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Speaker 1: for you here. It is the strong berry Let This

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Speaker 1: could be you and your letter subject. Love is not

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Speaker 1: enough for me, Dear Stephen Shirley, my boyfriend and I

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Speaker 1: are not compatible at all. I am not sure why

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Speaker 1: we argue so much. We're completely opposite of each other.

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Speaker 1: He likes rap, I like R and B. I'm educated,

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Speaker 1: he's not. I'm a goal achiever. He just creates goals

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Speaker 1: and never follows through with them. I cook, he eats.

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Speaker 1: I have a car, he doesn't. He likes hanging with

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Speaker 1: He refuses to compromise on what he likes to do,

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Speaker 1: so we end up doing whatever he wants to do.

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Speaker 1: I can't stand his family because they are not positive

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Speaker 1: do things that go against my morals, but I've done

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Speaker 1: it for this man. I feel like I'm losing myself

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Speaker 1: and turning into a whole different kind of woman. I

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Speaker 1: have told him that I'm not happy, and I suggested counseling,

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Speaker 1: Now I find myself yelling at him more and more,

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Speaker 1: Is it me or him that's the problem. I wanted

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Speaker 1: but I also realized that I don't really know this man.

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Speaker 1: and find happiness with someone else I'm compatible with. Yes,

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Speaker 1: move on and find someone else you're compatible with if

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Speaker 1: He's not that guy. He's just not all right. You

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Speaker 1: have two children no positive role models around them. You've

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Speaker 1: changed as a woman dealing with this man. You're just

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Speaker 1: letting him bring you down. Okay, you're not. You've lost

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Speaker 1: You need to realize that before you know it gets

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Speaker 1: too late. You don't need to continue in this relationship

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Speaker 1: with him. You find yourself yelling at him more and more.

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Speaker 1: You can you can't find a nice way to express

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Speaker 1: yourself anymore. Is it me or him? That's the problem?

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Speaker 1: You ask? It is you? It's you because you keep

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Speaker 1: to help this situation. You want to go to counseling.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't. He thinks it's for white people. You know,

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Speaker 1: I do suggest you go to counseling on your own

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Speaker 1: feeling stuck and unhappy. Why continue to feel like that?

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Speaker 1: Why he's not trying to help you at all? You

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Speaker 1: already said he doesn't compromise. He likes to spend time

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Speaker 1: you're raising two children, so you're gonna have to realize

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Speaker 1: and decide what you're going to do for your children.

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Speaker 1: Your children are the most important thing, you know in

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Speaker 1: this relationship. You got to figure out what's the best

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Speaker 1: thing to do for your children. I think it's to

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Speaker 1: separate from this guy. You're not even married to him.

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Speaker 1: But you know, do your own thing, get your own apartment,

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Speaker 1: you guys arguing all the time. No, don't compromise anymore.

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Speaker 1: This man. Can this man change. Yeah, everybody can change,

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Speaker 1: you're not happy and you're feeling stuck. Jay. Finally, finally, finally,

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Speaker 1: finally I found a friend. Someone who doesn't want to

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Speaker 1: this guy right here? Man? Keep doing you? That's what

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Speaker 1: go and then my life. Yeah. Yeah, it's for all people.

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Speaker 1: well you know, being as all, I have a ready

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Speaker 1: Now you found out exactly who this man is and

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Speaker 1: Now you're seeing the real person, and now it's too late.

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Speaker 1: they've been together for five years. They don't need to

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Speaker 1: that part two of the Strawberry Letters, subject love is

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Speaker 1: in as in love with him as she used to be. Again,

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Speaker 1: they've been together for five years, but they have nothing

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Speaker 1: They're completely opposite. He likes raps, she likes R and B.

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Speaker 1: She's educated, he's not. She she writes her goals down.

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Speaker 1: She's an achiever. He just creates goals and never follows through.

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Speaker 1: He eats, she cooks. She has a car, he does

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Speaker 1: but she's done it for this man. She's changed as

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Speaker 1: the gist of the letter. All right, So let's get

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Speaker 1: What's up? Baby? What's up? What's you cook? You want?

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Speaker 1: Would you like to go to that? I mean, that's

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Speaker 1: very nice. I got a paplet. Could you read? Look

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Speaker 1: We smell all that. What who wants to do that

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Speaker 1: my life. What, que queen, what you see wrong with me? Quet? What?

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Speaker 1: Or the thing? Everything? A lot? Look like? What like? What?

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Speaker 1: look how dog your lips are from all that stuff

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Speaker 1: you smoke. Look at your eyes. You look like you're

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Speaker 1: me what? I've been out? Went? The boys? What is

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Speaker 1: why you? Why you that to go out there? Why

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Speaker 1: You got two a megot here. You don't even do

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Speaker 1: mama house. When you get your life together, call me. Okay, finally,

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Speaker 1: Queta finally, Yeah, your best life for what I'm gonna get,

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