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Speaker 1: Wind down with Janet Kramer an I'm Heeart radio podcast, Like,

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Speaker 1: does it really take you that much longer to wash

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Speaker 2: No, you don't want no time out. I don't want

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Speaker 2: to hear it. Catherine. It does not take you that

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Speaker 2: long to straighten your hair.

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Speaker 3: No, it does not.

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Speaker 2: It does not an hour.

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Speaker 4: No, it doesn't.

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Speaker 2: I kind of wind down tour. It maybe took me

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Speaker 2: fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 4: It was already straightened by the people have the hair straightened.

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Speaker 2: Does it take that long to blow dry your hair?

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Speaker 4: It takes them an hour. It takes them an hour

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Speaker 4: because the clock.

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Speaker 2: No, we're doing I'm doing your hair in Los Angeles,

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Speaker 2: and I will show you I should have scheduled to

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Speaker 2: blow No, but I'm but go ahead back to go back,

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Speaker 2: and were curious, we should let every one in. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Hannah is beautiful and wonderful. And when we popped on,

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Speaker 2: Janna said, I said, in the nicest way possible, you

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Speaker 2: look like a mom right now, because she's a new mom.

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Speaker 2: So she's got the messy hair.

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Speaker 4: Baudy preface with it. Don't take this the wrong way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I was like, Oh, she's a mom now,

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Speaker 2: I love it. She's got a. She earned her little

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Speaker 2: messy bun. She's so nice, and I said, I keep

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Speaker 2: saying every night, Tonight's the night I'm going to wash

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Speaker 2: my hair. And then by the time I hit the shower,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, forget this. I want it to be quick

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Speaker 2: and I want to go to bed.

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Speaker 4: But how much longer does it take for you to

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Speaker 4: wash your hair?

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Speaker 2: It's actually not long and it feels her it's is

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Speaker 2: it the good? It just feels so good when I do.

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Speaker 1: It's what I'm wondering. Well, here's what I'm realizing at

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Speaker 1: the time. I obviously can't speak because I throw my

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Speaker 1: hair in a bun after I do nothing, I'm putting

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Speaker 1: stuff in it.

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Speaker 2: You don't even have I know. I know this because

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Speaker 2: every time we travel together and I'm like, I'm like

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Speaker 2: whene were time traveling, I'm I do a brush and

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Speaker 2: She's like, no, like Ien a.

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Speaker 4: Brush, brush hair every now and then.

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Speaker 2: I don't need to you don't need to use cute hair.

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Speaker 1: Well no, but my point is is I'm giving you

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Speaker 1: you probably have.

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Speaker 4: To do more with your hair when not get out

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Speaker 4: with okay, Well, then you get no excuse. I truly don't.

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Speaker 2: It's just dirty I personally just like, don't like the

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Speaker 2: I just it takes so much effort, even though it

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Speaker 2: takes an extra five minutes, And.

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Speaker 1: In my mind I thought, maybe it does take people

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Speaker 1: longer to do. I'm being genuine because there's so many

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Speaker 1: people are like, it's it's.

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Speaker 4: The night to wash my hair, and I'm like, yeah, no,

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Speaker 4: it's not that. Am I doing something wrong.

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Speaker 2: I'm just tired, I think.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's fair.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't want to brush it. I just

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Speaker 4: Hair looks great.

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Speaker 1: So I'm not coming down on you, but I was

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Speaker 1: just I was totally just curious. But then I realized

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Speaker 1: a lot of people will like blow dry and straighten

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I wash my hair now maybe maybe, oh

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Speaker 2: at least once a week. I washed my hair because

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Speaker 2: I used to wash it every day and then it

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Speaker 2: was so greasy and so that I got on them

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Speaker 2: where I didn't. And then now it's like, fine, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you're not supposed to wash it every day. Now do

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Speaker 2: you know that you're also not supposed to bathe soap

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Speaker 2: every day either. I can't do that it's impossible. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: there was something you have softer skin if you don't

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Speaker 3: Day, taking.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but do you know what I mean, like

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Speaker 1: Out to be pretty sure we just strip all the

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Speaker 1: moisture out of our skin when we do.

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Speaker 2: But I can't not wash my body either. But anyway,

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Speaker 2: we have the country that was you pinned something when

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Speaker 2: we were on the phone the other day. Okay, I

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Speaker 2: minipin it. Minipin is quick. Okay. I just want to

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Speaker 2: make sure that I have a public apology out to

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Speaker 2: you for insulting Jack Russell. Oh, because I need my

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Speaker 2: daughter Lion, and I just want to make sure that

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Speaker 2: very or people being mean. No, but I thought about

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Speaker 2: Jack Russell, and I've got a daughter named Lyan. Jack's

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Speaker 2: was going to be the name.

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Speaker 4: Still loving Jack's. It's unfortunate it is Jack Russell.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I just want to make sure everyone knows I named

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Speaker 2: my daughter an animal. You could name your son an animal.

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Speaker 2: So many people the wedding of Jax Russell and Lion

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Speaker 2: Lockhart would be incredible.

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Speaker 3: It would be a.

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Speaker 4: Friends without telling me your best friends.

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Speaker 2: Jackson, I know, but we we have officially we officially

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Speaker 2: officially officially have a name now and the middle is

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Speaker 2: it the our name is R j R.

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Speaker 4: I know the last one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we changed the middle for something like a personal.

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Speaker 4: Do we get to know her?

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Speaker 2: Is it a surprise?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: What do you guys think?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 2: Do we need everyone? I don't know, like how like

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Speaker 2: because most people, well, I don't know, because I know

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Speaker 2: I'm Sydney Jesse's sister. They already knew the name, like

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Speaker 2: they had like the had the baby shower, which I

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Speaker 2: starting to show, but also like one devilment. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm not here. I feel like should felt bad, but

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Speaker 2: so like they had Sonny already picked out. So I

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Speaker 2: don't know, Like, do you it's up to you? Do

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Speaker 2: you hold it?

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Speaker 3: Do you?

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Speaker 2: I would love for you to hold it. I don't

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Speaker 2: think that is in the cards for what I've always held.

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Speaker 4: Here's what I did too.

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Speaker 1: If you don't want to hear people's you're going to

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Speaker 1: you know, which is terrible. You can't imagine people doing that,

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Speaker 2: I love all the names you've come up with. Jack's

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Speaker 2: I love Jack. Oh, I love it so much, but

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Speaker 2: I just it's just Jack's Jax Russell, Jax Russell.

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Speaker 4: I still try it on, so I.

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Speaker 2: Know, but I just there was a piece of me

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Speaker 2: that I'm like, well, what if I change my mind?

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Speaker 2: But I don't know, because every time we've had a name,

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Speaker 2: it's always gone back to the art name, the our name.

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Speaker 2: We know, the our name, y'all know. I love that.

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Speaker 4: You could have like a Kylie situation where you name it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, like, was it wolf?

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Speaker 1: So they named him wolf? Never called him Wolf a

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Speaker 1: Six months nine.

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Speaker 4: Months later they're like, actually his name is Air or whatever.

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Speaker 2: I see this Air is it Air?

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Speaker 2: She's kind of pretty like that. I like it. The

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Speaker 2: Like I had to go in knowing what the name was,

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Speaker 2: because when it's like, okay, well know when we know

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Speaker 4: What, Like I don't know, that's not me.

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Speaker 3: Who are you a kid?

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Speaker 2: Who do you want to be?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: They can't I don't know. I had to meet them. See,

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Speaker 2: that's just not my personality. That's not yours either, No,

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Speaker 2: not at all.

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Speaker 1: But like we knew, you had to make sure that

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Speaker 2: Well for lion, especially because I already knew it.

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Speaker 4: Like what does lion look like?

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Speaker 2: Though well I already knew it lion looked like because

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Speaker 4: I feel like I don't know the story.

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Speaker 2: Well that's pretty crucial for me. We can catch up later.

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Speaker 4: You didn't tell me. I'm pretty sure you skipped over.

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Speaker 2: Okay, he she was bitch facing That was so bad.

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Speaker 1: So someone said, I was like, I wish I knew

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Speaker 4: It was with what's her face?

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Speaker 2: It was it's when I talk, you stare at me.

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Speaker 2: I need too though, I feel like I need to

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Speaker 2: It's like I remember for Lead for Love, Preston was

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Speaker 4: So, but I just need to see I can.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I need to. Like I've walked in with

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Speaker 2: So that's what's also weird because like we knew, we knew,

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Speaker 2: But then I think I can't. I never called them

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Speaker 4: So what happens if they come out and you're like,

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Speaker 2: Well, it wasn't lying with legend, so we had legend

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Speaker 2: either way, and if it looked like the baby I saw,

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Speaker 2: then it would have been lying. But it wasn't. Oh okay,

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Speaker 2: yeah gotcha. Well I don't really have a chance to

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Speaker 2: like have that moment of holding because I'm so drugged

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Speaker 2: by the stuff that get me. I'm like, you know,

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Speaker 2: I need to like have the name, the names.

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Speaker 4: A couple of things.

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Speaker 2: And he locked in before.

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Speaker 4: The difference between kby.

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Speaker 2: So we gets closer and closer and closer. I'm like, so, like,

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Speaker 2: I actually looked into a study that if they knock

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Speaker 2: and depression. Wow. Yeah, so can I ask you guys,

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Speaker 2: this is silly that I don't know this.

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Speaker 1: I'm silent.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, it's just because.

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Speaker 1: You were giving me some sort of it's just when

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Speaker 2: Okay, so when that I should know this. It's embarrassing

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Speaker 2: when you do see section what are your options for anesthesia?

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Speaker 2: They just give you the spinal tap okay, and your

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Speaker 2: Small pin, that's the small pin. Jacks Russell, Oh, Jack, okay,

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Speaker 2: Take you're breaking get Danielle brad Barry. I'm hey girl,

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Speaker 2: hiy hey, hi, sweet girl. I am How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm good? How are you?

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Speaker 2: We're good? Welcome to Wine Down.

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Speaker 3: I love it. I'm excited to be here.

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Speaker 2: Are you right now?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm in the label. I came prepared. I haven't

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Speaker 2: Are you still with Big Machine?

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Speaker 2: Okay, because you've been there for how many years?

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Speaker 2: Yeah girl, I met you right after that.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, for sure. And they even know that too.

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Speaker 2: So you always felt so, I mean, winning the Voice

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Speaker 3: It, thank you. But yes, I think about it all

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Speaker 2: So because you're warrior. Dana Kramer's here to tell everybody

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Speaker 2: I'm like, why because that matters, Because that matters.

442
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 3: It's just always something I get it to meet and greets,

443
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 3: even like that's the first thing to say to me.

444
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,960
Speaker 3: Is just something about my body and I try to

445
00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:15,840
Speaker 3: be confident in it and just you know, show up

446
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,160
Speaker 3: and show out as much as I can. But some

447
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 3: days are harder than others, and it it'll weigh on

448
00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:24,080
Speaker 3: you heavier than others. But that has been the most

449
00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:27,760
Speaker 3: common throughout my career, and being in the spotlight is

450
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:32,400
Speaker 3: just nitpicking. I'm like, y'all love doing this.

451
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 4: It goes to show that it goes both ways.

452
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:38,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like if you're too big everyone or in their eyes,

453
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,479
Speaker 1: too big that they're going to complain about you. If

454
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 1: you're too small, like you literally have to be a

455
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 1: perfect what's too small?

456
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,919
Speaker 4: What's too big? What's too like? What is it that

457
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 4: makes you happy with my body?

458
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:49,760
Speaker 3: Right?

459
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:53,120
Speaker 2: You know, it's unbelievable meet and greet stuffny I feel

460
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:56,360
Speaker 2: like people they don't mean to say like there's been

461
00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,439
Speaker 2: like you know, a couple of years ago there was

462
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,520
Speaker 2: people they'll be like, oh my god, you're so much

463
00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,080
Speaker 2: prettier in person, and I'm I was like, thanks for you,

464
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 2: like okay, and then like I just I just did

465
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 2: a show in uh Reno and they're like, oh my god,

466
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 2: you're huge, and I'm like thanks like that because I

467
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,639
Speaker 2: just came on stage now because you know, I'm pregnant,

468
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 2: and so they're like, but you know, I don't think

469
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 2: they mean it. It's just like also nervous energy too, yeah,

470
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 2: because I'm like meeting their person so ice. But I

471
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 2: you know, I get I was just talking to someone

472
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 2: else too about you know, someone's going through a breakup

473
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 2: and they're like the worst part, honestly, isn't the breakup.

474
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:39,879
Speaker 2: It's the social media and all the comments and all

475
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:42,679
Speaker 2: the hatefulness and all the and I'm like that's the

476
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:44,760
Speaker 2: piece where it's like it's so easy to be like okay,

477
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 2: like don't listen to it, turn it off, like you

478
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,639
Speaker 2: know the truth. But it's still when someone's speaking something

479
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 2: about you, it's not easy to swallow. It's not easy

480
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:55,160
Speaker 2: to not defend, it's not easy to like have let

481
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 2: those things come in. It's it's one thing to say like,

482
00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 2: oh that doesn't doesn't bother me, and who cares? It's

483
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 2: still like still human. Yeah.

484
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, at the end of the day, it still sits

485
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 3: heavy no matter what or who you are.

486
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 2: So and you've been so incredibly vocal to about your

487
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 2: anxiety and what is because obviously we talk about anxiety

488
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 2: a lot on the show, and so what's what's some

489
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,879
Speaker 2: things and tools that you do that kind of helps

490
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 2: you get, you know, back on study ground.

491
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 3: You know, I have. I'm about to start a new therapy,

492
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 3: Like it's like a new I was doing something a

493
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 3: while back and I quit that and then now I'm

494
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 3: going to start something new and I'm really excited about that.

495
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 3: But obviously therapy is wonderful. But you know, in my

496
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:50,159
Speaker 3: daily life, I try to exercise. I I try to

497
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 3: at least it just I'm very much of a homebody.

498
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 3: I like my my little knee time and I'm so

499
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 3: I'm so boring and I'll literally cleaning my house awkwardly,

500
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:11,440
Speaker 3: girl like, I don't know, I just want to clean.

501
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 3: It's not even messy. I just need to do something

502
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:15,160
Speaker 3: with my hands.

503
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 4: I'll do that.

504
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 3: I'll organize and just because your space matters as well

505
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 3: and how that is and for your mental and just

506
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 3: I have a dog. I like to, you know, go

507
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,679
Speaker 3: on walks with him, and yeah, just have more of

508
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 3: self care because some days I will look around and

509
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, wow, this is a perfect representation of what's

510
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 3: going on in here, and just reeling it back sometimes

511
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 3: really helps. And getting organized or as organized as you

512
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 3: can to to feel like you're you're a little bit

513
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 3: put back together. That was That's kind of honestly been

514
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 3: me recently. Actually, I feel like I've been I feel

515
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 3: super unorganized in my personal life because I'm traveling. I'll

516
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 3: go do shows and I come back live out a suitcase,

517
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 3: go keep going on, like I have no stability right now,

518
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:11,199
Speaker 3: and it is driving me insane. So I mean, just

519
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 3: these last few days, I stayed up till one o'clock

520
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 3: in the morning one of these nights, just organizing and cleaning.

521
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, I need, I need to do something here.

522
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 3: So there's just different little things.

523
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 2: You have You tried the emdre No, No, that's a

524
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 2: good one. That's a good one to add to your list. Yeah, Okay,

525
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 2: it's something that a therapist can can walk you through.

526
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 2: But it's really good, Okay, very helpful, super incredible, and

527
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 2: it helps break down like all of those like any

528
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 2: of the truths that are feel like truth to you

529
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 2: but are not truths. It helps you get to the

530
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 2: roots in the bottoms and then kind of dissolve it

531
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,120
Speaker 2: a little bit. Yeah, you would like it. I read

532
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 2: somewhere too that you are with your music, you are

533
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 2: starting to be a little more personal, not personal, sharing

534
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 2: some more personal stuff about maybe past relationships and stuff.

535
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 2: You were with your last boyfriend for how many years?

536
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 3: I was with him for almost four years and we

537
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 3: broke up about ten months ago.

538
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:09,879
Speaker 2: So that's got to be in a lot of the

539
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 2: new songs coming up.

540
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 3: Right, She's like, it was the one.

541
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 2: I mean that really, I mean that's going to add

542
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 2: too to the you know, depression and stress and anxiety.

543
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 2: But I also think there's so much like to be

544
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 2: able to sing through that must be so therapeutic as well.

545
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 3: It really is, And you know, I talk about it

546
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 3: all the time, and I like to try and be

547
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 3: as honest and vulnerable in my music as I can,

548
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:42,199
Speaker 3: or you know, as they let you. But like I

549
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,640
Speaker 3: recently put out a song about anxiety and I've never

550
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 3: done that before.

551
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 2: I'm super excited.

552
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and you know, just and you know they've

553
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 3: asked me, were you kind of nervous about doing that?

554
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 3: And I'm like no, because I just I want everyone

555
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 3: to feel like they're here, even me selfishly. I just

556
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 3: want to, you know, show that I'm not perfect, like

557
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 3: I still deal with all of this stuff. And yeah,

558
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 3: writing about relationships and what has gone on is super

559
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:16,439
Speaker 3: therapeutic and it just just lets you express all of

560
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 3: those things and not keep it to yourself. And then

561
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 3: you hear other stories about sometimes the same exact thing,

562
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 3: and you're like, okay, so I'm not it's not just

563
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 3: me here, which is nice. And then that feeling is

564
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 3: vice versa with your with your fans and other people

565
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 3: friends and everything. So it's really something special. For sure.

566
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 2: Is there people that in Nashville? I guess anybody. It

567
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,679
Speaker 2: just be anywhere that you love to write with that

568
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,199
Speaker 2: you feel safe, you know, because that is writing is

569
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 2: such a vulnerable space and there's certain people, you know,

570
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,439
Speaker 2: everybody can write like a fun song with. But then

571
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 2: when you get to like the intimate anxiety like pouring

572
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 2: your heart out, is there like do you have the

573
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 2: is there a sacred group that you.

574
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 3: Yeah? I love Emily Wise band. She's kind of been

575
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 3: my go to girl over the past few years. I

576
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 3: basically wrote my whole last album with her and she

577
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 3: like vocal produced it with me. And she's always been

578
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,400
Speaker 3: a steady one for me. She's been doing her own

579
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 3: thing and it's been a little harder to get together recently.

580
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,719
Speaker 3: But she will send me songs out of nowhere and

581
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,679
Speaker 3: be like, hey, thought of you or wrote this thinking

582
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 3: of you, And she knows what's been going on in

583
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,879
Speaker 3: my life, what has gone on, and so the songs

584
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 3: she'll send me, I'm like, are you trying to ruin

585
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 3: my day? Been like, oh my gosh, it's just so

586
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,959
Speaker 3: spot on. So a lot of this new music, to

587
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 3: be honest, is some of it is her sending me

588
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 3: stuff that she's like, I know this has been what

589
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 3: you've been talking to me about lately. So here's this.

590
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, gosh, that is unreal. I love her.

591
00:28:56,160 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 2: So she's yeah, what was the biggest lesson in the

592
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 2: breakup for you?

593
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 3: Oh? Man, you can't force somebody to love you. That

594
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 3: was the biggest thing for me.

595
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 2: And nor should anyone ever, you know what I mean?

596
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 2: Like someone should just like ever, you know, because we

597
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 2: can't force ourselves to love someone.

598
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 3: And no one.

599
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,239
Speaker 2: I mean, we've all done it, but I've also been like,

600
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 2: you know, you stay and you stay and you stay,

601
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 2: like thinking they're going to like love you the way

602
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 2: you want to be loved, and it's like sometimes they

603
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 2: just can't be that the one to do that.

604
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 3: No, And like this last one, I was, I was confirmed,

605
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 3: like I'm going to marry this guy. His mom talk

606
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 3: to me about rings like it was it was very

607
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 3: very deep, like we had a plan. I didn't think

608
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 3: of anything else. So I was like, this is my plan.

609
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 3: And so towards the end it started to he started

610
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 3: to throw around the breaking up randomly, and I'm like,

611
00:29:56,520 --> 00:30:00,239
Speaker 3: you can't do that to me because it's literally destroyed me.

612
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 3: And that's where a lot of the anxiety came in.

613
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,719
Speaker 3: And I was just worried all the time. And it

614
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 3: was he was dealing with his own issues that I

615
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 3: that half of it had nothing to do with me,

616
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 3: and that was the hardest pill to swallow because you

617
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 3: wanted to You're like, Okay, well I'm gonna I hope

618
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 3: you love me, like I hope this keeps going. And

619
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 3: it just I mean, half of it, like I said,

620
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 3: had nothing to do with me, And so it was

621
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 3: just battling, the juggling of figuring that out, figuring out, Okay,

622
00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 3: this isn't you, but I love him so much I

623
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 3: want it to work out. It was just a lot

624
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 3: of like battling in here, and I give people way

625
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 3: too many chances. That was That's something I have been

626
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 3: learning not to do. It's really hard.

627
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 2: The podcast of chances.

628
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 3: Yes, I love it, but oh man, yeah, I gave

629
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 3: him way too many chances towards the end, and he

630
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 3: felt like I was going to be there forever and

631
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 3: then it just one of the last hey, peace out.

632
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 3: I was like, all right, yeah, I'm piecing out too,

633
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 3: and he didn't like that, and he made my life

634
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 3: a living hell for a few months, and that was

635
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 3: a really hard pill to swallow too. You're like, I

636
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 3: love him so much, but then yeah, so yeah, you

637
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 3: can't force anything. And once it's over, it's just it's

638
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 3: not meant to be, whether how much you love him

639
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 3: or not. I will love him for the rest of

640
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 3: my life, but I just, you know, I've gotten to

641
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 3: the point where I'm like, I just hope he's good.

642
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 3: Hope he's you know, living it up. He had a

643
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 3: new girl immediately almost, so I'm like that for sure overlapped.

644
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 3: So that was a hard post swallow as well.

645
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: Hope you know that none of it is a reflection

646
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 2: on you though, Like absolutely none of that.

647
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is That's what I've been trying to learn.

648
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 2: So I think it's really hard for people that have

649
00:31:55,640 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 2: that characteristic to swallow when you actually love yourself more

650
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 2: than you love them, and for you to say when

651
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 2: he says peace out and you go, okay, you know what,

652
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 2: actually me too, it's like you really taking care of yourself. Yeah,

653
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 2: and that is a really confident, big decision to make.

654
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 2: That's hard for someone with his characteristics to probably digest.

655
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, And it took a while, like I said,

656
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 3: the chances and going back and forth and loving him

657
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 3: when he really wasn't loving me, and and then you know,

658
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,959
Speaker 3: I was I that that's saying. You just wake up.

659
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 3: One day, I literally just I was like, I'm not

660
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 3: doing this anymore. And I was like, oh my god,

661
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 3: i can finally eat and I'm not, you know, so

662
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 3: wound up with what he's doing while I'm trying to

663
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 3: do what I'm doing. Like it was this just lit like.

664
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 2: It's that wild what we do and how we do

665
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 2: because I'm like I remember, that's like everything like yet

666
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 2: dictated how his energy and his emotions dictated how then

667
00:32:57,680 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 2: I was during my day. And it's like, well, it's.

668
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 1: Like, like, did your anxiety pretty much go away once

669
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: you made that decision to just be done? I, like

670
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 1: I said I would.

671
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 3: I was losing a lot of weight because I couldn't eat.

672
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 3: I was in this spider flight mode all the time.

673
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 3: And like after that finish, and then it was like

674
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 3: the back and forth for a while after the breakup,

675
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 3: and then after that chapter closed, and then I saw

676
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,239
Speaker 3: he was with somebody else and she actually moved in

677
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 3: with him, and I was like wow. And then from

678
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 3: then on and like now I've like been able to eat.

679
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 3: I've been feeling it out more like I've been in

680
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 3: my My mom and my sister, they're like, isn't that

681
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 3: wild what he did to your body? I'm like, that's wild.

682
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 3: I like shed y.

683
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: Well, It's like with Jana, it's like she's had anxiety

684
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 1: since I've known her, and it's like she gets divorced

685
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: and she's like I don't have anxiety anymore, and I'm

686
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 1: like what, Like it's so bizarre.

687
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 3: Denminators.

688
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's funny is I was always called the common denominator, right, yeah, figure,

689
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 2: welcome to my dadator. You're so welcome here.

690
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 3: You get right in. Danielle, I love it.

691
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 2: Okay, So Danielle on the positive things. You're going on tour, right,

692
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 2: it's coming up here soon or are you already on?

693
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:22,439
Speaker 3: No?

694
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 2: I start yeah, okay with Jordan, right with Jordan. I

695
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 2: love his song he is Out, Jordan Davis. Jordan Davis

696
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 2: was now I'm freeing the total the title. I was like, no, not,

697
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:36,839
Speaker 2: that's that's good too. I don't know that you were

698
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 2: listening is like bye bye do it. I was like,

699
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 2: it's like a whole thing. I was like, never mind, no,

700
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 2: the around, No, that's not world ones around, it's the

701
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 2: I think I think this is him. I feel really

702
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 2: bad now if it's the one where it's like, oh

703
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 2: it's new, it comes like everything that comes out next,

704
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 2: it's like, uh, next thing, you know, next thing, you know,

705
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 2: the next thing he knows. Yeah, I love that song.

706
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, so true.

707
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 2: It's like you're buying a ring and you're moving in

708
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 2: and you're on a baby then yeah. Really related to

709
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 2: the Deer on the Wall, statement at that the Deerhead

710
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 2: on the Wall. The lyrics, clearly I don't know the lyrics.

711
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 4: Will we're talking about the same song, Yes we are?

712
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, So you're going on tour, You've got

713
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 2: Monster out, Like what what else is going on? I mean,

714
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 2: obviously that's a lot like happening, but like, what what

715
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 2: do you what do you want and what do you like?

716
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 2: What are you aiming for?

717
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:31,720
Speaker 3: So recently I've been in and out of the studio

718
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:35,759
Speaker 3: and like just this morning, I had a meeting, you know,

719
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 3: putting a set list together for that tour and just

720
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,760
Speaker 3: making it the best that I can, and just getting

721
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:49,319
Speaker 3: really excited about that. I'm releasing another song by the

722
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 3: end of this month or the beginning, I don't know,

723
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:58,359
Speaker 3: but I'm releasing another song soon, and my goal is

724
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 3: to put out another album. I am sitting on a

725
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 3: lot of songs that I am super excited about. And

726
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 3: it's songs that I'm not putting an agenda to or

727
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 3: I'm not putting any rules to. I'm like, oh, well

728
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 3: I gotta have this radio single, or oh I need

729
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 3: to make it country, or I'm not putting labels on anything.

730
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 3: And that has been really fun. And freeing for me

731
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:25,280
Speaker 3: to do. And this music, I feel like, is finally

732
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 3: a group of songs and I'm like, I'm actually super

733
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 3: proud of this group of songs. It's more me than ever,

734
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 3: I mean, sonically, lyrically, and just the stories and it's

735
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 3: very relatable to your mid to late twenties, like it

736
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 3: just takes you through that life and different perspectives and

737
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 3: so it's you know, we're going to be presenting it

738
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 3: to the team here soon and hopefully it's all green

739
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 3: lights from there. But yeah, that's my goal right now,

740
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 3: is just to put out another project and just just

741
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 3: have fun with that.

742
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 2: So I almost think that you say you're proud of

743
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 2: the music, I almost feel like that's a translation that

744
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 2: you're proud of yourself too, for everything that you've walked through.

745
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 2: So I am good. You should be. I'm talking to

746
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:15,720
Speaker 2: my kid, I'm like, are you proud of yourself?

747
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 4: Because you should be you she basically could be our child. Almost.

748
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, let us let our listeners know where they

749
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 2: can find you if they haven't followed you already.

750
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm on all social media, Instagram, TikTok, I mean,

751
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,399
Speaker 3: the whole, the whole, Nines and then I'm Spotify, Apple Music,

752
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 3: anywhere you can find music.

753
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 2: So Daniel Bradberry, thank you girls so much for coming

754
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:40,320
Speaker 2: on mine down.

755
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,279
Speaker 4: Sweet, thanks for coming.

756
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 2: Anytime you want to talk therapy. I'm your girl, all right, girl,

757
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 2: thank you so.

758
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 3: Much, Thank you, Bye bye, sweet little Gosh.

759
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,799
Speaker 2: She's just she's just become such a beautiful woman. Yeah,

760
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,880
Speaker 2: she really has just really grun into herself. Yeah, it's

761
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 2: I mean, can you imagine, Yeah, can you imagine anybody,

762
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 2: Like we've talked about this when we do like the

763
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 2: the Laguna Beach in the Hills people and but like sixteen.

764
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: No, can't imagine.

765
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 2: I mean, and coming onto music Row and she works.

766
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 2: I mean she's under a big label. Yeah, that's like

767
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:26,359
Speaker 2: it's a monster label. I remember she was playing at

768
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 2: a show that I was playing at and just being like, oh,

769
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 2: she's so young, and I just I've like loved to

770
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 2: watch like I've loved her evolution. And her voice doesn't

771
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 2: grit in her body. It's crazy. Her little stairwell stuff

772
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 2: that she has Instagram are so good too. She got

773
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 2: such a pretty voice. She goes to a stairwell and

774
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 2: like sing songs and then like beautiful voice. I wish

775
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 2: I could sound like that in a stairwell or anywhere. Actually,

776
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 2: I wish I could sound like that even in my

777
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 2: own head. Take a break, and then we'll unpin the

778
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 2: big pin.

779
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 3: On pin.

780
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 2: Unpinned the big pin. This is a realization, and I

781
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 2: hope it helps someone somewhere. You really wish men would

782
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 2: pick one out of It was a realization that men.

783
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:19,919
Speaker 4: Spouses.

784
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 2: Maybe I shouldn't be so men. Okay, it's men. I

785
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 2: tried for a minute, super ego about it. So I

786
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 2: had this realization. I was at a We have a

787
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 2: little support group that I go to once a month.

788
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 2: It's women in the industry that are married to men

789
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 2: in the industry. It just allows its space for us

790
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 2: to like all chat and have like a safe place

791
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 2: to share the struggles.

792
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 3: Right.

793
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,359
Speaker 2: So I it's been led by a therapist that you

794
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 2: and I both know and have worked with, and her

795
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 2: husband recently passed, and and she's magical. And so at

796
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 2: one point I say to her, was there ever a

797
00:39:56,560 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 2: time where he wasn't nailing it?

798
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:01,479
Speaker 3: Oh? Him?

799
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. So I don't know why this never

800
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 2: occurred to me. You think everyone's perfect When we did

801
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 2: couple therapy with them. Yeah, like they were like this

802
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 2: is our stuff and this is where like he never

803
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 2: knew so here, this is what I think. Okay, I

804
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 2: think therapist Amy and her husband. Oh, by the way,

805
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 2: she sent me the cutest photo of them, because I've

806
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:25,879
Speaker 2: been like that's another pin for another pin, but like

807
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 2: she like sends me their like perfect little family photo,

808
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 2: and I'm like, you guys are just precious, Like yeah,

809
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,879
Speaker 2: they like they never fight, right, but they do.

810
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: They everyone does, everyone does. Okay, what should men do?

811
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 2: Okay? So I guess I just thought all along like

812
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 2: men like if you're a therapist, then that must be

813
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,279
Speaker 2: like I've figured at home, it's just very like, tell

814
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 2: me about your day, very connected. How are your feeling

815
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:53,279
Speaker 2: like i'd assume I feel. Yes, I imagined when they're

816
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 2: cooking dinner, they're like stirring right. The story I made

817
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 2: up today when you didn't text me back was that

818
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 2: maybe you weren't thinking of me, and that really hurt

819
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 2: my feelings. This is what I thought was happening in

820
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 2: all of their homes, but in reality, and a couple

821
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,879
Speaker 2: therapists have opened up to me and been like oh no, no,

822
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 2: no no, And I was like wait, what And they're like, no,

823
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 2: I had to instruct I mean the the therapists that

824
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 2: we share or had shared. Huh whose husband passed away?

825
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 2: She was like no, I had to sit him down

826
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 2: and say. She said. One day, I slammed my laptop

827
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 2: and I said, I need you to date me tonight.

828
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 2: I need you to court me. And I said, wait

829
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:33,760
Speaker 2: a second. Of all the intune, intuitive, well knowing, all knowing,

830
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 2: feeling people, this guy need to be told what you need.

831
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 2: And she said, oh yeah. All the time, Guys, I've

832
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 2: been walking around thinking, well, maybe I'm just impossible, or

833
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 2: maybe I'm just you know. I think there's I hear

834
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 2: what you're saying, but I think there's levels to it.

835
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:51,959
Speaker 2: So I think there are things that i've that you've

836
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 2: told me that are absolutely not okay. Sure that I

837
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 2: don't think that guy would have done. Sure, sure, But

838
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,439
Speaker 2: I also think there are the mundane things that all

839
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:05,760
Speaker 2: husbands and wives like gets.

840
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:05,359
Speaker 4: Men and women.

841
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: I think everyone has to be reminded in their relationship.

842
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 2: Think you ruined it for yourself now.

843
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:13,720
Speaker 3: Just that we all don't.

844
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:20,359
Speaker 2: I don't have this idea, okay, because you are helpless romantic. Yeah,

845
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 2: but I also know that like you know, well yeah,

846
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 2: but like I also know that like as deeply and

847
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,840
Speaker 2: as madly in love that I am with Alan, and

848
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 2: how much we love and respect each other. Granted we

849
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 2: have not had a fight yet and we've been dating

850
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 2: for ten months, and I love and and well, in

851
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 2: my mind like all will never be what my ex

852
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 2: and I were That was a toxic mess of disrespect

853
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 2: and I'm not loyalty and whatever, and I know that

854
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 2: we're gonna most likely have little annoyances, and we're going

855
00:42:57,960 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 2: to bother each other and we're going to have little,

856
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 2: h like little snippet fights. Having said that, which I

857
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 2: think is I'll be like, well, I want to feel

858
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 2: dated because he's you know, he's working a lot or this,

859
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 2: that and the other, and sure are those things, but

860
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 2: I think there are other things that you need to

861
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 2: take into account that aren't normal. Maybe right, No, But

862
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,400
Speaker 2: I like, I'm like, well, why would you want to

863
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 2: date me? Like I'm going, okay, you're home for four nights,

864
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 2: Like I want a date night. Well he does too,

865
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 2: but also and we have a brand new baby, so

866
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 2: he's like, I don't I want to plan that for you.

867
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 2: But then I feel like I'm nervous to take you

868
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 2: away from the baby those things. Yes, I just think

869
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 2: we have to unfortunately spell it out a little but ye. Like,

870
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 2: for example, I said to Alan the other day, because

871
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:43,919
Speaker 2: he's going to be away for a bit, I said,

872
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 2: you know, the kids are going to go to MIC's tonight,

873
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:47,840
Speaker 2: so I would really like and He's like, oh, we

874
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 2: should do a date and I'm like, yes, I would

875
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 2: love that, you know.

876
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 1: So it's like, I mean, we just have this conversation

877
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:54,399
Speaker 1: the other night. I was like, hey, like, we haven't

878
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 1: gone on a date in a while, and he was like,

879
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, the calendar is so full. Like he's

880
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:01,280
Speaker 1: truly not they're not, but I'm saying he's not doing

881
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:02,919
Speaker 1: it and I don't want to take her out.

882
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:04,720
Speaker 4: It's literally he looks at.

883
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: It and he's like, well, crap, there's something on the

884
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:08,319
Speaker 1: schedule every day, and then it leaves his mind and

885
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 1: then I have to remind him like, okay, well maybe

886
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 1: look out a month in advance and put it on

887
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 1: the calendar.

888
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:14,240
Speaker 4: It's just the.

889
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 2: Piece though, is is when that goes too long, right,

890
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 2: then you start to get like, well they don't care,

891
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 2: and then you.

892
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: Start to get everything I have learned, at least for

893
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: us personally, through everything that we have been through. We

894
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 1: have to communicate that before we get to that place,

895
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 1: because that was the problem. We got it so far

896
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 1: because I was pissed about this, He was pissed about this.

897
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 1: No one ever said anything, and it just eventually whatever.

898
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: So like we had to come together. The other day

899
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 1: he had a little frustration and I had a frustration,

900
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 1: and we talked about it. We're like, okay, cool, and

901
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 1: you know, it's just it's not I know it's easier

902
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 1: said than done, but we have to communicate that, but just.

903
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 4: What it takes.

904
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:50,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a communications major. Why am I suck?

905
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 1: Why you expect no offense but you expect him to

906
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 1: just no offense, but want to do it. Don't take

907
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: this the wrong way. Hope you don't take this the

908
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 1: wrong way or ask do you expect him to.

909
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 2: Just you know and do it?

910
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:07,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, And that's not fair, but you were talking about it.

911
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 2: It's not fair. It is the time, so that would

912
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,360
Speaker 2: be nice. Yes, agreed, But like the other day he

913
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 2: was like, Hey, I'm going to be home for three

914
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 2: nights and I really want to date you. And I

915
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 2: was like you do. And he's like, well, yeah, he's

916
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 2: like I miss you, Like he's like you just you're

917
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:25,879
Speaker 2: always holding a baby like it's I So that must

918
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 2: have felt good. Then, oh it feels great. I honestly

919
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 2: am just hoping that this little nugget of information busts

920
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,399
Speaker 2: all the things that people see on social media, how

921
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 2: in love they are and all these marriages, because I

922
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 2: think I sometimes have an an unrealistic expectation where he

923
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 2: is just it's Adam and Eve's stuff, and he's not

924
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:45,879
Speaker 2: wired the same way as me. And if I say

925
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 2: what I need, what I want, what I feel, thank

926
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 2: you and Amy Alexander, it is easier for him to

927
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 2: give me what I need and what I want and

928
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,839
Speaker 2: help me understand how I feel. So I will say

929
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 2: one of the coolest things happened, and I agree with you. Yeah,

930
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,880
Speaker 2: we were Alan and I did a date night. It

931
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 2: was probably a month ago, and we're sitting at dinner

932
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 2: and he goes, okay, and it was very like coach like,

933
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 2: but I either way, I appreciated it. He's like, he goes, so,

934
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:12,280
Speaker 2: what do you think we're doing great in a relationship

935
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 2: and what do you think we need to work on

936
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 2: Oh I love that, and he's like, and then then

937
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:18,879
Speaker 2: as a whole, and then what's something that we need

938
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 2: that I need to work on and that you need

939
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 2: to work on? Did he have anything they already lined up?

940
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:25,399
Speaker 3: No?

941
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 2: He didn't, Okay, good. Yeah. So it was what we like,

942
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:31,879
Speaker 2: what we personally needed to work on, what we personally

943
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 2: wanted the other person to work on. So it was like,

944
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 2: it's not just attacking one person. I need you to

945
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 2: do better at this. I need you to do like

946
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 2: it's like I need to do better at this, and

947
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,240
Speaker 2: can you do better at this? Yes?

948
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:42,319
Speaker 4: I love that.

949
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 2: This is good. Yeah. So I thought that was just

950
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 2: like A really I was, but I was. I also

951
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 2: turned to him like, oh my god, you're like my

952
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 2: dream man. I didn't even ask you to like do

953
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:55,919
Speaker 2: a check in and you're checking in Yeah it's the dog.

954
00:46:57,080 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 2: But so yeah, so that like it's almost like a yeah,

955
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 2: I liked it well.

956
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 1: And I wasn't so like, hey, we need to have

957
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 1: our check which I understand you have to have that

958
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 1: saying that it all needed to do it. So I'm

959
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:10,439
Speaker 1: not coming down on that at all, but it's got

960
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 1: to be kind of refreshing, like hey, we didn't have

961
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:13,799
Speaker 1: this scheduled. We have to have a check in. It

962
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 1: was just like, hey, what are we doing? Like that

963
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 1: had to be really great.

964
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:21,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, funny thing happened the other day at baseball. Alan

965
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 2: and I were there. I needed Mike to take Jolie

966
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:26,960
Speaker 2: to soccer and so then he met me at Jason's

967
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 2: baseball and I was there with Alan or whatever, which

968
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 2: Parker and Mackenzie are at. So we were like jobbing

969
00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:35,959
Speaker 2: and stuff. Yeah, so and then you know, I'm standing

970
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:37,840
Speaker 2: over by Alan and Mike walks every He's like, so,

971
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 2: how's our baby?

972
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 3: See?

973
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:43,879
Speaker 4: I love that it was that is good.

974
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 2: It's not our baby though, because it's our baby, but

975
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 2: that's fine.

976
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:48,839
Speaker 4: Feel a part.

977
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 2: It was funny and I was just like, well so

978
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 2: we had a good laugh about that.

979
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 1: So so how is that going with him helping with

980
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 1: like sports, because it's being crazy.

981
00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 2: It's hard.

982
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:01,320
Speaker 4: That's that's a process.

983
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 2: Every day is it falls on mind, nothing falls on

984
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,839
Speaker 2: a Wednesday, not one thing that falls.

985
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,440
Speaker 1: Your personal calendar you sent me and I was like, wow,

986
00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:12,840
Speaker 1: she ain't kidding. Literally, there's every Wednesday day beside Wednesday.

987
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 2: So I'm like, i need help because I'm like and

988
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 2: it's like, well, I can meet you here. I'm like yeah,

989
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 2: but it's the getting them from school, feeding them before

990
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 2: going to the It's like it's a having to do

991
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 2: that every single day, like and there's same sports the

992
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 2: same days, Like I need help well, And I think that's.

993
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 1: As they kind older where that gets important to be

994
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,720
Speaker 1: able to have that communication and like things, your needs

995
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 1: may change and you'll just work it out together.

996
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. I also have like a pin and I don't

997
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 2: know if I can't unpin it on here, but I'll

998
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 2: tell you guys a little. Sorry, guys, I know you

999
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:43,240
Speaker 2: hate when we do that. Maybe one day private unpinned

1000
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 2: you wind down. Yeah, when we go out, oh yeah

1001
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1002
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1003
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1004
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Speaker 2: We will tell your people what you want, what you need,

1005
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,440
Speaker 2: what you feel, Yeah, and do a little cute little

1006
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 2: random check and like, hey, what do I need to

1007
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 2: do better at And this is to the one percent

1008
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 2: of men that listen to this show, okay, and women

1009
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Speaker 2: and women goodbye, bye bye