1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio. 2 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: Today's tip is to find your finish line. When you 4 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: are working toward a goal, let a special event create 5 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: a meaningful deadline. This will make it easier to get 6 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: going and gain momentum. Lots of us create vague goals 7 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 1: for ourselves. We want to declutter the house, update our wardrobes, 8 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: get in shape. Sometimes folks who read goal setting literature 9 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 1: figure out that it helps to make goals specific, So 10 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: then we get ideas like run three miles without stopping. 11 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: That is definitely better than just get in shape, but 12 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: still it's the kind of goal that is easy to 13 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 1: push forward. You would have gone for a run on Saturday, 14 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: but you know, life got busy. It was humid, or 15 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: it was raining, you had to go shopping for light bulbs. 16 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 1: There's always next Saturday, right, Instead, find your finish line. 17 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: If you want to run three miles without stopping, choose 18 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 1: a specific five k race to train four. You could 19 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 1: decide to run in your town's Turkey Trot the morning 20 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:38,039 Speaker 1: of Thanksgiving. Invite your aunt to run it with you. 21 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: Register post your registration on social media to make a 22 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: public commitment of it. Now you have an authentic deadline. 23 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: You have a reason. You'll need to be able to 24 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: run three miles without stopping by a specific date. It 25 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: will be much more motivating to work towards that goal. 26 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: F Ending your finish line can work for other aspects 27 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: of life beyond races. Maybe you feel like your work 28 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: wardrobe is kind of fromp Maybe your workplace has dictated 29 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: that people need to be back in the office three 30 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: days a week by January three. Well, there's your finish line. 31 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 1: You will create a sophisticated and flattering wardrobe that makes 32 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 1: you feel your best by January three. If you want 33 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: to declutter your house or redecorate your dining room, invite 34 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:39,399 Speaker 1: your relatives to Thanksgiving dinner at your place. Now you've 35 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,799 Speaker 1: got a real deadline of late November to get it 36 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: all done. You could even throw a party just to 37 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: give yourself a finish line for getting your home looking 38 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 1: its best. Do you think you could have everything spiffed 39 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:57,399 Speaker 1: up in a month, then invite friends for a party 40 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: one month from today. It becomes fun to tackle those 41 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: nagging tasks when the finish line is a gathering with 42 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: friends in a home that you are proud of. It 43 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 1: is easier to stay motivated when you find a finish 44 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 1: line because the goal and the deadline no longer feel arbitrary. 45 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: You are working towards something real and specific that you 46 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: care about, and that is a great reason to keep going. 47 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: So today, consider whether there is a goal that you 48 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: would like to make progress on. Can you find or 49 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: create an authentic deadline for your efforts. If you find 50 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: a finish line for one of your goals, I would 51 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: love to hear about it. You can reach me at 52 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: Laura at Laura vander Kim dot com. In the meantime, 53 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making 54 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: the most of our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to 55 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: hear from you. You can send me your tips, your questions, 56 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: or anything else. Just connect with me on Twitter, Facebook 57 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: and Instagram at Before Breakfast Pod that's B the number 58 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: four then Breakfast p o D. You can also shoot 59 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 1: me an email at Before Breakfast podcast at i heeart 60 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 1: Media dot com. That Before Breakfast is spelled out with 61 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 1: all the letters. Thanks so much, I look forward to 62 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: staying in touch. 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