WEBVTT - Conversations with… Bella G. Part 2 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:06.840 This is Conversations with Olivia Jade and I Heart Radio podcast. 0:00:11.480 --> 0:00:16.880 Hello everybody, welcome back to another episode of Conversations. I 0:00:16.920 --> 0:00:19.840 am your host, Olivia Jade. I start my podcast at 0:00:19.880 --> 0:00:22.800 the same time every single time. Because did I just 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:25.200 say the same time every single time? I meant the 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:27.880 same way every single time? Um, because I don't know 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:30.280 how else to intro this, But today I have a 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:33.279 very special guest and it is a person that has 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:36.839 been on the podcast already. If you follow me on Instagram, 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:42.519 you are aware who's on the podcast today. And drumroll please, 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:50.239 it's my sister Vella. Hi. Hey, alright, So today we 0:00:50.280 --> 0:00:54.280 decided we are going to do a sister Q and A. Basically, 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:58.040 I asked on my Instagram if people had questions or 0:00:58.120 --> 0:01:00.160 need advice. I don't know if for a quality fight 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:03.880 to give any advice, but I think throughout the years 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:07.920 we've learned a lot through just growing up and being 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:09.800 so close to one another that we thought this would 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:12.360 be a really fun episode. And you guys loved when 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:16.000 she was on last time. So running it back, here 0:01:16.040 --> 0:01:17.800 we go again, and I think let's just jump right 0:01:17.840 --> 0:01:22.680 into it. Sound good, sounds good? Um, So we got 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:24.800 a lot of questions on my Instagram. Bella is looking 0:01:24.800 --> 0:01:26.880 through them right now, and you want to kind of 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:30.120 pick them since you're the guest. I saw a lot 0:01:30.160 --> 0:01:32.480 of similar ones, a lot about like growing up with 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:37.480 famous parents, a lot of guy advice, a lot of um, 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:40.520 just general questions about stuff we've been through. That's obviously 0:01:40.560 --> 0:01:44.120 been very part of my favorite question. There's one question. 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:45.600 I guess we'll start with it because we were laughing 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:48.400 pretty hard about it yesterday. It said, um, how did 0:01:48.400 --> 0:01:54.280 you two meet? Do you want to answer that? I 0:01:54.360 --> 0:01:57.680 just thought that question just needed to be highlighted because 0:01:57.720 --> 0:02:00.520 we're met because we have the same mom and dad. 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:03.720 You know, you know fun fact the stork flew and 0:02:03.800 --> 0:02:05.800 dropped me off, and then a year later the store 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:08.600 came in and dropped Livia off, and then my mom 0:02:08.639 --> 0:02:12.560 and I got really lucky. Really um no, but when 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:15.960 I was first, or when mom first told you that 0:02:16.000 --> 0:02:17.760 she was having another one, didn't you say like you 0:02:17.800 --> 0:02:20.840 didn't want me? Oh? No? And Mom, when we were 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:24.040 a little mom um, it was like right after she 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:25.400 had you, you were probably a year and I was 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:26.920 probably two years old, and she came to me and 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:28.960 she's like, well, do you want another little sister, And 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:32.280 I just looked at her and I went, no, no more. 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:35.840 Also when we were kids. Also when we were kids, 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:40.959 I was like mute because Bella would Bello would speak 0:02:41.000 --> 0:02:43.120 for me, so she'd be like, I'll have I'll have 0:02:43.160 --> 0:02:44.840 a glass of milk, and Olivia will have one too. 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:48.320 So I really didn't have any uh need to speak 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:49.760 when I was a kid because she did it for me, 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:51.799 which I think is ironic because I would say, out 0:02:51.800 --> 0:02:54.079 of the two of us, you're more shy than I am, 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:56.600 for sure, but you to this day have like weird 0:02:56.639 --> 0:03:00.320 issues like will you call and do this instead? No? 0:03:00.680 --> 0:03:02.400 Do you know why I do that, Bella? Because I 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:05.320 think you need to work on speaking and talking to 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:07.440 people and not making me do it all the time. 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:09.320 That's why I do that. So I make you call 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:13.520 because I always call on my own, though now you don't. 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:16.280 If I'm alone, I will call. What do you mean? Okay? 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:18.600 This we're talking about the fact that if any time 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:20.760 there's like an appointment or something that needs to be scheduled, 0:03:20.760 --> 0:03:22.760 I'll be like, Bella, you have to call and cancel 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:25.480 something or go up to that person and ask about this. 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:27.200 Because I feel like, I'm the one that always does it, 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:30.639 but maybe I'm wrong. I just thought you've been doing 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:33.359 that this entire time because you're lazy. No, let's start 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:36.040 with one that was probably the most asked, which is 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:37.920 what was it like growing up with mom and dad 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:40.880 having famous parents? At what age should we realize our 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:43.840 parents were famous? But I feel like, for me when 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:47.640 I was reading this question, I never even really knew 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:50.480 that we had famous parents, Like I thought, maybe because 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:54.680 growing up in l A. There's a lot of actors, actresses, celebrities, 0:03:55.040 --> 0:03:58.119 a lot of our friends parents have similar jobs. So 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:00.600 I feel like we didn't really I think it was 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:04.560 that weird or different. Did you know? Not at all? 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:11.080 I don't. Yeah, I don't think you realize it. I 0:04:11.160 --> 0:04:13.040 don't know, not thinking about it because I never even 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:15.120 to this day, I'm not like, it's not the first, 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:17.480 it's not only the forefront of my mind. Does that 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:19.240 make sense? So I'm never thinking like, oh, yes, my 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:22.600 parents are famous. It's just those are your parents, those 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:25.520 are their jobs. There's not much more to it than 0:04:26.960 --> 0:04:28.960 what it is, like baseline, I don't think there's ever 0:04:29.040 --> 0:04:32.479 been a time where we're like, oh, the life was famous. Well, 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:39.640 well maybe recently we felt that way, but prior to that, 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:42.479 especially growing up, Mom was so low key. Yeah you 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:44.200 know what, though you want to know a funny story, 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:48.480 our mom would literally downplay. I didn't think Full House 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:52.360 was a big show at all in my entire childhood. 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:54.200 I never thought it was a popular show. I thought 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:56.440 she was some like. She kind of always made herself 0:04:56.480 --> 0:05:00.279 seem like she was just some like she's she but 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:02.560 she doesn't really, She's not like crazy, she doesn't do 0:05:02.600 --> 0:05:04.520 that do that much. Do I think she's been It 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:06.720 has been that popular? And I think she did that 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:08.840 because I mean, ay, we were so young when she 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:10.800 was well we were not born when she was on 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:12.800 full House, but we were so young when she was 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:15.760 on like nine to No, and then um like her 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:18.560 full House reunions were not in the like on screen, 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:21.640 but just like personal reunions and stuff. I never realized 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:25.040 how big the show was until Fuller House was coming 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:27.800 out and I saw on YouTube because I could really 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:29.960 understand YouTube at that time. It was like right when 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:33.160 I started my channel and I saw the amount of 0:05:33.240 --> 0:05:35.880 views the trailer had, and I like called mom and 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:38.680 I was like, uh, do you want to explain to me, 0:05:38.720 --> 0:05:41.160 why the fuller House trailer has I think I had 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:43.520 like over thirteen million views or something that I thought 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:47.039 was just absolutely insane, and she was just laughing and 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:49.320 we still talked about that. I'm like, okay, I found 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:51.480 a really late full House was a big show because 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:55.000 we never watched it growing up. I actually watched recently 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:58.680 the first episode of full House that mom was in 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:02.000 because I just wanted to see her. She's so cute, 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:09.159 I was, She's so dying, she's so young, so beautiful. Um, okay, 0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:14.320 So I guess the Sorry for the tangent answer, I think, yeah, 0:06:14.360 --> 0:06:17.520 I guess. All in all, what it's like is uh, 0:06:17.560 --> 0:06:20.000 we personally didn't really think it was that different because 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:24.800 I think our parents tried to downplay it. Also, even 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:27.840 it's not downplay. Moms just such a humble person. Sorry, 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:29.719 didn't mean to cut you off, but she's just so humble. 0:06:29.760 --> 0:06:31.880 She's never talked about her work like we were. Recently, 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:34.560 she was telling us a few stories from like the 0:06:34.600 --> 0:06:37.480 full House days, which is what thirty something years ago, 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:41.840 and me and lives. She called me afterwards and was 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:44.559 like she never like, we don't know anything about those 0:06:44.640 --> 0:06:46.040 And it was ten years of her life, those ten 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:48.440 years of her life, because she's just very quiet about 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:51.160 it and doesn't shove it in your face or down 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:54.240 your throat. She just did it. And then yeah, that's 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:57.159 she works in silence, which I think there's something to 0:06:57.200 --> 0:07:00.000 be said for that in general. This is a really 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:02.359 funny question. Do you and Bella have dance battles to 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:09.640 your previous performances on Dancing with the Stars? I can't dance. Also, 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:11.480 can you imagine if I like turned on the TV 0:07:11.880 --> 0:07:14.200 and you're like, my tango, let's go. He hurt you 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:17.560 if I like force you to do it? So funny? 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:22.480 Uh No, we have not done that. We have dance 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:25.400 parties to music, but not to Olivia's Dancing with the 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:28.240 Stars performances. We do have a lot of dance parties though. 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:30.960 That's like a thing I feel like I remember my 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:34.600 childhood was that if it was us to our parents, 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:36.960 sometimes our brother would be there, sometimes he wouldn't, but 0:07:37.520 --> 0:07:39.600 we'd really throw down in the kitchen and have some 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:46.120 fun dance parties. What is a favorite childhood memory? Is 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:50.320 it weird that I just don't remember anything ever anymore 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:51.920 in my life? Um, I'm sure I could come up 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:54.000 with one. Do you were the spider in the Santa 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:58.960 Monica house? No, okay, because I'm I don't know if 0:07:59.040 --> 0:08:01.520 I dreamt the swan up or if this was a 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:04.120 real story. But you were there? Remember the swings that 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:09.400 we had? Oh my god, you didn't dream that we 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:12.560 had a like a little play structure outside in her 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:14.560 backyard when we were probably like two years old, three 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:20.640 years old and older than that, five whatever, And I 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:22.640 just remember on the swings there was like a huge 0:08:22.920 --> 0:08:25.280 as spider that would always stare at you know. Also 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:27.360 in that house, I almost lit it on fire. Let 0:08:27.360 --> 0:08:29.880 me tell that story. It's not a favorite childhood memory 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:31.920 by any means, but I did almost light my house 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:35.320 on fire when I was probably four years old. Um, 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:38.320 somebody had lit a candle and left it in the 0:08:38.400 --> 0:08:41.040 laundry room. And I remember we had gone swimming, and 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:44.240 I belieaking mistake, rookie mistake, and I believe our parents 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:50.000 were taking us to Disneyland dinner. Why would be going 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:52.600 Disney End at night? I don't recall it being at night. 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:54.840 Why would you have thrown a towel in that room? 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:59.040 I think we were swimming. Why would we be swimming 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:01.240 because we were four What four year olds don't swim 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:04.520 at all times of the day. There was no like electronics. 0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:06.520 We weren't allowed to watch TV during the week. I 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:08.520 think I was swimming in the pool anyway, how I 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:11.240 recall as I was swimming in the pool, I was 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:14.200 swimming in the pool. I got out. I put my 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:16.120 towel in the laundry room like a very good four 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:18.640 year old, very well behaved. And I am four, so 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:21.319 I didn't know that candle would light it on fire. 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:24.000 So I threw it over the candle. And I think 0:09:24.000 --> 0:09:25.520 you just threw it in the laundroom. I don't think 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:28.520 you purposely were like a cattle. Don't. No, you're right, 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:31.319 I just threw it on the counter. Anyway, We were 0:09:31.360 --> 0:09:34.360 all leaving the house and then my mom forgot something, 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:36.400 so she like turned around to go back inside the 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:40.199 has to go grab it, and she smelled fire and 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:43.280 followed the smell, and the laundry room was lit up. 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:47.960 So I think I have one of my favorite childhood memories. Friend, 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:50.600 I just thought about I don't even know if it's 0:09:50.600 --> 0:09:52.480 a favorite, but it's one of the only, not only 0:09:52.520 --> 0:09:54.520 things I can remember. But something I do remember is 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:59.079 when Mom took us to the High School Musical two premiere, 0:10:00.200 --> 0:10:05.040 which was a lit um when they she took us 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:08.800 to Disneyland during the day of the premiere because she's 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:12.320 the coolest mom ever. And then it was the second 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:15.079 movie and they did it in like the Disney California 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:18.400 Adventure Hotel is where the premiere was, and I remember 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:23.120 we went, we swatched the movie and we were I 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:24.680 don't know why this is a part of the memory 0:10:24.679 --> 0:10:26.040 that sticks out of my head, but remember in the 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:28.480 actual movie of High School Musical when Sharpe is doing 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:31.680 her like fabulous number, there's the swimming people in the 0:10:31.720 --> 0:10:34.560 pool doing like water aerobics. I just remember walking like 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:36.880 over a bridge with Mom and you, and like I 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:39.240 looked in the pool and these like people were doing 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:41.480 like men and women were doing like water aerobics, and 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:44.600 I was like, this is the coolest party I've ever 0:10:44.679 --> 0:10:47.320 been to. They actually did throw it down pretty cool parties. 0:11:02.760 --> 0:11:04.920 Oh this is a really good question. Actually I saw 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:08.280 this earlier. It says this girl that asked the question 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:10.080 also has a sister, and she said, do you guys 0:11:10.160 --> 0:11:13.560 ever compare yourself to one another? And and then she 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:15.880 followed up by saying like sometimes she gets really jealous 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:17.480 of her sister and she doesn't know how to like 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:22.000 not compare herself or feel jealous. That is a really 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:24.480 good question. Do you want to take it away? I 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:27.640 will because I remember in high school, like I would 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:30.200 go to mom and like cry because I'd be I 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:34.520 was in my sophomore year probably, and I think you 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:35.920 were a freshman, and we were. I was hanging out 0:11:35.920 --> 0:11:38.000 with a group of boys who were like juniorism. I 0:11:38.000 --> 0:11:40.719 thought I was. I wasn't, And they'd always be like, 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:43.040 where's your sister, where's your sister? Where's your sister? And 0:11:43.040 --> 0:11:44.560 I would go home to Mom and I would cry, 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:46.240 and I'd be like why do they always have to 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:48.440 ask me where she is? Like am I not enough? 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:51.920 And Mom was like no, Like it's just like whatever 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:56.160 Mom's sweet reasoning and advice was. But it's funny because 0:11:56.160 --> 0:11:58.000 I used to compare myself to you, but I was 0:11:58.040 --> 0:12:00.920 never jealous of you. Does that make sense? So like 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:02.880 I used to beat myself up about it, but I was. 0:12:02.920 --> 0:12:05.120 It was never in a way where I was. There's 0:12:05.160 --> 0:12:07.640 any like militias, not even that jealousy is like a 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:12.080 malicious thing, but there was never any and it can, 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:15.199 and it can ruin relationships too. But I never was jealous. 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:18.439 I was just sad. That's really sad. I actually don't 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:20.600 even know that. Oh really, sorry to hear that. It's 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:27.160 wear them boys now losers, long gone, long gone. Um, 0:12:27.280 --> 0:12:28.920 you know, I actually did not know that. I think 0:12:28.960 --> 0:12:32.400 for me, I compare well. I actually have a really 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:36.760 memorable story. And Mom was taking us to a premiere 0:12:37.000 --> 0:12:39.400 and we it was I think The Old Dogs from 0:12:39.400 --> 0:12:41.120 Me or something, or maybe it was like a high 0:12:41.120 --> 0:12:45.360 school musical esque thing. Anyway, you wore you wore a 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:52.760 vest and they curled your hair. Bella walks out in 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:56.360 this like pin striped vest and dad made, by the way, 0:12:56.400 --> 0:13:00.600 it was like a moss noble and her hair was curly, 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:03.959 like super curly. You should look up this photo online somewhere. Anyway, 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:06.440 Bella walks down the stairs and this little vest and 0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:08.880 curly hair, and I remember looking at her and just 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:13.000 being like you, I hate your hair, like that's so ugly, 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:15.760 you're so ugly, or something like that. We were like 0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:19.280 probably nine, I was nine or eight years old. You're jealous, 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:25.480 so yeah, we're looking at the shot of me. Yeah, 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:28.199 you were in the vest. If this goes on social 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:30.079 you guys can see this is what I hated Bella for. 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:33.440 She had curly hair and it's just look at your hair, 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:37.760 that's really embarrassing. But she had her hair was pinned 0:13:37.760 --> 0:13:39.480 back like that. Anyway, I just remember looking at her 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:42.079 and think she was the most beautiful, stunning little girl 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:44.760 ever that looked so good going to this premiere and 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:46.880 I was so insecure about how they did my hair, 0:13:47.200 --> 0:13:50.040 and I hated my outfit and I remember bullying you 0:13:50.160 --> 0:13:53.360 because I was I was so jealous. So anyway, circling back, 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:55.000 Obviously I was a child when we did that. I 0:13:55.000 --> 0:13:57.480 would never do that now. But I do think that 0:13:57.559 --> 0:13:59.880 jealousy is a real thing, and comparing yourself to a sister, 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:03.520 especially when you're so close an age, is uh, super normal. 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:06.240 But what I will say, and I know this sounds 0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:08.880 very cheesy, but I do think it's important. You have 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:11.520 to remember that there's really only one of you, and 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:14.720 also your sister should be like well, hopefully if you 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:17.120 have a nice relationship, it's like you're built and best friend. 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:20.960 And uh, jealousy can create so much animosity and like 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:24.480 ugly feelings towards no matter what the relationship is, but 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:27.720 especially with sisters, it's somebody that you know, ride or die, 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:30.280 has your back. So it's kind of just in my opinion, 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:32.120 I think I learned later in life, like what a 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:36.240 waste of energy to be jealous of my own blood 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:38.720 because I'm special in my way, she's specially on her 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:42.000 way and we're best friends. You know, I'm with you 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:44.080 on that. It was other There was another part of 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:46.720 that question. She just said that, um, how do you 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:49.120 not compare yourself because she compares herself to her sister 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:52.480 a lot. Oh that was the whole question. Well, well, 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:58.360 however old you are, I feel like I learned, Um, 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:01.800 I probably stopped comparing myself when I was honestly, when 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:03.720 I went away to college. I think because there was 0:15:03.720 --> 0:15:05.840 like enough separation between the two of us where no 0:15:05.840 --> 0:15:09.600 one knew you at that point. And I think it's 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:11.480 what Olivia just said that you have to remember, is 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:13.160 like that, at the end of the day, is your 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:17.440 sibling and you're going to have traits that not outweighed 0:15:17.800 --> 0:15:19.760 there's but like you're gonna have your own traits that 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:22.560 are special to you and only to you, and those 0:15:22.600 --> 0:15:25.160 are the things that you guys have to celebrate within 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:28.200 each other rather than feel like, oh, because they're funnier 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:31.440 than me than blah blah blah, whatever it is. You 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:33.960 just have to celebrate the good things in your siblings 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:35.840 because you're lucky that your sibling is that way and 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:37.560 that cool, and it's kind of great. If you get 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:39.320 to be jealous of your sibling, that means they've got 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:41.480 something going on and you should be proud of your 0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:44.440 sibling for that rather than jealous. So just like switch 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:47.000 the mindset of instead of feeling like you don't have it, 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:51.600 just realized they have something that's really special. Yeah, agreed, period. 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:55.440 The biggest fight we've ever gotten in. This was a 0:15:55.480 --> 0:15:58.040 really popular question for some reason. But I can't I 0:15:58.080 --> 0:16:00.200 was gonna ask you because I literally can't remember ever 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:05.320 a huge fight we've been in. Um milw Yeah, I 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:08.400 guess when we got our dog, I was really um. 0:16:08.440 --> 0:16:11.280 I just didn't really help Bella take care of him 0:16:11.280 --> 0:16:13.120 that much. Well, I would have him. That actually sounds 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:14.440 really bad, like when I don't know, when he was 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:15.800 with me, I would take great care of him. I 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:18.280 always took care of him. You just it was there 0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:21.320 was also just a lot of factors. It wasn't only 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:25.480 you per se that was keeping you from taking Milow. 0:16:26.120 --> 0:16:28.120 I'm not going to put details in here, but there 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:29.880 was a lot of different factors, and I was getting 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:32.840 annoyed because I was like, man up, stand up for yourself, 0:16:32.880 --> 0:16:35.400 please and take care of her dog, and you weren't. Yeah, 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:37.600 like that was like my main point in my therapy 0:16:37.600 --> 0:16:39.760 sessions to my sister is so mean to me about 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:42.720 my dog and mine in therapy, Like my sister won't 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:47.800 take care of my dog. You have a responsibility and 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:49.920 she want to take care of the dog with me. Yeah, 0:16:50.160 --> 0:16:54.480 I told Bella, I'm trying my best. Um. At one 0:16:54.480 --> 0:16:58.760 point you texted me along paragraph ing like fine, I'll 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:03.600 let you have him. Well, no, that's not what happened, liar. 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:06.240 What happened was is you said, either you need to 0:17:06.320 --> 0:17:08.879 let me have him full time, or you need to 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:11.240 start doing week on, week off like we had planned 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:13.560 because we we got our dog when we lived together, 0:17:13.600 --> 0:17:15.520 and then we moved apart, and so then we were 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:17.600 like divorced parents doing a week on, week off and 0:17:17.600 --> 0:17:21.520 he was like her child. And then I just would 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:25.000 really leave Bellow with most of the responsibility for most 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:28.679 of the time, and um, and then she was like, 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:30.960 you either need to need to do your part or 0:17:31.000 --> 0:17:33.080 give him to me, and so I took her back 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:36.439 and fine, you can have him full time. You're right, 0:17:36.480 --> 0:17:38.200 he's too much work for me. And then I was like, wait, 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:41.520 I totally take that back. You definitely still have to 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:43.639 take care of when we signed up for this dog together, 0:17:43.960 --> 0:17:47.960 and that's that. What is your favorite qualities about each other? 0:17:48.280 --> 0:17:51.360 Or what do we I guess like it says, describe 0:17:51.359 --> 0:17:53.800 each other's personalities. And then another question was what are 0:17:53.920 --> 0:17:56.479 each other's favorite qualities? But I kind of like describe 0:17:56.480 --> 0:18:01.600 each other's personalities because we know each other so well. Oh, 0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:04.960 thank you, I've nothing good to say about you, Okay, 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:09.520 describe my personality. I'm curious. Okay, I think you're super sarcastic. 0:18:10.560 --> 0:18:16.080 I think you're sensitive, and I would say super sweet. 0:18:17.160 --> 0:18:21.000 I also think you're really smart. I think you're creative, 0:18:22.080 --> 0:18:25.080 and I think that you know how to have a 0:18:25.080 --> 0:18:30.480 good time. Thank you, You're welcome. Can you do mine? Yeah, 0:18:30.880 --> 0:18:33.880 describe your personality or just qualities about you? I guess 0:18:33.920 --> 0:18:36.440 I feel like it's the same kind of I guess personality. 0:18:36.440 --> 0:18:39.040 I guess I didn't describe your personality like a personality 0:18:39.119 --> 0:18:41.280 is well, I would say you're sarcastic. That's definitely a 0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:43.400 huge part of your personality. And I guess I did 0:18:43.440 --> 0:18:46.919 sensitive sweet Yeah. And then a good quality that I 0:18:46.960 --> 0:18:48.600 like value is you're always down to have a good time. 0:18:50.280 --> 0:18:53.400 Sometimes I actually that's not true. Sometimes you're not. Sometimes 0:18:53.440 --> 0:18:56.760 I'm left You're you're always down to have a good time, 0:18:56.760 --> 0:18:59.960 which I admire. I'm just not that kind of person. Yeah, 0:19:00.320 --> 0:19:06.080 but um, let's think you're what what does Olivia Olivia 0:19:06.160 --> 0:19:10.439 Jade's personality? I think you're super down to earth, thanks, 0:19:10.840 --> 0:19:15.879 you give phenomenal advice, you are wise beyond your years. 0:19:16.320 --> 0:19:20.600 You're fucking hilarious when you're not trying to be. She 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:25.240 makes the best dumplings of all time. Um, that's on 0:19:25.400 --> 0:19:32.359 a personality trade. I just had to for um what else? 0:19:32.400 --> 0:19:35.320 I think you're humble, and I think you're really strong 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:41.160 and brave. Thanks be. And that's my favorite quality. What 0:19:41.280 --> 0:19:45.200 is that you're strong and wave? Thank you? Um. Somebody 0:19:45.359 --> 0:19:48.520 said who is your go to person when you need 0:19:48.560 --> 0:19:53.119 advice besides each other? And I would say my mom, Mommy, 0:19:53.320 --> 0:19:56.280 she has such good advice, and my grandma, my mom's 0:19:56.280 --> 0:20:00.000 honestly nanny has great advice advice. One really funny story 0:20:00.040 --> 0:20:02.679 actually about my grandma. When I was in seventh grade, 0:20:02.840 --> 0:20:06.639 our mom was going to a Broadway show and she 0:20:06.720 --> 0:20:08.160 took us to New York with her. But I think 0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:10.080 it was like a little bit mature because she went. 0:20:10.280 --> 0:20:12.240 I think she just went with like Stamos or somebody, 0:20:12.359 --> 0:20:15.000 and I give Stamos the show. Oh it was like 0:20:15.000 --> 0:20:16.960 bye by Bertie or something. Right, No, we went to 0:20:17.000 --> 0:20:20.520 that a phenomenal, phenomenal musical. It was like some like 0:20:20.600 --> 0:20:24.439 politician play he did. It wasn't a musical. Well, anyway, 0:20:24.520 --> 0:20:26.480 she goes to this play and she left us at 0:20:26.480 --> 0:20:29.520 the hotel with her grandma And I was had a 0:20:29.520 --> 0:20:31.680 big crush on this boy and I was in seventh 0:20:31.720 --> 0:20:33.199 grade and he did not like me at all. And 0:20:33.200 --> 0:20:34.960 then I was texting him. My grandma was telling me 0:20:35.000 --> 0:20:37.399 what to text this boy. By the end of the conversation, 0:20:37.480 --> 0:20:39.959 he was like, I have the biggest crush on you, 0:20:40.040 --> 0:20:41.800 And I was so thrown off because I knew he 0:20:41.840 --> 0:20:46.159 never liked me. So I don't remember what she's a master. 0:20:46.640 --> 0:20:49.240 I don't know what the cons they both have. I 0:20:49.240 --> 0:20:53.360