WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Red Flaggy Much? 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:01.599 Welcome to your second Day podcast. 0:00:01.680 --> 0:00:03.920 It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and I know 0:00:04.000 --> 0:00:06.200 someone who has a lot of opinions about restaurants. 0:00:06.240 --> 0:00:09.840 In this room, I'm looking at them. 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:16.439 No, no, no, I mean, would someone screwing up at 0:00:16.480 --> 0:00:19.200 a restaurant be a huge red flag for you? 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:20.000 What do you mean by that? 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:20.440 Hold on? 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:22.200 Well, like screwing up? 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:23.240 Like, what do you mean the order? 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:25.279 I can't tell you exactly because it's coming up in 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:25.919 the second. 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:28.800 It's gonna happen while he's still holding the menu at 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:29.280 the beginning. 0:00:29.520 --> 0:00:32.159 Okay, well, you should know how to go on to 0:00:32.240 --> 0:00:34.080 date at a restaurant, so obviously this would. 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:34.400 Be a red flag. 0:00:34.479 --> 0:00:37.320 Okay, Jose's not dating you, but you know what, I 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:39.800 don't think that's what he's asking for. Anyway, you're gonna 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:41.559 hear what's going on in this second date. But we 0:00:41.720 --> 0:00:43.600 love to start with your comments because you mean so 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:44.080 much to us. 0:00:44.159 --> 0:00:46.479 That's true, that's true. We're thankful for you. We we 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:49.479 are and marriage in comments a lot. But I like 0:00:49.640 --> 0:00:50.040 this one. 0:00:50.120 --> 0:00:52.760 They said, I might be weird, but I like spoilers 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:55.200 or teasers, so I read the comments before I listen. 0:00:56.480 --> 0:01:01.600 I actually know someone like wait you do that? Movies 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:03.240 are like, yeah, she loves this. 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:03.520 I know. 0:01:03.560 --> 0:01:05.120 And I skipped to the end of the books first, 0:01:05.160 --> 0:01:06.959 and I read what happens at the end before I 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:07.560 go I. 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:08.240 Want to do it. 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:11.280 Somebody around in my life does this too? 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:12.240 What is wrong with you? 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:15.080 I need to know what happens that I can read 0:01:15.200 --> 0:01:16.880 in peace or watch in peace. 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:19.800 So you relate to marriagin Yere's. 0:01:20.760 --> 0:01:24.520 Well anyway, thanks leaving the comment and how alexis? 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:27.360 I love it? Your second date starts right now. 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:33.000 The second date up date. The results are in. It's 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:36.399 broken Jeffrey in the morning. Because recent studies have shown 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:41.280 about fifty percent of couples now meet online compared to 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:44.400 just twenty two percent only five years ago. 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:45.720 That's crazy. 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:50.760 That's a huge jump. It's like the pandemic, like super Yeah. 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:53.120 It made a really normal, really quick Yeah. So now 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:55.000 going forward, Brook, if you want to spice up the 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:57.520 relationship with your husband, you're going to have to make 0:01:57.640 --> 0:01:59.000 him a dating profile. 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:03.440 Oh okay, I think I could make him a really 0:02:03.480 --> 0:02:03.920 good one. 0:02:04.040 --> 0:02:06.600 I mean to be honest, Well, I think joke's on you. 0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:10.680 He already has one. Wait, you're looking for a third 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:12.560 right now? According to him, and we're not going to 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:15.240 go into that because I want to talk right now 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:19.280 to Jordy, the listener who wrote into our show because 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:22.440 apparently he met a girl out in real life, bucking 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:23.920 all of the latest trends. 0:02:24.160 --> 0:02:26.519 You're the minority now r L. 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:28.440 Jeordy, good work, Welcome to the show. 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:31.959 Hey guys, So where'd you meet this woman? 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:32.600 So? 0:02:32.680 --> 0:02:35.280 I met Harper at this German bar? Actually? 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:37.720 Uh, you know, I was playing BOXI ball. 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:38.799 Do you guys know what that is? 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:43.040 You have boy ball on my rooftop of my apartment. 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:46.000 It's like he tossed big, these like big colorful balls 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:47.640 onto like a field, and then you try to toss 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:48.880 other balls towards the ball. 0:02:50.280 --> 0:02:52.520 It's an Italian game playing at a German bar. 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:53.280 But what happened? 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:58.960 Yeah, yeah, okay, So you said her name was Harper? Yeah? 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:01.359 Yeah, she was actually a waitress there. 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:04.280 Oh oh. I assumed that she was gonna be like 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:05.880 playing in the stall next year or something like that. 0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:09.360 Right, No, no, no, no, no. She was super cute, 0:03:09.440 --> 0:03:11.679 and I mean she was super helpful too, because I 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:14.280 actually had to have this like long cop with her 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:16.720 to tell her to cut off one of my drunk friends. 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:19.560 Yeah, cut off your friend. 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:23.800 You had to do it like nicely, Like I told you. 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:25.399 I'm sure that's happened to you and you just don't 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:27.200 if you have. 0:03:27.120 --> 0:03:29.360 Good friends, if anything, probably makes you look kind of 0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:31.959 good to her because you seem like a responsible guy. 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:32.480 Exactly. 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:34.600 It's like watching Jerry Fringer. It's like you look better 0:03:34.639 --> 0:03:35.280 than those people. 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:39.000 Oh can I ask real quick? Was there an indication 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:42.080 that she was interested in you? Because cute waitresses get 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:43.720 hit on all the time. 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:47.240 And they smile and there everyone thinks they're getting tries 0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:49.840 to get them to be the third in her relationship. 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:51.120 Harper. 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:53.480 I mean, Harper is a hot name. 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:56.760 But again, sorry, that is a conversation for another day. 0:03:57.680 --> 0:04:00.320 Tell us, how did you work Harper? It's not the 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:05.280 right way, Jack. How did you get Harper to agree 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:05.840 to a date? 0:04:06.200 --> 0:04:06.360 There? 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:06.760 It is? 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:09.240 Well, I just simply asked her on the way out. 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:10.760 I was like, look, are you single? 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:14.600 And she said he was asking and I said I 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:20.080 am good. Yeah, And I just said I'd love to 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:22.599 take you out sometime, and she actually gave me her number. 0:04:22.760 --> 0:04:25.920 Oh okay, dude, if we done this and it's our 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:31.400 loser line, is. 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:33.960 That your only meet up or did you guys actually. 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:34.080 Have a date. 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:35.440 No, No, we had a date. 0:04:35.480 --> 0:04:38.719 Okay, so it is her number because we all, she 0:04:38.720 --> 0:04:40.160 probably gave you a number to get ready. 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:41.680 So what did you do? 0:04:42.320 --> 0:04:44.839 We went out for drinks, little food. You know, she 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:47.159 looked amazing, I mean when she was like out of 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:48.479 her waiter outfits. 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:52.719 Second party. 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:55.719 I mean I did have one embarrassing moment on the date. 0:04:55.839 --> 0:05:00.000 We tried to order some keyshe Lorraine, and I said, quickie, Lorraine, 0:05:02.000 --> 0:05:03.599 you know I didn't take French in high school, Like 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:04.200 excuse me. 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:05.440 Yeah, well, you're. 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:07.279 Also clashing with a batchy ball in the Germans. 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:11.200 Don't want to be elitist by being able to say, Keisha, 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:14.040 it's a. 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:15.320 Tough wor what was her reaction? 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:16.960 She totally laughed it off. 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:19.600 It was a little embarrassing, but after that, like I 0:05:19.640 --> 0:05:21.520 think you kind of lightened the mood a little bit. 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:25.360 And from there, especially if you can be self deprecating 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:27.160 about it, you know what I mean, Like it could 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:29.840 almost even turn into like your inside joke together. 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:32.560 Yeah, the next thing, I speak German and then you. 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:33.280 Just ruin it. 0:05:33.480 --> 0:05:35.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:36.839 So we actually like kissed at the end of the day, 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:40.200 So that was nice. And she was the one who 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:43.480 texted me that night saying that she got home safe 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:43.880 and that. 0:05:44.000 --> 0:05:47.240 She certain wait to see me. So whoa Like, it 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:48.479 seems super clear, right. 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:50.120 Are you sure you didn't read that wrong too? 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:51.799 There's no way. 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:54.640 I was in English? 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:55.960 I think. 0:05:56.480 --> 0:06:00.400 Okay, so you've you've had a solid first date. You 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:02.400 kissed her at the end of it, she's the one 0:06:02.520 --> 0:06:04.440 saying I can't wait to hang out again. 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:05.640 And how long has it been? 0:06:06.120 --> 0:06:08.000 It's been like ten days or so. 0:06:08.480 --> 0:06:10.839 Well, something must have happened in her life, Like I 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:12.760 already have a feeling this is not your fault. 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:15.640 Oh, I could see that where I don't know, maybe 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:17.839 work got crazy or there's a family emergency. 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:21.200 She kindled something and was just oh yeah, but what's 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:23.560 happened in those ten days? That's a long time. Have 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:25.279 you asked her like what have you done? 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:25.680 Yeah? 0:06:25.680 --> 0:06:27.600 I mean there was one time where I thought one 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:29.600 date was gonna work, but then she asked about a 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:30.560 different date, So. 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:33.800 I don't know, See, a hot bosball player came into. 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:39.120 Her work, might be okay, Well, we can reach out 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:41.240 to Harper for you and see if she agrees to 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:43.920 going out with you one more time. If not, then 0:06:44.040 --> 0:06:46.640 you might have a backup often because Brooke and her husband. 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:47.320 You know, but. 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:50.200 Jeffy is not online. 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:51.240 Oh that's right. 0:06:51.480 --> 0:06:53.840 Yeah, we only like the online one. 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:57.560 Able to keep some distance. Yeah, sorry, but you know what, 0:06:57.680 --> 0:06:59.600 We'll work on Harper first and try and get you 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:04.039 your second date update. Right after this second date update, 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:07.440 we're in the middle of a second date update with 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:12.560 our listener, Jordie. And Jordie likes cute waitresses at German 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:17.600 baci ball bars. He likes to mispronounce Keish Lorraine just 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:19.480 to seem vulnerable and flawed. 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:21.520 How did he say something? 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:25.240 Yeah, he said, you said quickly? What did you say, Jordie? 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:33.679 I said, And he really likes to receive texts saying 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:37.040 I can't wait to see you again, because that's exactly 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:39.520 what is dade, Harper said to him after they went out. 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:43.120 So why is she not jumping at the chance to 0:07:43.240 --> 0:07:43.960 hang out again? 0:07:44.200 --> 0:07:46.360 Yeah, she's the one that said she wanted to Jordy. 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:49.360 You think there's another guy who mispronounces French words even 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:51.680 worse than you do. Maybe that's her thing? 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:53.200 Yeah, maybe. 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:57.160 Yeah, he tried to order me a quabarnet gone. Oh, 0:07:57.520 --> 0:07:58.880 Oh yeah, that's hot. 0:07:58.960 --> 0:07:59.200 Yeah. 0:08:00.640 --> 0:08:04.680 I don't even know how you have mispronounced. 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:05.960 So much pronounced. 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:08.800 I mean, look, Harper is a really cute waitress. 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:12.240 She probably has a lot of guys asking her out. 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:15.000 Oh my god, I bet she's saying no fifty times 0:08:15.000 --> 0:08:16.240 a day, every other table. 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:16.960 It's so annoying. 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:19.000 But that's why you're so special is that she said 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:20.320 yes to you and you guys had. 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:23.000 A great day issue she said you yeah. 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:25.360 But like, look, guys, if that's it, if that's the 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:28.400 thing where she has another guy, like, just convince her 0:08:28.440 --> 0:08:32.160 that I'm a good guy. 0:08:32.600 --> 0:08:34.720 You know what, in the five minutes so we've spent 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:35.240 with you. 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:38.720 Totally will vouch for you. Thank you, You're welcome like 0:08:38.760 --> 0:08:39.320 a good guy. 0:08:39.480 --> 0:08:42.160 I honestly not even kidding. Yeah, a lot of good 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:47.440 guys insist how good they are. So we're just gonna 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:49.199 trust you on that, and we're gonna call Harper. Let's 0:08:49.200 --> 0:08:51.719 see if she answers. Okay, all right, I don't know you. 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:54.880 I mean you seem nice from a little bit be spoken. Okay, 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:56.960 you just stay where you're at, though, buddy, we don't 0:08:56.960 --> 0:08:57.280 know you that. 0:08:57.440 --> 0:08:59.400 Let's get her on the phone. 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:10.320 Hello, Hey, is this Harper. 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:11.960 Yeah, who's calling? 0:09:12.360 --> 0:09:14.800 We're a radio show calling called Brook and Jeffrey in 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:18.240 the morning. Good morning, Hi Harper. That half of the 0:09:18.280 --> 0:09:20.400 room isn't very excited to talk to you, obviously, but 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:21.800 I don't think she talked to us. 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:24.240 This half of the room, I just don't want to 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:26.559 come into jeff what are you calling for? 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:26.920 See? 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:29.440 Yeah, we're working. This is this is something we do 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:32.120 call the second Date Update. And one of our listeners 0:09:32.200 --> 0:09:36.719 named Jordi, asked us to reach out to you. 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:37.760 Were you going anything else? 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:41.880 I said, what do you want me to say? 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:42.640 You remember? 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:46.320 Okay, We're just trying to help him out because according 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:48.920 to Jeordi, he says he's been putting in a lot 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:51.000 of effort trying to figure out a good time that 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:54.319 would work for you to meet up, just because he 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:56.000 felt like you guys bonded connected. 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:58.280 Is it just something where the schedules aren't aligning. 0:09:59.400 --> 0:10:03.440 No, there was just like a lot of effort. That's 0:10:03.679 --> 0:10:06.040 kind of a problem too much. 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:08.440 What do you mean, Yeah, can you elaborate? 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:12.120 I mean, like on the surface, when I met him, 0:10:12.200 --> 0:10:15.280 like I was working and then we went and hung 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:16.120 out and like he. 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:18.400 Was a good guy and well, that's not like what 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:19.280 I was looking for. 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:21.520 Yeah, like he's what you were looking for. 0:10:21.679 --> 0:10:25.640 I mean, like I thought, so okay, so what changed? 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:29.720 So we hung out and it It wasn't until after 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:34.280 that I realized something was off. What Like I had 0:10:34.360 --> 0:10:35.960 every intention to go out again. 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:39.520 Okay, okay, what's the problem. Is it something about him? 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:40.960 Yeah? 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:44.240 He gave me three options to hang out, all in 0:10:44.280 --> 0:10:47.120 a row, like Friday, Saturday, Sunday. 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:48.800 Like, why is he so available? 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:50.280 Wait? 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:51.000 What do you hold on? 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:53.080 Did he want a three day date or he was 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:54.959 just like pick a day and we can do that one. 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:57.880 No, he was like, these are all the days that 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:01.040 I'm available, And I have to believe me and my 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:05.280 friends do that. There's a guy between the age twenty 0:11:05.280 --> 0:11:08.560 four and thirty two ish. If they have that much 0:11:08.600 --> 0:11:11.240 time to hang out, it really means that he's a loser. 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:16.840 Oh oh wait wait a loser ikes Wow, you're calling 0:11:16.920 --> 0:11:20.240 him a loser because he gave you multiple options of 0:11:20.280 --> 0:11:23.719 times where he wants to hang out because he likes you. 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:27.840 Yeah, because like they're all in a row, and it's like, okay, 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:32.080 he should be grinding away planning for his future. Wait, 0:11:32.720 --> 0:11:36.320 maybe not working or like working on a promotion or 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:37.240 getting somewhere. 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:40.720 He may maybe he is like, in my mind, you're 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:42.920 a waitress, so he's probably just trying to give you 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:46.960 options because it's probably hard to align schedules, Like he 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:48.920 probably figures you work on the weekends. 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:51.560 I mean that sounds like an excuse he'd use. 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:55.320 I guess, well, it sounds like he's doing it for you, 0:11:55.360 --> 0:11:57.800 because nowadays we hear from a lot of women who 0:11:57.840 --> 0:12:00.400 tell us guys don't put in enough effort, they want 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:02.040 the easy thing, they don't really care. 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:05.080 Jordy sounds like the total opposite, Like he's willing to 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:07.840 do whatever just to see you make. 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:09.880 Plans the other days that you say you can't. 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:12.160 Yeah, but he didn't say that. He was like, I'm 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:14.520 wide open, and I'm like, well, what else are you 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:16.880 doing with your life? Just pursuing me? 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:23.240 Okay, Okay, Sadly this makes sense, but doesn't mean we 0:12:23.320 --> 0:12:24.360 agree with it. 0:12:24.480 --> 0:12:26.400 I don't know that it does make sense to me. 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:27.960 He's not a loser. 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:31.199 Like you liked him. You liked everything about him. You 0:12:31.280 --> 0:12:35.120 said that he checked all your boxes basically. 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:38.880 Yeah, I mean he did. He actually had decent hygiene, which. 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:43.680 See Okay, but but he's too available for you. 0:12:43.720 --> 0:12:45.320 Maybe that's why it's hygiene is so good. He has 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:47.560 got time for it. I mean again, you don't whatt 0:12:47.559 --> 0:12:48.199 a dcentone. 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:50.240 Who wants to hang out every single day sometimes like 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:51.200 they need to have a life. 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:52.720 Well sure, oh god. 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:56.520 And especially in the beginning getting to know who they are, 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:58.760 and it just seems like he's just wide open to 0:12:58.840 --> 0:13:01.920 do whatever. Okay, we're trying to build who we are 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:02.679 as people. 0:13:03.360 --> 0:13:07.280 What would you want his response to be when you say, hey, 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:08.720 I can't wait to see you again. 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:10.400 What should he have written. 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:10.480 Back to you. 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:12.640 He shouldn't have. He should have just let me hang 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:13.079 for a bit. 0:13:14.920 --> 0:13:16.160 That was a red flag. 0:13:16.200 --> 0:13:18.360 Okay, well it was cutting like a game. 0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:21.000 I don't I don't want to tell you this because 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:23.880 it's not that he's like super available to talk to 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:25.960 you any That's not what this is. 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:28.120 He was so busy. It's like we had to call 0:13:28.200 --> 0:13:29.240 him so many times. 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:32.800 Just in the middle of his extremely hectic day. He's 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:34.400 taken a little bit of time to jump on the 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:37.600 phone right now to talk to you because Jordie's there. 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:42.160 Hey, Harper, Oh so you've been on the phone. 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:45.760 Just a little bit like barely. 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:47.800 I heard you call me a loser who has too 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:48.839 much time on his hands. 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:52.280 Well, yeah, they asked me to be honest, and I 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:52.880 was honest. 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:54.080 She didn't ask me what. 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:57.959 I mean. That's what Jordie wanted. 0:13:58.000 --> 0:14:01.520 He wanted to know you think I'm a loser because 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:03.439 I want to go out a second time? Like that 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:04.720 part doesn't make any sense. 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:09.160 It's just it's just a little red flaggy to be 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:11.640 able to hang out three nights in a row, and like, 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:14.679 my perfect guy would never do that. He shouldn't have 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:15.960 all the time in the world for me. 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:21.840 You know, I'm sorry, my perfect guy shouldn't have all the. 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:23.640 To be totally clear, I didn't want to hang out 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:25.520 with you three nights, and I gave you three options. 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.520 Okay, you're just being a little way too chill at 0:14:28.520 --> 0:14:30.640 this time in your life. You know. Now the time 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:32.840 is to work hard and we're going to chill later. 0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:33.520 Yeah. 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:36.600 Well, well, your servant Stein's in a German bar like. 0:14:36.600 --> 0:14:42.680 That means she probably makes more than I do here. 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:43.080 Yeah. 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:46.480 Well, it's just like, what are you doing to do 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:47.200 the same thing. 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:49.000 Well, you don't even know me, so how about you 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:49.680 shut your mouth? 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:53.280 Yeah, your mouth? Who are you complaining about the people 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:54.240 bringing you alcohol? 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:57.720 I think being a server is a great job. 0:14:57.760 --> 0:15:00.400 But she's like expecting him to like do all these 0:15:00.400 --> 0:15:03.800 big great things, like what are you doing to plan 0:15:03.920 --> 0:15:04.720 for your future? 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:07.360 You stay in your lane and keep not tipping people after. 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:13.480 I just like, I hate when people do that. 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:16.240 This is about Jordie. Jordie, she's concerned that you're too 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:18.600 free and you're too available. Prove to her that that's 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:21.880 not true. And how much you got going on? 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:23.120 You don't want to date? 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:24.880 Yeah, I mean it sounds like that would be more 0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:26.800 attractive to you. I mean, I just don't erstand why 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:27.760 you want to play these games. 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:29.960 Like we met in real life. I thought you were 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:30.600 a good person. 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:33.560 Okay, that's actually a point. I mean, how busy are 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:34.200 you right now? 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:36.720 I mean I'm kind of busy. I'm not totally busy. 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:37.080 I mean. 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:41.760 He's super busy, right slam? 0:15:41.800 --> 0:15:44.240 Okay, Like, look, I'm looking to get busier. 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:52.960 All right, God, sounds like a nice guy. 0:15:53.280 --> 0:15:55.920 That's what she wants. She doesn't want that, but you 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:57.040 did want it that night. 0:15:57.400 --> 0:15:59.720 Look, look, Harper, let's rewind. Pretend I didn't call you 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:00.400 for the week. 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:03.760 Are you turned on now weeks. 0:16:03.840 --> 0:16:08.479 It's only been ten days imagining. 0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:12.320 I mean, the reality is you sent me a lot 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:14.560 of freaking texts with like a lot of freaking dates, 0:16:14.560 --> 0:16:16.600 and now you have me on a radio show. 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:21.400 It does look bad. It's pretty bad. You know what 0:16:21.440 --> 0:16:23.480 the thing is, We made him do it. Yeah, we 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:25.000 got all the time in the world. He didn't even 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:27.120 want to be here, he didn't have time to know, 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:30.080 but he was kind enough to take a little bit 0:16:30.080 --> 0:16:31.880 of time out to do this with us, just so 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:34.080 that I could ask you if you would like to 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:36.600 see Jordi one more time, and we would pay for 0:16:36.640 --> 0:16:39.760 that date. I don't even know if he's free. Honestly, Jordy, 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:40.600 are you even free? 0:16:41.560 --> 0:16:43.280 Not anymore? I'm all booked up. 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:49.880 I'm sorry. She's like, so, I'll see you next weekend. 0:16:50.880 --> 0:16:52.960 I mean, I'm not really into these games that he's 0:16:52.960 --> 0:16:56.560 playing with me, and I'm not going to follow. 0:16:57.560 --> 0:16:59.680 Sweetie. 0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:03.400