WEBVTT - Lloyd & Bridget - Spilled Mimosas, Earwax, and Ghosting?

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<v Speaker 1>First Day follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 1>online at adjocuslad dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Lloyd is on the phone today for a first day

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<v Speaker 2>follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Bridget.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a minute, we'll call her and see if

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<v Speaker 2>she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get

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<v Speaker 2>him a second date. But first, Lloyd, how long has

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<v Speaker 2>it been since you heard from Bridget?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, hey, guys, so it's kind of been a little minute.

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<v Speaker 3>I think our first day would have been probably like

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<v Speaker 3>a week or so ago, something like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So have you been interacting or trying to interact

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<v Speaker 4>with her at all during that time?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I mean, I don't want to be too like

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<v Speaker 3>cushy with it, so I'm not like going crazy. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not like blowing her up or anything like that. But

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<v Speaker 3>it's been long enough that her not responding is definitely

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<v Speaker 3>a thing, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, why don't you tell us about the date?

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<v Speaker 3>All right? So I'm like, I'm fully I'm fully into

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<v Speaker 3>it with her. Right, So, Bridget given like this kind

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<v Speaker 3>of Sunday morning, like goddess kind of energy, you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Like she's she's.

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<v Speaker 3>Like effortlessly cute, you know, like she clearly owns like

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<v Speaker 3>linen pajamas and she's like journaling affirmations by the window,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean. Like that's the type of

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<v Speaker 3>girl the bridget is, right, she's a warm smiles, she

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<v Speaker 3>got dry like sort of confident kind of humor, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what I mean. Like she's kind of so she's

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<v Speaker 3>like the kind of girl that like orders shea pudding

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<v Speaker 3>and somehow makes that look good, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>She's got like that vibe like she's like yield or

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<v Speaker 3>like knows where the yealing crystals are. Like that's the

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<v Speaker 3>kind of vibes she's got. She's got like earthbound, like

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<v Speaker 3>cute girl energy.

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<v Speaker 4>So what do you do with a girl like that?

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 3>So we go we go out right, we go and

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<v Speaker 3>we get some like some brunch at one of those

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<v Speaker 3>spots where they got like the bottomless mimosas, you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm talking about, Like yeah, they like right, like

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<v Speaker 3>the endless mimosas, like planets everywhere. There's like indie covers

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<v Speaker 3>of the in the background, like one of those vibes.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so we're doing like the.

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<v Speaker 3>Mimosa thing right, Like we're kind of drinking together and

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<v Speaker 3>we're like, it's bottomless mimosas, right, So I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 3>inclined a little bit like personally to you know, to

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<v Speaker 3>drink some mimosas. That's like kind of my vibe, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what i mean, Like it's bottomless. So I'm trying

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<v Speaker 3>to I'm trying to see if there's a bottom to

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<v Speaker 3>the boom. And she kind of tells me. She's like,

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<v Speaker 3>she's like, well, let's pace ourselves, right, So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>let me be charming, and I'm like, I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm gonna show some restraints, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm gonna I'm gonna kind of be cool about that, right,

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<v Speaker 3>Like no bottomless for me, she says, let's past ourselves.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm kind of showing my restrain. The waiter comes up, right,

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<v Speaker 3>and he's like more mimosas. I put my hand like

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<v Speaker 3>over the glass right to kind of be like no,

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<v Speaker 3>like that's you know, like the decline, Like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>put my hand over the best, but I knocked the

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<v Speaker 3>entire flu onto my lap, like the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So you needed that picture.

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<v Speaker 3>No, for sure. And I've got this like lap full

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<v Speaker 3>of mimosa. So I stand up right to like kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like watch it off. Like that's my like reaction.

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<v Speaker 3>I like, I stand up way too fast. The chair

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<v Speaker 3>falls like behind me, like the chair falls back. Yeah. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>so yeah, so I I in my shock, I'm a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of momosa's deep, I kind of, I said. I.

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<v Speaker 3>I just responded.

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of.

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<v Speaker 3>Yelled it a little bit, like I kind of blurret

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<v Speaker 3>this down. I was like, you know, it looks like

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<v Speaker 3>I peed brunch.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that's kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought that was kind of funny, but like people

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<v Speaker 5>kind of look a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>And people aren't laughing. That didn't kill So it's kind

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<v Speaker 3>of just awkward, you know what I mean. And she

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<v Speaker 3>kind of so Bridge kind of does the like closed lips,

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<v Speaker 3>the like oh no, but like trying to laugh kind

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<v Speaker 3>of face. So I'm like eighteen napkins deep, trying to

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<v Speaker 3>fight like for dignity over here, trying to soak up

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<v Speaker 3>this mimosa. I mean, it was embarrassing. It was awkward,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean. I feel like other than that, though,

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<v Speaker 3>like we kind of clicked, like it was a pretty

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<v Speaker 3>good time. Pretty good day except for the mimosa thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Walked her to her car. She hugged me and she

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<v Speaker 3>told me that, like that was really nice, That's what

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<v Speaker 3>she said. And so I'm kind of thinking at the

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<v Speaker 3>mimosa thing with small potatoes, that wasn't like a big

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<v Speaker 3>part of the evening, you know what I mean, Maybe

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<v Speaker 3>we can move on from that. But now she is ghosting.

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<v Speaker 2>And so you think that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, I guess the one wants to date

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<v Speaker 3>the guy who's got citrus marinated on the side, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the dreams that Ete brunch.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I guess. Is it like the attractive quality in

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<v Speaker 3>men these days? But we had a connected it in

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<v Speaker 3>my paints have been some worse.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, we'll see what we can figure it

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<v Speaker 2>out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and

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<v Speaker 2>then call her and see if she'll tell us why

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<v Speaker 2>she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, thanks guys.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we'll get your first day follow up right

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<v Speaker 2>after this, right in the middle of your first date

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<v Speaker 2>follow up. And if you're just joining us, Lloyd is

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Bridget. So

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<v Speaker 2>we're about to call her and see if she'll tell

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<v Speaker 2>us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a

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<v Speaker 2>second date. But before we do, at Lloyd, why don't

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<v Speaker 2>you break down your date again for us one more time?

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<v Speaker 4>All right? So my day.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, super cute girl and I'm super into her. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>we do the Bottomless Mimosa's kind of date where we're

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<v Speaker 3>doing like the Endless Mimosa's thing. But I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 3>be cool about my Mimosas the waiter comes up asks

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<v Speaker 3>if I want some more Mimosa, I put my hand

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<v Speaker 3>over the glass, accidentally knock over the mimosa and all that.

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<v Speaker 3>It kind of gets chaotic. I stand up, I'm covering

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<v Speaker 3>Mimosa and I'm blurting weird stuff out and it kind

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<v Speaker 3>of got a little awkward for a minute. And that's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of what I was worried about, because we had

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<v Speaker 3>a really good date, we had a really good vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm kind of worried that the Mimosa situation may

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<v Speaker 3>have messed uff up because she is totally ghost to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, all right, are you are you ready for us

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<v Speaker 2>to call her? Yeah, let's do it all right here,

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<v Speaker 2>we go. Oholl hi, man, I speak to Bridget please,

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<v Speaker 2>this is brig yet Hey, Bridget, how are you? This

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<v Speaker 2>is a radio show. It's called the Jewbel Show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, Bridget, Mnna, I am Victoria, asked.

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<v Speaker 2>And my name's Jewbel. What's up?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you listened to the show before?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I listen to you guys. Yeah, you guys? Awesome?

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<v Speaker 4>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>Sweet? Have you heard a First Date follow Up before?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Well guess what, Bridget, You're now the star of a

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<v Speaker 2>First Date follow up?

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, that's a segment where for ghosting somebody, they can

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<v Speaker 2>email us to get you on the phone and ask

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<v Speaker 2>why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know who would email us?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I have a feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>Who do you think it is?

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<v Speaker 1>Lloyd?

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<v Speaker 2>It is definitely Lloyd. Yeah. Lloyd told us a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit about your Dave. He said he really liked you

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<v Speaker 2>and he's wondering why you're ghosting. Would you mind telling us?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, listen. Lloyd was sweet, you know, Brunch was cute

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<v Speaker 1>and he has big like eye voice, shrides and believe

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<v Speaker 1>in therapy energy.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It kind of just like went out the door when

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<v Speaker 1>the mimosa incident happened. Uh, he spilled his mimosa and

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<v Speaker 1>then he freaked out over his pants looking like they

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<v Speaker 1>got back sized in orange juice. And it was a

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<v Speaker 1>little dramatic, but that wasn't really why I ghosted him. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>it was his ears. Yeah, so he was ranting about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the pea brunch pants or whatever, and I

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<v Speaker 1>saw inside his ears, and guys, there was wax like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot like layers, like it looked like a candle

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<v Speaker 1>that had feelings. It was a miracle. He could even

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<v Speaker 1>hear me. I swear one sneeze and a whole earbud

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<v Speaker 1>might have popped out.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I'm serious, dead serious.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And you know, like, look, I'm all for self care,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, you can room your beer. You can

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<v Speaker 1>see in your shirt, but you know, like you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a.

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<v Speaker 4>Two tip like I can't see that, Okay, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I mean, like what am I going to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Hand him a con swab and be like be free,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, thank you for telling us where you're

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<v Speaker 2>ghosting him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, yeah, no problem.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you forgot or not. But Lloyd

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<v Speaker 2>is actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh yeah, okay, I forgot about that part. Hi.

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<v Speaker 3>So wait, so what my ears?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean I'm sorry they but you know you

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<v Speaker 1>had ear storage solutions happening. I saw layers like maybe generations.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh look, that's not a normal thing. I don't walk

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<v Speaker 3>around with ear overstocked, all right, Like that's that was

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<v Speaker 3>like a one off. Like really, so.

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<v Speaker 4>You normally clean your ears?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean it was like this was like one day,

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<v Speaker 3>like I look, I can't even believe that you noticed.

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<v Speaker 5>It, like I I mean maybe so like all in

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<v Speaker 5>fluid or something like that. Like I I'm not like.

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<v Speaker 3>It, like a look, you ghost to me because of

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<v Speaker 3>one biological moment, Like you're telling me brunch pants humiliation.

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<v Speaker 3>That wasn't the one. It wasn't the momosa pants it

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<v Speaker 3>was it was like you attacking my internal ear landscape.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what's the ghosting. Like that's what this is. It's

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<v Speaker 3>like okay, I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>Like like cool, all right, you know what? You You

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<v Speaker 6>aren't so perfect either, though, I mean we're here right,

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<v Speaker 6>so it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't help me at brush right like I was,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm drowning in citrus and you just watched like so

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<v Speaker 3>excuse me if I assume that you'd also just, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>lie there in other situations, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>I said it, we're here like we're here something.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Bay baby, you can't handle brunch. You definitely can't

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<v Speaker 1>handle me.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Bridget, would you like another date with Lloyd?

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<v Speaker 2>We'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely not sure you bring you tips?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Fine?

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<v Speaker 3>Look fine, your watch is natural, Bridge, I mean, unlike

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<v Speaker 3>your boobs.

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<v Speaker 1>Why you won't be seeing my bos my natural

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<v Speaker 4>Juble's first date