WEBVTT - Best Bits: Listener Q&A With Morgan and Eddie 0:00:01.080 --> 0:00:06.840 Best Bits of the Week with Morgan Listener Q and a. 0:00:09.280 --> 0:00:11.119 We are Here Listener Q and Nytime. 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:13.520 Thanks for being here, Eddie, Yeah, thanks for having me Morgan. 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:16.119 This id like to start with compliments. It kind of 0:00:16.160 --> 0:00:19.640 just like helps get a good vibe. So Kkat says 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:21.520 Eddie is my favorite show member to. 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:23.480 Come on mess Okay, Cat. 0:00:23.480 --> 0:00:24.600 I don't know if that's her name, that's just your 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:25.520 username on Instagram. 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:30.960 Her name could be Kathy, Kaylee, could be Kaylee different things. 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:31.280 Yeah. 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:34.360 Leah from Pennsylvania says, yay for believing in love. Hope 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:37.519 this uniform guy is finally a good catch for you. 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:39.760 Say that to both of us. You believe in love? 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:42.360 These guys are crazy, Like, how are you going to 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:45.360 find love if you just keep thinking someone's like a 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:46.640 serial killer or like living. 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:47.080 A double life? 0:00:47.159 --> 0:00:49.120 Right? I was like, if I believed every stereotype, I 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:50.360 would be single the rest of my right. 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:51.440 Man, what are we doing here? 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:52.760 Believe a little bit. 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:54.480 Yes, you gotta believe a little bit and now keep 0:00:54.520 --> 0:00:55.800 an eye out on that stuff. 0:00:55.840 --> 0:01:01.160 But you can't just like go open right. Erica says, 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:03.160 how are you so happy all the time? Bottle it 0:01:03.240 --> 0:01:04.120 and send some to me. 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:06.960 Ah, I'm not happy all the time, but I'll bottle 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:07.679 whatever I have. 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:08.160 And send it to you. 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:09.960 We didn't know. I think you may need that after 0:01:10.040 --> 0:01:10.800 listening to part one. 0:01:11.040 --> 0:01:12.080 You're right, You're right. 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:14.160 If you didn't listen to part one, go listen because 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:16.800 Eddie shared his real life, his real emotions. Yeah, it 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:19.800 was really good, Susie says, no question, just I enjoy 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:21.360 you so much on the show, my favorite. 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:22.880 Oh thanks, Susie. Awesome. 0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:24.600 So give you some good energy to go on to 0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:27.800 thank you. All right, we're going for it. Sam from 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:31.040 South Texas, Why do you not talk about your wife 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:31.720 on the show much? 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:34.440 That's easy. Yeah, she doesn't want me to talk about 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:37.640 her on the show much. My wife's a very private person, 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:41.399 and you know she from the very beginning, like we 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:45.760 I guess it's it's different for different people on the show, right, So, 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:48.080 Like if I would have met my wife while I 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:50.880 was on the show, I think she would have been like, 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:52.960 you know what, that's your job, Like this is all 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:56.760 I've known of you, so do what you do. But 0:01:56.840 --> 0:02:00.960 my wife and I we met long time ago, like 0:02:01.080 --> 0:02:03.080 a long long time ago. We got married a long 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:07.480 time ago, and so getting on the show and talking 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:10.679 on the show and sharing my life was something new 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:13.320 to me, new to her, and we kind of did 0:02:13.320 --> 0:02:15.919 it together. And from the very beginning, she's just like, yeah, 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:16.799 don't talk about. 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:17.080 Me on the radio. 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:20.760 Was there a segment that happened, Like, I think. 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:23.840 There was one in particular. I remember there is one 0:02:23.919 --> 0:02:26.840 thing that happened when she kind of drew the line 0:02:26.840 --> 0:02:30.280 with my family being talked about on the radio, and 0:02:30.320 --> 0:02:31.160 that was Lunchbox. 0:02:31.200 --> 0:02:32.840 Of course it always does. 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:35.320 We had like we had all gone to dinner or 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:39.800 something and my son, my oldest son, now, he was gosh, 0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:42.359 I don't know, he's probably five at the time, yeah, 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:45.240 and five or six, I don't know, and he was 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:48.040 running around like while people were eating, and he would 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:50.760 jump on people's laps and like it just this is 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.200 kind of the way he was. And Lunchbox got on 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:56.480 the radio the next day being like like and his 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:58.760 wife are just terrible parents. Like we were trying to 0:02:58.760 --> 0:03:02.040 eat and he kind of bothered everyone and like, you know, 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:04.040 like it's the last time we're gonna eat. And so 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:06.160 she heard it and she was just like, he didn't 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:08.600 say that while he was there, Like why is he 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:11.200 acting like that now? And like, don't ever talk about 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:15.320 our son like that, and she got so upset, and 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:17.000 so I said, all right, well, like what do you 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:18.320 want me to do. She's like, I don't want you 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:22.079 to talk about our kids or me or any our 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:24.760 stuff on the radio. And that was very early on, 0:03:25.720 --> 0:03:27.160 and I was like, okay, okay, that deal. 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:27.480 Deal. 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:31.480 But as you know, we talk a lot, yeah about 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:35.160 our lives in the radio, and so slowly I would 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:36.880 kind of run things by her and be like, I 0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:37.240 want to. 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:38.920 Talk about this. Can I talk about that? 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:41.600 And she'd be like, okay, you can talk about that, 0:03:41.640 --> 0:03:42.920 but don't mention this. 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:46.640 Yeah. She had an editing level to that correct. 0:03:46.680 --> 0:03:49.680 And it took me about a good solid two years 0:03:49.800 --> 0:03:53.400 to get it down to where we both understood what 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:55.320 I can talk about what I couldn't talk about. 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:58.480 Well, it's a lot of learning, yes, because things happen 0:03:58.560 --> 0:04:00.360 you're not it could happen for the first time. You're like, 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:02.560 I don't know if this feels okay to me, maybe 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:03.320 not okay to her. 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:06.240 And it's funny too because even in person, like if 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:09.360 we're out somewhere and somebody recognizes me and comes up 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:12.040 to me, I'll say hi to them, and I look 0:04:12.120 --> 0:04:15.960 back and my wife's gone. She's like the iris it 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:19.000 like it's unbelievable. And so I'll always be like, all right, 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:21.800 good meeting you guys. And then I'm like, where's my wife. Now, 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:23.040 I gotta go find my wife. 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:24.760 Like good on her though, figuring out how to dip 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:25.080 out of it. 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:27.320 She's so good at it. She's so good at it. 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:30.200 She's like a mini Sherlock. Home it's like goodbye. 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:32.120 So there's your answer. 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:34.320 No, that's good. I don't think I even knew like 0:04:34.360 --> 0:04:36.880 that part of the story. DeBie wants to know how 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:38.919 all the kids are getting along as they're getting older. 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:43.239 Oh, man, like they're they're brothers. Like they get along 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:47.560 like brothers. They fight and they have fun. They're goofy, 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:51.440 and they kind of mess with us as a team 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:54.320 as a group. All the stuff that just you know, 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:58.839 they're they're awesome. And what I love about it is 0:04:58.880 --> 0:05:01.320 like especially the two men ones, my two middle boys, 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:05.919 they're like just every minute of the day there together. 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:07.760 When we pick them by school, there together, when we 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:09.520 drop mob at school, they get out. 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:10.440 Out of the car together. 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:15.039 If they're at home and they start fighting, we have 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:17.719 to separate them and as soon as like five minutes 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:19.240 go by, they're back together again. 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:22.039 It's really been best friends. 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:22.400 Yeah. 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:24.719 And what's cool is like I can't wait to see 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:27.240 like them as adults. I feel like they're gonna be 0:05:27.400 --> 0:05:28.480 like you and your sister, you know. 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:30.800 Where like like just talk to each other all the time, 0:05:30.800 --> 0:05:31.160 all the time. 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:34.440 They know everything that's going on. I think even when 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:36.600 they get married, they'll probably be like, yeah, hey. 0:05:36.560 --> 0:05:39.560 Man, like what you do with your wife and this. 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:42.599 They're close in age, so that helps a lot. They're 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:43.920 not in the same age, so right, there's. 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:44.479 Another one year apart. 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:46.799 Okay, they're really close. Yeah, so they'll go to school 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:48.359 together for the rest of their life. 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:49.119 Yeah. 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:51.880 So they're doing really, really well. And there is definitely 0:05:51.960 --> 0:05:56.160 the gap between you know, the older son and the baby, Yeah, 0:05:56.200 --> 0:05:59.000 obviously because the baby's five and my older one sixteen. 0:05:59.560 --> 0:06:02.800 So there's the gap there. But and props to my 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:05.040 oldest son too, Like he doesn't just get home and 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:06.960 go to his room. We're like go hang out with friends. 0:06:07.200 --> 0:06:10.760 If he's around, he's around, and he talks to the boy. Yeah, 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:13.240 he's involved. He talks to the boys, jokes to the boys, 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:14.080 do you guys all. 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:15.520 Go as a family to like all the basketball games 0:06:15.560 --> 0:06:15.960 and stuff. 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:16.560 Yeah. 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:22.000 Sometimes sometimes it we'll do like a game together and 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:24.760 then either I'll leave with one of the boys and 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:26.440 then maybe come back later in the day, or my 0:06:26.440 --> 0:06:28.320 wife will leave with two of the boys or one 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:28.840 of the boys. 0:06:30.000 --> 0:06:32.520 It kind of works better that way, yeah, because you're 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:33.280 not all worn out. 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:36.159 Yeah, And I mean when we walk into a place, 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:39.160 it looks like a rock band's coming in. Like there's 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:40.559 a group of six people. 0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:42.640 You guys need to get a little bus to drive around. 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:46.279 Yes, there is a family that I know and that 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.360 plays a lot of sports too, and like I think 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:50.600 they have six kids. 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:52.720 Oh yeah, and they drive a sprinter van. 0:06:53.000 --> 0:06:56.120 Yeah, and it's hilarious because they pull up and that 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:58.360 door slides open and all these kids pour out of 0:06:58.400 --> 0:07:00.000 it and it's hilarious. 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:02.240 That's how it was with our family. We had a 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:05.400 blue bus that had like it wasn't like a sprinter 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:07.919 van now, the old school, so they had like the 0:07:07.960 --> 0:07:11.320 TVs and stuff in it. All four of us girls 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:13.040 would be back there. We'd be going to volleyball term 0:07:13.040 --> 0:07:15.200 and I mean everything we'd be try like tracking along 0:07:15.240 --> 0:07:15.400 in it. 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:19.000 I get it was your car just completely messy. 0:07:19.080 --> 0:07:20.840 You know, I don't remember that car, but I imagine 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:21.320 that we made it. 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:25.080 Like my kids, like they just mess our cars up. 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:27.200 Oh yeah, like you can't have nice cars. 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:29.240 The other day, I try to roll my window down 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:29.680 and it was. 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:33.200 All like like what's happening in the back window And 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:35.559 there was like a jolly rancher stuck between the window 0:07:35.560 --> 0:07:37.320 and the door, and I'm just like, what is happening. 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:39.720 This is why my dad to this day still yells. 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:41.920 I mean he's like take your trash when you leave. 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:44.480 Still as a thirty year old when I ride, like. 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:46.720 Ask my kids next time you see him, asking him, Like, hey, 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:48.920 does dad say anything when you park the car? 0:07:48.960 --> 0:07:51.360 When he parks the car when you get home? Every time, 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:53.920 it's like take what's yours out of the car. 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:55.960 Yeah, it was funny. We were just talking about that 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:58.320 when I was home for my sister's bridal shower. It 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:01.520 was like, it's so funny. Get mad at the kids now, 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:03.360 Like we talked about my decent nephew and like your 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:04.880 kids and you get mad at them for doing stuff. 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:07.480 You're like I did that though, Like I was doing that. 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:10.119 I was leaving the lights on, I was trash and everything. 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:11.240 I didn't have care in the world. 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:13.200 And I hate it when other parents are just like, hey, 0:08:13.280 --> 0:08:15.160 let them be their kids, Like no, you can't just 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:18.160 let them be, like we're teaching them how to grow 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:19.239 to be adults. 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:21.160 Oh, and you don't leave trash in your car Like yeah, 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:21.720 but that's my car. 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:24.360 It's different because you also know that you're gonna take 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:26.200 the trash out at some point. Correct, they're never going 0:08:26.240 --> 0:08:27.600 they're gonna leave it forget about it first. 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:29.800 Can you imagine if like they went to like, say 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:31.440 your house, like or they hung out with you, right 0:08:31.480 --> 0:08:32.920 like Morgan, you pick them up, You're gonna take them 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:34.760 to a movie, and they just like leave all their 0:08:34.760 --> 0:08:36.640 wrappers in your car, like you would think, like any 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:37.319 what are you. 0:08:37.240 --> 0:08:38.760 Doing, like teach your kids how to like pick up 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:39.199 their trash. 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:41.920 Yeah, it's really more about them being somewhere else. 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:42.880 Just with you. 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:45.480 I totally get it. All right, We're gonna take a break. 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:52.240 We'll be right back. We've got Connie from New Mexico. 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:54.920 She wants to know if you feel like you're getting 0:08:55.000 --> 0:08:56.920 mean like Lunchbox. 0:08:56.840 --> 0:08:58.680 No, not mean. 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:03.520 I think the album where I get sucked into is 0:09:04.280 --> 0:09:07.240 when lunchbox. Like, I'm always trying to like egg on 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:09.440 lunchbox because I think it's funny. I think it's funny 0:09:09.480 --> 0:09:12.400 when he's like mean and then everyone makes fun of 0:09:12.440 --> 0:09:14.600 him for being mean, and so I like to kind 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:16.280 of egg him on so that he can be more mean, 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:16.880 you know. 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:19.680 But the problem vicious cycle, it really is, and. 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:21.040 I think it's gotten to the point where like we 0:09:21.080 --> 0:09:24.480 need to chill. But what's funny to me is that 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:29.320 when I, like, I get sucked into his meanness because like, 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:34.000 I would never just make fun of him, but I 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:35.920 like making fun of him to get his reaction. 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:37.440 React. 0:09:37.760 --> 0:09:40.439 Yeah, it's almost like it's almost like when there's like 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:43.080 a chihuahua, you know that's like and then you're just like, oh, 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:43.640 that's so funny. 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:47.760 Have some weird experiences, but yeah, growing up, And I'm 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:49.720 just saying, like, you have some weird experiences. 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:52.040 I think I have trauma with you always because like 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:54.200 my dad, so we had a chew all growing up. 0:09:54.240 --> 0:09:56.440 Side note, we had chew all growing up, and my 0:09:56.520 --> 0:09:59.320 dad loved that Chewawa. And I think my dad loved 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:02.040 that chew more than he loved us any of us, 0:10:02.160 --> 0:10:05.320 probably right, And and like the whole family hated that, 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:07.560 you all because he was just like, hey, don't mess 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:09.560 with her, Like, hey, don't, guys, you're making her mad. 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:11.440 And just like so we would like just kind of 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:15.679 she would sit on the top of the couch like 0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:16.680 the very like right. 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:19.440 You would traumatize this and and. 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:21.520 She hated to be touched. And every time we would 0:10:21.520 --> 0:10:24.080 walk by, you touch and she got and. 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:26.000 You deserve that. 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:28.959 She didn't want to be so every time we walk by, 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.719 we would give a little tickle and she'd snap at 0:10:31.760 --> 0:10:32.360 us or whatever. 0:10:32.520 --> 0:10:34.599 And that's almost like lunchbox, like I love doing a 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:35.360 little tickle when. 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:36.600 I pushing the button. 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:39.400 Well, yeah, it's so easy. It is easy to it's 0:10:39.520 --> 0:10:40.319 so easy. 0:10:40.600 --> 0:10:42.760 So but then the problem is you get sucked into 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:44.720 his kind of net and then you're. 0:10:44.679 --> 0:10:47.560 Mean and then you're feeding off energy in that room. 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:50.520 I know that room is really small. You feed off 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:53.280 whatever energy is right, and this is strong. It is 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:57.440 a real strong, okay, but not worried about. 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:57.679 Worried about it. 0:10:58.360 --> 0:11:01.080 But you know what, though, it is true because like 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:04.600 this past week, like there was all this like talk 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:07.080 about oh Eddie's being mean to Abby, and it's like 0:11:07.280 --> 0:11:09.640 I felt a little bit of what Lunchbox goes through, 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:12.720 because I'm like, I wasn't being mean. I was being 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:16.840 helpful and honest, and I'm not Lunchbox honest or like 0:11:16.920 --> 0:11:21.760 you suck you can't sing. No, it's just like Abby, 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:24.720 You're just standing there, like, if you're gonna do a 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:29.600 showcase for a record label, which whatever wasn't true. If 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:33.520 you're gonna do this, you gotta stir it up. You 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:37.160 gotta like, you know, like really sing, you gotta entertain. 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:42.160 And you were trying to provide constructive feedback correct. 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:44.280 And then of course they said she was nasal, and 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:46.160 so I just jumped on that and made the joke like, 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:48.160 well maybe she covers everyone Nelson's you. 0:11:48.160 --> 0:11:49.679 Do like having little quips a thing. 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:52.600 It's just a little joke. It's not mean. It's just funny. 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:54.720 Hey, whatever makes sleep at night. 0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:57.839 Hey do I sound like a little too defensive little but. 0:11:57.800 --> 0:11:59.520 It was funny. I was just telling Lunchbox the other day. 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:01.680 I was like, man, you just really I hate the same. 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:03.480 I wish there was like another way to say it. 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:04.920 I was like, man, you just love to beat a 0:12:04.960 --> 0:12:05.800 dead horse. 0:12:05.559 --> 0:12:06.120 Like you. 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:08.480 Oh yeah, you don't know when to pull back. I'm like, 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:10.800 it's totally cool to your opinion. You just got to 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:12.719 pull that back after you've stated. 0:12:12.520 --> 0:12:15.839 I think that me, Lunchbox and Bobby are in the same, 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:21.240 are the same where we like to if you react, 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:22.920 we like to keep pushing. 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:25.160 Oh yeah, you do. You're like, we're like, how many 0:12:25.200 --> 0:12:26.960 more buttons can we make? Light up? 0:12:27.120 --> 0:12:30.080 But but your job is to not react. Your job. 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:32.760 If you are the other side of this, and I'm 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:35.160 telling you this is how you stop it. You just 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:38.040 say like okay and then just stop it and that's 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:39.480 it and there's nothing we can do to that. You 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:42.800 can just be like, all right, whatever, and we have 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:45.559 to stop. We can't keep going because it's no longer funny. 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:48.040 But if you start getting defensive and you're just like, no, 0:12:48.200 --> 0:12:51.000 Lunchbox that he's gonna keep going and he's gonna keep 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:51.559 going and it. 0:12:51.520 --> 0:12:52.240 Will not end. 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:54.480 No, You're totally right. And most of the time I 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:56.200 can do that, I'll just laugh it off. I'm like whatever, 0:12:56.280 --> 0:12:59.800 But sometimes when it keeps coming, like multiple days in 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:02.439 a or something, I'm like, okay, okay, this is building 0:13:02.520 --> 0:13:04.720 up and I'm about to lose it on you. And 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:07.160 he knows it. He'll see me. Sometimes he'll be like, hey, 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:09.200 I'm like not today. He's like okay, and we just 0:13:09.280 --> 0:13:13.120 keep moving and I'm like I have my limit and 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:15.320 my mom is pretty high, like I have a pretty 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:17.920 high tolerance for things. But I hit a point and 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:20.920 I'm like, nope, we're not doing this today. Like sometimes 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:22.800 I'll make some quick like first thing when I walk it, 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:25.240 I'm like, no, not right now. 0:13:25.040 --> 0:13:26.840 And he's like god it, yeah, okay. 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:29.120 But that's the only time he ever backs off, because 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:31.920 every other time he does and that's only off when 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:35.120 we're like in the hallway. Okay. Lauren from Virginia wants 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:38.319 to know what do you care about most? Whoa very 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:39.080 broad but. 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:42.800 What do I care about most? 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:45.080 Man? The Dallas Cowboys. 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:48.320 I mean, no, I do love my Dallas Cowboys, but 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:50.520 I can't care. It's almost like it's that it's that, 0:13:50.880 --> 0:13:52.160 you know, if you had a relationship with someone that 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:53.520 all I do is just let you down all the time. 0:13:54.080 --> 0:13:55.319 You're like, you still love them, but. 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:57.679 You're like you're in a toxic relationship with the Dallas. 0:13:57.960 --> 0:14:01.040 Would I would? I'd say that's accurate. It's like it's 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:04.679 like when you not maybe not your boyfriend, not your wife, 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:07.600 not your husband, not that, but more of like your 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:12.400 brother where or your sister where, Like you try to 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:14.199 get a hold of them, you try to make plans 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:16.240 to go to dinner, and they just never show up 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:18.640 or they don't want to or whatever. And you're just like, 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:20.600 you're still my brother. I love you, You're still my sister. 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:23.880 I love you, But like I'm giving up on inviting 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:26.560 you places. It's like that got it, you know what 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:26.880 I mean. 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:28.000 That's where you're at right now. 0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:29.480 I love my Cowboys. 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:31.840 I love them, and every year I do think it's 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:33.960 our year, and I do, you know, think we're going 0:14:34.000 --> 0:14:36.760 to go to Super Bowl. But I can't go all 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:40.600 in until we start winning games. Now I'm not not 0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:42.680 to say that mid season. If we're like winning seven 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:44.520 games in a row, I'm back to We're like, oh 0:14:44.560 --> 0:14:46.320 my gosh, I love you, You're my best friend. You 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:47.720 want to go to dinner again, you want to go 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:49.720 to dinner. Let's go to dinner. I'll pay this time. 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:51.720 But then when they like lose in the playoff game, 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:53.320 You're just like, see, this is why, this is why 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:54.080 we don't go to dinner. 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:59.760 That's a toxic, really timultuous relationship, So what do I 0:14:59.800 --> 0:15:00.440 care about? 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:02.800 No, it's not the Dallas Cowboys. I think just my family. 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:05.600 Like really, when it comes down to it, like I 0:15:05.640 --> 0:15:08.240 love other things, and I love other people, and I 0:15:08.280 --> 0:15:10.520 love all this, but like I do everything. 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:13.520 For my family, you know, like good old family man 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:14.040 like that. 0:15:14.200 --> 0:15:15.880 Like that's when when it comes down to it, that's it. 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:22.320 What's what's beneficial to my family? Like is is this 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:24.120 good for my family? Like if I go do this, 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:28.840 like if I go to dinner with my friends on 0:15:28.880 --> 0:15:31.480 a Friday night, or to I take my kids to practice, 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:32.680 like you know, it's like that kind of thing. 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:34.360 So I don't know. 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:35.920 I just say, this is why you're saying that, like 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:37.560 when people become parents, they disappear. 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:39.200 Yes, that's exactly why. 0:15:40.240 --> 0:15:42.640 But true, true story because like even like me and 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:44.800 some of my really good friends, like I don't talk 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:47.880 to a lot of my really good friends because like 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:50.200 we're just busy with our family. I saw one dad 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:52.680 a couple of days ago that I used to talk 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:55.080 to all the time, and I'm like, dude, how you been. 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:58.000 He's like, oh man, I'm busy, Like how how are 0:15:58.000 --> 0:16:00.480