WEBVTT - Ask Chiquis Anything Part 2 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:07.840 Hello everyone, and welcome to yet another episode of chick 0:00:07.840 --> 0:00:11.000 Ease and Chill. I'm your host Cheeks, of course, and 0:00:11.080 --> 0:00:14.360 today I'm going to be answering some more of your questions. 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:17.640 This is part two of Ask cheek Ease Anything. So 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:19.880 if you haven't listened to part one, I highly recommend 0:00:19.880 --> 0:00:22.200 that you do. Okay, go check it out. All right, 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:24.960 So let's go ahead and get right into it because 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:27.200 we have so many questions to get to. This is 0:00:27.400 --> 0:00:41.960 cheek Ease and Chill. Okay. This question is from Jose Castana. 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:46.000 He says, what advice do you have for young Latinos 0:00:46.320 --> 0:00:50.080 who want to make it big and singing? He also says, 0:00:50.280 --> 0:00:54.520 I'm I'm on YouTube, Jose, I'm mucho Okay. So the 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:58.440 advice specidevice I can give you is focus on what 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:00.720 you want to do, what you want to pumplished. Don't 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:05.920 ever compare yourself to anyone around you another artists, because 0:01:05.959 --> 0:01:08.600 you are enough. I think that when we try to 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:11.760 compete with other people, or we see them as competition, 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:14.040 or we see what they're doing or not doing, it 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:17.000 takes away focus from what we can be doing. That's 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:21.520 my best advice. Obviously, never stop learning go to vocal classes. 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:24.520 I mean even people that have huge names already and 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:27.319 have a huge career still have vocal coaches that guide 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:29.440 their voices because we need to change the way we 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:32.319 sing with certain songs. So never feel like you're good 0:01:32.440 --> 0:01:35.199 enough or you've made it so far that you don't 0:01:35.200 --> 0:01:39.920 need someone to guide you. Always have that eagerness to 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:44.360 learn and to grow. Okay, This next question comes from Shay. 0:01:44.520 --> 0:01:47.600 She asks what advice would you give to someone who 0:01:47.600 --> 0:01:51.400 struggles with confidence and what are your thoughts on the 0:01:51.440 --> 0:01:55.880 idea of unattainable beauty body standards for young women, especially 0:01:56.040 --> 0:01:59.600 Latin as. Look, this is something that, yes, I've struggled 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:02.120 with you guys, especially because I am in you know, 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:05.240 public figure, and so many people want to give their 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:10.120 opinion about my physical being. But I think it's important 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:15.320 not to focus on quote unquote the standard or what 0:02:15.480 --> 0:02:19.200 society has set out for us to look at. A 0:02:19.240 --> 0:02:21.600 lot of it isn't real. I think knowing that guys, 0:02:21.600 --> 0:02:24.640 what you see on magazines, even some of the girls 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:28.160 out here that have bomb mass bodies, they go under surgery. 0:02:28.200 --> 0:02:30.760 I mean, like, and that's okay, I'm all about plastic surgery. 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:33.240 I'm all for it, whatever tickles your pickle. But I 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:36.640 think knowing that it's not really real. It doesn't exist 0:02:36.639 --> 0:02:39.320 to have a perfect body. I think what exists is 0:02:39.440 --> 0:02:41.960 knowing that there's a perfect someone out there that's going 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:46.800 to love your body, like perfectly imperfect, and really just 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:50.600 looking in the mirror and instead of bashing yourself like, 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:52.040 oh I don't like this, I don't like that. Why 0:02:52.080 --> 0:02:54.040 don't you look at the things that you do, like, 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:57.639 Oh I love my smile, Oh my hair is really pretty, okay, 0:02:57.639 --> 0:02:59.639 I love where my book sit. They sit nice. I 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:03.200 don't know something. There's always something positive that you can 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:06.480 look at. And the more that you feed yourself. And 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:08.280 this is actually on one of my episodes that I 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:11.920 talked to Liz Hernandez for Wonderful. Our body, guys, is 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:15.000 made of seventy percent of water, So we need to 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:18.600 just water ourselves every single day and not contaminate and 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:21.680 and and pollute that water with negativity. So it's all 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:23.600 in the way that you speak to yourself in the 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:26.840 mirror and find one, two, three things that you really 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:28.760 really like about yourself. It doesn't have to be physical. 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:31.960 It could be like I'm a loyal person, speak nice 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:35.640 loving words to yourself, love yourself. That is huge, I 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:37.440 think knowing that we're Latinas and then we're going to 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:39.880 be thicker than other girls out there, and really just 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:44.280 embracing who we are and embracing that and knowing that 0:03:44.360 --> 0:03:47.800 there's always room for improvement. Especially wait is something that 0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:50.120 we can really work on, you know what I mean, Like, 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:53.080 that's something that is fixable for the lack of a 0:03:53.120 --> 0:03:55.280 better word. Is something that we can get on the treadmill. 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:57.240 We can do and make little changes here and there 0:03:57.480 --> 0:03:59.720 to help us because there is always room for improvement. 0:04:00.120 --> 0:04:02.480 And just being intentional every single day and in making 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:05.280 the right choices so that you can have quote unquote 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:07.160 the body that you want or make the first steps 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:11.680 to getting there. Next question comes from Carina. She asks 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:15.360 how would you juggle being in school and helping your 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:19.720 mom out at home with your siblings? Wow? That was tough, honestly, 0:04:20.040 --> 0:04:24.080 really good question. That's one thing that there's a lot 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:26.680 of great things that I learned from my mom. One 0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:29.840 thing that I want to unlearn, I think and change 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:33.240 with my children and something that I try to do 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:35.200 even with my boss bees and stuff. And I've given 0:04:35.200 --> 0:04:39.359 out scholarships is education wasn't really a huge thing in 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:42.719 our household. My mom was more about like working, working, working, 0:04:42.720 --> 0:04:46.599 you don't really need school. So when I basically gave 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:49.240 all of my twenties almost to my mom and to 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:52.000 my siblings, when it was ripped out of my hands, 0:04:52.160 --> 0:04:53.760 I felt like, oh my gosh, I have nothing to 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:56.360 fall back on, which is why I'm so huge about 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:59.520 getting your education, about going to school, and that's why 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:02.000 I sai port and I love to give out scholarships. 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:04.680 With that being said, it was really hard. You know, 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:09.599 at home, it was make sure your siblings, your brothers 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:12.240 and sisters eight they did their homework, help them with 0:05:12.279 --> 0:05:15.600 their homework, and then lastly was my homework. That's why 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:17.360 I was a C average student, I mean, because there 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:18.800 was no way I'm gonna come home with a D 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:21.400 or an F, especially not an F. So I was 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:24.200 an a B and C student and that was even 0:05:24.200 --> 0:05:26.200 an issue because my mom was like a straight A student. 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:28.520 But again, I had different responsibilities, so that was very 0:05:28.520 --> 0:05:30.600 hard for me to juggle because I had to clean 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:31.680 the house, I had a few the kids, I had 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:34.159 to help them with their homework and then late at 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:35.919 night do mine. When I had the time, and sometimes 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:37.400 I was too tired and I just wouldn't do it. 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:40.440 So it was very hard. But also my mom was 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:42.080 so strict that it was like, okay, well you have 0:05:42.120 --> 0:05:43.640 no other choice. You have to do good in school 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:45.800 because I'm not going to have a dump kid, this 0:05:46.000 --> 0:05:49.559 is what she would say. So it was difficult. But again, 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:51.080 where there's a will, there's a way, and I made 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:53.280 it work and I had no other choice because if 0:05:53.279 --> 0:05:58.240 I didn't m my mama wouldn't spank me. And Jonathan 0:05:58.240 --> 0:06:02.640 Hernandez asked what I do to stay positive after so 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:08.000 much grief battles and daily criticism. Well, again, every day 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:11.320 it's my choice. It's my choice to wake up and say, Okay, 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:13.320 I'm going to have a good day. Today will be 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:16.680 a good day. Daily affirmations help me because I don't 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:18.960 know when I'm going to run into a negative comment 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:21.760 on Instagram and if I'm going to be emotionally prepared 0:06:21.880 --> 0:06:24.520 for it. So I emotionally prepare myself in the beginning 0:06:24.520 --> 0:06:27.479 of the day. And some days are harder than others, 0:06:27.600 --> 0:06:30.360 especially f y around my period. You know that's the truth. 0:06:30.640 --> 0:06:32.520 I get a little bit more emotion around my period. 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:36.400 Um a little more irritable, but I really do say, Okay, 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:38.159 I want to be positive. It's a choice that you 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:41.360 have to make every day and know that everything does 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:43.200 happen for a reason. And yes, my mom is not 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:46.440 here and my dad is in jail, but all that 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:49.839 happened for a reason, and I can't question God anymore, 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:52.080 and I have to trust his plan for my life 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:54.359 and do what I can to be there for my 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:56.599 siblings and all that has helped me throughout the years, 0:06:56.960 --> 0:06:59.680 and just choosing myself, choosing to want to be a 0:06:59.720 --> 0:07:03.279 better version of yourself. Guys, that always helps you stay positive. 0:07:03.440 --> 0:07:05.760 I know that you're here for a reason and a 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:10.320 mission and taking a step every single day towards that mission. 0:07:10.760 --> 0:07:13.800 Thank you for that question. I like that one. Dylan 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:20.320 Mendoza Randon asks what my favorite Selena song is? I 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:24.160 have a bunch. I think. I think that for sure 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:29.960 is one of my favorite. I love oh and dreaming 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:32.920 of You. I love that song, Okay, I think a 0:07:33.000 --> 0:07:34.280 dreaming of you. I think dreaming of you is like 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:36.240 my favorite. I just like listen to that all day 0:07:36.240 --> 0:07:37.400 long and I just want to be in my room 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:41.400 dreaming of someone. But I love I love Selena. Okay, 0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:46.080 this question is from Karen Ramirez Lopez. She says, checks, 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:47.960 how are you losing so much weight? I'm trying to 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:50.920 drop some pounds. Love you strong woman. Oh I love 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:53.920 you too, Mama. Okay, Karen. My weight has been a 0:07:53.960 --> 0:07:58.080 thing since I was five. So I just learned and 0:07:58.080 --> 0:08:00.840 I started listening to my body, and I tried different diets, 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:03.640 and once I remove the word diet out of my life, 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:06.240 it helped me a lot. So what I do is 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:09.480 it's a lifestyle change. I now eat to feed my 0:08:09.520 --> 0:08:12.960 body good things. I do cleanses here and there, maybe 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:16.200 twice or three times a year, because the word cleanse 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:19.520 makes me feel better than dieting. So I'm cleansing my body, 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:22.240 I'm cleansing my spirit. I do that and that helps me. 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:25.920 It's just the way that we speak about it that 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:28.680 makes us feel better and one thing that has worked 0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:29.800 for me. And I don't know if you guys have 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:31.160 heard of it. I talked about it a little bit 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:39.040 on Instagram. But intermittent fasting Ella, you know, malulallo. So 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:41.960 I eat from twelve to eight, so those are the 0:08:42.000 --> 0:08:44.800 hours that I get to eat. Twelve o'clock, I eat 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:48.440 and ate eight pm, I stopped eating. I don't eat anything. 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:52.320 All I drink is either black coffee, tea with no 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:56.440 sugar and water in my black coffee in the morning 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:58.240 when I wake up to give me energy and it 0:08:58.280 --> 0:09:01.160 suppresses my appetite. I drink up that coffee with one 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:03.600 Stevia pack because it has zero calories and a little 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:05.920 bit of cinnamon. And I work out on empty stomach 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:08.280 and I drink as much black coffee as I need 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:11.080 to help me not eat till twelve pm. So that's 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:13.040 what I do when it's been helping me a lot, 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:18.280 and keto helps me a lot removing those carbohydrates and 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:20.360 also knowing how to pair your food. You, guys, I 0:09:20.400 --> 0:09:23.560 think some people were so used to doing protein and 0:09:23.600 --> 0:09:25.800 beans and rice and it's just too much. So sometimes 0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:28.559 just protein with veggies is better. And then if you 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:31.280 want to have later on or earlier in the days, 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:34.240 should I say your cards have cards without protein. It 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:35.920 all just depends. You have to really listen to your 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:39.480 body because literally everybody is different, so you have to 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:42.120 know what works for you. Try different things until you 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:45.880 get to something. But intermittent fasting hands down highly recommended. Guys. 0:09:46.120 --> 0:09:49.679 Look into it. It really does help. It helps mentally 0:09:49.840 --> 0:09:52.560 physically obviously you lose weight, but I feel like I 0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:54.680 can think better. I have more mental clarity when I 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:58.160 do intermitted fasting. So highly recommend that. Karen Hope that 0:09:58.200 --> 0:10:07.439 helps you. Guys. I'm really loving all of your questions. 0:10:07.480 --> 0:10:09.840 Thank you so much for writing in. I'm trying to 0:10:09.880 --> 0:10:14.400 answer as many as I can. Okay, Medium Rodriguez is 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:18.160 up next. She says, would you ever consider doing a 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:21.160 song or music video with your siblings and singing a 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:24.480 dedicated song to your mom? She also continues to say, 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:27.760 I know you and Jackie have done one separately, but 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:32.320 it would be nice to see all of you in one. Wow. Well, 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:35.880 we do have some plans, especially with my mom's tenth 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:40.040 year anniversary coming, we want to do something together. I 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:42.200 don't know if Mikey would be down, guys. Mikey is 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:46.760 so like low key, like he's just it's not his thing. 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:49.080 He does kind of wrap. He's wrapped a little bit, 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:50.560 so I don't know. I mean, maybe we could do 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:53.160 something together. It's not a bad idea. I like that idea. 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:55.079 I'll talk to my siblings for sure, but see me, 0:10:55.840 --> 0:10:57.880 especially for my mom, especially for my mom and her 0:10:57.880 --> 0:11:00.360 tenth year anniversary, so I'll keep you updated on that. 0:11:01.120 --> 0:11:06.920 Valerie Aguilar Garcia asks what is your biggest motivation to 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:09.800 keep it going on days when you don't feel motivated 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:13.360 at all? Wow, this is a good one. Who those 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:15.720 days when I don't feel motivated because I have them. 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:17.600 I do, guys. There are days when I just want 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:21.520 to lay down, and I do. I just also embrace 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.320 that when I don't, when I feel like crying. I 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:27.520 cry when I'm upset. I tell everyone around me, guys, 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:29.640 I woke up in a bad mood today, Just so 0:11:29.720 --> 0:11:33.440 you know, I'm very like open about it um and 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:36.520 I think that's also helped me. And I just take 0:11:36.559 --> 0:11:38.160 time for myself. Is there's a day that I just 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:40.240 feel like I need a day to myself. I need 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:43.640 to be in bed. I let that just happen. And 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:48.440 I embrace that moment as well of not feeling so good. 0:11:48.800 --> 0:11:53.480 I think it's just recognizing it and saying, Okay, I'm 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:57.520 gonna live this moment of darkness you could say, or 0:11:57.559 --> 0:11:59.280 whatever you want to call it. And then I'm like, 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:02.040 tomorrow's in aw I can't. I can't keep doing that. 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:05.480 You do have to allow yourself to go through the motions, 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:10.760 to feel those emotions, and then just also be adamant 0:12:10.760 --> 0:12:13.280 about Okay, I'm not gonna let this go on for days. 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:17.040 I feel it, I recognize it, and I gotta let 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:19.520 it go. That's the best advice that I can give you. 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:22.240 So my motivation to keep it going is just knowing 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:25.079 that I have a goal, I have something that I 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:27.400 want to accomplish, and I don't really have the time 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:29.400 to be sad for too many days, you know, So 0:12:29.480 --> 0:12:32.000 that keeps me motivated. It's always having a plan. Guys, 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:35.280 life without a plan, it's not gonna work. You have 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:36.760 to have a plan and everything that you do, it 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:39.720 doesn't matter what it is. So having a plan allows 0:12:39.720 --> 0:12:41.560 you to stay focused on that plan, and even if 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:43.480 you're having a bad day, it's kind of like, wait, Okay, 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:45.040 I'm gonna do what I can today. Maybe I'm not 0:12:45.040 --> 0:12:48.720 feeling but I'm gonna do something small to take a 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:52.640 step towards that plan. So that's what keeps me motivated. 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:55.120 But hopefully that other part of the question also helped. 0:12:56.280 --> 0:12:59.760 This next question is from Jackie. She asks cheek ease, 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:02.680 do you still believe in your definition of boss? Bitch. 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:06.560 If so, can you share with us how you created 0:13:06.600 --> 0:13:09.480 the phrase, share a little bit more about it. Okay, 0:13:09.520 --> 0:13:11.840 So boss bitch, guys, I'm gonna try to make this short, 0:13:12.280 --> 0:13:16.920 but boss bitch is just basically it started off as 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:19.440 it was actually a word that one of my really 0:13:19.800 --> 0:13:23.439 good friends, Gerald, who's no longer in my life unfortunately, 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:25.520 but he's the one that kind of started saying it 0:13:25.600 --> 0:13:28.319 more boss bitch, boss bitch. And it's just a girl, 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:31.920 a woman that is about her ship. You feel me like, 0:13:32.080 --> 0:13:34.360 it's not about being mean. A boss is not supposed 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:36.160 to be me and tell you what to do and 0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:38.679 this and this a boss which is supposed to lead 0:13:38.679 --> 0:13:40.600 by example. So that's what a boss, which is leads 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:43.640 by example. Now I realized that I had a lot 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:46.040 of little girls that followed me, so I moved it 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:49.320 from boss bitch to boss b That's where the whole 0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:53.440 B E B came from. And then it just evolved 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:56.679 into something different. So I made it more into a 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:59.840 movement of yes, it's the same thing, she still leads 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:03.360 by example. But then I made boss which stands for 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:09.240 built on self success, and then b E is babe 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:14.560 embracing evolution. So that's like what boss being means. It's 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:19.440 basically a woman that is adamant and intentional every day 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:22.560 and built herself up, not like, oh, no one helped me, 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:26.040 and no it's not that. It's I'm intentional every day 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:29.240 to be the best version of myself, so built on 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:32.960 self success. So I'm serving myself every day. I'm watering 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:37.960 my plant, which is me. And then I embracing evolution. 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:41.760 An evolution can come, it can be anything, obstacles, adversities. 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:44.040 I'm embracing it as I go. I'm embracing it. I'm 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:47.720 knowing that I am a evolving creature, and good and 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:50.560 bad times happen, and I'm just embracing what happens and 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:53.280 what comes to my life and making the best of it. 0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:54.960 Is basically what it is which brings me to my 0:14:55.000 --> 0:14:58.240 next thing. This book, Unstoppable was supposed to be the 0:14:58.280 --> 0:15:02.280 explanation of what Boss Bitches or Boss B should I say, 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:04.840 But it became Unstoppable. So there is a book that 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:07.720 I'm in the works already. I have it almost all 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:11.240 written of Boss B just f y I. So maybe 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:13.200 later on so that I can get more into detail 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:16.040 about this, because there's so much more to it. You can, 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:18.520 you know, look forward to that book. Thank you for asking. 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:23.440 Kinsey means wants to know which zodiac sign do I 0:15:23.520 --> 0:15:28.080 like and tend to dislike. Oh okay, oh my god, 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:32.520 I'm gonna be too honest guys. Okay, So, which zodiac 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:35.320 sign do I like? Okay? Wow, I like a lot 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:38.960 of them, to be honest. Um, I want to say 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:42.040 that I get along with Capricorn very much. So I 0:15:42.080 --> 0:15:43.840 have a lot of tourists around me, so I like 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:46.880 tourists too. But like Capricorn, I feel like we meet 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:49.520 eye to eye. Like I don't know Capricorns, I don't know. 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:51.320 I feel like we kind of vibe it. We vibe 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:55.600 it very well. And the zodiac I don't really like 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:58.600 or dislike a little bit. Sagittarius. I'm not gonna get 0:15:58.600 --> 0:16:03.440 into that butes. Sagittarius is just not my favorite anyways. Oh, 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:08.040 here's another music question. It comes from Jeannette. She writes, 0:16:08.480 --> 0:16:11.920 what other styles of music have you low key always 0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:16.040 wanted to try? Okay, I like this, Okay. I'm all 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:18.720 about not staying in a box, like don't keep me 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:20.080 in a box, and like, oh, you can't do it 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:22.520 because you're a regional Mexican artists like no, no no, you're 0:16:22.520 --> 0:16:24.200 not gonna tell me what to do. I want to 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:28.320 do reggaeton. We've done a little bit of Combia, We've 0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:31.800 done even English like paper Bullet Song, my CPR song. 0:16:31.800 --> 0:16:33.600 If you guys haven't heard those, go check them out. 0:16:34.520 --> 0:16:37.640 But I feel like I really want to do shodd 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:41.680 like indie type of music. I feel like I'd kill it. 0:16:41.920 --> 0:16:44.280 So that's for sure something I want to tap into 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:47.040 and I haven't tried that, so thank you for that. 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:51.200 I love the music questions. Elizabeth wants to know if 0:16:51.760 --> 0:16:55.120 reality TV is in my future plan. She says she 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:57.640 misses the riveras I know a lot of people have 0:16:57.680 --> 0:17:00.120 been telling me guys that they missed the RIVERA was 0:17:00.440 --> 0:17:03.040 honestly low key too. I miss them. I miss us 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:05.119 because I feel like I got to spend a lot 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:07.640 of time with my siblings through the reality show, and 0:17:07.680 --> 0:17:11.000 we were able to experience so much together. I wanted 0:17:11.040 --> 0:17:12.919 to stay away for a little while. I think we 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:15.520 needed the break. I think it was very necessary. I 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:18.840 explained this in my book Unstoppable, why we stepped back 0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:21.760 a little bit. But I don't know. I think if 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:25.760 the opportunity presents itself and it's something that makes sense 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:28.439 to my siblings and I then I wouldn't be opposed 0:17:28.480 --> 0:17:29.960 to it. I think it's something that would be cool, 0:17:30.040 --> 0:17:32.919 especially now that we're a lot older and mature and 0:17:32.960 --> 0:17:35.359 everyone has their own thing going on. I think there's 0:17:35.400 --> 0:17:37.760 a lot that we can share with the world. So 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:42.720 I don't know. Elizabeth asked the reality gods to make 0:17:42.760 --> 0:17:45.879 it happen. If it's meant to be, it will be alright. 0:17:45.960 --> 0:17:48.679 So Bianca wants to know how I deal with the 0:17:48.760 --> 0:17:53.800 stress and sometimes heartbreak of being the older sibling. Oh girl, 0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:56.440 this has been a journey. Has been a journey being 0:17:56.480 --> 0:17:59.280 the eldest since I can remember. But I wouldn't change 0:17:59.280 --> 0:18:02.040 a thing, to be honest, I love my siblings so much. 0:18:03.040 --> 0:18:05.280 I love them so much that, yes, sometimes it hurts 0:18:05.320 --> 0:18:07.680 to see them grow. For a long time, I felt 0:18:07.720 --> 0:18:11.439 like Dane, you know, I I gave my life to 0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:13.920 them and they just, you know, get up and leave. 0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:16.320 Like Jennica just turn Athene she said peace, and it 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:18.480 just broke my heart. But then I learned that I'm like, 0:18:18.520 --> 0:18:22.920 they're not my kids, go Molisa and like Loos you 0:18:22.960 --> 0:18:24.880 know what I mean, Like even people that actually birth 0:18:25.000 --> 0:18:27.800 the kids out of them. They're not really ours to keep. 0:18:28.280 --> 0:18:30.800 They're not meant to stay under your wing and do 0:18:30.880 --> 0:18:33.840 everything that you want them to do. And they have 0:18:33.920 --> 0:18:35.600 to go and live their life and make their own 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:38.480 mistakes and accomplish their own dreams. And I had to 0:18:38.560 --> 0:18:41.400 learn that, and it's been a process. It's something that yeah, 0:18:41.440 --> 0:18:43.439 it's hurt and it's kind of like damn, that sucks, 0:18:44.160 --> 0:18:47.119 but it's their life to live. And and ever since 0:18:47.200 --> 0:18:50.520 I have learned that, it's really helped me deal with 0:18:50.520 --> 0:18:52.679 with the pain and the stress that comes with it. 0:18:52.800 --> 0:18:56.480 Now I have stepped into just really being the sister 0:18:56.600 --> 0:18:59.520 and not so much the second mother, and that's made 0:18:59.520 --> 0:19:01.320 things a little easier because now I can be more 0:19:01.359 --> 0:19:04.000 of a friend. But it's still stressful. I mean, I 0:19:04.080 --> 0:19:06.440 still worry about them. It doesn't matter how old they are, 0:19:06.480 --> 0:19:09.320 even Mikey, he's a twenty nine year old man about 0:19:09.359 --> 0:19:11.760 to be thirty. That I still like at night, I'm like, 0:19:11.760 --> 0:19:13.960 oh my god, I hope you got home. Okay, you 0:19:13.960 --> 0:19:15.480 know what i mean. I'm still kind of like, hey, 0:19:15.520 --> 0:19:17.439 you guys, be careful. And I pray for them every day. 0:19:17.480 --> 0:19:22.720 I'm like, God, protect them, protect their homes or vehicles 0:19:22.800 --> 0:19:25.680 or children. I pray that every morning, and it really 0:19:25.680 --> 0:19:27.400 helps me with my stress because there's nothing I can 0:19:27.400 --> 0:19:29.800 do about it. It's like God has to take care 0:19:29.800 --> 0:19:31.840 of them because they're doing things that I can't even see, 0:19:31.880 --> 0:19:33.880 you know, so the only person I can see is God. 0:19:42.440 --> 0:19:46.840 Next question is from Andrea. She asks, if your mom 0:19:47.000 --> 0:19:49.679 was in front of you, what is one thing you 0:19:49.680 --> 0:19:54.600 would say to her? Oh, this is a good one, man, 0:19:55.320 --> 0:19:58.960 besides telling her I missed her, I love her, I 0:19:59.000 --> 0:20:04.600 need her. This is a good one. I would. I 0:20:04.600 --> 0:20:08.080 don't know if I would tell her something besides that, 0:20:09.080 --> 0:20:11.200 because I've told her so many things now, I think 0:20:11.200 --> 0:20:15.200 I would just ask her. I would ask her, mom, 0:20:15.240 --> 0:20:18.640 are you proud of me? Are you proud of what 0:20:18.680 --> 0:20:22.160 I've been doing? Have I done a good job for me? 0:20:22.200 --> 0:20:24.719 That's so important. I mean, I feel like she is. 0:20:24.800 --> 0:20:28.080 But just if I could just hear those words, for 0:20:28.119 --> 0:20:30.880 those of you that watch the reality show, I love Jenny. 0:20:31.200 --> 0:20:33.760 When I opened up my hair salon blew me dry 0:20:33.920 --> 0:20:36.000 as the question I asked her, are you proud? I 0:20:36.080 --> 0:20:39.119 always wanted her to be proud of me. I lived 0:20:39.240 --> 0:20:41.760 to make my mom proud, and I still do. I 0:20:41.840 --> 0:20:45.439 want her to smile from heaven and say those are 0:20:45.440 --> 0:20:49.440 my damn kids. That's my daughter, that's my baby, that's 0:20:49.440 --> 0:20:53.520 my princess. Like, that's those words. That's what I would 0:20:53.560 --> 0:20:54.840 ask her to be honest, I don't know if I 0:20:54.880 --> 0:20:56.320 would tell her anything, it would just be Mom, I 0:20:56.359 --> 0:20:59.439