1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,000 Speaker 1: Being circumstances. 2 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, is Laurena Rosa with the latest with Laurna 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 2: Rosa on Black Effects and I cannot wait to see 4 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 2: you guys at the fourth Annual Black Effect Podcast Festival. Okay, 5 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 2: we're coming back to Atlanta, Georgia on Saturday, April twenty 6 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 2: fifth at Palman Yards and it's hosted by me alongside 7 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: DJ MV and charlottagnea God. We got drink chances of 8 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 2: Noriega and Djafing. We gotta keep it positive, Sweetye with 9 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 2: My Girl, Christopher N. Haslin. We got Reality with the 10 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 2: King with My Guide, then my brother Carlos King, and 11 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 2: y'all know he does reality commentary like nobody can. Now. 12 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 2: We also have Don't Call Me White Girl, the podcast 13 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 2: I Love Mona and Club five to twenty podcasts, along 14 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 2: with the Grits and Eggs podcast. So this lineup stack Baby, 15 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 2: turn up. You're also gonna want to check out the 16 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 2: panels that we have lined up too, Feature and cav 17 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 2: on stage, Pika Sumpter, and John Hope Bryant just to 18 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 2: name a few. Of course, it's way bigger than podcast. 19 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 2: We're bringing the Black Effect marketplace with Black owned businesses 20 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 2: is bust the food truck court to keep you fed 21 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 2: while you visit us. Okay, listen, you don't want to 22 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 2: miss this. Tap in and grab your ticket down at 23 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 2: Black Effect dot Com Flash Podcast Festival. 24 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 1: It is unnecessary cosmetic surgery. 25 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 3: I do agree with you on that, But if I 26 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 3: was a baby, I would have got my bbo. 27 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 4: Excuse me that moment, Like, how did that feel? 28 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 5: I was already preparing my body to congratulate someone else? 29 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 6: Wow? 30 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 4: How do you feel when people compare you to prints? 31 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: To play me is to play yourself exactly? 32 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 4: Get another please and I'm now we're about to have bob. 33 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 2: Do you feel like you're NPR Yes, corraby. 34 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: If I'm wrong, you're wrong. 35 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 5: Twenty five is when your brain fucking forms. 36 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, I go in. 37 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: You'll be selling wonderful. 38 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 2: I used to get woopings all the time, but like 39 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 2: talking during class, now you on a podcast. I love 40 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 2: how every time you're about to say some sheet, you 41 00:01:58,440 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 2: be like. 42 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 4: They all got the same shoe, they all got the 43 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 4: same bag. 44 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: The same ass. 45 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 5: Now a lot of these things the ugliest fun and 46 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:10,959 Speaker 5: they think just pumping iron, that's gonna make this the 47 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 5: I gotta look at you ain't for so much hitting 48 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:13,639 Speaker 5: it from the back. 49 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 1: We're gonna do you. 50 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 4: That is my ship. 51 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 1: Remember that girl had lost her weeds. 52 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 6: All girl. 53 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 5: For her to not have no music and for her 54 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 5: to start, I'm like, okay, since I seen. 55 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 2: You, Brits Mills phenomenal because it was real Cloud. 56 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 4: What's up? Y'all's your girl? 57 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 2: Lex p Any Sugarl Dre and the call and you. 58 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 3: Are tuned into an episode of Poor. 59 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 2: Minds where a drunk mind speaks sober. 60 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 3: We gotta guess today, We gotta guess. 61 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 5: Today, We gotta guess. 62 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 3: I'm so excited, y'all because again, y'all gonna look at 63 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 3: the comments. Y'all been blowing us up at this for 64 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 3: a long time, so you asking we deliver. We have 65 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 3: singer songwriter producir d J. 66 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 4: You know, hollering comments. 67 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, the hooting right, y'all. 68 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 6: We got. 69 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 5: Grammy Award, Ray, don't forget the dadly eat the green. 70 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 3: Let me ask you something because you got a Grammy, 71 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 3: Like that's not that's a big deal in that moment, 72 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 3: like we know you're the meme running up, but in 73 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 3: that moment, like how did that feel? 74 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 5: I really was just for a split second of disbelief 75 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 5: because I was already preparing my body and my position 76 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 5: in the theater to congratulate someone else. 77 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 2: Wow. 78 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: So it was like a wait, it's not bull out, 79 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: it's bloom. 80 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 3: Right, But that's all right, Yes you understood. 81 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 5: Listen when I tell you my toes was like this 82 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 5: in the mules because I didn't want I was like, 83 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 5: do not let me far if I fall like it's 84 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 5: a but hey, I'm still tumbling, get up because I 85 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 5: know how to do this. 86 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 1: Yay very much, That's. 87 00:04:58,880 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 6: What I'm saying. 88 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: Now. 89 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 3: You know, I feel like you have such a distinctive personality, 90 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 3: you have a distinctive voice. How was it like growing up? 91 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 3: Because I know because I used to get this a 92 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 3: lot too, So I couldn't wait to ask you this question, 93 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 3: because did you get a lot of people to being like, oh, 94 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 3: you need to calm down, you need to just like 95 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 3: relax a little bit, Like how did you deal with that? 96 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 3: And being like, you know what, I'm gonna be myself. 97 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:32,599 Speaker 5: What's interesting is I was fine as myself when I 98 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 5: was in the house. It wasn't until I stepped outside 99 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 5: in certain parameters of my neighborhood where it was an 100 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 5: issue for some of the little ashy little boy who 101 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 5: wanted to you know, push me or pick with me, 102 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,679 Speaker 5: or somebody's mom telling me, well, you need to stop 103 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 5: all that honey child stuff, and this that and the third. 104 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: You know, so there was. 105 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 5: All there were always people that had their own idea 106 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 5: and action of who they felt how I should conduct myself. Well, 107 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 5: I'm just a very expressive, eccentric, theatrical, flamboyant iteration of 108 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 5: my mother because she's homeschooling me. 109 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 1: And I'm an only child, right, Oh worry, Yes, my 110 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: parents only baby. 111 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 5: Listen where else were they going to dedicate all that? Yes, 112 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 5: I am the headliner, like what listen, just listen, listen. 113 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 5: Afterwards was curtains and lights. Hello, you know, just the 114 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 5: whole production. 115 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 4: Right, you are funny. 116 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 2: So do you feel like because because your mom was 117 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 2: a vocal coach and your dad was a sound engineer, 118 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 2: so being and her parents were both in the music 119 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 2: industry and you grew up in that environment. Do you 120 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 2: think that has a lot to do with the fact that, 121 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 2: like they supported you so much in your career. 122 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 5: Yes, I think it's easier when you have parents that 123 00:06:54,080 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 5: are doing the thing that you. 124 00:06:58,520 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: You would like to do. 125 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:00,919 Speaker 5: I didn't want I didn't know what I wanted to 126 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 5: do up until sixteen, but it was always around and 127 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 5: having that kind. 128 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: Of support did. 129 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 5: Fuel and motivate my confidence within myself. You know, even 130 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 5: with not knowing all the time, still having the curiosity 131 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 5: and the mindset to learn has always kept me. 132 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. I loved it. 133 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 2: And your mom was working with some beaging names because 134 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 2: she used to work with earth landing. 135 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 5: Fire right, so Pops was the one that was it 136 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 5: was your dead Yeah. 137 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 138 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 5: Mom was the vocal coaching, the piano teacher. She took 139 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 5: public school, I'm sorry, music in public schools for like 140 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 5: twenty years before I was born. Okay, yeah, so I was. 141 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 5: She was forty one when she had me. 142 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 6: Reay period. 143 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 2: My parents were a little older too because I'm adopted, 144 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 2: So my parents were older when they adopted me, and 145 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 2: I was the only child. I just feel like you 146 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 2: have a different upbringing and a different appreciation for like 147 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 2: good music too, when your parents are significantly all as you. 148 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 5: When you have boomers as parents, and I will say 149 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 5: that they are a very progressive pair of boomers. Yeah, 150 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 5: because so my nineteen forty eight, nineteen forty seven, nineteen 151 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 5: fifty eight. 152 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 2: My mom was born in nineteen forty nine. 153 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, so it's you have like the best of 154 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 5: both worlds, at least with them because they came up 155 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 5: in a time where they knew life before the internet. 156 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 5: So I've been on the internet for like thirty years, 157 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 5: but they never bucked technology. They were you know, the 158 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 5: first four years of my life were documented, which is 159 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:41,839 Speaker 5: why my therapists asked me to write out from the 160 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 5: very first memory that I have up until right now, 161 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 5: and I said, well, that's going to be challenging because 162 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 5: I don't know what memories are genuinely mine and what 163 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 5: I've had access to all my life. So like my 164 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 5: first my first life, my first was that, my first words, 165 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 5: my first couple birthdays, like my you know, Christmas is 166 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 5: It's like things like that I've had access to that. 167 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: So yeah, your. 168 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 2: Parents was the parents that was recording everything with the cam. 169 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 4: I love that I look back on. 170 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 3: So let me ask you this, being that you know 171 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 3: you grew up having great music tastes around you, being 172 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 3: around these great artists, because I know you've been seeing it, 173 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 3: how do. 174 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:21,680 Speaker 4: You feel when people compare you to Prince, because that's 175 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 4: that's a lot. 176 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 5: I think, first and foremost love Prince. Wasn't able to 177 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 5: listen to him when I was you know, I was 178 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 5: growing up though, so that was that was out. 179 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: But as an adult I. 180 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 5: Was able to. Sheerlyn was not having that. It was 181 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 5: she Sherlyn got saved three years before I was born. 182 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: Baby the Lord a little. 183 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 5: Good times come on, do that, you know, but not 184 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 5: not not Prince. I think the reason that they compare 185 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 5: me to him is be because of similar mannerisms and 186 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 5: the fact that we are smaller in stature, even though 187 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 5: people think that I'm six foot, which is hilarious really 188 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 5: yeah five. 189 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 1: Six five pull my clothes off though, curio. 190 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 5: Anyway, Hello, wait wait, what was I saying? 191 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 3: You were talking about how my parents that. 192 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 5: So it's because of how we we we we express 193 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 5: ourselves the you know, my mic is on our eyes 194 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 5: and whatnot. But what people don't understand is I get 195 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 5: that isms from Little Richard. I get those isms from 196 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 5: Little Richard. I get those isms from from Rick James, 197 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,200 Speaker 5: and Prince opened up for Rick James. 198 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: We're talking about vocally, like you. 199 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 5: Listen to me and you listen to Rick James like, absolutely, 200 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 5: she's a very freaky girl. 201 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 2: That was a nah I say it. 202 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying when you hear it. 203 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 5: But but but visually they see Prince, they see the 204 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 5: little they see me wearing ash Japps, the you know, the. 205 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 1: They want me to play the virus. 206 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 4: I want you to do that. 207 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 5: But if I could do a little Richard, if I 208 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 5: could do Rick James. That's vocally that that's where I sit. 209 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 5: But mannerism wise more so, they're like, that's that's Prince 210 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 5: very much. 211 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:29,959 Speaker 1: The deep, the deep. 212 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 5: Speaking boys, you know, I don't you to play me 213 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 5: is to. 214 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: Play yourself exactly. I don't need a guy. Also, you know, 215 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 1: my mic. 216 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 5: Is on always, you know, all of all, so you 217 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 5: know I I see it, so I take it as 218 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 5: a compliment. However, I I know who I am at 219 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 5: the core. You know, I'm a I'm a continuation of 220 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 5: all those things, but I have my own identity. 221 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 4: I love it. 222 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 2: Do you feel like you're m pr tiny Dash? 223 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 1: Yes? 224 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 7: You so? 225 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: You feel like that's what catapults issue. It made you 226 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 2: more mainstream because I truly believe it is such an 227 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 2: art to be able to sound just like your music 228 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:14,199 Speaker 2: just like your audio in real life and you literally 229 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 2: sound the same, like especially these days, for a lot 230 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 2: of artists, they don't sound they're studio singers. Yeah, they're 231 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 2: studio singers. You literally sound so amazing live and your 232 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:27,199 Speaker 2: tiny disc went crazy. So do you feel like that's 233 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 2: what like really catapults at your career because you had 234 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 2: been making music for a really long time before. 235 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 5: That, putting out music since two thousand and nine. Yeah, yeah, 236 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 5: not on DSPs via band camp, but yeah, shout out 237 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 5: the band camp period. 238 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 6: I do believe that. 239 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, Tiny Desk was the moment in my career where 240 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 5: I had to like, if I was in a seat, 241 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 5: I had to already had the over the lap restraint, 242 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 5: but now we got there across the chest, never got 243 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 5: to have security. Yeah, so it's like, yeah, that's actually 244 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 5: a yeah, I would say Tiny Desk definitely was that 245 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 5: was that moment. 246 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 3: I mean it was everywhere it was getting clips and 247 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 3: I think a lot of times you were introduced to 248 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 3: people who had never you know, people are still shocked 249 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 3: to see somebody just living in their truth, being who 250 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 3: they are being. 251 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 4: Because I'm not gonna. 252 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 3: Lie, you know, I like to get a little missy 253 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 3: now and drink. 254 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 4: That hit me because the people were so in shocked 255 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 4: that you have a father that was active. 256 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 3: That was a whole conversation. Oh they were like, oh, 257 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 3: where is his dad? 258 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 4: And he's right there. 259 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:44,319 Speaker 5: Yeah, I said, I said this in a video because 260 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 5: a girl quoted my picture of me and my dad 261 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 5: at the Grammys and she said, he got a he 262 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 5: got a father Anagrammy, I know, the homophobes extra hot 263 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 5: and I was like this, you took my breath away, because. 264 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 1: Yes, that's a fact. 265 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 5: Fucking like, these niggas absolutely went out their way, took 266 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 5: the scenic route to get over to my side of 267 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:10,319 Speaker 5: the conversation where I am on Gela Gola Island a 268 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:15,959 Speaker 5: good time, and they just knew that there was no father. 269 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 1: In the household. 270 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 2: Hey, I mean we understand it as will because people 271 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 2: say that type of stuff too in the comments all 272 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 2: the time about us, and like, I grew up in 273 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 2: the two parent house. 274 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 4: Whatever be right about me could be right. 275 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: Listen, listen to broken clock right. 276 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 2: To sometimes sometimes it's right, that's all right, but you 277 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 2: know that's only half of the show. And so with me, 278 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 2: I grew up in a two parent household and people 279 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 2: just love to believe that you have a lot of 280 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 2: the ideologies that you have and the views on relationships 281 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 2: and daty that you have because you didn't have a 282 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 2: father in the home, or I have these views because 283 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 2: of my own experience, my own experience, and because they 284 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 2: don't make niggas like my dad. 285 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 5: No, bab let me tell you something, if we were 286 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 5: waiting on men that were like my father, I would hello, y'all, 287 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 5: be waiting forever and I y'all, because y'all, that's a 288 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 5: that's a man right there. 289 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: You're talking about somebody. 290 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 5: That genuinely loves his family, like he prioritizes his own 291 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 5: comfort and his own peace of mind to make sure 292 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 5: that we are taking care of It's like you brought. 293 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: Me here and I didn't ask to be here. 294 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 5: You better you, God damn right, you better rearrange and 295 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 5: modify your life to accommodate me. 296 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I better be yes. 297 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 5: I'm telling you that seriously, because parents, a lot of times, 298 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 5: parents think that they're doing their children a favorite just 299 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 5: by bringing them here, and you're not a lot of 300 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 5: them aren't even equipped, and you want to involve them 301 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 5: in your shit. That's why I said, I'm so grateful 302 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 5: that my parents waited until the time that they did 303 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 5: have to have me to involve me in they shit hello, 304 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 5: even though Sherilyn said, has she had me any earlier, 305 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 5: I'll be out here looking crazy? 306 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 1: What is this? 307 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. And I just think it's crazy too, 308 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 2: because are we losing sight of the fact that parents 309 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 2: can raise their children however they want to raise them. 310 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 2: But when you become an adult, you're going to form 311 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 2: your own opinions and you gonna live your life how 312 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 2: you see feet. Why does it always have to be 313 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 2: assumed that the parents didn't weren't in the household because 314 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 2: you grew up to be gay, or because I grew 315 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 2: up to have certain views, because when I was younger, 316 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 2: I didn't used to believe in monogamo, I mean not monogamy. 317 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 2: I didn't used to believe in marriage when I was younger, 318 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 2: and I used to talk about it on this show 319 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 2: all the time, and people used to be like, well, 320 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 2: that's crazy. She must not have had a dad in 321 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 2: the house. My parents were married my whole life. 322 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 5: My parents are still married, and I don't know if 323 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:32,920 Speaker 5: marriage is for me. 324 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 2: Right name and I still sometimes feel that way, but 325 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 2: it has nothing to do with my parents, because I'm 326 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 2: a grown ass woman who has formed my own opinions 327 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 2: and my own views based off of things that I 328 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 2: went through in life and things that I've seen. I 329 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 2: don't have to do things the way my parents do it. 330 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 4: I agree. 331 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 3: I think people like to minimize life experience they do 332 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 3: and what we go through, just in the dating world, 333 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 3: not even just dating, having friends or whatever your opinion 334 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 3: may be. It's like your parents can only do so much, 335 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 3: and because you do have to go out and live 336 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 3: in the real world by yourself, you do so I 337 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 3: do want to ask you about them. 338 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 4: Look now I told you you know I'm miss you. 339 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 4: Get another please, and now we're about to have it up. 340 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 6: I love a Holton Hall. 341 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 3: I can be loud this whole episode and nobody can 342 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:22,119 Speaker 3: tell me nothing. 343 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 4: See can you teach? Can you teach me? 344 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:30,919 Speaker 3: Before I get to the messic question, do you think 345 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 3: people can learn how to sing? Like you can teach 346 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:33,680 Speaker 3: someone how to sing? 347 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 5: I think anyone, as Stevie mack you said, anyone can 348 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 5: learn how to sing. I think I'm ready the the 349 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 5: the art of singing is just finding the note. But 350 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 5: I think when we're talking about being a singer. That's different, 351 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:52,160 Speaker 5: Like can you learn how to dance? Can you learn 352 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 5: how to step? On? Absolutely? You can learn how to 353 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,359 Speaker 5: step now? Can you dance? Can you do some Alvin 354 00:17:57,359 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 5: ale and and all that? 355 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:01,400 Speaker 1: It just depends. 356 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:01,879 Speaker 4: Okay. 357 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:03,720 Speaker 1: It's like how I can cook. 358 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 5: I can put eggs in the skillet, right, shake it up. 359 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:09,640 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not a chef. 360 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:13,360 Speaker 4: Okay, all right, can you teach me how to sing? 361 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 1: We can probably, I probably, I probably could at least 362 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 1: help you. I want to. I would. I would like 363 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 1: to hear what. 364 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 4: I got a little. 365 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 5: She got it, she got it, she got the whole time. 366 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 1: I feel like she might be second out tell I love. 367 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 3: Oh thank god I have my validation Grammy Award. 368 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 4: When the artist told me I got something, you can 369 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:37,400 Speaker 4: teach me something. 370 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 1: We're gonna get something together. 371 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 2: And then we just takes a little bit of training, 372 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 2: like all of the grades had a little bit. 373 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 5: Of had had teachers and okay, I'm ready, I'm ready. 374 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 4: Okay, So back to what I was saying. 375 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:53,359 Speaker 3: That's what I was saying this because you you on 376 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 3: the red carpet, you're doing it, and I love that 377 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 3: you go in these spaces and you are yourself, and 378 00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 3: I think you don't understand. 379 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:03,639 Speaker 4: How much like people relate to you because you. 380 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:06,680 Speaker 3: Know what I'm about to ask. Yes, you were hooting 381 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:10,199 Speaker 3: and hollering so bad, because I felt this before I 382 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:12,679 Speaker 3: did this before he was hooting and hollering on the 383 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 3: red carpet so bad. Lin Whitfield turns around and says. 384 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 5: Hey, hey, so real quick, which is funny because I 385 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 5: ain't saying muffin man since so this, this young lady 386 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:27,880 Speaker 5: walked up to me asked, mind you, I'm. 387 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: In the cut. 388 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 5: I'll be trying to be inconspicuous when I go out, 389 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:32,639 Speaker 5: genuinely like trying to be in the cut. But she 390 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 5: came up to me and was like, I just had 391 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:37,119 Speaker 5: a question. Do you know the muffing man? I said, no, baby, 392 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:41,239 Speaker 5: he passed. You didn't hear he did? He went on 393 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 5: the glory? Yes I didn't. 394 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: Not seriously. So here's what happened. 395 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 5: You know, the girls be getting excited, but they see me, 396 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 5: and of course they de scided that the sisters and 397 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,679 Speaker 5: sisters of a lot of a Layer, that they're the 398 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:56,400 Speaker 5: ones who who who who did that? Songs of Alai 399 00:19:56,400 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 5: in My Bad and the Leah Bless her Heart how 400 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:05,199 Speaker 5: you doing? She up here, getting excited as soon as 401 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 5: she's seen these two theater kids seeing each other. Yeah, 402 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 5: and I'm trying to keep it cute. I said, do 403 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 5: you know, okay, keep it like that, and then she 404 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 5: kept going yes, I know, yes, yeah, And I'm the 405 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:23,679 Speaker 5: closest to Lin, So she said, excuse me. 406 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,640 Speaker 2: And as soon as I said y'all, y'all was y'all 407 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 2: was gag. 408 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 5: I was like, no, you have to understand how how 409 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:35,119 Speaker 5: much I lived for that moment, truly, like and utterly, 410 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:43,360 Speaker 5: because you rarely get to see millennials and boomers interact genuinely, 411 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:47,120 Speaker 5: not on screen, not on script, but genuinely, and we 412 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 5: respect her. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. That is 413 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 5: absolutely Auntie. That's that's our mother, that's our grandmother, you 414 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:54,919 Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. So it's like, there's absolutely a 415 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 5: respect for that. And she wasn't disrespectful it all. And 416 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:03,399 Speaker 5: of course she's like, it's the p ovs. Human beings 417 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 5: are so complex, Yes, hilarious, Like, I love that moment. 418 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 5: And then that later that night I saw her and 419 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:15,520 Speaker 5: had a cracking up again. 420 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:18,480 Speaker 2: Oh good, if it's a picture in the dictionary, hoot, 421 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 2: and Halloween next to it. It would have been that moment. Okay, Yeah, 422 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 2: that's the diffy excuse. 423 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 1: Over there. 424 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 3: You handled it so well because I'm not gonna lie 425 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 3: with the influencers and the girls and the actors and 426 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 3: actresses and singers these days othermen like but do you know, hun, 427 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:41,960 Speaker 3: they would have been disrespectful. 428 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: And foremost. 429 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:48,959 Speaker 5: If if it was never known or realized in that moment, 430 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 5: specifically me and Lee. 431 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 1: Of course, we are all just children. 432 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:59,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, we are all children operating these adult bodies seriously 433 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:04,400 Speaker 5: and truly, like we're not our brain. Legally, there's adulthood 434 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,680 Speaker 5: and then there's biologically. Twenty five is when your brain 435 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 5: fucking forms and fuses up. Okay, so technically then we 436 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 5: should be twelve of you. 437 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: I got twelve years of adult life experience. 438 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I see what you're saying. Yeah, so twenty five 439 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:22,719 Speaker 4: is when we are. 440 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 1: Yes, So how old is y'all? 441 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:34,120 Speaker 5: We're the same eight twelve this year you'll be telling 442 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 5: wonderful Okay, So we have to really tap in with 443 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 5: our inner children too. 444 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 2: You're right, and I mean and also too, when it 445 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:44,439 Speaker 2: comes to these new influencers like gen Z and stuff, 446 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 2: they don't even be knowing who our legiends are. Half 447 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:49,399 Speaker 2: the time may be thinking bust the rhymes as Tracy Morgan, 448 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:49,879 Speaker 2: what was that? 449 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 1: What was that? Who was that? One? 450 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:51,640 Speaker 7: Ask? 451 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 1: What was that one? To? Talking about them as an 452 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:58,439 Speaker 1: up and coming actor of God? He was talking, Uh, 453 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 1: I said up and coming? 454 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,119 Speaker 3: He said up and coming. I couldn't finish the clip 455 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 3: till this day. I didn't finish the clip because I. 456 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: Was day Yeah, let me take this. 457 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 6: I'm selling. 458 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:19,719 Speaker 3: It's crazy for him to yes, he said up and coming? 459 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:20,679 Speaker 1: Up and coming? 460 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 4: Is I don't play with me? 461 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:24,880 Speaker 2: He like, oh my lid I had. 462 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 4: I'm telling up and coming is crazy. 463 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 3: But I think that it's a certain level of respect 464 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 3: that we as millennials have that like I wish the 465 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 3: new generation would learn. 466 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:37,679 Speaker 4: And I hate to say that because I sound like. 467 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 2: An aunty and I am un Yeah. 468 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 5: Well, you also have to consider that there are a 469 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:52,160 Speaker 5: lot of us now that are not taking disrespect from 470 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,400 Speaker 5: some of our elders. And I'll say this a lot 471 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,880 Speaker 5: of times when you have people reiterating over and over 472 00:23:58,920 --> 00:23:59,919 Speaker 5: how grown they are. 473 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:01,720 Speaker 1: That's a that's a wounded child. 474 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 4: Mm hmm. 475 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: That's a wounded child that was. 476 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,600 Speaker 5: Not heard that that that had to fight for attention 477 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 5: or didn't get any at all, And so now that 478 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 5: they have a voice, they're like, you're not gonna You're 479 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:11,800 Speaker 5: not gonna treat me like that. You're not I'm gonna. 480 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,879 Speaker 5: I'm grown. I'm It's like m m. Anybody that's an 481 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 5: adult doesn't have to iterate it. 482 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 4: But we're only twelve. 483 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 1: Announce it. We are, we are. I've never said I 484 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:22,920 Speaker 1: was grown. I'm growing? 485 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 4: Right? 486 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 5: What? 487 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:25,880 Speaker 2: What? 488 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,440 Speaker 1: What? What? What? Auntie said? Whatever? It's not growing is dead. 489 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 1: So when they say you're grown. 490 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:31,960 Speaker 5: I said, oh, yeah, you know what that means, right, 491 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 5: Grown means something that's reached its full potential and they got. 492 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,680 Speaker 1: Nowhere else to go. Is this it is as good 493 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 1: as it gonna be because I'm not impressed, all. 494 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 4: Right, now that's a good that's a way. Yeah, that is. 495 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,760 Speaker 1: I'm always growing, Yes, And. 496 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 2: I don't know. Respect was just different with our generation, 497 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:49,919 Speaker 2: Like he said, I mean, I think a lot of 498 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:51,600 Speaker 2: the time these days, people feel like they got to 499 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 2: put their foot down, like, oh no, you're not about 500 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 2: to disrespect me or you're not about to play me, 501 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 2: to the point that these kids just don't have no 502 00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:58,880 Speaker 2: respect for the elders. No more. 503 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,439 Speaker 5: Well, the is gonna be respectful too, just because you 504 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 5: don't mean that you are gonna respect it, just because 505 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:04,439 Speaker 5: you old don't mean that you. 506 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 2: Why just because you all them? You can't get your 507 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:07,399 Speaker 2: ass with that part. 508 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 5: Seriously, Speaking of that, I'm all for children whooping their 509 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:14,880 Speaker 5: parents ass. 510 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,879 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I am. 511 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:24,360 Speaker 5: No no, no, no, because children are the most underprivileged people period, 512 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 5: they are most unprotected. It literally states that say you 513 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 5: can beat your child's ass legally. 514 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 3: Well maybe because I'm thinking about my nephews, I. 515 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:38,240 Speaker 2: Think if your parents are beating you, like physically abused, 516 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:40,120 Speaker 2: you gotta you can put your foot up the ass. 517 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,640 Speaker 1: No, but but anything, if you pop me, you get 518 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:44,120 Speaker 1: popped back. 519 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 4: Not a pop. 520 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 1: No, yes, a pop. 521 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 5: Any kind of any kind of physical anything. 522 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 2: So you didn't get pop growing up. 523 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 5: I didn't say I didn't get popped, But I also 524 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:59,679 Speaker 5: didn't deserve any of that. You no no, When I 525 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 5: tell you the actual punishment versus what was actually going 526 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 5: on was never that necessary. When you have someone in 527 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 5: the house who's presence, their presence alone is intimidating, I 528 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,560 Speaker 5: agree with you don't have to put your hands on 529 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,440 Speaker 5: me and my inner child is in the driver's seat 530 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 5: right now. I'm very turned about parents who say they 531 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 5: put their hands on kids because I was a child. 532 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 5: I remember it very vividly name and it's not okay. 533 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 5: It's never been okay. And if you hold on, go ahead. 534 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:31,120 Speaker 5: And if you can't find healthy ways to communicate with 535 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 5: an underdeveloped brain that is outside of physical abuse or 536 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 5: any kind of physical punishment, then you're not fit to 537 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,680 Speaker 5: be a parent. You need to regulate your emotions because 538 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 5: you want somebody with the underdeveloped brain to regulate their emotions. 539 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:45,880 Speaker 1: And you can't even regulate yours. 540 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 5: And yet if you and yet, if you put your 541 00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 5: hands on another adult, that's assault, you will go to jail. 542 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,120 Speaker 5: So why is it that you can't go to jail 543 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 5: for a child? Because children aren't even viewed as people. 544 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,240 Speaker 2: And let's chat about it. Because a lot of parents, 545 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 2: they're raised me children, they raise them, but they wasn't 546 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 2: equipped to be parents. 547 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:04,679 Speaker 4: They were always pro choice. 548 00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 3: But I will say now, I do agree with you, because. 549 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:10,879 Speaker 2: They should have got rid of them. 550 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 5: No, no, some some some some some some of that 551 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,400 Speaker 5: some of that lineas should have stopped with them. 552 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, some of that should have stopped. It should have 553 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 1: just stopped. 554 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,400 Speaker 5: It should have stoped with you, you continuing some bullshit, 555 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,640 Speaker 5: You continuing your continuing liability instead of an asset. 556 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,439 Speaker 3: So I'm kind of like in between on it because 557 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 3: I don't have kids, but I do have nephews. My 558 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:33,159 Speaker 3: sister doesn't spank my nephews. And you know, my oldest 559 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,720 Speaker 3: nephew's well behaved. He doesn't the youngest one. Y'all know 560 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,400 Speaker 3: how the youngest kids are. They yeah, looking run crazy. 561 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,720 Speaker 3: But when I think about like the whoopings I got 562 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 3: growing up, do I think it affected me? No, But 563 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 3: I will say it was one whooping that I got 564 00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 3: from somebody. 565 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 4: In the family. I'll say that because I don't because 566 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:53,959 Speaker 4: people watch the show up. 567 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:55,400 Speaker 2: But it wasn't your mom. 568 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 3: No, it wasn't my mom. And it was with a 569 00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,159 Speaker 3: switch I had to go. Y'all, remember that you had 570 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,439 Speaker 3: a goal pick this wit. Now, when I think of 571 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 3: instance like that, what in the fuck are you doing 572 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 3: hitting somebody with a stick with thorns on it? 573 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,639 Speaker 1: Well, you know that's well that it was abused. 574 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 2: It. 575 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, well it's sexualized. It's sexualized violence. Hold on, wait 576 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 5: a minute, Oh yeah, see what happens is and this 577 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 5: was someone Stacey Stacy Patt and I do believe she 578 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,680 Speaker 5: did a book called Spanking Kids Won't Save America, something 579 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 5: like spanking Black kids Won't Save America. But she said 580 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 5: that that beating a black child is one of the 581 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 5: whitest things that you can do. It is one of 582 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 5: the whitest things that you can do to a black child, Okay. 583 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:45,240 Speaker 5: And she was also talking about the the what is 584 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 5: the study of something like going all the way back 585 00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 5: to its origins. Corporate punishment never was with us, that 586 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 5: never came from us. That was something that was given 587 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,240 Speaker 5: to us, right and. 588 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 1: Yet we're still and we're still doing it. 589 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 4: It's embedded us. 590 00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 5: And if you but but her question was also the 591 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,960 Speaker 5: whole thing about sexualized violence is when you are spanking 592 00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 5: a someone on on the on the butt, it is 593 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 5: also activating all of these other nerve endings in your genitals. 594 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,600 Speaker 5: So you're experiencing your body doesn't know as a child, 595 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 5: your body doesn't know how to distinguish the pain from 596 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 5: the pleasure. 597 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: And so. 598 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:20,960 Speaker 5: You're you're you're discovering what this is doing to your body. 599 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:22,560 Speaker 5: And so now I'm in the shower thinking like, wait 600 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:23,880 Speaker 5: a minute, is that why I like to get my 601 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 5: ass lap, like what's going on or like or why 602 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 5: people like to get choked. There's certain things that that 603 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 5: that that that implement itself into our sex lives because 604 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,280 Speaker 5: of the things that we experience as children. But that's 605 00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 5: why it's like, it's not it's not healthy, it's not damn. 606 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 3: I never looked at it like, yeah, I'm not being 607 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:44,760 Speaker 3: I'm gonna send you a link to the book. 608 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 7: Yes you could. 609 00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, because that is a really good point though, when 610 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 2: you think about, like where the beating, spankings, all of 611 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 2: these things being punished me come from slavery. 612 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, it definitely did. And I'm not trying to be funny. 613 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:57,160 Speaker 3: I do enjoy being Spain. 614 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 2: I mean dove spine count yeah, little consenting Yeah. 615 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:04,320 Speaker 3: But I mean I think that's a good point to 616 00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 3: make though, because I do feel like if I ever 617 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 3: do decide to have kids, I'm gonna take the route. 618 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 4: And my sister's like, I'm. 619 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 3: Not doing because it is a then line because sometimes 620 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 3: people are like, oh, y'all are soft, y'all don't understand 621 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 3: and this at X y Z. 622 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 4: But I do think there is a line. 623 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,360 Speaker 5: You're soft because you don't want bruises right, you're soft 624 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 5: because you don't want your flesh to be torn. 625 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think that's a good point that you made, 626 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:28,640 Speaker 3: But your presence is intimidating. 627 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:34,479 Speaker 5: Appearance disappointment should be enough to make your knees weakend. 628 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 2: And also just looking back on it and thinking about 629 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 2: when we war getting with me is when we were kids. 630 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 2: What the fuck did that really do? Though in the moment, 631 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 2: you was crying, you was hurt, and he was like, Okay, 632 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,160 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do this again. Next week, you at 633 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 2: school doing the same shit. I used to get whoopings 634 00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 2: all the time for like talking during class and stuff, 635 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:55,960 Speaker 2: and then I would do it again the next. 636 00:30:55,680 --> 00:31:03,000 Speaker 1: Week and stove. 637 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,160 Speaker 2: In the first class because not my mama. 638 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 1: Reaping the benefits that part, that part somebody else. 639 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 2: A little reparation. 640 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 4: I agree with you. I like that. 641 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:12,960 Speaker 6: Okay, this was very. 642 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 4: I want that link now. 643 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:18,440 Speaker 5: I got Seriously, I'm very pro children's rights. 644 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 2: Okay, So we're gonna get into the first topic, which 645 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,320 Speaker 2: is kind of like a game. So we're gonna play 646 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 2: a game called Singing in the Background, and it's gonna 647 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 2: be lead versus background battle. So we're gonna basically sing 648 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,680 Speaker 2: a song we're gonna pick a song. One person is 649 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 2: the lead singer and the other two are the dramatic 650 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 2: background singers trying to steal the month. And the reason 651 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 2: that we wanted to do this is because you started 652 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:50,600 Speaker 2: off background singing. How do you feel like you being 653 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:53,760 Speaker 2: a background singer helped with y'all confidence becoming the league. 654 00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,000 Speaker 5: I was already my own artist before I got into 655 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:06,600 Speaker 5: the background, but theater is what helped sharpen my duality 656 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 5: from being in the ensemble as well as doing your 657 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 5: own things. So when it's time for you to do 658 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 5: your own thing, you work that stage back and forth, 659 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 5: you cut up, and then when it's time for the 660 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 5: bigger picture of things, you blend in. You lose your 661 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 5: identity to max someone else's. So it just it helped. 662 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 5: It created my duality a skill because and also because 663 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 5: I have my grantmy I'm still doing background Oh yeah, 664 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 5: I will never not have work. You know, when there's 665 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 5: no ego involved, when you do it just because you 666 00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 5: genuinely love your art and you want to help wherever 667 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 5: you can, Like I will always always be in the 668 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:51,920 Speaker 5: midst of things. 669 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 2: And that's a good point about the ego. A lot 670 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:57,280 Speaker 2: of the time, people will cut, they hand off, or 671 00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 2: just don't want to be a part of something just 672 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,400 Speaker 2: because they don't because they can't be the leader. 673 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, no it doesn't. It doesn't have to be 674 00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:06,840 Speaker 5: about me all the time. I can be about the 675 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,479 Speaker 5: bigger picture. It doesn't have to be the center. You 676 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 5: have to step back to be able to see where 677 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 5: I am contributing to this thing. 678 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 4: Correct me if I'm wrong. 679 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:17,480 Speaker 1: I can't get wrong. 680 00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 3: You made a TikTok video because somebody was like, we 681 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,960 Speaker 3: want to see uh Duran on Broadway. 682 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 4: We want to see him do more. 683 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,960 Speaker 3: We want You were like, I'm trying, but it was like, 684 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:31,880 Speaker 3: so talk about that. 685 00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, No. 686 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 5: I auditioned for for dream Girls for Jimmy Early, and 687 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,160 Speaker 5: I should. I should upload my audition, you have to. 688 00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:47,400 Speaker 5: But uh they did not call me back. And a 689 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 5: part of me felt very relieved because if I had 690 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 5: won this Grammy and then I'm also about to do 691 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 5: dream Girls and I'm already all over the place like 692 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,680 Speaker 5: I would have, I would have been exhausted to know 693 00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:00,760 Speaker 5: and I already know. 694 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:01,920 Speaker 1: And that is. 695 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:06,240 Speaker 5: A lifestyle, like that is eight shows a week. 696 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:10,280 Speaker 1: That's like eight shows a week. You're only off days. 697 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:14,319 Speaker 3: What Monday, Now, we got to send prayers up to 698 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:14,839 Speaker 3: our girl Mars. 699 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:21,160 Speaker 4: She went to the hospital who did dehydration exhaustion. 700 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 5: Yes, it's like that kind of acted like that's Broadway 701 00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:32,640 Speaker 5: is like the Olympics. Like no, I'm talking not the Olympics, 702 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 5: the Marines of like theater in the theater world like 703 00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:43,360 Speaker 5: you like you are going. Yeah, so I in my 704 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:47,520 Speaker 5: mind I would. I would have still done it just 705 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,239 Speaker 5: because for the experience, of course, because I've never done 706 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:54,640 Speaker 5: Broadway before, but also Broadway isn't going anywhere. Yeah, and 707 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,799 Speaker 5: I'm open to whatever makes sense, you know what I 708 00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:01,960 Speaker 5: can cram in, you know, because people need to see me, 709 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 5: they need to see me. Yeah, absolutely agree, we do. 710 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 3: Yes, you're gonna have an egot. I can feel it 711 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:10,760 Speaker 3: in my bones. 712 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 1: Speaking of that word. You need to finish that song. 713 00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:20,280 Speaker 2: Oh I want to hear we got a little teaser. Okay, 714 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:20,919 Speaker 2: go ahead, but. 715 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 1: You know we do. 716 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:26,600 Speaker 2: We do it because I asked the damn question before 717 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 2: we got into the game. 718 00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 6: That's all right, that's all right, okay. 719 00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:32,960 Speaker 2: For the first song is Diary Alicia Keys who want. 720 00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:33,200 Speaker 4: To be the lead. 721 00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 3: I think we needed to skip to the chorse so 722 00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:36,920 Speaker 3: he can do the background part, right. 723 00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:39,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, but one person gotta be the lead and the 724 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 2: other people got to be the background. 725 00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we can just do. We can just 726 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 3: want do the I won't tell part. Okay, okay, won't. 727 00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:55,400 Speaker 7: Tell till your secret with me? 728 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:09,759 Speaker 6: Won't won't, won't, won't your secret? 729 00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 7: You sets. 730 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,800 Speaker 1: Hear that, though, Oh hear her? She was. She was 731 00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:17,399 Speaker 1: in Keyden first and first two takes. 732 00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:18,879 Speaker 4: I get a little carried away. 733 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 1: She did. 734 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 5: But for her to not have no music and for 735 00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 5: her to start, I'm like, okay, since I see you, 736 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 5: I'm ready. 737 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,080 Speaker 1: For another one. 738 00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:26,920 Speaker 2: Which one we're gonna do? 739 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,839 Speaker 4: Niggs? Oh you know what? This is an easy one 740 00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 4: week s w me. You don't do a good background 741 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:34,839 Speaker 4: on that one? Because I did? 742 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:40,560 Speaker 2: They got back, Yeah they do, Okay, I'm sure they do. 743 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:45,960 Speaker 2: Is so weak in the niece, I can hardly speak. 744 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:49,440 Speaker 6: I lose all the roll and up and take. 745 00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:54,080 Speaker 7: It so amazing. 746 00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:57,239 Speaker 4: You save. 747 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:03,960 Speaker 2: Up right love, it's so sweet and knocks me right 748 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:05,080 Speaker 2: off of my feet. 749 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 6: Can love and make me. 750 00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 4: A boy? 751 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:20,879 Speaker 2: Just background niggas beat up. They'll be trying to take 752 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:35,359 Speaker 2: I said, way, yeah that boy good? That was really? 753 00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:36,319 Speaker 3: What do you want to do. 754 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,319 Speaker 2: I want to do ready or not, but I don't 755 00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,640 Speaker 2: know all the lerics we can do. King's stay in 756 00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 2: the ring. Okay, okay, we're gonna do the court. We're 757 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 2: gonna jump into the court. We will mean the main. 758 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:53,560 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, okay, you're gonna do the main part. Yes, okay, 759 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:54,640 Speaker 4: you gotta start it. 760 00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:56,320 Speaker 2: Yeah you sunny days. 761 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,640 Speaker 1: That's the chorus. Y'all doing ground. I'm doing. 762 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:01,680 Speaker 2: We do a background. 763 00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:02,319 Speaker 4: We don't do back. 764 00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 1: I gotta doing. 765 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 6: You don't all the line. 766 00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:08,720 Speaker 1: We were professional. 767 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:17,239 Speaker 5: Calling shur on you cause. 768 00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:27,120 Speaker 2: Honey, body who will stand by times bad times? 769 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 1: You will away? 770 00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 8: You come on dynamic, always be right there, sidy. 771 00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:41,759 Speaker 9: Everybody lovesting can tell me. 772 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:53,959 Speaker 8: Yes, keny stop, I know I know all today for sure? 773 00:38:54,160 --> 00:39:48,560 Speaker 8: This sign for sure, Ganes. Can you standing on. 774 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,840 Speaker 2: The bread and mills? Phenomenal because it was real close. 775 00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:34,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, thank you. 776 00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:37,279 Speaker 4: Check this out. 777 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 5: Check this out. That's what you do. That's what you do. 778 00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:40,560 Speaker 5: Okay you check you got this. It's one of the secrets. 779 00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 5: Get you some tongue jail and a tongue brush. 780 00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:46,839 Speaker 2: Now I got the tongue tongue jail. 781 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:48,640 Speaker 5: It breaks up so you can either do that or 782 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,920 Speaker 5: use therap flu the mouthwash, but it breaks up the 783 00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:54,800 Speaker 5: white coating on your on your tongue. That's what smells, 784 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 5: not your teeth, it's your tongue. 785 00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 1: Sometimes it be there rotten to it can be that too. 786 00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,680 Speaker 5: But for those of us to be smoking and the 787 00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:11,680 Speaker 5: Backwood brothers and sisters today waking back with y'all, Okay. 788 00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,640 Speaker 3: I'm not alive. I'm glad we brought up breath, y'all. 789 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 3: I went to my I've been talking about her all. 790 00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:19,920 Speaker 3: I got my teeth clean. I went to J L 791 00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:23,720 Speaker 3: M Dentistry in Atlanta. It's a black, totally black dentist office. 792 00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:25,719 Speaker 3: Nothing but black women in there. 793 00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,440 Speaker 4: I had a ball when I tell you, I was 794 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,200 Speaker 4: like this, gums just swollen. 795 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:31,600 Speaker 7: Yeah. 796 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,759 Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, I was telling the ball. It was 797 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,160 Speaker 4: a great cleaning. 798 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 7: Oh my god. 799 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:38,680 Speaker 1: So yeah, see black women. 800 00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,399 Speaker 3: Yes, we need more black women in the medical field. 801 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,000 Speaker 3: It's a lot of them already. What I'm saying, we 802 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 3: should shine the lights on them. So I just I'm 803 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:50,400 Speaker 3: glad we brought that up. Okay, period, I know that one. 804 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:56,840 Speaker 1: For the sun for the. 805 00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,759 Speaker 4: Okay, can I tell you well, queen, Okay, go ahead. 806 00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:07,040 Speaker 2: The drink to what are we drinking this week? Because 807 00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,240 Speaker 2: this is so for one, this is for the Grammy 808 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 2: Award winning baby I've been flouncing through my garden. This 809 00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:22,759 Speaker 2: one is gonna be called bloom in honor of his 810 00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:26,759 Speaker 2: Grammy Award winning ol. And we have some tequila in there. 811 00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:29,120 Speaker 2: We have some greens, which is like more of an 812 00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 2: herbal liqueur. We have a little bit of elder flower, 813 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:35,319 Speaker 2: some pineapple, and some lime, and just the splash of 814 00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,560 Speaker 2: a gave if you wanted a little on their sweeter side, 815 00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:40,040 Speaker 2: and a splash of prosecco to give it some effervescence. 816 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:42,400 Speaker 2: And then, because we're in our garden playing with all 817 00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:45,239 Speaker 2: of these fun ingredients, we garnished this one with a 818 00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:47,280 Speaker 2: blue orchid. All right, So this. 819 00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:53,920 Speaker 4: Is the bloom Y. 820 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,640 Speaker 3: I'm having a ball with me. I love when we 821 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:57,200 Speaker 3: have fun. Guess like, I'm having so much fun. 822 00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:02,799 Speaker 4: Thank you let me because like I really. 823 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,920 Speaker 3: Wanted you to come on the show because I had 824 00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:08,279 Speaker 3: to tell you so you probably I don't know if 825 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:11,000 Speaker 3: you remember this or not, because y'all follow each other. 826 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,719 Speaker 2: Right, yes, me and him followed each other. But if 827 00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:13,480 Speaker 2: you're about to talk, are. 828 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,120 Speaker 4: You tell them about the day yes, so we met you. 829 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,680 Speaker 2: I saw you a few weeks ago and at that 830 00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 2: part at my Ley's party. 831 00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:21,360 Speaker 6: And I was like, remember me from KIVS. 832 00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,000 Speaker 1: Yes, so I have to. 833 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,799 Speaker 4: Tell you a story about that day. So we filmed. 834 00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:29,480 Speaker 3: Churchy right and your part that we were in with you, 835 00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:30,120 Speaker 3: that was our ones. 836 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:31,839 Speaker 4: It was hilarious, mind you. 837 00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,200 Speaker 3: But before you know, we were like all on set, 838 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,359 Speaker 3: like all day, kind of waiting around and we were 839 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,920 Speaker 3: like in the little waiting area and you and Dre 840 00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:40,920 Speaker 3: were over there just having a key, like. 841 00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,239 Speaker 4: Having a good time. Let me tell you something. I 842 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:44,560 Speaker 4: was in the corner. I felt so bad. I was 843 00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:46,040 Speaker 4: like I want to Tom, but I'm gonna feel good. 844 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,120 Speaker 4: I had my diaper on. I had a diaper on. 845 00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,920 Speaker 3: Because I had a heavy flow and I was sick. 846 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,319 Speaker 3: I had fibroids and things going on, and I was 847 00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,279 Speaker 3: so sick child, and I remember that day. I was like, Hi, 848 00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:58,120 Speaker 3: I met you too, I like singing DMS. I was like, 849 00:42:58,160 --> 00:42:59,520 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry because I was being so many. 850 00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 4: You didn't even open and read it. 851 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:03,239 Speaker 1: Oh lot, I didn't see that. 852 00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:05,799 Speaker 3: But I felt so bad because I was literally in 853 00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:07,040 Speaker 3: the corner like dying. 854 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:08,040 Speaker 4: Y'all were just over. 855 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:12,160 Speaker 2: There we would y'all are having a ball. 856 00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:15,239 Speaker 1: I really hate that for y'all, like that. 857 00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:18,719 Speaker 4: Is just I was literally I had a diaper on. 858 00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:19,239 Speaker 4: I thought. 859 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:20,880 Speaker 3: I got up and walked by y' I'm like, he 860 00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:26,200 Speaker 3: can hear me coming was just a crunching tie, not. 861 00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:29,359 Speaker 1: A crunk nor help me. 862 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,279 Speaker 4: But I'm better now, Yes, I'm better now, you know 863 00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:35,000 Speaker 4: what I'm saying. So I was like, oh my god, I. 864 00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,359 Speaker 3: Bet he thinks I'm just like so nasty and so 865 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,360 Speaker 3: rude because I felt like Dre was over there, you know, 866 00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,279 Speaker 3: talking and y'all were just I was just looking over 867 00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:43,600 Speaker 3: there like it's okay. 868 00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,080 Speaker 1: You know. Honestly though, if I'm if I'm being you. 869 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,200 Speaker 4: Don't remember, I don't. 870 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 5: And when she said when she said that me and 871 00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:54,200 Speaker 5: her was kid and I said, oh, that checks out. 872 00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,160 Speaker 1: I don't remember that either. I'm just like, you know 873 00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:56,600 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. 874 00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,120 Speaker 3: So it's just but thinking how life goes by like 875 00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:01,280 Speaker 3: I had in that moment. 876 00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,040 Speaker 4: For years, I have been cringing in that moment and thinking. 877 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:07,280 Speaker 3: About He probably thinks he wouldn't even think about it. 878 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:09,920 Speaker 2: That's when I seen him at the party. I don't know, No, 879 00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 2: I remember, well, you were like you look familiar, and 880 00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 2: I was like from keV Show and you was. 881 00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:17,200 Speaker 1: Like oh yeah a lot of times. 882 00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:19,520 Speaker 5: So here's the thing, and this is what I've had 883 00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:23,080 Speaker 5: to get adjusted to, not adjusted, but it's still one 884 00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,239 Speaker 5: of those things where I have to remember a lot 885 00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:29,440 Speaker 5: of people know my face, they don't know me personally. 886 00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,799 Speaker 5: And so there would be a time where if you 887 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,400 Speaker 5: were if I was out and about and someone called 888 00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:39,440 Speaker 5: my name, I knew it had to be somebody that 889 00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,760 Speaker 5: I knew, because you're not finna say. 890 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:43,759 Speaker 1: Like know me. 891 00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:47,600 Speaker 5: So when I started getting caught like that by strangers, 892 00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:53,200 Speaker 5: it's like, okay, bad, like not them. So and also 893 00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:56,960 Speaker 5: I don't know where I've seen certain people from, Like 894 00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:58,200 Speaker 5: I'm like, I know I've seen you, I don't know 895 00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,239 Speaker 5: if we've met in person, or we've actually met over 896 00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:03,760 Speaker 5: you've just seen each other on social media, or it'll 897 00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:06,919 Speaker 5: it'll be something. And it's not that I've ever been fake. 898 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,520 Speaker 5: It's it's not that I don't think I remember you. 899 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,560 Speaker 5: It's never been that ship. It's just that I would 900 00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:15,600 Speaker 5: have a very brief encounter with people and then they 901 00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:20,520 Speaker 5: will see me some weeks or months or years later, 902 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,040 Speaker 5: Remember you saw me at that party years ago when 903 00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:24,840 Speaker 5: we had that brief encounter for ten seconds. 904 00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:27,360 Speaker 1: I don't but we're meeting again. 905 00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:31,200 Speaker 3: Now, but you aren't like you're not You're not a 906 00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 3: forgetable person if I'm you know what I'm saying. 907 00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:39,279 Speaker 2: So, And it also didn't give that either, Like it 908 00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,799 Speaker 2: was like while you talk about y'all, No, yeah, when 909 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:43,440 Speaker 2: I met you, when I saw you a few weeks ago, 910 00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:45,160 Speaker 2: it didn't give that at all. I was just like 911 00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,120 Speaker 2: it was a long ass time ago, and. 912 00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:49,560 Speaker 5: I'm always introducing myself to you because I don't know 913 00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:53,040 Speaker 5: who knows me. Also, so it's like that's just a 914 00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:54,000 Speaker 5: natural thing that I do. 915 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:55,080 Speaker 1: Hi, I'm during you know. 916 00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well now I feel relieved. 917 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 4: I'm my good. Yes, Okay, Now, y'all know. 918 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:09,759 Speaker 3: I got to bring up random ship, but we don't 919 00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:11,480 Speaker 3: get into the second topic. I'm gonna wait to bring 920 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,000 Speaker 3: that up later because I got some I got a 921 00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:16,040 Speaker 3: little bone to pick with you. But topic too. When 922 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:22,160 Speaker 3: people with no style get money, is it crings or 923 00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:22,800 Speaker 3: are we hating? 924 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:23,080 Speaker 4: Okay? 925 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,120 Speaker 3: Do you ever look at wealthy people with new or 926 00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,319 Speaker 3: old money and think, ooh, God be giving money to 927 00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:29,920 Speaker 3: the wrong people. Why do some wealthy people sometimes have 928 00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,000 Speaker 3: the worst tasting everything home. 929 00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:35,359 Speaker 4: To car, cars, shoes, whatever it may be. 930 00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:39,879 Speaker 3: Now it's just lighthearted. We don't have to get nasty. 931 00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:41,640 Speaker 3: But have you ever seen somebody with money and be. 932 00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:45,560 Speaker 4: Like, why was that the choice? Why did you make 933 00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:46,160 Speaker 4: that decision? 934 00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:47,920 Speaker 3: Because I mean you go on the red carpets. 935 00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:49,680 Speaker 4: I mean you see what people got on. 936 00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:53,680 Speaker 3: They' even like not even feel about style in Hollywood. 937 00:46:54,360 --> 00:47:00,880 Speaker 5: So I want to first preface by saying that I 938 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:07,279 Speaker 5: am not a fashion expertise some fabrics I couldn't tell 939 00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:09,560 Speaker 5: you what it was. I know what cotton is, I think, 940 00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:10,239 Speaker 5: I know that's all. 941 00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:11,000 Speaker 1: I think. 942 00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:13,279 Speaker 5: I know the difference between silk and satin helped me. 943 00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:18,439 Speaker 5: But outside of that, like thin heavy on the scene, 944 00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 5: but outside of that, like I. 945 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:24,120 Speaker 1: Just go with what makes me feel good. 946 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,799 Speaker 5: If I put it on and I feel confident, if 947 00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:28,520 Speaker 5: I feel like, oh, I like I like how this, 948 00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:30,759 Speaker 5: I can move my legs, I can do all that, 949 00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:35,000 Speaker 5: like it does this. And then there are pieces that 950 00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:37,920 Speaker 5: I've seen that I'm like. 951 00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,319 Speaker 1: This looks you just made that up. 952 00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:45,160 Speaker 6: It looks like you've. 953 00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:47,480 Speaker 5: Just made that up and you're calling it high fashion, 954 00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:53,280 Speaker 5: like Balinciaga making trash bags or remember in balloon booth. 955 00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,040 Speaker 1: Or just just just certain things. 956 00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:57,520 Speaker 7: I'm like. 957 00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 5: It is it because of the brand, It's because of 958 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:05,000 Speaker 5: the label. It's obviously because of the label. 959 00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:06,160 Speaker 1: You know so. 960 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:09,799 Speaker 5: But I'm not a I just know what looks, what 961 00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,120 Speaker 5: I would wear. I can only go off of that, 962 00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:16,680 Speaker 5: and my style and sense of fashion has absolutely evolved 963 00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:19,120 Speaker 5: over the years because I have a stylist. We need 964 00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:21,760 Speaker 5: an adult when we do certain things like getting dressed 965 00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:22,359 Speaker 5: to go for. 966 00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:23,360 Speaker 2: The car red carpet. 967 00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:26,120 Speaker 5: Can't be twelve up, Okay, we cannot leave that to 968 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 5: the children. 969 00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:33,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, see yes. 970 00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:35,520 Speaker 2: I feel like when you go into a red carpet event, 971 00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:38,320 Speaker 2: like you absolutely should get a stylis I mean unless 972 00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:41,760 Speaker 2: you just really like that? Yeah, unless you got. 973 00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:44,000 Speaker 5: It like that, I will say to Dolly, I will say, 974 00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:49,000 Speaker 5: getting to this point in my career now where I 975 00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:52,799 Speaker 5: can't go out unless I'm dressed is actually a littlennoying. 976 00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:55,680 Speaker 2: You feel like you overthink what you're about to put on. 977 00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 1: It's not about what I overthink. 978 00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,960 Speaker 5: I can't go out and be seen in something look 979 00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,719 Speaker 5: and crazy because I'm good for wearing the same thing 980 00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:03,239 Speaker 5: all the time. 981 00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:07,080 Speaker 1: Garments are meant to be worn I got my fair 982 00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:08,600 Speaker 1: I got my favorite docs, I got. 983 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:13,080 Speaker 5: My favorite highwaist of blue jeans and my black blazer. 984 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:15,600 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, I'm I'm. 985 00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:19,239 Speaker 5: Very simple, I'm not naturally in my natural set. I 986 00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:23,200 Speaker 5: don't I'm not a flashy person. Yeah, you know, it's 987 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:26,080 Speaker 5: very it's very chill, but it's stylish, but it's chill. 988 00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:29,480 Speaker 5: And so when I'm at the point of my career 989 00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:31,600 Speaker 5: where when I want to go to a screening or 990 00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:33,920 Speaker 5: I want to go to a premiere of something of 991 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:37,799 Speaker 5: a sort, and it's necess not necessarily anything on the 992 00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,839 Speaker 5: on the calendar for us to have to do, it's like, well, 993 00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:42,040 Speaker 5: you know, you got to get style for that. 994 00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:42,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 995 00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:43,640 Speaker 1: It's like. 996 00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:50,600 Speaker 5: I can't even go outside without having to be dressed up. 997 00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 5: So that ugh, Like I'm annoyed, Like I know, first 998 00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:57,400 Speaker 5: world problems, but that's, oh. 999 00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:00,560 Speaker 4: My god, silence, I have to put on these nice No. 1000 00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:03,440 Speaker 5: No, I can't go out unless I'm stopping costs to 1001 00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:06,400 Speaker 5: go outside. Yeah, if I want to go out to 1002 00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:11,000 Speaker 5: the club, I need security. Yeah, that's absolutely that is 1003 00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:12,759 Speaker 5: a band to go outside. 1004 00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:14,799 Speaker 2: So when you gonna study with parlay. 1005 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:19,200 Speaker 5: Kind honestly though, up if I'm being I don't. 1006 00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:19,479 Speaker 1: Like the club. 1007 00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:22,000 Speaker 2: I don't like the clubs because the sections got. 1008 00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:22,359 Speaker 1: Me fucked up. 1009 00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:24,319 Speaker 4: I don't like to be in the club. 1010 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:26,320 Speaker 2: I've been club. 1011 00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,160 Speaker 5: I don't like to be confined to one space. I 1012 00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:29,840 Speaker 5: like to move about. I like to dance. I like 1013 00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:31,239 Speaker 5: the fellowship with the people. You know what I'm saying. 1014 00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:32,680 Speaker 1: Don't have to go up to hey, Bob tand of 1015 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,239 Speaker 1: what you got going up like. I like the whole experience. 1016 00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:38,439 Speaker 5: But to be confined to a section and I feel 1017 00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:41,320 Speaker 5: like I'm on display. Yeah, I'm already on display already 1018 00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,080 Speaker 5: when I go out into certain spaces. But to be 1019 00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,680 Speaker 5: in that and I don't like it. Just that's my coat. 1020 00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:47,640 Speaker 5: You're staying here, good, I'm about to go do a 1021 00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:48,320 Speaker 5: couple of laps. 1022 00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:50,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I feel you. I feel like the club 1023 00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:54,640 Speaker 2: is cool when you on vacation or every once in 1024 00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,879 Speaker 2: a while, like if you but if you in your 1025 00:50:56,920 --> 00:51:00,000 Speaker 2: city and you in the club and you thirty plus, 1026 00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:01,440 Speaker 2: find a new hobby. 1027 00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,840 Speaker 4: I ain't gonna like I'm I'm outside, but that's not 1028 00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:05,280 Speaker 4: a hobby. 1029 00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:07,840 Speaker 2: I'm sorry people, That's why I said find. 1030 00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:08,040 Speaker 7: A new one. 1031 00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:10,359 Speaker 3: I'm gonna get a new one real quiz. I'm gonna 1032 00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:12,360 Speaker 3: do it, but because this is a new for me. 1033 00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:13,920 Speaker 3: Though I've just been outside recently. 1034 00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:15,680 Speaker 2: Being outside ain't new for you. You worked at the 1035 00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:16,160 Speaker 2: strip club. 1036 00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,239 Speaker 4: Well, I'm talking about in my thirties. 1037 00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:20,080 Speaker 2: You was outside at thirty. 1038 00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:23,319 Speaker 4: No, you know, I'm about to be thirty seven this year. 1039 00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:25,440 Speaker 3: But I've been going out recently with my friends because like, 1040 00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:27,880 Speaker 3: I am a homebody, so bad. 1041 00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:29,560 Speaker 1: Because that's where all your stuff is. 1042 00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:32,040 Speaker 2: I know, but I do think be around my sheep. 1043 00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:36,479 Speaker 5: Yeah, as she said, as Sean Jackson said, and good burger. 1044 00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:37,759 Speaker 1: You want to go home? Why? 1045 00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:40,960 Speaker 4: Well, I know exactly. 1046 00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,840 Speaker 3: And and I told myself this year I'm gonna be 1047 00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:47,120 Speaker 3: more social. So I have been going out a lot lately. 1048 00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:49,520 Speaker 3: I have just to be like but it's not like, oh, 1049 00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:51,719 Speaker 3: I'm going out. I'm being connected with my friends. Like 1050 00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:54,320 Speaker 3: my girls invite me out, and I'm I'm usually that 1051 00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:56,399 Speaker 3: friend that says, no, I don't want to go out. 1052 00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:57,080 Speaker 4: I want to be at home. 1053 00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:00,000 Speaker 3: So now I'm like, I accept all happy hour invitations, 1054 00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:02,960 Speaker 3: all dinner invitations, wherever you invite me to, I'm coming. 1055 00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:05,400 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Now, let me ask you this. 1056 00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:08,200 Speaker 3: When you go out do you get a stylust like 1057 00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:09,719 Speaker 3: just to go to the club, Like if you have 1058 00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:11,640 Speaker 3: a hosting or you're you know, do you get a. 1059 00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:12,239 Speaker 4: Stylist for that? 1060 00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:20,280 Speaker 1: Sometimes, however, my going out. 1061 00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:28,400 Speaker 5: More so consists of like house parties, private mixers, like 1062 00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:31,960 Speaker 5: that type of thing, because then I'm in an environment 1063 00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:36,040 Speaker 5: where I can hear myself think, I can hear myself 1064 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:39,960 Speaker 5: talk over the music because it's not blaring. It's a 1065 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:43,200 Speaker 5: more of a controlled environment. It's more intimate, so I 1066 00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:47,520 Speaker 5: can kind of move about in the space without being 1067 00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:48,680 Speaker 5: sardine the fuck up. 1068 00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:50,880 Speaker 1: And yeah, and being and being the short king that 1069 00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:51,440 Speaker 1: I am. 1070 00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:55,239 Speaker 5: Being in spaces where you are sardined up and have 1071 00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:56,120 Speaker 5: to maneuver through it. 1072 00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:59,600 Speaker 1: It's not I hate it. I don't hate it. 1073 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:03,800 Speaker 5: Too many smells and it's not even it's not even smells, 1074 00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:05,520 Speaker 5: it's you don't know who's next to you. 1075 00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:08,000 Speaker 1: And so I'm pretty sure. I'm pretty sure y'all know this. 1076 00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:11,200 Speaker 5: Y'all ever been in the club and a man is 1077 00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:12,719 Speaker 5: trying to move past you and he got to he 1078 00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:14,320 Speaker 5: put his hand on the smaller your. 1079 00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:16,759 Speaker 4: Back, Yeah, they'd be putting that pin on our back. 1080 00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,440 Speaker 1: Yikes, they do, they do? 1081 00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:27,279 Speaker 4: They be moving by, and they there's no reason you 1082 00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:30,239 Speaker 4: need to grab my waist and do all that. 1083 00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:36,640 Speaker 1: Are y'all strap I am I'm not please, but I'm scared. 1084 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:39,040 Speaker 2: I'm scared to carry. 1085 00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:42,239 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. What fear is. Fear is 1086 00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:45,200 Speaker 1: ignorance and no, I got you. 1087 00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:48,279 Speaker 5: Fear means I mean, I'm sorry. Ignorance means the lack 1088 00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:51,719 Speaker 5: of knowledge. We fear what we do not understand. We 1089 00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:54,400 Speaker 5: fear what we do not know. The more time you 1090 00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:56,680 Speaker 5: spend with something and you get an understanding of it, 1091 00:53:56,719 --> 00:54:00,439 Speaker 5: the less you are afraid. You, as a black woman, 1092 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:05,640 Speaker 5: need to be strapped. These niggas are crazy, they are. 1093 00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:07,040 Speaker 4: I agree. 1094 00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:09,960 Speaker 3: I need to get over that fear though I keep 1095 00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:11,680 Speaker 3: not being saying for years I'm gonna go to the 1096 00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:13,080 Speaker 3: gun range and I still haven't done it. 1097 00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:14,000 Speaker 4: You got to use it. 1098 00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:17,440 Speaker 5: If you pull it out, well, well the who the 1099 00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:19,480 Speaker 5: whole thing is not to have to ever use it. 1100 00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:23,200 Speaker 1: But if you got you got the bruh back up. 1101 00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:26,279 Speaker 1: If you got back up, Bro, don't let don't let 1102 00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:29,279 Speaker 1: this top. Don't don't let the don't let the lace 1103 00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:33,080 Speaker 1: full you. Yeah, take your sister to the range. She 1104 00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:37,520 Speaker 1: don't need to go pull up to the house, be 1105 00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:43,040 Speaker 1: like sins, get in the car, we're going asking ready. 1106 00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:44,920 Speaker 2: I used to be the same way, like I used 1107 00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:47,680 Speaker 2: to be scared to like walk around with a gun, 1108 00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,680 Speaker 2: because I do feel that way, Like I feel like 1109 00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:52,360 Speaker 2: if you pull this shit out, you might have to 1110 00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:54,799 Speaker 2: use it because it's either gonna be you mean, you. 1111 00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:56,360 Speaker 4: Can't just pull it out for fun. 1112 00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:58,640 Speaker 1: And be like and that's my and that's my father. 1113 00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:02,000 Speaker 1: As one of his famous sands that he said to 1114 00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:04,520 Speaker 1: me when he was growing up, Yeah, it's me and 1115 00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:06,279 Speaker 1: you till it's me or you. 1116 00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:10,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm not gonna lie being a homeowner. Now, 1117 00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:11,879 Speaker 3: I do feel like any one in the house. 1118 00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:14,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, when this don't play this shit, I feel like 1119 00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:15,879 Speaker 2: I be having too much shit on. I be having 1120 00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:16,200 Speaker 2: to walk. 1121 00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:22,759 Speaker 4: Oh, I know you aren't cold, you goving owner, You're 1122 00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:25,920 Speaker 4: gonna be warm over I just yes. 1123 00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:30,920 Speaker 2: It's just about that, but it is also I think 1124 00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:32,880 Speaker 2: how you pull up as a woman too, Like I 1125 00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:34,640 Speaker 2: be pulling up, I'll be hopping out of my car. 1126 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,799 Speaker 4: See y'all popped out my hoop dick, no problems. 1127 00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:40,400 Speaker 2: But I know and then I'm I'm small in stature 1128 00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:43,080 Speaker 2: as well, So I feel like when you tiny people 1129 00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:45,040 Speaker 2: be thinking that they could try you, Like it's like, oh, 1130 00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:47,120 Speaker 2: look at her, she's so little. She probably helpless. 1131 00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:47,920 Speaker 4: She not with a man. 1132 00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:49,000 Speaker 1: Oh like. 1133 00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:53,040 Speaker 5: Also, if you want to at least get started on 1134 00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:59,399 Speaker 5: something boxing, yeah, okay, self defense, if anything, specifically, martial arts, 1135 00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:03,800 Speaker 5: gun fu mantis style. It's not it's not it's not 1136 00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:07,080 Speaker 5: kung it's that's because of that fucking song. 1137 00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:09,440 Speaker 2: Was kung fu fight? 1138 00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:13,759 Speaker 1: No no, no no no they got no no no 1139 00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:17,520 Speaker 1: no no no. It's g gung fu g u. 1140 00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:25,000 Speaker 5: G okay if you okay, gung fu Mantis style specifically, 1141 00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:28,760 Speaker 5: that's what I studied. So it's pretty much like yoga, 1142 00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:33,200 Speaker 5: but sharp with the your you're breathing, it's flowing. 1143 00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:36,880 Speaker 1: You move like you flow. I like that, So get 1144 00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:40,800 Speaker 1: get into that, okay, gung fu gung fu mantis. 1145 00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:42,799 Speaker 4: Mantis Okay, I'm gonna look at that out. 1146 00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:44,360 Speaker 2: I'm gonna look it up to because you. 1147 00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,719 Speaker 4: Look like flip somebody. 1148 00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:48,080 Speaker 1: Baby. 1149 00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:49,800 Speaker 5: The last thing you would want to see is somebody 1150 00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:52,800 Speaker 5: try to fight you and then you drop to the 1151 00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:55,920 Speaker 5: floor like drop to the full like okay, bad, let's go, 1152 00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:58,640 Speaker 5: and then you put your foot up like. 1153 00:56:58,800 --> 00:56:59,720 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be scared. 1154 00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:04,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't fight you if you dropped the drop 1155 00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:05,319 Speaker 1: to the floor, put. 1156 00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,040 Speaker 5: Your feet up because you gotta get down the reads 1157 00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:07,239 Speaker 5: to me. 1158 00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:08,560 Speaker 1: No, come down to my level, bitch. 1159 00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:11,760 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm not either fight or he crazy. 1160 00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:15,520 Speaker 2: Either way, I don't want to find out I'm not 1161 00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:16,040 Speaker 2: doing that. 1162 00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:25,120 Speaker 1: He like, you dropped your leg, bitch, I. 1163 00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:29,880 Speaker 4: Wouldn't you got I'm finn dunk fool on that gun. 1164 00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:30,320 Speaker 6: Cool. 1165 00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:32,840 Speaker 2: But you know one thing about us, we always gonna 1166 00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:36,280 Speaker 2: hit things we were supposed to be talking about. No, 1167 00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:41,320 Speaker 2: but it'd be us during It'd be me alegs like, because. 1168 00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:43,600 Speaker 6: We're supposed to be talking about people who. 1169 00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:47,480 Speaker 2: Get money when they don't be having no style. Well, 1170 00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:49,680 Speaker 2: I don't want to go ahead, go ahead, Well, I 1171 00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:51,880 Speaker 2: was just gonna say, in the words of jay Z, 1172 00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:54,040 Speaker 2: you could pay for school, but you pain't by class. 1173 00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:57,480 Speaker 2: Just because you get some money, that doesn't automatically mean 1174 00:57:57,520 --> 00:57:59,640 Speaker 2: that you're gonna have style or that you're gonna be 1175 00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:01,920 Speaker 2: able to dress like. That's why I think it's important 1176 00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:04,439 Speaker 2: to know what to do with your money. And people 1177 00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 2: don't like delegating tasks. People feel like they can do 1178 00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:11,680 Speaker 2: everything just because you're a great singer or you're a 1179 00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:15,200 Speaker 2: great actress. That doesn't mean that you can style yourself. 1180 00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:17,200 Speaker 2: You may need to go on aheading you some of 1181 00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:20,040 Speaker 2: their money to hire you as stylist to get you together. 1182 00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:26,880 Speaker 3: And I also think nowadays we are being more expressive 1183 00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:31,080 Speaker 3: for being ourselves. What about personal style as well? Like 1184 00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:35,840 Speaker 3: nobody really has personal style. I feel like, especially with 1185 00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:39,160 Speaker 3: you see one Instagram girl have something own, they all 1186 00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 3: got the same they all got the same shoe, they 1187 00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:43,120 Speaker 3: all got the same bag. 1188 00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:50,120 Speaker 4: That too, Now we're mining it. I come on, Furst. 1189 00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:51,520 Speaker 4: I'm just no. 1190 00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:53,880 Speaker 3: But I say all that to say because I think 1191 00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:56,400 Speaker 3: that we need to bring back just like wearing things 1192 00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:59,919 Speaker 3: that you like, that you feel good in and learn 1193 00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:01,320 Speaker 3: how to starve things better. 1194 00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:03,640 Speaker 2: I don't know, just because you feel good. And sometimes 1195 00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:04,640 Speaker 2: he'd be taking. 1196 00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:05,640 Speaker 4: Well, yes, no, I agree. 1197 00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:07,480 Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is you can get a style 1198 00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:11,880 Speaker 3: good and it still doesn't look But people think it's 1199 00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:12,560 Speaker 3: a label. 1200 00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:14,160 Speaker 4: They gonna put that Chanelle. 1201 00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:17,160 Speaker 2: But it's not even about it being a label. Sometimes, 1202 00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:20,440 Speaker 2: in my personal opinion, it could not have no label 1203 00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:22,760 Speaker 2: on it. It's about how people piece things together. It's 1204 00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:25,400 Speaker 2: about people over accessorizing. I think a lot of the 1205 00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:27,840 Speaker 2: time it's all of those things that make people look 1206 00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:29,000 Speaker 2: like tacky. 1207 00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:30,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I mean. 1208 00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:31,959 Speaker 2: And it doesn't have anything to do with a price. 1209 00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:35,280 Speaker 2: Because some girls were fast fashion will and you can't 1210 00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:37,120 Speaker 2: even tell that it's fast fashion when they have it 1211 00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:39,680 Speaker 2: on because they put the pieces together really nicely. It's 1212 00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:42,440 Speaker 2: not always about it being designer. Designer can be tacky 1213 00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:44,520 Speaker 2: to me when you got on a full Gucci feed 1214 00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:53,960 Speaker 2: that yeah, just because it's designer. 1215 00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:54,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1216 00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:59,800 Speaker 5: So I will say this, just like how I spent 1217 01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:04,800 Speaker 5: more of my career working by myself than with other people. 1218 01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:07,800 Speaker 5: The moment that I started working with other people is 1219 01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:09,240 Speaker 5: when things started to move. 1220 01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:12,040 Speaker 1: I started to. 1221 01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:19,840 Speaker 5: Get into different rooms, I started to get nominated, you know, 1222 01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:22,400 Speaker 5: bringing in other people to bounce ideas off of. Now 1223 01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:27,160 Speaker 5: we're winning award so a lot of So the thing 1224 01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:29,320 Speaker 5: is for me at least, don't think you have to 1225 01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:32,400 Speaker 5: do everything by yourself. Are there are areas in our 1226 01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:35,680 Speaker 5: lives where we have strengths where we can utilize that, 1227 01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:37,320 Speaker 5: and then there are people that can pick up that 1228 01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:39,960 Speaker 5: so that I can see where we can't see. So 1229 01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:43,760 Speaker 5: it's just about finding that synergy, that dream team, you know, 1230 01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:48,920 Speaker 5: law Roach and Zendaya Clive Davison, Whitney Houston, you know 1231 01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:52,960 Speaker 5: in a time and the era Police and the Neptunes 1232 01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:57,920 Speaker 5: like miss and Timbaland, like there's a certain Michael B. 1233 01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:01,919 Speaker 5: Jordan and Ryan Krugler synergy Like you're not You don't 1234 01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:02,920 Speaker 5: have to do it by yourself. 1235 01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:05,680 Speaker 1: You can't do it by yourself. 1236 01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:09,840 Speaker 5: So when you find someone that understands who you are 1237 01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:14,840 Speaker 5: and can amplify that, then we got a sweet spot and. 1238 01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:26,480 Speaker 2: By magic duo. M all right, I just did a 1239 01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:29,440 Speaker 2: panel on Monday where I got honored for being like 1240 01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:31,440 Speaker 2: a woman that sets the bar in the spirits industry 1241 01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:41,240 Speaker 2: and congratulations. But I was talking about like building my 1242 01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:43,480 Speaker 2: business and that is just so true. So I know 1243 01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:45,640 Speaker 2: there's a lot of entrepreneurs that watch the show, y'all 1244 01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:49,600 Speaker 2: can relate to that. Because unless you're bringing in someone 1245 01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:52,320 Speaker 2: smarter than you, that know more than you on the marketing, 1246 01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:55,640 Speaker 2: the admin, the systems to even set in place to 1247 01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:57,400 Speaker 2: run your business, you're not going to be able to 1248 01:01:57,480 --> 01:02:00,479 Speaker 2: go anywhere. What you just said about being in getting 1249 01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:03,800 Speaker 2: nominated now, like I would have never been honored if 1250 01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:06,920 Speaker 2: it had not been for me being outside networking and 1251 01:02:07,000 --> 01:02:09,920 Speaker 2: moving around and showcasing my talents and my business. You 1252 01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:11,560 Speaker 2: have to share that with the world. That was just 1253 01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:14,800 Speaker 2: so perfectly eloquently put. So I just wanted to just 1254 01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:18,360 Speaker 2: jump in on yeah, because having the team is important. 1255 01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:21,080 Speaker 2: You can't do everything, you can't be in every place 1256 01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:24,320 Speaker 2: all the time. And just the fact of the matter 1257 01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:27,000 Speaker 2: is people are better at you than some like you 1258 01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:29,000 Speaker 2: know what I mean, at what you're good at. Again, 1259 01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:30,840 Speaker 2: people are good at other things, and you need to 1260 01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:32,760 Speaker 2: pay them. We need to be okay with paying them 1261 01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:34,240 Speaker 2: to do what they're good at. So you could do 1262 01:02:34,320 --> 01:02:36,640 Speaker 2: with your guard Yeah, I want to hire people that 1263 01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:38,960 Speaker 2: are smarter than me. Yeah, always, because I'm not the 1264 01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:40,640 Speaker 2: smartest person in the room. I just know how to 1265 01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:41,360 Speaker 2: move it around. 1266 01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:43,160 Speaker 5: And you don't need to be the smartest person in 1267 01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:46,080 Speaker 5: the room unless you are a teacher. And even then 1268 01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:48,440 Speaker 5: you won't be the smartest person in the room because 1269 01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:53,720 Speaker 5: it's still an exchange of learning versus a teaching yep. 1270 01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:56,960 Speaker 5: Because even as the teacher, you are learning abeute you know. 1271 01:02:57,200 --> 01:02:59,160 Speaker 5: So that's why it's always when you when you can 1272 01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:01,760 Speaker 5: be in a position in your in your life period, 1273 01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:03,800 Speaker 5: not even just career, but in your life where you 1274 01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:04,880 Speaker 5: can always be teachable. 1275 01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:10,840 Speaker 1: Yes, you will never where you can always here's the thing. 1276 01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:18,040 Speaker 5: I'll be wanting what I want and liking how I like, 1277 01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:23,160 Speaker 5: and then there is the reality of what that is. 1278 01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:26,320 Speaker 5: And when you have people that can break down. Okay, 1279 01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:28,920 Speaker 5: I know this is what you want. However, this is 1280 01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:32,560 Speaker 5: what needs to happen, because if you do X, Y, 1281 01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:34,400 Speaker 5: and Z, you won't get the result that you wanted 1282 01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,920 Speaker 5: if you were to do what you need to do. 1283 01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:40,600 Speaker 5: So it's important to have people that can be your 1284 01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:44,320 Speaker 5: eyes and your ears and to trust them and they 1285 01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:44,840 Speaker 5: trust you. 1286 01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:48,080 Speaker 1: It's all. It's all in exchange. 1287 01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:50,720 Speaker 4: Me and Dre call that connecting the dots. 1288 01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:54,320 Speaker 3: You got me andrel We connected so many dots with 1289 01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:56,440 Speaker 3: just me and her and then we was like, okay, bro, 1290 01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:57,720 Speaker 3: we gotta do this. 1291 01:03:58,560 --> 01:03:59,800 Speaker 4: We got that doc connected. 1292 01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:05,760 Speaker 3: Okay, we gotta outsource that connect connect them died Do 1293 01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:08,880 Speaker 3: you do you call your dude bro sometimes when. 1294 01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:10,680 Speaker 4: He pissed me off, we do that to each other. 1295 01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:11,960 Speaker 2: How would she probably say? 1296 01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:19,560 Speaker 3: No, Yeah, I know, but that's how that's not I'm 1297 01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:21,520 Speaker 3: mad at him. But I'd be like, all right, bro, 1298 01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:25,960 Speaker 3: all right, dog, alright, my would you like would you 1299 01:04:26,080 --> 01:04:26,800 Speaker 3: would you date you? 1300 01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:28,959 Speaker 4: Absolutely? I'm a hoot. 1301 01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:30,920 Speaker 1: Would you would you date you. 1302 01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:31,720 Speaker 5: I would. 1303 01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:36,040 Speaker 2: I'm a grand time until you piece me off and 1304 01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:37,040 Speaker 2: then she can get. 1305 01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:38,200 Speaker 4: Real in the field. 1306 01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:40,360 Speaker 2: She get real in the field. But it but it 1307 01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:42,439 Speaker 2: also takes the light to piece me off as well. 1308 01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:44,400 Speaker 4: So what is your day life like? 1309 01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:47,080 Speaker 3: Because I feel like you keep your personal life so 1310 01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:48,720 Speaker 3: personal as he should. 1311 01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:50,560 Speaker 4: We we're gonna talk about it. 1312 01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:50,840 Speaker 1: Is it? 1313 01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:52,720 Speaker 5: Well, here's the thing, and I'm gonna break this down 1314 01:04:52,800 --> 01:05:01,040 Speaker 5: for Yeah, I give so much of myself art, through 1315 01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:09,600 Speaker 5: my physical body, through my my, my my upbringing, and 1316 01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:13,240 Speaker 5: I don't mind an opinion and a critique of that 1317 01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:15,920 Speaker 5: because it is something that I've put out there. I 1318 01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:18,200 Speaker 5: don't need a critique on who I love and who 1319 01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:24,800 Speaker 5: I'm building. That's and I used to wonder why my 1320 01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:28,080 Speaker 5: homegirls would get so upset when people would have comments 1321 01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:32,600 Speaker 5: and opinions about their partners that they would personally post 1322 01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:34,960 Speaker 5: on social media. And it's like, well, babe, if you 1323 01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:39,040 Speaker 5: didn't post about it, no one would have an opinion. 1324 01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:41,320 Speaker 1: Like it was just it's really that simple. 1325 01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:45,760 Speaker 5: And so I purposely keep that over here because I 1326 01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:48,200 Speaker 5: have given so much of myself. If you want to 1327 01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:50,480 Speaker 5: know about certain things, I might put it into music. Yeah, 1328 01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:53,600 Speaker 5: but that's not. That's not an opinion I'm looking for. 1329 01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:54,920 Speaker 5: As much as I would love to be a part 1330 01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:58,120 Speaker 5: of relationship goals and all that stuff, you have to 1331 01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:00,840 Speaker 5: you have to have some kind of parameter, have something 1332 01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:04,480 Speaker 5: for yourself. And it's nothing that I'm ashamed of. It's 1333 01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:05,640 Speaker 5: just something that's important. 1334 01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:09,280 Speaker 1: So you are, you are a relationship something like that. 1335 01:06:10,280 --> 01:06:10,880 Speaker 4: But that's all. 1336 01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:15,360 Speaker 2: But I agree with that. I think when people put 1337 01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:17,480 Speaker 2: it out there, you can't be upset when people have 1338 01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:21,560 Speaker 2: opinions about it. To keep it to yourself. I love 1339 01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:24,200 Speaker 2: how every time you're about to say some she you 1340 01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:26,520 Speaker 2: be like, he takes. 1341 01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:32,080 Speaker 6: A deep breath, you take a part, and then you smile. 1342 01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:34,960 Speaker 2: And I love this shep because it gives like when 1343 01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:38,000 Speaker 2: your grandma was about to say some real sh she 1344 01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:40,800 Speaker 2: had to give her thoughts together, she started dropping him 1345 01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:44,680 Speaker 2: gin and that's exactly what the be going on. He'd 1346 01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:48,720 Speaker 2: be like various themes. 1347 01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:49,520 Speaker 4: You don't. 1348 01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:54,080 Speaker 3: I would love to see him and Dominic Morgan have 1349 01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:54,720 Speaker 3: a conversation. 1350 01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:59,200 Speaker 5: When I say that's my auntie Eve, the read that 1351 01:06:59,320 --> 01:07:03,440 Speaker 5: she yeah, I love I love. 1352 01:07:06,760 --> 01:07:09,120 Speaker 1: Like, I love all my all my like my sisters, 1353 01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:09,720 Speaker 1: I love. 1354 01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:11,680 Speaker 3: I would love to see you and Dominique just have 1355 01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:12,360 Speaker 3: to sit down here. 1356 01:07:12,440 --> 01:07:12,800 Speaker 6: We need to. 1357 01:07:13,120 --> 01:07:15,040 Speaker 1: I mean I want to. I want to make that happen. 1358 01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:16,520 Speaker 1: Is is as soon as possible. 1359 01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:19,080 Speaker 2: Yes, I love to see. 1360 01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:20,520 Speaker 6: Love it shout out to Dominique. 1361 01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:23,000 Speaker 4: We don't have to have Dominique on the cap, no. 1362 01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:24,840 Speaker 4: I mean, y'all know, we. 1363 01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:26,720 Speaker 3: Don't like to do a lot of like TikTokers and 1364 01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:27,160 Speaker 3: things like that. 1365 01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:30,760 Speaker 4: But I think Dominique is just so I don't even 1366 01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:31,440 Speaker 4: know the words. 1367 01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:33,600 Speaker 1: You're talking about someone who. 1368 01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:39,600 Speaker 5: Has a thought provoking analysis on what is going on, 1369 01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:47,560 Speaker 5: uh in the world that is also comedic, but witty comedic, 1370 01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:49,720 Speaker 5: like you just have to have a. 1371 01:07:50,200 --> 01:07:53,000 Speaker 1: And and she's going to extend your vocabulary. 1372 01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:54,800 Speaker 7: Oh that's the word. 1373 01:07:55,120 --> 01:07:59,000 Speaker 5: Like even even even the the the breakdown that she 1374 01:07:59,200 --> 01:08:02,880 Speaker 5: gave about e J. You know a Johnson, which, by 1375 01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:06,640 Speaker 5: the way, shout out to EJ. I I don't feel 1376 01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:08,840 Speaker 5: that when he said why I dressed cuter than the 1377 01:08:09,160 --> 01:08:11,040 Speaker 5: you know, than the girls, I don't think that he 1378 01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:14,000 Speaker 5: was saying women in general. I'm thinking he might have 1379 01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:16,600 Speaker 5: been talking about the girls in his high school that 1380 01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:17,680 Speaker 5: he was that he was. 1381 01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:23,639 Speaker 2: In and he's also a billionaire, ares that part. 1382 01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:27,679 Speaker 4: But he's also in. Let's be honest, he's in white spaces. 1383 01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:28,640 Speaker 4: He wasn't talking about us. 1384 01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:31,559 Speaker 3: He wasn't talking about because he don't wear the full 1385 01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:34,000 Speaker 3: Gucci feed, and he doesn't wear the full Gucci feed, 1386 01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:36,040 Speaker 3: and he doesn't be around a lot of black women. 1387 01:08:36,120 --> 01:08:39,240 Speaker 4: Let's be honest. He's in spaces where maybe he do. 1388 01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:43,439 Speaker 4: He's not around that. He was not around. 1389 01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:46,519 Speaker 5: I didn't think he's That's why I said. I think 1390 01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:48,479 Speaker 5: he was talking about women as a whole. Rid He 1391 01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:50,120 Speaker 5: was talk about the women that he was in close 1392 01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:52,960 Speaker 5: close proximity with, like, oh, actually I dress better than you. 1393 01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:55,280 Speaker 1: That's fine, you're talking about them. 1394 01:08:57,479 --> 01:09:00,400 Speaker 4: I wasn't offended, Yeah, yeah, but I was. 1395 01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:03,320 Speaker 2: I wasn't off anybody at all. I don't understand why people, 1396 01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:07,320 Speaker 2: I always say, we're just living in a time where 1397 01:09:07,360 --> 01:09:10,680 Speaker 2: people love to be fake outraged by everything, Because when 1398 01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:12,280 Speaker 2: you wake up tomorrow, are you really gonna give a 1399 01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:13,360 Speaker 2: fuck with E. J. Johnson? 1400 01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:14,519 Speaker 1: Just see they're not you? 1401 01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:18,160 Speaker 2: N Like, it's just not that serious to be online 1402 01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:20,560 Speaker 2: creating all of these thing pieces about something that's not 1403 01:09:20,640 --> 01:09:23,040 Speaker 2: gonna matter five hours from now. People just love to 1404 01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:25,360 Speaker 2: be upset and in an uproar about you. 1405 01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:28,960 Speaker 5: I don't have the energy as as fucking I Eva 1406 01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:31,120 Speaker 5: just said. I would deliver the news, but I don't 1407 01:09:31,160 --> 01:09:35,000 Speaker 5: have the energy to be outraged and the stress that 1408 01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:37,960 Speaker 5: that puts on your body and your nervous system being 1409 01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:40,960 Speaker 5: mad about something that you genuinely have no control over, 1410 01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:42,680 Speaker 5: or are you even going to do anything about it? 1411 01:09:42,800 --> 01:09:44,720 Speaker 1: Like genuinely are you going to do anything about it? 1412 01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:45,519 Speaker 2: You know? 1413 01:09:46,840 --> 01:09:48,960 Speaker 5: And that's why I'm so glad that there are a 1414 01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:54,200 Speaker 5: nice collective of us that are taking our rest. There's 1415 01:09:54,240 --> 01:09:59,400 Speaker 5: a nice collective of black women taking your rest. We 1416 01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:01,720 Speaker 5: don't need to be the fucking the front lines. 1417 01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:06,840 Speaker 1: Let's get somebody else to do it. Seriously, be in 1418 01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:09,559 Speaker 1: your house, your bond it better be on. Yeah, bond, 1419 01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:10,479 Speaker 1: it better be on. 1420 01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:14,240 Speaker 5: You don't move the only the only mark you you 1421 01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:16,840 Speaker 5: need to be going to into the refrigerator. And that's 1422 01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:19,640 Speaker 5: what the front door to get your door dash are 1423 01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:20,479 Speaker 5: we talking about? 1424 01:10:20,920 --> 01:10:21,360 Speaker 7: You're right? 1425 01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:24,080 Speaker 2: And if you think you addressed better than EJ put 1426 01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:25,680 Speaker 2: that ship on to make a O T D be 1427 01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:26,519 Speaker 2: leave us alone. 1428 01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:30,639 Speaker 4: It didn't even I think that people don't. 1429 01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:33,240 Speaker 3: You're supposed to feel like you the baddest bitch in 1430 01:10:33,280 --> 01:10:36,719 Speaker 3: the room. You are when every time when somebody says 1431 01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:38,720 Speaker 3: they are the baddest bitch in the room, it gets 1432 01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:42,240 Speaker 3: the backlash. But why because y'all say, oh, you're so insecure. 1433 01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:45,679 Speaker 3: But then when somebody's confident, y'all hold that you too cocky, 1434 01:10:45,800 --> 01:10:47,040 Speaker 3: you too cocky, and this and that. 1435 01:10:47,240 --> 01:10:50,920 Speaker 5: So it's the confidence that gets confused with arrogance because 1436 01:10:51,080 --> 01:10:55,240 Speaker 5: I know what I'm doing, okay, and I am a little. 1437 01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:56,400 Speaker 1: Fluid, that's right. 1438 01:10:56,600 --> 01:10:57,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, you can't sing to you? 1439 01:10:58,520 --> 01:10:59,360 Speaker 1: Who can't sing to me? 1440 01:10:59,439 --> 01:10:59,639 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1441 01:10:59,640 --> 01:11:02,840 Speaker 3: Because we had an episode with Deonta cal and he 1442 01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:06,960 Speaker 3: said Christina Aguilera couldn't sing and it went viral and 1443 01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:08,800 Speaker 3: it was a lot of backlash. 1444 01:11:08,320 --> 01:11:09,760 Speaker 4: And things like that. So who that? 1445 01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:13,080 Speaker 3: Who is somebody that people be like They can say 1446 01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:15,320 Speaker 3: you'd be like a little pitchy. 1447 01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:20,120 Speaker 1: I know my publicist is looking at this like nigga. 1448 01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:25,400 Speaker 3: But I don't think it matters because it's the success 1449 01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:26,439 Speaker 3: of Britney Spears. 1450 01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:27,080 Speaker 1: Here's the thing. 1451 01:11:27,120 --> 01:11:28,679 Speaker 4: It doesn't really matter if you can sing. 1452 01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:34,160 Speaker 1: I mean so, but I feel like, here's the thing. 1453 01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:39,840 Speaker 5: Britney Spears owes her entire career to T BOBS because 1454 01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:42,719 Speaker 5: Baby One More Time was originally for TLC. 1455 01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:44,519 Speaker 2: Are You serious right now? 1456 01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:50,360 Speaker 1: Oh baby, baby t boys, I was said, I didn't 1457 01:11:50,400 --> 01:11:54,880 Speaker 1: know that Chilie shown me hung you wanted to be 1458 01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:00,519 Speaker 1: They weren't. They were not fucking with that. Hit me 1459 01:12:00,680 --> 01:12:02,320 Speaker 1: one more time, please no. 1460 01:12:03,160 --> 01:12:04,800 Speaker 4: But they already said, I ain't too proud of. 1461 01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:07,559 Speaker 5: I understand, but you're talking about something. They're talking about 1462 01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:10,000 Speaker 5: I'm not too proud to beg for sex. It's about 1463 01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:12,680 Speaker 5: hit me no nor wow no. 1464 01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:16,400 Speaker 1: And also, slave for you was originally for Janet Jackson. 1465 01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:17,400 Speaker 6: I didn't know that. 1466 01:12:17,960 --> 01:12:19,080 Speaker 1: She said, slave for what? 1467 01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:20,680 Speaker 4: But I don't think so? 1468 01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:24,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, stop, Brittany is Jane's daughter. We all know this. 1469 01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:27,439 Speaker 4: Yeah now I agree with that she is. 1470 01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:29,920 Speaker 5: That's a daughter play for you for Janet, and that's 1471 01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:34,640 Speaker 5: what I can hear it it is baby. Don't you wanna. 1472 01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:36,439 Speaker 4: Up on me? 1473 01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:38,920 Speaker 1: Do another time? 1474 01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:40,080 Speaker 7: And please. 1475 01:12:44,560 --> 01:12:47,880 Speaker 1: Up on me? Living behind the name and. 1476 01:12:54,960 --> 01:13:05,760 Speaker 6: Love that yeah right she. 1477 01:13:07,400 --> 01:13:07,439 Speaker 1: Do? 1478 01:13:08,160 --> 01:13:09,320 Speaker 4: Who was that like that today? 1479 01:13:10,720 --> 01:13:12,320 Speaker 3: Do y'all know that out? 1480 01:13:13,880 --> 01:13:17,160 Speaker 10: Y'all know that Quichelle myself around. 1481 01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:18,360 Speaker 4: You need to stop. 1482 01:13:18,600 --> 01:13:20,799 Speaker 2: That is steel safety, she said, Oh. 1483 01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:29,320 Speaker 7: Oh, the cry. 1484 01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:34,000 Speaker 2: Put their foot of. 1485 01:13:47,200 --> 01:13:49,599 Speaker 4: See Tom, it wouldn't me today. 1486 01:13:57,320 --> 01:13:58,320 Speaker 6: I'm like that. 1487 01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:00,880 Speaker 7: I am remember that. 1488 01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:02,120 Speaker 1: I like it. 1489 01:14:04,360 --> 01:14:06,160 Speaker 4: And I like it okay, okay, but I want to 1490 01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:06,559 Speaker 4: get back to. 1491 01:14:06,600 --> 01:14:12,000 Speaker 1: The yes, yes, yes, so way for you. I never 1492 01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:14,920 Speaker 1: knew that it was Jy and she said absolutely not. 1493 01:14:15,800 --> 01:14:16,360 Speaker 7: But I did it. 1494 01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:17,800 Speaker 2: I don't want nothing that has to do with a 1495 01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:19,439 Speaker 2: slave in a song. 1496 01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:22,479 Speaker 4: Jack Harlow didn't say no the Whips and. 1497 01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:26,519 Speaker 2: Change Jake jack Carlow is white, so. 1498 01:14:26,560 --> 01:14:28,920 Speaker 3: It's on what was your point because he should have 1499 01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:31,679 Speaker 3: said no, I don't like whips and change, but he's white. 1500 01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:34,479 Speaker 4: You like whips and Change, Jack Carlow. 1501 01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:36,880 Speaker 1: That song was also. 1502 01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:43,240 Speaker 4: We Can't Get Whipped, We Can't Get whipped. 1503 01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:48,040 Speaker 5: The album titled Monica. I'm still is I'm still clutching 1504 01:14:48,080 --> 01:14:48,599 Speaker 5: my pearls. 1505 01:14:48,720 --> 01:14:49,080 Speaker 1: That's all. 1506 01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:53,160 Speaker 4: That's what they said, Monica. That's all that I like, 1507 01:14:53,280 --> 01:14:54,559 Speaker 4: Jack Harlow, I can't lie. 1508 01:14:56,640 --> 01:14:56,760 Speaker 6: Way. 1509 01:14:56,960 --> 01:15:00,080 Speaker 4: His album was called Monica them oh and I and 1510 01:15:00,160 --> 01:15:05,439 Speaker 4: listen boy, I'm roud Monica. Yeah, just what do you 1511 01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:06,880 Speaker 4: think it was? Did you listen to the album? 1512 01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:09,960 Speaker 1: I have not, uh as of yet. 1513 01:15:12,439 --> 01:15:13,960 Speaker 6: What I'm. 1514 01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:16,040 Speaker 7: Black. 1515 01:15:16,160 --> 01:15:18,559 Speaker 1: What he said I got black felt like he got black. 1516 01:15:18,760 --> 01:15:21,120 Speaker 3: He said I got blacker because usually when white artists 1517 01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:25,400 Speaker 3: make music, they go back to the country like post Malon. 1518 01:15:25,240 --> 01:15:28,640 Speaker 5: But he went and he looks like he's dressing like 1519 01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:32,519 Speaker 5: Remy Shan And if you don't know about that, take 1520 01:15:32,560 --> 01:15:36,240 Speaker 5: a message from my Take a message from my. 1521 01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:41,880 Speaker 6: W Wait, he. 1522 01:15:45,800 --> 01:15:48,160 Speaker 4: Is a woke king. I love it, though I'm not 1523 01:15:48,200 --> 01:15:48,559 Speaker 4: gonna lie. 1524 01:15:48,600 --> 01:15:52,920 Speaker 2: I kind of like, wait, he really named his album Monica. 1525 01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:55,479 Speaker 7: M all in I s a m o N. 1526 01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:58,400 Speaker 5: But they I c K trying to take my man 1527 01:15:58,479 --> 01:16:07,000 Speaker 5: away from me? Remember that song Monica, Monica, Monica, Monica 1528 01:16:07,439 --> 01:16:09,760 Speaker 5: stocking in Howking and then Jock and then she followed, y'all. 1529 01:16:10,080 --> 01:16:12,280 Speaker 5: What she don't know is that I'm looking fin at y'all. 1530 01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:14,000 Speaker 5: Somebody better let her know. 1531 01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:17,160 Speaker 4: I don't know what she. 1532 01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:21,280 Speaker 5: Said stocking In, Hoking and Jockey and yeah, I don't 1533 01:16:21,280 --> 01:16:23,519 Speaker 5: remember that. You know it came out in two thousand. 1534 01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:24,920 Speaker 5: It was a group called Before Dark. 1535 01:16:25,160 --> 01:16:31,960 Speaker 2: Oh, I thought it was Monica, Okay, was called I 1536 01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:33,559 Speaker 2: ain't never heard that song. 1537 01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:36,880 Speaker 1: It was called Monica. Was Before Dark? 1538 01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:37,320 Speaker 4: Okay? 1539 01:16:37,560 --> 01:16:41,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, I do no no no no, no, no no 1540 01:16:42,479 --> 01:16:42,680 Speaker 6: no no. 1541 01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:45,360 Speaker 4: I'm like I heard no no, no, no, no no no. 1542 01:16:45,520 --> 01:16:45,960 Speaker 4: I remember that. 1543 01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:50,240 Speaker 1: It was real flat on that last note too. 1544 01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:53,640 Speaker 4: I'm always flat, But I wanted to know that A 1545 01:16:53,720 --> 01:16:54,200 Speaker 4: lot in the. 1546 01:16:54,240 --> 01:16:57,920 Speaker 2: Nineties like, I'm kind of a little glad that we've 1547 01:16:58,000 --> 01:17:02,559 Speaker 2: elevated from the way in the nineties, do no do Do. 1548 01:17:03,040 --> 01:17:03,920 Speaker 4: You hate that song? 1549 01:17:04,560 --> 01:17:04,600 Speaker 8: No? 1550 01:17:04,840 --> 01:17:08,479 Speaker 6: Everybody around? 1551 01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:16,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, A prime example of that, A prime example, prime example. 1552 01:17:17,120 --> 01:17:22,400 Speaker 6: Can do what you're doing something? Wait then you hold me? 1553 01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:24,320 Speaker 7: You want me? 1554 01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:29,800 Speaker 1: You remember Mona Lisa? 1555 01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:32,400 Speaker 7: Can you tell me. 1556 01:17:34,320 --> 01:17:36,080 Speaker 6: Yea and y'all mind? 1557 01:17:36,600 --> 01:17:40,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, faction and your knee and love you want not 1558 01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:43,240 Speaker 1: fine saying you bad? 1559 01:17:43,439 --> 01:17:46,920 Speaker 5: You wanna go just side find out side like it 1560 01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:50,120 Speaker 5: and just be sure that you want You can't be 1561 01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:51,719 Speaker 5: wasting my time. 1562 01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:53,360 Speaker 1: It's that point. 1563 01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:55,800 Speaker 6: No droone me, where are your home? 1564 01:17:58,520 --> 01:17:58,880 Speaker 7: Love you? 1565 01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:01,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1566 01:18:03,160 --> 01:18:05,439 Speaker 6: I Gotloria in the nineties that used to be. 1567 01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:14,080 Speaker 4: Like, what was this one? He's a mont. 1568 01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:17,920 Speaker 5: The fact that Prince signed off on that sample that 1569 01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:21,240 Speaker 5: is a Prince sample. That is do me baby, that 1570 01:18:21,800 --> 01:18:25,600 Speaker 5: I understand, but he was very anti sample. So the 1571 01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:28,720 Speaker 5: fact that he approved he's mine by moking. 1572 01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:30,840 Speaker 1: Stuff, which by the way, I have that album on vinyl. 1573 01:18:31,080 --> 01:18:31,560 Speaker 7: I love it. 1574 01:18:32,080 --> 01:18:35,400 Speaker 5: My song off that album is come on and follow this. 1575 01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:39,400 Speaker 5: I'll gaff you what you need something fairs and co. 1576 01:18:41,160 --> 01:18:43,360 Speaker 5: But'll just be gentile. 1577 01:18:44,080 --> 01:18:45,080 Speaker 4: That is my ship. 1578 01:18:48,840 --> 01:18:51,760 Speaker 1: He got too excited that everyone. 1579 01:18:56,360 --> 01:19:07,200 Speaker 10: Remember that girl and lost their way. 1580 01:19:07,600 --> 01:19:09,679 Speaker 4: Let's focus, but it was awesome. 1581 01:19:09,720 --> 01:19:10,920 Speaker 2: It was the way they used to see what It 1582 01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:14,479 Speaker 2: was awesome, the dance moves, it was what was that 1583 01:19:14,560 --> 01:19:16,880 Speaker 2: girl's name? Do you be want to touch? 1584 01:19:19,320 --> 01:19:20,360 Speaker 1: Touching by Monifa? 1585 01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:20,800 Speaker 7: Uh huh. 1586 01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:22,320 Speaker 1: I got a speeding ticket because of that song. 1587 01:19:22,360 --> 01:19:24,000 Speaker 5: When I got my first car when I moved out 1588 01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:27,400 Speaker 5: to Los Angeles, it was a silver Uh. I called 1589 01:19:27,439 --> 01:19:29,240 Speaker 5: it the silver Bullet. It was a nineteen ninety nine 1590 01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:30,240 Speaker 5: Convernable Mustang. 1591 01:19:30,560 --> 01:19:31,800 Speaker 7: It was Babe. 1592 01:19:31,880 --> 01:19:33,400 Speaker 1: I was on my way to the skating rinkout and 1593 01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:34,400 Speaker 1: she O Hills. 1594 01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:37,040 Speaker 5: One of my good Judy's bitch and touch It by 1595 01:19:37,120 --> 01:19:39,320 Speaker 5: Monifa came on in the shuffle bitch my my foot went. 1596 01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:42,320 Speaker 4: I can't remember what song she's said it was. 1597 01:19:42,400 --> 01:19:43,160 Speaker 1: I got pulled out. 1598 01:19:43,439 --> 01:19:45,960 Speaker 5: It's a good talking about you know how fast you 1599 01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:46,320 Speaker 5: were going? 1600 01:19:46,720 --> 01:19:53,519 Speaker 1: Actually listen. I was just listening to Monifa and they 1601 01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:55,840 Speaker 1: were can you get off the car and walk? 1602 01:19:56,000 --> 01:19:56,240 Speaker 5: Sure? 1603 01:19:57,320 --> 01:19:58,760 Speaker 2: Is Monica gonna come pick you up? 1604 01:19:59,479 --> 01:20:01,160 Speaker 5: I had to ta her that when I first met her, 1605 01:20:01,520 --> 01:20:02,960 Speaker 5: I was like, I got a speaking ticket because you 1606 01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:06,880 Speaker 5: as it is it is speaking of bobs? 1607 01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:09,200 Speaker 4: Are we gonna? We gotta go? Into the bed. 1608 01:20:09,439 --> 01:20:13,640 Speaker 2: Now it's time to into the b bow love the 1609 01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:14,400 Speaker 2: b bow. 1610 01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:15,240 Speaker 4: Love it. 1611 01:20:15,560 --> 01:20:16,719 Speaker 7: Bow bow. 1612 01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:22,360 Speaker 1: Bow bow bow bow. And you know that I'm up 1613 01:20:22,479 --> 01:20:23,280 Speaker 1: now stayed. 1614 01:20:23,360 --> 01:20:23,840 Speaker 4: I'll stayed. 1615 01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:26,760 Speaker 5: Man, come up, look my rest sop and I'm a 1616 01:20:26,960 --> 01:20:28,400 Speaker 5: p look at my rest. 1617 01:20:28,680 --> 01:20:31,880 Speaker 1: Bow bow bow. Shout out to Faith Faith. 1618 01:20:32,320 --> 01:20:33,840 Speaker 2: I think that's how you pronounce you are cutting We 1619 01:20:33,920 --> 01:20:36,200 Speaker 2: are cutting up so bad a time is being had. 1620 01:20:36,520 --> 01:20:39,640 Speaker 4: I love it, I love Okay, go aheadreas all that. 1621 01:20:40,479 --> 01:20:43,920 Speaker 2: Okay. So for the bed's topic, well, first, oh, yeah, 1622 01:20:44,880 --> 01:20:45,960 Speaker 2: why you told me to go ahead? 1623 01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:46,280 Speaker 4: Sorry? 1624 01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:49,439 Speaker 3: It was my bad because I looked up and I said, oh, okay. So, 1625 01:20:49,720 --> 01:20:52,599 Speaker 3: first of all, the bed is always sponsored by soft 1626 01:20:52,880 --> 01:20:55,360 Speaker 3: x Oh. Shout out to Salt x Oh. If you 1627 01:20:55,439 --> 01:20:58,400 Speaker 3: are a person who loves wellness and things that are 1628 01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:00,639 Speaker 3: all natural, you need to use SA so it gets 1629 01:21:01,040 --> 01:21:02,439 Speaker 3: my pH balanced. 1630 01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:04,679 Speaker 2: First of all, yes, it's gonna have your pH balance. 1631 01:21:04,720 --> 01:21:07,600 Speaker 2: It's gonna have you a kouchie feeling like you ate a. 1632 01:21:07,640 --> 01:21:08,320 Speaker 4: Mea uh huh. 1633 01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:11,920 Speaker 2: And on top of that, outside of just vaginal washes 1634 01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:14,360 Speaker 2: to keep your pH balance, they also have other products 1635 01:21:14,439 --> 01:21:18,320 Speaker 2: like she has boric acid suppository. She also has a 1636 01:21:18,360 --> 01:21:21,120 Speaker 2: sweet Release which is flippery elm, which is really good 1637 01:21:21,200 --> 01:21:24,439 Speaker 2: for your gi track, but it's also good for their kucie. 1638 01:21:25,040 --> 01:21:27,960 Speaker 2: You need a little lubrication, it's gonna get you right. 1639 01:21:28,240 --> 01:21:30,920 Speaker 3: And then they also have the rejuvenating oil, which works 1640 01:21:31,080 --> 01:21:32,160 Speaker 3: great on ingrowns. 1641 01:21:32,400 --> 01:21:33,599 Speaker 4: Do you get ingrowns anywhere? 1642 01:21:33,880 --> 01:21:34,080 Speaker 1: See? 1643 01:21:34,479 --> 01:21:38,439 Speaker 5: I stopped shaving my my backyard because of the ingrowns. 1644 01:21:38,560 --> 01:21:41,720 Speaker 3: I'm gonna we're gonna send you with his and it's good, 1645 01:21:41,840 --> 01:21:43,320 Speaker 3: and I want you to give us an honest review 1646 01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:44,000 Speaker 3: on how you like it. 1647 01:21:44,040 --> 01:21:44,160 Speaker 1: Oh. 1648 01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:45,800 Speaker 4: Absolutely, yes, it helps with ingrowns. 1649 01:21:45,840 --> 01:21:48,120 Speaker 3: So get youall rejuvenated oil because it's for you know, 1650 01:21:48,320 --> 01:21:49,360 Speaker 3: whoever needs to use it. 1651 01:21:49,479 --> 01:21:50,880 Speaker 4: Okay, go ahead, my bag. 1652 01:21:51,040 --> 01:21:56,960 Speaker 2: Amen. Okay, So for the bed topic, we're gonna talk 1653 01:21:56,960 --> 01:22:02,120 Speaker 2: about catching prints, which I had never heard this time before. 1654 01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:02,920 Speaker 7: Have you heard it? 1655 01:22:03,160 --> 01:22:04,760 Speaker 5: I feel like I recently just heard it, but I 1656 01:22:04,800 --> 01:22:06,760 Speaker 5: didn't get a thorough breakdown. Is it when a woman 1657 01:22:06,960 --> 01:22:09,639 Speaker 5: just or someone notices your print in your sweats? 1658 01:22:09,960 --> 01:22:13,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's more so for me and though right they 1659 01:22:13,400 --> 01:22:14,000 Speaker 2: catch my print. 1660 01:22:14,960 --> 01:22:16,120 Speaker 1: No, y'all have moose knuckle. 1661 01:22:16,320 --> 01:22:17,040 Speaker 4: We do have moose. 1662 01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:22,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all don't have print. Yeah, it's it's it's a 1663 01:22:22,439 --> 01:22:26,240 Speaker 1: it's a it's a shape, it's a dent, it's a 1664 01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:26,640 Speaker 1: it's a. 1665 01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:30,439 Speaker 2: It's a crease. Yes, it's a crease. 1666 01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:34,680 Speaker 1: It's that split eba, Yes, the crease that passes all. 1667 01:22:36,200 --> 01:22:37,360 Speaker 4: So how you feel about the prince? 1668 01:22:37,720 --> 01:22:37,760 Speaker 11: You? 1669 01:22:38,000 --> 01:22:40,599 Speaker 2: Well, the question is have you ever noticed the prince? 1670 01:22:40,920 --> 01:22:42,680 Speaker 2: And then you was trying to look away or you 1671 01:22:42,760 --> 01:22:43,639 Speaker 2: didn't know where to look? 1672 01:22:43,840 --> 01:22:43,880 Speaker 3: Me. 1673 01:22:44,160 --> 01:22:45,679 Speaker 2: If I see your print, I'm gonna look. 1674 01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:48,080 Speaker 1: I mean, obviously, if it's there, you want me to look, right. 1675 01:22:48,600 --> 01:22:49,240 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. 1676 01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:51,400 Speaker 4: I don't like women have they print out, So you 1677 01:22:51,520 --> 01:22:54,400 Speaker 4: be shy. I have been violated. Why are you shaking 1678 01:22:54,479 --> 01:22:55,760 Speaker 4: at me? So you be like this? 1679 01:22:56,640 --> 01:22:59,479 Speaker 12: I mean, I look and I'll be like, come on line, 1680 01:23:02,640 --> 01:23:08,080 Speaker 12: Why do you know everything? Because for thirty years now? 1681 01:23:09,560 --> 01:23:11,560 Speaker 4: But no, I feel like I have a lot of 1682 01:23:12,080 --> 01:23:13,720 Speaker 4: in the public now. 1683 01:23:13,800 --> 01:23:15,680 Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes like women like we have on 1684 01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:17,920 Speaker 3: like tight workout pants, but we have on draws sometimes 1685 01:23:17,920 --> 01:23:19,880 Speaker 3: that Garfield gonna show and we. 1686 01:23:19,960 --> 01:23:23,400 Speaker 4: Can't help it. It's just a big fat monk. But 1687 01:23:24,080 --> 01:23:25,360 Speaker 4: you know, I know. 1688 01:23:25,640 --> 01:23:27,600 Speaker 3: And let me say this, I'm glad we brought this 1689 01:23:27,800 --> 01:23:30,000 Speaker 3: up because when I'm on poor Minds and were talking, 1690 01:23:30,160 --> 01:23:32,519 Speaker 3: y'all can call me Garfield. If I post a nice, 1691 01:23:33,400 --> 01:23:37,040 Speaker 3: nice picture and I'm thinking I'm cute, don't comment Garfield 1692 01:23:37,120 --> 01:23:37,400 Speaker 3: under there. 1693 01:23:37,479 --> 01:23:40,680 Speaker 4: There's brands out here watching me. They're like, look at 1694 01:23:40,760 --> 01:23:41,800 Speaker 4: Garfield Beach. 1695 01:23:41,960 --> 01:23:44,799 Speaker 2: That's think that's your favorite cartoon. 1696 01:23:45,400 --> 01:23:48,000 Speaker 4: No, that brands is not weird. 1697 01:23:49,400 --> 01:23:51,479 Speaker 1: Ready too. 1698 01:23:53,000 --> 01:23:56,120 Speaker 4: Party, you know what I'm saying. 1699 01:23:56,280 --> 01:23:58,200 Speaker 3: I can't help it, but I do feel like it's 1700 01:23:58,200 --> 01:24:01,360 Speaker 3: a little different for men, for the most, for the most. 1701 01:24:01,240 --> 01:24:05,920 Speaker 5: Honest, okay, honest question, is it really that big of 1702 01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:09,240 Speaker 5: a deal. We already see the imprint of y'all breastlesces 1703 01:24:11,120 --> 01:24:14,200 Speaker 5: or the or the or the curvature of an ass. 1704 01:24:14,800 --> 01:24:17,400 Speaker 5: We know it's that like, is it Is it truly 1705 01:24:17,600 --> 01:24:19,240 Speaker 5: that big of a deal? 1706 01:24:19,640 --> 01:24:21,080 Speaker 4: You know why? I'll say yes and no. 1707 01:24:22,400 --> 01:24:22,439 Speaker 13: No. 1708 01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:25,320 Speaker 3: If you're just you run into the store real quick. Yes, 1709 01:24:25,479 --> 01:24:27,880 Speaker 3: because there's men that are being weird about it. 1710 01:24:29,120 --> 01:24:33,760 Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I did see a video on Instagram and 1711 01:24:33,760 --> 01:24:36,000 Speaker 2: the other day that made me a tad be uncomfortable. 1712 01:24:36,400 --> 01:24:39,080 Speaker 2: So it was this man and he was standing outside 1713 01:24:39,240 --> 01:24:41,000 Speaker 2: and he had some boxers well he had on like 1714 01:24:41,120 --> 01:24:43,960 Speaker 2: some long like basketball short but they was like this 1715 01:24:44,160 --> 01:24:46,800 Speaker 2: light blue color, so you could tell he didn't have 1716 01:24:46,880 --> 01:24:49,879 Speaker 2: no draws on underneath and you could see his prints 1717 01:24:50,040 --> 01:24:52,439 Speaker 2: or whatever. And he was like, I don't care about 1718 01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:54,800 Speaker 2: what women talking about. They don't listen to men. I 1719 01:24:54,920 --> 01:24:57,719 Speaker 2: got money and I touched services. 1720 01:24:58,479 --> 01:25:01,080 Speaker 4: And I was like, that's not good. 1721 01:25:01,680 --> 01:25:04,080 Speaker 1: You touch services. 1722 01:25:06,280 --> 01:25:07,479 Speaker 2: And what you can see the dicto? 1723 01:25:07,680 --> 01:25:12,639 Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, but my thing is okay? 1724 01:25:14,360 --> 01:25:16,559 Speaker 1: Is that all you is that all you have to offer? 1725 01:25:17,120 --> 01:25:17,320 Speaker 2: Are you? 1726 01:25:17,680 --> 01:25:18,719 Speaker 1: Are you actually cute? 1727 01:25:19,760 --> 01:25:21,479 Speaker 5: Because a lot of niggas be getting away what they 1728 01:25:21,560 --> 01:25:23,800 Speaker 5: need and they not the body. A lot of these 1729 01:25:23,840 --> 01:25:26,880 Speaker 5: niggas be ugly as fuck, and they think just pumping iron, 1730 01:25:27,240 --> 01:25:30,880 Speaker 5: that's gonna make this the I gotta look at you, niggah. 1731 01:25:31,880 --> 01:25:33,679 Speaker 5: I have to look at you, and we can't. Ain't 1732 01:25:33,680 --> 01:25:35,360 Speaker 5: but so much hitting it from the back we're gonna do. 1733 01:25:36,760 --> 01:25:38,800 Speaker 5: Ain't so many paper bags I can put over your 1734 01:25:38,840 --> 01:25:41,640 Speaker 5: goddamn head you be able to look at you. 1735 01:25:42,840 --> 01:25:43,640 Speaker 4: But let me ask you this. 1736 01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:44,919 Speaker 1: My mother was a real. 1737 01:25:59,160 --> 01:25:59,639 Speaker 2: Ten dollars. 1738 01:25:59,800 --> 01:26:05,640 Speaker 4: If that get you again, see how you do? She 1739 01:26:05,720 --> 01:26:09,280 Speaker 4: coulda come gets you again ten dollars? Why would you 1740 01:26:09,400 --> 01:26:20,880 Speaker 4: do that? Man? Time is your fault? 1741 01:26:31,479 --> 01:26:33,920 Speaker 1: I fect she was making how God a mean. 1742 01:26:35,960 --> 01:26:36,200 Speaker 7: Man? 1743 01:26:40,000 --> 01:26:40,280 Speaker 3: I just. 1744 01:26:43,960 --> 01:26:49,639 Speaker 5: I just have to say real quick, uncle Tyler yeah, 1745 01:26:51,240 --> 01:26:54,320 Speaker 5: you have made some of the most traumatic films comedies. Now, 1746 01:26:54,439 --> 01:26:56,760 Speaker 5: I just want you to know there is a whole 1747 01:26:56,840 --> 01:26:59,760 Speaker 5: generation behind us that are looking at us, like, why 1748 01:26:59,840 --> 01:27:02,920 Speaker 5: you're laughing at the color purple while y'all laughing during 1749 01:27:03,479 --> 01:27:06,160 Speaker 5: or quoting what's love got to do with it? And 1750 01:27:06,200 --> 01:27:10,600 Speaker 5: all these like traumatic movies, like it's your fault. 1751 01:27:13,600 --> 01:27:14,920 Speaker 1: That he was doing it in place. 1752 01:27:16,000 --> 01:27:17,519 Speaker 4: It's all right, So we needed that. 1753 01:27:20,000 --> 01:27:21,519 Speaker 1: I mean, they're looking at us crazy. 1754 01:27:21,680 --> 01:27:24,720 Speaker 4: They are you generation, like how are y'all watching this? 1755 01:27:25,640 --> 01:27:26,839 Speaker 1: Because they wasn't there. 1756 01:27:27,080 --> 01:27:28,559 Speaker 2: Or even for colored girls. 1757 01:27:29,040 --> 01:27:36,679 Speaker 14: So oh that was a he said, No, it's Loretta divine. 1758 01:27:39,040 --> 01:27:41,000 Speaker 14: I just meant, Loretta, by the way I love I. 1759 01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:45,360 Speaker 4: Love her, is so comforted. 1760 01:27:45,439 --> 01:27:46,799 Speaker 1: It is also too. 1761 01:27:48,160 --> 01:27:51,519 Speaker 5: And I just say, I'm so grateful to be in 1762 01:27:51,640 --> 01:27:59,400 Speaker 5: the same timeline as Jennifer Lewis. There there is nothing 1763 01:28:00,320 --> 01:28:04,840 Speaker 5: in the world like getting cussed out by Jennifer Lewis. 1764 01:28:05,200 --> 01:28:06,880 Speaker 1: You got baby. 1765 01:28:07,120 --> 01:28:09,400 Speaker 5: We were facetiming one of the first few times when 1766 01:28:09,400 --> 01:28:12,320 Speaker 5: we were talking and I was smoking a Dutch She said, 1767 01:28:12,360 --> 01:28:18,560 Speaker 5: I know this motherfucker smoking on the goddamn place, and 1768 01:28:18,640 --> 01:28:20,599 Speaker 5: I was like, but then, I wait, then I want 1769 01:28:20,600 --> 01:28:21,400 Speaker 5: to go try to sneak one. 1770 01:28:21,880 --> 01:28:24,120 Speaker 1: She's take one, Nigga. 1771 01:28:26,880 --> 01:28:28,479 Speaker 2: I need to get cussed out by the vision. 1772 01:28:28,520 --> 01:28:28,960 Speaker 6: I ain't. 1773 01:28:30,280 --> 01:28:34,400 Speaker 5: So getting between getting gathered by Lynn Wickfield and getting 1774 01:28:34,439 --> 01:28:36,000 Speaker 5: cussed out by Jennifer Lewis. 1775 01:28:35,880 --> 01:28:36,559 Speaker 1: Life is complete. 1776 01:28:36,680 --> 01:28:38,240 Speaker 4: You FeelA getting blocked by Oprah. 1777 01:28:38,360 --> 01:28:39,600 Speaker 2: I'm add that to my. 1778 01:28:41,960 --> 01:28:44,680 Speaker 1: Well, I'm being blocked by May J Blige. Real, but 1779 01:28:44,920 --> 01:28:46,120 Speaker 1: that's on expert. 1780 01:28:46,120 --> 01:28:48,360 Speaker 5: I don't think that's really her, but that's because niggas 1781 01:28:48,439 --> 01:28:50,880 Speaker 5: kept tagging her in my cover of Crispy Chicken. 1782 01:28:51,240 --> 01:28:55,240 Speaker 1: And it's just again, I know, I know first that 1783 01:28:55,400 --> 01:28:56,400 Speaker 1: was a good song. 1784 01:28:56,439 --> 01:28:57,000 Speaker 7: I don't know why. 1785 01:28:57,080 --> 01:28:58,880 Speaker 1: Why did my life. 1786 01:29:00,120 --> 01:29:02,760 Speaker 4: I thought that was good. I think people the backlash, 1787 01:29:03,080 --> 01:29:03,880 Speaker 4: but I thought it was. 1788 01:29:04,120 --> 01:29:07,479 Speaker 5: But nobody was giving people Bryson investor Williams any fever 1789 01:29:07,560 --> 01:29:09,679 Speaker 5: about scatting about big mac burgers. 1790 01:29:09,760 --> 01:29:12,719 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. McDonald's been making them coming. 1791 01:29:14,160 --> 01:29:17,640 Speaker 2: She's let us take us on his takes Evon like 1792 01:29:18,439 --> 01:29:20,000 Speaker 2: or Smoky Robinson about there. 1793 01:29:21,200 --> 01:29:26,840 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he said we even smoking smoking that crak. 1794 01:29:28,880 --> 01:29:32,320 Speaker 8: Yeah, smoking that dumoaking that. 1795 01:29:36,880 --> 01:29:38,240 Speaker 4: So it's like, leave her alone. 1796 01:29:38,360 --> 01:29:40,519 Speaker 3: I thought the commercial was great, and guess what when 1797 01:29:40,560 --> 01:29:42,000 Speaker 3: I saw it for the first time, guess what I 1798 01:29:42,000 --> 01:29:42,400 Speaker 3: went bid? 1799 01:29:43,080 --> 01:29:45,160 Speaker 4: We got your christpic chicken. 1800 01:29:46,680 --> 01:29:48,680 Speaker 1: Do they even still have I don't think so. 1801 01:29:49,120 --> 01:29:50,800 Speaker 2: But they need to bring your bag because then I 1802 01:29:50,920 --> 01:29:51,160 Speaker 2: might go. 1803 01:29:51,360 --> 01:29:54,120 Speaker 5: No, what Duncan Donuts need to bring back is the strawberry, 1804 01:29:54,200 --> 01:29:55,320 Speaker 5: but not a smoothie's with. 1805 01:29:55,439 --> 01:29:59,360 Speaker 1: The with the Greek yo girt. Okay, that's what y'all 1806 01:29:59,439 --> 01:30:02,120 Speaker 1: need to bring. Yes, y'all, I don't notice. 1807 01:30:04,479 --> 01:30:05,000 Speaker 6: And speaking of. 1808 01:30:07,520 --> 01:30:12,760 Speaker 3: God, well, speaking of food real quick, because I told 1809 01:30:12,800 --> 01:30:14,559 Speaker 3: you I had something to charge you up about earlier, 1810 01:30:14,680 --> 01:30:15,640 Speaker 3: so I'm ready to talk about it. 1811 01:30:16,000 --> 01:30:17,600 Speaker 4: That was the perfect time. And then we're gonna move on. 1812 01:30:18,120 --> 01:30:22,760 Speaker 3: What's wrong with ice cubes and orange juice? Because you 1813 01:30:22,880 --> 01:30:25,760 Speaker 3: got so upset that she said she liked ice cubes 1814 01:30:25,800 --> 01:30:28,400 Speaker 3: and orange juice. I think I don't even like ice 1815 01:30:28,479 --> 01:30:30,840 Speaker 3: cubes really, but I think ice cubes and orange juice 1816 01:30:30,840 --> 01:30:33,439 Speaker 3: are fine because orange juice is thick, well, the ice 1817 01:30:33,520 --> 01:30:34,920 Speaker 3: cubes will kind of tin it out. 1818 01:30:37,200 --> 01:30:42,680 Speaker 5: No, we don't need to thin out our orange juice. Furthermore, 1819 01:30:42,880 --> 01:30:46,000 Speaker 5: pulp in your orange juice is a sign of laziness. 1820 01:30:47,720 --> 01:30:52,040 Speaker 1: It is unless it is fresh squeezed. Yeah, orange juice 1821 01:30:52,080 --> 01:30:55,040 Speaker 1: is the only time I'm going to except. 1822 01:30:59,160 --> 01:31:00,439 Speaker 7: In your orange juice. 1823 01:31:01,000 --> 01:31:03,200 Speaker 1: I know you got bodies sitting under your house. 1824 01:31:04,520 --> 01:31:05,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you do. 1825 01:31:05,560 --> 01:31:08,720 Speaker 5: You and Jeffrey Dahmer absolutely see they're sisters. 1826 01:31:09,160 --> 01:31:10,840 Speaker 1: Okay, people who. 1827 01:31:10,800 --> 01:31:15,920 Speaker 5: Drink orange juice with ice and Jeffrey Damer your sister. 1828 01:31:16,800 --> 01:31:17,000 Speaker 9: Yeah. 1829 01:31:17,800 --> 01:31:21,719 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie as an orange kind of sewer myself. 1830 01:31:22,960 --> 01:31:24,000 Speaker 1: What kind of orange juice? 1831 01:31:24,400 --> 01:31:25,840 Speaker 2: I like orange juice without the pole? 1832 01:31:25,960 --> 01:31:27,439 Speaker 1: Know what kind of on what brand? 1833 01:31:27,920 --> 01:31:30,719 Speaker 6: Simply ice? 1834 01:31:31,560 --> 01:31:35,040 Speaker 2: No, that's why you lost me. If anything, if you 1835 01:31:35,080 --> 01:31:36,839 Speaker 2: wanted a little colder, put it in a freezer. 1836 01:31:36,880 --> 01:31:42,040 Speaker 5: So get a chilled get a chilled glass with liquid 1837 01:31:42,280 --> 01:31:43,679 Speaker 5: inside of the glass. 1838 01:31:43,960 --> 01:31:47,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, so that it can kill the beverridge. Man. 1839 01:31:48,720 --> 01:31:50,400 Speaker 2: I agree, we don't need any ice. 1840 01:31:53,640 --> 01:31:59,960 Speaker 1: Because we don't need ice. Okay, we don't need eyes. 1841 01:32:00,680 --> 01:32:05,720 Speaker 2: Please, no ice, no ice. But pulp is weird to 1842 01:32:05,800 --> 01:32:09,519 Speaker 2: me because why is my juice textured? I don't want 1843 01:32:09,600 --> 01:32:10,639 Speaker 2: no textured juice. 1844 01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:12,120 Speaker 1: So here's the thing. Here's the thing. 1845 01:32:17,640 --> 01:32:18,519 Speaker 6: I'm sorry, y'all. 1846 01:32:20,160 --> 01:32:21,480 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. 1847 01:32:30,000 --> 01:32:35,120 Speaker 1: A r P because I gotta oh my gosh, yes, 1848 01:32:35,479 --> 01:32:36,960 Speaker 1: oh okay, it's just nasty. 1849 01:32:37,880 --> 01:32:39,000 Speaker 4: Okay, that's fine, just. 1850 01:32:39,080 --> 01:32:42,160 Speaker 1: Like chicklings and black eyed peas ice and orange juice. 1851 01:32:42,360 --> 01:32:45,519 Speaker 2: Nasty or just likes period period. 1852 01:32:45,760 --> 01:32:47,520 Speaker 4: Black eyed peas are amazing. 1853 01:32:47,880 --> 01:32:49,080 Speaker 1: You know what, Can I just say this? 1854 01:32:49,320 --> 01:32:53,720 Speaker 5: I am so grateful shout out to you, Cherylyn, my 1855 01:32:53,880 --> 01:32:57,839 Speaker 5: first best friend. She never forced me to eat anything 1856 01:32:57,880 --> 01:32:59,160 Speaker 5: that I did not want. 1857 01:32:59,640 --> 01:33:00,200 Speaker 2: To eat eat. 1858 01:33:01,280 --> 01:33:03,280 Speaker 1: See That's why every time I watch Crooked, my owner 1859 01:33:03,360 --> 01:33:06,479 Speaker 1: child be like every time he. 1860 01:33:06,479 --> 01:33:09,960 Speaker 5: Sees Nate have to eat those black eyed peas. Oh God, 1861 01:33:10,320 --> 01:33:13,160 Speaker 5: oh God, just throw me in the choky for the weekend. 1862 01:33:13,200 --> 01:33:15,960 Speaker 5: Why don't you I have black eyed peas? 1863 01:33:16,000 --> 01:33:16,840 Speaker 4: What's your favorite food? 1864 01:33:17,360 --> 01:33:20,000 Speaker 2: But have you had them with like the cooks, like 1865 01:33:20,160 --> 01:33:22,840 Speaker 2: slow cooks, with the turkey nicks, with the season and 1866 01:33:22,960 --> 01:33:25,680 Speaker 2: with the rice and little hot sauce? Have you had 1867 01:33:25,720 --> 01:33:26,080 Speaker 2: them like that? 1868 01:33:26,320 --> 01:33:30,080 Speaker 1: It's just when I when, when the when the pea 1869 01:33:30,320 --> 01:33:32,719 Speaker 1: explodes in my mouth. 1870 01:33:32,920 --> 01:33:33,439 Speaker 4: I love that. 1871 01:33:35,640 --> 01:33:37,800 Speaker 2: The spirit of what are y'all talking about? 1872 01:33:38,200 --> 01:33:45,120 Speaker 1: Bold spirit of regret wash is over me because why 1873 01:33:45,560 --> 01:33:49,040 Speaker 1: is this in my mouth? I've never liked black eyed peas. 1874 01:33:49,080 --> 01:33:50,040 Speaker 1: Now what I do like? 1875 01:33:51,320 --> 01:33:53,320 Speaker 5: We love at everything that I usually do for the 1876 01:33:53,360 --> 01:33:56,200 Speaker 5: most PARTE is grilled Okay, we love a grilled chicken. 1877 01:33:56,840 --> 01:33:57,759 Speaker 2: I like grilled chicken. 1878 01:33:57,840 --> 01:34:03,400 Speaker 5: You love salmon mm hm, we love some ground turkey. 1879 01:34:05,439 --> 01:34:07,840 Speaker 1: Of course. I love a rice roach. Okay, give me 1880 01:34:07,960 --> 01:34:08,479 Speaker 1: some shrimp. 1881 01:34:09,080 --> 01:34:12,879 Speaker 13: Oh okay, I love a mussel. Yeah, I like muscles, 1882 01:34:12,960 --> 01:34:18,599 Speaker 13: a little lobster tail. Please save the turkey bacon. Okay, 1883 01:34:18,840 --> 01:34:22,360 Speaker 13: you and those pudders of ice and orange juice. 1884 01:34:22,439 --> 01:34:23,920 Speaker 1: Y'all are again. Y'all are sister. 1885 01:34:24,840 --> 01:34:30,160 Speaker 5: Now turkey bacon and ice and oh ja your sister. 1886 01:34:30,600 --> 01:34:31,800 Speaker 4: That's my whole. See. 1887 01:34:31,880 --> 01:34:36,400 Speaker 2: I used to suck up some turkey bacon. However, they 1888 01:34:36,520 --> 01:34:39,800 Speaker 2: said that it's like a class a carcentergin and I 1889 01:34:39,920 --> 01:34:42,120 Speaker 2: was like, I can't eat it no more because it's 1890 01:34:42,120 --> 01:34:45,800 Speaker 2: processed meat, which I didn't know that, but like, yeah, 1891 01:34:45,960 --> 01:34:47,759 Speaker 2: so I don't eat it no more. Do you like beans? 1892 01:34:47,880 --> 01:34:48,839 Speaker 4: Any kind of beans? 1893 01:34:50,120 --> 01:34:55,760 Speaker 5: Beans, beans, tomatoes, tomatoes? You black beans a little bit? 1894 01:34:55,960 --> 01:34:57,799 Speaker 1: And in my in my Chipotle order. 1895 01:34:57,880 --> 01:35:01,040 Speaker 2: I like lake means that's it, little pinto a little 1896 01:35:01,040 --> 01:35:05,280 Speaker 2: bit rad beans and rice to all right, right, okay, 1897 01:35:05,400 --> 01:35:06,400 Speaker 2: now that's a rice. 1898 01:35:06,400 --> 01:35:09,479 Speaker 1: Period especially KANGI I like rice. 1899 01:35:09,600 --> 01:35:11,720 Speaker 4: Okay, I'm not all range. 1900 01:35:13,200 --> 01:35:13,720 Speaker 7: Shoot out. 1901 01:35:15,680 --> 01:35:17,760 Speaker 4: I was Chinese at the beginning of the year. 1902 01:35:18,160 --> 01:35:22,519 Speaker 1: Wuz shoon show something she shown? 1903 01:35:22,720 --> 01:35:25,879 Speaker 2: Show what the fuck is Kanji? 1904 01:35:26,160 --> 01:35:29,040 Speaker 4: That's a breakfast? This I got you I got you. 1905 01:35:29,400 --> 01:35:34,760 Speaker 1: I got you. Kanji is Chinese grits. Okay, it's just 1906 01:35:34,920 --> 01:35:37,960 Speaker 1: a little soupier. But they put bits and pieces of. 1907 01:35:38,080 --> 01:35:42,640 Speaker 5: Chicken in there, some chives, some ginger, you know, and 1908 01:35:42,680 --> 01:35:44,560 Speaker 5: I put a little lemon pepper season in there, you know, 1909 01:35:44,760 --> 01:35:47,479 Speaker 5: live in it up. And I just got a rice 1910 01:35:47,560 --> 01:35:49,280 Speaker 5: coca so I'm about to try it takes an hour 1911 01:35:49,360 --> 01:35:49,479 Speaker 5: to do. 1912 01:35:49,600 --> 01:35:52,040 Speaker 1: But I mean, I'm that's not like a spread. 1913 01:35:52,680 --> 01:35:54,240 Speaker 4: It's like it's like a porridge. 1914 01:35:54,400 --> 01:35:57,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, porridge, okay, and one thing you want to do, okay, 1915 01:35:57,439 --> 01:35:58,360 Speaker 1: so okay, so do this. 1916 01:35:58,800 --> 01:36:00,320 Speaker 2: Chicken pieces, porridge, cheecken. 1917 01:36:00,400 --> 01:36:00,840 Speaker 1: What's today? 1918 01:36:01,800 --> 01:36:02,439 Speaker 4: It's not sweet? 1919 01:36:02,640 --> 01:36:03,640 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I know. 1920 01:36:04,240 --> 01:36:06,720 Speaker 5: So for the next week, ladies, do this because I 1921 01:36:06,760 --> 01:36:08,960 Speaker 5: heard this really benefits y'all for those of you who 1922 01:36:09,040 --> 01:36:09,679 Speaker 5: have universes. 1923 01:36:10,640 --> 01:36:17,160 Speaker 1: Oh yes, math another thing, yeah, warm water? First thing? 1924 01:36:17,520 --> 01:36:21,320 Speaker 3: Oh, stomach lates Chinese. I remember when I was trying 1925 01:36:21,320 --> 01:36:24,960 Speaker 3: to the year. You gotta add goldieberries. 1926 01:36:25,160 --> 01:36:26,880 Speaker 1: No, no, no, but you know, I mean goldie bears. 1927 01:36:27,240 --> 01:36:29,360 Speaker 5: But you don't even need lemon because that's too much 1928 01:36:30,120 --> 01:36:31,400 Speaker 5: acid on your on your teeth. 1929 01:36:31,479 --> 01:36:39,920 Speaker 2: Come on, mind, poor's all right. I don't think it's gonna. 1930 01:36:39,640 --> 01:36:43,519 Speaker 1: Do my eyes aren't really green. 1931 01:36:50,520 --> 01:36:51,880 Speaker 2: Right exactly. 1932 01:36:52,800 --> 01:37:09,880 Speaker 1: These these ain't money you never saw, did you ever see? 1933 01:37:10,120 --> 01:37:14,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you, sucker, Yeah, just because I know. 1934 01:37:14,840 --> 01:37:17,519 Speaker 1: I listen. I know the gen z Ors, like I'm 1935 01:37:17,520 --> 01:37:18,920 Speaker 1: sure that the Alphas. 1936 01:37:18,479 --> 01:37:23,040 Speaker 2: And lost we wish I seen. And I told you 1937 01:37:23,120 --> 01:37:24,480 Speaker 2: my parents was booming. 1938 01:37:24,240 --> 01:37:27,680 Speaker 1: That that that part and she was a doctor a man. 1939 01:37:27,840 --> 01:37:30,720 Speaker 4: We still got one, we still got another. It adds, Oh, 1940 01:37:30,760 --> 01:37:33,640 Speaker 4: go ahead, we got you. You were finna do it. 1941 01:37:33,960 --> 01:37:36,880 Speaker 4: This is gonna be your favorite one. Now it's time 1942 01:37:37,040 --> 01:37:39,320 Speaker 4: to get into double A. 1943 01:37:40,120 --> 01:37:43,280 Speaker 7: The bout about. 1944 01:37:45,200 --> 01:37:48,120 Speaker 3: So bop of the week is music that we've been 1945 01:37:48,160 --> 01:37:51,120 Speaker 3: listening to this week, okay, or like whatever that we 1946 01:37:51,280 --> 01:37:55,920 Speaker 3: really love. So I'm so excited because I talk about 1947 01:37:55,920 --> 01:37:58,160 Speaker 3: this person so much, and I said, he's one of 1948 01:37:58,800 --> 01:38:02,360 Speaker 3: my personal faith her vocalist because he can sing, and 1949 01:38:02,479 --> 01:38:05,479 Speaker 3: I think people got misguided by the type of music 1950 01:38:05,520 --> 01:38:07,120 Speaker 3: he was made. He's kind of having his t Pain 1951 01:38:07,240 --> 01:38:09,080 Speaker 3: moment right now. Remember when everybody was like, te Pain 1952 01:38:09,160 --> 01:38:11,320 Speaker 3: can't sing. He had to take that auto tune off. 1953 01:38:12,439 --> 01:38:14,120 Speaker 4: Thanks he can sing. 1954 01:38:14,560 --> 01:38:19,439 Speaker 3: So Fettiwap dropped the album and he released his new 1955 01:38:19,600 --> 01:38:22,599 Speaker 3: song called Xavier, and it's like an old school. He's 1956 01:38:22,680 --> 01:38:27,479 Speaker 3: like scatting doing jazz and it's fucking fabulous and everybody's like, oh, 1957 01:38:27,600 --> 01:38:30,720 Speaker 3: lexp has been avenged. Yes, because I've been telling you 1958 01:38:31,120 --> 01:38:31,960 Speaker 3: Letty Walk can sing. 1959 01:38:32,920 --> 01:38:33,439 Speaker 6: He can sing. 1960 01:38:33,560 --> 01:38:34,880 Speaker 4: I know you're not believing me right now. 1961 01:38:34,960 --> 01:38:38,599 Speaker 1: No, I haven't heard, uh Bishop wop? 1962 01:38:38,920 --> 01:38:42,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, Bishop, But I think. 1963 01:38:42,200 --> 01:38:44,920 Speaker 4: That the video is creative. I think it's good. 1964 01:38:45,040 --> 01:38:47,400 Speaker 3: Like I said, it gives a jazz type of vibe 1965 01:38:47,400 --> 01:38:49,479 Speaker 3: and he's really singing in it, and I think that 1966 01:38:49,600 --> 01:38:51,080 Speaker 3: this is what he needed to show the people. So 1967 01:38:51,240 --> 01:38:55,439 Speaker 3: thank you Fetti Wap for proving me right. That's set up. 1968 01:38:55,600 --> 01:38:59,080 Speaker 3: That's all right, d we having a we having about us? 1969 01:39:04,120 --> 01:39:06,200 Speaker 3: But yeah, that's my bop of the week. Bettie wops, 1970 01:39:06,320 --> 01:39:11,720 Speaker 3: Xavier uh sanging his ass off as he should the week. 1971 01:39:11,920 --> 01:39:15,439 Speaker 2: Okay, So in very rare situations do we have guests 1972 01:39:15,479 --> 01:39:18,240 Speaker 2: on the show and then their song is my bibe 1973 01:39:19,240 --> 01:39:24,559 Speaker 2: but Mango Butter by Dream Bernard. That's my song because 1974 01:39:24,920 --> 01:39:25,639 Speaker 2: I'm a bad. 1975 01:39:25,479 --> 01:39:29,960 Speaker 1: Bitch and hello, that's your theme song, baby, it really is. 1976 01:39:30,720 --> 01:39:31,479 Speaker 1: That's my ship. 1977 01:39:31,640 --> 01:39:32,000 Speaker 4: I love. 1978 01:39:32,080 --> 01:39:35,519 Speaker 2: That's probably my favorite song by you. Yeah, that's my 1979 01:39:36,240 --> 01:39:51,479 Speaker 2: father exactly, what's but that's my ship? I was listening 1980 01:39:51,520 --> 01:39:52,200 Speaker 2: to you on the way here. 1981 01:39:53,640 --> 01:39:57,000 Speaker 1: My bop of the week, My bop of the week 1982 01:39:57,360 --> 01:40:03,400 Speaker 1: is Oh god, yes, it is called I saw it 1983 01:40:03,439 --> 01:40:05,400 Speaker 1: on somebody's close friends or. 1984 01:40:07,160 --> 01:40:07,599 Speaker 4: The lady. 1985 01:40:08,040 --> 01:40:10,160 Speaker 1: No, someone you know who's. 1986 01:40:10,040 --> 01:40:10,680 Speaker 4: Who posted this? 1987 01:40:10,840 --> 01:40:11,680 Speaker 1: Who posted the song? 1988 01:40:11,800 --> 01:40:13,760 Speaker 5: It was on their close friends and they were showing 1989 01:40:13,800 --> 01:40:17,200 Speaker 5: their tail. Oh yeah, it was somebody who has to 1990 01:40:17,240 --> 01:40:18,280 Speaker 5: go with But you know that's my friend. 1991 01:40:19,600 --> 01:40:20,160 Speaker 1: What they knew love. 1992 01:40:20,240 --> 01:40:21,400 Speaker 5: You know, I was the best thing that ever happened 1993 01:40:21,439 --> 01:40:22,519 Speaker 5: to him, by the way, But I'm just saying, you know, 1994 01:40:23,320 --> 01:40:24,720 Speaker 5: he know that, and his mama know that because me 1995 01:40:24,720 --> 01:40:29,720 Speaker 5: and her still be talking. It is nineties Aquarium by 1996 01:40:30,160 --> 01:40:33,439 Speaker 5: bone Chic. That is my song of the week. It 1997 01:40:33,600 --> 01:40:40,000 Speaker 5: is an eleven minute song. It just it's wavy. It's 1998 01:40:40,280 --> 01:40:42,200 Speaker 5: very y'all know that girl? 1999 01:40:42,560 --> 01:40:43,400 Speaker 4: What genre is that? 2000 01:40:43,840 --> 01:40:47,040 Speaker 1: It's like think of. 2001 01:40:48,920 --> 01:40:51,160 Speaker 5: If you were here, If you were here tonight by 2002 01:40:51,520 --> 01:40:56,280 Speaker 5: Alexander O'Neill. It's in that realm, but imagine that instrumental 2003 01:40:56,439 --> 01:40:58,840 Speaker 5: just for eleven minutes long. It's so y'all know that 2004 01:40:58,920 --> 01:41:01,799 Speaker 5: girl on social media that be dancing in the different 2005 01:41:02,880 --> 01:41:07,040 Speaker 5: environments to exx Alexander O'Neill and then she jumps off 2006 01:41:07,400 --> 01:41:08,599 Speaker 5: randomly you know what I'm talking about. 2007 01:41:09,000 --> 01:41:09,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh, I thought he was. 2008 01:41:09,880 --> 01:41:11,400 Speaker 2: Talking about a girl from the Apple Store. 2009 01:41:12,040 --> 01:41:16,160 Speaker 5: No, no, yeah, yeah, no, she's another but y'all, but 2010 01:41:16,439 --> 01:41:22,280 Speaker 5: just nineties aquarium bone Chek b O in Chic. It's 2011 01:41:22,439 --> 01:41:27,200 Speaker 5: just honestly, it sounds like holding music, but it's still 2012 01:41:27,280 --> 01:41:28,240 Speaker 5: it's right. 2013 01:41:28,400 --> 01:41:31,439 Speaker 1: You don't, don't don't. 2014 01:41:39,800 --> 01:41:40,720 Speaker 4: Can you do a song to that? 2015 01:41:42,200 --> 01:41:42,400 Speaker 1: Yes? 2016 01:41:43,400 --> 01:41:47,000 Speaker 4: I love that beat? When I will I when they 2017 01:41:47,040 --> 01:41:49,080 Speaker 4: put me on hold and they played that one right there? 2018 01:41:54,000 --> 01:41:57,360 Speaker 2: You said, can I will lie? 2019 01:41:57,439 --> 01:41:59,000 Speaker 1: I will lie the question. 2020 01:42:02,560 --> 01:42:03,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a good trick. 2021 01:42:03,840 --> 01:42:09,599 Speaker 2: We having a grand having a little key. Okay, So yeah, 2022 01:42:09,640 --> 01:42:12,559 Speaker 2: I'm gonna say, if y'all like the print, I don't 2023 01:42:12,680 --> 01:42:13,360 Speaker 2: like the print. 2024 01:42:13,560 --> 01:42:17,040 Speaker 1: I don't mind. I don't mind a print. It's just 2025 01:42:19,040 --> 01:42:23,639 Speaker 1: penis is cool. But I have my own, so it's 2026 01:42:23,720 --> 01:42:24,759 Speaker 1: not that exciting. 2027 01:42:24,920 --> 01:42:25,200 Speaker 4: I think. 2028 01:42:25,680 --> 01:42:29,800 Speaker 5: The only time, the only time that that penis would 2029 01:42:29,840 --> 01:42:33,400 Speaker 5: excite me is if it's uncut. Oh yeah, I'm a 2030 01:42:33,479 --> 01:42:40,040 Speaker 5: I'm a I'm a I'm an uncut advocate absolutely, because 2031 01:42:40,080 --> 01:42:44,200 Speaker 5: see what happens is that right there, being circumcised is 2032 01:42:44,479 --> 01:42:49,160 Speaker 5: unnecessary cosmetic surgery, and that's why it is done. When 2033 01:42:49,240 --> 01:42:51,960 Speaker 5: we are infants, because if we were to get it 2034 01:42:52,000 --> 01:42:53,400 Speaker 5: later on in life, we wouldn't want to get it 2035 01:42:53,560 --> 01:42:56,160 Speaker 5: because it hurts. And on top of that, you're already 2036 01:42:56,240 --> 01:42:59,080 Speaker 5: removing more than twenty five percent of our nerve endings. 2037 01:42:59,240 --> 01:43:01,960 Speaker 5: So guys that are circumcised feel more closely to how 2038 01:43:02,040 --> 01:43:05,880 Speaker 5: your clearicists feel when it's stimulated than us that are circumcised. 2039 01:43:05,960 --> 01:43:07,880 Speaker 5: So I do have a little bit of penis envy 2040 01:43:08,080 --> 01:43:09,479 Speaker 5: from my uncut brothers. 2041 01:43:09,600 --> 01:43:10,680 Speaker 4: Yes, now I do. 2042 01:43:11,040 --> 01:43:12,679 Speaker 3: I do agree with you on that because I feel 2043 01:43:12,720 --> 01:43:15,439 Speaker 3: like it is unnecessary cosmic surgery, like if a baby 2044 01:43:15,960 --> 01:43:17,920 Speaker 3: could choose, But if I was a baby, I would 2045 01:43:17,920 --> 01:43:18,599 Speaker 3: have got my bbo. 2046 01:43:19,840 --> 01:43:28,800 Speaker 2: Okay, excuse me, babies zoom be having booty doo though 2047 01:43:34,320 --> 01:43:35,240 Speaker 2: for a long time. 2048 01:43:35,400 --> 01:43:36,800 Speaker 4: Okay, you know what I'm saying. 2049 01:43:37,439 --> 01:43:37,960 Speaker 7: I made. 2050 01:43:40,040 --> 01:43:42,120 Speaker 4: Right, but you know you're right. All jokes are saying 2051 01:43:42,160 --> 01:43:42,559 Speaker 4: you right. 2052 01:43:42,920 --> 01:43:47,120 Speaker 6: Order the car, God order. 2053 01:43:47,320 --> 01:43:48,519 Speaker 4: Okay. Let's move on, y'all. 2054 01:43:48,560 --> 01:43:51,120 Speaker 3: Okay, so we're gonna do our last segment of the show. 2055 01:43:52,000 --> 01:43:57,479 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, it's your string number three or four. You're 2056 01:43:57,560 --> 01:44:00,920 Speaker 3: sixteen at wall ye not Korean pas. 2057 01:44:04,840 --> 01:44:07,760 Speaker 1: Lean and sup Bore feel like this. 2058 01:44:13,560 --> 01:44:14,160 Speaker 4: To get the wig. 2059 01:44:17,439 --> 01:44:19,160 Speaker 1: This hat is trying to run run away. 2060 01:44:22,640 --> 01:44:26,920 Speaker 2: She want to run away and never come backs. 2061 01:44:27,080 --> 01:44:27,599 Speaker 4: Was rapid. 2062 01:44:29,360 --> 01:44:29,920 Speaker 1: Chris doesn't. 2063 01:44:30,400 --> 01:44:34,240 Speaker 5: Ludocris does not get his just due, specifically when it 2064 01:44:34,320 --> 01:44:37,679 Speaker 5: comes to visuals, because I put Ludacris in the same 2065 01:44:37,840 --> 01:44:42,880 Speaker 5: category as Missy and bust Ryde stand up absolutely. 2066 01:44:44,000 --> 01:44:50,640 Speaker 4: Just because he feels her up balloons. She's selling pus it. 2067 01:44:50,960 --> 01:44:53,240 Speaker 6: Whah, I'm. 2068 01:44:57,080 --> 01:45:00,080 Speaker 1: Something watch. 2069 01:45:01,840 --> 01:45:02,240 Speaker 4: Was all right? 2070 01:45:02,720 --> 01:45:04,960 Speaker 1: Well, like I'm good at it, should charge, That's all 2071 01:45:04,960 --> 01:45:05,439 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say. 2072 01:45:05,479 --> 01:45:06,040 Speaker 2: Why are we asking? 2073 01:45:06,160 --> 01:45:06,880 Speaker 7: Why we know why? 2074 01:45:06,960 --> 01:45:07,479 Speaker 3: She said. 2075 01:45:08,920 --> 01:45:12,840 Speaker 1: Out to the sex workers. Sex work is work, all 2076 01:45:13,200 --> 01:45:14,000 Speaker 1: necessary and. 2077 01:45:14,080 --> 01:45:15,880 Speaker 5: You should be respected for your line of work. You 2078 01:45:15,920 --> 01:45:18,559 Speaker 5: should be compensated for your work, you know what I'm saying. 2079 01:45:18,680 --> 01:45:20,479 Speaker 5: So it's just because if you're good at it, why 2080 01:45:20,560 --> 01:45:22,080 Speaker 5: should Why should you be doing it for free? 2081 01:45:22,120 --> 01:45:22,439 Speaker 4: Period? 2082 01:45:22,479 --> 01:45:26,479 Speaker 5: And that's why the girls be shaving sex workers, because 2083 01:45:26,800 --> 01:45:29,320 Speaker 5: they getting compensated for the ship that they're doing for free. 2084 01:45:29,800 --> 01:45:32,000 Speaker 1: And what you getting paid for? The empty gas tank, 2085 01:45:32,640 --> 01:45:33,879 Speaker 1: a used credit card. 2086 01:45:36,080 --> 01:45:39,679 Speaker 4: Offers a hemorrhoid scene. 2087 01:45:39,720 --> 01:45:40,439 Speaker 7: You did it. 2088 01:45:40,520 --> 01:45:45,160 Speaker 3: Again and shut up and nasty because she just got 2089 01:45:45,320 --> 01:45:46,559 Speaker 3: married and that's my girl. 2090 01:45:47,680 --> 01:45:49,000 Speaker 4: She did, miss be nasty. 2091 01:45:49,040 --> 01:45:49,559 Speaker 1: I got. 2092 01:45:54,800 --> 01:46:05,960 Speaker 6: In the room, looked up at me, what happened? 2093 01:46:11,439 --> 01:46:11,719 Speaker 4: God? 2094 01:46:13,439 --> 01:46:13,760 Speaker 6: Remember that? 2095 01:46:14,880 --> 01:46:16,840 Speaker 4: And God, that's you the. 2096 01:46:19,120 --> 01:46:24,040 Speaker 1: Prayer? Yes and God emy. 2097 01:46:23,920 --> 01:46:25,559 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, okay, no for real. 2098 01:46:26,360 --> 01:46:29,760 Speaker 2: If y'all have any questions, send them to ask for 2099 01:46:29,960 --> 01:46:33,040 Speaker 2: Minds at gmail dot coms as k p O, you 2100 01:46:33,200 --> 01:46:36,120 Speaker 2: are in my nds at gmail dot com. 2101 01:46:36,240 --> 01:46:38,440 Speaker 4: See I wasn't the most unhinged one today. 2102 01:46:39,760 --> 01:46:42,000 Speaker 2: No, he was always the most Usually. 2103 01:46:44,360 --> 01:46:50,479 Speaker 4: I love y'all tie in the show. I need a 2104 01:46:50,520 --> 01:46:51,120 Speaker 4: little advice. 2105 01:46:51,160 --> 01:46:53,920 Speaker 3: I'm a twenty eight year old gay man and I've 2106 01:46:54,040 --> 01:46:57,439 Speaker 3: never been in a relationship or really experienced anything romantic. 2107 01:46:57,880 --> 01:46:58,640 Speaker 6: In the past, I. 2108 01:46:58,640 --> 01:47:01,719 Speaker 3: Would catch strong feelings for God, but it was never mutual, 2109 01:47:01,800 --> 01:47:03,880 Speaker 3: and I had to learn the hard way not to 2110 01:47:03,960 --> 01:47:06,920 Speaker 3: wear my heart on my sleeve. I've spent a lot 2111 01:47:07,000 --> 01:47:10,880 Speaker 3: of time pouring into myself, building confidence and practicing self love, 2112 01:47:11,160 --> 01:47:13,320 Speaker 3: and I've gotten to a place where I'm okay being 2113 01:47:13,479 --> 01:47:15,720 Speaker 3: single if that's how life plays out. But at the 2114 01:47:15,800 --> 01:47:19,280 Speaker 3: same time, I still want to experience real love. My 2115 01:47:19,400 --> 01:47:21,679 Speaker 3: only thing is my heart has been hurt so many 2116 01:47:21,760 --> 01:47:24,200 Speaker 3: times that I don't know how I trust if it 2117 01:47:24,280 --> 01:47:26,840 Speaker 3: finally comes. Part of me wants to take a chance. 2118 01:47:26,920 --> 01:47:29,600 Speaker 3: Another part of me is ready to run. So my 2119 01:47:29,840 --> 01:47:32,639 Speaker 3: question is how do you open yourself up to love 2120 01:47:32,720 --> 01:47:35,280 Speaker 3: again without letting fear hold you back? 2121 01:47:35,560 --> 01:47:37,679 Speaker 4: And how do you know when it's real love? 2122 01:47:37,760 --> 01:47:43,519 Speaker 1: Y'all? Okay, so I'll go and I'll take us real quick. 2123 01:47:45,280 --> 01:47:49,000 Speaker 5: Does the fact that motherfuckers don't know how to drive 2124 01:47:49,160 --> 01:47:50,280 Speaker 5: keep you from being on the road? 2125 01:47:51,880 --> 01:47:58,479 Speaker 2: Come on, no, I'd be still out five, still outside me. 2126 01:47:59,040 --> 01:48:03,160 Speaker 5: We cannot allow other people's lack of direction keep us 2127 01:48:03,240 --> 01:48:05,240 Speaker 5: from going on our journey. 2128 01:48:06,600 --> 01:48:09,400 Speaker 1: Just because don't you dad touch him? 2129 01:48:09,600 --> 01:48:13,040 Speaker 4: Goddamn fingers together, lamb. But you know. 2130 01:48:15,680 --> 01:48:20,760 Speaker 1: First and foremouts it's the middle finger. 2131 01:48:20,840 --> 01:48:22,360 Speaker 4: Okay, we was arguing about that. 2132 01:48:22,800 --> 01:48:26,280 Speaker 5: It's the middle which means it is that you ate 2133 01:48:26,439 --> 01:48:28,760 Speaker 5: that I approve. That's applause. 2134 01:48:29,360 --> 01:48:29,679 Speaker 1: Clock. 2135 01:48:29,800 --> 01:48:33,280 Speaker 5: That is not a hand signal. So this is playing 2136 01:48:33,320 --> 01:48:36,240 Speaker 5: with pre Come I'll do that too, though, That's what 2137 01:48:36,280 --> 01:48:37,599 Speaker 5: I'm saying. But don't do that in public. 2138 01:48:38,840 --> 01:48:40,200 Speaker 1: Do that in the privacy of your own home. 2139 01:48:40,280 --> 01:48:40,439 Speaker 4: Bank. 2140 01:48:41,520 --> 01:48:43,200 Speaker 1: This is the sign language. 2141 01:48:43,680 --> 01:48:47,720 Speaker 5: This is the sign language signal for the number eight, 2142 01:48:48,400 --> 01:48:51,640 Speaker 5: which means you ate that I approve. 2143 01:48:51,520 --> 01:48:54,160 Speaker 1: Oh bitch, yes, I approve. Oh yes. 2144 01:48:54,560 --> 01:48:57,680 Speaker 5: Now, So when you say clock that that there is 2145 01:48:57,760 --> 01:49:00,240 Speaker 5: no signal hand signal for clock that clock. I think 2146 01:49:00,320 --> 01:49:04,320 Speaker 5: that means that someone exposed your truth. So when we're 2147 01:49:04,360 --> 01:49:08,200 Speaker 5: talking about our transistors that are going out into the world, 2148 01:49:09,000 --> 01:49:11,360 Speaker 5: they're like, oh, bitch, you got out into the world 2149 01:49:11,439 --> 01:49:14,000 Speaker 5: without somebody clocking you, meaning they clocked your real tea. 2150 01:49:15,040 --> 01:49:16,920 Speaker 1: That's what that means. But there was no hand signal 2151 01:49:17,000 --> 01:49:17,240 Speaker 1: for that. 2152 01:49:18,160 --> 01:49:21,320 Speaker 5: This is what Laoi started on legendary saying, oh, bitch, 2153 01:49:21,360 --> 01:49:23,160 Speaker 5: you ate that I approved middle finger. 2154 01:49:25,000 --> 01:49:31,640 Speaker 1: We gotta stop, let your sisters know. And while we're 2155 01:49:31,680 --> 01:49:34,840 Speaker 1: at it. And while we're at it, that word punk, No, 2156 01:49:35,439 --> 01:49:36,120 Speaker 1: I don't say. 2157 01:49:36,040 --> 01:49:39,080 Speaker 3: That about it, And they were up in arms at 2158 01:49:39,320 --> 01:49:40,880 Speaker 3: absolutely not stopped. 2159 01:49:41,000 --> 01:49:42,439 Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you something, And y'all can't say this 2160 01:49:42,520 --> 01:49:49,280 Speaker 5: word punk, sassy, zesty, all those words are fagged with 2161 01:49:49,400 --> 01:49:50,320 Speaker 5: the silencer on it. 2162 01:49:51,320 --> 01:49:54,880 Speaker 1: Y'all not slick. Y'all are not slick. It's not all right. 2163 01:49:55,160 --> 01:49:58,200 Speaker 5: And I understand that there are some of people, specifically 2164 01:49:58,280 --> 01:50:02,160 Speaker 5: the older generation of of gay men, who don't care 2165 01:50:02,160 --> 01:50:05,720 Speaker 5: about the word fag and they allow other their their 2166 01:50:06,000 --> 01:50:09,400 Speaker 5: their women, counterparts, their friends to say that it's not alright. 2167 01:50:10,800 --> 01:50:11,519 Speaker 1: It's not okay. 2168 01:50:12,680 --> 01:50:15,000 Speaker 5: Just like how no no random person can come up 2169 01:50:15,040 --> 01:50:17,240 Speaker 5: to you and call you bitch or call you by 2170 01:50:17,240 --> 01:50:19,720 Speaker 5: a nickname that they did not earn. A lot of 2171 01:50:19,760 --> 01:50:22,559 Speaker 5: times folks want a nickname that they didn't earn. 2172 01:50:23,479 --> 01:50:24,640 Speaker 1: I don't know you like that. 2173 01:50:25,040 --> 01:50:27,679 Speaker 5: Don't call me No, I don't, I don't. 2174 01:50:27,720 --> 01:50:28,639 Speaker 1: I don't do that word. 2175 01:50:29,120 --> 01:50:31,280 Speaker 3: I made a video about that on TikTok or like 2176 01:50:31,520 --> 01:50:33,400 Speaker 3: two months ago, and they were up in ours there 2177 01:50:33,439 --> 01:50:36,280 Speaker 3: like sou and I was like, that's crazy that people 2178 01:50:36,320 --> 01:50:39,280 Speaker 3: are telling you not to call them that, and y'all. 2179 01:50:39,520 --> 01:50:42,720 Speaker 5: Like this, And I'm also I'm also very interested in 2180 01:50:43,520 --> 01:50:45,800 Speaker 5: the people within our community. I'm not talking about y'all 2181 01:50:46,120 --> 01:50:47,559 Speaker 5: within my community because we got to. 2182 01:50:47,560 --> 01:50:49,360 Speaker 1: Have a talk. Why is it the y'all? 2183 01:50:49,520 --> 01:50:55,160 Speaker 5: So it's so impossible for you to ex to embrace 2184 01:50:55,240 --> 01:50:58,360 Speaker 5: certain terminologies, but yet you want people to respect you, 2185 01:50:59,800 --> 01:51:01,519 Speaker 5: you people to have an understanding about you. 2186 01:51:01,640 --> 01:51:04,600 Speaker 1: But yeah, you can't. You can't respect someone's pronoun. 2187 01:51:04,360 --> 01:51:05,560 Speaker 2: It's always or or. 2188 01:51:05,960 --> 01:51:10,080 Speaker 5: You can't fathom a feminine man that is also heterosexual. 2189 01:51:11,240 --> 01:51:12,360 Speaker 1: You just can't fathom that. 2190 01:51:12,520 --> 01:51:13,160 Speaker 4: That's the truth. 2191 01:51:13,880 --> 01:51:16,280 Speaker 3: The way they were talking about the word cis like 2192 01:51:16,320 --> 01:51:20,960 Speaker 3: it's not a scientific term, it's a sign like c 2193 01:51:21,160 --> 01:51:24,040 Speaker 3: I s Yeah, like being a CIS woman yeah, it means. 2194 01:51:23,920 --> 01:51:27,320 Speaker 1: You identify with the gender you were assigned to at birth. 2195 01:51:27,439 --> 01:51:29,200 Speaker 2: It's just not stop calling me. 2196 01:51:29,320 --> 01:51:39,000 Speaker 5: See I saw that, and you know, honestly, it's it's 2197 01:51:39,120 --> 01:51:43,080 Speaker 5: moments like that where it's it's like, I really want 2198 01:51:43,160 --> 01:51:45,160 Speaker 5: somebody to just educate mysels. 2199 01:51:45,520 --> 01:51:46,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's all it is. 2200 01:51:47,120 --> 01:51:50,439 Speaker 1: That's all because she's an extension of us. That's us. 2201 01:51:51,439 --> 01:51:53,400 Speaker 1: So let us call each other in. 2202 01:51:54,240 --> 01:51:56,200 Speaker 5: I don't like when other people outside of us be 2203 01:51:56,280 --> 01:51:58,439 Speaker 5: trying to check other folks within our community. No, no, no, 2204 01:51:58,640 --> 01:52:00,160 Speaker 5: this ain't got nothing to do with you, baby, are 2205 01:52:00,760 --> 01:52:03,440 Speaker 5: we can call each other in. We will have that conversation. 2206 01:52:03,960 --> 01:52:05,839 Speaker 1: It ain't got nothing to do with you, agreed. 2207 01:52:08,320 --> 01:52:10,920 Speaker 2: So to answer your question, young lady, it was a 2208 01:52:11,000 --> 01:52:11,479 Speaker 2: young man. 2209 01:52:13,280 --> 01:52:14,200 Speaker 1: My thing is. 2210 01:52:14,560 --> 01:52:18,000 Speaker 5: My thing is, lady, you have to be you have 2211 01:52:18,160 --> 01:52:22,840 Speaker 5: to be open agree because my thing is, if we 2212 01:52:26,040 --> 01:52:29,639 Speaker 5: if we maneuvered our way of life by how people 2213 01:52:29,720 --> 01:52:31,680 Speaker 5: mistreat us, we would not get the things that we 2214 01:52:31,840 --> 01:52:35,320 Speaker 5: genuinely need because we would be going off of their 2215 01:52:35,479 --> 01:52:39,920 Speaker 5: understanding of us, which is a lack of understanding. So 2216 01:52:40,840 --> 01:52:43,840 Speaker 5: my thing is, if that's genuinely who you are at 2217 01:52:43,880 --> 01:52:48,400 Speaker 5: the core, if it's genuine if love and partnership is 2218 01:52:48,439 --> 01:52:52,200 Speaker 5: what you genuinely desire, then put that out there and 2219 01:52:52,360 --> 01:52:55,880 Speaker 5: stop charging everything as oh woe is me if things 2220 01:52:55,960 --> 01:52:57,479 Speaker 5: don't work out, look at it as a game. 2221 01:52:58,680 --> 01:53:00,560 Speaker 1: It's like, okay, bet, we're just not compatible. 2222 01:53:01,760 --> 01:53:04,040 Speaker 5: It's really simple, is that we're not aligned in the 2223 01:53:04,160 --> 01:53:07,080 Speaker 5: areas that genuinely matter. And I'm not going to force that. 2224 01:53:07,720 --> 01:53:09,840 Speaker 3: And I wish people would understand that and stop looking 2225 01:53:09,880 --> 01:53:11,160 Speaker 3: at it like I'm not good enough? 2226 01:53:11,880 --> 01:53:15,400 Speaker 4: Are good enough? Y'all just weren't compatible. That It's okay, And. 2227 01:53:15,439 --> 01:53:17,439 Speaker 3: That's a good point that you made, because when it 2228 01:53:17,479 --> 01:53:20,479 Speaker 3: comes to our careers, for example, people will make fun 2229 01:53:20,520 --> 01:53:22,120 Speaker 3: of us, tell us now, but we keep going. 2230 01:53:22,240 --> 01:53:24,439 Speaker 4: But why is it y'all? Don't apply that same logic 2231 01:53:24,520 --> 01:53:24,880 Speaker 4: to love. 2232 01:53:25,080 --> 01:53:27,639 Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Because it's the it's getting 2233 01:53:27,680 --> 01:53:33,040 Speaker 5: your it's getting another avenue of your emotions involved. It's 2234 01:53:33,040 --> 01:53:37,040 Speaker 5: another level of expectation that you are pouring into that 2235 01:53:37,160 --> 01:53:39,479 Speaker 5: you're hoping that meets that idea. 2236 01:53:40,640 --> 01:53:44,680 Speaker 1: So for me, it's allow people to show you who 2237 01:53:44,760 --> 01:53:46,280 Speaker 1: they are, agree number one. 2238 01:53:46,920 --> 01:53:49,840 Speaker 5: Allow people to show you who they are, number one, 2239 01:53:50,320 --> 01:53:56,360 Speaker 5: and believe them where they are. Sometimes there are people 2240 01:53:56,400 --> 01:53:59,240 Speaker 5: that come into our lives that are aligned with the 2241 01:53:59,360 --> 01:54:01,160 Speaker 5: previous version. 2242 01:54:00,960 --> 01:54:04,640 Speaker 1: Of who we are. You ever met you, ever met 2243 01:54:04,640 --> 01:54:05,719 Speaker 1: a dude that was like baby? 2244 01:54:05,920 --> 01:54:07,560 Speaker 5: Had you met me five years ago, you would have 2245 01:54:07,600 --> 01:54:12,160 Speaker 5: been a shoeing Yeah you I mean, I mean hands down, 2246 01:54:12,439 --> 01:54:15,040 Speaker 5: and that part of you still exists, but it does 2247 01:54:15,160 --> 01:54:20,040 Speaker 5: not drive. It exists, it does not drive. So you 2248 01:54:20,160 --> 01:54:22,160 Speaker 5: understand now, I have to make the decision that best 2249 01:54:22,560 --> 01:54:25,599 Speaker 5: suits me. Where I am now and who you are 2250 01:54:25,920 --> 01:54:29,760 Speaker 5: is not compatible with who I am today. So it's 2251 01:54:29,920 --> 01:54:33,680 Speaker 5: just about keeping your eyes peeled for what makes sense, 2252 01:54:34,720 --> 01:54:38,200 Speaker 5: what is aligned. Because one thing that I learned about 2253 01:54:39,880 --> 01:54:43,200 Speaker 5: Neil de grass Tyson, which is one of my unofficial 2254 01:54:43,280 --> 01:54:48,120 Speaker 5: uncles him, that's a science he's an astrophysicist. Him, Sindbad 2255 01:54:48,280 --> 01:54:52,920 Speaker 5: and Michael Eric Dyson, those are my uncles my mind. 2256 01:54:53,680 --> 01:54:54,560 Speaker 1: And one thing that. 2257 01:54:57,120 --> 01:55:04,080 Speaker 5: Neil said was shit, where was I going? 2258 01:55:04,160 --> 01:55:08,200 Speaker 1: I was talking about ship? I was right there. I see. 2259 01:55:08,240 --> 01:55:09,880 Speaker 5: That's what y'all get for having me this number four 2260 01:55:11,280 --> 01:55:12,640 Speaker 5: number fo up? What was I talking about? 2261 01:55:13,240 --> 01:55:14,360 Speaker 4: You was talking grown? 2262 01:55:14,560 --> 01:55:16,720 Speaker 1: I mean growing, growing. 2263 01:55:16,920 --> 01:55:23,920 Speaker 4: Right, because you said the meal and I said, that's the. 2264 01:55:24,040 --> 01:55:27,960 Speaker 3: Scientist, man, that's the scientist scientifically speak right right. 2265 01:55:28,240 --> 01:55:32,040 Speaker 5: No, it's all right, He's a grower, a shower, not 2266 01:55:32,160 --> 01:55:36,720 Speaker 5: a shower. Shout out to the growers, not the showers. 2267 01:55:37,880 --> 01:55:40,360 Speaker 4: Well, let us know what you got coming up where 2268 01:55:40,400 --> 01:55:40,920 Speaker 4: we can, because you. 2269 01:55:41,080 --> 01:55:45,640 Speaker 5: Everywhere I know we are, and we're doing I'm doing 2270 01:55:45,720 --> 01:55:49,080 Speaker 5: Netflix as a joke. Netflix is a joke. They're doing 2271 01:55:49,120 --> 01:55:54,000 Speaker 5: a festival run and I'm one of the performers that 2272 01:55:54,120 --> 01:55:55,920 Speaker 5: will be doing it. I don't like to call it 2273 01:55:56,120 --> 01:56:01,760 Speaker 5: stand up but story time. Okay, things that I've experienced 2274 01:56:01,800 --> 01:56:05,840 Speaker 5: that you know, has some comedic flare into how I'm 2275 01:56:05,960 --> 01:56:12,360 Speaker 5: delivering what's going on. I'm also going to be going 2276 01:56:12,440 --> 01:56:16,360 Speaker 5: on tour in the fall, and I'm only and I'm 2277 01:56:16,400 --> 01:56:19,280 Speaker 5: only doing a small number. So when I say a 2278 01:56:19,400 --> 01:56:24,360 Speaker 5: city near you, I mean a city near you. Because 2279 01:56:24,360 --> 01:56:26,720 Speaker 5: I didn't want to. I didn't want to tour this year. 2280 01:56:27,160 --> 01:56:27,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 2281 01:56:28,440 --> 01:56:31,720 Speaker 1: I was on four tours last year, three of my own. 2282 01:56:31,840 --> 01:56:37,680 Speaker 4: And I'm getting tired of your baby. 2283 01:56:37,760 --> 01:56:42,680 Speaker 5: Don't put me on the clock, please, but yeah, but yeah, no, 2284 01:56:43,000 --> 01:56:48,920 Speaker 5: I just I wanted to do something that was We're 2285 01:56:48,960 --> 01:56:50,800 Speaker 5: doing theaters this this coming year. 2286 01:56:51,280 --> 01:56:53,040 Speaker 1: I'm excited about theaters. I've been waiting on. 2287 01:56:53,160 --> 01:56:57,480 Speaker 5: Ushers to hand you a program and escort you to 2288 01:56:57,640 --> 01:57:00,560 Speaker 5: your seat that's what I've been waiting on. I've been 2289 01:57:00,600 --> 01:57:05,240 Speaker 5: one because when you have such a wide variety of 2290 01:57:05,360 --> 01:57:10,840 Speaker 5: audience attendees that are from people that can barely just 2291 01:57:11,000 --> 01:57:15,160 Speaker 5: get in eighteen or twenty one, to the grandmothers and 2292 01:57:15,520 --> 01:57:20,000 Speaker 5: the uncles, like they are out there standing for me, 2293 01:57:20,720 --> 01:57:23,560 Speaker 5: and I used to feel really bad about that because 2294 01:57:23,560 --> 01:57:26,320 Speaker 5: I'm like, I need venues that can accommodate them to 2295 01:57:26,400 --> 01:57:29,960 Speaker 5: be able to sit. I got booked for north Sea 2296 01:57:30,040 --> 01:57:33,880 Speaker 5: Jazz Festival last year and this was the same night 2297 01:57:33,920 --> 01:57:38,880 Speaker 5: that Leon Thomas and Diana Ross were playing. I went 2298 01:57:38,960 --> 01:57:43,160 Speaker 5: on first, and this was also the same room that 2299 01:57:43,720 --> 01:57:48,040 Speaker 5: I performed in where I watched Leanne Lahaves perform a 2300 01:57:48,120 --> 01:57:53,520 Speaker 5: couple of years prior with Letosy and Lisa Fisher, and 2301 01:57:54,600 --> 01:57:56,560 Speaker 5: that room packed up immediately. 2302 01:57:57,040 --> 01:57:57,880 Speaker 1: I think I have maybe like. 2303 01:57:57,960 --> 01:58:00,840 Speaker 5: Thirty minutes between doors, and when I was time to 2304 01:58:00,880 --> 01:58:02,800 Speaker 5: go on in the room packed out immediately. 2305 01:58:04,000 --> 01:58:07,720 Speaker 1: And being on the same night as. 2306 01:58:09,440 --> 01:58:14,200 Speaker 5: Diana Ross, like it was her name and then my 2307 01:58:14,360 --> 01:58:16,240 Speaker 5: name right after her is in the lineup of things. 2308 01:58:17,440 --> 01:58:20,920 Speaker 4: Mm hmm, Hey, nothing else needs to be said. 2309 01:58:21,000 --> 01:58:26,840 Speaker 1: Full moment, full circle moment. I have no idea what 2310 01:58:26,960 --> 01:58:29,880 Speaker 1: I was going with with this. Story. But I know. 2311 01:58:35,360 --> 01:58:37,760 Speaker 4: You find we were talking about yes. 2312 01:58:37,760 --> 01:58:45,280 Speaker 1: Touring, yes, touring, Yes, thank you. I appreciate that. 2313 01:58:46,240 --> 01:58:47,960 Speaker 5: I'm so glad you say it right and not straight 2314 01:58:48,040 --> 01:58:53,800 Speaker 5: okay forward, never straight, give me direction, not a construct a. 2315 01:58:54,400 --> 01:58:56,720 Speaker 2: I'm an all. I'm actually part of the community. 2316 01:58:57,880 --> 01:59:01,080 Speaker 5: We you know, allies are cute, but we need accomplices. 2317 01:59:03,080 --> 01:59:06,680 Speaker 5: See all, I'm gonna tell you what allies do. Okay, 2318 01:59:07,160 --> 01:59:13,600 Speaker 5: allies post the Little Black Square, they post the hashtag 2319 01:59:13,840 --> 01:59:16,840 Speaker 5: black Lives Matter, and they go back to their regular 2320 01:59:16,960 --> 01:59:21,280 Speaker 5: schedule programming allies accomplishes. 2321 01:59:23,080 --> 01:59:27,400 Speaker 1: Accomplishes are the checking folks. 2322 01:59:27,680 --> 01:59:31,480 Speaker 5: In real time, the accomplices are going home to family 2323 01:59:31,560 --> 01:59:34,520 Speaker 5: dinners saying, you know, what you said is actually racists, 2324 01:59:36,160 --> 01:59:38,160 Speaker 5: what you said is actually homophobic? 2325 01:59:38,480 --> 01:59:41,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay yeah. 2326 01:59:41,480 --> 01:59:43,320 Speaker 5: In real time, I don't want I don't want an 2327 01:59:43,320 --> 01:59:44,920 Speaker 5: ally accomplices. 2328 01:59:45,400 --> 01:59:47,080 Speaker 1: I don't want somebody. I want somebody that would be 2329 01:59:47,120 --> 01:59:48,720 Speaker 1: like you know what, No, no, no, you stay home. 2330 01:59:48,800 --> 01:59:50,400 Speaker 1: This ain't even y'all fight. I got this. 2331 01:59:50,760 --> 01:59:55,400 Speaker 5: Oh, I ride, and I d I ride for you, 2332 01:59:55,760 --> 01:59:59,560 Speaker 5: and I say, and I say, black women, because you're 2333 01:59:59,600 --> 02:00:04,480 Speaker 5: not black women, you're black women. You decide when you 2334 02:00:04,520 --> 02:00:06,640 Speaker 5: want to be strong enough. But I'm not gonna put 2335 02:00:06,680 --> 02:00:08,760 Speaker 5: that on you. You've been strong enough. 2336 02:00:09,080 --> 02:00:09,440 Speaker 2: Thank you. 2337 02:00:10,160 --> 02:00:13,200 Speaker 1: We thought to be exact exactly, which is why take 2338 02:00:13,240 --> 02:00:13,600 Speaker 1: your rest. 2339 02:00:15,360 --> 02:00:17,000 Speaker 3: But I still like to fight a little bit. I 2340 02:00:17,120 --> 02:00:20,320 Speaker 3: got an argument about that antwork. I'm a fight about it. 2341 02:00:20,480 --> 02:00:26,560 Speaker 1: I understand. Yeah, And then there's the art of continuing 2342 02:00:26,720 --> 02:00:27,400 Speaker 1: to scroll. 2343 02:00:29,600 --> 02:00:34,600 Speaker 5: Everything does not everything everything while not deserve a response 2344 02:00:34,680 --> 02:00:35,320 Speaker 5: nor reaction. 2345 02:00:36,080 --> 02:00:37,920 Speaker 4: Well, I'm talking about in real life. It was a 2346 02:00:38,000 --> 02:00:40,840 Speaker 4: family argument because somebody in my family family members. 2347 02:00:41,000 --> 02:00:43,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, fuck the family, Fuck the family. 2348 02:00:43,800 --> 02:00:44,200 Speaker 4: Family. 2349 02:00:44,400 --> 02:00:47,520 Speaker 5: I can't believe I met Vanessa Williams and did not 2350 02:00:47,680 --> 02:00:50,480 Speaker 5: go into that monologue. I'm so upset, Like it was 2351 02:00:50,640 --> 02:00:54,120 Speaker 5: right there, the family. 2352 02:00:54,160 --> 02:00:55,720 Speaker 1: We were hanging out for twenty minutes. 2353 02:00:56,160 --> 02:00:57,040 Speaker 7: It was right there. 2354 02:00:57,800 --> 02:00:59,440 Speaker 1: You should have did it, Auntie. I love you. 2355 02:01:00,160 --> 02:01:02,480 Speaker 2: If y'all will meet again, oh yeah, gonna have me. 2356 02:01:02,960 --> 02:01:04,080 Speaker 1: I got a phone up a socket. 2357 02:01:05,160 --> 02:01:06,160 Speaker 2: God texted right now. 2358 02:01:08,160 --> 02:01:09,480 Speaker 1: Speaking of right now, do. 2359 02:01:09,600 --> 02:01:14,720 Speaker 5: Y'all know that around Valentine's Day this year, I got 2360 02:01:14,800 --> 02:01:18,480 Speaker 5: a phone call at ten eleven a m. Pacific Standard 2361 02:01:18,520 --> 02:01:26,200 Speaker 5: time by miss Tony Braxton's. 2362 02:01:24,080 --> 02:01:25,040 Speaker 4: That's our favorite. 2363 02:01:25,400 --> 02:01:26,240 Speaker 2: We love Tony. 2364 02:01:26,680 --> 02:01:28,560 Speaker 1: Hello, I noticed that who I think it is? 2365 02:01:29,120 --> 02:01:29,280 Speaker 4: Wait? 2366 02:01:29,360 --> 02:01:32,400 Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait, stop thinking about. 2367 02:01:34,200 --> 02:01:39,360 Speaker 8: About the stuff and can't stop thinking about. 2368 02:01:44,560 --> 02:01:45,360 Speaker 6: Let me join. 2369 02:01:50,480 --> 02:01:51,920 Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, it's practice. 2370 02:01:54,200 --> 02:01:56,120 Speaker 7: Yes, he wasn't enough for me? E? 2371 02:01:57,400 --> 02:01:58,240 Speaker 6: What does she say? 2372 02:01:59,040 --> 02:02:01,040 Speaker 1: Oh? How much she loved me? How many do brunch? 2373 02:02:01,160 --> 02:02:01,360 Speaker 6: Soon? 2374 02:02:05,200 --> 02:02:06,040 Speaker 1: I mean, listen. 2375 02:02:07,280 --> 02:02:09,160 Speaker 5: I'm also in my bag now, and I want to 2376 02:02:09,280 --> 02:02:12,880 Speaker 5: put this out there. I am in my writing and 2377 02:02:13,080 --> 02:02:17,480 Speaker 5: producing bag. I would love to write and arrange and 2378 02:02:17,600 --> 02:02:19,920 Speaker 5: produce for other people. A lot of the songs that 2379 02:02:19,960 --> 02:02:23,400 Speaker 5: I've recorded, I'm not immediately married to them. Some of 2380 02:02:23,520 --> 02:02:24,760 Speaker 5: those stories. 2381 02:02:28,720 --> 02:02:31,400 Speaker 2: Exactly strict. 2382 02:02:34,160 --> 02:02:45,120 Speaker 11: Exactly I would like, I would like, yeah, and you 2383 02:02:45,200 --> 02:02:52,080 Speaker 11: don't want them to put There are stories that I 2384 02:02:52,280 --> 02:02:56,520 Speaker 11: feel that could be told by someone else. There are 2385 02:02:56,520 --> 02:03:00,200 Speaker 11: a few stories that I would like to tell from 2386 02:03:00,240 --> 02:03:04,000 Speaker 11: a woman's perspective that I think would be pretty dope. 2387 02:03:05,040 --> 02:03:08,240 Speaker 5: So I'm just I'm just open. But I'm letting everybody know. Hey, 2388 02:03:08,400 --> 02:03:11,400 Speaker 5: I'm I want to write. I want to do backgrounds. 2389 02:03:11,480 --> 02:03:14,520 Speaker 5: I want to like wherever I can be of assistance. 2390 02:03:15,400 --> 02:03:16,080 Speaker 1: I want to be there. 2391 02:03:16,880 --> 02:03:17,880 Speaker 4: Can you write song? 2392 02:03:18,080 --> 02:03:20,400 Speaker 2: Yes, we want to get in the studio. We say 2393 02:03:20,480 --> 02:03:22,560 Speaker 2: we're gonna drop a song because we feel like we 2394 02:03:22,640 --> 02:03:23,440 Speaker 2: could be like a one here. 2395 02:03:24,520 --> 02:03:27,320 Speaker 4: So we just want one on this one. 2396 02:03:27,400 --> 02:03:29,120 Speaker 3: I feel like we could really do like a good 2397 02:03:29,200 --> 02:03:31,800 Speaker 3: song sing but I know, but I think we can 2398 02:03:31,880 --> 02:03:33,120 Speaker 3: do two songs low key. 2399 02:03:33,520 --> 02:03:35,800 Speaker 4: We need one rap song and one ballad. 2400 02:03:36,280 --> 02:03:36,520 Speaker 5: This is. 2401 02:03:38,840 --> 02:03:39,920 Speaker 2: I can sing a little bit too. 2402 02:03:40,080 --> 02:03:41,080 Speaker 4: See that's what I'm saying. 2403 02:03:41,480 --> 02:03:45,760 Speaker 2: We need a ballad one no law for one song. 2404 02:03:46,160 --> 02:03:47,640 Speaker 4: We need a ballad and a rap song. 2405 02:03:47,800 --> 02:03:51,720 Speaker 3: Right yeah, Duran can do our ballad and then we're 2406 02:03:51,720 --> 02:03:54,040 Speaker 3: gonna have Santana do the rap song. 2407 02:03:54,200 --> 02:03:56,240 Speaker 1: Come on, Santanta, you know what I'm saying. 2408 02:03:57,040 --> 02:04:00,600 Speaker 4: We just need to I like I want to go that. 2409 02:04:05,320 --> 02:04:05,880 Speaker 6: Shake them to. 2410 02:04:08,560 --> 02:04:10,760 Speaker 2: You can't see our TV today, but they shave you 2411 02:04:10,880 --> 02:04:11,680 Speaker 2: a lady today. 2412 02:04:14,320 --> 02:04:16,600 Speaker 1: That's all I would shake. Because we don't keep. 2413 02:04:16,520 --> 02:04:20,440 Speaker 3: Talking forever we will. But yeah, I'm not gonna lie. 2414 02:04:20,560 --> 02:04:23,920 Speaker 3: This fine one of my favorite episodes. Y'all make sure 2415 02:04:24,000 --> 02:04:24,920 Speaker 3: y'all gonna follow him. 2416 02:04:25,280 --> 02:04:26,400 Speaker 4: Listen to the tunes. 2417 02:04:26,880 --> 02:04:31,080 Speaker 2: We are a great time music. Beauty collection collection dot com. 2418 02:04:31,280 --> 02:04:33,840 Speaker 2: Make sure you get your lip glasses me slipliners. 2419 02:04:34,040 --> 02:04:36,640 Speaker 1: Got let we do on the way. 2420 02:04:38,640 --> 02:04:41,280 Speaker 2: I have an exclusive on the world. 2421 02:04:43,760 --> 02:04:45,960 Speaker 3: And y'all make sure y'all tune into Love lex p 2422 02:04:46,280 --> 02:04:49,320 Speaker 3: every Monday morning at ten a m. And y'all make 2423 02:04:49,320 --> 02:04:51,480 Speaker 3: sure y'all gonn get y'all tickets and we'll see y'all 2424 02:04:51,520 --> 02:04:54,600 Speaker 3: on tour soon. Still tipping twenty twenty six tickets on 2425 02:04:54,680 --> 02:04:55,760 Speaker 3: sale now right, see. 2426 02:04:55,680 --> 02:04:58,280 Speaker 7: Y'all next week, by y'all, see ya. 2427 02:04:59,560 --> 02:05:00,520 Speaker 2: I'm gonna I was out. 2428 02:05:03,080 --> 02:05:10,000 Speaker 7: Just let go let it low, let it load it blow. 2429 02:05:11,560 --> 02:05:13,120 Speaker 2: Everything's gonna work. 2430 02:05:15,760 --> 02:05:21,320 Speaker 1: Now you're part. Let it flow, Let it flow flow, 2431 02:05:21,960 --> 02:05:22,560 Speaker 1: it's my breath. 2432 02:05:23,320 --> 02:05:24,839 Speaker 7: Let it baby. 2433 02:05:27,560 --> 02:05:28,200 Speaker 9: Don't know about it? 2434 02:05:28,640 --> 02:05:33,160 Speaker 1: No, bro, don't know about that. No to Tima losers. 2435 02:05:34,760 --> 02:05:39,920 Speaker 7: Oh don't I love it? 2436 02:05:40,080 --> 02:05:40,120 Speaker 8: Like? 2437 02:05:40,280 --> 02:05:40,520 Speaker 3: Are you. 2438 02:05:42,320 --> 02:05:46,960 Speaker 7: Our Oh no? 2439 02:05:49,240 --> 02:05:49,600 Speaker 1: See do. 2440 02:05:52,240 --> 02:05:53,880 Speaker 4: We deserve our respects? 2441 02:05:55,120 --> 02:05:58,320 Speaker 3: But he can't really respect without. 2442 02:06:00,840 --> 02:06:03,200 Speaker 4: They're gonna time will anyone's. 2443 02:06:02,760 --> 02:06:04,400 Speaker 6: Going away. 2444 02:06:05,960 --> 02:06:06,720 Speaker 7: To let you. 2445 02:06:08,880 --> 02:06:12,880 Speaker 1: Let it flowl it flow. 2446 02:06:14,640 --> 02:06:32,400 Speaker 9: Everything's gonna work out right, yeah. 2447 02:06:35,080 --> 02:06:35,160 Speaker 4: Lo. 2448 02:06:39,400 --> 02:07:05,560 Speaker 7: Here here hayl. 2449 02:06:56,360 --> 02:07:07,000 Speaker 6: Dot line dot wine, dotta wa dot wa. Hi Hey, 2450 02:07:10,520 --> 02:07:11,800 Speaker 6: I love that girl. 2451 02:07:14,720 --> 02:07:16,960 Speaker 2: Wine doty wine. 2452 02:07:19,280 --> 02:07:21,520 Speaker 6: Oh very clo