Speaker 1: Second d women when you started, like, women are always
Speaker 1: saying that they want a stand up guy, and then
Speaker 1: a man gives them exactly that stands them up, and suddenly,
Speaker 1: what is it, ladies? You want a stand up guy?
Speaker 1: Or don't you not a stand me up guy? You
Speaker 1: clearly don't know what you want. That's why Nick stood
Speaker 1: his date up, and now suddenly she's been all weird
Speaker 1: about it. He just can't win, can we? Man? Apparently not? Yeah? Right,
Speaker 1: you're calling because you feel bad, right, Nicko? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think you hit the nail on the head, Like I
Speaker 1: gooped on this one. Bro? Why did you stand her off? Okay,
Speaker 1: well yeah we'll get to why. First tell us about
Speaker 1: this needy lady? Who is she? God? She just wants
Speaker 1: someone to actually be there when she has a date
Speaker 1: and attention to her. She didn't even say that. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: just show up. I think was the what's her name? Sally?
Speaker 1: Sally on the Valley? And how did you meet? We
Speaker 1: met on on an app? Like how do people meet otherwise?
Speaker 1: These days? I mean, every once in a while it's
Speaker 1: like Instagram. Yeah yeah no, but even when you meet
Speaker 1: you're like, okay, now talk to me on Instagram? Yeah,
Speaker 1: what do you like about Sally? Well, I don't mean
Speaker 1: this in a shallow way, but like, there was this
Speaker 1: picture she had of her in a red dress, and
Speaker 1: there's something about a girl in a red dress and
Speaker 1: the way that Sally looked at it. I was like,
Speaker 1: I need to talk to this girl. I don't think
Speaker 1: that's shallow. I mean that's how it's all done, right,
Speaker 1: especially when you only have a picture really to go on.
Speaker 1: It's nicer than I expected. Yeah, so I thought he
Speaker 1: was going to say boobs. Yeah he did, but those
Speaker 1: were inside of the dress. So much. From reading your email, Nick,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you went on one day, but you
Speaker 1: stood her up on date two. Oh my gosh, Nick,
Speaker 1: Well what happened on date one? Well, the one was
Speaker 1: pretty cool because we went to like an old school
Speaker 1: rap concert. I thought it was a good choice to
Speaker 1: be fun, so I thought we had a great time.
Speaker 1: We actually kissed while we were dancing. It went really,
Speaker 1: it went really, well, you had a great time the
Speaker 1: first date, obviously, she thought so too. What did you
Speaker 1: plan for the second? Well, a more traditional date. I thought, okay, well, hey,
Speaker 1: let's let's get a place where we could talk more.
Speaker 1: Let's do an improper date. That was her idea. Huh,
Speaker 1: I thought, okay, sure, but a gentleman, you want to
Speaker 1: talk to her. That's nice. So you guys were going
Speaker 1: to meet at the restaurant. Yeah, we were going to
Speaker 1: meet at the restaurant. And then I fully admit this
Speaker 1: was my faults up. What happened. So I had to
Speaker 1: go by my ex's house and I had to pick
Speaker 1: up the cable box because I had to turn in
Speaker 1: the cable box because we're no longer or you know,
Speaker 1: together in that way. Okay, Yeah, and I end up
Speaker 1: spending a little more time there than expected. It sounds
Speaker 1: like you were hooking up with your ex. Truth be told,
Speaker 1: we did hook up. It it was kind of like
Speaker 1: a farewell, we're not getting back together, but literally you're
Speaker 1: on the way to meet Sally. Yeah, you couldn't have
Speaker 1: done it the night before? Yeah, for you, I don't
Speaker 1: want to say. I'm just being honest about it. Brook.
Speaker 1: Does it really matter if it happened the night before?
Speaker 1: Does that make a difference to you? Okay, so what
Speaker 1: didn't What are your appropriate time period, like an hour
Speaker 1: before the date would have been okay, Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: just so he can be clean and not be thinking
Speaker 1: of the last person he was whatever went though he
Speaker 1: never met up with. Yeah, it sounds like he never
Speaker 1: even met her, so he did her a favor by
Speaker 1: not showing up. Okay, that's a gentleman moves, very gentleman.
Speaker 1: Did we hear the excuse that he used? Like, what
Speaker 1: did you say? Would you say to Sally? Oh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh I I couldn't think of something, and I told
Speaker 1: her that I took a nap and my arm I'm
Speaker 1: still asleep and I wasn't comfortable driving because my arms
Speaker 1: were so kind of asleep, so I laid on them,
Speaker 1: said took a nap. I was like, that's not bad there, No, no,
Speaker 1: because they're not be awake and I'd have to go away.
Speaker 1: You didn't want to go at that point? I see,
Speaker 1: I didn't get that because what you say felt dirty
Speaker 1: with classic coma arms. I think that was a solid choice.
Speaker 1: And what did she reply? I mean she's already sitting
Speaker 1: at the restaurant at that point. Yeah she didn't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's obvious. You're made down. That's so rude that she
Speaker 1: didn't respond back to you. Rude. Oh geez man, Okay,
Speaker 1: so you got what you had coming to you, which
Speaker 1: is getting ghosted, and now you want us to salvage it.
Speaker 1: I'm guessing, Okay, Well Brook, Yeah, it was always say, hey,
Speaker 1: the best way to just be honest about it? Yeah, Like,
Speaker 1: well I got to lose at this point, don't You're happy? Brook?
Speaker 1: It is true, Brook does. Brook does say if you
Speaker 1: have to be one hundred sent honest with whoever you're dying,
Speaker 1: She doesn't need this information. This isn't going to make
Speaker 1: you feel better. Look, I like her, and I want
Speaker 1: to continue this, and I think it's better to have,
Speaker 1: like to start out with honesty. I hopefully shall respect that,
Speaker 1: and but like I'm leaning that way, but I'm open
Speaker 1: to suggestion. If you guys think there's a better tred
Speaker 1: Brook is the one that's going to guide you. I mean,
Speaker 1: I you know, I was like hooking back up with
Speaker 1: my ex when I met my husband all the truth
Speaker 1: comes out. I mean, he knew that my X was
Speaker 1: coming into town at one point. I mean he knew,
Speaker 1: but then like the X came and I was like, ah,
Speaker 1: he sucks. I really like this other guy better. Brook.
Speaker 1: We've been doing the show for a really long time
Speaker 1: and I did not know that there was overlap with
Speaker 1: your husband and your as. I mean, we weren't together
Speaker 1: like on the other side, Michael, are you listen to this.
Speaker 1: He was coming out of a relationship too. You know,
Speaker 1: things are messy and go together and got married. No
Speaker 1: one person cheated. Okay, well, we'll be back with Brooks
Speaker 1: stories and also getting a second date update for Nick
Speaker 1: right after this. Hold on, Nick, second, we just heard
Speaker 1: an admission of guilt, not from brook I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: we did hear about some weird stuff going on there.
Speaker 1: I was talking about from our listener, Nick, who says
Speaker 1: he wants to come clean about the real reason that
Speaker 1: he didn't show up to a second date with Sally.
Speaker 1: And look, I don't feel comfortable saying this, Like, even
Speaker 1: if you want it to happen, Nick, that's gonna be
Speaker 1: your choice and it has to come from you and
Speaker 1: your mouth. I agree, because we were joking a lot.
Speaker 1: So you should probably think really hard if this is
Speaker 1: honestly the best way to go about it, because I
Speaker 1: know you're telling us you think honesty is important, But
Speaker 1: for you to admit that you blew off Sally that
Speaker 1: night to hook up with your ex one final time,
Speaker 1: you know that sounds bad, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I do. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know. You just say I was spending time
Speaker 1: with my axes. So that sounds like you're trying to
Speaker 1: get back together. But I think that's what the whole
Speaker 1: relationship will be like. I mean, I think you just
Speaker 1: try to leave that part out as much as possible.
Speaker 1: Move forward, talk about what you want to happen, not
Speaker 1: what happened. I mean, we never know how these calls
Speaker 1: are going to go before you make them, so Nick,
Speaker 1: you have to pick the right time if you want
Speaker 1: to do it. But I'm not going to say it.
Speaker 1: No one in this room is going to say it
Speaker 1: has to come from you. Oh yeah, I totally agree that. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll slay it by her. I'll see how the conversation goes.
Speaker 1: Just don't play it by your r and cs. We
Speaker 1: can't count on those. I couldn't drive. All right, man,
Speaker 1: we're wishing you luck. I'm wishing myself luck. We're gonna
Speaker 1: make this call right now here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: is it Sally? Yeah? What's up, Sally? My name is
Speaker 1: jeff from the radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. How you doing. Oh, I'm good. Okay, what's up? Hi, Sally,
Speaker 1: whole show is here. We all want to talk to
Speaker 1: you about a guy that you went on a date
Speaker 1: with the other night. Well, you went on, you went
Speaker 1: on one day with him, and then not another date
Speaker 1: with him. His name's Nick. Yeah. Oh it doesn't sound
Speaker 1: like a surprise to you at all. Um, I'm surprised
Speaker 1: that you guys are calling me about him. He should
Speaker 1: know I'm not responding to him, and I'm definitely yeah. Now, well,
Speaker 1: I think he understands that. He admits that he messed
Speaker 1: up by not showing up that night to dinner. Okay,
Speaker 1: good for him. Yeah, I mean i'd be angry too.
Speaker 1: Were you already at the restaurant when he texted you
Speaker 1: that he wasn't gonna make it? Yeah, I was already
Speaker 1: sitting there. First of all, he didn't even call. He
Speaker 1: texted first problem right there? Yeah, oh, you're already late.
Speaker 1: You texted me after the fact that you're already late,
Speaker 1: sitting looking at this restaurant looking like an idiot, and
Speaker 1: then you text me this ridiculous he has excused about
Speaker 1: your arms falling asleep and you're not being able to drive. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like that was pretty lame. I'd be super too. I
Speaker 1: will say that does happen to me all the time.
Speaker 1: Arms dead and you can't you can't drive. But that
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that Nick feels good about that. He still
Speaker 1: is very, very very regretful of how that night played out.
Speaker 1: So did he tell you that that was a truth thing,
Speaker 1: or like, was that a lie? Because that's an unbelievable story. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know what the truth is. Only Nick knows
Speaker 1: what the truth of that night is. We're just trying
Speaker 1: to help him get back in touch with you. He did,
Speaker 1: I mean, he said he was an idiot for messing
Speaker 1: up the second date with you, and that he had
Speaker 1: a great time when you guys went to the concert
Speaker 1: the first day, and I think he really saw potential
Speaker 1: of you two together. I mean, that's why it's even
Speaker 1: more annoying because we did have such a great time.
Speaker 1: We even showed a kiss, like I did want to
Speaker 1: see him again. So I'm open to hearing what he
Speaker 1: has to say. But I'm pretty disay rotated, right, that's unstable.
Speaker 1: We get that, yeah, And I mean you have to
Speaker 1: think about this. We understand how frustrating and disappointing it
Speaker 1: must have been from your end, but from Nicks end,
Speaker 1: Like in order for him to organize this second date update,
Speaker 1: it's a lot of work to email us, to have
Speaker 1: to talk to our producers and arrange a time to
Speaker 1: come on the show and reach out to you. It
Speaker 1: shows that he really does care about you. So I mean,
Speaker 1: you guys can have him reach out to me. That's fine,
Speaker 1: but I'm not giving him the guarantees to anything. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: Well what I can actually do you one better? And
Speaker 1: instead of having him reach out after, I'll have I'll
Speaker 1: have him reach out right now. His arms are feeling Okay,
Speaker 1: he is on the other line and he wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. So he heard everything I just said.
Speaker 1: Yeah things, Yeah, I would have unless he fell asleep
Speaker 1: on his ears and they're not working. Wow. Um okay,
Speaker 1: Hi Sally, Hey, uh, I'm glad that we're talking. That's sweet.
Speaker 1: All right. Yeah, Well, what do you even want to
Speaker 1: say to me? What do you have to say for yourself? Well, one,
Speaker 1: I want to say, I'm I'm sorry that and that
Speaker 1: I know I goofed it up and like, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm the idiot here. So uh, this this one's on me.
Speaker 1: That's a big move. I like you, Sally. I think
Speaker 1: we had a great time, and I wouldn't keep pursuing
Speaker 1: this if it wasn't a genuine feeling I have for you. Okay, Nick, listen,
Speaker 1: just just stop for a second. Yes, tell me the truth.
Speaker 1: What really happened? Well, the good question? Um, there's a compliment. Um,
Speaker 1: I think she's talking about the dead arms thing. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's let's start there. Okay, my arms didn't fall asleep
Speaker 1: that day, so that text was not accurate. No, no,
Speaker 1: I met Sally's got such a shock face on the
Speaker 1: other line. The truth, I like, I want, I want
Speaker 1: to pursue this and be honest. And I was I
Speaker 1: was debating like telling you, but if if I do
Speaker 1: get to go out with you again, I don't want
Speaker 1: to be thinking about like what happened and how I
Speaker 1: goofed up. I want to just say it in honesty. Okay, Sally,
Speaker 1: can we agree to do that? If he tells you
Speaker 1: the truth, will you guarantee you go out on another
Speaker 1: date with him the truth? And you give him another date.
Speaker 1: I would listen to what he said and we'll go
Speaker 1: from there. Well, Nick, this is your moment to come clean. Now,
Speaker 1: I'm nervous. Um, Okay, what happened is I went to
Speaker 1: go pick up a cable box from my ex's place,
Speaker 1: and I inadvertently stayed there longer than I should have,
Speaker 1: and it was like things happened and it meant nothing,
Speaker 1: and it was like the very last time, and it
Speaker 1: didn't feel right going to dinner with you right after,
Speaker 1: and then I'm like, you don't have Sometimes you like
Speaker 1: when you make a mistake like that and you realize,
Speaker 1: like one, I wish it didn't do that. I really
Speaker 1: liked this other girl, Sally. All I can say is wow, Yeah,
Speaker 1: who does that? What do you mean? Like, who does
Speaker 1: the X hook up? He didn't say anything about hook up?
Speaker 1: Yeah you did and they hooked up. I'm not an idiot. Hello, Yes,
Speaker 1: I never heard those words. Yeah, okay, Jeff, you can
Speaker 1: stayed there longer and that you wanted said he did
Speaker 1: stuff you shouldn't have. He said stuff happened. What you
Speaker 1: think stuff is? She's not a moron. That's one thing
Speaker 1: to have a moment of weakness and hook up. That's fine.
Speaker 1: We weren't in no committed relationship. That's not the issue. Okay.
Speaker 1: The issue is you knew you were going on a
Speaker 1: date with me. If this would have happened on any
Speaker 1: other day whatever, But you knew you were going to
Speaker 1: come see me, and you still had the thought process
Speaker 1: to go and hook up with your ex. Yeah. Well no,
Speaker 1: I didn't go there to go hook up with her.
Speaker 1: I wanted to get a cable box. Yeah, and you
Speaker 1: went there and bring happening. And here's how I was thinking.
Speaker 1: And again, obviously bad move and my mistake. But like
Speaker 1: what I was thinking was like, oh, well, okay, I
Speaker 1: just hooked up with my ex. Now I'm going to
Speaker 1: go out to dinner with her. That seemed worse to me.
Speaker 1: You don't get kudos for that because you knew you
Speaker 1: were going on a date before she picked up. I mean,
Speaker 1: if it doesn't matter, I mean I can see her
Speaker 1: side too. Like, like we said, you should have picked
Speaker 1: up the cable box the night before. It would have
Speaker 1: made all the difference when you stop by your exes.
Speaker 1: You know, exactly, whenever anybody touches a cable box, the
Speaker 1: mood just as set. Is there anything he could do,
Speaker 1: Sally to like get in your good graces again, there's
Speaker 1: a million other idiots on those dating apps that I
Speaker 1: can talk to. I don't need to put up with this. Okay,
Speaker 1: All those are the million other idiots on the dating apps.
Speaker 1: All those million other idiots probably have exes with cable
Speaker 1: boxes too, and you're just going to end up right
Speaker 1: back here in the same situation. Nick actually has gone
Speaker 1: through this entire process. You know, he's fallen on his
Speaker 1: swore just for the chance to see you one more time.
Speaker 1: Good for him. Yeah, and let me say this, just
Speaker 1: because there's a possibility that I'm going to run into
Speaker 1: another idiot with a cable box an ex girlfriend, doesn't
Speaker 1: mean that I'm not going to continue to weave them
Speaker 1: out because I don't want to end up with someone
Speaker 1: like that. Why Sally needs to be a dating coach.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's good Sally. Yeah, it really didn't work out, No, yea,
Speaker 1: I was open. I wouldn't put it one hundred percent
Speaker 1: on you, Nick, I would put part of it on
Speaker 1: Brooke in her dumb, one hundred percent honesty theories. Not
Speaker 1: to tell all the details, Jeffrey, I didn't all the details. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's actually get some of those details. What really happened
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning