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Speaker 1: what do you like about Sally? Well, I don't mean

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Speaker 1: Like in order for him to organize this second date update,

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Speaker 1: this if it wasn't a genuine feeling I have for you. Okay, Nick, listen,

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Speaker 1: just just stop for a second. Yes, tell me the truth.

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Speaker 1: What really happened? Well, the good question? Um, there's a compliment. Um,

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Speaker 1: I think she's talking about the dead arms thing. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that day, so that text was not accurate. No, no,

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Speaker 1: other line. The truth, I like, I want, I want

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Speaker 1: to pursue this and be honest. And I was I

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Speaker 1: was debating like telling you, but if if I do

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Speaker 1: goofed up. I want to just say it in honesty. Okay, Sally,

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Speaker 1: can we agree to do that? If he tells you

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Speaker 1: I would listen to what he said and we'll go

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Speaker 1: from there. Well, Nick, this is your moment to come clean. Now,

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Speaker 1: I'm nervous. Um, Okay, what happened is I went to

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Speaker 1: and I inadvertently stayed there longer than I should have,

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Speaker 1: and it was like things happened and it meant nothing,

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Speaker 1: and it was like the very last time, and it

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Speaker 1: didn't feel right going to dinner with you right after,

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Speaker 1: and then I'm like, you don't have Sometimes you like

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Speaker 1: when you make a mistake like that and you realize,

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Speaker 1: like one, I wish it didn't do that. I really

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Speaker 1: liked this other girl, Sally. All I can say is wow, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: who does that? What do you mean? Like, who does

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Speaker 1: the X hook up? He didn't say anything about hook up?

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Speaker 1: Yeah you did and they hooked up. I'm not an idiot. Hello, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I never heard those words. Yeah, okay, Jeff, you can

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Speaker 1: stuff you shouldn't have. He said stuff happened. What you

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Speaker 1: think stuff is? She's not a moron. That's one thing

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Speaker 1: to have a moment of weakness and hook up. That's fine.

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Speaker 1: We weren't in no committed relationship. That's not the issue. Okay.

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Speaker 1: The issue is you knew you were going on a

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Speaker 1: other day whatever, But you knew you were going to

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Speaker 1: to go and hook up with your ex. Yeah. Well no,

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Speaker 1: I didn't go there to go hook up with her.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to get a cable box. Yeah, and you

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Speaker 1: go out to dinner with her. That seemed worse to me.

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Speaker 1: You don't get kudos for that because you knew you

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Speaker 1: were going on a date before she picked up. I mean,

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Speaker 1: made all the difference when you stop by your exes.

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Speaker 1: You know, exactly, whenever anybody touches a cable box, the

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Speaker 1: mood just as set. Is there anything he could do,

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Speaker 1: Sally to like get in your good graces again, there's

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Speaker 1: a million other idiots on those dating apps that I

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Speaker 1: can talk to. I don't need to put up with this. Okay,

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Speaker 1: All those are the million other idiots on the dating apps.

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Speaker 1: All those million other idiots probably have exes with cable

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Speaker 1: boxes too, and you're just going to end up right

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Speaker 1: back here in the same situation. Nick actually has gone

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Speaker 1: through this entire process. You know, he's fallen on his

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Speaker 1: Good for him. Yeah, and let me say this, just

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Speaker 1: mean that I'm not going to continue to weave them

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Speaker 1: like that. Why Sally needs to be a dating coach.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's good Sally. Yeah, it really didn't work out, No, yea,

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Speaker 1: I was open. I wouldn't put it one hundred percent

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Speaker 1: on you, Nick, I would put part of it on

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Speaker 1: Brooke in her dumb, one hundred percent honesty theories. Not

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Speaker 1: to tell all the details, Jeffrey, I didn't all the details. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: let's actually get some of those details. What really happened

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning