WEBVTT - Who Can’t Come to the Cookout | MiniPod 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.040 Native Plan Pod is a production of iHeartRadio and partnership 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:04.519 with Recent Choice Media. 0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:08.119 Well Come, well come, well come, well come, well come. 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:14.040 Come, Welcome home, everybody. This is Angela Rye, Andrew Gillim 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:17.560 and Tiffany Cross. You are tuned into this week's mini pod. 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:22.280 There is something deeply rooted and special and sentimental about 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:27.080 the the quote unquote cookout for us, and we always 0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:29.400 say like who's invited to the cookout? Who's not invited 0:00:29.440 --> 0:00:32.440 to the cookout? And it's so true because there's you 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:36.720 have to have a certain understanding and community now in transparency. 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:39.600 Before we were getting ready to record this segment and 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:41.760 needs to start it pod and talking about I'd rather 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:42.440 talk about. 0:00:42.200 --> 0:00:44.559 What food ain't invited, That's what I want. 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:47.800 And Andrew said, macaroni and cheese made on the stovetop. 0:00:48.200 --> 0:00:50.760 He't invited to the cookout. If it ain't, if it 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:52.120 wasn't on three seventy. 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:54.000 Five for an hour, we don't want it. 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:57.920 Well, I was asking Angela, is Tim Scott invited to 0:00:57.960 --> 0:00:59.720 the cookout? And she said it depends on people that 0:00:59.800 --> 0:01:02.120 raise and his potatoes out. Yeah, well I heard on 0:01:02.120 --> 0:01:04.319 good authority. He prefers raisins in the potatos a. 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:06.440 But I want to know what he's going to bring. 0:01:06.520 --> 0:01:09.800 So sometimes people bring nasty food to the How do 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:10.000 you know. 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:11.479 If you're gonna eat somebody's food at. 0:01:11.360 --> 0:01:13.560 The cook and who made it? 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:15.800 You know what this is gonna be real shady, But 0:01:15.880 --> 0:01:19.839 it's how it looks, who made it and. 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:20.360 How they look. 0:01:20.560 --> 0:01:24.959 So for example, for example, yeah, if you look like 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:27.160 want to make you clean inside but you ain't clean 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:29.440 on the outside about doing it, especially. 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:31.199 If we know you live in a dirty house. 0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:33.320 We have a cousin, so my mom's first cousin. 0:01:33.319 --> 0:01:34.720 I'm gonna get in trouble for this, but we gonna 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:38.280 tell it all on this cookout of episode Yes, Ronda 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:43.360 so so my cousin Ronda, who I love. Ronda has 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:46.200 taught me how to like cook so many things growing up. 0:01:46.319 --> 0:01:48.960 Ronda is on a health cake now. So we had 0:01:49.000 --> 0:01:52.720 a big, huge cookout, but cooking because it was Christmas time. 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:57.240 It was sixty five negroes. Wow for Christmas, celebrating the 0:01:57.280 --> 0:01:58.560 first Christmas that. 0:01:58.560 --> 0:01:59.960 My sister made up of. 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:06.120 Okay, but for Christmas, everybody wore pajamas because Graham, if 0:02:06.120 --> 0:02:08.000 Graham could stay in pajamas all day, she would we 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:08.760 were pajamas. 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:10.760 We had gumbo with like it was huge and I 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:12.720 was so tired. But Randa can cook. 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:14.600 So I was like, Wanda, you come in and it's 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:17.200 ten year old, your grandkids, your kids come with you 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:20.320 making She was like, oh, I'm gonna make this tofu 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:21.600 sweet potato pie. 0:02:21.639 --> 0:02:22.440 And this was me. 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:27.960 I was like, so, Roanda, I love you. You brought 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:30.639 the sweet potato tofu pie. I tried it just because, 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:32.079 but I would really like for you to get on. 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:35.560 It good, imagine. 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:37.399 And she made it with honey could she's not doing 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:38.960 sugar right now, Ronda. 0:02:38.639 --> 0:02:39.320 Please do. 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:45.000 But for everybody else. 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:47.040 Kick us with the potato pie. 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:48.480 I was. I was mad. 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:50.240 We were tired about it because she can, Like this 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:53.760 is a cousin who can like she she could literally create. 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:55.360 A recipe for you and it's gonna be good. And 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:56.720 this time she could have loved that. 0:02:57.240 --> 0:02:59.720 My grandmother was like the resident cook. So every July 0:02:59.800 --> 0:03:01.680 for it was a huge deal because it was my 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:04.400 grandfather's birthday on the fourth. My father's birthday was a 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:07.799 sixth and my cousin eight nobody died on the floor 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:09.760 like it's EJ speaks shout out to miss e j 0:03:09.840 --> 0:03:12.080 speaks by the way for opening the podcast for us. 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:15.840 But I I think when everybody came over, they were 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:18.200 Gladys was her. Gladys three was my grandmother's name, I said, 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:20.240 But Gladys cook. She would start cooking the day. 0:03:20.160 --> 0:03:24.919 Before, right glatty three, and she would be up all day. 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:26.760 She I would be there at her sous chef and 0:03:26.840 --> 0:03:29.840 it was like just But that was a point that 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:32.560 we've talked about before. That was her joy feeding people. 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:35.480 She loved to see people enjoy her food. Her potato 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:37.920 salad was amazing. Now, I'll tell you, as I've gotten 0:03:37.920 --> 0:03:40.680 into the world, people have a lot of strong opinions 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:44.440 about different potatoes. I had some really good different like 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:47.320 different variations. I've had really good potato salad. I've not 0:03:47.400 --> 0:03:49.680 had too many bad potato salad experiences. 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:52.880 But I'm mostly with you know, with people who know 0:03:52.920 --> 0:03:53.600 how to make it. 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:55.720 What did your grandma put in her potato salad? 0:03:56.240 --> 0:04:00.120 Relish potatoes. She put green peppers in hers with. 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:07.960 Tender potatoes, eggs, of course, mayo. She topped with paprika, 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:11.160 and then some other stuff that she ain't showed me 0:04:11.240 --> 0:04:17.159 or tell always peprik to me as a little kid. 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:18.400 If it ain't have red. 0:04:18.279 --> 0:04:23.440 Stuff, or my mother would slice up in addition to 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:25.920 the eggs that would be in it. She put eggs 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:27.040 like with slic. 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:33.960 Yeah, necessarily it's unnecessary. Why we do it so delicious? 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:36.800 And if it don't have it, I don't want it. 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:39.360 I don't want it. My dad, I don't know when 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:40.320 this started happening. 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:42.719 I really don't like it because I'm not an olives person, 0:04:42.960 --> 0:04:46.120 but my dad likes all of my mom's starting olives 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:47.320 on top of the potato salad. 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:48.880 I don't need. 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:53.520 She definitely needs to put can I just I just 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:55.159 want to say this real because when we were talking 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:57.839 about doing this before, I actually looked into why we 0:04:57.920 --> 0:04:59.640 eat some of the things. So I want us to 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:01.840 know because we get grown out here in these streets 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:03.719 and try to get bougie all of a sudden want 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:06.919 that red soda. I used to drink that red soda, 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:08.480 Red kool Ai, red kool A. 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:11.560 You know what is know? 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:14.480 I'm sure it's there, but it used to mean everybody's refrigerated. 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:18.320 Last time I had kool Ai. I ain't do no 0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:20.000 orange slices, but I couldn't. 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:21.040 I couldn't have. 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:25.039 My mom would not let me have kool aid, and 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:26.800 that the crazy thing is she would let me have 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:27.840 Hawaiian punch though. 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:28.640 And that's weird. 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:35.040 Same, well, we would we would have mom sugar with 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:36.000 a little bit of kool aid. 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:40.640 Yes, the diabetes to. 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:45.640 Well, there's a reason why we drink red drinks because 0:05:45.640 --> 0:05:48.880 every cookout you know, for me anyway, would have red drinks. 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:53.000 Red was used to symbolize resilience and joy. So that's 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:56.120 why we have a lot of red a cookout, strawberry pie, barbecue, 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:59.719 red rice, watermelon, all those things and red drink. The 0:05:59.720 --> 0:06:04.240 color red is associated with ancestral reverence in West African traditions. 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:10.080 It's known as bicap and Senegal sorrel yeah in the Caribbean, 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:12.479 rosella in the Horn of Africa and the Middle East, 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:18.440 carcade in Egypt, Agua Fresca de Jamaica and Central America. 0:06:18.600 --> 0:06:22.520 So these are traditions that carried far in the hood. 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:28.320 These red drinks are known as high sea, Hawaiian puncha 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:36.000 and kool aid. As we talked about, fango, faga, great 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:42.880 red or pineapple, all those are good watermelon. When the 0:06:43.000 --> 0:06:46.200 enslaved won our emancipation during the Civil War, free black 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:49.800 people grew eight and sold watermelons. It made that a 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:52.760 symbol of our freedom. I love watermelon, is one of 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:56.960 my favorite fruits. Southern whites were threatened by black's newfound freedom, 0:06:57.320 --> 0:07:00.520 and so they responded by making fruit. The watermelon symbol 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:05.240 of black people's perceived uncleanliness and laziness and childishness. So 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:08.200 when you are out there saying I ain't eating watermelon 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:10.280 and I don't eat watermelon in front of white people, 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:13.040 you are just perpetuating what they wanted you to know. 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:16.240 I'll eat watermelon in front of anybody. I don't give 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:21.720 watermelon make our joy our pain. And so we got 0:07:21.720 --> 0:07:25.600 to get over that fried chicken. It was common, but 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:28.720 yet a sacred farm animal in West Africa, and white 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:32.160 colonizers were more accustomed to eating other variations of poetry 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:36.280 poultry rather, and so they would leave chicken as an afterthought. 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:41.600 But in sixteen ninety two, the Virginia General Assembly outlawed 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.960 slaves from owning horses and cattle and blah blah blah. 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:46.480 So that's how we came to eat chicken. So I 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:48.880 just thought it was like, Wow, these are actual rich 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:51.360 traditions that we had that we participate in that we 0:07:51.400 --> 0:07:53.280 don't even know. Here's my question, though, I want to 0:07:53.280 --> 0:07:55.440 shift us off food for a second. Are you on 0:07:55.520 --> 0:07:58.320 that spade table? You had that bit with table? Or 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:05.480 you want them Domino diamond? I don't think when are 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:06.720 you old enough to play bid with? 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:12.640 I want my memory of bid with? Are my aunts 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:15.760 and uncles, great aunts and uncles to be clear cussing 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:20.600 each other out over brown liquor playing? 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:23.640 But we can't leave food with out. Are the traditions 0:08:23.640 --> 0:08:24.600 around New Year's Eve? 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:27.200 Just like this? Everybody observe those. 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:30.520 That. 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:33.760 Yeah, well, but there are other cultures that have their traditions. 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:35.360 But I think black eyed peas and Calli greens are 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:37.000 us interesting. 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:42.840 Yeah, and it's not meaning to each right prosperity, Yeah yeah. 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:46.719 Call greens have the cookout to me, there are winter foods, but. 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:52.840 Greens are legendary you because I have meeting them. 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:54.760 I mean no, now I do it. 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:58.720 I had my stock like for half of that and 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:02.240 that that turkey. I think it's gelatinous. If it isn't 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:03.280 get cold, it's good. 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:03.679 Now. 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:05.840 Do you like your corn breads? 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:05.960 Like? 0:09:06.000 --> 0:09:07.520 Do you'all like your food to touch you? 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:09.440 Like my food to touch really. 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:11.880 And I didn't growing up. But when it comes to 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:13.160 greens and clean it up. 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:18.000 The corn bread, that's what you have to up and 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:19.880 the public should compliment the corn bread. 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:22.680 Don't have to eat meat to have. 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:26.200 My don't hear any people who. 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:29.640 Yeah, who is and who is not invited it to cook? 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:30.440 Can't come? 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:30.760 Well? 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:31.760 Who you who you got? 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:32.480 Who you got? 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:35.600 I got a couple of cousins who. 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:39.719 They don't take it. 0:09:39.800 --> 0:09:43.000 Pert check any of them. But you'll know you know 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:43.400 what you did. 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:43.680 You know. 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:49.200 Working family like you know what you did. 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:54.760 They don't deserve it might be worse than that. 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:57.800 You know my phone number, but don't call me. 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:03.360 All right, y'all, we're gonna take a quick break and 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:04.200 be right back. 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:15.520 Let me tell you what's not invited. And I don't 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:18.520 have people like I, but I do have family members. 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:22.200 Don't you ever come to the it's a pot. Look 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:26.920 you're gonna come with a grocery bag with can goods? Like, 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:28.920 don't you even do it? The other thing that's a 0:10:28.960 --> 0:10:31.320 pet peeve. Some people don't feel this strongly is me. 0:10:31.480 --> 0:10:35.800 I'm like extremely obnoxious about baked the goods. 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:41.400 If you come to the house store by like pie. 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:43.240 I'm so offendition that you. 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:45.760 Can get from anywhere, right. 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:47.200 Please don't do that. 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:49.559 If you're really gonna buy a store boy, bring a little sodas, 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:50.920 bring you a little drinks, bring you a. 0:10:50.880 --> 0:10:51.720 Little some paper. 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:57.120 Please don't bring me no baked goods from the store. 0:10:58.679 --> 0:11:03.240 It doesn't make any sense. It's lazy ring, lazy ring. 0:11:03.120 --> 0:11:05.679 Liquor chasers, paper products, things like that. 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:08.760 My family, I would rather you actually not bring any liquor. 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:11.160 Don't even beer. 0:11:11.240 --> 0:11:15.520 We just that in our family. It goes, but it's 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:19.920 always liquor at the cookout. No, you don't have a 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:20.720 dry cookout? 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:21.960 Yeah, we need to. 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:24.800 And it's all kinds of things happening at the cookouts 0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:26.720 that I go, this is what we needed. 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:27.760 Do we need a dry one? 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:33.440 Like oh, and okay, we can. I just really quickly. 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:35.560 There are rules to this. So I want to give 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:36.240 a shout out. 0:11:36.120 --> 0:11:39.439 To Cavan on stage because he actually some of the 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:40.160 things y'all saying. 0:11:40.200 --> 0:11:43.760 He has the rules. So we're gonna play. We're gonna play. 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:46.040 Tell him what to do. What's the rules for the cookout? 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:49.439 Don't come at the time I tell you. The barbecue starts. 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:52.640 If I say come, at two o'clock, show up round 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:55.880 four five thirty seven. If you come at two, you 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:57.600 must be wanting to have them clean up the house. 0:11:57.640 --> 0:11:59.200 If you come at too, I won't even have the 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:02.760 barbecue call ready yet. If you come at two, I'm 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:05.760 at the store. Don't come at two o'clock. Don't come 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:08.000 at the time I suggest. And if you don't have 0:12:08.120 --> 0:12:10.520 anything to bring, say, man, I wish I would come in, 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:12.360 but I ain't got enough money to bring nothing that 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:15.280 allows me to say it's cool. Come on anyway, just 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:18.600 make sure you come late and eat last. Don't be 0:12:18.640 --> 0:12:21.040 coming and not bring nothing. And then first person in 0:12:21.120 --> 0:12:24.200 line you sit with the kids. Number three, don't be 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:27.640 a vegan. Not today. This is not the time to argue, Hey, 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:29.920 could you just clean off a place of the grill 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:33.120 from my soy burger got it from garden Farms. 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:38.480 Get out, listen here, listen. 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:45.520 But what is his name? Is Kevin or keveon or. 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:48.199 I don't know oka? 0:12:49.920 --> 0:13:03.760 keV on stage and my dumb ass was thinking, thank you, SAYOK. 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:03.400 That's family. 0:13:03.559 --> 0:13:05.679 Gatherings like that are some of the places where you 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:07.439 really can't fake superficial. 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:10.599 You know we're talking about because it's like, oh, is 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:13.240 that right? Because I heard y'all was getting the divorce. 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:18.880 That's what your mom. I'm just saying that, you know, 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:20.360 somebody's gonna. 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:22.760 Go into all your business where they're supposed to be. 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:25.000 Yeah, y'all still sleeping together. 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:28.040 It's mostly old people know it is. 0:13:27.960 --> 0:13:32.840 But they take it advantage. They know better. 0:13:32.920 --> 0:13:33.640 That's what they get to. 0:13:34.280 --> 0:13:40.719 They have seen some all out brawls. Cousin Tierra, y'all 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:44.160 know Cousin Tierra. Everybody, cousin Honey, Cousin Tierra had an 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:47.000 experience where she was ejected and she tells us about it. 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:48.800 Let's hear from Cousin Tierra, and then we're gonna talk 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:50.040 about these dominoes and space. 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:56.200 Listen, if you're that serious about the about the space game, 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:58.559 don't ask me to play now. 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:00.400 I've just got kicked the up of my. 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:04.439 Grandma house, my own grandma house at family game night 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:06.440 because I didn't know I had a die. 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:08.679 Listen, I need y'all to understand. 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:12.000 Everybody don't know how to play that ship who even 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:13.520 invent at the game stage. 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:15.720 They don't need to play that at the casino. 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:17.320 That's not even a real game. 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:18.559 Motherfucker want an. 0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:23.040 Uncousin me now because I first of all, what is 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:24.280 even the word reneed? 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:24.640 Like? 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:27.120 Where did that even come from? That sound racist as 0:14:27.120 --> 0:14:27.640 fuck to me? 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:29.240 And the crazy part. 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:32.920 Is we ain't even playing for no money. We is 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:36.320 playing for bragging rights. I said I wasn't never doing 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:39.360 that ship again last year when my strong gas cousin 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:42.240 broke my grandma table, slamming the card down on the. 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:44.280 Table, because what you got to be so aggressive? 0:14:44.320 --> 0:14:48.520 Fuck lizend she can not be all. 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:52.000 I don't really get it. 0:14:54.360 --> 0:14:57.000 Invites to the good, don't dominos. 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:00.280 True? 0:15:00.400 --> 0:15:02.040 You need spectators? 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:04.760 What isni? Where does it come from? I know what 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:08.240 it is in the game, be my partner. I know 0:15:08.320 --> 0:15:10.240 what it means to catch some people up. 0:15:10.280 --> 0:15:13.280 But an actual word. I think we just only use 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:18.880 it in space. I only use it in space. 0:15:19.000 --> 0:15:20.720 I've never heard otherwise. 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:22.920 We're literally only heard us. 0:15:24.920 --> 0:15:26.520 To take it to renegotiate. 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:30.280 It's not taken. 0:15:30.760 --> 0:15:34.400 Renig means renig expelled r E n E g E. 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:36.800 In case you thought it was a red nigga, it's not. 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:39.560 That's why she said, what is it exactly? 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:42.720 Renigga? It means to retract, to withdraw. 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:46.160 To, and what you're saying and not just saying it is. 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:49.240 But Andrews the definition right. 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:51.600 I can't believe we're going and was making the point 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:53.080 that it's an actual word. 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:57.640 Okay, well Andrews looking up renig as long as the 0:15:57.680 --> 0:16:00.120 space do you want to read the definition to. 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:02.720 Renee gets to go back on your word or failed 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:05.800 to keep a promise. Not quite lying. Renigging is more 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:09.280 a centible mission to your ass down family to do 0:16:09.640 --> 0:16:14.880 what you said you would. Latin negar means. 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:18.160 The definition. 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:22.080 Spell n E G A R E. 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:23.640 Is there anybody? 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:27.200 Is there anybody who gets a special invite to the 0:16:27.240 --> 0:16:29.880 cookout who would not otherwise be I think. 0:16:29.800 --> 0:16:31.200 Bill Clinton is probably still invited. 0:16:31.680 --> 0:16:37.040 No, still, it wasn't tell me why you're given. 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:40.640 That's what you're giving your sacred past. This is where 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:43.240 you always are you giving your sacred pass. You get 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:46.080 one pass, and then you're giving it to I don't think. 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:48.640 He gets a pass. I think he would be on 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:49.360 the invite list. 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:50.760 He is not on the list. 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:53.840 By definition, he gets a pass. So are you giving 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:55.160 your sacred one pass? 0:16:55.560 --> 0:16:58.200 Because I don't think he needs it? So we here 0:16:58.600 --> 0:16:59.920 revisit revisited. 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:02.920 Okay, what he does need it? Believe me. Are you 0:17:03.040 --> 0:17:04.280 do you have a pass that you want to give 0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:06.160 me somebody? I didn't know that we were doing this part. 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:08.480 Who I just came up with it. 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:08.960 I like it. 0:17:11.880 --> 0:17:13.840 Yeah, it takes some thought because it's it's serious. 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:15.800 I'm gonna I don't know. 0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:17.440 I thought I was gonna give me some good answer, 0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:17.920 to give me something. 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:22.440 No, I don't want to limit I don't want to 0:17:22.520 --> 0:17:23.600 renig on this section. 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:28.879 I get one pass to give away to somebody outside 0:17:28.920 --> 0:17:29.400 the community. 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:31.520 Who am I giving? Okay? 0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:33.560 And you cannot and first of all, do definitely in 0:17:33.640 --> 0:17:34.120 the community. 0:17:35.000 --> 0:17:36.200 They have to be a lie. 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:41.120 Somebody who you're saying, yes today, this person I'm gonna 0:17:41.160 --> 0:17:42.520 invite this person to the cookout. 0:17:43.320 --> 0:17:44.280 They could be anybody. 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:48.960 Know, it's the hard question to answer, right, it could 0:17:49.000 --> 0:17:51.920 be somebody you know personally, but they better be good. 0:17:51.960 --> 0:17:52.960 You gotta explain. 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:58.159 And they have to remember we talk about creating safety. 0:17:58.880 --> 0:18:01.000 You want your guests to feel safe. You want them 0:18:01.040 --> 0:18:03.040 to feel that they're now your guest and you're. 0:18:02.960 --> 0:18:04.560 Host a lot of pressure exactly. 0:18:04.560 --> 0:18:07.280 That's why I want you all to take these You know, 0:18:07.400 --> 0:18:07.920 what is it? 0:18:08.040 --> 0:18:10.080 Does it have to be a white person that's invited 0:18:10.080 --> 0:18:11.680 the cookout, or somebody that we would. 0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:15.520 Want to come to our family cookout, but no, this 0:18:15.680 --> 0:18:17.080 is the proverbial cookout. 0:18:18.080 --> 0:18:21.160 Is someone that could have also been kicked off the reservation? 0:18:21.960 --> 0:18:23.600 If are you inviting somebody back? 0:18:25.280 --> 0:18:27.480 No, I'm asking as part of the rules, could it 0:18:27.840 --> 0:18:31.120 not necessarily? Yes, you're out. 0:18:31.320 --> 0:18:34.440 The council will have to if you what you asked. 0:18:35.880 --> 0:18:38.639 If there's somebody who is who's passed to the has 0:18:38.680 --> 0:18:41.320 been revoked, then yes, if you are choosing to give 0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:43.520 your sacred pass to somebody who's previously been kicked off, 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:45.520 and you're like, you know what, I want to Clarence 0:18:45.560 --> 0:18:48.720 Thomas back right, So I want to know who this 0:18:48.840 --> 0:18:50.560 person is that you are. 0:18:53.760 --> 0:18:54.400 You talking about? 0:18:54.440 --> 0:18:56.680 And you're thinking about those people who were kicked off. 0:18:57.920 --> 0:18:59.520 She was never kicked off. She was a champion. What 0:18:59.640 --> 0:19:00.359 do you talk about? 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:03.040 She wasn't when she when confirmation was happening. 0:19:05.800 --> 0:19:07.600 That's true, That's that's partially true. 0:19:07.640 --> 0:19:10.000 They also didn't stand with Alice Walker in the color purple. 0:19:11.960 --> 0:19:14.680 Whatever, Okay, I think mine is going to go to 0:19:15.119 --> 0:19:18.080 someone who does a lot of great work for our people. 0:19:19.359 --> 0:19:23.720 He recently signed on to Maryland Moseby's Pardon It is 0:19:23.920 --> 0:19:27.720 Barry Check. Yes, I'm winning Project Verry's Fun too. 0:19:28.000 --> 0:19:32.760