fact that he had a warrant, I

646
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 1: was required to essentially aid in his deportation or got

647
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:16,359
Speaker 1: contact Ice and try to turn him in to let

648
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Speaker 1: them know that there was an active warrant. And I

649
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: can't tell you how conflicted I was in those moments

650
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 1: when my moral compass of what I knew was right

651
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: and wrong was in direct contrast with what I was

652
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 1: ordered and I think in our lives we have moments

653
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:34,439
Speaker 1: where the things that we think we would do, the

654
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 1: moments that we think define us. Who you think you

655
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,959
Speaker 1: will be when your back is against a wall will

656
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 1: shock you. And trying to reconcile your strive for civil

657
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:50,399
Speaker 1: disobedience and realizing what injustice looks like. I write about

658
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 1: it because I don't spare myself in the criticism of

659
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 1: the justice system in America. Do you believe that the

660
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 1: criminal justice system can be and if so, what do

661
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 1: we start? Absolutely, And here's where we start by First,

662
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 1: if you want to speak truth to power, you first

663
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: have to know the truth. That's why I write throughout

664
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Speaker 1: the chapters about what it really looks like. We're talking

665
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,759
Speaker 1: about mistaken identity, and what it really looks like when

666
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 1: you have prosecutorial discretion, and all the way up to

667
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: the judges, what sort of bias they bring in even

668
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 1: though they are cloaked in this black robe, they still

669
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Speaker 1: bring themselves bias and all with them. And I think

670
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 1: if we start to if we know it just speaks

671
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 1: truth to power. They have to know what the truth

672
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 1: is and then you can do more to reform it.

673
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 1: Justice is not a destination it's not a verdict, it's

674
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 1: not one case. It's recognizing the humanity, the role of redemption,

675
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 1: and also the role of bias and race in our

676
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: legal system. And once we peel back those curtains, once

677
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,799
Speaker 1: we acknowledge it, we can actually be on the road

678
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Speaker 1: to reform and not just pursue justice, but maybe one

679
00:43:55,400 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 1: day catch it. Well, yes, that would be yes, that

680
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:04,399
Speaker 1: will be great. Hey, listen to everybody, Steve Harvey Nation.

681
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,399
Speaker 1: Here's a deal. The book is called Jess Pursuit. It's

682
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 1: out now by Lord coachs. Let's go out and get

683
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 1: your copy today. Lord coach me, thank you so much

684
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,760
Speaker 1: for joining us. Don't be a stranger. Okay, I won't

685
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,360
Speaker 1: thank you. I appreciate you all so much from the

686
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 1: bottom of my heart. Thank you, Lady Jim and Lord coach.

687
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 1: All right, and coming up next, it is the nephew

688
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 1: with the prank phone call for today. Right after this,

689
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the

690
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 1: top of the hour, right about four minutes after, it's

691
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Speaker 1: my Strawberry letter for today. The subject we did it

692
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 1: and he's trying to do me. We'll get into that

693
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 1: in just a bit, but right now. The nephew is

694
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Speaker 1: in the building with today's prank phone call. What you

695
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 1: got for us, Nev, Well, I think we're gonna do

696
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 1: a little praise dance in this moment. Oh yeah, the

697
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Speaker 1: praise da little praise dancing. Let's go, come on, kat. Hello,

698
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Speaker 1: this is the day that the Lord has made. Let

699
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,879
Speaker 1: us rejoice and be glad in And how you doing?

700
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: I'm looking for uh Stania? This is Sitania, Satia. This

701
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 1: is Brother Fuller from the church. How are you? Oh,

702
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm with brother, How are you? I'm good, I'm good. Um.

703
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:23,800
Speaker 1: We wanted to give you a call about the about

704
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 1: the praise dancing that's at the church. First of all,

705
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: I wanted to really show you how much, uh you're

706
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 1: doing a great job over there with the praise dances

707
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 1: and you you definitely do a great job on uh

708
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 1: I Hapy third Sunday that you guys actually perform. Everybody

709
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 1: seemed to really like it. Well, thank you, thank you.

710
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 1: What can I do for you today? It was a

711
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: bit of a situation with um. You know, it's been

712
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: brought to our attention. We actually had a small gathering,

713
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 1: a little meeting about it and wanted to I've been

714
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 1: elected to actually give you all and who is this?

715
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, who are you again, brother Fuller? Uh huh?

716
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 1: And and who had a meeting uh some of the

717
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: brothers at the church and uh path to actually sat

718
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: and for moment on it. And I was actually elected

719
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: to actually just give you a call. It nothing that

720
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 1: I don't think we can't get rectified and you know,

721
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 1: move on slowly as we normally do. But I just

722
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: think it's we wanted to reach out to you and

723
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:14,719
Speaker 1: kind of make you aware of it. If it's if

724
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:19,280
Speaker 1: you don't mind, okay? Um? And what things are those? Well?

725
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 1: Since since a Tania has any of the praise dancers

726
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 1: before they became praise dancers? Was was any of them strippers?

727
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: I beg your partner, was any of the praise dancers

728
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 1: that at the church that you have on the praise

729
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 1: team right now with any of them strippers in the past.

730
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, sir, I don't I don't really know who

731
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 1: you are, um, and I don't really understand this line

732
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: of question. But like I said, I'm brother full I

733
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 1: don't think we've met. But uh, like I said, I've

734
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 1: been elected to give you a call. Not now it

735
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,319
Speaker 1: seemed like what happened is this past week when you

736
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 1: all actually uh danced, It seemed like a couple of

737
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:04,359
Speaker 1: the girls was actually gyrating during the praise routine. Hey,

738
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: what jat raiding? Brother full I don't know who you are,

739
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 1: and I don't know what you saw. None of my

740
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 1: girls with gy rating. They would dancing for the Lord.

741
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:15,479
Speaker 1: And I think if you look through your Lord's eye,

742
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 1: perhaps you would see them better. Exaid, maybe you were

743
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 1: looking through the jar rating. Aye, look a couple of

744
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: the girl we can point them out. A couple of

745
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 1: them have uh strip girl tendencies of it? Then, because

746
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 1: some of them has been up girls tendencies, you know what, sir?

747
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 1: I think we need to complete this call. Perhaps I

748
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:36,360
Speaker 1: need to call bishop and speak to him myself, because

749
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know what you do all day,

750
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:39,920
Speaker 1: but I have a real job and I'm sitting here

751
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 1: holding a conversation in my office about gyrating strippers in

752
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 1: the church. Are you kidding me? Man? Listen? Now here's

753
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 1: a couple other things that they're talking about. Some of

754
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,839
Speaker 1: the girls feet a real ass you when you are

755
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:54,359
Speaker 1: a performing and they wanted to see it, maybe you can,

756
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 1: you can I don't know. Maybe I don't know if

757
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 1: y'all need to grip or whatever that y'all don't y'all

758
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 1: don't put lotion on. We're not sure what that is.

759
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: As well as the tote enail polo, everybody has three, four,

760
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:09,399
Speaker 1: five different designs and everything is it? Any way, y'all

761
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 1: can be in unison with your totenail polis. But the

762
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: most important thing ill the ji raton doing the dance routine.

763
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 1: I don't know what your feet look like. I don't

764
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:20,840
Speaker 1: need you calling me talking to me about my girls

765
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: their feet, their nail polis. Perhaps your man should be

766
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 1: on Jesus instead of on them. How about that man?

767
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 1: For I don't have time. I don't have time, and

768
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 1: to be on Jesus when somebody shaking them. But at

769
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 1: the church, now that's the problem. I know what. Look,

770
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 1: I'm at work now, I'm trying to keep a work tone.

771
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna make me curse up here, and now let

772
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,359
Speaker 1: me tell you something. Don't call me anymore. I will

773
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:46,320
Speaker 1: deal with pastor. If he has something to say with me,

774
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,359
Speaker 1: he can say it to me personally. But I'm done

775
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:50,879
Speaker 1: with this conversation. Are you gonna deal with the Ji

776
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: Rayton is what we want to know. Maybe you know

777
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 1: what It just hit me. Maybe you're one of the

778
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: ones that's doing the gy rate. Look, let me tell

779
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 1: you something, my girl thing your rating and neither am

780
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 1: I Now I am done with this conversation. Do you understand?

781
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,359
Speaker 1: But listen, I'm done all you're done with this rating.

782
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: We want to stop so we can We can't praise

783
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 1: the Lord if the boot isn't shake you know what, sirt? Look,

784
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:17,800
Speaker 1: I gotta go to work. I gotta go now again.

785
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 1: I don't know what your issue is. It sounds to

786
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,920
Speaker 1: me like you have an issue which I rerating booties

787
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,320
Speaker 1: And I heard so much greating booties in one conversation

788
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 1: in my entire life. Now my mind is set on Jesus.

789
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what your mand is set on. What's

790
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: to tell you? Before you was a praise then ministry

791
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 1: over the ministry? Did you el use to strip? Hu

792
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:38,800
Speaker 1: didn't do no stripping? Now did your wife do any striping?

793
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:42,279
Speaker 1: What did your mamma do any stripping? What you heard

794
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: what I said you were? How do you like to

795
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 1: somebody call you would ask you if your mamma get

796
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 1: some stript and how do you like that? I'm you

797
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 1: know what? I want to know? When is the next rehearsal,

798
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 1: Then the way I can come and pick out who

799
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 1: it is that's doing this till you don't have You

800
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 1: don't have any minutes at my rehearsal. I don't want

801
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,320
Speaker 1: to see you at my rehearsal. I don't want to.

802
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:00,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to see any part that you in

803
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:01,759
Speaker 1: my worst if I see you near one of my girls.

804
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:03,759
Speaker 1: That's why I'm coming after you myself. Do you understand me?

805
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 1: I need to find out who's doing that job thing.

806
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: You need to say your body y'all high, and I'm

807
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,359
Speaker 1: glad y'all. Ain't then and when the plates being plays,

808
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 1: because I ain't no telling her you act with them?

809
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 1: One's coming through it, you know what? That's it. That's it.

810
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 1: You call me disrespecting me. I'm at work. They can't

811
00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 1: even have this to more. You know what. Don't call

812
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 1: me no more. Don't look at my girls no more.

813
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 1: Man Come to the church and see what I got

814
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: for it. I don't want to know. Is you're gonna

815
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 1: stop the job rating? What is gonna do it? Moving?

816
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 1: That's gonna do it? Why you're talking to like that.

817
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 1: You're supposed to be a mine of side. Yeah, I

818
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,439
Speaker 1: have done listening to tell you. Now I'm getting ready

819
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 1: to job. Well, I got one more thing to say

820
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: to you. Fold your lead. How you ain't got a

821
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 1: thing to say to me? I said I was dealing,

822
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 1: and I said, I got one more thing to say.

823
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 1: It is you Listen. You know what? Men, get off

824
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 1: of my phone. I'm gonna say it anyway. This is

825
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:55,240
Speaker 1: Nephew Timment from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your entire

826
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: praise and ministry congregation, all your girls got me to

827
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:06,439
Speaker 1: frank phone call you. Oh I'm a shot for Oh

828
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 1: think I'm chursing on the radio. Oh, I think I'm

829
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 1: gonna have a show. I got one thing to ask you,

830
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 1: to tell you? What is the baddest radio show in

831
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 1: the land? Nobody else with the Steve Harvey More in

832
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 1: the show made the doors the church open? Yeah, man,

833
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 1: anybody might be one church. Your mama's dancing? What was

834
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 1: your mama? Monster? People, We're gonna go thro't tell him

835
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:47,400
Speaker 1: how y'all gonna act when the ones come down? Now? Ye, Junior,

836
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 1: making it rain? Making it rain? What feeling the moment

837
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:59,280
Speaker 1: I saw I saw the tossed up about this, you know, funny,

838
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 1: funny prank. But I like when they praise dance such

839
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:06,319
Speaker 1: a church out. You don't like the praise dancing dog.

840
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 1: Oh no he ain't the one. I don't either. I

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Speaker 1: coming up new world. Subject we did it and he's

861
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Speaker 1: trying to do me. We'll get into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. And if we need time now for

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865
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868
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Speaker 1: we're going to read this one right here, right now,

869
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: and you never know, it could be yours. It could

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Speaker 1: be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. We got

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00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 1: it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, Nephew. Subject,

872
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:28,399
Speaker 1: we did it and he's trying to do me. Dear

873
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:31,439
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty two year old married woman,

874
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:35,359
Speaker 1: and I've got a problem with my district manager. For years,

875
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:38,799
Speaker 1: we flirted with each other and it made work fun

876
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 1: and interesting. He's married, too, so I never imagined we'd

877
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 1: ever fool around, but we did. Here's how it happens.

878
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 1: I've been married three years and my husband was being

879
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 1: distant and staying out more than he usually does. I

880
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 1: asked if he was okay, and he said he was

881
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:58,279
Speaker 1: stressed at work, but that he's fine. Right after that,

882
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:00,920
Speaker 1: I ran into one of his female friends he went

883
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 1: to college with, who I never really clicked with. She

884
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 1: told me that she is praying things work out with

885
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: my husband at work because she's not used to seeing

886
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 1: him so depressed. She went on to say that my

887
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:16,520
Speaker 1: husband confided in her about an issue with his boss

888
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 1: and how he resolved it. I could hardly breathe. I

889
00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:24,880
Speaker 1: went home and he confessed to confiding in her and

890
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 1: having dinner with her a few times to talk. He

891
00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:31,319
Speaker 1: swore to me that it was nothing major, just two

892
00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 1: friends talking. I went to work the next day and

893
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,840
Speaker 1: I lost it. I couldn't stop crying, and my manager

894
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,200
Speaker 1: came in to check on me. He took me out

895
00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:44,440
Speaker 1: for coffee and we sat in his car talking. My

896
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 1: rap dress had all of my goodies on display, so

897
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: he reached in and rubbed a few things. He kept

898
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 1: on rubbing until I left his car with blurred vision.

899
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:57,359
Speaker 1: Now he wants more, and I can't give him more.

900
00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:01,360
Speaker 1: What my husband did was very wrong, but I honestly

901
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 1: do not think my husband would cheat on me. My

902
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: district manager is using what he knows about my marriage

903
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:11,520
Speaker 1: in his favor. He is trying to coerce me into

904
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 1: having an affair by saying my husband doesn't my husband

905
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:18,800
Speaker 1: doesn't appreciate me, and revenge sex always makes a person

906
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 1: feel better. Is this man crazy or just being manipulative? Well,

907
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:27,279
Speaker 1: you're the one that's crazy if you do let this

908
00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:31,320
Speaker 1: man manipulate you into having an affair with him, because

909
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 1: that is exactly what he's doing right now. You say

910
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 1: you haven't gone all the way with him, so you

911
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: can walk away with something of a clear conscience, So

912
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 1: please let that go and make sure it goes no

913
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:48,879
Speaker 1: further with your boss. Okay, because he's unready set. He's

914
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 1: unready set right now, all you have to do is

915
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:55,880
Speaker 1: give him the go and he's waiting for that. So

916
00:56:56,239 --> 00:57:00,040
Speaker 1: now your husband, your husband, on the other hand, what

917
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:04,880
Speaker 1: is he doing? You say, you honestly don't believe he

918
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 1: would cheat on you. So so what were the dinners for?

919
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,759
Speaker 1: If it was just with a friend? Why didn't he

920
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 1: tell you? Why did you have to make him confess

921
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 1: it to you? And he went out with her, this

922
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:20,800
Speaker 1: other woman, not just once or twice, but a few times.

923
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 1: And she's a female friend from college that you don't

924
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:28,160
Speaker 1: even these are your words click with. This is not

925
00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:31,920
Speaker 1: adding up. It's not looking good at all, because surely

926
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 1: she knows she's not one of your favorite people. Surely

927
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 1: she knows that. She still decided, though, to tell you

928
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 1: about what happened between her and your husband. That was

929
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:44,000
Speaker 1: just messy. Don't you think that was messy? She knew

930
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: it would throw you into something, and it did. And

931
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 1: what does she have to gain from all this? I'm

932
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:53,600
Speaker 1: thinking your husband? So you know, I just say, definitely

933
00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:56,880
Speaker 1: tell your your boss it's a no for you, and

934
00:57:57,040 --> 00:57:59,440
Speaker 1: then turn your attention to the more pressing issue of

935
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: your husband. Been his job in these dinner dates with

936
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 1: this college friend of his? I think there's definitely something

937
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 1: going on between them, and you need to get into

938
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 1: the bottom of it. Steve, that's not what this letter

939
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:22,120
Speaker 1: is about to me. Ah read these letters. See Shirley

940
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 1: be really trying to help y'all. You know. And there's

941
00:58:26,440 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 1: a difference between me and Shelly because I might try

942
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 1: to help you sometimes I might not, but I'm always

943
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 1: here for entertainment. And that's the difference between me and

944
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: Shelly's response. So in the entertainment, I always peeled this

945
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 1: onion back to you. Tear up. We did it, and

946
00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 1: he's trying to do it. This thirty two year old

947
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:03,040
Speaker 1: married woman, she's got a problem with her district manager.

948
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: For years, we flirted with each other and it made

949
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:09,400
Speaker 1: work fun and interested. Right there, that just tells you everything.

950
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 1: She went to work flirting with her district manager, and

951
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 1: she said because it made it fun and interested. Her

952
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: husband didn't know nothing about this. This was her doing.

953
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 1: She didn't come in out and tell her husband. You know,

954
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: I go to work and I have so much fun

955
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 1: with my district man. We flirt with each other, and

956
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 1: it's just made the years fun and interested. Keep that

957
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:38,040
Speaker 1: in mind, ladies, he's married too, so I never imagine

958
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:42,000
Speaker 1: we fool around, but we did. His hide happened. I've

959
00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:44,440
Speaker 1: been married three years now. For them three years, she

960
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 1: was still flirting, having fun with the district manager. To

961
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 1: keep this in mind now, and I've known my husband

962
00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:53,320
Speaker 1: being distant, staying out bored than he usually does. I

963
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 1: asked he was okay. He said he was stressed at work,

964
00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 1: true statement, will find out later, but that he's fine

965
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:01,240
Speaker 1: right after, and that I ran into one of his

966
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:04,320
Speaker 1: female friends he went to college, which who I never

967
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 1: really click with. She told me she is praying things

968
01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 1: work out with my husband at work because she's not

969
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 1: used to seeing him so depressed. Rick, let's pump your brakes.

970
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 1: Whenever a person comes to you saying they're ping for

971
01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 1: you or your situation. God, don't dig at you and

972
01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:32,200
Speaker 1: pray for you at the same time, and need to

973
01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 1: do real friends. All right, Steve, We'll have part two

974
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:38,160
Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after

975
01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 1: the our subject for today's Strawberry Letter. We did it,

976
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:43,320
Speaker 1: and he's trying to do me. We'll get back into

977
01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:48,480
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show, right,

978
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap Today's Strawberry Letter, the subject

979
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: we did it and he's trying to do me well.

980
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:58,720
Speaker 1: This thirty two year old woman been flirting with this

981
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 1: district manager for years and it's made work fun and interesting.

982
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:06,479
Speaker 1: She's married for three years now, but she'd been doing

983
01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 1: this without her husband knowing. Okay, didn't notice her husband

984
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 1: standing out more than usual. Ass was everything fine? He said,

985
01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:15,320
Speaker 1: he was stressed out at work. Then you ran up

986
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:17,080
Speaker 1: in the one of his female college friends who you

987
01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 1: don't really like, never click with. She told you she's

988
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:25,000
Speaker 1: praying everything works out for your husband at work because

989
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 1: she's never used to seeing him so depressed. A woman

990
01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 1: comes to you tells you that they praying for you.

991
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 1: People always be aware. People come to you something. I'm

992
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,440
Speaker 1: praying for you in your situation, But then it comes

993
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:39,400
Speaker 1: in the form of a deed. No, you're not. No,

994
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:41,440
Speaker 1: you know you ain't praying for me. That ain't high

995
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:46,480
Speaker 1: prayer works. We ain't friends. And then she went on

996
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 1: to say that your husband confided in her about an

997
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 1: issue with his boss and not and how he resolved it.

998
01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:55,960
Speaker 1: I could hardly breathe. I went home and he confessed

999
01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:58,640
Speaker 1: to confiding in her and having dinner with her a

1000
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: few times of talking. He swore to me that nothing major,

1001
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 1: just two friends talking. I went to work the next

1002
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:08,440
Speaker 1: day and I lost it. I couldn't stop crying. Now,

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01:02:08,520 --> 01:02:11,960
Speaker 1: wait a minute, ain't you the same woman? You can't

1004
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 1: believe he confided in her. I bet your husband wouldn't

1005
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 1: believe that you and with your district manager for years

1006
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:24,920
Speaker 1: at work, and it's been fun and interest. See now

1007
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 1: all of a sudden he didn't confide it in this

1008
01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:30,400
Speaker 1: college girl, and they didn't had dinner a couple of times.

1009
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:33,800
Speaker 1: Now you can't you crying at work? I bet your

1010
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 1: husband would have been crying if he'd known you was

1011
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 1: at work flirting with your district manager. See, you can't

1012
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:42,480
Speaker 1: have your cake and eat it too. You can't do

1013
01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 1: one thing. And then when it happened to you nice

1014
01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 1: all messed up. Now the whole letter is you think

1015
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:51,360
Speaker 1: your man cheating on you. I couldn't stop crying. And

1016
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 1: then my manager came in to check on me. He

1017
01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:56,880
Speaker 1: took me out the coffee. We said in his car talking.

1018
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 1: Now you would work now you thirty two wrap dress

1019
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:05,880
Speaker 1: had all my goodies on display. It was the size

1020
01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 1: of the wrap dress that had your goodies on display,

1021
01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 1: and the way you were sitting in the car. You

1022
01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: know how wrap dresses fit. They wrapped and unwrapped. So

1023
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 1: when you said in the car, it wasn't wrapped no

1024
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:20,919
Speaker 1: more because it wasn't enough fabric in the first damn place.

1025
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 1: He reached in and he rubbed a few things. He

1026
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:29,960
Speaker 1: kept on rubbing until I left his car with blood vision.

1027
01:03:30,360 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 1: That he hadn't rubbed you all tween your thighs and

1028
01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:36,760
Speaker 1: all on your cleavage in this wrap dress until you

1029
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:42,480
Speaker 1: had blood vision. Well, what kind of rubbing was going

1030
01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:47,439
Speaker 1: on in this car? Well, I bet your husband would

1031
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 1: have been amazed to find this out. You've been flirting

1032
01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 1: for years. Now You're in the car rubbing until you

1033
01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:57,520
Speaker 1: got blurred vision. Oh, I know what he was doing.

1034
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:01,720
Speaker 1: I know how to rub and win. I know how

1035
01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 1: to induce blurred vision. I crossed your eyes. Yeah, I

1036
01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:10,680
Speaker 1: hear you sitting in that car cock eye. That's right.

1037
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 1: I had y'all all up in the back of your

1038
01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:17,440
Speaker 1: head if you let me rub like I know how

1039
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:20,280
Speaker 1: to rub. See that what district manage with you? When

1040
01:04:20,320 --> 01:04:23,320
Speaker 1: he was rubbing until you got blurred vision. You don't

1041
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 1: get blurred vision from somebody running across his hand across

1042
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 1: your chest. That ain't how you blur your vision. You

1043
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 1: got to get into one of them creases of him.

1044
01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 1: For that wrap dress opened up back, and it opened

1045
01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:39,560
Speaker 1: in two parts. It opened up at the thighs in

1046
01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 1: the wrap dress, and it opened up in the cleavage

1047
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 1: at the wrap dress. He in both their marriage because

1048
01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:49,960
Speaker 1: your vision blurred. Now he wants more and I can't

1049
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 1: give him more. You ain't say you didn't want to.

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Speaker 1: You said you can't. What my husband did was very wrong,

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01:04:57,480 --> 01:04:59,840
Speaker 1: But honestly, I don't think my husband would cheat on me.

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01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 1: I bet your husband don't thank you being a car

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01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 1: getting rubbed onto. Your bligion to your vision got blurred either,

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01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:08,680
Speaker 1: but you did. My district managers, using what he knows

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01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 1: about my marriage and his favor, you told him he's

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01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:15,800
Speaker 1: trying to coerce me into having an affair by saying

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01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 1: my husband doesn't appreciate me, Well, you should ask him

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01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:25,080
Speaker 1: does he appreciate his wife? Because it's a lot of

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Speaker 1: non appreciative people on this in this letter right now.

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Speaker 1: Then he says, and revenge sex always makes a person

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Speaker 1: feel better. Revenge sex, that's the stupid approach. Your district manager. Dumb.

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Speaker 1: You don't use revenge sex as the approach to getting yours.

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01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:49,160
Speaker 1: You got to, you got to, you got to. You

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01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:52,240
Speaker 1: got to make a person feel like you can be

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Speaker 1: there for him. Let's talk about this some more. Let's

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01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 1: get somewhere and getting the consolation party. That's the stupid

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01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 1: revenge six to always make a person feel better. That's

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01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:08,800
Speaker 1: a dumb approach. He should be more consoling so he

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01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:12,480
Speaker 1: could do more rubbing if that's what he wanted. Now

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01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:16,520
Speaker 1: is this man crazier just being manipulative? Keep both. He's

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01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:19,280
Speaker 1: crazy for using the stupid ass approach that he used.

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01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 1: He was almost home with the goodies with Jess rubbing.

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01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:26,360
Speaker 1: Now he talked about revenge six And is he being manipulative? Yes?

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01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: And are you willing yes? Have you been flirting for years? Yes?

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01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: Have you been in the car with him getting rubbed

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01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:35,200
Speaker 1: onto your vision got blurred? Yes? Did your husband go

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01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:37,800
Speaker 1: to dinner with this woman? Yes? Did he talk about

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01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:40,800
Speaker 1: his problems? Yes? Everybody in this letter wrong and you

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Speaker 1: want us to tell you how wrong your husband is.

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01:06:43,520 --> 01:06:45,680
Speaker 1: I think you're the wrong person in the letter, and

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Speaker 1: I think you get what you put out. Post your

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Speaker 1: comments on Today's Strawberry Letter, f Instagram and Faithbook, and

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01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:02,680
Speaker 1: check out the Subbary Letter Podcast one demand coming up

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Speaker 1: with forty six minutes after the hour, we'll have Sports

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Speaker 1: Talk with Junior right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. It is time now for Sports Talk with Junior,

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Speaker 1: which you got Junior. I don't know, Sirlott, what's going

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01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:18,640
Speaker 1: on with the NFL players? But crazy is going through

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01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 1: here now. I don't know what. I don't know if

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01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 1: you saw this, but Cleveland Brown defensive tackle Malik McDowell

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01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:29,040
Speaker 1: was arrested for public exposure and assaulting an officer down

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Speaker 1: in Deerfield Beach, Florida. Did you see this? I saw

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Speaker 1: this butt naked, butt naked? What but not ply? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Fighting police running down the street, fighting the po poles,

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Speaker 1: butt naked. Pull it up, man, man, you had to

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Speaker 1: see it? Yes? What send it to me? Many? Hold on?

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Speaker 1: I just I don't wait a minute. He was fighting

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Speaker 1: the police, button naked, yes, and dropping them hands on him,

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Speaker 1: putting them hands on him too, said he was well,

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Speaker 1: he looked like he did it before. He looked like

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Speaker 1: he hadn't done this. Yeah, when he been in a

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Speaker 1: lot of locker room fights and stuff. So he but

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01:08:15,880 --> 01:08:20,000
Speaker 1: what drug was this? Though? I don't know what this is? Man,

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Speaker 1: That ain't we so what isn't? No, that's not weird.

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01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:29,519
Speaker 1: They released a statement we say we understand the severity

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01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:31,920
Speaker 1: of this matter and our thoughts are for all well

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01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:34,320
Speaker 1: being for people that are involved. We have no further

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01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 1: comment at this time. But I'm just saying, well, what

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01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:40,160
Speaker 1: he gonna have to do is go to the go

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Speaker 1: to one right now, mental health issues. He got the

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01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:50,800
Speaker 1: gold Air No, so this was it was just crazy, man.

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Speaker 1: But in other good news though, I'm really proud of

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Speaker 1: this though. The Boston Bruins retired the number twenty two

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01:08:57,880 --> 01:09:02,360
Speaker 1: in honor of Willie Oree, the first black NHL player.

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01:09:02,840 --> 01:09:05,519
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it was a nice ceremony for him. Man.

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01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:09,000
Speaker 1: He's the twelfth player in Bruin's history to have his

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01:09:09,160 --> 01:09:13,520
Speaker 1: number retired. He played from nineteen fifty eight to nineteen

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Speaker 1: seventy nine. He is now eighty six years old. His

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01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:21,560
Speaker 1: number has been retired sixty four years later, so no

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Speaker 1: one will ever wear the number twenty two again. He

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Speaker 1: played more than one thousand, one hundred games. He is

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01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:31,600
Speaker 1: referred to as the Jackie Robinson of ice hockey. He

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Speaker 1: is also in the NHL Hall of Fame. He was

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Speaker 1: inducted in November of two thousand and eighteen. Mister Willie O. Reid,

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Speaker 1: Congratulations sir, you did that, sir Englations that is big man. Now,

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Speaker 1: Junior want to commend you on on actually reading this

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01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:51,960
Speaker 1: story like you knew what you was talking about. Congratulations

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Speaker 1: on that. Thank you, sir. Thank you very much. I

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01:09:58,160 --> 01:10:01,760
Speaker 1: just sent you to do he sixty. I just send

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01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:03,439
Speaker 1: it to you. Got to see this because you got

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01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:06,360
Speaker 1: understand it. He has to do that, man, So congratulations,

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Speaker 1: mister Willio. Remain proud of you. Thank you so much

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01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:11,320
Speaker 1: for opening any doors all these black any child players

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01:10:11,360 --> 01:10:14,200
Speaker 1: we got now he was the first. He was in there,

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01:10:14,960 --> 01:10:17,439
Speaker 1: all right, Junior, thank you. Coming up next at the

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01:10:17,520 --> 01:10:20,280
Speaker 1: top of the hour, Stevie Wonder calls out lawmakers who

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01:10:20,360 --> 01:10:23,200
Speaker 1: refused to take action on voting rights and we'll talk

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01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:26,639
Speaker 1: about it right after this. You're listening to the Steve

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01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:31,920
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Stevie Wonder is calling for the Senate

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01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:36,400
Speaker 1: to pass voting rights legislation immediately now. On the evening

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01:10:36,600 --> 01:10:39,400
Speaker 1: of Martin Luther King Junior Day on Monday. That was

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01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:42,640
Speaker 1: January seventeenth. Of course, Stevie shared a video message in

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01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:45,599
Speaker 1: which he issued a call to action to lawmakers who

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01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 1: refused to act on voting rights. Take a listen. Any

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01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:54,040
Speaker 1: senator who cannot support the protection of voting rights in

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01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:58,320
Speaker 1: the United States of America cannot say and they support

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01:10:58,520 --> 01:11:05,320
Speaker 1: the constitution, stop the hypocrisy. Cut if you can and

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01:11:05,439 --> 01:11:10,759
Speaker 1: support our rights, do the hard work. You can't please everybody,

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01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:14,800
Speaker 1: but you can protect all of us. To keep it

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01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 1: all the way real. The filibuster is not working for democracy.

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01:11:20,240 --> 01:11:27,360
Speaker 1: Why won't you step Yes, Steven, that's truth. That's truth. See,

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01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:30,960
Speaker 1: the filibuster doesn't work for democracy, but it works for

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01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:34,920
Speaker 1: people to hold their power in their position. Yes, that's all.

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01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 1: The filibuster. The The filibuster isn't even a law. It's

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01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:45,960
Speaker 1: it's not even a law. It's just something that they

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01:11:46,040 --> 01:11:49,240
Speaker 1: created to do. They could disband it. It's not a law.

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01:11:50,160 --> 01:11:53,000
Speaker 1: It is not even as It's the craziest thing, man,

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01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:58,120
Speaker 1: how they've managed. The minority has managed to hold on

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01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:02,759
Speaker 1: to these things to control the majority. The electoral college

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01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:06,439
Speaker 1: vote is so the minority has a bigger say than

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01:12:06,520 --> 01:12:09,840
Speaker 1: the majority. That's what is for. That's why they'll never

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01:12:09,960 --> 01:12:15,120
Speaker 1: get rid of it. It was for slave owning states

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01:12:16,200 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 1: to maintain a level of control right as same mess

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01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:26,120
Speaker 1: man is in place today. The hypocrisy of this country,

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01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 1: it's alarming, man, It is alarming. And that in the

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01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:35,799
Speaker 1: year twenty twenty two, we still have to ask white

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01:12:36,040 --> 01:12:40,360
Speaker 1: people for rights, and we got to ask them for it,

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01:12:40,960 --> 01:12:46,560
Speaker 1: and we gotta keep asking white people for rights. This

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01:12:47,200 --> 01:12:52,920
Speaker 1: is bull sugar hunt iced tea. That's all this is.

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01:12:53,680 --> 01:12:57,400
Speaker 1: If this was happening to white people, it would have

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01:12:58,120 --> 01:13:02,840
Speaker 1: been resolved. I'm telling you right now. Do this to

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01:13:03,040 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 1: white people and see what happened. Tell white people that

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01:13:07,640 --> 01:13:11,559
Speaker 1: you don't have the same voting rights. Tell white people

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01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:14,519
Speaker 1: they got they got to jump through hoops for freedom.

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01:13:14,840 --> 01:13:20,600
Speaker 1: Tell white people that you're not really included in this constitution.

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01:13:20,920 --> 01:13:26,160
Speaker 1: Tell it too. Go tell white people you can't get

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01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:28,600
Speaker 1: the same education. Go tell it to white people to

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01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:37,800
Speaker 1: watch what Watch all right, So go tell mansion. Go

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01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:41,240
Speaker 1: tell mansion in West Virginia that what we're doing to

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01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:44,679
Speaker 1: black people we're going to do to you. Watch what happened.

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01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:50,519
Speaker 1: Watch Also go tell any white person, we're going to

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01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:54,360
Speaker 1: now start treating you like we treat all black people.

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01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:57,599
Speaker 1: And watch what happened. How the hell are we still

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01:13:57,680 --> 01:14:00,559
Speaker 1: doing this in twenty twenty two. America is so full

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01:14:00,600 --> 01:14:04,559
Speaker 1: of hypocrisy. Man, This most hypocritical country on Earth. It's

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01:14:04,600 --> 01:14:08,960
Speaker 1: the greatest nation. Prove it. We're the greatest nation, but

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01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:13,280
Speaker 1: we got the highest incarceration rate in the world. We're

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01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 1: the greatest nation. We got the highest COVID deaths in

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01:14:16,160 --> 01:14:20,000
Speaker 1: the world. We're the greatest nation. We got the worst

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01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:23,360
Speaker 1: healthcare system in the world, but we supposed to be

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01:14:23,400 --> 01:14:26,800
Speaker 1: the richest. Canada got a better healthcare system. We got

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01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 1: way moment in Canada. We're the greatest at being the worst.

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01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:35,960
Speaker 1: You know that we're the greatest when it comes to

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01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:40,080
Speaker 1: treating people unequal. We're the best at that. But making

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01:14:40,120 --> 01:14:43,320
Speaker 1: them think that they are equal, but doing stuff to

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01:14:43,479 --> 01:14:51,120
Speaker 1: constantly show that they're not. We leave the world in violence.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Steve. We'll have more of today's

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Speaker 1: trending stories on the Steve Every Morning show coming up

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Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after right after this, you're listening to show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Carla is here with music news. What's you got, Carla, Well,

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Speaker 1: it's more of award news and nominations. The NAACP image

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01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:20,760
Speaker 1: Award nominations were announced the other day, and we all

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Speaker 1: know the Image Award honors the excellence of people of color, movies, television, music, literature, podcasting.

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01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:34,240
Speaker 1: Jennifer Hudson, Little nas X, Megan Thee Stallion, Regina King

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01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:37,559
Speaker 1: are all in the running for Entertainer of the Year.

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01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:41,679
Speaker 1: Of course, the movies The Harder They Fall, TV show

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01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:47,080
Speaker 1: Issa Rays Insecure and R and B Singer her lead

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Speaker 1: the nominations in film, TV music and oh, yes she is.

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01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:55,960
Speaker 1: She's a bad girl, Yes she is. And we have

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Speaker 1: to say congratulations, drum roll please. Celebrity Family Feud, hosted

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Speaker 1: by a verry On Steve Harvey is nominated for Best

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01:16:06,320 --> 01:16:13,040
Speaker 1: Game Show. Yeah, yeah, congratulations Steve. Alright, Steve, that's big.

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01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:17,479
Speaker 1: That's big. He needs God, need to go somewhere, man,

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01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:22,720
Speaker 1: he just needs a quick clowning with me. I want

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01:16:22,760 --> 01:16:26,000
Speaker 1: to apologize my haters, because here he go again. My bad.

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01:16:26,320 --> 01:16:29,160
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I told you who I belonged to, and

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01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:31,840
Speaker 1: I told you who I was, and he keeps showing

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01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:34,160
Speaker 1: up for me again, and here we go something else. Oh,

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01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:37,280
Speaker 1: I want to apologize my haters, man, boy, If I win,

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Speaker 1: who let the hate continue? All right? To do. Thank you, guys.

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Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

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Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play

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Speaker 1: a round if would you rather? Right after this you're

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Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,

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Speaker 1: it is time for a round of would you rather?

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Speaker 1: All right, we go? Would you rather? Think about this one?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather live on the beach? Okay? Or would

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Speaker 1: you rather live in a cabin in the woods, on

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Speaker 1: the beach, on the beach, on the beach, or a

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01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:18,560
Speaker 1: cabin in the woods? Black people don't do cabin in

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01:17:18,640 --> 01:17:20,920
Speaker 1: the mood. That ain't really what we do. Do they

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01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:24,400
Speaker 1: do beaches? We do beaches and manship question? Do you

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Speaker 1: have a house only beach just s just out here

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Speaker 1: on play a survival? You can have a you can

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Speaker 1: have a little house on the beach. Wait, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to live or a beautiful cabin in the wood,

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01:17:47,760 --> 01:17:50,120
Speaker 1: a little house on the beach, or a beautiful cabin

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Speaker 1: in the moosell. I might have to go to the woods.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to do that beautiful cabin in that woods.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna for cabin in the woods, for a little

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01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:05,160
Speaker 1: house on the beach. Yeah, I couldn't have them trees

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01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:06,599
Speaker 1: out in the wood though, I need to I gotta

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01:18:06,600 --> 01:18:09,760
Speaker 1: be in sick. Yeah, I got it. I need a

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01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:12,160
Speaker 1: little bit of I need a little clear for you.

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01:18:12,240 --> 01:18:17,200
Speaker 1: Walk up to the house because I can't walk outside,

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Speaker 1: and all us on the back porch exactly. But the

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Speaker 1: beat can walk out to the water, walk along the beach.

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Speaker 1: Clear your head running. But you got us in that

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Speaker 1: little house though. That's the little house. Okay, But hurricane

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01:18:36,280 --> 01:18:38,640
Speaker 1: we wash up. Hit your window, blush your window, that

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Speaker 1: glass in there wet No, the wet woods. A bear

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01:18:45,680 --> 01:18:48,120
Speaker 1: can be in the wood. Yeah. When we got that

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Speaker 1: clearing coming, yeah, knocked that little cabin down. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: so I thank you guys. Are corn I think you

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Speaker 1: guys are coming on that one. What's what you got

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Speaker 1: next year? All right? Here I go. Would you rather

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Speaker 1: be stuck in traffic? Would you rather never be stuck

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Speaker 1: in traffic again? Never be stuck in traffic again? Period?

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Speaker 1: Or would you rather never get a cold? I missed it.

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Speaker 1: I missed it the second part. Would you rather never

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Speaker 1: be stuck in traffic again? Or would you rather never

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Speaker 1: get a cold? Yeah? I never I'd never get a cold.

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Speaker 1: I'm caring about the traffic. M h m hm. Never never,

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Speaker 1: would never be stuck in traffic. I hainte being stuck

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Speaker 1: in traffic. I don't want know coal if I ain't

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Speaker 1: gonna held especially not not in the I'm gonna stay

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Speaker 1: away from that cold because I turned into something else

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Speaker 1: that traffic. We're gonna eventually go home. I got driving anyway. Hell,

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Speaker 1: I'm sleeping, Yeah, not that you're stunting on? Would you rather?

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Speaker 1: I'm going next? I gotta drive, go ahead? What else

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Speaker 1: you got? All right, that's it. We gotta get out

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Speaker 1: of here. Coming up with forty nine minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: it is the last break of the day. With Steve's

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Speaker 1: closing remarks right after this, it's the last you're listening

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Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we

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Speaker 1: are last break of the day on this Thursday. Wow,

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Speaker 1: what a week started off with the holiday and Steve's birthday.

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Speaker 1: Birthday boy week. You're still celebrating, aren't you. Yeah, just

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01:20:35,760 --> 01:20:38,760
Speaker 1: keep it, keep it going. Huh. What are you gonna

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Speaker 1: do for the rest of the day? You know what?

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01:20:48,400 --> 01:20:51,640
Speaker 1: With the shop, I don't worry about to hay this. No,

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Speaker 1: Steve don't do that. I don't. You know, my wife

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Speaker 1: is adventurous. I don't. I don't do none of that. Man,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I ain't. Let's see, my job is to

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Speaker 1: protect her now diving that water with a butcher knife

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Speaker 1: and in a shark of life, but using nice shall

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Speaker 1: ass water. But that's all I'm doing. I'm just watching

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Speaker 1: to make sure don't nothing to happen. I'm right there.

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Speaker 1: I jump in if I got to, But I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: jump in killing though, you know, Oh no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: These sharks they don't even have teeth, and the way

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Speaker 1: they eat, they suck, they don't really they don't chump

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Speaker 1: down and stuff happen. Well, it's still a wild animal,

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01:21:33,760 --> 01:21:36,080
Speaker 1: so anything can happen. You know. They got a little

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Speaker 1: sad paper teeth. The teeth is like sam paper. So

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Speaker 1: they suck food, they don't chew it, they don't tear.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, things can happen, you know, like

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Speaker 1: you have to wear shoes when you're playing with them

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Speaker 1: shark because they don't want to make your toes. Think

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Speaker 1: they food. That's that's a little stuff like that. I

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Speaker 1: didn't need to heal. What was your question? You've been

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Speaker 1: fishing off your boat. Yeah, no, it ain't a fishing boat.

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Speaker 1: They ain't a fishing boat. But surely they got a

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Speaker 1: rod on now come on this show. They do, but uh,

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Speaker 1: that ain't what my country asked come out here to do.

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Speaker 1: So just you know, it's a lot of a lot

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Speaker 1: of things you can do. You're just going to participate.

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Speaker 1: Just keep it going. I don't really want to talk

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Speaker 1: about it because you know the other people be listening

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Speaker 1: to know that's what's the cigar account? You just smoke by? Now?

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Speaker 1: Oh who? Since Monday? Yes, it's been up there about seventeen.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm smoking a lot. You like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, hell yeah, that's the problem. He got gym

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Speaker 1: and everything, and my ass going to the gym to

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Speaker 1: day though, I got to stay, what have you been eating? Fish? Cholic? Who?

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Speaker 1: I had some with German chocolate cake? You know it's

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Speaker 1: a French chelf. You know, he need to somebody need

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Speaker 1: to introduce his ass to peach cobbler, pound cakes, something

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Speaker 1: like that. Only little pofes and moose songs. Yeah, tart

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Speaker 1: when you make a tart, you mean tiny ass version

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Speaker 1: of anybody? Just thought? How about pie? Don't and to

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Speaker 1: be stuff, the stuff that you don't really need to

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Speaker 1: be making a pie. Who the hell wants to eat

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Speaker 1: a keywee tart? What is it? Keyweed tart? Man? You

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Speaker 1: don't get some peaches and get some cruss up in

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Speaker 1: the hill sugar, Jenny said, poy, no pie. Is he

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Speaker 1: familiar with sweet potato pipe? Did he know anything about it? Oh? No, no,

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Speaker 1: These these punkin pipe people out here, you, Oh, they

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Speaker 1: believe in punkin pie, punking soup. They love punk i'na

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Speaker 1: you don't know how to make potatoes soup. Yes, it's

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Speaker 1: just different, different cultures. You gotta get over put caveat

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Speaker 1: on everything. I'll be gonna there we go food. Put

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Speaker 1: can stop talking about Hey, listen, I want to give

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Speaker 1: you all little piece of encouragement the last couple of

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Speaker 1: minutes I got. Twenty twenty two can be the greatest

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Speaker 1: year of your life if you expect it to be.

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Speaker 1: You have to project the thoughts that you want return

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Speaker 1: to you. Everything starts with the thought. You are no

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Speaker 1: dream come true without starting a thought. Once you start

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Speaker 1: the thought, that enables you to start the process, but

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Speaker 1: it starts what you're thinking. You have to change the

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Speaker 1: way you think make twenty twenty two the best year

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Speaker 1: of your life by changing it to the best thoughts

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01:25:26,840 --> 01:25:32,519
Speaker 1: of your life. Positive thoughts bring about positive results period.

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Speaker 1: It works no other way. You can ask any person

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Speaker 1: that's successful. It starts with how you think. Remove negativity

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01:25:42,280 --> 01:25:46,839
Speaker 1: from your thought process and positivity will invade your life space.

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Speaker 1: That is a fact that scripture. A man is as

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Speaker 1: he thinking that. That's the law of attraction. That's how

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Speaker 1: remote control works. That's how it all works. Man. It

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Speaker 1: does not work any different, and it will not work

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Speaker 1: any different for you. The law of attraction is real.

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Speaker 1: Whether you understand it, believe it, or adhere to it,

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Speaker 1: it's still the same law of attraction. You are what

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Speaker 1: you put out in twenty twenty two. Focus on putting

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Speaker 1: out positive imagery of yourself. Stop allowing people who do

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Speaker 1: not create you, who do not love you, who do

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01:26:28,160 --> 01:26:30,840
Speaker 1: not have your best interests at heart, and don't know

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01:26:31,120 --> 01:26:37,120
Speaker 1: anything about you, determine how you feel about yourself. You

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Speaker 1: can control the narrative of yourself. You elevate your thoughts,

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Speaker 1: you elevate your life. That's your mission for twenty twenty two.

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Speaker 1: Y'all have a great day. God bless you. Talk to God,

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01:26:52,280 --> 01:26:54,720
Speaker 1: he loved to hear from you. I'm going to do

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Speaker 1: the same myself. God willing will see y'all. The mall

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show.