Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to yet another episode of chick
Speaker 1: Ease and Chill. I'm your host Cheeks, of course, and
Speaker 1: today I'm going to be answering some more of your questions.
Speaker 1: This is part two of Ask cheek Ease Anything. So
Speaker 1: if you haven't listened to part one, I highly recommend
Speaker 1: that you do. Okay, go check it out. All right,
Speaker 1: So let's go ahead and get right into it because
Speaker 1: we have so many questions to get to. This is
Speaker 1: cheek Ease and Chill. Okay. This question is from Jose Castana.
Speaker 1: He says, what advice do you have for young Latinos
Speaker 1: who want to make it big and singing? He also says,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm on YouTube, Jose, I'm mucho Okay. So the
Speaker 1: advice specidevice I can give you is focus on what
Speaker 1: you want to do, what you want to pumplished. Don't
Speaker 1: ever compare yourself to anyone around you another artists, because
Speaker 1: you are enough. I think that when we try to
Speaker 1: compete with other people, or we see them as competition,
Speaker 1: or we see what they're doing or not doing, it
Speaker 1: takes away focus from what we can be doing. That's
Speaker 1: my best advice. Obviously, never stop learning go to vocal classes.
Speaker 1: I mean even people that have huge names already and
Speaker 1: have a huge career still have vocal coaches that guide
Speaker 1: their voices because we need to change the way we
Speaker 1: sing with certain songs. So never feel like you're good
Speaker 1: enough or you've made it so far that you don't
Speaker 1: need someone to guide you. Always have that eagerness to
Speaker 1: learn and to grow. Okay, This next question comes from Shay.
Speaker 1: She asks what advice would you give to someone who
Speaker 1: struggles with confidence and what are your thoughts on the
Speaker 1: idea of unattainable beauty body standards for young women, especially
Speaker 1: Latin as. Look, this is something that, yes, I've struggled
Speaker 1: with you guys, especially because I am in you know,
Speaker 1: public figure, and so many people want to give their
Speaker 1: opinion about my physical being. But I think it's important
Speaker 1: not to focus on quote unquote the standard or what
Speaker 1: society has set out for us to look at. A
Speaker 1: lot of it isn't real. I think knowing that guys,
Speaker 1: what you see on magazines, even some of the girls
Speaker 1: out here that have bomb mass bodies, they go under surgery.
Speaker 1: I mean, like, and that's okay, I'm all about plastic surgery.
Speaker 1: I'm all for it, whatever tickles your pickle. But I
Speaker 1: think knowing that it's not really real. It doesn't exist
Speaker 1: to have a perfect body. I think what exists is
Speaker 1: knowing that there's a perfect someone out there that's going
Speaker 1: to love your body, like perfectly imperfect, and really just
Speaker 1: looking in the mirror and instead of bashing yourself like,
Speaker 1: oh I don't like this, I don't like that. Why
Speaker 1: don't you look at the things that you do, like,
Speaker 1: Oh I love my smile, Oh my hair is really pretty, okay,
Speaker 1: I love where my book sit. They sit nice. I
Speaker 1: don't know something. There's always something positive that you can
Speaker 1: look at. And the more that you feed yourself. And
Speaker 1: this is actually on one of my episodes that I
Speaker 1: talked to Liz Hernandez for Wonderful. Our body, guys, is
Speaker 1: made of seventy percent of water, So we need to
Speaker 1: just water ourselves every single day and not contaminate and
Speaker 1: and and pollute that water with negativity. So it's all
Speaker 1: in the way that you speak to yourself in the
Speaker 1: mirror and find one, two, three things that you really
Speaker 1: really like about yourself. It doesn't have to be physical.
Speaker 1: It could be like I'm a loyal person, speak nice
Speaker 1: loving words to yourself, love yourself. That is huge, I
Speaker 1: think knowing that we're Latinas and then we're going to
Speaker 1: be thicker than other girls out there, and really just
Speaker 1: embracing who we are and embracing that and knowing that
Speaker 1: there's always room for improvement. Especially wait is something that
Speaker 1: we can really work on, you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: that's something that is fixable for the lack of a
Speaker 1: better word. Is something that we can get on the treadmill.
Speaker 1: We can do and make little changes here and there
Speaker 1: to help us because there is always room for improvement.
Speaker 1: And just being intentional every single day and in making
Speaker 1: the right choices so that you can have quote unquote
Speaker 1: the body that you want or make the first steps
Speaker 1: to getting there. Next question comes from Carina. She asks
Speaker 1: how would you juggle being in school and helping your
Speaker 1: mom out at home with your siblings? Wow? That was tough, honestly,
Speaker 1: really good question. That's one thing that there's a lot
Speaker 1: of great things that I learned from my mom. One
Speaker 1: thing that I want to unlearn, I think and change
Speaker 1: with my children and something that I try to do
Speaker 1: even with my boss bees and stuff. And I've given
Speaker 1: out scholarships is education wasn't really a huge thing in
Speaker 1: our household. My mom was more about like working, working, working,
Speaker 1: you don't really need school. So when I basically gave
Speaker 1: all of my twenties almost to my mom and to
Speaker 1: my siblings, when it was ripped out of my hands,
Speaker 1: I felt like, oh my gosh, I have nothing to
Speaker 1: fall back on, which is why I'm so huge about
Speaker 1: getting your education, about going to school, and that's why
Speaker 1: I sai port and I love to give out scholarships.
Speaker 1: With that being said, it was really hard. You know,
Speaker 1: at home, it was make sure your siblings, your brothers
Speaker 1: and sisters eight they did their homework, help them with
Speaker 1: their homework, and then lastly was my homework. That's why
Speaker 1: I was a C average student, I mean, because there
Speaker 1: was no way I'm gonna come home with a D
Speaker 1: or an F, especially not an F. So I was
Speaker 1: an a B and C student and that was even
Speaker 1: an issue because my mom was like a straight A student.
Speaker 1: But again, I had different responsibilities, so that was very
Speaker 1: hard for me to juggle because I had to clean
Speaker 1: the house, I had a few the kids, I had
Speaker 1: to help them with their homework and then late at
Speaker 1: night do mine. When I had the time, and sometimes
Speaker 1: I was too tired and I just wouldn't do it.
Speaker 1: So it was very hard. But also my mom was
Speaker 1: so strict that it was like, okay, well you have
Speaker 1: no other choice. You have to do good in school
Speaker 1: because I'm not going to have a dump kid, this
Speaker 1: is what she would say. So it was difficult. But again,
Speaker 1: where there's a will, there's a way, and I made
Speaker 1: it work and I had no other choice because if
Speaker 1: I didn't m my mama wouldn't spank me. And Jonathan
Speaker 1: Hernandez asked what I do to stay positive after so
Speaker 1: much grief battles and daily criticism. Well, again, every day
Speaker 1: it's my choice. It's my choice to wake up and say, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm going to have a good day. Today will be
Speaker 1: a good day. Daily affirmations help me because I don't
Speaker 1: know when I'm going to run into a negative comment
Speaker 1: on Instagram and if I'm going to be emotionally prepared
Speaker 1: for it. So I emotionally prepare myself in the beginning
Speaker 1: of the day. And some days are harder than others,
Speaker 1: especially f y around my period. You know that's the truth.
Speaker 1: I get a little bit more emotion around my period.
Speaker 1: Um a little more irritable, but I really do say, Okay,
Speaker 1: I want to be positive. It's a choice that you
Speaker 1: have to make every day and know that everything does
Speaker 1: happen for a reason. And yes, my mom is not
Speaker 1: here and my dad is in jail, but all that
Speaker 1: happened for a reason, and I can't question God anymore,
Speaker 1: and I have to trust his plan for my life
Speaker 1: and do what I can to be there for my
Speaker 1: siblings and all that has helped me throughout the years,
Speaker 1: and just choosing myself, choosing to want to be a
Speaker 1: better version of yourself. Guys, that always helps you stay positive.
Speaker 1: I know that you're here for a reason and a
Speaker 1: mission and taking a step every single day towards that mission.
Speaker 1: Thank you for that question. I like that one. Dylan
Speaker 1: Mendoza Randon asks what my favorite Selena song is? I
Speaker 1: have a bunch. I think. I think that for sure
Speaker 1: is one of my favorite. I love oh and dreaming
Speaker 1: of You. I love that song, Okay, I think a
Speaker 1: dreaming of you. I think dreaming of you is like
Speaker 1: my favorite. I just like listen to that all day
Speaker 1: long and I just want to be in my room
Speaker 1: dreaming of someone. But I love I love Selena. Okay,
Speaker 1: this question is from Karen Ramirez Lopez. She says, checks,
Speaker 1: how are you losing so much weight? I'm trying to
Speaker 1: drop some pounds. Love you strong woman. Oh I love
Speaker 1: you too, Mama. Okay, Karen. My weight has been a
Speaker 1: thing since I was five. So I just learned and
Speaker 1: I started listening to my body, and I tried different diets,
Speaker 1: and once I remove the word diet out of my life,
Speaker 1: it helped me a lot. So what I do is
Speaker 1: it's a lifestyle change. I now eat to feed my
Speaker 1: body good things. I do cleanses here and there, maybe
Speaker 1: twice or three times a year, because the word cleanse
Speaker 1: makes me feel better than dieting. So I'm cleansing my body,
Speaker 1: I'm cleansing my spirit. I do that and that helps me.
Speaker 1: It's just the way that we speak about it that
Speaker 1: makes us feel better and one thing that has worked
Speaker 1: for me. And I don't know if you guys have
Speaker 1: heard of it. I talked about it a little bit
Speaker 1: on Instagram. But intermittent fasting Ella, you know, malulallo. So
Speaker 1: I eat from twelve to eight, so those are the
Speaker 1: hours that I get to eat. Twelve o'clock, I eat
Speaker 1: and ate eight pm, I stopped eating. I don't eat anything.
Speaker 1: All I drink is either black coffee, tea with no
Speaker 1: sugar and water in my black coffee in the morning
Speaker 1: when I wake up to give me energy and it
Speaker 1: suppresses my appetite. I drink up that coffee with one
Speaker 1: Stevia pack because it has zero calories and a little
Speaker 1: bit of cinnamon. And I work out on empty stomach
Speaker 1: and I drink as much black coffee as I need
Speaker 1: to help me not eat till twelve pm. So that's
Speaker 1: what I do when it's been helping me a lot,
Speaker 1: and keto helps me a lot removing those carbohydrates and
Speaker 1: also knowing how to pair your food. You, guys, I
Speaker 1: think some people were so used to doing protein and
Speaker 1: beans and rice and it's just too much. So sometimes
Speaker 1: just protein with veggies is better. And then if you
Speaker 1: want to have later on or earlier in the days,
Speaker 1: should I say your cards have cards without protein. It
Speaker 1: all just depends. You have to really listen to your
Speaker 1: body because literally everybody is different, so you have to
Speaker 1: know what works for you. Try different things until you
Speaker 1: get to something. But intermittent fasting hands down highly recommended. Guys.
Speaker 1: Look into it. It really does help. It helps mentally
Speaker 1: physically obviously you lose weight, but I feel like I
Speaker 1: can think better. I have more mental clarity when I
Speaker 1: do intermitted fasting. So highly recommend that. Karen Hope that
Speaker 1: helps you. Guys. I'm really loving all of your questions.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for writing in. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: answer as many as I can. Okay, Medium Rodriguez is
Speaker 1: up next. She says, would you ever consider doing a
Speaker 1: song or music video with your siblings and singing a
Speaker 1: dedicated song to your mom? She also continues to say,
Speaker 1: I know you and Jackie have done one separately, but
Speaker 1: it would be nice to see all of you in one. Wow. Well,
Speaker 1: we do have some plans, especially with my mom's tenth
Speaker 1: year anniversary coming, we want to do something together. I
Speaker 1: don't know if Mikey would be down, guys. Mikey is
Speaker 1: so like low key, like he's just it's not his thing.
Speaker 1: He does kind of wrap. He's wrapped a little bit,
Speaker 1: so I don't know. I mean, maybe we could do
Speaker 1: something together. It's not a bad idea. I like that idea.
Speaker 1: I'll talk to my siblings for sure, but see me,
Speaker 1: especially for my mom, especially for my mom and her
Speaker 1: tenth year anniversary, so I'll keep you updated on that.
Speaker 1: Valerie Aguilar Garcia asks what is your biggest motivation to
Speaker 1: keep it going on days when you don't feel motivated
Speaker 1: at all? Wow, this is a good one. Who those
Speaker 1: days when I don't feel motivated because I have them.
Speaker 1: I do, guys. There are days when I just want
Speaker 1: to lay down, and I do. I just also embrace
Speaker 1: that when I don't, when I feel like crying. I
Speaker 1: cry when I'm upset. I tell everyone around me, guys,
Speaker 1: I woke up in a bad mood today, Just so
Speaker 1: you know, I'm very like open about it um and
Speaker 1: I think that's also helped me. And I just take
Speaker 1: time for myself. Is there's a day that I just
Speaker 1: feel like I need a day to myself. I need
Speaker 1: to be in bed. I let that just happen. And
Speaker 1: I embrace that moment as well of not feeling so good.
Speaker 1: I think it's just recognizing it and saying, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna live this moment of darkness you could say, or
Speaker 1: whatever you want to call it. And then I'm like,
Speaker 1: tomorrow's in aw I can't. I can't keep doing that.
Speaker 1: You do have to allow yourself to go through the motions,
Speaker 1: to feel those emotions, and then just also be adamant
Speaker 1: about Okay, I'm not gonna let this go on for days.
Speaker 1: I feel it, I recognize it, and I gotta let
Speaker 1: it go. That's the best advice that I can give you.
Speaker 1: So my motivation to keep it going is just knowing
Speaker 1: that I have a goal, I have something that I
Speaker 1: want to accomplish, and I don't really have the time
Speaker 1: to be sad for too many days, you know, So
Speaker 1: that keeps me motivated. It's always having a plan. Guys,
Speaker 1: life without a plan, it's not gonna work. You have
Speaker 1: to have a plan and everything that you do, it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter what it is. So having a plan allows
Speaker 1: you to stay focused on that plan, and even if
Speaker 1: you're having a bad day, it's kind of like, wait, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do what I can today. Maybe I'm not
Speaker 1: feeling but I'm gonna do something small to take a
Speaker 1: step towards that plan. So that's what keeps me motivated.
Speaker 1: But hopefully that other part of the question also helped.
Speaker 1: This next question is from Jackie. She asks cheek ease,
Speaker 1: do you still believe in your definition of boss? Bitch.
Speaker 1: If so, can you share with us how you created
Speaker 1: the phrase, share a little bit more about it. Okay,
Speaker 1: So boss bitch, guys, I'm gonna try to make this short,
Speaker 1: but boss bitch is just basically it started off as
Speaker 1: it was actually a word that one of my really
Speaker 1: good friends, Gerald, who's no longer in my life unfortunately,
Speaker 1: but he's the one that kind of started saying it
Speaker 1: more boss bitch, boss bitch. And it's just a girl,
Speaker 1: a woman that is about her ship. You feel me like,
Speaker 1: it's not about being mean. A boss is not supposed
Speaker 1: to be me and tell you what to do and
Speaker 1: this and this a boss which is supposed to lead
Speaker 1: by example. So that's what a boss, which is leads
Speaker 1: by example. Now I realized that I had a lot
Speaker 1: of little girls that followed me, so I moved it
Speaker 1: from boss bitch to boss b That's where the whole
Speaker 1: B E B came from. And then it just evolved
Speaker 1: into something different. So I made it more into a
Speaker 1: movement of yes, it's the same thing, she still leads
Speaker 1: by example. But then I made boss which stands for
Speaker 1: built on self success, and then b E is babe
Speaker 1: embracing evolution. So that's like what boss being means. It's
Speaker 1: basically a woman that is adamant and intentional every day
Speaker 1: and built herself up, not like, oh, no one helped me,
Speaker 1: and no it's not that. It's I'm intentional every day
Speaker 1: to be the best version of myself, so built on
Speaker 1: self success. So I'm serving myself every day. I'm watering
Speaker 1: my plant, which is me. And then I embracing evolution.
Speaker 1: An evolution can come, it can be anything, obstacles, adversities.
Speaker 1: I'm embracing it as I go. I'm embracing it. I'm
Speaker 1: knowing that I am a evolving creature, and good and
Speaker 1: bad times happen, and I'm just embracing what happens and
Speaker 1: what comes to my life and making the best of it.
Speaker 1: Is basically what it is which brings me to my
Speaker 1: next thing. This book, Unstoppable was supposed to be the
Speaker 1: explanation of what Boss Bitches or Boss B should I say,
Speaker 1: But it became Unstoppable. So there is a book that
Speaker 1: I'm in the works already. I have it almost all
Speaker 1: written of Boss B just f y I. So maybe
Speaker 1: later on so that I can get more into detail
Speaker 1: about this, because there's so much more to it. You can,
Speaker 1: you know, look forward to that book. Thank you for asking.
Speaker 1: Kinsey means wants to know which zodiac sign do I
Speaker 1: like and tend to dislike. Oh okay, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be too honest guys. Okay, So, which zodiac
Speaker 1: sign do I like? Okay? Wow, I like a lot
Speaker 1: of them, to be honest. Um, I want to say
Speaker 1: that I get along with Capricorn very much. So I
Speaker 1: have a lot of tourists around me, so I like
Speaker 1: tourists too. But like Capricorn, I feel like we meet
Speaker 1: eye to eye. Like I don't know Capricorns, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I feel like we kind of vibe it. We vibe
Speaker 1: it very well. And the zodiac I don't really like
Speaker 1: or dislike a little bit. Sagittarius. I'm not gonna get
Speaker 1: into that butes. Sagittarius is just not my favorite anyways. Oh,
Speaker 1: here's another music question. It comes from Jeannette. She writes,
Speaker 1: what other styles of music have you low key always
Speaker 1: wanted to try? Okay, I like this, Okay. I'm all
Speaker 1: about not staying in a box, like don't keep me
Speaker 1: in a box, and like, oh, you can't do it
Speaker 1: because you're a regional Mexican artists like no, no no, you're
Speaker 1: not gonna tell me what to do. I want to
Speaker 1: do reggaeton. We've done a little bit of Combia, We've
Speaker 1: done even English like paper Bullet Song, my CPR song.
Speaker 1: If you guys haven't heard those, go check them out.
Speaker 1: But I feel like I really want to do shodd
Speaker 1: like indie type of music. I feel like I'd kill it.
Speaker 1: So that's for sure something I want to tap into
Speaker 1: and I haven't tried that, so thank you for that.
Speaker 1: I love the music questions. Elizabeth wants to know if
Speaker 1: reality TV is in my future plan. She says she
Speaker 1: misses the riveras I know a lot of people have
Speaker 1: been telling me guys that they missed the RIVERA was
Speaker 1: honestly low key too. I miss them. I miss us
Speaker 1: because I feel like I got to spend a lot
Speaker 1: of time with my siblings through the reality show, and
Speaker 1: we were able to experience so much together. I wanted
Speaker 1: to stay away for a little while. I think we
Speaker 1: needed the break. I think it was very necessary. I
Speaker 1: explained this in my book Unstoppable, why we stepped back
Speaker 1: a little bit. But I don't know. I think if
Speaker 1: the opportunity presents itself and it's something that makes sense
Speaker 1: to my siblings and I then I wouldn't be opposed
Speaker 1: to it. I think it's something that would be cool,
Speaker 1: especially now that we're a lot older and mature and
Speaker 1: everyone has their own thing going on. I think there's
Speaker 1: a lot that we can share with the world. So
Speaker 1: I don't know. Elizabeth asked the reality gods to make
Speaker 1: it happen. If it's meant to be, it will be alright.
Speaker 1: So Bianca wants to know how I deal with the
Speaker 1: stress and sometimes heartbreak of being the older sibling. Oh girl,
Speaker 1: this has been a journey. Has been a journey being
Speaker 1: the eldest since I can remember. But I wouldn't change
Speaker 1: a thing, to be honest, I love my siblings so much.
Speaker 1: I love them so much that, yes, sometimes it hurts
Speaker 1: to see them grow. For a long time, I felt
Speaker 1: like Dane, you know, I I gave my life to
Speaker 1: them and they just, you know, get up and leave.
Speaker 1: Like Jennica just turn Athene she said peace, and it
Speaker 1: just broke my heart. But then I learned that I'm like,
Speaker 1: they're not my kids, go Molisa and like Loos you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like even people that actually birth
Speaker 1: the kids out of them. They're not really ours to keep.
Speaker 1: They're not meant to stay under your wing and do
Speaker 1: everything that you want them to do. And they have
Speaker 1: to go and live their life and make their own
Speaker 1: mistakes and accomplish their own dreams. And I had to
Speaker 1: learn that, and it's been a process. It's something that yeah,
Speaker 1: it's hurt and it's kind of like damn, that sucks,
Speaker 1: but it's their life to live. And and ever since
Speaker 1: I have learned that, it's really helped me deal with
Speaker 1: with the pain and the stress that comes with it.
Speaker 1: Now I have stepped into just really being the sister
Speaker 1: and not so much the second mother, and that's made
Speaker 1: things a little easier because now I can be more
Speaker 1: of a friend. But it's still stressful. I mean, I
Speaker 1: still worry about them. It doesn't matter how old they are,
Speaker 1: even Mikey, he's a twenty nine year old man about
Speaker 1: to be thirty. That I still like at night, I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I hope you got home. Okay, you
Speaker 1: know what i mean. I'm still kind of like, hey,
Speaker 1: you guys, be careful. And I pray for them every day.
Speaker 1: I'm like, God, protect them, protect their homes or vehicles
Speaker 1: or children. I pray that every morning, and it really
Speaker 1: helps me with my stress because there's nothing I can
Speaker 1: do about it. It's like God has to take care
Speaker 1: of them because they're doing things that I can't even see,
Speaker 1: you know, so the only person I can see is God.
Speaker 1: Next question is from Andrea. She asks, if your mom
Speaker 1: was in front of you, what is one thing you
Speaker 1: would say to her? Oh, this is a good one, man,
Speaker 1: besides telling her I missed her, I love her, I
Speaker 1: need her. This is a good one. I would. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I would tell her something besides that,
Speaker 1: because I've told her so many things now, I think
Speaker 1: I would just ask her. I would ask her, mom,
Speaker 1: are you proud of me? Are you proud of what
Speaker 1: I've been doing? Have I done a good job for me?
Speaker 1: That's so important. I mean, I feel like she is.
Speaker 1: But just if I could just hear those words, for
Speaker 1: those of you that watch the reality show, I love Jenny.
Speaker 1: When I opened up my hair salon blew me dry
Speaker 1: as the question I asked her, are you proud? I
Speaker 1: always wanted her to be proud of me. I lived
Speaker 1: to make my mom proud, and I still do. I
Speaker 1: want her to smile from heaven and say those are
Speaker 1: my damn kids. That's my daughter, that's my baby, that's
Speaker 1: my princess. Like, that's those words. That's what I would
Speaker 1: ask her to be honest, I don't know if I
Speaker 1: would tell her anything, it would just be Mom, I
Speaker 1: love you and I miss you so much, and have
Speaker 1: I made your proud? I'm getting emotional, guys, Okay, so
Speaker 1: let's move on. Valerie Garcia has one more question. She says,
Speaker 1: I feel so lost in life right now. And I
Speaker 1: know you've gone through a lot and have gotten up
Speaker 1: when you were at your worst. So what advice do
Speaker 1: you give to someone who feels very lost in life
Speaker 1: and can't seem to find their purpose? She says, I
Speaker 1: love you, cheek ease. I know your mom is looking
Speaker 1: down from you on heaven and she's very proud. Guys,
Speaker 1: tell me how perfect that is, like her saying that
Speaker 1: she's I just said that I want my mom to
Speaker 1: be proud, and I swear to you, I hadn't seen
Speaker 1: this question. I didn't know in the order that I
Speaker 1: was in. It's just like, oh, that's the confirmation that
Speaker 1: my mom is proud. I'm like honestly, my eyes are
Speaker 1: tearing up right now. Oh my goodness. Thank you, Valerie,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for your question. Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 1: I hope my mom is very proud. Okay, So to
Speaker 1: answer your question, look, I think accepting the fact that
Speaker 1: life has its ups and downs, it's a rollercoaster of emotions,
Speaker 1: and just knowing that, I think that that helps a lot.
Speaker 1: And knowing, Okay, this is just a moment that I'm living.
Speaker 1: It's a moment. It doesn't mean that it's a bad life.
Speaker 1: It's just a bad day, having a bad day. And
Speaker 1: maybe those bad days can be two bad days, three
Speaker 1: bad days, and it's okay. But just every day telling
Speaker 1: yourself out loud, it's okay, this too shall pass. Everything
Speaker 1: is gonna be okay. I am okay, I am strong.
Speaker 1: God has my back. When you say all of these
Speaker 1: affirmations every day, every day, every day, I truly believe you,
Speaker 1: guys in the law of attraction. So the more that
Speaker 1: you say God has my back, this too shall pass,
Speaker 1: everything is working for my higher self in my favor.
Speaker 1: Everything is gonna be okay. The more you repeat that
Speaker 1: to yourself when you're having those bad moments, you're gonna
Speaker 1: see like magic. It's crazy, but the more you believe
Speaker 1: it from the bottom of your heart and you say
Speaker 1: it with all of your heart, that starts happening. And prayer,
Speaker 1: read a devotional, read something positive, fill yourself with positivity.
Speaker 1: If you keep just drowning yourself with those negative thoughts
Speaker 1: and the problem that you're having, then you're not gonna
Speaker 1: get anywhere. And I posted something on Instagram the other
Speaker 1: day which I loved. It was a quote that I
Speaker 1: have in one of my books, and it says, be
Speaker 1: a warrior, not a worrior. So be a warrior of
Speaker 1: God and lean on him and cast your worries onto
Speaker 1: God and your troubles and everything, because if you're worrying
Speaker 1: about something way too much, you're attracting that even more
Speaker 1: into your life. Like you just have to just say,
Speaker 1: he has my back, It's gonna be okay. I will
Speaker 1: find the solution. It helps so much. It sounds silly, maybe,
Speaker 1: but I promise you it's what has helped me get
Speaker 1: through everything. And sometimes it takes a little longer. But
Speaker 1: don't lose faith. Pray, and I always say this to
Speaker 1: guys when life brings you to your knees while you're
Speaker 1: down there, you might as well pray and then you
Speaker 1: just get get back up, you shake it off like
Speaker 1: my mama taught me, and you keep going. Hopefully that
Speaker 1: helps Valerie. Okay, so a lot of you have asked
Speaker 1: about my favorite beauty products, and I have so many,
Speaker 1: you guys. Okay, I have so many, But my top
Speaker 1: three Holy Grill products are of course for my skincare line. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm all about skincare, guys. I love makeup, don't get
Speaker 1: me wrong. I love my makeup. I love lipsticks, but
Speaker 1: I'm all about skincare because I feel if you don't
Speaker 1: take care of the foundation and like your skin, then
Speaker 1: your makeup won't look as bomb. So for me, my
Speaker 1: favorite products and the ones that I can't like honestly
Speaker 1: live without, would have to be my all in one serum,
Speaker 1: you guys, which will help plump your skin, hydrated, help
Speaker 1: with fine lines. It has hyaluronic acid in it, it
Speaker 1: has vitamin C and vitamin E, so it's gonna treat
Speaker 1: your skin at the same time. That is something that
Speaker 1: I have to wear every day morning and night, something
Speaker 1: that just wear. That and my SPF that's another one.
Speaker 1: S PF is so important. I just came out with
Speaker 1: the tinted SPF. I've been working on it for a while.
Speaker 1: It took a long time. So the reason I like
Speaker 1: my tinted SPF is because not only is it protecting
Speaker 1: me from UV A and U v B rays of
Speaker 1: the sun, it's also evening out my skin tone, hydrating
Speaker 1: it and treating it because it has Vitamin C, has
Speaker 1: zinc in there, it has all kinds of things that
Speaker 1: are also anti aging, and it helps brighten your skin.
Speaker 1: So that I loved sinto SPF, the all in one serum,
Speaker 1: and then I would have to say, damn my Vitamin
Speaker 1: C mask. Guys, that's one that changes my skin. I
Speaker 1: use it once a week and it helps with my
Speaker 1: redness with my sun's spots because I'm Latina, so the
Speaker 1: sun if I don't wear my spfs, so it's super
Speaker 1: important for me to use that mask. And then I
Speaker 1: just feel like my skin feels refreshed. It helps with everything.
Speaker 1: It really does brighten your skin, tighten your skin. So
Speaker 1: those are my three if I had to choose, those
Speaker 1: are the three. Vitamin C anti age an exfoliating mask. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's a long last name, but it's very it's important.
Speaker 1: So that mask the all in one seram which we
Speaker 1: have in gold as well, So you guys can go
Speaker 1: to be Flawless dot com and you guys can like
Speaker 1: look at these products and then my tinted SPF I
Speaker 1: have to I have a tinted one in a non
Speaker 1: tinted but SPF. Guys, women and men, use your SPF
Speaker 1: every single day. It's preventative. It will help you. It
Speaker 1: is important. It doesn't matter if it's winter or not,
Speaker 1: if you're out in the sun or not. Where your SPF. Guys,
Speaker 1: I can't say it enough. So many people don't wear it,
Speaker 1: and it's freaking crazy to me. Okay, So another popular
Speaker 1: topic is music, which I love. Someone asked what my
Speaker 1: favorite song to perform is? Oh, guys, is I don't know?
Speaker 1: This is? This is a tough one. I love. I
Speaker 1: love when I'm on stage and I've had a little
Speaker 1: bit thick guila, like I love to sing those songs
Speaker 1: that hurt, you know, like, oh, so i'd have to
Speaker 1: say my favorite song to sing. My manager, Richard that
Speaker 1: I like to call Mr Bull, is going to be
Speaker 1: mad at because it's like, why didn't you choose what
Speaker 1: are your songs because I love to sing my songs.
Speaker 1: But you're asking me, and I gotta be honest. So
Speaker 1: my all time favorite song to sing. That is my
Speaker 1: favorite song to sing. I will sing it at every
Speaker 1: party there's a batda there, Mariachi, I'll be like, okay
Speaker 1: because everyone knows it and I love to sing it
Speaker 1: and I feel like my voice sounds great singing it.
Speaker 1: So that's the song. You're probably fine on TikTok and
Speaker 1: everywhere because I sing that one or those are my
Speaker 1: two favorite. Yeah, so I love that. I love that song.
Speaker 1: But yeah, Mr Bo was gonna be like, hey, chick,
Speaker 1: he's already know him. Well, guys, you had so many
Speaker 1: really great questions and I loved answering them all. I
Speaker 1: think it's a great way to get to know me
Speaker 1: on a personal level, and I just love interacting with
Speaker 1: you guys as much as possible. But before we wrap
Speaker 1: this episode, I'm going to leave you with my motivational
Speaker 1: Monday quote. Here it is what is coming is better
Speaker 1: than what is gone. Let this belief aim you in
Speaker 1: the direction you need to go. I hope that helps you, guys,
Speaker 1: Like always Loomcho. Thank you to everyone who listened to
Speaker 1: the very end. I love you all so much. Astella proxima. Yes,
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