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Speaker 1: Yes, and you guys have been dating, long distance, driving

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Speaker 7: I think you just want to be in denial, Like

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Speaker 1: I can't really say I would do that, hey, Stephanie. Yes, hi, hey,

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Speaker 9: Thirty years old. I think I can handle it.

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Speaker 10: In the car?

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Speaker 2: Yeah what I'm in the car, Jason.

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Speaker 1: My husband asked my Catholic parents for permission to move in.

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Speaker 9: Right, yeah, I had a twin brother, and girls would

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Speaker 9: You guys too.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure that exists. Though, I'm sure that exists. You know,

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Speaker 2: Like you'll never date them, they'll never be boys.

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Speaker 2: Ton of for a daughter.

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Speaker 1: You guys are my sisters, and here my sister knows this.

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Speaker 1: I generally will stay out of it, generally, but there's

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Speaker 1: And the thing is people believe me, like people should

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Speaker 2: Might have said basically, and I said, go right ahead.

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Speaker 1: But if this person does anything to you, this person

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Speaker 1: and I will do it. I don't care like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, I mean like you can you can kiss

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Speaker 1: And same with Colin. Like something happens to him, his

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Speaker 2: I'll make that go away.

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Speaker 1: Do you people are going to do this yourself? I

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Speaker 1: It's not going to happen, yeah, ask my father what happened,

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: That got serious real fast. Yeah see it is a

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Speaker 5: I like it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, So you tell Big Tim oh he knows now.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he got to watch out, yea, even though you

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Speaker 1: No, I'm gonna come to cal City and just start

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Speaker 2: I was like, are you mag Tim? What's your name?

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Speaker 2: Is your name Tim? Timothy Pizza?

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Speaker 2: You'll never see me coming. Nope, he'll come out with

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Speaker 1: But that was That was how my dad did it,

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Speaker 2: That's how he did it. I mean it was. It

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Speaker 1: He's like, I don't have any control over this, but

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Speaker 1: I think, just the less care. I just don't think

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Speaker 1: You don't feel like you're you're Is your mom more

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Speaker 11: I think my no, I think they all kind of

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Speaker 1: I think, how would you be, Rufio if you have

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Speaker 1: And I think part of them also as men with daughters,

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 11: Also, someone says defensive Fred is kind of hot.

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Speaker 2: I mean, don't come from me more. Fred's show next

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Speaker 12: Oh yeah, they talk better than they tell me. These

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Speaker 1: Totality Okay, Well, in that case, I'll stick around, like

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Speaker 3: Yes, thank you, dear blog.

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Speaker 13: So Paulina and Kaylin got me a twenty three and

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Speaker 5: Seasoning, some act different. Once he got I was like,

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Speaker 13: Identity is gonna change once I find out that I'm

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Speaker 2: What have you seen that happy.

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Speaker 3: That's ready. So y'all don't believe me. This is how

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Speaker 13: These are my nationalities ready, British, Irish, French, German.

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Speaker 3: And Eastern European.

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Speaker 13: And it's just broadly European. Like my map is so small.

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Speaker 13: Look at this. Literally, that is where is that?

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Speaker 2: There's no Nigerian and.

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Speaker 14: You know.

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Speaker 5: I change your name to Jason White.

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Speaker 13: Literally there's no Persian zone, nothing, there is nothing. I

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Speaker 5: Yes, I am.

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Speaker 7: I am twenty white and I am currently looking for

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Speaker 5: I would like to contact her.

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Speaker 2: There you go, maybe.

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Speaker 5: Jason hashtag Jason so white literally so white.

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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, Jason, Jason.

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Speaker 3: But here we are.

444
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Speaker 11: You wanted one, though, you should clarify to take the test.

445
00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:24,399
Speaker 3: I did want to. Yeah, I've been wanting you for

446
00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:24,960
Speaker 3: a really long time.

447
00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:29,000
Speaker 2: So was the whitest person in the room right here.

448
00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:33,280
Speaker 3: Literally, Jason wonder Boy Brown right over here.

449
00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:36,040
Speaker 6: Jason White.

450
00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:40,080
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, Jason.

451
00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:40,480
Speaker 3: You really cancel me. I'm so done.

452
00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:48,320
Speaker 1: Okay, Kiki, maybe like an additional Kikey's Court this week. Okay,

453
00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:52,040
Speaker 1: but what is his TikTok scenario that you saw with

454
00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:53,240
Speaker 1: cheating parents?

455
00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:56,400
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, how is this said? I didn't see this one.

456
00:19:56,480 --> 00:20:00,439
Speaker 7: So a girl caught her father on an app that

457
00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:02,679
Speaker 7: he was not supposed to be on and speaking of

458
00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,800
Speaker 7: age gap dating, but anyway, he was not supposed to

459
00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:06,119
Speaker 7: be on there, and she probably shouldn't have been on

460
00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:09,439
Speaker 7: there either, But she saw her dad's profile and she

461
00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:10,440
Speaker 7: was like, I.

462
00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:11,280
Speaker 5: Don't know how to handle this.

463
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Speaker 7: Do I tell my mom and break up their entire

464
00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:17,280
Speaker 7: marriage and ruin our family and you know, mess up

465
00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:20,520
Speaker 7: my inheritance? Or do I just stay quiet and act

466
00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:22,000
Speaker 7: dumb like I don't know anything happen?

467
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:23,119
Speaker 3: Man?

468
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Speaker 2: What app was it?

469
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Speaker 5: I don't know those apps? Those, you know?

470
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Speaker 7: It was like it was like a main tream one

471
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Speaker 7: of those. No, it was I don't think it was

472
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Speaker 7: one of those. It was like an age one Because

473
00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:35,920
Speaker 7: she was on there looking for older men. I guess, Oh,

474
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Speaker 7: and then that's how she ended up seeing her dad.

475
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Speaker 1: Oh so he's looking for younger women, right, Wow? Eight

476
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:46,400
Speaker 1: on three five is I call the show and text

477
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Speaker 1: the same number. This is interesting because you know my

478
00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:53,199
Speaker 1: theory about sometimes when people are are it appears that

479
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Speaker 1: people are cheating.

480
00:20:55,800 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's there's like a deal. It's true.

481
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:05,760
Speaker 1: I just yeah, Now, granted that's awfully public. That's but

482
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,160
Speaker 1: so you could argue either side, that's a very public

483
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:10,679
Speaker 1: place to go. If you're no one's supposed to know

484
00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,200
Speaker 1: that you're cheating, that's a very public place to know

485
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:15,399
Speaker 1: if you're not supposed to be cheating. You know what

486
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like either way, But I am familiar with

487
00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:21,080
Speaker 1: people who have been married for a long time.

488
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Speaker 2: I know Caitlin doesn't believe.

489
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:24,959
Speaker 5: This, but I believe it exists.

490
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Speaker 2: I don't think it's a reason not to say something.

491
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:30,119
Speaker 1: Though they have kids, they have a family, they have

492
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Speaker 1: an identity in the community. But it's like you know

493
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,840
Speaker 1: one or the other, or they decide they decide collectively

494
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Speaker 1: behind closed doors. I don't want to be intimate with

495
00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 1: you anymore. Do what you gotta do. Just don't embarrass me.

496
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Speaker 1: I know of a situation, at least one situation like this,

497
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:50,880
Speaker 1: and so you might be then calling out some sort

498
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Speaker 1: of behind the scenes private proclivity that your parents have

499
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Speaker 1: that they didn't want you to know about. On the

500
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Speaker 1: flip side, why is he on a dating app?

501
00:21:58,080 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 5: Exactly?

502
00:21:58,600 --> 00:21:59,160
Speaker 2: It's that's a.

503
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Speaker 1: Very public way to cheat if you're cheating, or to

504
00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:05,639
Speaker 1: find dates if you're you know, if it's above board,

505
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:06,959
Speaker 1: So what the hell do you do?

506
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:07,639
Speaker 2: What would you do?

507
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:12,160
Speaker 7: I'm blowing up everything. I'm blowing up their house, the marriage.

508
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:16,200
Speaker 7: I'm telling I'm having a family meeting. I'm calling out, like, Dad,

509
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:19,520
Speaker 7: this is you, this is your profile, I see your photo.

510
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:21,959
Speaker 7: Explain this to all of us. I'm gonna tell that.

511
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 7: I'll publish it. Oh wow, Yeah, I don't know. I

512
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 7: just have a certain loyalty to like, you know, people,

513
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Speaker 7: to my sister, but she raised me as a mom.

514
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 7: But like for people who have mom and dad, a

515
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Speaker 7: lot of times.

516
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Speaker 5: I feel like the girls have a little loyalty to

517
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Speaker 5: the mom.

518
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Speaker 7: Now, if I call my mom cheating, I'm like, mom,

519
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 7: like what you're doing?

520
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 14: Your dad?

521
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Speaker 5: Find out? You know, I wouldn't tell all my mom.

522
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Speaker 1: And I agree with with Marissa here. Hey Marissa, good morning,

523
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 1: good morning.

524
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Speaker 6: I love you guys, Hey.

525
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:53,600
Speaker 2: Love you too.

526
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 1: So you find out you find dad on a dating

527
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 1: app and mom and dad are still married, and so

528
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 1: there's a few here. You're on the dating app looking

529
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,640
Speaker 1: for older men. You find dad on the dating app

530
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: looking for younger women. You don't know that they were,

531
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 1: you know, seeing other people or whatever. What do you do?

532
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:16,360
Speaker 6: You confront your dad about it? Yes, I agree, especially

533
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 6: because as your mom you probably have a great relationship

534
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 6: with your mom. You don't you shouldn't be the one

535
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 6: to tell her that you found her husband on a

536
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:27,160
Speaker 6: dating app. So he needs to take responsibility. You need

537
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 6: to confront him directly, and he needs to be the

538
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 6: one to tell her.

539
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 1: I think you go to dad and he either explains

540
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Speaker 1: to you what's going on and or says, okay, if

541
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Speaker 1: you guys have a deal, then I think the three

542
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 1: of us need to sit down, and I want to

543
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Speaker 1: be clear on it. I want to be clear that

544
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Speaker 1: mom's in on this or whatever. Otherwise you got to

545
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:43,639
Speaker 1: go tell her that you're up to something. And I

546
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 1: caught you because it's like, it's not my job to

547
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 1: blow up their marriage. My parents' marriage is not my job.

548
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:50,439
Speaker 1: It's your job to be accountable.

549
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 7: But then what if your dad never tells your mom right,

550
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,440
Speaker 7: and then later on down the line, your mom finds

551
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Speaker 7: out that you knew this information.

552
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Speaker 2: Well, you say, you've got a couple days to tell her.

553
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 2: I'm going to Yeah, okay.

554
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:06,199
Speaker 6: So I've been in a similar situation unfortunately, And what

555
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:08,080
Speaker 6: I ended up doing is I actually wrote him a

556
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 6: letter confronting him about it, and I said, here's the

557
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 6: three things you need from me for our relationship to

558
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 6: stay the same. So first thing, you need to stop,

559
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 6: Second thing you need to tell her, and third thing,

560
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Speaker 6: you need to tell her by this state. And if

561
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 6: you don't, then I'm going directly to her myself.

562
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Speaker 2: And did he do all that?

563
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Speaker 6: He did not, which is why we don't have the

564
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 6: best relation.

565
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Speaker 5: Sorry, but again, it's.

566
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Speaker 6: Not on me to tell her, and he needed to

567
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 6: know that he was burdening me with that by not

568
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 6: sticking up and doing it himself. So because of that,

569
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,920
Speaker 6: he almost lost both of us and now we're trying

570
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:43,439
Speaker 6: to work through it.

571
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you shouldn't be, Marissa, the person who has to

572
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 1: break up your own parents' marriage because of their decisions.

573
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 2: They need to be accountable themselves.

574
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Speaker 1: And if you find out, God forbid, but then they

575
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:54,680
Speaker 1: got to fix it or not or whatever.

576
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 2: But you shouldn't have to be involved.

577
00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 6: And my mom deserves that choice. She deserves to make

578
00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 6: her decision based on the information that she knows from

579
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,120
Speaker 6: him directly, not from hearing it from anyone else.

580
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 11: And the cheater is the one who's ruining the marriage,

581
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 11: not the person who tells, not the messenger.

582
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:11,360
Speaker 5: Make that clear.

583
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 1: That's just a bad spot to being as a kid, though,

584
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: of course than for years. But yeah, Marissa, thank you,

585
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: and good luck, thank you, love you, love you too.

586
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: That's I don't know. Hey, Candy, Candy, Hello Candy, Hello,

587
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 1: Hi Candy, good morning. You live this this happened to you.

588
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 10: Yes, this actually happened.

589
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 2: So what's the story.

590
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 15: Okay, So basically, I want to say, like ten years ago,

591
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 15: so my mom did not know how to use like

592
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 15: the computer and email and like all that, and so

593
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 15: she had asked you. She's like, hey, I think your

594
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 15: dad might be you know, stepping out.

595
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Speaker 10: So I was just like, okay, I like I really

596
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 10: don't want to be involved, like you know, like I'm

597
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 10: still whatever.

598
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,360
Speaker 14: So we went through We went through the email.

599
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 10: We saw pictures, we saw like the whole nine yards,

600
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 10: and I was just sitting there in such disbelief, Like

601
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,239
Speaker 10: I didn't know how to react. My mom was just

602
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 10: like nom. I was nom, and I was like, are

603
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:12,120
Speaker 10: you okay?

604
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 3: She's like I.

605
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,640
Speaker 10: Need time to process And I was like, okay, let

606
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 10: me know if.

607
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 15: You need an here anymore?

608
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 14: Hell?

609
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 2: Wow, what happened? Yeah?

610
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 10: They ended up breaking up for a couple of months.

611
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:26,360
Speaker 5: She confronted the girl.

612
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 3: We met the girl.

613
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 15: She was disgusting.

614
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 10: She was nothing like my mom, complete opposite death. That

615
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 10: was what hurt her the most.

616
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 15: Was because like it was like the female was nothing

617
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 15: compared to like the.

618
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Speaker 10: Life he was living at home. So she was just like, wait,

619
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Speaker 10: what happened here?

620
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Speaker 15: And on top of it, my mama is a total

621
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Speaker 15: hundred compared to that.

622
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Speaker 5: Good daughter.

623
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Speaker 2: Did they work it out though? Do they reconcile? They?

624
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 10: Yeah, they did reconcile.

625
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 15: They broke out for a couple of months, but through

626
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 15: twenty years of marriage, I mean, the love still there,

627
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 15: the respect was still there, and my dad knew that

628
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 15: he was going to lose more than what he wanted

629
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 15: by losing my mother.

630
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 10: They are still together. We are still one big, happy family.

631
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 10: But I will say that it was at.

632
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 14: The moment, it was very, very overwhelming, and I'm fatterally,

633
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 14: But at the end of the day, like, I'm glad

634
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,880
Speaker 14: my parents got through it, and like I said, we're

635
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 14: still one loving family.

636
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 2: Well, good, that's good.

637
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: And tell your mom so she's learned how to use

638
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:30,960
Speaker 1: the internet on her own, so you don't have to

639
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 1: help her with that.

640
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 2: No, Well, I'm glad it all worked out. Candy. Thank

641
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 2: you for calling.

642
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 15: Yeah, thank you so much. O my god, I'm so

643
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 15: excited to be on the internet on the phone with

644
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 15: you guys.

645
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 2: Love you, guys, love, Thank you Candy. You have a

646
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 2: good day. Man.

647
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: I can't imagine having to sit there and catch my

648
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: own father, my own mother cheating and then the other

649
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 1: person right the oh man that that's not my responsibility

650
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 1: as a kid.

651
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,120
Speaker 7: It's not, but it happens. And then what do you

652
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 7: you do? I know you better say, I'm ama, fred.

653
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 2: I would have to Yeah, I would have to. How

654
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 2: could you know?

655
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 5: How could you live with that?

656
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 12: Well?

657
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 2: I would do what I just said a minute ago.

658
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 1: I would go to my dad and be like, you

659
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: got forty eight hours to explain this to me and

660
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,439
Speaker 1: explain this more importantly, explain this to her or vice versa.

661
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:19,679
Speaker 1: But you're right though, with my mom, I might be like,

662
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 1: hold on, what dad, do?

663
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 2: Hold on? What do you get a fresh show? This

664
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 2: is what's trending. You know, what do you do to

665
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 2: deserve that?

666
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 3: Right Dad?

667
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be like that's sweet, mom, Like I'm not

668
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Speaker 1: gonna tell anybody, but like, what's going on? That's so

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Speaker 1: funny because it's true. I think I would handle it

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Speaker 1: differently with my two parents. I think that's true.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, yeah, they talk better than the excite. These

672
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 12: are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, So it's

673
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Speaker 12: like we are writing in our diaries, except we stayed

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Speaker 12: them aloud.

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Speaker 2: We call them blogs.

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Speaker 5: CANi go all right, deer blog.

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Speaker 7: You know, I look at you guys as family, and

678
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 7: I really need to lean on my family this morning,

679
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 7: because you guys are making fun of me for missing

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00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,239
Speaker 7: the eclipse because I was in my garage. But I

681
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 7: was in my garage because I was very sad because

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Speaker 7: for some reason, I keep having these random waves of

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Speaker 7: like grief for people on TV. Oh, it's very weird,

684
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 7: like going right, no, because it's serious though, some reason,

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Speaker 7: I am really missing Uncle Phil from Fresh Prince of

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Speaker 7: bel Air. Like I feel a great sense of loss

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Speaker 7: about Uncle Phil for some reason.

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Speaker 1: Well, he's actually not on this earth anymore, is no,

689
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: he's really dead. Yeah, he's dead, yes, like not just

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00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: dead on like not just not on TV anymore, right,

691
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Speaker 1: for the last twenty some years.

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Speaker 2: He's actually dead.

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Speaker 7: First, he's actually gone, right, And it's his tear me

694
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Speaker 7: up this week for some reason. I don't know why,

695
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 7: but like I get random bursts of like, man, I

696
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 7: miss my TV person, you know what I'm saying, Like

697
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 7: I miss Uncle Phil.

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Speaker 5: I really am missing him right now. And I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You could go just start over Fresh Prince, I'm sure

700
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 1: on some streaming service and then just watch it again.

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Speaker 7: But it doesn't hit the same because I know that

702
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 7: he's really gone, and you know, he was somebody that

703
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 7: I really looked up to as a kid. I really

704
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 7: wanted to be a judge at one point because of

705
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,479
Speaker 7: Uncle Phil was a judge. And I just it's like

706
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Speaker 7: this great sense of loss that I feel about TV characters.

707
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Speaker 7: And I don't know if this is normal. Do I

708
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,479
Speaker 7: need therapy or dude? Have you guys ever felt that, like,

709
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Speaker 7: you don't ever wonder what Fran from the Nanny is doing,

710
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Speaker 7: like were No, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't want to do Yeah, No, I don't wonder at all.

712
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Speaker 1: Actually I've actually never wondered that in my life.

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Speaker 5: I do, but I'm that's not surprising. I'm the most

714
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Speaker 5: emotional person.

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Speaker 11: I can think of multiple celebrity deaths that were extremely

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Speaker 11: hard on me, Like, yeah, to the point where I cried.

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Speaker 1: You know, is it the fact that he's dead though,

718
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 1: or is it is it that he's just not could

719
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Speaker 1: he be alive but not playing that character anymore?

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Speaker 2: You'd still miss him?

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Speaker 7: I think that I think I would still miss him.

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Speaker 7: It feels like for me, the uncle Pheel was like

723
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Speaker 7: a part of my family, right, and he's not somebody

724
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Speaker 7: that I can actual call.

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Speaker 2: Is very weird. Interesting.

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00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:04,719
Speaker 1: I can say that I felt a sense of loss

727
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 1: when shows end that I watched and was and was

728
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 1: invested in, Like when Succession ended, I was invested, When

729
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: Ozark ended, I was invested, When Breaking Bad ended, I

730
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 1: was invested. So I felt like you kind of just

731
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Speaker 1: sit there for a minute. You're like, that's it, that's

732
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: all we're getting. That's the end. Friday Night Lights, I

733
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: recently watched. I didn't even realize I was watching the

734
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 1: last episode and then it was over, and I'm like

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Speaker 1: way through on that.

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Speaker 2: I tried to start it. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just I got started and decided to see it through. Okay, Yeah,

738
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Speaker 1: I mean what was the other one? Ship's Creek? I

739
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 1: think all American. I think they're still going. I really

740
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: don't know. I gave up there. They turned like forty,

741
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: they turned forty years old the cast, and they're still

742
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 1: in high school in college somehow, Like it's ridiculous.

743
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had to give up on that one.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but I just like these sitcoms. They become a

745
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 7: part of our lives and we just have this unfinished feeling,

746
00:31:57,880 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 7: like where's Steve Arkle?

747
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying? Like whatever store right right?

748
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Speaker 5: Is he sexy?

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Speaker 2: Stee exactly?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Fine?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, there was Stephan around you, like ste Well,

753
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Speaker 1: I just I remember now there was Theracle and there

754
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 1: was Steph fun now I remember, yeah, Family Matters right right,

755
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Speaker 1: Friday nights ABC or just Saturday nights.

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Speaker 2: It was one of the other I was weekdays.

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Speaker 11: I thought I remember watching it after school.

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Speaker 1: No, oh, well, I think it was that that was

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Speaker 1: in syndication, but I want to say the new episodes

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Speaker 1: were Friday nights.

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Speaker 2: RUFI over here.

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Speaker 1: He would be able to tell us, you know, exactly

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Speaker 1: when the last one aired, what time you know, uh yeah,

764
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Speaker 1: what they wore, who did the catering?

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Speaker 2: He would know all of that.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, peace, Uncle Phil, rest Rest in peace, Uncle Phil. Yeah. Wow,

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Speaker 1: now I'm kind of sad to thanks. Sorry, Miguel, it's

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show. I miss Bernie Max. Someone texted that

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Speaker 1: was my childhood uncle. Uncle Phil would have been front

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Speaker 1: row to the eclipse.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, cried all right, Uncle Phil, you would have.

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Speaker 5: Loved the eclipse.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: These are all text By the way, Kiki eats therapy

775
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 1: for oh so many reasons ter missing Uncle Phil is

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Speaker 1: one of the hundreds. Oh okay, well there, Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: Entertainment Reports next after say two minutes.

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Speaker 2: Fred Show