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Speaker 1: Jewels Second dat up dates. We get a lot of
Speaker 1: emails in for the second date update that describe people
Speaker 1: going on some pretty strange dates. And normally they sound
Speaker 1: terrible to me. I always think that they're really bad ideas,
Speaker 1: and today's is one of those. But it actually sounds
Speaker 1: really cool to me. Okay, it's probably super weird. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's they went to a cemetery. For some people, they
Speaker 1: might feel like it's a cemetery. They went to an airport.
Speaker 1: They weren't flying anywhere, but they went to the airport
Speaker 1: for their dates. We get into the good restaurants if
Speaker 1: you don't have a ticket. We'll get in to what
Speaker 1: specifically they did at the airport in just a second,
Speaker 1: But first I want to find out more about the
Speaker 1: dude she went out with. Her name's Hillary, Hillary, what's up? Hi?
Speaker 1: Not too bad? This sounds so weird. Was it airport date?
Speaker 1: Your idea or his idea? I kind of came out
Speaker 1: between the both of us. Organically, we'll get to the
Speaker 1: date in just a second because it's weird. But anyway,
Speaker 1: the dude that you want to call to day, what's
Speaker 1: his name? His name is Rob? Yeah, it sounded Rob. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know. My name is Jewel. I can't judge
Speaker 1: somebody of their name's wob, so I thought that's what
Speaker 1: his name was. How'd you meet Rob? I met Rob
Speaker 1: online on all my dating sites. Okay, And what struck
Speaker 1: you about him? Well, we had been talking for gosh
Speaker 1: about like four weeks online and through that, like, he
Speaker 1: has a really sarcastic sense of humor, and so do I.
Speaker 1: So we were just able to kind of have a
Speaker 1: good time going back and force and chatted for like
Speaker 1: four weeks is a long time before you actually go out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, you want to kind of take your time
Speaker 1: getting to know somebody before you kind of meet in person.
Speaker 1: Plus I'm a single mom, so that's something that I
Speaker 1: just I'm very cautious about before you meet somebody person. Well,
Speaker 1: and you have like one day available in the next
Speaker 1: six months to actually probably hang out, right right, Okay,
Speaker 1: So you guys finally connected and now I want to
Speaker 1: hear about your date, So you know, kind of we're
Speaker 1: going back and forth, and we were a little bit
Speaker 1: bored with just the typical coffee date or dinner date
Speaker 1: because it's kind of an interview style, and we had
Speaker 1: already got to know a lot about each other beforehand,
Speaker 1: so we thought it would be cool just to meet
Speaker 1: us airport and people watch and make up stories about
Speaker 1: them and their life and where they were going and
Speaker 1: where they were coming from. So, okay, I love it.
Speaker 1: So you went to the airport to judge people a
Speaker 1: little bit? Yeah, okay, a look at it. I'm in
Speaker 1: airports all time. I love the airport for that specific
Speaker 1: reason because there's so many different stories in there and
Speaker 1: you don't know where people are going, and I like
Speaker 1: to make up things in my head too. I'd be
Speaker 1: fun to do it with somebody else, though. Yeah. And
Speaker 1: we went specifically to the arrivals gate. So there was
Speaker 1: like a girl there there was holding up a sign
Speaker 1: chancing her boyfriend and with a story we made was
Speaker 1: that she hadn't seen her boyfriend in like six months,
Speaker 1: so she was all dressed up and had this sign.
Speaker 1: He had like a home cooked dinner. Oh that's so dude. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we were there because we wanted to see like the
Speaker 1: people that were happy to see people coming, people that
Speaker 1: were frustrated where were they were going? Yeah, pissed off
Speaker 1: people walking out of the airport. So wait, how was
Speaker 1: your time with him though? Did you get to know
Speaker 1: him better through this process? I did a little bit,
Speaker 1: you know, obviously seeing so many in person and like
Speaker 1: enjoying their mannerisms as you don't have that opportunity over
Speaker 1: the phone. So that was cool. He looked like his pictures.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it was fun. It was fun to see
Speaker 1: like how I felt or being around him first, and
Speaker 1: I started to get a little giddy and like girl
Speaker 1: and like like hitting him in the arm. So I
Speaker 1: was like, why am I hitting this guy? I feel
Speaker 1: like going, God, I'm in They're great all over again. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: we had a really great time, but there was kind
Speaker 1: of like an awkward thing that he said. But what
Speaker 1: did he say? Well, there is this guy who it
Speaker 1: was pretty clear he was a bodybuilder, Like this huge
Speaker 1: hunk of a man that came through and rob lean
Speaker 1: to me and he was like, oh, I bet that
Speaker 1: guy's you know, coming into town to cheat on his
Speaker 1: wife and he's looking for his mistress right now. And
Speaker 1: it threw me off because I had shared with him
Speaker 1: that one of my exes is a bodybuilder who had
Speaker 1: cheated on me. Oh so before he made that comparison, yeah,
Speaker 1: like in passing. I mean we hadn't gone through like
Speaker 1: the details of the depths of our past relationships, but
Speaker 1: I had said it in passing. I feel like that's
Speaker 1: kind of rude. I don't know if he was like
Speaker 1: making that his passing was kind of like a remember
Speaker 1: or if he just completely spaced and just said it
Speaker 1: like on his own. What did he say? What was
Speaker 1: his response? Was he embarrassed? He was embarrassed? I mean
Speaker 1: we had a great rest of the time. We kind
Speaker 1: of it was a little awkward moment. Like so in
Speaker 1: my head, I'm thinking, maybe he's comparing himself to that
Speaker 1: guy we saw at the airport because they looked totally different. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but we hate that guy he cheated on you, Right,
Speaker 1: we hate him, don't. We don't like him at all.
Speaker 1: But if he had a really great body Okay, I see,
Speaker 1: I know if I was robbed the dude you were
Speaker 1: on a date with and I made a comparison like that,
Speaker 1: I would have been sitting there awkwardly because I would
Speaker 1: have felt bad. I'd be like, damn, I didn't mean
Speaker 1: to bring that up. Yeah, it definitely was a little awkward,
Speaker 1: but I felt like we got background track, Like later
Speaker 1: on we left the airport, we got some drinks. After drinks,
Speaker 1: we shared some smooching. It's also so positive. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: so afterwards we've had a phone call and we've texted
Speaker 1: a little bit, and I feel like he's kind of
Speaker 1: pulling away, which is fine because we're not, you know,
Speaker 1: in this committed relationship. But if you like somebody and
Speaker 1: you kind of want to spend more time with them,
Speaker 1: I would think that you would put a little bit
Speaker 1: more aftward and see them more than just once in person.
Speaker 1: So you think he's blowing you off? Yes, I think
Speaker 1: he is blowing me off. Okay, well we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back and call him to get your second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, okay, hang on rooking Juble in the morning.
Speaker 1: Second updates. Hello, ladies and gentlemen speaking, we're about to
Speaker 1: embark on a second third Okay. I just want to
Speaker 1: let you know things could get a little bumpy and
Speaker 1: we might experienced some turbulence, so we encourage you to
Speaker 1: keep your seatbelt on through the whole flight, even if
Speaker 1: the Farne is illuminated. Also never flown a plane before,
Speaker 1: so we're probably gonna crash. And Dog, what did you
Speaker 1: just say? Probably gonna crash? And because I've never thought, Dan,
Speaker 1: why did I introduce the second part of today's second
Speaker 1: and update like that? Well, it's because Hillary is on
Speaker 1: the phone and she went on a date with a
Speaker 1: dude named Rob and their first date was to the airport.
Speaker 1: They actually met up online, went to the airport to
Speaker 1: sit there while people were arriving, and then they had
Speaker 1: fun talking about people and making up stories of why
Speaker 1: they were coming into town. And she said it was great,
Speaker 1: except there was an awkward moment when some big, buff
Speaker 1: bodybuilder dude walked off and Rob, her date, was like,
Speaker 1: I bet you he's getting into town to see his
Speaker 1: mistress to cheat on his wife. And it seems like
Speaker 1: Rob may have forgotten that Hillary actually had something like
Speaker 1: that happened to her. And then it was all awkward
Speaker 1: after he brought that up for a little bit, and
Speaker 1: Hillary's not sure if he was just feeling bad or what. Anyway,
Speaker 1: they text him back and forth a little bit, and
Speaker 1: now he's not really getting back to her. So we're
Speaker 1: about to call him and find out why. I mean,
Speaker 1: you said you're a single mom. He knew that going
Speaker 1: into the date, right. Oh yeah, that's not anything that
Speaker 1: I hit that was on my profile. We talked about it.
Speaker 1: Something else that could have shocked him. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's hard to find good guys out there
Speaker 1: and connect with So it's totally blow my mind because
Speaker 1: there was a spark. I just don't I don't know
Speaker 1: what's going on. Right. Well, see, we get him on
Speaker 1: the phone and maybe get that spark to grow into
Speaker 1: a big, huge flame again. So weird when you say
Speaker 1: things like oxygen helps fire. So I'm gonna blow on
Speaker 1: his spark a little bit as anything. Right, Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: dyaling this phone right now. Hillary, Thank you. Hello. Hi
Speaker 1: is this Rob? Yeah? This is Rob who says this
Speaker 1: is Jewel from the radio show Brook and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the Morning. I'm not interested. You're trying to tell me
Speaker 1: something or No, I promise you I'm not trying to
Speaker 1: sell you anything. I'm calling from a radio show. Why
Speaker 1: are you calling me? Because we do a segment on
Speaker 1: our show it's called the second Date Update, And you
Speaker 1: went out with a woman named Hillary recently. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: what a positive response, Rob. Hillary emailed us and told
Speaker 1: us about your date, and we said that we would
Speaker 1: try to figure out what happened. Do you have a
Speaker 1: minute to talk about that? I guess so. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: she said you've texted a little bit and you've talked
Speaker 1: a little bit on the phone. Are you blowing her off?
Speaker 1: I mean, I, um, yeah, I guess so I say this,
Speaker 1: but yes I am. It sounds like I mean, from
Speaker 1: her description, you guys had a lovely time and a
Speaker 1: great connection we did. I mean, Hillary's uh, she's a
Speaker 1: really cool lady and I like spending time with her
Speaker 1: that day. I just don't really see a future with
Speaker 1: us though. Can you tell us why she really wants
Speaker 1: to know? I mean, I don't want to hurt her feelings.
Speaker 1: You know, this isn't probably the best place to you know,
Speaker 1: get into that. Yeah, but it's the place she chose
Speaker 1: to do it. Before anybody does a second day update,
Speaker 1: we always tell them they might hear something they don't
Speaker 1: want to hear. Yeah, and she sounds like a really strong,
Speaker 1: confident woman. I mean, even if you do hurt her feelings,
Speaker 1: I don't think you're going to destroy her or anything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she no, she is, You're right, Um, Okay, every time
Speaker 1: we've been in contact, you know, it hasn't been so good.
Speaker 1: Like every time. What does that mean? So we met
Speaker 1: on our date, she brought a box of Girl Scout
Speaker 1: cookies because she has a daughter who is selling them.
Speaker 1: And so I'm like, yeah, okay, and I bought a box.
Speaker 1: I don't okay, but like every time we've talked, like
Speaker 1: in the phone call and in all the text, like
Speaker 1: she brings up the cookies every time. Do you want
Speaker 1: another box of cookies? You know? Would you like more cookies?
Speaker 1: You know? It's like enough of the cookies. You know,
Speaker 1: she's just trying to sell you Girl Scout cookies. No, stop,
Speaker 1: every time we've talked. So wait, you you already bought
Speaker 1: a box and then she wants you to buy more. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean I've never dated anyone with a kid before.
Speaker 1: But I tell you what, they're in the Girl Scout.
Speaker 1: I mean, so I love kids. It's not been problem.
Speaker 1: They're in the Girl Scouts. I'm not interested. Okay, wait, Rob,
Speaker 1: maybe she's just using it to I don't know, have
Speaker 1: something in common with you, because you obviously enjoyed the
Speaker 1: Girl Scout cookies like a way to like jump start conversation. Listen,
Speaker 1: we've talked on the phone once, and we've texted numerous times,
Speaker 1: and every single time she's bringing up these damn thick
Speaker 1: mints or whatever. The I want to do what they are,
Speaker 1: thin mints, but I wish they had thick mints too,
Speaker 1: Yeah they should. So she's just like a crazy Girl
Speaker 1: Scout mom. Oh well, hey, you know you've called her that.
Speaker 1: I would never call her that. Okay, you said that,
Speaker 1: not me. I'm just saying I don't want any more cookies. Okay, well, Rob,
Speaker 1: we can give her that information because she's actually on
Speaker 1: the other line listening and wants to talk to you. No,
Speaker 1: that's not true. Hey Rob, Hilary, Hey, hey Hilary. Well,
Speaker 1: I didn't know the Girl Scout cookies were such a
Speaker 1: prominent part of our conversations. I'm sorry for that. But
Speaker 1: who doesn't love Girl Scout cookies? So that's by weird.
Speaker 1: I do like any kind of cookies, but I don't
Speaker 1: want boxes and boxes and boxes of them. Okay, okay, wait, wait, wait, first,
Speaker 1: hold on a second. It's only seasonal that these things
Speaker 1: are ever sold. So it's not like this is something
Speaker 1: that you would be buying over and over and over
Speaker 1: and over again. So most people like to buy a
Speaker 1: lot of boxes and put them in the freezer because
Speaker 1: they love them so much, they like want to like
Speaker 1: hoard them throughout the year. We have people that are
Speaker 1: asking us, like, over and over again, you have more
Speaker 1: Girl Scout cookies, and so I kept giving you the
Speaker 1: opportunity if you wanted to buy more. We had more
Speaker 1: before we sold out. I was very aware that you
Speaker 1: had cookies. You know, are you go to your text
Speaker 1: you were like, my daughter's going for the record and
Speaker 1: sales and be great if you bought a whole bunch O. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean they as Girl Scouts. It's a really great
Speaker 1: thing because it promotes leadership or promotes community and self work.
Speaker 1: So that's not thing that we I mean, I want
Speaker 1: to support that. But yeah, there's prizes if you're the
Speaker 1: top seller and you're true. And I just didn't know
Speaker 1: that you hated the Girl Scouts. I don't hate the
Speaker 1: Girl Scouts. You said that. I never said that. But
Speaker 1: you bought one box. I mean, who buys one box
Speaker 1: the Girl Scouts? Somebody who only wants one box. That's
Speaker 1: ridiculous logic. I think you have to buy ten at
Speaker 1: least every time, at least got me wanting to buy
Speaker 1: cookies right now. You are a good saleswoman, Hillary. I
Speaker 1: literally have like three more boxes last if you want them, like,
Speaker 1: let me know and I can get it. Let's do
Speaker 1: that later. It let's focused on trying to get another
Speaker 1: date with Rob. Hillary Row. I feel like you haven't
Speaker 1: given the cookies a fair shot. Hillary, and Hillary, are
Speaker 1: you still interested in going out with Rob again? You know,
Speaker 1: I'm told because I feel like, if it really was
Speaker 1: the cookies, why didn't he say something about that ahead
Speaker 1: of time? Because literally now I feel like an idiot
Speaker 1: that have been going on and on about these cookies.
Speaker 1: But you guys, realize, if you would have met outside
Speaker 1: of Girl Scout Cookie season, none of this would have
Speaker 1: been an issue, and you would be on a second
Speaker 1: date already, maybe a third or a fourth by this time, exactly.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, So you know, Girl Scouts season comes
Speaker 1: around again and then I'm I'm hanging out with you know,
Speaker 1: a car sales and trying to make quote. Wait, but
Speaker 1: then we would have been together for a whole year
Speaker 1: and you would have fallen in love with me and
Speaker 1: fallen in love with the Girl Scouts and understood what
Speaker 1: this is all about. You would have been peddaling cookies too,
Speaker 1: is what she's saying. You may one year and you're
Speaker 1: gonna be hawking those things like nobody's business. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe you guys are right. Maybe I'm missing something. I
Speaker 1: have no idea. Okay, well, Rob, do you want to
Speaker 1: try to find out? Would you like to go on
Speaker 1: a second date with Hillary? We'll pay for it, geez,
Speaker 1: you know, Hillary, we we gotta. I'm really great in
Speaker 1: our date. And how about when Girl Scout Cookie season ends,
Speaker 1: we'll get together. Rob. If you can't take me during
Speaker 1: Girl Scout Cookie selling season, I don't think we are
Speaker 1: a fit. You can't handle me at my worst, you
Speaker 1: don't deserve me at my best. I'm kind of with
Speaker 1: you on that one, Hillary, exactly. Wait a second, so
Speaker 1: you call it a radio stations to call me? You
Speaker 1: should see if we'll go out again. And I agreed,
Speaker 1: even with the damn Girl Scout cookies, and you said
Speaker 1: no because Girl Scouts for a light like you can't
Speaker 1: just cut that off during a season. And the fact
Speaker 1: that it was this big of a deal to you, Like,
Speaker 1: I can't move forward with that. Oh what am I
Speaker 1: supposed to tell my daughter about you? That you don't
Speaker 1: support her hopes and dreams? Wow, I bought a box
Speaker 1: of cookies. I bought abouts of cookie so I did
Speaker 1: bought one box. Rob nobody has that. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: know exactly what has happened, but yeah, we won't go out.
Speaker 1: That's fine. I don't care. Okay, Well, Hillary, I'm sorry
Speaker 1: you didn't get a second date, but at least you
Speaker 1: know why now. Yeah, I mean that's that's fine. Whatever.
Speaker 1: But from what we were talking about earlier, I do
Speaker 1: still have those three boxes. If anybody just email us,
Speaker 1: we'll see if we can get those three boxes a
Speaker 1: broken juicil in the morning, let me