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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey Kevin, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: How are you hey, I'm okay, hoping for a little help,

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Speaker 2: I guess.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So there we go some honesty right there.

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Speaker 1: It's always amazing to me when we go how you doing?

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Speaker 1: These people think they've been ghosted and they're distraught, and

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Speaker 1: they're like, all right, I assume that's because they're talking

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Speaker 1: to us. But the truth is, you're a little distraught

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Speaker 1: because you went out with a woman named Haley, and

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Speaker 1: I guess she's not interested her. You think she's not interested,

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Speaker 1: she's ghosted, kind of actively ghosting you, obviously ghosting you.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you tell us how you guys met and

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Speaker 1: about any dates that you've been on and where things

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Speaker 2: Sure, Yeah. I started talking to Haley on in one

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Speaker 2: of those dating apps, and we kind of hit it off,

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Speaker 3: So we chatted for a while.

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Speaker 2: And eventually I ended up asking her if she wanted

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Speaker 2: to get drinks, so we did, and I thought we

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Speaker 3: Really great time.

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Speaker 2: We were at the bar for a while, we had

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Speaker 3: Night, and that was the end of that. And I'm

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Speaker 2: Wondering what happened because between the bar and my house

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Speaker 2: there was like this attitude shift. She just got like

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Speaker 2: figure out why that happened.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 1: Okay? And so that you have not been able to

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Speaker 3: It was so clear, like night and day.

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Speaker 2: We were having a great time at the bar. We

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Speaker 3: So, I mean, something happened. I don't know what. I'm

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, fair enough. So that's where we come in.

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Speaker 1: We're going to play song comeback. We'll call Haley. We'll

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Speaker 1: know what we're hoping we can do here is straighten

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play one song, will be right back like

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Speaker 1: two minutes. Hang on, Kevin. Thanks, Let's see what happens next.

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Speaker 1: Part two. Avoiding by the phone after this song on

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Speaker 1: The Fred Show. Hey, Kevin, Hey, let's call Haley. You guys,

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Speaker 1: you recently went on a date. You met on the apps.

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Speaker 2: Actually, well, to be totally honest, she did respond one time.

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Speaker 2: She told me straight up, I don't see things going

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Speaker 3: I don't understand what happened that night. I don't understand

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Speaker 1: So you know, Oh, she's not interested, except like a

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Speaker 1: What did I do? Can I fix it? That kind

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, is this Haley Mak's calling?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Hi, Haley, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm

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Speaker 4: Oh god, I'm look at you every freaking day.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes I wish people would just take a hint and

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Speaker 4: I told him that that's true, and I have no

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Speaker 4: But things got kind of weird when we did end

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Speaker 1: Being out. Dude, the guy's thirty eight years old and.

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Speaker 3: He legit has a twin size bed.

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Speaker 1: He has a twin size bed, which is really like

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Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying, Like that aren't those

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Speaker 4: You know here's what I I want to make a

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Speaker 4: It's just not it was.

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Speaker 1: I can't, We're not. So he's a grown ups man

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Speaker 1: with a twin bed. Now I've heard of this happening

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Speaker 1: let me you know that Kevin's here because you listen,

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Speaker 1: so I don't have to. You know, Kevin thirty eight,

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Speaker 3: Well, she wasn't staying And I mean it was the

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Speaker 1: And that was this your first girl you've ever brought home?

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Speaker 4: Oh my God, I'm dead right now, you guys, I'm

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Speaker 3: I'm a single guy. You know what, am I going

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Speaker 1: What do you have?

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Speaker 4: Like do you i mean eventually up in your house too?

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Speaker 4: Like do you have one coffee cup? One that is silverware?

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Speaker 1: That's called the fishing?

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Speaker 4: What other stuff in your life you don't?

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Speaker 1: But why do you know? I like that? Like Kevin,

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Speaker 1: for example, I have a king sized bed in my

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Speaker 3: Own Fred, This is why I don't have to offer.

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Speaker 3: I've got opportunity ever comes around, you know. But I'm

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe I got one coffee cup maybe seven?

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Speaker 1: Ten years?

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Speaker 3: At Lesia supposed to replace.

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Speaker 1: The mask a race car bed. What is the last one?

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Speaker 3: But it's been a while.

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Speaker 1: I guess you don't.

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Speaker 4: I had a great time with you.

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Speaker 1: I politely declined to move forward. I was respectful.

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Speaker 4: I think I've already like given you enough. I don't

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Speaker 1: So I appreciate you, but.

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Speaker 1: You can't have a kid, like come on? Yeah, what

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Speaker 3: It's not a kid's bed. It's not the mattress store.

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Speaker 3: They sell it to adult I don't know what you

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Speaker 1: Yeah I thought you had a kid. Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, all right, look so Hailey, I'll

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Speaker 1: just ask one more time. We'll pay for it. Is

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Speaker 1: there any what if we buy the guy at bed?

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Speaker 1: Is there any chance to keep go out with him again?

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Speaker 4: Bred Brad, you're ahead, I listen, I still love you.

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Speaker 4: I want to keep loving you.

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Speaker 1: No, please not.

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Speaker 5: Oh come on, So yeah, girl, I got a king

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Speaker 5: size bad Yeah, clearly I can tell the second date here, you're.

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm going to use the money I would

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Speaker 1: have paid for Kevin, and I'm going to pay for

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Speaker 1: a date.

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Speaker 4: I like that.

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Speaker 1: I do like that. You can see my actual bed.

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Speaker 1: It's growing up side. Just wait to see all this

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Speaker 1: stuff on the walls though. He's still he's still a

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Speaker 1: race car bed. But it's a king size race card bed.

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Speaker 1: You didn't know they made those, but they do. It's

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Speaker 1: a king sized bunk. Then it's excited, all right, guys,

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Speaker 1: look Kevin, I'm sorry, it's not going to work out, Hailey,

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Speaker 1: thank you for your time, Thank you for listening to

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Speaker 1: That's of luck to both of you.

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Speaker 3: Right on.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much as Kevin.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, sorry, dear, I just think you need to got

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Speaker 3: me a free bed right now. But whatever, Okay, thanks.

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Speaker 1: I was kidding. I was never gonna buy you a bed,

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Speaker 1: but anyway, well, h Columbus is coming up. They have

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Speaker 1: a sale a miss. Oh my god. Indigenous people's days,

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Speaker 1: genous people's they gotta say them over there for everything

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Speaker 1: they gotta say, they're gonna say, what is it? It's

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Speaker 1: Polita's anniversary. Kaylin has the entertainment report. ITA's next on

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Speaker 1: The Fred Show.