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Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who

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Speaker 1: talked back? What's up, y'all? Welcome to a new episode

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Speaker 1: of We Talk Back. It's your girl, a j A. Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: it's tampam. Y'all know what it is. Y'all know I

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Speaker 1: love y'all. Don't like you. Ain't know that. How y'all doing?

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Speaker 1: How about your weekend? Girl? My weekend was full. I

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Speaker 1: was outside outside. Oh weekend girl, I just did them

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Speaker 1: most mm hmmm um. I had on this little leopard

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Speaker 1: d You know what, I gotta start taking pictures. I

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Speaker 1: don't be taking no fucking pictures but that everywhere, and

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Speaker 1: when I had to beat the boys off with his

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Speaker 1: stick in that dress, the boys and the bitches. I

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Speaker 1: might wear that ship again next weekend. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You know, the motherfucker's gonna remember that dress. Shot. Well,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I only went to. I went to Para,

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Speaker 1: which is the rest around here in Charlotte, and then

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Speaker 1: I went to like a bar. I ain't seen nobody,

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Speaker 1: so it didn't happen, and I ain't post no picture.

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Speaker 1: That's a shame. We live in a society where you

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Speaker 1: gotta think, damn did I take a picture in this

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Speaker 1: You gotta stroll through Instagram like girl? Where that should

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Speaker 1: again for the people. The hell? Then Sunday, Sunday Funday,

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Speaker 1: I went outside. I went to this place called Stats

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Speaker 1: in Charlotte. Then I went to Um Papa Rozzie after that,

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Speaker 1: then I went to Cloud I just was all over

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Speaker 1: the place Sunday night, section after section. Then Monday, I

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Speaker 1: went to the Hornets game sitting on the floor. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And then I went to this place called Barrel at

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Speaker 1: the Lift. I'm shouting out all these Charlotte spots, y'all.

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Speaker 1: So if y'all in Charlotte, these are the hot spots

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Speaker 1: right a Monday night, R and B night. So that

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Speaker 1: was fine. And now a bitch, did you just be

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Speaker 1: out here, I'd be living vicuriously through your ass, because

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Speaker 1: you know how my weekends go. Maybe a little bad

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Speaker 1: and speaking, but well, I was in the house for

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Speaker 1: real this weekend because I should. I literally just got

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Speaker 1: back home on Friday from from from what month is this, look,

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what month is. From March four.

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Speaker 1: I just got back home on Friday, whatever that date was.

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Speaker 1: So I've been chilling for the last couple of days.

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Speaker 1: But y'all, she don't really be telling y'all after we've

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Speaker 1: done then she black girl, let me tell you what

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Speaker 1: really happen on the weekend. I'll be giving it to

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Speaker 1: y'all for real. Girl, I'm scared out here. I can't

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Speaker 1: be telling all my damn business might be listening. It's

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Speaker 1: a lot of people listening, you and my business. So

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Speaker 1: it happened is stupid internet news. We have a lot

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Speaker 1: of fun ship going on. Man, So call ye got

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Speaker 1: pulled from the Grammys? Did you see that I did?

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Speaker 1: What do you think about that? Well? How you? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I get did and I don't So y'all invited him

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Speaker 1: knowing he'd be doing the most. So why are you're

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Speaker 1: gonna pull him? He's just a wild card because he'll

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Speaker 1: get up there and be like George Bush hates black people. Still,

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Speaker 1: Pete Davidson, you're better not be around my motherfucker kids

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Speaker 1: with that damn Hillary Clinton tattoo. Right, stop the music.

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Speaker 1: Stopped the music, stop the music. Everybody like burning a

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Speaker 1: church on the stage and ship right with Marilyn Manson. Man,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I really feel like his antics last week,

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Speaker 1: did not like constitute being cancelled from the Grammys because

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Speaker 1: it really wasn't that serious to me, Like he really

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Speaker 1: was going on and on about Kim not not having

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Speaker 1: the kids that um Sunday service, and to me, Pete

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Speaker 1: interjected and put his fucking ass in there, because he

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Speaker 1: really was dragging him initially. But I guess like he

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Speaker 1: came to the rescue of his of his uh him

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Speaker 1: in whatever, I guess. But the thing I don't like

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Speaker 1: about that ship is like, how the hell do you

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Speaker 1: send a man a picture in Sindu waiting you in

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Speaker 1: the bed with his wife and then you're gonna talk

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Speaker 1: about his mental health after that? That is gas lighting.

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Speaker 1: One on one, louked up. They all playing, No, it's

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Speaker 1: not it's it's par for the course. You cut my

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Speaker 1: head off. Now, look, I mean the bid you used

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Speaker 1: to sleep, but he really wasn't though he's actually never

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Speaker 1: been around the kids, you know what I'm saying. So

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Speaker 1: I think, um, that's what Kanye probably fears that at

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Speaker 1: some point, like maybe him and Kim K will get

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Speaker 1: real deep in it. So um U J. Prince is

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Speaker 1: actually calling for us to boycott the Grammys this year.

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Speaker 1: He's asking Nicki Minaj Drake, Kanye and the Weekend to

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Speaker 1: do a show in Vegas around the same time, UM

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Speaker 1: on a sea written network, UM and streaming service during

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Speaker 1: the during the Grammys, basically, what you think about that? Well,

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Speaker 1: I don't have no Parlem boycott in the Grammys because

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Speaker 1: my boycott every year. I don't know when the last

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Speaker 1: time I watched any of those goddamn shows. Yes, I went.

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Speaker 1: Nikki Nicky always be getting snagged for the Grammys, so

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Speaker 1: she probably like yes, because she definitely comment commented back

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Speaker 1: and was like, um. All she said was, um respect,

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Speaker 1: That's all she said that. Yeah, you know, it's the

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Speaker 1: Grammys even for us. Nah, we make that ship anybody,

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Speaker 1: So if we're not there, it's gonna be whacked. What

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Speaker 1: y'all go? Who y'all gonna listen to Taylor Swift? That's it,

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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift litt whatever. We know. Cardi b As showing up,

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Speaker 1: she even she even rich long enough, you know her

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Speaker 1: ask or be at the Grammy. Someone Walker gonna be

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Speaker 1: there too. I feel like some walk a little woke though.

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Speaker 1: Someone Walker want to show up because BT Awards she

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Speaker 1: didn't go on because she wasn't vaccinating and she wasn't

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Speaker 1: about that ship. So is she wearing them slave dresser?

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Speaker 1: Calling it a slave dresser? When is that? That girl

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Speaker 1: said she was doing not a ritual, but I know

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Speaker 1: a slave dress. You saw what she said about that

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Speaker 1: because people were talking about it. She was like, Oh,

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Speaker 1: if I'm half naked with we've down my ass. That's

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Speaker 1: cool though, right, But now like I'm covered up with, girl,

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Speaker 1: you don't have covered up with a head dress. Now,

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Speaker 1: you know, she probably, I mean it's given her, it's

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Speaker 1: given slave, But you know, where what you want I

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Speaker 1: got move moves, not giving slave. It's given uh, some

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Speaker 1: type of healing, that's what it's given me. She's it

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Speaker 1: was supposed to be like transition, and I respect that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I respect any transition that's going to make

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Speaker 1: you better, right, But I'm gonna still say you're dress

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Speaker 1: a little slave driop you about the about your titty, Oh,

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Speaker 1: don't say that, Do not say that. Oh my master's babies.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's what you're going to hell girl, exactly. Let's

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Speaker 1: apologize to the ancestors girl, because none of them wanted

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Speaker 1: to feed. I'm sorry, I ain't say they wanted to,

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Speaker 1: but that's what happened and they had on them dresses.

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Speaker 1: They coming for your ass. What y'all said, I'm sorry, y'all, Damn,

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Speaker 1: when do you want me to laugh? Girl? Ancestors are

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Speaker 1: speaking to me right now, and they said, bitch sleeping

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Speaker 1: bit so that's how I know they ain't talking to you. Man,

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Speaker 1: it's talking. They called me a heathen. That's how they

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Speaker 1: that fucking porch when when they went over there to

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Speaker 1: rescue over they were the lady was like, we gotta

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Speaker 1: help her because she over there. Whooper. Now, finally a

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Speaker 1: movie you saw, because you know you don't know no

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Speaker 1: movie like that. Okay, so a lotto. She did an

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Speaker 1: interview and she was saying, like, you know, working with

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Speaker 1: for gameful employment. Kodak girl, what the fun That black

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Speaker 1: came out and saying it's not him bitches that she's

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Speaker 1: he if he worked with a woman, they better they're

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Speaker 1: talking about. But that's a lot of it. Could you

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Speaker 1: imagine everybody want to see it, they can get a

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Speaker 1: little pussy exactly. Could you imagine being is popping as

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Speaker 1: a lot of is and Nigga still trying to play

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Speaker 1: I don't think there's a woman out here that hasn't

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Speaker 1: wouldn't um respond to a DM. That's the wild open,

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Speaker 1: she said, because he wouldn't. She wouldn't respond to the

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Speaker 1: d M. Yeah, like, I ain't got time for that.

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Speaker 1: It's business, nigger. That's why I just I don't even

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Speaker 1: take my pussy out with me no more. I'm put

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Speaker 1: Cold ass serial pussy girl. What, Yeah, that pussy stays

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Speaker 1: on ice baby. I keep it on ice baby. It's

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Speaker 1: all right hot being there melting all the ship in

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Speaker 1: got that like a cereal pussy whatever, cereal cold. That's

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Speaker 1: my heart, not my part. Okay, I'm lying about that too,

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Speaker 1: because I'm a soft bench because you when it come

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Speaker 1: to these niggas, I'll be crying. Well we got oh

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Speaker 1: Coilrey and Nicki Minaj on their live. I'm so proud

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Speaker 1: these It's the only song I've actually was it Blickli.

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Speaker 1: It's actually the only song that I've streamed of hers,

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Speaker 1: and like put on my workout and put on my

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Speaker 1: workout playlists. When I put you on my motherfuck the

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Speaker 1: I like that. Are you bisexual? No? I ain't pushing

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Speaker 1: before though, but I mean, yeah, it just wasn't for me.

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Speaker 1: After they've been that's been realized. I said, yeah, after

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Speaker 1: I was liking that's when I realized that. I was like, listen,

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Speaker 1: this is not for me. That's not my type of thing.

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Speaker 1: You know what it is. I like a man's touch,

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Speaker 1: like I like aggression. A girl can't really give me

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Speaker 1: that aggression. How do you know if you don't, you

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Speaker 1: don't like beats. You gotta taste like nothing slimery. That's

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Speaker 1: how I know the girl. Ain't you lying because I

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Speaker 1: said you sloped down some oysters like tomorrow? No, it's not.

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Speaker 1: It's literally the same thing. It's literally almost the same thing.

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Speaker 1: So you don't plail me. Okay, crystall all over the

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Speaker 1: stinking hole's actually flow alkaline spring water. Girl. No, I

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Speaker 1: don't need to try that ship. I don't like women like.

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Speaker 1: I don't even want to bitch with. What a bunch

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Speaker 1: of bundles eating my couchie. I'm good on that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Okay, seot yourself. I'm joking, y'all know I'm joking.

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Speaker 1: When I say that, right, y'all, I don't be doing that.

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Speaker 1: I'd just be talking because it sounds so fine. Whatever.

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Speaker 1: One day. But that's all I got for stupid internet news.

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Speaker 1: We ain't spend it too much time on that ship today.

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Speaker 1: All right, y'all, we're gonna pay some bills and come

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Speaker 1: right back, stay tuned. So look what I wanted to

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Speaker 1: talk about today, tam so you know, i'd be on Clubhouse.

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Speaker 1: I'm in this room today and there was a clip

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Speaker 1: Acabad pulling out your gaps now. Yeah, I wasn't even

420
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: doing that. I mean, I shouldn't have said that to

421
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 1: that man, but I wasn't. He did. All I said

422
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 1: is we could have been a power couple. I didn't

423
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: say we could be I said we could have been

424
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,639
Speaker 1: a long time ago. That's you know. It wasn't It

425
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: was innocent. I wasn't trying to be I just don't

426
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 1: give a funk about that type of communication. I just don't,

427
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 1: especially if we're living again and we together every fucking day. Man,

428
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: if you can bag him, you can have him. No,

429
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm not getting mad about I think everybody be fucking

430
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 1: frattenizing in that way, you know, especially as motherfucking a

431
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: whole other country. Come on, what are we talking about?

432
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 1: What are we doing? Why are you trying to ruin

433
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: my day with this bullshit? I learned my lesson with

434
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 1: that relationship. It was a toxic situation. We used to

435
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: be get physical when we were upset. I like, I

436
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 1: tried to stab that nigg in the back of the

437
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:43,879
Speaker 1: head with my toothbrush. I took a toothbrush and like,

438
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 1: literally what, I never put my hands on nobody else again. Though, Yeah,

439
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 1: I'm not with that. I don't even want to be

440
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 1: with anybody. Like if you're with a woman that makes

441
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 1: you get that much out of character. First of all,

442
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 1: I guess violent were gonna be violent, and um, some

443
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: of the women in the room today in clubhouse was saying,

444
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 1: you know, uh, somebody can only do what you allow.

445
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 1: But an abuser is going to be an abuser whether

446
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 1: or not you allowed it or not. You know what

447
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying, You got that one time they show you

448
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 1: what the funk they about? So do you think do

449
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: you think abusive people can change? I do think so.

450
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:24,719
Speaker 1: And I also think that abusive people abuse people who

451
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: are used to being abused. Also, I feel like there's

452
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,160
Speaker 1: a certain type of woman and as a certain type

453
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,639
Speaker 1: of man, and they end up together somehow. And this

454
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 1: woman probably got abused in every relationship she's been in.

455
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,120
Speaker 1: She probably are like her parents. She even probably grew

456
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 1: up in an abusive home. That's why I always say

457
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 1: it's nothing to break a broken bitch. You know what

458
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying? Um that ship with what with Kevin Samuels

459
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 1: like that rhetoric that he pushes Sometimes I feel like

460
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:54,359
Speaker 1: you got these men right, y'all want an independent woman

461
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 1: who can All right? Can I stop you? I hate

462
00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 1: that you said a broken bitch like that sounds so sad.

463
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: Do we call her a broken woman? But it doesn't

464
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,120
Speaker 1: sound the same though I said, it's nothing to break

465
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 1: a broken bitch. All the bees gotta be in there.

466
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 1: I'm not. I forgot you as a rapper hole. I

467
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 1: hate you, Yes, fucking stupid man. I don't forgot what

468
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 1: the funk I was saying, Like, you stay interrupting a nigga.

469
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 1: God damn, I'm sorry. I just didn't like broken bitch.

470
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: She sounds so sad. Okay, So what I was saying

471
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: was like Kevin Samuel's like they're his target market. Oftentimes

472
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: are men who don't get pussy, who probably never had

473
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 1: access to the pussy. Day would like I've said that before, um,

474
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 1: and he's like giving him like this power pack. And

475
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 1: you're not even Kevin Samuel's target market. You're the best

476
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 1: niggas that he'd be talking about, Like you're not even

477
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: the quote unquote high value whatever whatever whatever. But it's

478
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 1: a lot of men that listened to Kevin saying real

479
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,959
Speaker 1: real niggas don't listen to Kevin Samuels. I'm gonna tell

480
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 1: you that now. Uh, high value men don't listen to

481
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 1: Kevin Samuel's. It would be like the bottom of the

482
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 1: totem pole. Niggas that listens to Kevin Samuels, it would

483
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: be I think it would just be like bitterness. Yes,

484
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 1: they've been hurt, they've been hurt, and there there. Then

485
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: they talk about how women they want, they want independent women,

486
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:26,879
Speaker 1: they want a woman that can show up and do

487
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: all these different things. But then y'all want these strong

488
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 1: women so you could try to break them. And that's

489
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: what to me, that's what he promotes. I don't know

490
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: if that's always the case. Some of these men are

491
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 1: just all right, let's let's call a spade to space.

492
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 1: Some of these niggas don't be sucked over by women.

493
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 1: Bad man. These niggas been about a woman in first grade,

494
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: and now you've been treating women like ship forever. Like,

495
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: let's be clear. Yeah, every time we have a SIMP series,

496
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: they always talk about some ship that happened exactly. If

497
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,239
Speaker 1: you don't go to therapy and get the funking through,

498
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 1: I'd rather you blame your mama something first. Just say

499
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: he was raised by a bitch, and then I'll be

500
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 1: okay with that. But don't be But I never known

501
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 1: some good niggas that then got, you know, ran over

502
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: by some awful women, just ran through the mud. And

503
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 1: now they turned into Kevin Samuel's I don't know. I

504
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 1: remember one of my homeboys. He had a girlfriend who

505
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 1: lived in uh two cities over in Texas, and it

506
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: was Valentine's Week and She told him she didn't want

507
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: him to come from Valentine's Day because her house. She

508
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: was doing renovations on her house. And it wasn't together.

509
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 1: That is not your hold on. It was another nigga. Okay,

510
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'll be talking about club house girl. It

511
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: was this nigga on club House and I was like, dog,

512
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 1: niggas really be dumb my head. Niggas. Women really be

513
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: doing some of these dudes dirty. But it was like

514
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 1: something he was missing in the story. But he was

515
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: saying how it was his birthday weekend and he took

516
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 1: his girls to Miami and she didn't give him nothing

517
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: the whole time, like not even not even like she

518
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 1: didn't give him any She didn't, she didn't. It was

519
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 1: no intimacy at all. She had an attitude the entire time,

520
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: basically ruined his birthday and she said he said she

521
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 1: lived in Chicago. He lived in l a um On

522
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: another trip for her birthday, she told him he couldn't

523
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: come because it was all girls trip and the trip

524
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: was in Los Angeles. Now mind you, like I said,

525
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 1: she's in Chicago, but she's doing a birthday in Vegas

526
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 1: with her girls. But he lives in l A, like

527
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 1: three hours away. Who don't want I don't want birthday Dick.

528
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 1: I said, no, she's just not that into you, sir,

529
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: that's not your b I'm sorry saying that's the She

530
00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: basically used me for a trip to Miami and acts stinks,

531
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 1: so she can't give you the coochie. I've gone on

532
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: a vacation with a guy to Vegas one time, and

533
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 1: I did not but they already slept together like they

534
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: were fucking you see what I'm saying, Like, that's different

535
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 1: at this age, I'm not letting a man take me

536
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: anywhere of my fucking I'm not doing that. I come

537
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: with my I bring my couch with me, you know,

538
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: I bring it with me. I take it out the

539
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: freezer I thought out, put it in the suitcase. I

540
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: can't take it on the plane because it's too bomb

541
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 1: do a fed exit. I check it, I check it

542
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 1: under the play but I bring bag that What if

543
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: you have a tag in there from ts A THEW

544
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: I went through your bag and took your pussy out.

545
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 1: Who's the who's the pussy garl? I can imagine you

546
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: digging that. I know my pussy here somewhere where the

547
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 1: fund is my pussy. I know where I packed my pussy.

548
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: Ad was right here next to the block a lot.

549
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: I do not like how bakaa smell girl, That pussy

550
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: ain't the bag of rock and my pussy gone. So

551
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 1: my perfect man, my puss? What about that? I mean

552
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 1: where he's seeing the suitcase righte you on the plane

553
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: in the suitcase rolling going on. That was my pussy,

554
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: that suitcase. I was jumping out that window bit catching

555
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 1: my pussy. All right, all right, my pussy ain't just

556
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 1: gonna be out here rolling by itself, pussy on the road.

557
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 1: But I went on the trip and I just was

558
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: not attracted to him. He was lying about dumb ship like.

559
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 1: So I was just discussing some of the accolades my

560
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: father has, and I was talking about being in the

561
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 1: Who's Who of America and being like an engineer and

562
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: all the things that are very proud of my father.

563
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, I'm in there, I'm in the

564
00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 1: Who's Who America. I was like, oh, really for what

565
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 1: when he was just lying, like why are you lying

566
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: about dumb shit like that? Like it's like like I

567
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: can look that up, you know, right right? He was like,

568
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: I just wanted to impress you impress me with being

569
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: your funking self, And then he just kept talking bad

570
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: about everybody, like, oh, these people aren't as beautiful as us.

571
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: What you're not even all of that? First of all,

572
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 1: to be there, I'm playing all I don't even want

573
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 1: to chatty patty ask man, that's calling other niggas ugly?

574
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: Like what are we talking about? Yeah here talking about

575
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: these people around they're not beautiful like us. Yes, so

576
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: look maybe a lot. I don't like the times we

577
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: fucking a lot of times we are. But you can

578
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 1: easily talk to yourself out the pussy, sir. And so

579
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: that's probably what this guy did on that Miami trip.

580
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I don't get too far of

581
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 1: talking topic because when we were talking about this Kevin

582
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 1: Samuel ship before we started recording, and I was telling

583
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 1: you about this dude in Baltimore, um, because before then

584
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: you were saying you don't think that Kevin Samuel can

585
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: really influence people in that way. Right, let's play this

586
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 1: clip right quick so you can y'all can listen to this.

587
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 1: This is a guy in Baltimore who set his girlfriend's

588
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 1: apartment on fire. The home set on fire by Lexus'

589
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend Luther Trent, who explains how it happened after

590
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 1: he says he was chalked into the crime by his friend.

591
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: In my head, it was kind of like some Romeo

592
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 1: Juliette type of thing where I was like, oh, if

593
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,879
Speaker 1: nobody can have you, if I can't have, nobody can,

594
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 1: or at least nobody in portable. And so that's when

595
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: you went to her house. And that's when I went

596
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:39,800
Speaker 1: to a house. I went to the side of the house,

597
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,320
Speaker 1: start pouring gasling on the side of the house, and

598
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:44,479
Speaker 1: look the side of the house. So yeah, he said

599
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 1: that his homeboy told him to go burn his girlfriend

600
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 1: house down with her home girl, and you just did it.

601
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 1: That just made me think of your mom alive. If

602
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 1: your friends jump off a cliff, you jumping with stupid.

603
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: And don't you know he said he you heard him

604
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 1: when he said he doubled back to see what he

605
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: had done, right, But that's what people do. They always

606
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 1: returned to the scene of the crime. He said he

607
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 1: had a lapse in judgment. Uh, yes, you did stupid,

608
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,879
Speaker 1: And guess what y'all and you still got a last year.

609
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: This guy, he basically got six months in jail for this,

610
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 1: like he had attempted murder, all types of charges. They

611
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 1: reduced it. He got six months in prison. He was

612
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 1: all the news saying this is how killers get out

613
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: because the system still I can't believe him out. He

614
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I'm happy, I'm out, but you know

615
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 1: that ass is back in jail in two stupid ass.

616
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 1: You should have stayed off the news right for the

617
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: same ship, not for doing the same not for doing

618
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:44,240
Speaker 1: the same crime. But they basically like throughout his goddamn

619
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: pleadio and brought his ass right on back to jail.

620
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 1: He's dumb right, basically for the same time. He going

621
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 1: he's about to do more time because he got on

622
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: the news talking about I should be in jail. Okay,

623
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:59,799
Speaker 1: well we got some time for you, stupid enough time.

624
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 1: I just actually got some extra time right here that

625
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 1: you can have. So okay, I stand corrected. You know

626
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 1: you people, But you know what, people will take Kevin

627
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 1: Samuel's clips and they'll chop it up to the part

628
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 1: where he's only talking about Sean Connery, right, and then

629
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 1: don't and don't play the part where he's like, put

630
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 1: her across your knee, and pop that ass, you know,

631
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,760
Speaker 1: and it makes you think he's talking about slapping across

632
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 1: that counter, like what if you're popping your ass too

633
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: hard to where you can't sit down the next day. No, bit, No,

634
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 1: he was beating me like when my mama used to

635
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 1: beat me as a kid like that kind of like

636
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 1: where nobody can see the bruisers. My great grandma used

637
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 1: to put that elbow in that forearm across the front

638
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 1: of my back and spank my ass and where I

639
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: couldn't get up from misbehavior. I deserve that ship, though

640
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: I was. Tell me one thing that I used to man,

641
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 1: I used to I was I was stripped naked and

642
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 1: run out the front door of the house and run

643
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: around the hand and she couldn't catch me because she

644
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: was old, and she'd be like, oh, when I catch

645
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: your ass, I'm gonna turn you every which away. But

646
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: hope I have enough so my kid could run around

647
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: naked like that really feels good to run out having

648
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 1: did I used to love that like close our soul.

649
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 1: It be time for me to get into up and

650
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 1: I just run around? Or did I do ship like this?

651
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 1: Like she she only had a second grade school education, right,

652
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 1: so she she could read, but she wasn't the best reader, right.

653
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 1: And I remember I had this book and it was

654
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 1: called kick Pass and Run, right, and it was just

655
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:49,759
Speaker 1: like a little children's book about playing football and out

656
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: and it said kick passed and run like lined up.

657
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: So I put my thumb over the p and I

658
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 1: was like, Grandma, what the name of this book? And

659
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 1: she was like, kid, what they're giving y'all? School? You

660
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: made the whole fucking life? Yo? What is that? That is? Hell?

661
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: I know you definitely get your ass. Ya who does

662
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 1: that to their grandmama? Oh? You mean that was bad

663
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:31,720
Speaker 1: to him? That's my great grandma? Yo? What is spelled? Grandma?

664
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 1: I know you can't read that good. It's not about

665
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 1: the funk with you, yo. Oh God forgive me all right?

666
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 1: So tam, I know. So this is we missed this.

667
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 1: I think I wanted to talk about this earlier on.

668
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: But it was a clip with this girl saying how

669
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: she took her her baby daddy off child support and

670
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: you know, she basically like trying to help him start

671
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 1: a rucking company. As far as I'm concerned, I'm cool

672
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 1: with that. The only thing I didn't like in the

673
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 1: clip is that little thing. So I decided to take

674
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 1: my son's father off the child support because it was

675
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 1: causing turmoil and our co parenting relationship recently. You know,

676
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 1: I looked up a few places for him to get

677
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 1: his CDL so that he could possibly start his own

678
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 1: trucking company, or he can even carry loads and make

679
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 1: money for himself. What I decided was, you know what, britty,

680
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,879
Speaker 1: let me change my mind set, let me help him

681
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 1: help us take care of our child. And that's co parenting.

682
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:38,799
Speaker 1: So what's wrong with it? Uh? Because that little ding

683
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 1: to me, it's like a light bulb for other women.

684
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: That's how I took that, like, well, what's wrong with that? Know,

685
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 1: your situation is your particular situation. There are a lot

686
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,239
Speaker 1: of men that may take, you know, super advantage of that,

687
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: and when peter child support, don't you take them off?

688
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: I'm not listen to me personally, when I have a

689
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:59,359
Speaker 1: child with somebody, especially at this age, I don't want

690
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,240
Speaker 1: to be with that for and they ain't know splitting

691
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,839
Speaker 1: up and in that bullshit. Well, I think a woman

692
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: has to obviously, do you know, you have to use

693
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 1: some discern to know like maybe this this man is

694
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 1: the type of man that if I do this, he

695
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:15,879
Speaker 1: is going, that's not everybody's going to help us both, yeah,

696
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 1: you know, and as a woman, you're gonna have to

697
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 1: have that discernment, you know. So it's okay for it

698
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: to be a light, but for the people it should

699
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:24,440
Speaker 1: be a light before. But you can't say that as

700
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 1: a as as like as if it's like a matter

701
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: of fact type thing, because your situation is your situation.

702
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:34,839
Speaker 1: Like I said, like somebody else's baby daddy, they don't

703
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: even pay the child support. They're wrong. So imagine taking

704
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:39,839
Speaker 1: him off child support. There's no repercussions for not taking

705
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: care of your kids. Well, that would be dumb. You know,

706
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:46,320
Speaker 1: he don't do the right thing. Yeah, But for the

707
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 1: one she was sounding is this as if if I

708
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 1: take him off the child support and then help him

709
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 1: start a business, then he can help us take care

710
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 1: of my child, take care of our child. That's what

711
00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,239
Speaker 1: it sounded like to me. So you're about to go,

712
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 1: that's what she was saying. So we're building up. That's

713
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: a super builder. Are you his mother or his baby mama?

714
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: I mean, what's wrong with helping your nigga be? I mean,

715
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: y'all got a kid together? So ultimately, helping him is

716
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: helping you. But you but what about helping helping himself?

717
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: I guess I need more context. I need more context

718
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: before you put a ding in there, as if there's

719
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 1: a lot a lot of women out here who are

720
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 1: in your very same situation with capable men who just

721
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: aren't aren't, aren't or are doing There are a lot

722
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 1: of men, Yeah, there are a lot of I know

723
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: something you don't. I only know something like I know

724
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: some men who are doing a thousand times better now

725
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 1: and they may have asked like like I have a

726
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: friend who was going through like truck and school and

727
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: ship like that, and he had asked his baby mom

728
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: to take him off child support. At the time, he

729
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 1: always took care of his kid. He had asked her

730
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,480
Speaker 1: to take him off of child support because he wasn't

731
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 1: working at the time, and she told him no. So

732
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 1: now he's married, Oh he continue. He just struggled. He

733
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 1: just struggled and just paid it. So and it wasn't

734
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: because she didn't think that he wasn't a good dad

735
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 1: that would still come through. It's because he was in

736
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 1: a relationship with another woman at the time who had

737
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 1: a child. So you see that's how you create a

738
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:23,280
Speaker 1: Kevin Samuel Seen. And then now their son is in college,

739
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:27,360
Speaker 1: so there's no more child support. Once the child turns eighteen,

740
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 1: he continues to pay child support because his son is

741
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 1: in school. Now, I mean, he you know, helps his

742
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 1: son more. But she's like she's still a bitter bit.

743
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:37,800
Speaker 1: So I understand that in some situations. But I'm just

744
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 1: saying for that, but like for that clip, that's not

745
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:43,359
Speaker 1: every woman's situation. And neither one of us have kids,

746
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: so that's a sensitive little thing. I know. I have friends,

747
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: My best friend actually her daughter is my second cousin's child,

748
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: and there's a high school baby, like she had her

749
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: daughter when we were when we was in high school,

750
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 1: and and she ended up taking her baby daddy to

751
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 1: court only because this nigga was calling calling their daughter like, yeah,

752
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 1: I'd be sending your mama money, She'd be spending the

753
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 1: money on what she want to spend on. Lying was

754
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: never sending any money. So then she took him to

755
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: court for back child support. And in court, so now

756
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 1: she pulls up looking like the grown woman that she is,

757
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: and he pulls up looking like he's still in high school,

758
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:28,800
Speaker 1: busting the sag looking bad. She was embarrassed that that

759
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 1: was her baby daddy, And he tells the judge look

760
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 1: at her. She got money. That's what he told the

761
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: judge him over the phone, like why are you counting

762
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: my pocket, sir as if you're not supposed to contribute,

763
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:48,840
Speaker 1: contribute to the welfare of your child, just because I

764
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,759
Speaker 1: got it. And a lot of men be calculating a

765
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 1: baby mama pocket and like even men who pay like

766
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:57,319
Speaker 1: the hundred dollars every week or hunt like especially if

767
00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: you have a small child, that's no money. Didn't care,

768
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: it's rent right it is. I need to start me

769
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 1: a data get them ABC vouching bang right. But I

770
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 1: don't funk with kids enough to have no eight or

771
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:15,359
Speaker 1: no damn. I like his. I like to give him

772
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:19,320
Speaker 1: back sooner. Yeah, I like his too, But I'm just

773
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: not I couldn't have a daycare center if I think

774
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 1: about it. They'd be like, why did my baby have

775
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 1: wheat nuggets in his scamper? How did they get that

776
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 1: said nuggets? M you about to lose your job. You're

777
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: about to your job, and you're about to get this

778
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 1: day the jail in hell, you're going to jail man yo, No,

779
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 1: I'm joking. It just would be too many babies. I

780
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 1: could watch one or two. You know I could do

781
00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 1: it too, man, so I can keep on. I don't

782
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 1: know that's a listen. I shout out to everybody who

783
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: works in childcare of any sort. Teachers, fucking daycare singers, man,

784
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: y'all want to go. They got patience. That that patience is.

785
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,839
Speaker 1: I won't say that. Let me back the funk up

786
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 1: for a second. I was abused in day here, like

787
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:22,919
Speaker 1: for real abuse. Did I ever tell you about that? Listen?

788
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 1: And I worked in my family's restaurant a couple of

789
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 1: weeks ago, and my abuser came through the motherfucking lunch line.

790
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 1: I didn't seen nothing. I kept my mask on so

791
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 1: she didn't know it was me. Her son went to

792
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,800
Speaker 1: school with us too, He went to benneting. He was

793
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 1: like into our fisher. I'm still standing. I'm still strong, y'all.

794
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: Let me tell you what this bit used to do.

795
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: And she looks so old and decrepit now, like see

796
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: how life did your motherfucking ask for abusing me? Girl?

797
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: My mom used to stop and stopped the burger king

798
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 1: every morning for me and my cousin and get us, uh,

799
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: the fucking sausageack and cheese croissans, and we would get

800
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:01,280
Speaker 1: powdered doughnuts from Crispy Kream. She would cut my sandwich

801
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 1: in half, cut my cousin sandwich in half, take one

802
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 1: of my powder donuts and give to her son. Take

803
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: the other one from my cousin, and he has a

804
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 1: whole sandwich, and she doesn't cut off shot half. She

805
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:14,240
Speaker 1: had put my head underneath the water in the bathroom

806
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,800
Speaker 1: one day. In the sink. They would beat us with

807
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 1: this big gass brush on our knuckles. She's putting your hand. Yeah, oter, goddamn,

808
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:28,439
Speaker 1: that was military tactics. Did you know some information exactly? Girl,

809
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 1: like for real abuse. I was just telling my friend

810
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 1: about that ship this weekend. He was like, not the sandwich, y'all.

811
00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 1: Didn't need to be eating that every morning. She probably

812
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:39,319
Speaker 1: did you, yes, because her from the sun and fat.

813
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 1: Since we've made babies, you hear me that nyt get

814
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: big as a house. Though to this day she did

815
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:50,759
Speaker 1: your favor and your mama was wrong for feet back

816
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 1: in the day. Back in the day, Burger King was like,

817
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 1: it's a matter of fact, Burger King did remove a

818
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,879
Speaker 1: lot of preservatives from their menu earlier this year. All

819
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 1: so but back and again, you know that stuff used

820
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 1: to be fresh as hell. We probably was eating real

821
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 1: food back then. Yeah, we was probably eating better, actually

822
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 1: eating it. And then I remember, like I spent a

823
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 1: lot of my life inhaling cigarettes, smoke in restaurants because

824
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,360
Speaker 1: it used to be okay. You know. So could you

825
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 1: imagine people who smoke cigarettes on the airplane, Like, what

826
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 1: the fuck? In the hospital. It's crazy, that's real, wicked, man.

827
00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: We got set up for a lot of ship you know,

828
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 1: I was watching that and I'm trying to get these

829
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: people on the show. I was watching that bad Vegan

830
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 1: uh show on Netflix? Have you seen that? I really thought,

831
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 1: I really think the government was after her because she

832
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 1: was doing she was doing wait before anybody else, dog

833
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: healthy eating in early two thousand's, that's when she was

834
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: getting We just need to start a new segment called

835
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:58,880
Speaker 1: a coming soon anyway. Look, we're gonna do one more

836
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 1: commercial break and we'll be back with dumb bitch stories.

837
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:08,879
Speaker 1: Dumb bitch stories because we've all been a dumb bitch

838
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: at least it once or twice. Al Right, So today's

839
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 1: dumb bit story says, hey, aj and Tam Bam. I

840
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 1: have a lot going on right now. I caught my

841
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 1: boyfriend cheating last month, and instead of leaving, I slept

842
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: with my ex that I had basically been sexting for

843
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 1: the last few months. Shortly thereafter, something didn't feel right

844
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:32,360
Speaker 1: and I went to the doctor and found out I

845
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 1: contracted lamidia and gna rhea. I did you hear that

846
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: ship right? Pus go ahead, fish fish scale. I did

847
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 1: sleep with my boyfriend after he cheated, so I'm not

848
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 1: sure where it came from. I'm too scared and ashamed

849
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 1: of myself to tell either of them, but I have

850
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 1: to do it immediately for obvious reasons. I have completed

851
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: my meds and avoiding sex with my boyfriend. If he

852
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 1: has something, wouldn't he be experiencing symptoms by now? Can

853
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 1: y'all tell him? I ain't telling him nothing. I'm staying

854
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 1: like I'm not even saying her name. This is one

855
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 1: about Instagram listeners. Girl, girl, you know what you're saying, like,

856
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:22,399
Speaker 1: why did I get married? I already got a shot.

857
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 1: I was just waiting on you to say. See I

858
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 1: watched that movie too, look at you? Two movies today

859
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 1: and you're doing something, girl. I don't know what to

860
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 1: tell you, but you have to tell him if you

861
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 1: plan on staying with him, because you're gonna you're gonna

862
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 1: catch that again. If he hasn't been to the doctor.

863
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,440
Speaker 1: That's what she's saying. She went to the doctor and

864
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 1: took med's. She hasn't told either one of the guys

865
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,239
Speaker 1: that she had a disease. I don't know what she

866
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:51,399
Speaker 1: needs to do because I wouldn't tell my mother. How

867
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 1: she just gonna keep she how she know she she

868
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 1: got it from her, She might have got it from him.

869
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:00,800
Speaker 1: She either got it from her boyfriend or her ex boyfriend. Basically,

870
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 1: she doesn't know which one of them. But those only

871
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 1: two people she slept with, and neither one of them,

872
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 1: basically based on her based on her message, neither one

873
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:12,919
Speaker 1: of them have said anything to her about having any

874
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 1: symptoms because they think they got it from exactly. So

875
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: I really, okay, let me tell you what I would do.

876
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,440
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, girl. I would just accuse both of

877
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 1: them and make them make both of them feel shitty.

878
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 1: You already caught this naked cheating, right your ex didn't

879
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: catch you cheating, But then it's gonna be fucked up.

880
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 1: If your man at the house don't have nothing when

881
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 1: he goes to the doctor, then you're gonna know it

882
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 1: came from your ex. No right, But he also gonna

883
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 1: be wondering where I had to funk your pussy exactly.

884
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Why your pussy smell like that?

885
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:49,239
Speaker 1: But if you ain't get it from me, you just

886
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 1: gotta come clean. You gotta tell your boyfriend. Yes she does, Like,

887
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:54,919
Speaker 1: how do you explain having the STD if you didn't

888
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 1: cheat on your man and he doesn't have it? He

889
00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 1: she said, she that went through her mans and she good. Now, okay,

890
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 1: but somebody else has the disease. It's either her boyfriend

891
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 1: and you already know men will sit around listen ship fester.

892
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 1: She sleeps with him again, get it again? So stop

893
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 1: having sex with her aunts and just have sex with

894
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:20,879
Speaker 1: her boyfriend. And if she get it again, then why

895
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,479
Speaker 1: are we doing this? I would say, baby, I don't

896
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: know what I felt, some type of it. I was

897
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 1: so vulnerable. I have to find out you cheated on me.

898
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 1: I slept with Joseph, not Joseph. He having Samuel's your ass, bitch, girl.

899
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:50,200
Speaker 1: We type evil Okay, she has to tell them listen.

900
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 1: I'm not listen. I don't I don't know what to

901
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:55,399
Speaker 1: tell you. But if it were me, if I had,

902
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 1: you know, had this issue, I'd just be honest with

903
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 1: who would every with all parties that ship? I mean,

904
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 1: it does more harm to a woman's body for sure,

905
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 1: clamidia and stuff like that, because you, you know, you

906
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 1: sunk up your reproductive system. But if you listen, ship

907
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: like that fester. But men, you know whatever, they just

908
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 1: go on about their life. They take their pill or whatever,

909
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 1: might have a little burned dickhead or whatever, but they live.

910
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 1: So just make him breakfast, tell him like, I really

911
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 1: want to show you that you're special to me, and

912
00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I vow and make you breakfast every day

913
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: this week and just crush up a peel in his

914
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 1: juice all weeks. You know. The worst part is one

915
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:43,360
Speaker 1: of my friends doctors definitely prescribed her enough mad's for

916
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: her and her boyfriend before. Yeah, so she probably could

917
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 1: call her got in colleges and get some extra mads

918
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 1: for her boyfriend and definitely they do that. They had

919
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 1: a home boy said he got put playing being a

920
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 1: bitch food before. Why am I said, was taste like that.

921
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 1: That bite was weird. You said it was a blt

922
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:14,839
Speaker 1: It was crunchy in that little bit. That was our plan,

923
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:20,320
Speaker 1: you know, chewed up a plan that's wicked. I don't know.

924
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 1: We wish you the best, though, Listen to a j

925
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 1: Don't take my advice. I just can tell me jokes.

926
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 1: I don't want you to. She just out here burning.

927
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:30,800
Speaker 1: You know there's only six degrees of separation. She nigga?

928
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:35,480
Speaker 1: You fucking mm hm. Well you know I always used

929
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:50,839
Speaker 1: a condo. Damn, she suck nigga. I'm fucking god. Damn. Yeah,

930
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 1: we still ain't growing up this year. We all feel

931
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 1: like it. So nope, we I feel like we were

932
00:53:57,280 --> 00:54:01,680
Speaker 1: reclaiming our time for one where we had to live inside.

933
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: We are old. Another year of childishness, shame, but anyway.

934
00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 1: Bit sure. Well girl, I'm glad you're with Johnny is

935
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 1: doing better, and I hope it all works out for you.

936
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 1: Six All right, y'all listen, we're getting the funk up

937
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:20,759
Speaker 1: out of here. Listen. If you enjoyed this episode, please

938
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 1: tune in every Thursday on the I Heart Radio app,

939
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:29,359
Speaker 1: Apple podcast, or wherever you get your podcast at. Yeah

940
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 1: this is your girl A J Holiday two point oh

941
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Uh, keep sitting undumbe bitch stories, man, but

942
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 1: don't be stressing us out. Okay, that should kind of

943
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:42,319
Speaker 1: no stress us out. We need that. That should kind

944
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: of stressful, man, because I feel like that might be

945
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:47,840
Speaker 1: my little sister or niece messaging me. That's scary. No,

946
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 1: I mean it happens. Keep sitting in us, y'all. Ship.

947
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: That's whatna make it interesting, y'all. It's official Tim Mam

948
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:56,760
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Y'all follow me. I'm I'm actually actively trying

949
00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: to post more so it won't be just bullshit memes.

950
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:03,359
Speaker 1: All right. We love y'all, man for real, y'all stay

951
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:04,479
Speaker 1: cool and taken.