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Speaker 1: It's your brand new Second Date podcast.

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Speaker 2: Thanks so much for being here. It's Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 2: in the Morning. And I gotta say I think we

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Speaker 2: were all floored that this guy agreed to do one

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Speaker 2: thing before they were able to go out on a date. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: please comment if you would do it. I want to

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Speaker 2: know or how hot the person would have to be

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Speaker 2: in order for you to say yes.

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Speaker 3: Bro Right, I don't want to give away too much.

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Speaker 3: This is a predicament. I don't know what I would do.

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Speaker 3: I would cheat. I shouldn't even say that much.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think you would have to. Yeah, I would

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Speaker 1: have specifically.

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Speaker 3: You guys think you got to listen to you.

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Speaker 1: Here in a second.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for subscribing and for commenting, whether

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Speaker 2: that's on Spotify or YouTube for Apple Music. What do

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Speaker 2: you see in Alexis Yeah, beast Life twenty one said,

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Speaker 2: first time commenting.

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Speaker 1: I listened at my gas station job. It gets really

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Speaker 1: busy sometimes and customers can be a pain. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for being you directed to everyone.

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Speaker 3: You have us on the gas station. Hold on, turn

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Speaker 3: us up real quick. Hey, I see you back there.

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Speaker 3: Don't steal that. Hey, get out of here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he doesn't care.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Hey, thanks so much for being here.

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Speaker 1: Your brand new second date starts right now.

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Speaker 3: Second Date, up date.

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Speaker 4: Some people have caveats in order to date them where

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Speaker 4: it's like, I'm attracted to you, our vibe is really good,

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Speaker 4: but if you want to go out with me, yeah,

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Speaker 4: this one little thing needs to happen first before I

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Speaker 4: can say yes. Like for me personally, I can only

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Speaker 4: go out with you if you let my mom.

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Speaker 3: Dress you for the date.

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Speaker 4: Because even though I don't want her to be a

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Speaker 4: part of my love life, she does insist I don't

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Speaker 4: date people who dress too trampy, So I don't want

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Speaker 4: to upset my mother with the people that I date.

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Speaker 4: That's just my one thing. And then we're good.

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Speaker 1: That made you so intive.

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Speaker 2: Sentence was really One of our listens has an important

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Speaker 2: caveat that she says as an instant deal breaker if

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Speaker 2: the guy says no.

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Speaker 4: And I'm interested to hear what this is. So Samantha,

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Speaker 4: welcome to the show. We want to know what your

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Speaker 4: caveat is.

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Speaker 1: Who we're starting right at the top. I love it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, my caveat is I drug test the guys before

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Speaker 5: I go out with the.

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Speaker 1: Drug. That sounds fun. What are you looking for?

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Speaker 5: So I have a serious job. I like, you know,

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Speaker 5: I'm kind of a serious person and I don't want

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Speaker 3: Oh you want the test to come back negative? Interesting?

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Speaker 3: If it's not positive.

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Speaker 5: We're not hanging out.

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Speaker 3: Our drug test work here at the radio got you? Okay? Interesting?

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Speaker 1: And men actually agree to do this.

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Speaker 5: For you generally it's fine. Yeah, they don't tend to

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Speaker 3: I mean, you don't do anything.

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Speaker 2: You'd be like, okay, is it like's I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's what I tell you?

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Speaker 1: So hard drugs or fun drugs? What are you looking for?

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Speaker 4: Definitely looking for?

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Speaker 5: Just like no drugs, I guess. Also, yeah, obviously they

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Speaker 5: we do it at a my apartment when they come

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Speaker 4: Okay, So clearly this must have happened with your date

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Speaker 4: that you're going to be telling us about here.

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Speaker 5: That is correct.

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Speaker 3: Should we just have.

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Speaker 1: One more question?

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Speaker 2: Are they giving a heads up before they get to

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Speaker 5: Well, for example, like with the guy that we're talking

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Speaker 5: I'd like to go out with you. Yeah, but this

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Speaker 3: Like, by the way, I'm gonna drug test you when

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Speaker 3: you get here. Okay, So what's this guy's name?

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Speaker 1: By the way, Dave?

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Speaker 3: Dave? Okay, so Dave laughed when you suggest then at

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Speaker 3: the door. What happened? What happened when you actually met him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I mean gave him a hug, invited him

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Speaker 5: I have mentioned drug tests. Can you give me a sample?

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Speaker 3: So what was his reaction?

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Speaker 5: He was like shocked, like didn't think I was serious.

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Speaker 5: I was like, yes, yes, I am.

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Speaker 4: You mean most of your dates don't start this way day.

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Speaker 3: That's weird.

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Speaker 1: So what did he do? Did he do it?

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Speaker 5: I mean heakes a little weird, but he did. He

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Speaker 5: he went and did it. It's like one of those

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Speaker 2: You yeah, do you know immediately whether he's on drugs

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Speaker 2: pretty much.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it comes back like ten fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 5: You just have to wait for the stick to like

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Speaker 2: I guess, so it's only within like if you've done

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Speaker 2: drugs recently, you don't know about me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what happens if it comes up positive? Do you

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Speaker 3: immediately not do the date?

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Speaker 5: I didn't even think that's the whole point. If it

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Speaker 5: comes up positive, he's out the door.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, wow, So.

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Speaker 1: Are you just sitting in your living room waiting silence?

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Speaker 1: Like what is that? What is that time period?

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Speaker 5: Like, you know, getting to know each other. I try

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Speaker 3: The second that would be awkward combo. Let's not get

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Speaker 3: after this. But what are your interests?

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Speaker 4: So just the fact that you want us to reach

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Speaker 4: out to Dave must mean that it came back negative.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so then I mean we went to dinner. He

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Speaker 3: Out, But how did he seem rigid.

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Speaker 5: He was just making weird kind of joke, so like

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 5: At one point I was like, what do you do

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Speaker 1: It's kind of funny but also kind of suspicious.

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Speaker 3: Or you could have been like, I do tons of

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Speaker 2: It sounds like he's having a hard time getting over

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Speaker 2: that initial drug test, the shock.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, and I mean he did also call me

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Speaker 4: I mean, okay, well, but it's cute to establish nicknames

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Speaker 3: So maybe we could look at that as a good

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, was there any flirting?

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Speaker 2: There was flirting.

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Speaker 5: I feel like we had a good connection otherwise, like

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Speaker 3: But here's the big question. Was there a kiss.

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Speaker 5: There was not a kiss. There was a hub and

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Speaker 5: he said he would call me and we'd go out again,

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Speaker 1: It's a different type of test before the kiss happens.

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Speaker 5: A different type of test before the bed happened.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, at least you're thinking of that. So it

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Speaker 4: Couldn't recover from the test, but like why, like he

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Speaker 5: That's the thing.

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Speaker 2: I think the more you sit with it, probably the

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Speaker 1: Why did I what did I just do?

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Speaker 2: Or you're into that stuff like don't want to date

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Speaker 3: Not to mention, it was a huge surprise him.

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Speaker 4: He wasn't expecting to actually have to provide a sample

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Speaker 4: in front of her on the first time that they met.

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Speaker 4: So what's happened since that date ended?

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Speaker 3: How long has it been.

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Speaker 5: It's been about a week, I guess. I waited a

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Speaker 5: I did reach out, like two days ago, just text

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Speaker 1: It's important that she gets ahold of them. There's not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, so it's a big deal.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so let's call this guy in a couple of minutes. Here,

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Speaker 4: we'll find out what he has to say. I can't

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Speaker 4: imagine I mean, you've already tested his pe like it's

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Speaker 4: I don't know what base that would be in romance terms,

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Speaker 1: Ballpark maybe, Okay, yeah, but we're.

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Speaker 4: Gonna get whatever his answer is when we call him

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Speaker 4: come back, get your second date update.

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Speaker 3: Right after this hold on.

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Speaker 4: Second date update, I can already picture the wedding vows

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Speaker 4: when Dave is up on that altar and says, some

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Speaker 4: from the moment you pulled out that six Hounds plastic

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Speaker 3: Tears everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Nothing says love like you'urine testing.

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Speaker 3: You know we're not exaggerating either.

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Speaker 4: Samantha actually has a rule that she cannot date anyone

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Speaker 4: who uses drugs because of her job. It's not allowed

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Speaker 4: and to be damaging to her image in her career

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Speaker 4: to associate with people like Brook and Jose for example.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's why I want to get a test.

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Speaker 3: But that's the thing.

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Speaker 4: Her date day did provide a sample past the test

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Speaker 4: and was clean, so it should have been smooth sailing

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Speaker 3: That's what I keep saying, I keep going.

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Speaker 5: Man.

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Speaker 3: He was nervous and tough, but he passed. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean it's weird that he was acting so strange

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Speaker 4: on the date, right, Samantha.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing I forgot to ask. Did you

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Speaker 1: explain to him the job aspect of this?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I mean I told him as much as I could

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Speaker 5: about my job. I can't really go into a lot

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Speaker 3: He said, you like an important job.

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Speaker 5: I have a very important job.

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Speaker 3: Well, we have an important job right now.

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Speaker 4: To get Dave on the other line and get some

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Speaker 3: Yeah, drug test him again?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no drug test required on this show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, So here we go. I'm in a

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 3: Hey, is this Dave? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: This is hey Dave.

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Speaker 3: How's it going?

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Speaker 5: Man?

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Speaker 3: You're on a radio show right now called Brooke and

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the show, Dave the radio show.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, answers, random, What's what's up?

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Speaker 4: This is kind of random, but we're calling on behalf

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, yeah I remember Samantha.

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Speaker 3: I bet yeah.

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Speaker 1: I would think that's a date that's hard to forget.

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Speaker 4: And so we're doing this segment called a second date

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Speaker 4: She's a little bit confused about why it's not happening yet.

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Speaker 6: Wait, did she make you guys call me?

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Speaker 1: Didn't make Yes, it was a pretty interesting story about

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Speaker 6: So yeah, it was different.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, different is a good way to describe it. According

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Speaker 4: Anybody would be surprised, even though she did mention it

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean definitely. It was a first for me

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Were you worried about passing it?

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Speaker 6: No, I mean I'm pretty good about all that stuff.

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Speaker 3: But that's what we heard.

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Speaker 4: It came back all clean, and you guys went out

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, like, what else am I supposed to do?

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Speaker 1: I actually applauded your humor. What you call her the

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Speaker 6: She said, oh, yeah, yeah, FBI da something.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what she does, but yeah, any of

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Speaker 6: So, I mean, yeah, she told you about the drug test,

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: No. So she sets up the date and then we

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Speaker 6: She didn't come right out and say, but I'm pretty

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Speaker 1: What what?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Why would you think that?

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Speaker 6: It just like stiff in my pants the whole time?

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Speaker 6: It's a German Shepherd, Like she's kind of like looking

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Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, that would make sense. Why she would need

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Speaker 3: Do the dogs instantly attack if they sit, yeah, and

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Speaker 3: at whatever. Still, it would make whatever they do.

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Speaker 1: Drug dog before. Yeah, but they scare me, even the beagles.

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Speaker 4: So you're saying, are you one hundred percent sure that

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Speaker 6: I mean, come on, say, but I mean the way

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Speaker 5: I feel like all German shepherds are drug dogs, you know,

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Speaker 3: The other ones.

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Speaker 1: Did it go to other people at the bar?

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Speaker 2: Like was it sniffing out?

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Speaker 6: I mean she was hold a pretty tightly show, so

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Speaker 6: I really don't know you.

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Speaker 2: Even though you were totally clean and innocent, I would

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah drug lord.

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Speaker 6: Well, like I was like Walter White.

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Speaker 4: The only way to find out for sure the status

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Speaker 6: Yeah, dude, you didn't tell me she was listening.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how this worse. But Samantha there, Oh god, yeah,

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Speaker 4: Oh would you would like to address the allegations against

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Speaker 5: Yeah, my dog is not a drug sniffing dog, And

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Speaker 4: Drug users are a little bit paranoid. He wouldn't be

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I think it's just suspicions that, like,

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Speaker 5: Like you seriously think I also brought a drug sniffing dog.

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean, what else am I supposed to think?

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Speaker 6: Like this is the first time I ever had a drug test,

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Speaker 5: I mean, I've been honest about everything. I told you

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Speaker 3: What are you hiding?

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Speaker 5: If you're thinking like you're automatically.

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Speaker 6: The whole thing was just such a bizarre experience. It

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Speaker 6: That wasn't any of that, Like have you ever had

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Speaker 5: Mean, I feel like, if you have nothing to hide,

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Speaker 5: and like be normal and not worry about it.

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Speaker 6: Ever again she doesn't sketchy, or yeah, you could just

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Speaker 2: Something like I mean, I do I feel like you

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Speaker 1: It's not a drug dog like.

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Speaker 5: It honestly did not occur to me. That's why I'm

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Speaker 6: Oh, could not occur to you.

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Speaker 5: I mean, at the end of the day, the way

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Speaker 6: This is exactly why I called you the FBI.

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Speaker 5: If there's smoke, there's fire, and so I wouldn't be

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Speaker 2: If there's smoke, you'll buy Jose, so's it's true?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, oh god, we're such degenerates.

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Speaker 3: So listen, Dave.

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Speaker 4: At the end of the day, maybe Samantha should ease

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Speaker 1: Okay, So now that you know that it's a non

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Speaker 4: Like, so that's that's both of them making a mistake.

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Speaker 4: We agree that we're all flawed, but none of us

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Speaker 4: So none of our listeners either, right, listeners, Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: What do you think, Dave? No more drug test though, right?

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Speaker 1: And no doubtmantic Dave? How could you say no?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, I don't know, like I kind of feel

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Speaker 1: Well, she hasn't actually looked into that part of your life. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: That might be her version of for play. Samantha at

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Speaker 5: I would go out with Dave again. I mean, I

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Speaker 3: Flags other than his, like Karen Oyan.

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Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, compared to most people dating online, that

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Speaker 3: It's up to you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, as long as you don't bring the doctor,

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Speaker 6: I'll do one more time.

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Speaker 2: I don't expect that drugs this date because she's not

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Speaker 6: I heard that.

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Speaker 4: Second test is comment get the gloves ready.

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Speaker 3: Looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: This is a great example of how not every first

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Speaker 1: None of them or any romance.

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Speaker 3: There is no all like a job interview.

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Speaker 1: About each other.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's the only time a man has pulled

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Speaker 4: Sometimes even good relationships start with hiccups and mistakes where

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Speaker 4: maybe you spill some ketchup on your shirt, maybe you

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Wow, things don't always play out like the fairy tales say.

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Speaker 1: I don't know it's you and the dogs, jeff but my.

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Speaker 3: Mind goes places.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so let's just remember that even if your first

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Speaker 3: Work out again.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and as sterile as you can get, Stare is

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Speaker 2: a good I still wonder.

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Speaker 3: What her job was. She's so serious everything.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's not as serious as she thinks.

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Speaker 3: She takes its seriously. She checks tickets at Disneyland.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but anyway, if you want some help in your

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Speaker 4: dating life, email the show. We'll call that person who's

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