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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Here we go, Shannon in Toledo. Rites, My

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Speaker 1: husband went to stay with his brother a month ago

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Speaker 1: because I kept nagging him about drinking alcohol. He started

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Speaker 1: drinking through the week and it made him mean and ornery,

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Speaker 1: so I removed it from the house. Did he leave

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Speaker 1: because of the alcohol or because I tried to manipulate

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Speaker 1: the situation? Will it come back?

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Speaker 2: Well? Both of us both.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he loved for both reasons. The alcohol and you

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Speaker 3: try to manipulate the situation. You got it on the head. Well,

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Speaker 3: what's the problem.

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Speaker 2: You already know what happened? Yeah, you know what. You

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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Please, the us got a problem, and the problem is

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Speaker 3: bigger then he can hell it. So now he went

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Speaker 3: over his brother's house because his brother over there day,

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Speaker 3: both of them.

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Speaker 2: Drinking drinking together.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, gonna tell him what to do, and they talking

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Speaker 3: about you. They got the game on. They fall asleep

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Speaker 3: on the couch. He had his brother. How so bro

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Speaker 3: going in here? Yeah, I'm being here. See, don't nobody

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Speaker 3: never ask your brother? Will ask him? Why don't you

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Speaker 3: get up off the couch and come and get into bed.

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Speaker 3: Her brother, don't say that right on that couch.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why do you drink so much? He don't. He

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Speaker 2: don't throw nothing. What I'm drinking so much because I'm thirsty?

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Speaker 1: Brother never as so? Is he gonna come back?

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Speaker 2: She wants to know.

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Speaker 1: Shannon wants to know, is he coming back?

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Speaker 2: Do you want the alcoholic back?

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Speaker 3: Find out? Man got some help.

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Speaker 2: You need to get some help, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Beverly and Detroit. Beverly says, I'm dating

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Speaker 1: a man that I knew I was dating a lady

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Speaker 1: when he met me. We have all shared a bed

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Speaker 1: numerous times, and she decided she didn't want to share

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Speaker 1: me with him, so she moved on. I just found

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Speaker 1: out that they moved on without me, and they've been

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Speaker 1: messing around.

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Speaker 2: He says, it's all my fault. How is it my fault?

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Speaker 3: Because when he started seeing you, you introduced him to her.

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Speaker 2: You can't share a bed. We can't share a bed

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Speaker 2: unless you let us. You let us. You ruined me.

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Speaker 2: I was fine.

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Speaker 3: Now you don't introduce me to her, and now guess what.

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Speaker 3: I like her.

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Speaker 2: She's my boo. I'll see what you see? You know what?

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Speaker 2: You're right?

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Speaker 3: What and see y'all, y'all kill me. People get themselves

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Speaker 3: in these situations. That's not normal. And then all of

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Speaker 3: a sudden, you want to situation you be you be

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Speaker 3: stunned when you had these abnormal results?

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Speaker 2: How can he and her go move on? All three

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Speaker 2: of y'all were together.

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Speaker 3: He made a decision, obviously her better than him. She

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Speaker 3: told you she didn't want to share you no more,

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Speaker 3: so she moved on. He said, I don't want to share.

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Speaker 2: You no more. He moved on, Why you leave?

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to share her while you leave, I

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Speaker 3: ain't want to share what you want to do lest

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Speaker 3: she don't want another sharing, carrying situation, sharing, carrying, sharing

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Speaker 3: and carrying.

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Speaker 1: So that's how it's your fault, okay, all right? Moving

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Speaker 1: on to Jamila and Fort Lauderdale, Jamila writes, I let

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Speaker 1: my sister and her husband put a bunch of meat

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Speaker 1: in our deep freezer temporarily, and during the storm, we

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Speaker 1: had a power outage and the meat spoiled. They expect

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Speaker 1: they expect us to pay them back for the meat

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Speaker 1: because we got an insurance check for other damages. Do

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Speaker 1: we owe them any money for their meat?

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Speaker 2: Wow, there's some black folks right now? Meat? God? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: shared meat, so.

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Speaker 3: Y'all got an insurance. That's the problem. You not only

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Speaker 3: shared your deep freezer, you shared the information that you

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Speaker 3: all got a check.

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Speaker 1: Yep, she said for other stuff.

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Speaker 2: You need to replace our meat that active nature.

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Speaker 3: And here go your meat that's cold, that's good, got

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Speaker 3: messed up in the store. But how you all exp

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Speaker 3: specting somebody to replace yo?

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Speaker 2: The meat the nasty oxtails you want.

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Speaker 3: To sitting up in here, you know, froze up on

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Speaker 3: the roll.

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Speaker 2: Now you want us.

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Speaker 3: To pay half a chicken in there and some dressing

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Speaker 3: from last Thanksgiving? You want us to We ain't doing that,

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Speaker 3: see you whyt y'all get your own. Let me ask

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Speaker 3: y'all something, I'm gonna do. A freezer costs, you know,

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Speaker 3: the one put it in the garage three dollars for

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Speaker 3: wanting to go in the garage. Uh yeah, Now y'all

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Speaker 3: want to get repaid. The only reason you asked for

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Speaker 3: the money back because you know they got insurance checked

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Speaker 3: replacement day.

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Speaker 2: They did not claim y'all's meat.

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Speaker 3: I have not seen or I have never seen an

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Speaker 3: insurance policy with frozen.

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Speaker 2: Me in it.

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Speaker 3: That's right, Steve we can't know what you had in

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Speaker 3: your freezer.

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Speaker 2: Now the freezer?

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Speaker 3: Do we not replacing ketch up and all that.

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Speaker 2: You have in there?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: Some meat?

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Speaker 3: Ain't nobody that's gonna break the family up. I'm telling

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Speaker 3: you that well by the family broke all right, the

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Speaker 3: whole refrigerator floating down the street, and you won't pay

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Speaker 3: you for the meat that was in it, right, all right?

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Speaker 1: Lest One Moving on to a Kayla and East Saint Louis.

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Speaker 1: Kayla says, my husband and I are hosting Christmas dinner

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Speaker 1: for his mother and her new boyfriend. My husband doesn't

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Speaker 1: like the boyfriend because he's arrogant and likes to brag.

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Speaker 1: I think he's intriguing and my husband is probably just jealous.

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Speaker 1: How do I change my husband's perspective before he ruins

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Speaker 1: Chris Smith's.

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Speaker 3: He don't like the dude dating his mama. That's what

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Speaker 3: it is, that's all this is he what he do? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What he bragged him out?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You know, boy, I hear your mama. We nothing.

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Speaker 3: Boy.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. When I'm in there with

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Speaker 2: your mama.

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Speaker 3: Christmas Christmas, yeahuldn't have forgot all about your daddy. Your

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Speaker 3: daddy who okay that sounds whip.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: All right, Celo, thank you, you're listening

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Speaker 2: Hard Morning show