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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Shine and Lansing Colo Shine Rights.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I went to a buffet with.

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Speaker 1: My wife and as I was fixing my plate, she

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Speaker 1: knocked a piece of chicken out of my hands and it.

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Speaker 2: Flew into the green beans.

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Speaker 1: I was embarrassed, but she said it was a joke

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Speaker 1: because we're on a diet.

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Speaker 2: How should I address this? What happened?

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Speaker 3: She slapped the plate, fried chicken filled in the green beans.

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Speaker 3: She said it was a joke because they own a diet.

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Speaker 3: How should I address this?

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Speaker 2: He was really embarrassed.

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Speaker 4: She slept a chicken out his hand as what she did.

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Speaker 4: See he really wanted chicken out.

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Speaker 2: You know you're on a diet. You can't eat that.

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Speaker 4: And he don't care nothing about that.

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Speaker 3: Die He trying to figure out how he got the

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Speaker 3: chicken out and green beans for somebody. See see this

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Speaker 3: ain't really no problem, Shine. I don't know why you

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Speaker 3: wrote in us. We don't even care. We can't seem

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Speaker 3: to me Shine like you're big behind. Need to stay

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Speaker 3: on your die. Don't put no dry chicken on your plate?

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Speaker 3: You know you why Shine? Oh goodness, see Shine, that

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Speaker 3: was your old nickname.

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Speaker 4: Let's work on the name.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, your old nickname that when you was younger

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Speaker 3: in Thinnol.

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Speaker 2: What's his new nickname?

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Speaker 4: Oh Shining? Oh right, yeah, d.

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Speaker 2: We're moving on talking about Shining.

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Speaker 1: Yeah this Shine is in Lansing, Okay, Lancing in Michigan.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on to Daretha and Queens. Diretha writes,

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Speaker 1: My sister keeps my four year old daughter on the

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Speaker 1: weekends while I work. My daughter knows all the lyrics

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Speaker 1: to rap songs and she has a sharp tongue. Now

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Speaker 1: I can't afford better daycare for her. So how do

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Speaker 1: I get my sister to stop being ghetto around my child?

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Speaker 4: Your sister ghetto?

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Speaker 2: She knew that when she took the baby over there.

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Speaker 4: You took all of that.

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Speaker 3: You ain't finna change. That's your sister. That ain't your friend.

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Speaker 3: You didn't pick off. She come with the package. Now

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Speaker 3: your little daughter, she's street.

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Speaker 2: Now what did she wrapping CARDI B? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Hello, she all let me here talking about and all

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Speaker 4: this here? Hey, what's she doing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? So she can't stop her sister, But yeah, quit.

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Speaker 4: Sending your daughter over there? Where are your mamat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just the weekend, all right. Moving on to Aliyah

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Speaker 1: and san Antonio. I hope we helped you, Doresa. Aliyah

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Speaker 1: and san Antonio writes, my husband hasn't taken me out

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Speaker 1: to eat or to the movies in two years. He said,

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Speaker 1: we have a home theater and we have a chef

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Speaker 1: at the house. He doesn't understand that sometimes I'm want

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Speaker 1: to go out. Is he too settled because we've been

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Speaker 1: married twenty eight years.

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Speaker 4: Y'all got a home theater and a chef.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like.

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Speaker 4: You call the room show. You can see you got

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Speaker 4: rich people problems.

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Speaker 3: Champagne from my radio Orner is sitting up here going,

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Speaker 3: you got a chef.

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Speaker 2: He just wants to go out sometimes.

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Speaker 1: So but.

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Speaker 4: But it'ster you got the chef part.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, see, you'd have been better off believing all

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Speaker 3: that out and just saying my husband hasn't taken me

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Speaker 3: to the movies or dinner in two years.

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Speaker 2: Right, They don't have date nights.

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Speaker 3: And he says, we have food at home and we

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Speaker 3: have a TV in our house. How can I change that?

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Speaker 3: And then I could have helped you, but right now

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Speaker 3: I can help you.

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Speaker 2: They have a home theater. In there.

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Speaker 4: You got a chef at a home theater.

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Speaker 3: Well, just because she's rich or they're well off, I say, bridge,

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Speaker 3: they're well off.

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Speaker 4: She can't go out, you know That's what the husband's

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Speaker 4: not saying. Yeah, yeah, she can go out, but what

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Speaker 4: he ain't taking it though?

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Speaker 2: So clearly with their girls girls night out.

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Speaker 3: We spent all this money on this shelf. I don't

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Speaker 3: built all of the big theater. Didn't you get in here?

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Speaker 3: Cause some Netflix? How am I Disney plus HBO Max

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Speaker 3: so much? How my stuff you ain't seen?

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Speaker 1: And can't the chef make it romantic like candle light

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Speaker 1: or something? You know?

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Speaker 2: Don't?

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Speaker 4: Why are you asking me?

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Speaker 1: Because you know why I'm asking You's got a chef

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Speaker 1: on this show?

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Speaker 2: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: Tommy got a chef like every day.

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Speaker 2: You got a chef every day, like Steve, like every day.

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Speaker 2: I didn't write into the show, but I got a.

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Speaker 1: Question on the step every day.

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Speaker 3: We're not discussing that, you know, like we the same,

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Speaker 3: like I don't know ye.

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Speaker 2: And all this means yes, because you have not said

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Speaker 2: jun I.

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Speaker 3: Know you ain't got no chelf. You ain't even got

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Speaker 3: no defense. I knew that, so you don't worry about that.

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Speaker 3: I know y'all ain't just saying but y'all ain't gonna

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Speaker 3: be talking about I'm the only one. Only show got

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Speaker 3: a chef because I know good will, I ain't I

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Speaker 3: need one. Yes, y'all don't want to let it all out.

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Speaker 3: I ain't the only one with.

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Speaker 4: A drive either.

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Speaker 2: Well, we know you got a driver, a driver.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know he had it.

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Speaker 4: I ain't had a driver like the same got un

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Speaker 4: I did not right in here for the shep love

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Speaker 4: what we're doing.

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Speaker 2: Right, you have it for dinner tonight. What's the ship

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Speaker 2: looking for y'all tonight?

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna send the options, he said, Junior junior staff

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Speaker 3: this conversation talking about what you didn't know, you don't.

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Speaker 3: Don't do that. You gotta stop talking about what you don't. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you know your hairline was gone.

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Speaker 1: You know what the airline all the picture we see

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Speaker 1: it every day.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 3: Help help him. We need to start being there for

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Speaker 3: each other. We got that's the one thing we got

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Speaker 3: to do. We got beat up. We have to do

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Speaker 3: what we got. We gotta do better for each other.

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Speaker 3: We gotta beat there for each other, like y'all already.

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Speaker 3: Stuff don't happen to him. Like you know, like Monica

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Speaker 3: is the one that is in charge of junior health. Monica, SMISTERIPI,

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Speaker 3: Monica take care of all her health needs. He called Keisha.

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Speaker 3: She go down there see bodom.

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Speaker 4: You know when like room is she do the hospital everything.

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Speaker 2: That's what a good producer does.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's a good friend. We got people on the show.

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Speaker 3: We have our roles, and my job is to make

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Speaker 3: you aware of the problem.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you point everything out, you know, any what.

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Speaker 4: Else you call?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, no, that ain't what that's

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Speaker 3: Monica Monica. Shirley called her. They have they concerned. They're women.

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Speaker 4: I'm not. I'm not finna be concerned.

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Speaker 3: You need a few hundred, few thousand. I'll step in

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Speaker 3: for you. I ain't gonna let him take your card.

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Speaker 3: They ain't gonna. I ain't gonna let him repoll your house.

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Speaker 3: Just call me, all right. Yeah, but I'm advising him

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Speaker 3: not to get on that plane to go to Turkey

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Speaker 3: to get that head full of hell.

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Speaker 2: All right, guys, you're listening. Se Hardy Morning Show