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Speaker 2: Taylor is on the show today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jake.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
Speaker 2: if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe
Speaker 2: get her another date. But first, Taylor, how long has
Speaker 2: it been since you talked to Jake?
Speaker 3: Hi, it's been six days.
Speaker 2: That's terrible, almost a week.
Speaker 3: It felt like forever though, Like I'm like freaking out.
Speaker 3: I've been freaking out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's the worst feeling. How many times have you
Speaker 4: tried to reach out to him?
Speaker 3: I haven't, like reached out to him. I'm just waiting
Speaker 3: to hear back.
Speaker 2: Did he tell you that he was going to hit
Speaker 2: you up after the date?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we had, We had planned for a whole date
Speaker 3: and everything. Oh but then after the date, our first date,
Speaker 3: you know, it's been radio silence.
Speaker 2: Okay, stupid.
Speaker 3: It makes me feel so stupid.
Speaker 2: No, not stupid. Yeah, that's not your fault that you know.
Speaker 2: Unfortunately it happens. But we can figure out why we.
Speaker 3: Well, so we actually met at a mutual friend's birthday party,
Speaker 3: and just from that, like that wasn't our first date,
Speaker 3: but that whole night, I mean I spent the entire
Speaker 3: night talking to him. I barely even said happy birthday
Speaker 3: to my friend, but we were just in the kitchen
Speaker 3: like making stupid jokes and that kind of led to
Speaker 3: us talking the entire night, and I just had a
Speaker 3: really great time since then, and I haven't really felt
Speaker 3: that in a long time. And so we we planned
Speaker 3: a date and then we got Ramen and we walked
Speaker 3: around the park and it was like exactly like the
Speaker 3: moment that we met. It was just like just I
Speaker 3: don't know, sparks, I guess I know it sounds so.
Speaker 3: I mean we were just laughing, is the thing.
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 3: It's like I felt like immediately I could be so
Speaker 3: silly and stupid with him, and everything felt very comfortable
Speaker 3: and natural right from the start. I don't know, It's like,
Speaker 3: I mean, he's just really I mean, he's also very cute,
Speaker 3: so like that doesn't hurt, you know, but it's not
Speaker 3: even about like looks or anything. It was just this
Speaker 3: feeling of comfort and being silly and I'm such a silly,
Speaker 3: stupid person. And I love being silly and stupid. And
Speaker 3: I feel like so often when I'm talking to guys,
Speaker 3: it's like they're I don't know, they're expecting me to
Speaker 3: be a certain way. And I didn't feel like that
Speaker 3: with Jake at all. And he's very funny too, and
Speaker 3: I was the one that makes me laugh and I'm
Speaker 3: just I was laughing so much. I was just laughing
Speaker 3: whole time. I mean, by the end of the first date,
Speaker 3: we already have so many inside jokes. And you know
Speaker 3: when you find that and just like I don't get.
Speaker 4: That often, No, totally, But what do you think could
Speaker 4: have gone wrong?
Speaker 3: Okay? So I do think it is my fault actually,
Speaker 3: and I feel like it's the I mean, I'm a
Speaker 3: clumsy person, but this is like the worst thing that
Speaker 3: I've ever done. I think it's very embarrassing. So you
Speaker 3: know that, you know, when you like check in with
Speaker 3: your best friend in the middle of the day and
Speaker 3: you just give him like the you know, the text,
Speaker 3: it's like, okay, uh, we're your vibes are good or
Speaker 3: whatever whatever. So so actually, I uh, I did send
Speaker 3: that text to him instead of let me just read
Speaker 3: it to you. Okay, So he said, I said, he's cute,
Speaker 3: but if he says vibes on ironically one more time,
Speaker 3: I might combust a joke. It was kind of a
Speaker 3: joke because it was actually I was going to tell
Speaker 3: her later that that was actually like an inside joke
Speaker 3: between like me and Jake that we were because we
Speaker 3: were talking like we were being like bros and I
Speaker 3: don't know, we were just pretending to be bros and
Speaker 3: doing all this stuff, and so it was kind of
Speaker 3: a funny thing to me that I was just going
Speaker 3: to tell her about later. And then, uh, yeah, I
Speaker 3: sent that to him, and then reading it back, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: that actually sounds like I actually am making a dig
Speaker 3: at him or something, and that's not all what it was.
Speaker 3: Oh my god. But yeah, so I sent that to him.
Speaker 2: What did he say when he got it? Like did
Speaker 2: he call you out? Like did you just say a message?
Speaker 3: Or I didn't know he didn't see it because like
Speaker 3: I spent it while we were still on a date,
Speaker 3: and so I mean, he's such a sweethart, like he
Speaker 3: didn't even look at his phone the entire date, so
Speaker 3: he didn't even see it until after we had already
Speaker 3: parted ways. And I don't know like to date, I
Speaker 3: did so well, we kissed and we yeah, we made
Speaker 3: that plan to meet again. And then after after the date,
Speaker 3: that's when I saw that I had Oh, i'd.
Speaker 2: Be freaking how too. Well, oh no, we'll see if
Speaker 2: that is the reason. We'll play a song come back
Speaker 2: and then call him and see if I'll tell us
Speaker 2: why he's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 3: Okay, thank you guy?
Speaker 2: All right? Your first day follow up is.
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first Day follow Up
Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us, Taylor is on the
Speaker 2: phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jake.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if I
Speaker 2: tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her
Speaker 2: a second date. But first, Taylor, why don't you recap
Speaker 2: your situation for us real quick?
Speaker 3: Okay? Yeah, Well, six days ago, I went on a
Speaker 3: date with a really cute guy that I really like
Speaker 3: a lot, and he made me laugh so much, which
Speaker 3: never happens. But during the date, I had sent a
Speaker 3: text that I meant to send to my best friend.
Speaker 3: I accidentally sent that to him, and the text may
Speaker 3: have seemed like a dig at him, and it was
Speaker 3: supposed to be a joke and he wasn't ever supposed
Speaker 3: to see it. I think that he's going to have
Speaker 3: taken it.
Speaker 2: I feel that secondhand anxiety for you. Yeah, well I know,
Speaker 2: we'll see if that is the reason. Are you ready
Speaker 2: for us to call him?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, masspeak to Jake.
Speaker 2: Please yay.
Speaker 6: This is Jake.
Speaker 2: Jake. Hey, how you doing? This is the Jubil Show.
Speaker 2: It's a radio show. What's up, Jake? My name is Nina. Hi,
Speaker 2: I'm Victoria. I'm Jubil.
Speaker 3: How are you good? Good?
Speaker 5: How are you good?
Speaker 2: Do you listen to the show?
Speaker 5: I don't.
Speaker 6: I don't listen.
Speaker 3: Not actively.
Speaker 2: All right, well, no worries. The reason we're calling you
Speaker 2: today is because of a segment that we do do
Speaker 2: on the show. Sorry about that. You should really listen
Speaker 2: because that's that's the high caliber kind of stuff you
Speaker 2: get on the show. You know. It was funny to
Speaker 2: meet too, because do do Victoria? Anyway? Gosh, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: We do a segment on the show called the First
Speaker 2: Day follow Up. That's where if you go on a
Speaker 2: date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them,
Speaker 2: that person can email us and get you on the
Speaker 2: phone to ask you why you're ghosting. So we got
Speaker 2: an email about you from somebody.
Speaker 3: Yeah this is.
Speaker 6: Is that Taylor? Is it Taylor?
Speaker 2: Yes, it is Taylor. You do that fast? Yeah? Do
Speaker 2: you have a few minutes to talk to us about
Speaker 2: it and tell us why you're ghosting?
Speaker 4: Totally?
Speaker 5: I'd love to.
Speaker 6: Okay, day, that just makes it even worse.
Speaker 3: She was fantastic.
Speaker 6: She she's amazing, she's she's she's gorgious. I don't know.
Speaker 6: I've met hear not too long ago at a birthday party.
Speaker 3: It was just like.
Speaker 6: We just like we just hit it. I don't know,
Speaker 6: you'll know how. I don't know. You meet somebody and
Speaker 6: it's just like, yeah, this makes sense. Yeah, just like
Speaker 6: flows really well. And it was great, and I mean
Speaker 6: she did she she text me this thing about about
Speaker 6: vibes and combusting, which I don't think that was I
Speaker 6: thought it was so funny. I just didn't reply. I
Speaker 6: it's kind of really stupid. So my roommate got a
Speaker 6: VR headset, you know, you premonial like into you can.
Speaker 3: Play games and yeah, yeah, no they're crazy.
Speaker 6: But like, and I've never used it before, so I
Speaker 6: kind of got like really really addicted to virtual reality
Speaker 6: Ping Pong and I've been going crazy in it. And
Speaker 6: I stood too close to the corner of this wall
Speaker 6: and fractured my wrist as I was playing.
Speaker 2: You fractured your wrist playing VR.
Speaker 5: So it's okay, I mean it's stupid. I feel so
Speaker 5: stupid about it. And now, like because I fractured it,
Speaker 5: like it hurts the hold my phone, like my phone
Speaker 5: sitting on my desk right now, and I'm just speaking
Speaker 5: into it. I I can't type, I can't text, I
Speaker 5: can't I can't play virtual reality ping pong, I.
Speaker 6: Can't do anything.
Speaker 2: So yeah, okay, well.
Speaker 6: It's just tough. But so like I've tried to I'm
Speaker 6: trying to verbalize my text, you know, and like speak
Speaker 6: them out so that SERI picks them up. It comes
Speaker 6: out like vibes are snorting and Brahmin's destiny and like
Speaker 6: it doesn't make sense.
Speaker 4: Okay, So because you hurt your wrist, you can't communicate
Speaker 4: with people.
Speaker 6: I just can't feel dumb, okay, honestly.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's why you're ghosting a.
Speaker 5: Little bit because like I don't know how to it's
Speaker 5: frustrating when.
Speaker 6: I can't text it and I don't know how to
Speaker 6: be like, hey, I have talked to you because I
Speaker 6: broke my risk virtual reality pong.
Speaker 4: All of you guys hit it off like you think
Speaker 4: you did. I don't know that she'd think it was dumb.
Speaker 4: Maybe she thinks, yeah.
Speaker 6: I guess maybe I didn't really think that.
Speaker 3: Can I say something? Can I say something?
Speaker 2: Yes, Taylor, she's been on the phone listening.
Speaker 3: Oh wait what yeah, Taylor here? Yeah, Oh my gosh,
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, Like I just I thought I totally
Speaker 3: humiliated myself. I've been spiraling for the past six days.
Speaker 3: But you you've got a VR ping pong wrist injury.
Speaker 5: What yeah, yeah, kind of.
Speaker 6: I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3: No, I didn't think that's so random and adorable. But
Speaker 3: also like it's been six days and I thought that
Speaker 3: you hated me with right now.
Speaker 6: I don't hate you, I literally I could. I could
Speaker 6: never hate you. I that I was. I've been really
Speaker 6: happy that that we met and beating myself up that
Speaker 6: I feel like I can't just like be an.
Speaker 3: Adult and just do the adult thing.
Speaker 6: And tell you I broke my wristlan being.
Speaker 3: Pong that the I was like, I was your ping
Speaker 3: pong with you, Jake. I'd play that with me, you
Speaker 3: know once. Once you're a field.
Speaker 6: I mean, I can just swap to my left hand.
Speaker 6: And then he used you right.
Speaker 4: Okay, we probably shouldn't say you could take your left hand,
Speaker 4: otherwise she's gonna get even more man.
Speaker 2: You could have texted with your left hand.
Speaker 6: I can't, I can't.
Speaker 3: No, I don't know, guys, Jake, She's a very cute human.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well that's Jake. Would you like to go out
Speaker 2: on another date with Taylor? Will pay for it?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2: Okay, well Taylor, congratulations, Yay, thank you.
Speaker 1: Guys.
Speaker 3: I'm so happy.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, we too.
Speaker 2: You're gonna sleep good tonight.
Speaker 3: Absolutely.
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