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Speaker 1: I've struggled with infertility, so my brother pranked my husband

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Speaker 2: Should I kick him out of the wedding? Oh?

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Speaker 1: That is a terrible prank. Really, I think it's It's

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Speaker 1: a great prank. Bro Oh, great prank.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I feel so bad. Think about the tip.

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Speaker 1: Think about the people on TikTok that would double tap.

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Speaker 2: It's true. It's true people, Sam, Yeah, we're ever thinking

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Speaker 2: about them. Think about the people, what do they want?

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Speaker 2: And think about all the people that benefit from this crazy,

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Speaker 2: awful story. Wow. Yeah, you're welcome. Let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: I female thirty four, have been with my fiance Jack,

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Speaker 1: male thirty six for over seven years.

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Speaker 2: Quite a while, quite a while.

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Speaker 1: We've had infertility issues for years and the topic of

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Speaker 1: children has always been sore spot for us. After trying

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Speaker 1: for years without succeeding, Jack has always wanted kids, and

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Speaker 1: we decided to adopt as our last option. But after

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Speaker 1: we got married, everything was going smoothly. Our wedding invitations

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Speaker 1: had and sent out, and my brother Sam twenty two male, me,

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Speaker 1: the person's name is Sam Sam, So, uh, you tell.

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Speaker 2: Me, I swear I didn't do it. I swear how

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Speaker 2: dare you?

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Speaker 1: If we didn't, if we didn't call it out, there

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Speaker 1: would be one person like that.

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Speaker 2: Wait, Sam, did it? I saw you the name plate.

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Speaker 2: It's you. It's you. You are the culprit.

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Speaker 1: My brother Sam likes to joke a lot. They call

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Speaker 1: him Sammy the jokester.

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Speaker 2: That's a lame name. Huh.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of funny because that's what everyone calls you.

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Speaker 2: It is Sammy jokester. That's right. Well, I feel like

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Speaker 2: there's like like Sammy, silly Sammy, silly. Yeah, silly Sam

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Speaker 2: so much better. Yeah, if it was maybe John the Jokester,

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Speaker 2: that would work.

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Speaker 1: See, man, we're just fixing all of you guys's nicknames

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Speaker 1: over here.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome, You're welcome.

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Speaker 1: I don't find him funny because his jokes tend to

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Speaker 1: be cruel, and I do not have the best relationship

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Speaker 1: with him due to that.

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Speaker 2: Silly Sammy always cracking him jokes. You know him, He's

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Speaker 2: just a jokester. He's just a joke you know, just

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Speaker 2: making jokes about people's like dead uncles and grandma and

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Speaker 2: infertility and come on, Ukraine and light the light stuff.

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Speaker 1: I know he's already joked about my infertility issues in

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Speaker 1: the past, But my family would excuse his behavior.

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Speaker 2: Because it was hilarious. Well, he made it so damn funny.

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Speaker 2: He's just so good stand up comic. This is material.

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Speaker 1: Put this man in the laugh act. Well, so the

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Speaker 1: real reason was because they excuse his behavior, saying he's

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Speaker 1: just a kid with no experience. He's got to work

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Speaker 1: on hiss.

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Speaker 2: That is true. He has to. He's gonna be a

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Speaker 2: stand up comic. He has to always be performing.

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Speaker 1: You know, he's got he's got to really hone it

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Speaker 1: in for those, honey, those TikTok clips.

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Speaker 2: He's really got a whole Yeah. Yeah, he could have

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Speaker 2: a career. Where else is he going to practice but

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Speaker 2: on us? And they say, practice on your friends and family.

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Speaker 2: We are the material, honey. You know, urt imitates life,

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Speaker 2: and comedy is life. Wow, that beautiful goodness spars.

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Speaker 1: Days ago, I was visiting my parents' house while Jack

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Speaker 1: was out working. I left my purse on the coffee

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Speaker 1: Sam was in the living room watching TV. We had

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Speaker 1: dinner and talked a bit, and then I opened my

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Speaker 1: so I started it back up again and found that

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Speaker 1: there was fifteen missed calls from my fiance Jack.

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Speaker 2: Fifteen. That's quite a lot, you know, desperate much.

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Speaker 1: I think he found out the new OKOP episode just

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Speaker 1: oh dropping everywhere.

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Speaker 2: That's a that's a good reason to call it that

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Speaker 2: it is, that it is. Call all of your friends

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Speaker 2: and family, please please do it a blast them. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: I freaked out, thinking that he had gotten to an

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Speaker 2: Fair assumption, honestly, like why fifteen times a lot of times?

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Speaker 2: That's a lot.

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Speaker 1: I called his number immediately and put him on speaker.

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Speaker 1: He asked me about the text I sent him an

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Speaker 1: hour earlier, and I asked, h what text? He said,

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Speaker 1: there was a text telling him that I was pregnant.

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Speaker 2: But would he believe that from is from silly Sammy?

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Speaker 2: From Sam the joke.

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Speaker 1: That was from Op's phone, Oh oh.

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Speaker 2: My, honey, I'm pregnant. Yikes. Ouch.

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Speaker 1: Sam suddenly started laughing.

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Speaker 2: That's an evil prank. God Sam, he asked, it's all

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Speaker 2: look bad? Yeah all, Sam will cancel all get across

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Speaker 2: the board.

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Speaker 1: OKOP co host Samuel Donner writes a hilarious prank, reads

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Speaker 1: the story and gets canceled here. He asked if it

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Speaker 1: was true and why I didn't tell him In the morning.

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Speaker 1: I was shocked and said I didn't send anything. He

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Speaker 1: told me to check my messages and I did, and

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Speaker 1: I saw that at seven thirty pm, someone sent Jack

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Speaker 1: a message saying that I was pregnant.

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Speaker 2: Silly Sam, always.

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Speaker 1: Always a prankster, that one. I was confused as heck.

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Speaker 1: Sam kept laughing and admitted to sending it right away.

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Speaker 1: I lost it on him, and he said that it

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Speaker 1: was just a joke to mess with Jack, if that's all,

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Speaker 2: Just a harmless little harm was a joke, like to think,

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Speaker 2: to tell someone something that they think like the thing

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Speaker 2: that they've been wanting for ages, and then to rip

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Speaker 2: it away. Not a good prank. Not at all.

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Speaker 1: No, not at all, especially a child like I was

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Speaker 1: gonna be like, oh, think of like a like an

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Speaker 1: analogy to kind of like mock it, but like, there's

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Speaker 1: no I know, there's nothing that compares.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fafty.

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Speaker 1: It's like, oh, like your your dream job just called

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Speaker 1: it's like yeah, but also like a child.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's worse than making someone think they got their

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Speaker 2: dream job. Yeah, and then just realizing they didn't ye, yeah,

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Speaker 2: or lying about what's like, or like pranking someone that

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Speaker 2: they got into Harvard. Yeah, yeah, there you go, and

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Speaker 2: like just kidding, you're going to your local community college.

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Speaker 2: You're going to the dishes McDonald's dish boy clean his

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Speaker 2: dishes in the gate. Yeah. He's gonna rise the ranks though. Oh,

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Speaker 2: it's not gonna stop him. He's gonna go from a

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Speaker 2: fry cook to the CEO. Yeah, what's that? What's that line?

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Speaker 1: I was trying to remember it, like, uh uh, first

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Speaker 1: week it's the mop but then next to the fries.

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Speaker 1: Everybody watch him. It's got that ambition, baby. I asked

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Speaker 1: how he can think of this as a joke, knowing

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Speaker 1: him how hard it was for Jack, even if he believed.

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Speaker 2: It for one second. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sammy argued back that he didn't think Jack would take

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Speaker 1: it seriously, but it was sent from my phone, so

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Speaker 1: How would he not take it seriously? Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: I said, his behavior has gotten out of control, and

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Speaker 1: after the stunt, I no longer want him at my wedding,

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Speaker 1: and he was uninvited because I only won supportive people

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Speaker 1: at the wedding and he was being far from that.

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Speaker 2: Man. This is blown up, my god, left, right and center. Oh,

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Speaker 2: my god, on the spot. I think Sammy deserves that

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Speaker 2: kind of dick move. Dick move, Samy move, for sure.

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Speaker 1: My parents said that I should cal him down before

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Speaker 1: reacting like this over a silly little joke, and that

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Speaker 1: Sam was just telling this nasty little prank, no big deal,

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Speaker 2: But the thing is, it's like he's been doing it

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Speaker 2: for a while, you know, like this is like a

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Speaker 2: this is a behavior that is annoyed op for years.

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Speaker 2: Like I feel like he needs some kind of like

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Speaker 2: kicking the ass to change.

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Speaker 1: You know, Sam, I would say, you're right, yes, but

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Speaker 1: but it was a prank.

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Speaker 2: Bruh, right right? Who If you say those words, it

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Speaker 2: absolves you of anything you did in the last fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 2: It's all good. Yeah, it's all good.

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Speaker 1: But I refuse to keep arguing. I grabbed my stuff

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Speaker 1: to go deal with the trauma Sam caused Jack with

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Speaker 1: his joke. Jack was so upset, but unusually quiet, he

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Speaker 1: cried in the middle of the night right after I

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Speaker 1: apologized to him for what happened. My parents kept calling me,

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Speaker 1: asking me to calm down and to reinvite Sam, but

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Speaker 1: I refused. They offered that they apologized to Jack, but

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Speaker 1: Sam refused to apologize, insisting it was a teasing joke

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Speaker 1: and nothing more, nothing more. My goodness. Okay, Gang, please

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Speaker 1: please tell us do you think Sam is the ahole?

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Speaker 1: But more importantly, what would you do in that? You

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Speaker 1: imagine your op? Right now, you've made the decision to

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Speaker 1: remove Sam from the wedding.

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Speaker 2: What do you do? What do you do? Yeah? Yeah

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Speaker 2: you're out? Yeah, goodbye. I'm done for Sam is okay?

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Speaker 2: So h M. I just feel bad for the husband because,

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Speaker 2: like I would almost kick it out because of the

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Speaker 2: emotional damage the husband has received. He just like, Sammy's

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Speaker 2: got to get his together and he obviously doesn't. And

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Speaker 2: that was that's a really mean prank, terrible and he

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Speaker 2: won't like he just also, what is he going to

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Speaker 2: do with the wedding? You know that's christer prankster Sammy.

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Speaker 2: I don't want him ruining my wedding.

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Speaker 1: Get the figure and just like like the unfunniest thing,

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Speaker 1: at least make it funny, at.

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Speaker 2: Least be good. It's not even a good bit, bro,

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Speaker 2: It's not at all get to the laugh factor. You're

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Speaker 2: getting bowed. Yeah, that's right. I think Sammy deserves some

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Speaker 2: justice and he needs to be taught a lesson. And

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Speaker 2: so Sammy no invite to the wedding. What else could

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Speaker 2: we take away from him? His balls? Let's castrate him.

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Speaker 2: That's a hey, great idea. Yeah, let's do it. His

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Speaker 2: thing fingers may be so he can't type, that's true.

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Speaker 2: His his maybe just like a get in the male bottom.

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Speaker 2: Just all the great ideas. Just take away everything he has.

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Speaker 2: Let's let's destroy him. But would you do to Samy

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Speaker 2: and put your favorite torture methods in the comments? WHOA?

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Speaker 2: Please do and we'll see you next time. I told

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Speaker 2: my family to f off because you're not seeing my babby.

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Speaker 2: Am I the ahle? Okay, Opie, I don't know, I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know. That seems a little aggressive.

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Speaker 2: I mean, maybe you'll never see my child again.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they like dude, Maybe they ate like the last

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Speaker 1: of like the potato chips, or.

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Speaker 2: Maybe they ate the firstborn child. They're like, hey, I

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Speaker 2: can't let you know. You know, I let you see

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Speaker 2: the first baby, you guys ate it, can't let you

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Speaker 2: see the second baby?

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Speaker 1: That's what I call a reasonable scenario on Op's part.

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Speaker 1: The parents are not condoning.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like, John, are you trying to eat

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Speaker 2: some children right now? Have you seen you said reasonable?

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Speaker 2: There's a modest proposal. A modest proposal, I have not Okay,

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Speaker 2: So proposal is a it's like a piece of satire

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Speaker 2: written by I forgot who, But basically it's like, hey,

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Speaker 2: I know what we got to do about this overpopulation thing.

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Speaker 2: Eat the children, and like a bunch of people like

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Speaker 2: it was clearly satire, but a bunch of people read it.

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Speaker 2: It's like he's got a point.

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Speaker 1: You've got a point. We get food, we get lower population. Wow, winning,

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for all the offers of friendship,

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