1 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to yet another episode of chick 2 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: Ease and Chill. I'm your host Cheeks, of course, and 3 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 1: today I'm going to be answering some more of your questions. 4 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: This is part two of Ask cheek Ease Anything. So 5 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: if you haven't listened to part one, I highly recommend 6 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: that you do. Okay, go check it out. All right, 7 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 1: So let's go ahead and get right into it because 8 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: we have so many questions to get to. This is 9 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: cheek Ease and Chill. Okay. This question is from Jose Castana. 10 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: He says, what advice do you have for young Latinos 11 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: who want to make it big and singing? He also says, 12 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: I'm I'm on YouTube, Jose, I'm mucho Okay. So the 13 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: advice specidevice I can give you is focus on what 14 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: you want to do, what you want to pumplished. Don't 15 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: ever compare yourself to anyone around you another artists, because 16 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: you are enough. I think that when we try to 17 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 1: compete with other people, or we see them as competition, 18 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 1: or we see what they're doing or not doing, it 19 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: takes away focus from what we can be doing. That's 20 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: my best advice. Obviously, never stop learning go to vocal classes. 21 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: I mean even people that have huge names already and 22 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 1: have a huge career still have vocal coaches that guide 23 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 1: their voices because we need to change the way we 24 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 1: sing with certain songs. So never feel like you're good 25 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:35,199 Speaker 1: enough or you've made it so far that you don't 26 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: need someone to guide you. Always have that eagerness to 27 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: learn and to grow. Okay, This next question comes from Shay. 28 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: She asks what advice would you give to someone who 29 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: struggles with confidence and what are your thoughts on the 30 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: idea of unattainable beauty body standards for young women, especially 31 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: Latin as. Look, this is something that, yes, I've struggled 32 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: with you guys, especially because I am in you know, 33 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: public figure, and so many people want to give their 34 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: opinion about my physical being. But I think it's important 35 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: not to focus on quote unquote the standard or what 36 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: society has set out for us to look at. A 37 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: lot of it isn't real. I think knowing that guys, 38 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 1: what you see on magazines, even some of the girls 39 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: out here that have bomb mass bodies, they go under surgery. 40 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: I mean, like, and that's okay, I'm all about plastic surgery. 41 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: I'm all for it, whatever tickles your pickle. But I 42 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 1: think knowing that it's not really real. It doesn't exist 43 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: to have a perfect body. I think what exists is 44 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 1: knowing that there's a perfect someone out there that's going 45 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: to love your body, like perfectly imperfect, and really just 46 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: looking in the mirror and instead of bashing yourself like, 47 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: oh I don't like this, I don't like that. Why 48 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: don't you look at the things that you do, like, 49 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:57,639 Speaker 1: Oh I love my smile, Oh my hair is really pretty, okay, 50 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 1: I love where my book sit. They sit nice. I 51 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: don't know something. There's always something positive that you can 52 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: look at. And the more that you feed yourself. And 53 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: this is actually on one of my episodes that I 54 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: talked to Liz Hernandez for Wonderful. Our body, guys, is 55 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: made of seventy percent of water, So we need to 56 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: just water ourselves every single day and not contaminate and 57 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: and and pollute that water with negativity. So it's all 58 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: in the way that you speak to yourself in the 59 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: mirror and find one, two, three things that you really 60 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: really like about yourself. It doesn't have to be physical. 61 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: It could be like I'm a loyal person, speak nice 62 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 1: loving words to yourself, love yourself. That is huge, I 63 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: think knowing that we're Latinas and then we're going to 64 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: be thicker than other girls out there, and really just 65 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 1: embracing who we are and embracing that and knowing that 66 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: there's always room for improvement. Especially wait is something that 67 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: we can really work on, you know what I mean, Like, 68 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: that's something that is fixable for the lack of a 69 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: better word. Is something that we can get on the treadmill. 70 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: We can do and make little changes here and there 71 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: to help us because there is always room for improvement. 72 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: And just being intentional every single day and in making 73 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: the right choices so that you can have quote unquote 74 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: the body that you want or make the first steps 75 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: to getting there. Next question comes from Carina. She asks 76 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: how would you juggle being in school and helping your 77 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:19,720 Speaker 1: mom out at home with your siblings? Wow? That was tough, honestly, 78 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 1: really good question. That's one thing that there's a lot 79 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: of great things that I learned from my mom. One 80 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 1: thing that I want to unlearn, I think and change 81 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 1: with my children and something that I try to do 82 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: even with my boss bees and stuff. And I've given 83 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 1: out scholarships is education wasn't really a huge thing in 84 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:42,719 Speaker 1: our household. My mom was more about like working, working, working, 85 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 1: you don't really need school. So when I basically gave 86 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 1: all of my twenties almost to my mom and to 87 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: my siblings, when it was ripped out of my hands, 88 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: I felt like, oh my gosh, I have nothing to 89 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 1: fall back on, which is why I'm so huge about 90 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: getting your education, about going to school, and that's why 91 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: I sai port and I love to give out scholarships. 92 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: With that being said, it was really hard. You know, 93 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:09,599 Speaker 1: at home, it was make sure your siblings, your brothers 94 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: and sisters eight they did their homework, help them with 95 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 1: their homework, and then lastly was my homework. That's why 96 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 1: I was a C average student, I mean, because there 97 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: was no way I'm gonna come home with a D 98 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: or an F, especially not an F. So I was 99 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: an a B and C student and that was even 100 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: an issue because my mom was like a straight A student. 101 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: But again, I had different responsibilities, so that was very 102 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 1: hard for me to juggle because I had to clean 103 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: the house, I had a few the kids, I had 104 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,159 Speaker 1: to help them with their homework and then late at 105 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:35,919 Speaker 1: night do mine. When I had the time, and sometimes 106 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: I was too tired and I just wouldn't do it. 107 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 1: So it was very hard. But also my mom was 108 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: so strict that it was like, okay, well you have 109 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: no other choice. You have to do good in school 110 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 1: because I'm not going to have a dump kid, this 111 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:49,559 Speaker 1: is what she would say. So it was difficult. But again, 112 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: where there's a will, there's a way, and I made 113 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 1: it work and I had no other choice because if 114 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: I didn't m my mama wouldn't spank me. And Jonathan 115 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 1: Hernandez asked what I do to stay positive after so 116 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: much grief battles and daily criticism. Well, again, every day 117 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: it's my choice. It's my choice to wake up and say, Okay, 118 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to have a good day. Today will be 119 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 1: a good day. Daily affirmations help me because I don't 120 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: know when I'm going to run into a negative comment 121 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 1: on Instagram and if I'm going to be emotionally prepared 122 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: for it. So I emotionally prepare myself in the beginning 123 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 1: of the day. And some days are harder than others, 124 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: especially f y around my period. You know that's the truth. 125 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: I get a little bit more emotion around my period. 126 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: Um a little more irritable, but I really do say, Okay, 127 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 1: I want to be positive. It's a choice that you 128 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 1: have to make every day and know that everything does 129 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: happen for a reason. And yes, my mom is not 130 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 1: here and my dad is in jail, but all that 131 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 1: happened for a reason, and I can't question God anymore, 132 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: and I have to trust his plan for my life 133 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 1: and do what I can to be there for my 134 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 1: siblings and all that has helped me throughout the years, 135 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 1: and just choosing myself, choosing to want to be a 136 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 1: better version of yourself. Guys, that always helps you stay positive. 137 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: I know that you're here for a reason and a 138 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: mission and taking a step every single day towards that mission. 139 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: Thank you for that question. I like that one. Dylan 140 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: Mendoza Randon asks what my favorite Selena song is? I 141 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: have a bunch. I think. I think that for sure 142 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: is one of my favorite. I love oh and dreaming 143 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: of You. I love that song, Okay, I think a 144 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: dreaming of you. I think dreaming of you is like 145 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: my favorite. I just like listen to that all day 146 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 1: long and I just want to be in my room 147 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: dreaming of someone. But I love I love Selena. Okay, 148 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: this question is from Karen Ramirez Lopez. She says, checks, 149 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: how are you losing so much weight? I'm trying to 150 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: drop some pounds. Love you strong woman. Oh I love 151 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 1: you too, Mama. Okay, Karen. My weight has been a 152 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: thing since I was five. So I just learned and 153 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: I started listening to my body, and I tried different diets, 154 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: and once I remove the word diet out of my life, 155 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: it helped me a lot. So what I do is 156 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: it's a lifestyle change. I now eat to feed my 157 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: body good things. I do cleanses here and there, maybe 158 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: twice or three times a year, because the word cleanse 159 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: makes me feel better than dieting. So I'm cleansing my body, 160 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: I'm cleansing my spirit. I do that and that helps me. 161 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: It's just the way that we speak about it that 162 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 1: makes us feel better and one thing that has worked 163 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: for me. And I don't know if you guys have 164 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 1: heard of it. I talked about it a little bit 165 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 1: on Instagram. But intermittent fasting Ella, you know, malulallo. So 166 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: I eat from twelve to eight, so those are the 167 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 1: hours that I get to eat. Twelve o'clock, I eat 168 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 1: and ate eight pm, I stopped eating. I don't eat anything. 169 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 1: All I drink is either black coffee, tea with no 170 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 1: sugar and water in my black coffee in the morning 171 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: when I wake up to give me energy and it 172 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: suppresses my appetite. I drink up that coffee with one 173 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 1: Stevia pack because it has zero calories and a little 174 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: bit of cinnamon. And I work out on empty stomach 175 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: and I drink as much black coffee as I need 176 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:11,080 Speaker 1: to help me not eat till twelve pm. So that's 177 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: what I do when it's been helping me a lot, 178 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: and keto helps me a lot removing those carbohydrates and 179 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 1: also knowing how to pair your food. You, guys, I 180 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 1: think some people were so used to doing protein and 181 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 1: beans and rice and it's just too much. So sometimes 182 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 1: just protein with veggies is better. And then if you 183 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: want to have later on or earlier in the days, 184 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: should I say your cards have cards without protein. It 185 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: all just depends. You have to really listen to your 186 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 1: body because literally everybody is different, so you have to 187 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: know what works for you. Try different things until you 188 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 1: get to something. But intermittent fasting hands down highly recommended. Guys. 189 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 1: Look into it. It really does help. It helps mentally 190 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 1: physically obviously you lose weight, but I feel like I 191 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:54,680 Speaker 1: can think better. I have more mental clarity when I 192 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: do intermitted fasting. So highly recommend that. Karen Hope that 193 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:07,439 Speaker 1: helps you. Guys. I'm really loving all of your questions. 194 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for writing in. I'm trying to 195 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: answer as many as I can. Okay, Medium Rodriguez is 196 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: up next. She says, would you ever consider doing a 197 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 1: song or music video with your siblings and singing a 198 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: dedicated song to your mom? She also continues to say, 199 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 1: I know you and Jackie have done one separately, but 200 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 1: it would be nice to see all of you in one. Wow. Well, 201 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: we do have some plans, especially with my mom's tenth 202 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: year anniversary coming, we want to do something together. I 203 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 1: don't know if Mikey would be down, guys. Mikey is 204 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 1: so like low key, like he's just it's not his thing. 205 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 1: He does kind of wrap. He's wrapped a little bit, 206 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 1: so I don't know. I mean, maybe we could do 207 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: something together. It's not a bad idea. I like that idea. 208 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:55,079 Speaker 1: I'll talk to my siblings for sure, but see me, 209 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: especially for my mom, especially for my mom and her 210 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: tenth year anniversary, so I'll keep you updated on that. 211 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: Valerie Aguilar Garcia asks what is your biggest motivation to 212 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 1: keep it going on days when you don't feel motivated 213 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 1: at all? Wow, this is a good one. Who those 214 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: days when I don't feel motivated because I have them. 215 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 1: I do, guys. There are days when I just want 216 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 1: to lay down, and I do. I just also embrace 217 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 1: that when I don't, when I feel like crying. I 218 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 1: cry when I'm upset. I tell everyone around me, guys, 219 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: I woke up in a bad mood today, Just so 220 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:33,440 Speaker 1: you know, I'm very like open about it um and 221 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 1: I think that's also helped me. And I just take 222 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 1: time for myself. Is there's a day that I just 223 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 1: feel like I need a day to myself. I need 224 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 1: to be in bed. I let that just happen. And 225 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 1: I embrace that moment as well of not feeling so good. 226 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 1: I think it's just recognizing it and saying, Okay, I'm 227 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: gonna live this moment of darkness you could say, or 228 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 1: whatever you want to call it. And then I'm like, 229 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: tomorrow's in aw I can't. I can't keep doing that. 230 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 1: You do have to allow yourself to go through the motions, 231 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 1: to feel those emotions, and then just also be adamant 232 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 1: about Okay, I'm not gonna let this go on for days. 233 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 1: I feel it, I recognize it, and I gotta let 234 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 1: it go. That's the best advice that I can give you. 235 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 1: So my motivation to keep it going is just knowing 236 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:25,079 Speaker 1: that I have a goal, I have something that I 237 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: want to accomplish, and I don't really have the time 238 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 1: to be sad for too many days, you know, So 239 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 1: that keeps me motivated. It's always having a plan. Guys, 240 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: life without a plan, it's not gonna work. You have 241 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: to have a plan and everything that you do, it 242 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 1: doesn't matter what it is. So having a plan allows 243 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: you to stay focused on that plan, and even if 244 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: you're having a bad day, it's kind of like, wait, Okay, 245 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do what I can today. Maybe I'm not 246 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 1: feeling but I'm gonna do something small to take a 247 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: step towards that plan. So that's what keeps me motivated. 248 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: But hopefully that other part of the question also helped. 249 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: This next question is from Jackie. She asks cheek ease, 250 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:02,680 Speaker 1: do you still believe in your definition of boss? Bitch. 251 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 1: If so, can you share with us how you created 252 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 1: the phrase, share a little bit more about it. Okay, 253 00:13:09,520 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 1: So boss bitch, guys, I'm gonna try to make this short, 254 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 1: but boss bitch is just basically it started off as 255 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,440 Speaker 1: it was actually a word that one of my really 256 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:23,439 Speaker 1: good friends, Gerald, who's no longer in my life unfortunately, 257 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 1: but he's the one that kind of started saying it 258 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:28,319 Speaker 1: more boss bitch, boss bitch. And it's just a girl, 259 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 1: a woman that is about her ship. You feel me like, 260 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 1: it's not about being mean. A boss is not supposed 261 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 1: to be me and tell you what to do and 262 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 1: this and this a boss which is supposed to lead 263 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 1: by example. So that's what a boss, which is leads 264 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 1: by example. Now I realized that I had a lot 265 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: of little girls that followed me, so I moved it 266 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 1: from boss bitch to boss b That's where the whole 267 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 1: B E B came from. And then it just evolved 268 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 1: into something different. So I made it more into a 269 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 1: movement of yes, it's the same thing, she still leads 270 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: by example. But then I made boss which stands for 271 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: built on self success, and then b E is babe 272 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 1: embracing evolution. So that's like what boss being means. It's 273 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: basically a woman that is adamant and intentional every day 274 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 1: and built herself up, not like, oh, no one helped me, 275 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: and no it's not that. It's I'm intentional every day 276 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 1: to be the best version of myself, so built on 277 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 1: self success. So I'm serving myself every day. I'm watering 278 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 1: my plant, which is me. And then I embracing evolution. 279 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: An evolution can come, it can be anything, obstacles, adversities. 280 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: I'm embracing it as I go. I'm embracing it. I'm 281 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: knowing that I am a evolving creature, and good and 282 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: bad times happen, and I'm just embracing what happens and 283 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: what comes to my life and making the best of it. 284 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: Is basically what it is which brings me to my 285 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 1: next thing. This book, Unstoppable was supposed to be the 286 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:02,280 Speaker 1: explanation of what Boss Bitches or Boss B should I say, 287 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 1: But it became Unstoppable. So there is a book that 288 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 1: I'm in the works already. I have it almost all 289 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 1: written of Boss B just f y I. So maybe 290 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: later on so that I can get more into detail 291 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: about this, because there's so much more to it. You can, 292 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 1: you know, look forward to that book. Thank you for asking. 293 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 1: Kinsey means wants to know which zodiac sign do I 294 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 1: like and tend to dislike. Oh okay, oh my god, 295 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be too honest guys. Okay, So, which zodiac 296 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: sign do I like? Okay? Wow, I like a lot 297 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 1: of them, to be honest. Um, I want to say 298 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 1: that I get along with Capricorn very much. So I 299 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 1: have a lot of tourists around me, so I like 300 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 1: tourists too. But like Capricorn, I feel like we meet 301 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: eye to eye. Like I don't know Capricorns, I don't know. 302 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 1: I feel like we kind of vibe it. We vibe 303 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 1: it very well. And the zodiac I don't really like 304 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 1: or dislike a little bit. Sagittarius. I'm not gonna get 305 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: into that butes. Sagittarius is just not my favorite anyways. Oh, 306 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 1: here's another music question. It comes from Jeannette. She writes, 307 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: what other styles of music have you low key always 308 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 1: wanted to try? Okay, I like this, Okay. I'm all 309 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: about not staying in a box, like don't keep me 310 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: in a box, and like, oh, you can't do it 311 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 1: because you're a regional Mexican artists like no, no no, you're 312 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 1: not gonna tell me what to do. I want to 313 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: do reggaeton. We've done a little bit of Combia, We've 314 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 1: done even English like paper Bullet Song, my CPR song. 315 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 1: If you guys haven't heard those, go check them out. 316 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 1: But I feel like I really want to do shodd 317 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:41,680 Speaker 1: like indie type of music. I feel like I'd kill it. 318 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: So that's for sure something I want to tap into 319 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: and I haven't tried that, so thank you for that. 320 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 1: I love the music questions. Elizabeth wants to know if 321 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: reality TV is in my future plan. She says she 322 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 1: misses the riveras I know a lot of people have 323 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:00,120 Speaker 1: been telling me guys that they missed the RIVERA was 324 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 1: honestly low key too. I miss them. I miss us 325 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: because I feel like I got to spend a lot 326 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:07,640 Speaker 1: of time with my siblings through the reality show, and 327 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: we were able to experience so much together. I wanted 328 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:12,919 Speaker 1: to stay away for a little while. I think we 329 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 1: needed the break. I think it was very necessary. I 330 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 1: explained this in my book Unstoppable, why we stepped back 331 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 1: a little bit. But I don't know. I think if 332 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: the opportunity presents itself and it's something that makes sense 333 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:28,439 Speaker 1: to my siblings and I then I wouldn't be opposed 334 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 1: to it. I think it's something that would be cool, 335 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,919 Speaker 1: especially now that we're a lot older and mature and 336 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 1: everyone has their own thing going on. I think there's 337 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: a lot that we can share with the world. So 338 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. Elizabeth asked the reality gods to make 339 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:45,879 Speaker 1: it happen. If it's meant to be, it will be alright. 340 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:48,679 Speaker 1: So Bianca wants to know how I deal with the 341 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 1: stress and sometimes heartbreak of being the older sibling. Oh girl, 342 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 1: this has been a journey. Has been a journey being 343 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 1: the eldest since I can remember. But I wouldn't change 344 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 1: a thing, to be honest, I love my siblings so much. 345 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 1: I love them so much that, yes, sometimes it hurts 346 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: to see them grow. For a long time, I felt 347 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:11,439 Speaker 1: like Dane, you know, I I gave my life to 348 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 1: them and they just, you know, get up and leave. 349 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 1: Like Jennica just turn Athene she said peace, and it 350 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 1: just broke my heart. But then I learned that I'm like, 351 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 1: they're not my kids, go Molisa and like Loos you 352 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:24,880 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like even people that actually birth 353 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 1: the kids out of them. They're not really ours to keep. 354 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 1: They're not meant to stay under your wing and do 355 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: everything that you want them to do. And they have 356 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 1: to go and live their life and make their own 357 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 1: mistakes and accomplish their own dreams. And I had to 358 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:41,400 Speaker 1: learn that, and it's been a process. It's something that yeah, 359 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:43,439 Speaker 1: it's hurt and it's kind of like damn, that sucks, 360 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:47,119 Speaker 1: but it's their life to live. And and ever since 361 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 1: I have learned that, it's really helped me deal with 362 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:52,679 Speaker 1: with the pain and the stress that comes with it. 363 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:56,480 Speaker 1: Now I have stepped into just really being the sister 364 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: and not so much the second mother, and that's made 365 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 1: things a little easier because now I can be more 366 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 1: of a friend. But it's still stressful. I mean, I 367 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 1: still worry about them. It doesn't matter how old they are, 368 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: even Mikey, he's a twenty nine year old man about 369 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 1: to be thirty. That I still like at night, I'm like, 370 00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 1: oh my god, I hope you got home. Okay, you 371 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: know what i mean. I'm still kind of like, hey, 372 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:17,439 Speaker 1: you guys, be careful. And I pray for them every day. 373 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, God, protect them, protect their homes or vehicles 374 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 1: or children. I pray that every morning, and it really 375 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:27,400 Speaker 1: helps me with my stress because there's nothing I can 376 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: do about it. It's like God has to take care 377 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: of them because they're doing things that I can't even see, 378 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 1: you know, so the only person I can see is God. 379 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 1: Next question is from Andrea. She asks, if your mom 380 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:49,679 Speaker 1: was in front of you, what is one thing you 381 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 1: would say to her? Oh, this is a good one, man, 382 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 1: besides telling her I missed her, I love her, I 383 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 1: need her. This is a good one. I would. I 384 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 1: don't know if I would tell her something besides that, 385 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 1: because I've told her so many things now, I think 386 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:15,200 Speaker 1: I would just ask her. I would ask her, mom, 387 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:18,640 Speaker 1: are you proud of me? Are you proud of what 388 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:22,160 Speaker 1: I've been doing? Have I done a good job for me? 389 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,719 Speaker 1: That's so important. I mean, I feel like she is. 390 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 1: But just if I could just hear those words, for 391 00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:30,880 Speaker 1: those of you that watch the reality show, I love Jenny. 392 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 1: When I opened up my hair salon blew me dry 393 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 1: as the question I asked her, are you proud? I 394 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:39,119 Speaker 1: always wanted her to be proud of me. I lived 395 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 1: to make my mom proud, and I still do. I 396 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:45,439 Speaker 1: want her to smile from heaven and say those are 397 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:49,440 Speaker 1: my damn kids. That's my daughter, that's my baby, that's 398 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 1: my princess. Like, that's those words. That's what I would 399 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 1: ask her to be honest, I don't know if I 400 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: would tell her anything, it would just be Mom, I 401 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,439 Speaker 1: love you and I miss you so much, and have 402 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 1: I made your proud? I'm getting emotional, guys, Okay, so 403 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:09,200 Speaker 1: let's move on. Valerie Garcia has one more question. She says, 404 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 1: I feel so lost in life right now. And I 405 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,359 Speaker 1: know you've gone through a lot and have gotten up 406 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 1: when you were at your worst. So what advice do 407 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 1: you give to someone who feels very lost in life 408 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 1: and can't seem to find their purpose? She says, I 409 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,639 Speaker 1: love you, cheek ease. I know your mom is looking 410 00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: down from you on heaven and she's very proud. Guys, 411 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,879 Speaker 1: tell me how perfect that is, like her saying that 412 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 1: she's I just said that I want my mom to 413 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 1: be proud, and I swear to you, I hadn't seen 414 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 1: this question. I didn't know in the order that I 415 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 1: was in. It's just like, oh, that's the confirmation that 416 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:45,239 Speaker 1: my mom is proud. I'm like honestly, my eyes are 417 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 1: tearing up right now. Oh my goodness. Thank you, Valerie, 418 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 1: thank you so much for your question. Thank you, thank you. 419 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,720 Speaker 1: I hope my mom is very proud. Okay, So to 420 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 1: answer your question, look, I think accepting the fact that 421 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 1: life has its ups and downs, it's a rollercoaster of emotions, 422 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 1: and just knowing that, I think that that helps a lot. 423 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,920 Speaker 1: And knowing, Okay, this is just a moment that I'm living. 424 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 1: It's a moment. It doesn't mean that it's a bad life. 425 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 1: It's just a bad day, having a bad day. And 426 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 1: maybe those bad days can be two bad days, three 427 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,919 Speaker 1: bad days, and it's okay. But just every day telling 428 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 1: yourself out loud, it's okay, this too shall pass. Everything 429 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 1: is gonna be okay. I am okay, I am strong. 430 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,360 Speaker 1: God has my back. When you say all of these 431 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,679 Speaker 1: affirmations every day, every day, every day, I truly believe you, 432 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 1: guys in the law of attraction. So the more that 433 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 1: you say God has my back, this too shall pass, 434 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,680 Speaker 1: everything is working for my higher self in my favor. 435 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:47,719 Speaker 1: Everything is gonna be okay. The more you repeat that 436 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:51,360 Speaker 1: to yourself when you're having those bad moments, you're gonna 437 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 1: see like magic. It's crazy, but the more you believe 438 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,040 Speaker 1: it from the bottom of your heart and you say 439 00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 1: it with all of your heart, that starts happening. And prayer, 440 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 1: read a devotional, read something positive, fill yourself with positivity. 441 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: If you keep just drowning yourself with those negative thoughts 442 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 1: and the problem that you're having, then you're not gonna 443 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,119 Speaker 1: get anywhere. And I posted something on Instagram the other 444 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 1: day which I loved. It was a quote that I 445 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 1: have in one of my books, and it says, be 446 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 1: a warrior, not a worrior. So be a warrior of 447 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,160 Speaker 1: God and lean on him and cast your worries onto 448 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 1: God and your troubles and everything, because if you're worrying 449 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:36,440 Speaker 1: about something way too much, you're attracting that even more 450 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 1: into your life. Like you just have to just say, 451 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 1: he has my back, It's gonna be okay. I will 452 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:46,360 Speaker 1: find the solution. It helps so much. It sounds silly, maybe, 453 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,080 Speaker 1: but I promise you it's what has helped me get 454 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 1: through everything. And sometimes it takes a little longer. But 455 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 1: don't lose faith. Pray, and I always say this to 456 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,160 Speaker 1: guys when life brings you to your knees while you're 457 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,439 Speaker 1: down there, you might as well pray and then you 458 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 1: just get get back up, you shake it off like 459 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:10,399 Speaker 1: my mama taught me, and you keep going. Hopefully that 460 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 1: helps Valerie. Okay, so a lot of you have asked 461 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 1: about my favorite beauty products, and I have so many, 462 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,920 Speaker 1: you guys. Okay, I have so many, But my top 463 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:23,359 Speaker 1: three Holy Grill products are of course for my skincare line. Okay, 464 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:25,239 Speaker 1: I'm all about skincare, guys. I love makeup, don't get 465 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: me wrong. I love my makeup. I love lipsticks, but 466 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 1: I'm all about skincare because I feel if you don't 467 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 1: take care of the foundation and like your skin, then 468 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 1: your makeup won't look as bomb. So for me, my 469 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,400 Speaker 1: favorite products and the ones that I can't like honestly 470 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 1: live without, would have to be my all in one serum, 471 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:47,160 Speaker 1: you guys, which will help plump your skin, hydrated, help 472 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: with fine lines. It has hyaluronic acid in it, it 473 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,400 Speaker 1: has vitamin C and vitamin E, so it's gonna treat 474 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 1: your skin at the same time. That is something that 475 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 1: I have to wear every day morning and night, something 476 00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 1: that just wear. That and my SPF that's another one. 477 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 1: S PF is so important. I just came out with 478 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,160 Speaker 1: the tinted SPF. I've been working on it for a while. 479 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 1: It took a long time. So the reason I like 480 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,920 Speaker 1: my tinted SPF is because not only is it protecting 481 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 1: me from UV A and U v B rays of 482 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 1: the sun, it's also evening out my skin tone, hydrating 483 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,440 Speaker 1: it and treating it because it has Vitamin C, has 484 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 1: zinc in there, it has all kinds of things that 485 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 1: are also anti aging, and it helps brighten your skin. 486 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 1: So that I loved sinto SPF, the all in one serum, 487 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:33,400 Speaker 1: and then I would have to say, damn my Vitamin 488 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 1: C mask. Guys, that's one that changes my skin. I 489 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 1: use it once a week and it helps with my 490 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,679 Speaker 1: redness with my sun's spots because I'm Latina, so the 491 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 1: sun if I don't wear my spfs, so it's super 492 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,359 Speaker 1: important for me to use that mask. And then I 493 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 1: just feel like my skin feels refreshed. It helps with everything. 494 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,640 Speaker 1: It really does brighten your skin, tighten your skin. So 495 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:57,640 Speaker 1: those are my three if I had to choose, those 496 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 1: are the three. Vitamin C anti age an exfoliating mask. Okay, 497 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: it's a long last name, but it's very it's important. 498 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,439 Speaker 1: So that mask the all in one seram which we 499 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,240 Speaker 1: have in gold as well, So you guys can go 500 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 1: to be Flawless dot com and you guys can like 501 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,359 Speaker 1: look at these products and then my tinted SPF I 502 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:14,879 Speaker 1: have to I have a tinted one in a non 503 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 1: tinted but SPF. Guys, women and men, use your SPF 504 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:22,960 Speaker 1: every single day. It's preventative. It will help you. It 505 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 1: is important. It doesn't matter if it's winter or not, 506 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 1: if you're out in the sun or not. Where your SPF. Guys, 507 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 1: I can't say it enough. So many people don't wear it, 508 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 1: and it's freaking crazy to me. Okay, So another popular 509 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 1: topic is music, which I love. Someone asked what my 510 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: favorite song to perform is? Oh, guys, is I don't know? 511 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,119 Speaker 1: This is? This is a tough one. I love. I 512 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 1: love when I'm on stage and I've had a little 513 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 1: bit thick guila, like I love to sing those songs 514 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,439 Speaker 1: that hurt, you know, like, oh, so i'd have to 515 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:57,879 Speaker 1: say my favorite song to sing. My manager, Richard that 516 00:26:57,920 --> 00:26:59,679 Speaker 1: I like to call Mr Bull, is going to be 517 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: mad at because it's like, why didn't you choose what 518 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,560 Speaker 1: are your songs because I love to sing my songs. 519 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 1: But you're asking me, and I gotta be honest. So 520 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 1: my all time favorite song to sing. That is my 521 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 1: favorite song to sing. I will sing it at every 522 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: party there's a batda there, Mariachi, I'll be like, okay 523 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 1: because everyone knows it and I love to sing it 524 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 1: and I feel like my voice sounds great singing it. 525 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 1: So that's the song. You're probably fine on TikTok and 526 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 1: everywhere because I sing that one or those are my 527 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,160 Speaker 1: two favorite. Yeah, so I love that. I love that song. 528 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, Mr Bo was gonna be like, hey, chick, 529 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 1: he's already know him. Well, guys, you had so many 530 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 1: really great questions and I loved answering them all. I 531 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 1: think it's a great way to get to know me 532 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 1: on a personal level, and I just love interacting with 533 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,880 Speaker 1: you guys as much as possible. But before we wrap 534 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:52,240 Speaker 1: this episode, I'm going to leave you with my motivational 535 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 1: Monday quote. Here it is what is coming is better 536 00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 1: than what is gone. Let this belief aim you in 537 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:04,040 Speaker 1: the direction you need to go. I hope that helps you, guys, 538 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,679 Speaker 1: Like always Loomcho. Thank you to everyone who listened to 539 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 1: the very end. I love you all so much. Astella proxima. Yes, 540 00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:19,439 Speaker 1: iven't those. This is a production of I Heart Radio 541 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 1: and Michael Tura podcast Network. Follow us on Instagram at 542 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 1: Michael Dura Podcasts and follow me chick ees that c 543 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:30,920 Speaker 1: h I q u i s. 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