WEBVTT - Ep. 62 "Domestic Discipline?" 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:07.080 We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:12.879 talked back? What's up, y'all? Welcome to a new episode 0:00:12.880 --> 0:00:17.320 of We Talk Back. It's your girl, a j A. Hey, y'all, 0:00:17.400 --> 0:00:19.640 it's tampam. Y'all know what it is. Y'all know I 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:22.640 love y'all. Don't like you. Ain't know that. How y'all doing? 0:00:23.800 --> 0:00:27.680 How about your weekend? Girl? My weekend was full. I 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:31.360 was outside outside. Oh weekend girl, I just did them 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:36.400 most mm hmmm um. I had on this little leopard 0:00:36.440 --> 0:00:40.280 d You know what, I gotta start taking pictures. I 0:00:40.280 --> 0:00:43.000 don't be taking no fucking pictures but that everywhere, and 0:00:43.000 --> 0:00:44.479 when I had to beat the boys off with his 0:00:44.560 --> 0:00:49.879 stick in that dress, the boys and the bitches. I 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:52.279 might wear that ship again next weekend. I don't know. 0:00:53.280 --> 0:00:56.000 You know, the motherfucker's gonna remember that dress. Shot. Well, 0:00:56.160 --> 0:00:59.000 you know what, I only went to. I went to Para, 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:00.920 which is the rest around here in Charlotte, and then 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:04.320 I went to like a bar. I ain't seen nobody, 0:01:04.680 --> 0:01:06.839 so it didn't happen, and I ain't post no picture. 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:10.360 That's a shame. We live in a society where you 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:12.160 gotta think, damn did I take a picture in this 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:15.920 You gotta stroll through Instagram like girl? Where that should 0:01:15.920 --> 0:01:21.320 again for the people. The hell? Then Sunday, Sunday Funday, 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:24.720 I went outside. I went to this place called Stats 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:29.080 in Charlotte. Then I went to Um Papa Rozzie after that, 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:32.240 then I went to Cloud I just was all over 0:01:32.280 --> 0:01:37.120 the place Sunday night, section after section. Then Monday, I 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:43.120 went to the Hornets game sitting on the floor. Okay, yeah, 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:47.040 And then I went to this place called Barrel at 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:49.400 the Lift. I'm shouting out all these Charlotte spots, y'all. 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:51.280 So if y'all in Charlotte, these are the hot spots 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:57.320 right a Monday night, R and B night. So that 0:01:57.480 --> 0:02:01.040 was fine. And now a bitch, did you just be 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:04.360 out here, I'd be living vicuriously through your ass, because 0:02:04.640 --> 0:02:07.880 you know how my weekends go. Maybe a little bad 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:11.960 and speaking, but well, I was in the house for 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:14.720 real this weekend because I should. I literally just got 0:02:14.760 --> 0:02:19.480 back home on Friday from from from what month is this, look, 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:22.320 I don't even know what month is. From March four. 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:25.320 I just got back home on Friday, whatever that date was. 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:27.240 So I've been chilling for the last couple of days. 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:29.320 But y'all, she don't really be telling y'all after we've 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:30.880 done then she black girl, let me tell you what 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:34.280 really happen on the weekend. I'll be giving it to 0:02:34.360 --> 0:02:39.440 y'all for real. Girl, I'm scared out here. I can't 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:43.840 be telling all my damn business might be listening. It's 0:02:43.840 --> 0:02:49.760 a lot of people listening, you and my business. So 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:51.920 it happened is stupid internet news. We have a lot 0:02:51.960 --> 0:02:54.160 of fun ship going on. Man, So call ye got 0:02:54.160 --> 0:02:57.000 pulled from the Grammys? Did you see that I did? 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:59.600 What do you think about that? Well? How you? I mean, 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:02.919 I get did and I don't So y'all invited him 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:06.560 knowing he'd be doing the most. So why are you're 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:09.399 gonna pull him? He's just a wild card because he'll 0:03:09.440 --> 0:03:12.760 get up there and be like George Bush hates black people. Still, 0:03:13.919 --> 0:03:17.680 Pete Davidson, you're better not be around my motherfucker kids 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:21.720 with that damn Hillary Clinton tattoo. Right, stop the music. 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:26.360 Stopped the music, stop the music. Everybody like burning a 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:32.080 church on the stage and ship right with Marilyn Manson. Man, 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:35.160 I don't know, I really feel like his antics last week, 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:40.000 did not like constitute being cancelled from the Grammys because 0:03:40.000 --> 0:03:42.880 it really wasn't that serious to me, Like he really 0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:45.440 was going on and on about Kim not not having 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:51.840 the kids that um Sunday service, and to me, Pete 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:54.520 interjected and put his fucking ass in there, because he 0:03:54.560 --> 0:03:57.400 really was dragging him initially. But I guess like he 0:03:57.480 --> 0:04:00.160 came to the rescue of his of his uh him 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:03.720 in whatever, I guess. But the thing I don't like 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:05.680 about that ship is like, how the hell do you 0:04:05.720 --> 0:04:07.760 send a man a picture in Sindu waiting you in 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:10.480 the bed with his wife and then you're gonna talk 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:13.400 about his mental health after that? That is gas lighting. 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:18.520 One on one, louked up. They all playing, No, it's 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:22.640 not it's it's par for the course. You cut my 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:25.160 head off. Now, look, I mean the bid you used 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:28.839 to sleep, but he really wasn't though he's actually never 0:04:28.880 --> 0:04:31.840 been around the kids, you know what I'm saying. So 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:35.240 I think, um, that's what Kanye probably fears that at 0:04:35.279 --> 0:04:38.280 some point, like maybe him and Kim K will get 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:45.039 real deep in it. So um U J. Prince is 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:48.640 actually calling for us to boycott the Grammys this year. 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:54.440 He's asking Nicki Minaj Drake, Kanye and the Weekend to 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:59.240 do a show in Vegas around the same time, UM 0:04:59.320 --> 0:05:05.080 on a sea written network, UM and streaming service during 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:09.880 the during the Grammys, basically, what you think about that? Well, 0:05:09.960 --> 0:05:12.160 I don't have no Parlem boycott in the Grammys because 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:14.600 my boycott every year. I don't know when the last 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:18.800 time I watched any of those goddamn shows. Yes, I went. 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:21.760 Nikki Nicky always be getting snagged for the Grammys, so 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:25.440 she probably like yes, because she definitely comment commented back 0:05:25.480 --> 0:05:29.479 and was like, um. All she said was, um respect, 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:32.880 That's all she said that. Yeah, you know, it's the 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:37.080 Grammys even for us. Nah, we make that ship anybody, 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:39.000 So if we're not there, it's gonna be whacked. What 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:41.680 y'all go? Who y'all gonna listen to Taylor Swift? That's it, 0:05:41.800 --> 0:05:45.400 Taylor Swift litt whatever. We know. Cardi b As showing up, 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:48.640 she even she even rich long enough, you know her 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:51.159 ask or be at the Grammy. Someone Walker gonna be 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:53.240 there too. I feel like some walk a little woke though. 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:57.080 Someone Walker want to show up because BT Awards she 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:59.200 didn't go on because she wasn't vaccinating and she wasn't 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:02.680 about that ship. So is she wearing them slave dresser? 0:06:03.080 --> 0:06:05.120 Calling it a slave dresser? When is that? That girl 0:06:05.160 --> 0:06:08.520 said she was doing not a ritual, but I know 0:06:08.560 --> 0:06:16.200 a slave dress. You saw what she said about that 0:06:16.200 --> 0:06:18.160 because people were talking about it. She was like, Oh, 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:20.440 if I'm half naked with we've down my ass. That's 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:25.560 cool though, right, But now like I'm covered up with, girl, 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:27.960 you don't have covered up with a head dress. Now, 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:32.360 you know, she probably, I mean it's given her, it's 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:35.800 given slave, But you know, where what you want I 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:40.359 got move moves, not giving slave. It's given uh, some 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:44.159 type of healing, that's what it's given me. She's it 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:50.159 was supposed to be like transition, and I respect that. Yeah, 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:53.520 I mean, I respect any transition that's going to make 0:06:53.600 --> 0:06:56.080 you better, right, But I'm gonna still say you're dress 0:06:56.080 --> 0:07:01.839 a little slave driop you about the about your titty, Oh, 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:06.920 don't say that, Do not say that. Oh my master's babies. 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:12.280 Oh that's what you're going to hell girl, exactly. Let's 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:14.920 apologize to the ancestors girl, because none of them wanted 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:18.080 to feed. I'm sorry, I ain't say they wanted to, 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:20.520 but that's what happened and they had on them dresses. 0:07:20.720 --> 0:07:25.360 They coming for your ass. What y'all said, I'm sorry, y'all, Damn, 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:27.400 when do you want me to laugh? Girl? Ancestors are 0:07:27.400 --> 0:07:30.320 speaking to me right now, and they said, bitch sleeping 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:33.840 one eye open. The ancestors would never call me a 0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:36.760 bit so that's how I know they ain't talking to you. Man, 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:42.600 it's talking. They called me a heathen. That's how they 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:46.600 would have said, you fucking heathen. Oh, that's definitely beloved dressed. 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:48.320 On the end of the movie when she was on 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:51.200 that fucking porch when when they went over there to 0:07:51.240 --> 0:07:53.880 rescue over they were the lady was like, we gotta 0:07:53.960 --> 0:08:02.360 help her because she over there. Whooper. Now, finally a 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:05.440 movie you saw, because you know you don't know no 0:08:05.560 --> 0:08:12.040 movie like that. Okay, so a lotto. She did an 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:14.640 interview and she was saying, like, you know, working with 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:18.800 men is hard because they want to trade sexual favors 0:08:18.840 --> 0:08:24.640 for gameful employment. Kodak girl, what the fun That black 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:28.200 came out and saying it's not him bitches that she's 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:32.000 talking about. Everybody thought it was because he just literally 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:34.840 said that ship on the interview. Well, wasn't an interview, 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:36.800 or maybe he said it on Live like shit if 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:38.960 he if he worked with a woman, they better they're 0:08:38.960 --> 0:08:41.839 better be fucking he said that. So that's why people, 0:08:41.960 --> 0:08:44.520 you know, assumed it was him that lot of was 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:48.280 talking about. But that's a lot of it. Could you 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:50.280 imagine everybody want to see it, they can get a 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:53.400 little pussy exactly. Could you imagine being is popping as 0:08:53.400 --> 0:08:55.520 a lot of is and Nigga still trying to play 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:58.520 with her like she's probably doing well better. Yeah, I 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:01.520 can definitely imagine it. I definitely can't imagine it. I don't. 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:05.440 I don't think there's a woman out here that hasn't 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:09.040 been tried like that, successful or not unless they just 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:11.760 real ugly. Yes. She said that whoever the artist is 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:16.480 was holding clearing his verse on his song because she 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:19.880 wouldn't um respond to a DM. That's the wild open, 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:22.199 she said, because he wouldn't. She wouldn't respond to the 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:24.680 d M. Yeah, like, I ain't got time for that. 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:28.760 It's business, nigger. That's why I just I don't even 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:30.800 take my pussy out with me no more. I'm put 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:32.560 my pussy in the freezing when I leave the house. 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:36.680 Cold ass serial pussy girl. What, Yeah, that pussy stays 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:40.679 on ice baby. I keep it on ice baby. It's 0:09:40.679 --> 0:09:42.840 all right hot being there melting all the ship in 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:46.280 the frigerid and the freezer. Girl whatever y'all know saying 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:54.840 got that like a cereal pussy whatever, cereal cold. That's 0:09:54.960 --> 0:10:02.760 my heart, not my part. Okay, I'm lying about that too, 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:04.320 because I'm a soft bench because you when it come 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:08.679 to these niggas, I'll be crying. Well we got oh 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:12.560 Coilrey and Nicki Minaj on their live. I'm so proud 0:10:12.640 --> 0:10:15.160 of that young woman because it could have been easy 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:18.040 for her to like not pop. Okay, so I like 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:22.360 these It's the only song I've actually was it Blickli. 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:25.839 It's actually the only song that I've streamed of hers, 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:29.000 and like put on my workout and put on my 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:32.439 workout playlists. When I put you on my motherfuck the 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:35.599 workout playlist is on. Okay, I funk with you. She 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:37.319 I know. I was listening to a part of the 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:39.839 live and she was saying, like she asked her what 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:42.400 she a lesbian or bisexual because she does give like 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:44.800 an andros gyen this kind of vibe like yeah, because 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:49.800 she looks you know, you're not a no no, no, 0:10:50.120 --> 0:10:53.400 I like that. Are you bisexual? No? I ain't pushing 0:10:53.480 --> 0:10:57.360 before though, but I mean, yeah, it just wasn't for me. 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:03.440 After they've been that's been realized. I said, yeah, after 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:06.000 I was liking that's when I realized that. I was like, listen, 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:08.240 this is not for me. That's not my type of thing. 0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:11.400 You know what it is. I like a man's touch, 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:15.040 like I like aggression. A girl can't really give me 0:11:15.240 --> 0:11:18.240 that aggression. How do you know if you don't, you 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:21.679 don't like beats. You gotta taste like nothing slimery. That's 0:11:21.720 --> 0:11:24.240 how I know the girl. Ain't you lying because I 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:28.559 said you sloped down some oysters like tomorrow? No, it's not. 0:11:28.760 --> 0:11:32.040 It's literally the same thing. It's literally almost the same thing. 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:37.040 So you don't plail me. Okay, crystall all over the 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:45.480 stinking hole's actually flow alkaline spring water. Girl. No, I 0:11:45.520 --> 0:11:47.839 don't need to try that ship. I don't like women like. 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:50.400 I don't even want to bitch with. What a bunch 0:11:50.440 --> 0:11:52.960 of bundles eating my couchie. I'm good on that. Okay, 0:11:53.080 --> 0:12:00.280 thank you, Okay, seot yourself. I'm joking, y'all know I'm joking. 0:12:00.320 --> 0:12:02.839 When I say that, right, y'all, I don't be doing that. 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:05.880 I'd just be talking because it sounds so fine. Whatever. 0:12:06.960 --> 0:12:12.199 One day. But that's all I got for stupid internet news. 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:13.880 We ain't spend it too much time on that ship today. 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:15.839 All right, y'all, we're gonna pay some bills and come 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:22.839 right back, stay tuned. So look what I wanted to 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:25.679 talk about today, tam so you know, i'd be on Clubhouse. 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:27.800 I'm in this room today and there was a clip 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:32.959 was being played of ks Kevin Daniels, and he was 0:12:33.120 --> 0:12:38.480 talking about basically hitting women, like promoting smacking women when 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:41.520 they you know, talking or getting out of line. And 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:45.280 what did he call it? He called it, uh, domestic discipline. 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:50.160 So look I looked up domestic discipline, um, and you know, 0:12:50.320 --> 0:12:52.880 had an eye. And this is why it's important to 0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:55.640 do your own primary research, right, because people will play 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:58.839 a little shift for clickbait. So this guy, uh, this 0:12:59.000 --> 0:13:00.800 gay guy that i I'm in his room a lot 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:04.440 on Clubhouse. He was playing this clip of Kevin Samuels 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:06.880 and he played it all at ten times, and like, 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:10.319 I'm like, this nigga is really out here promoting, you know, 0:13:10.559 --> 0:13:12.640 beating black women up like, now, I'm not gonna say 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:14.560 he didn't say that, because he didn't, and we're gonna 0:13:14.600 --> 0:13:17.520 insert the clipping just a second. But he did say 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:19.960 that we should smack women. But when he started talking 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:24.480 about like the domestic domestic discipline, to me, that's more 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:27.640 of like a I don't know, fifty shades a great 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:30.719 type ship or some b DSM type ship, like you 0:13:30.800 --> 0:13:33.600 lay your wife, cross her, cross your lap and spanker 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:39.800 for misbehaving. Basically, the women today don't feel what Sean 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:44.040 Connery told Barbara Walters. There are times when the best 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:47.439 course of action is to slap a woman. Let me 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:50.320 explain what I mean. He's like, women have a way 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:53.520 of not knowing how to let things go, and they 0:13:53.559 --> 0:13:57.400 will continue to push and push. At that point, once 0:13:57.440 --> 0:14:02.520 you've exhausted all other options, then a slap becomes a 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:04.520 good option and you only have to do it once. 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:08.920 We have to moderate what we say, whether we know 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:11.560 each other or not, because there's a low level threat 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:14.080 of violence and aggression between all men. But see, there's 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:17.200 no low level threat of violence between women and men. Today. 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:23.000 Women are allowed to be verbally disrespectful beyond the point 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:27.600 of reason because they don't fear the repercussion. Anybody familiar 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:32.440 with the concept of domestic discipline. Domestic discipline in a 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:36.200 nutshell is me and Courtney are married, and Courtney and 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:40.080 I are vibing, but Courtney know that she can get 0:14:40.160 --> 0:14:44.920 on one sometimes. And I used the safe word banana split, 0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:49.120 and you still stay on one after I say banana split. Well, 0:14:49.200 --> 0:14:52.240 then it's time for the domestic discipline. And it is 0:14:52.320 --> 0:14:55.360 exactly what it sounds like. Lay across the knee, And 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:59.280 at first it sounds like he's talking about being from 0:14:59.280 --> 0:15:01.920 the lap of home her right, but once as she 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:07.360 talks more, you understand that. I mean, obviously it's some 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:11.200 level of discipline, but it's two people consenting to this 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:17.560 type of domestic discipline up to get a better understanding 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:19.920 of what it was. But if you just listen to 0:15:20.360 --> 0:15:23.520 that clip, you just would think he's talked about whopping 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:27.560 his wife right and wrong. So is there ever a 0:15:27.720 --> 0:15:30.720 right time? No, that's never right, especially if she's not 0:15:30.840 --> 0:15:32.920 asking for that. Ship Like if you'll, if y'all sit 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:36.080 down to consenting adults and say, hey, whenever you feel 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:38.120 like I might, I might intentionally push you off so 0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:41.760 you can spank me Okay, let's let's be clear. But 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:46.440 the the guy on the podcast, on the show he 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:49.240 was on, you know, he gave me like a little 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:51.920 story of how his sister he wasn't even talked about 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:53.880 a woman like a woman he's with. He talked about 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:58.760 his sister being rude and um. Kevin Samuels goes on 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:02.840 to talk about out a time when Sean Connery was 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:07.240 on what Barbara Walters and was talking about you know, 0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:09.840 sometimes women get out of line, you gotta smack them, 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:15.840 like That's how Kevin saying started off talking. Right, So 0:16:16.880 --> 0:16:19.040 I can't think of one time where I saw a 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:22.600 man smack the fire out a bit. And I was like, yo, 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:28.600 one time, one time. All right, let me tell have 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:33.560 you ever seen the movie The Family that plays And 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:37.320 when he smacked so not Lathan across that motherfucker counter, 0:16:38.040 --> 0:16:41.360 I was like, yes, smack that bitch. That's the only 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:43.440 time I've ever in my life felt a bit deserved 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:46.960 to smack. She was like, that's not he's not your son, 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:50.560 He's a kift cart like anybody else like in real 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:55.040 life probably would have blacked out and did worse to her. Yeah, 0:16:56.040 --> 0:17:00.080 So I don't believe in domestic violence, honestly, but that 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:03.040 was a one time where I'm like, you know, it's situation, 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:07.320 y'all know a movie talking about remember that. What was 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:10.679 the name of the movie against him? The Family that Friends? 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:13.040 So what happened in that movie? You guys, if you 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:16.600 haven't seen it? Uh? Sonal Lathan was married to a 0:17:17.040 --> 0:17:20.000 black man and she was cheating on him with her boss, 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:24.639 who was a white man, and her son that she 0:17:25.080 --> 0:17:27.560 pretended to share with the black man was actually her 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:30.080 white boss's son, which was weird because he didn't look mixed. 0:17:30.480 --> 0:17:34.800 But Tyler Perry don't give a fuck, right, so he 0:17:34.960 --> 0:17:37.720 had your hair, your wigs looking bad, and the goddamn 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:41.600 parts of the movie like what that, don't go and 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:46.560 and she admitted to cheating on her husband and birthing 0:17:46.640 --> 0:17:49.240 a child with another man during her marriage, and the 0:17:49.320 --> 0:17:53.119 way she admitted was like that ain't even your fucking baby. 0:17:53.320 --> 0:17:54.720 You know. She didn't say that, but that's how she 0:17:54.800 --> 0:17:58.000 said it. And he slapped her ass across that counter, 0:17:58.400 --> 0:18:04.760 and I was like, but I was only like because 0:18:04.800 --> 0:18:06.960 it was my friend or my sister. If it was 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:09.320 my friend or my sister, I don't give a fuck 0:18:09.560 --> 0:18:12.320 who she slept with don't put your hairs on my sister, right, 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:14.920 But because I was outside of the situation and I 0:18:15.080 --> 0:18:18.320 agree with him, it was just like dam But that's 0:18:18.359 --> 0:18:20.520 kind of strange because you know, that's how some men 0:18:21.000 --> 0:18:23.320 they think that their mama's and their sisters and their 0:18:23.440 --> 0:18:27.600 daughters are exempt from running into one of these kas 0:18:27.760 --> 0:18:32.560 minions and having somebody, you know, display some type of 0:18:32.760 --> 0:18:35.560 domestic violence against them because of some ship they're listening 0:18:35.560 --> 0:18:38.480 to even more awful to get smacked by, and they 0:18:38.560 --> 0:18:41.480 can not be able to shoot them, Like that's even 0:18:41.520 --> 0:18:44.840 more awful. Yeah. Like I feel like men only do 0:18:45.000 --> 0:18:47.159 that type of ship to women they think have nobody 0:18:47.240 --> 0:18:50.920 that's gonna come see you about them, Like you you 0:18:51.000 --> 0:18:52.879 don't do that to a woman who has a daddy 0:18:53.000 --> 0:18:55.440 who knows you and knows where you live at We'll 0:18:55.480 --> 0:18:58.960 pull up on your ass about their child. Yeah, don't 0:18:59.000 --> 0:19:01.480 come out to mic. Yeah. So I mean I'm kind 0:19:01.520 --> 0:19:04.639 of like, I guess what's the word I'm looking for 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:09.480 outside of fum of ship? What's another word? Uh? Ship 0:19:09.600 --> 0:19:13.359 full of Because I'm I'm I'm playing both sides because 0:19:13.800 --> 0:19:16.359 I don't believe in beating a bit, but I also 0:19:16.400 --> 0:19:18.440 believe in slapping a bit every down then when this 0:19:18.560 --> 0:19:22.159 situation is right, So you on Kevin samuel side, that's 0:19:22.200 --> 0:19:25.320 what you're saying. No, no, no, I'm not saying that 0:19:25.640 --> 0:19:29.159 because I tried to stay away from any side that 0:19:29.280 --> 0:19:33.160 Kevin Samuels is on, just as a general rule a thumb. 0:19:33.280 --> 0:19:37.359 But in that movie, I understood why he backed in her. 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:40.160 I understood that. That's a movie, you know what I'm saying. 0:19:40.800 --> 0:19:43.760 If that happened in real life, I would be like, damn, 0:19:43.840 --> 0:19:45.960 she kind of deserved that slap. And it was just 0:19:46.119 --> 0:19:49.679 a slight right. It wasn't like he beat her up, 0:19:50.680 --> 0:19:53.560 start came across the counter and start punching the shot 0:19:53.600 --> 0:19:59.359 out of her like some n you know, right, he 0:19:59.440 --> 0:20:01.320 didn't do that. It was just the open hand swap. 0:20:01.600 --> 0:20:03.480 And I know you're about to be mad at fucking 0:20:03.520 --> 0:20:06.080 at me. I am already prepared for the d M s. 0:20:06.359 --> 0:20:09.879 I'm about to get about domestic violence. But I'm not 0:20:10.040 --> 0:20:13.840 saying I think it's okay. I just get it sometimes, 0:20:14.080 --> 0:20:17.760 you know, Okay, So I've made jokes that um like, 0:20:17.880 --> 0:20:20.119 I've been in a relationship where I was so frustrated 0:20:20.160 --> 0:20:23.159 with the person I was with. It's like I just 0:20:23.280 --> 0:20:26.160 wanted to rip their head off. And I have made 0:20:26.240 --> 0:20:28.719 comments like you know what, I see why niggas beat bitches, 0:20:29.240 --> 0:20:31.879 like once you I lost control and like the words 0:20:31.960 --> 0:20:35.879 ain't working no more. It's like, oh, g t on 0:20:36.040 --> 0:20:39.880 the job, training for this nigga. Okay, all hands on deck. 0:20:40.720 --> 0:20:42.240 But it's not the way to go. I get that, 0:20:42.400 --> 0:20:44.399 but it's not a code. Yeah, no, it's not the 0:20:44.480 --> 0:20:47.840 best approach because once somebody can end up, you know, 0:20:48.080 --> 0:20:51.600 and then then you end up. I know. I remember 0:20:51.720 --> 0:20:54.040 staring at my nigga, this is a long time ago, 0:20:54.480 --> 0:20:56.639 in the bed and I was thinking, like, if I 0:20:56.760 --> 0:21:01.240 can kill this motherfucker right now, I'd probably go to jail. 0:21:01.320 --> 0:21:02.600 So I ain't gonna do it. And I was just 0:21:02.680 --> 0:21:04.560 staring at him and he woke up and he could 0:21:04.600 --> 0:21:07.760 see the terror in my eyes, like and he was 0:21:08.440 --> 0:21:15.320 he was like he looked scared. He could see it. 0:21:15.440 --> 0:21:17.600 I was ready. And I don't see how men do 0:21:18.080 --> 0:21:20.560 crazy ship to women and still sleeping eat from them. 0:21:22.000 --> 0:21:24.680 You're brave as hell. I know. One of my homeboys 0:21:24.720 --> 0:21:26.720 told me like, because he was out doing his girl wrong, 0:21:26.840 --> 0:21:28.600 he was just cheating. He wasn't he didn't have no 0:21:28.720 --> 0:21:30.200 respect for her at this point, and he was just 0:21:30.280 --> 0:21:33.040 moving like a nigger with no respect. And he came 0:21:33.240 --> 0:21:35.639 into the house late. And now he said, it was 0:21:35.680 --> 0:21:38.840 almost four thirty in the morning and he just coming in. 0:21:39.040 --> 0:21:41.720 He'd been out cheating, doing whatever he wanted to do. 0:21:42.520 --> 0:21:44.880 And he said when he pulled up to the house, 0:21:45.240 --> 0:21:50.120 he could hear Beyonce lemonade loud as fuck at four 0:21:50.240 --> 0:21:52.920 thirty in the morning. He's like, but the house looked 0:21:52.920 --> 0:21:55.520 pitch black. He's like, so I was already scared in 0:21:55.600 --> 0:21:57.960 the in the driveway of the house. So then I 0:21:58.040 --> 0:22:00.640 walked in the house and this he said. This bitch 0:22:00.760 --> 0:22:04.359 is sitting in the dark in a chair, listening to 0:22:04.480 --> 0:22:08.840 lemonade with a hammer in her lap. He's like, bro, 0:22:09.000 --> 0:22:13.240 I ain never been I'm laughing so hard because dog 0:22:13.400 --> 0:22:16.240 in my early twenties, my boyfriend at the time, like, 0:22:16.359 --> 0:22:20.560 I'm living in Colombia. He was visiting me from Charleston 0:22:20.640 --> 0:22:24.040 at my house. I'm at work. I get offer fucking work. 0:22:24.080 --> 0:22:30.400 I had a music blasting my apartment. Use this nigga, 0:22:30.480 --> 0:22:33.560 I went through my fucking college trump in my house, 0:22:34.240 --> 0:22:38.320 found my fucking list. This nigga was mad because his 0:22:38.480 --> 0:22:39.920 name wasn't at the top of the list. I'm like 0:22:40.000 --> 0:22:42.400 nigga because I fuck you first, Like, why was your name? 0:22:44.520 --> 0:22:47.600 It's not in order by best? Where? Why are you 0:22:47.640 --> 0:22:49.880 going through my ship? This nick used to hack my computer. 0:22:50.240 --> 0:22:53.199 Nigdn't even graduate from high school. This motherfucker's a computer 0:22:53.359 --> 0:23:00.720 genius to this day. I used to go through nigga ship. 0:23:00.840 --> 0:23:03.280 I don't learn my lesson. I did not want to 0:23:03.359 --> 0:23:06.440 ruin my own days try into her in my own feelings, 0:23:06.520 --> 0:23:08.280 like I won't let you do you and set ready 0:23:08.320 --> 0:23:11.760 to leave your ass or until it comes to me. 0:23:12.840 --> 0:23:18.639 I'm not going. Okay, Well, let me tell you what 0:23:18.720 --> 0:23:21.840 I had n't seen and what I know. I let you, 0:23:22.000 --> 0:23:24.720 I let you live. But you you can't even hold 0:23:24.800 --> 0:23:28.800 your piece at all. Niggas can't ever holy a piece. 0:23:29.160 --> 0:23:31.640 They gotta ask you about it. They gotta address some ship. 0:23:32.119 --> 0:23:35.119 I don't always have to address ship, especially if I 0:23:35.200 --> 0:23:36.680 love you, like I want to have good days with 0:23:36.760 --> 0:23:40.640