1 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:10,719 Speaker 1: Welcome back everybody to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. We're 2 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: so excited to be back. Thank you again for joining us. Kathy, 3 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 1: how are you? 4 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, so fabulous. It's summertime in Austin, Texas. 5 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: I mean, what could what could go wrong? 6 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 3: Nothing? 7 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:26,279 Speaker 2: Anyway, be sure to check out our latest episodes. We 8 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 2: have been having so much fun answering your questions. We've 9 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 2: had some fabulous guests on, so you don't want to 10 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:34,959 Speaker 2: miss even one. 11 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 1: And today we have a very very special guest. This 12 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: guest is so dear to both of our hearts. Kathy, 13 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 1: please welcome from Joey Season our one and only Rachel 14 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 1: nance Hi, Rachel, welcome back to Golden Hour. 15 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 4: Oh I was so happy to be back. 16 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 5: How are you? 17 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 3: You look absolutely gorgeous. 18 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 4: I just have to. 19 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 3: Something disagree with something's agree with you. 20 00:00:58,160 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 4: Oh no, I don't know what it is. 21 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa, whoa. Hold your hand up again. 22 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 6: It's not that serious. It's like my nails all the 23 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 6: way off, but it's hanging on, so I just have 24 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 6: it covered. 25 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 4: So what I'm like doing stuff? 26 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 2: I mean, can I just say for you all can't 27 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 2: see her, but Rachel was is and I see you, nurse. 28 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 2: She's got this hand with a splint on it for 29 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 2: a hanging nail. She's got rubber foam splint tape. It 30 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 2: looks like she broke her finger in sixteen paces. 31 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 6: Okay, so when it happened, I didn't get it checked. 32 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 6: I cleaned it myself. I did everything myself. But it 33 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 6: was like course, so don't it so I can just 34 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 6: go along with my life. 35 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 2: And okay, wait, I'm going to ask the stupid question, 36 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 2: why don't we just take the nail off? 37 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 6: Okay, if I showed it to you, it's gross. It's 38 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 6: hanging onto my cuticle bed, so oh pull it off. 39 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 5: So I'm hoping it just it'll eventually come off. 40 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, other than this nail hanging by a thread, 41 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 3: Hell you been. 42 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 4: I've been really good, really really good. What's that? 43 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 3: Pretty small? All about? A really good part? 44 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 5: Something happy? 45 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,639 Speaker 4: Life's life's been really good lately. 46 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 3: Okay, that's a good story. Now tell us the truth. 47 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 7: I think. 48 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 5: I mean, have you met someone? 49 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 6: No, it's I mean, it's not that, it's just like 50 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 6: I I Finally, I think I've I've fully submerged myself 51 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 6: in one of my biggest passions. In life, which I've 52 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 6: I've always done of I've always been a writer, and 53 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 6: I've said I've been taking my time away from nursing. 54 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 6: I've just been deep diving in that and actually enjoying it. 55 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 6: And my really good friend and I we wrote our 56 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 6: first short film. 57 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 3: So we wow, you wrote a film. 58 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 4: Wrote a film, and it's like our baby right now. 59 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 4: So I'm yeah, awesome it is. 60 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:49,920 Speaker 6: I don't want to give the whole long line that 61 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 6: we wrote, but it's a story very dear to me, 62 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 6: and it's something that's happened to me and happened to 63 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 6: my friends as well that a lot of people I 64 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 6: think hush hush nowadays. And it also so kind of 65 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:05,839 Speaker 6: ties into cultural differences of friendships and relationships, and it's 66 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 6: just it's a drama, so it's kind of a gut 67 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,239 Speaker 6: wrenching type of film. 68 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,079 Speaker 1: So once you write this, then you have to take 69 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: it to LASiS for people to want to Yeah. 70 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 7: So I've always written, like like books and films, but 71 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 7: now that I have the time, we're going to submit 72 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 7: it to film festivals. 73 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 4: So that's our was to get. 74 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 3: How long is it? 75 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 7: Is? 76 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:29,079 Speaker 3: It a short? 77 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 4: It's a short, so it's like maybe it's like under 78 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 4: forty minutes. It's kind of what the film. 79 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 3: Wow, Well, maybe it'll be showed at the Austin Film Festival. 80 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 4: I mean that would be a dream. 81 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 2: Or con or con Or Toronto. Toronto has a big 82 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 2: film festival too. 83 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, we're gonna submit it to pretty much 84 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 4: everything and just keep the ball rolling. But it's I've 85 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 4: just been enjoying the process. 86 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: That's super congress. So you're not back into nursing though, 87 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: you're not. 88 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 6: No, since I adopted my and been doing writing, I 89 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 6: haven't had time. 90 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 4: I just like, I don't want to. 91 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 6: Leave him for fourteen hours of the day. I've been 92 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 6: enjoying not having pean poop on me even a while. 93 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 6: So I've been clean. 94 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 4: I've been you know, I'm just I mean. 95 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 3: That that dog, you know, it comes with the dog too, though. 96 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just pick up the poop and stuff. 97 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 3: But update us on the dating life? Are we We're not. 98 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 4: We're We're just still open. Yeah. 99 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 6: I mean, I think I'm just really happy with where 100 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 6: I am right now. I think I've I've found my 101 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 6: place in my feting. 102 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 3: I mean you live in la though, right, Yeah, Well 103 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 3: then why are you in Santa Monica. 104 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 2: I told you we're drilling you here. Come on, there's 105 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 2: somebody off camera there. Would you like to show us? 106 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 2: Who's off camera? 107 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:53,840 Speaker 7: There? 108 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 4: My friend who. 109 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 5: Lives? 110 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 4: Should I grab his arm? 111 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 7: Yes? 112 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 3: You want to see? Yeah, we want to see him. 113 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 3: Let's go friend. 114 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 5: What's his name? 115 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 4: He didn't want We're not going to say that yet. 116 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 2: Okay, Oh yeah, so it is more than friendship. Okay, 117 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 2: I think, Susan, we can safely say we're breaking news, breaking. 118 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 3: News on Golden Hour. 119 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:24,679 Speaker 2: Rachel Nance may may or may not have a friend, 120 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 2: have a friend. 121 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 4: And I love friends. They're just some nice and. 122 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 3: We like dogs too, right dogs? 123 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 4: Yes? 124 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 3: Wow? 125 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 2: So all right, so we're not who do you keep 126 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 2: in touch with? Let's go there, who do you keep 127 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 2: in touch with? From Bachelor Nation? 128 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 6: Leigh and I are obviously tight. Daisy and I are sober, 129 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 6: very tight. I went to Miami swim we and saw 130 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 6: Kelsey her show and she look amazing, look amazing. I 131 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,919 Speaker 6: was like jaw on the floor. I was like, I 132 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 6: get what you yes like that? And I saw ketch 133 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 6: up like Laxie night Talk. Sometimes I think it's hard 134 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 6: because like Daisy's moved to Vegas, you know, all these 135 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 6: girls were kind of moving all over the place, so 136 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 6: we definitely try to stay in touch and just like 137 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 6: face time or so. 138 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,839 Speaker 3: Wait, are you going to be on Paradise then this year? 139 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 4: No, I didn't go, but that's okay. 140 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 3: Ah did I? Oh, please, here we go. You're going 141 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 3: to Nancy? 142 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 4: I thought you. 143 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 3: Did you say Nancy? 144 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 4: An Oh? 145 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 3: I said Nancy. I was like. 146 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 2: Nancy, honnye Kathy actually hot breaking news. 147 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 3: Yes I did. 148 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 4: I knew it. I knew it. 149 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 3: I have a smile on my face too. 150 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 5: Nobody could say anything. 151 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 3: You have to wait, you have to wait. I mean, 152 00:06:58,880 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 3: it's what it is. 153 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 5: So okay, So what exciting projects coming up? 154 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 3: And all? 155 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 5: She just told us. 156 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:09,039 Speaker 3: I mean that's full time, right. 157 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 4: It's well, it's like it's full time. I mean I'm 158 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 4: doing it. I mean we're writing. 159 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 6: From like eight to midnight like every day. So I 160 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 6: mean the writing is done now we're just doing production. 161 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 2: And so I hate to be stupid here, but I'm 162 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 2: going to be When you write a short, then do 163 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 2: you that's the words? 164 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 3: Right? I mean, and then do you film it? And 165 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 3: and so you write it, then you film it and 166 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 3: then you edit it. So it's it's a whole thing, 167 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 3: the whole thing. 168 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:41,239 Speaker 6: It's the outline, the log line, a look book, a script, 169 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 6: a movie, a trailer will be Did. 170 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 3: You go to school? How did you learn how to 171 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 3: do all this? 172 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 4: I'm self taught. I was homeschooled, so I would. 173 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 6: I was always obsessed with film, like Cats in the Roof, 174 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 6: Alfred Hitchcock. I always watched all those films Lapissine French films, 175 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 6: but not an egg the way. But my family was very, 176 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 6: very encouraging on doing the college route to get it, 177 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 6: to get a solid career. Where was that artistic route, 178 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 6: which is nursing school? 179 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 4: So I didn't. 180 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 6: I wasn't really kind of happily brought to you know, 181 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 6: I love my artistic side, which is not a bad thing. 182 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 6: But now I have my nursing degree. If I ever 183 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 6: need to go back, that's what I can. 184 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 2: How do they feel about this new your family? How 185 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 2: do they feel about this new vein? 186 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 4: Oh, they're so happy for me. 187 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 6: They they've known, but they're like, you know they I 188 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 6: think as parents, they're just relieved that you're independent, You're 189 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 6: on your own, like you can. 190 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 4: Whatever happened, you got yourself. You have a bad and 191 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 4: I think that was their concern. 192 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, that's what us parents do. 193 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 4: Rachel, Yeah, yeah, no exactly. 194 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 6: I was like, that's their love language. They didn't grow 195 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 6: up with a lot. They wanted to make sure I 196 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:50,079 Speaker 6: was good regardless. So yeah, they've always done that. I've 197 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 6: enjoyed films, and now that I'm doing it, they'll call 198 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 6: me like are you writing? I'm like, yeah, I'm so sorry. 199 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 6: I just need like an hour, like two more hours, like. 200 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 3: Leave me, So tell me. 201 00:08:57,200 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 2: I want to know, because uh, you know, I I've 202 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 2: always threatened I have the name of my book, I 203 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 2: just have never written it. The name is going to 204 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:09,319 Speaker 2: be run between the Drops, but I have, but I don't. Yeah, 205 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 2: well it's my mother used to say that. Where that 206 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 2: came from was my mother had us walk to school rain, 207 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:19,199 Speaker 2: wind snow, avalanche, whatever, and we'd say it's pouring rain 208 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 2: out She'd say, run between the drops. 209 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 3: So that was always going to be the name of 210 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 3: the book. 211 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 2: But but I honestly don't think I have the discipline 212 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 2: to do it. 213 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 3: So tell me about that. What's it like? I mean 214 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 3: eight to midnight, come out. 215 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:36,679 Speaker 1: I have to get writer's block every now and then 216 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 1: just be yeah, we'll go for a walk, like an 217 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 1: hour walk. 218 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 4: I mean, we're dousing up on caffeine throughout the day. 219 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 4: But I think my ideas, I've taken so much time 220 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 4: away from my passion that I'm like, I just need 221 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 4: to do it and I just need to write it 222 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:54,319 Speaker 4: and put it out there and if it bites and 223 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 4: if someone really loves it, then amazing, and if it doesn't. 224 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 4: I still enjoy the process of writing a film and 225 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 4: writing a script. 226 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 6: And I think because it's a passion, I'm like, I 227 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 6: just need I just need to do it. 228 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 3: I'm curious about your verbiat here. You keep saying writing, 229 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 3: but it's more than writing. You're producing a film. 230 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, we're writing, producing and probably directing it too. So 231 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 6: which maybe that's. 232 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 4: We weren't going to the list because we're like we 233 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 4: do we like, do we make the cast really small? 234 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 4: And intimately do we make this a whole thing? 235 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 7: I don't know. 236 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 6: It's it's so much to think about, right because we're 237 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 6: doing all of our own money as well, Like this is. 238 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 3: Are we're paying for your baby? 239 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 5: Yeah? 240 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 6: Baby, So you know we're trying to make it the best, 241 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 6: but also be conscious that we have bills today, we have. 242 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 3: Writ when do you expect completion? 243 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 4: We are hoping within a month. 244 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 3: Nice, And how long have you been working on it? 245 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 6: We started, this has been in the works, the idea 246 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 6: of that's been over over a month, maybe two months, 247 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 6: this specific one, and then we did the whole writing process, 248 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 6: I mean longer, like we two weeks maybe. 249 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 3: Wow. 250 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:06,080 Speaker 4: We've been like secluded together, like no one is here. 251 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 4: We're just constantly going. 252 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 3: Uh huh that friend, uh huh, secluded with that friend. 253 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 1: Okay, you know what happens when you're locked into the 254 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: house with somebody. 255 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 3: I mean, we're just gonna call him friend. Yeah, Yeah, 256 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 3: we're just gonna call him. We're gonna it's gonna be breaking. 257 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 2: On Bachelor Nation, Rachel Nance has a friend. 258 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:29,080 Speaker 6: And because you know, I think even with Daisy's boyfriend 259 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 6: when they were dating, I was like, how is the 260 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:34,559 Speaker 6: privacy thing? Because I think it's very different yours who 261 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 6: doesn't do reality TV. And even though he's a friend 262 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 6: or whether he's not a friend, whatever it is, I 263 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 6: always asked him. 264 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 4: Like, do you want to be like you want me 265 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 4: to say who you wanted? He's like, I'm okay. 266 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 2: Unlike Susan who puts it out there all over the 267 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:52,439 Speaker 2: internet and goes shopping for wedding rings as a joke. 268 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 3: Though, like go on to read that article. 269 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 4: Though, I mean that was I mean no, there's always 270 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 4: something out there. 271 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, I said, well they want to say that, 272 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 1: let's go. Well, I was going to my jewelers anyhow. 273 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:08,200 Speaker 4: Hey, but are you you're still together? 274 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 6: Yes? 275 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, she threw me to the curb. Didn't you 276 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 3: hear all the school? 277 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 2: God, she threw Kathy the curb for the boyfriend. It's 278 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:16,679 Speaker 2: a joke, it's not true. 279 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 5: So Kathy and I are getting ready to go away together. 280 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, we're getting ready to go on a cruise for. 281 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 2: A couple of weeks where and all the Greek guylands. 282 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 6: You guys, I'm living through you, guys. 283 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,680 Speaker 1: But you're doing the right thing. You work and get 284 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:37,679 Speaker 1: that off the ground and then it's just getting started. Yes, 285 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 1: I wish you all the best. 286 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 5: I'm so happy for you. That smile is worth everything. 287 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, there's little bits and pieces of from my wife. 288 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 4: Is not in this film. And I also took from 289 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 4: my friends that I've that I've known or they've had 290 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 4: really traumatic things happen, and I'm we've pulled in from 291 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:08,439 Speaker 4: many of our stories to make it a relatable film 292 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 4: and it'll touch all I love that everybody will feel 293 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 4: something from that. 294 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 2: I love that and I feel like that's you know, 295 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:17,960 Speaker 2: we talk about having a platform. 296 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 3: What better platform? Yeah? Yeah, I want to see this. 297 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 4: Oh you'll see it, You'll see it. 298 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. 299 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 1: Wow, Well, congratulations. If nothing else, you're going to do fabulous. 300 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 5: I know it. 301 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: And now we're going to get move on into our 302 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 1: advice portion of the episode. Yeah, we're going to kick 303 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 1: things off with our question of the day and we 304 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:42,200 Speaker 1: would love to have your thoughts on this, Kath you 305 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 1: want to read the question of the day. 306 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 2: Okay, So, Rachel, what do you consider to be an 307 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 2: obvious red flag that you see a lot of people 308 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 2: ignore when they're dating. Oh. 309 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 4: I don't know if it's a new one, but I 310 00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 4: will say love bombing. I think of. 311 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 6: Misunderstand that as something that they really need when it 312 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:08,080 Speaker 6: could be an unhealthy You. 313 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:12,719 Speaker 2: Mean love bombing like phone calls, flowers, presents. 314 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 4: So I I love place. 315 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a good thing. 316 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 4: Okay, of pe and ees every day that's. 317 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 3: My favorite flower. 318 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 6: Well there, but I think I've I've experienced it where 319 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 6: I've I've talked to a guy recently and he said 320 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 6: everything right, but almost two textbooks in the sense of 321 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 6: he was so into me straight from the beginning without 322 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 6: it kind of just growing in buildings. So I took 323 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 6: that as, Oh, he really likes me, and then his 324 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 6: pacade was only kept up for about three weeks. Then 325 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 6: he realized, oh, I can't keep this up. So I 326 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 6: think it's I think it's more in our generation now 327 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 6: that a lot of guys they kind of have this 328 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 6: love bombing idea and if I tell the girl the 329 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 6: right thing for two three weeks, I'll get what I 330 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 6: want with them, and then they wind up not liking you, and. 331 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 3: Wait, get what you want? What do you mean? 332 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 4: We'll talk to you and they'll take you on dates, 333 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 4: and they were like, oh, actually I don't want to 334 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 4: date you, but I really did like you. And they'll 335 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 4: tell you all the things like you could be an 336 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 4: amazing wife one day, I could see you as a 337 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 4: mom one day. They just say all these things. 338 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 5: And then they decide they don't want to date. 339 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 4: They're like, actually, you know what, no. 340 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 6: So it's hard to talk them because they say everything 341 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 6: right just sounds so. 342 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 3: All of a sudden it's okay. 343 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 6: My parents always too call me like, I just feel 344 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 6: so bad for you guys dating nowadays. 345 00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 4: I feel for you. 346 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 3: I said, yeah, well wait, did you Regardless whether you're 347 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 3: dating now or not, I'm not going to push you 348 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 3: any more, but did you do dating apps? After the show? 349 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 4: My friend and I made a hinge for a week 350 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 4: and I just I couldn't. I didn't like it. 351 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 3: For a week. 352 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 4: I felt like I felt. 353 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 6: Like we had to audition to strangers, like this is 354 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 6: what I have to offer you, and I was like, 355 00:15:57,600 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 6: I don't know if I like that idea. 356 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 2: Okay, So there's another difference I have. Never when I 357 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 2: was on deading naps, I never ever felt like I 358 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 2: was auditioning to juices. 359 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 4: Maybe la Maybe it's it's. 360 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 3: Maybe or maybe it's age confidence. 361 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe it's age thing I think. I mean, I'm 362 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 4: hoping whatever my future husband is, whatever he's doing, he's 363 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 4: going to be nice and easy going. 364 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 2: I saw him look over she keeps looking over there. 365 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 3: It's hysterical. 366 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 6: Walk past the window and he had his phone and 367 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 6: then he texted me. 368 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 4: I was like, I'm doing something. 369 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 3: He texted you just now because he walked. 370 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 4: Past the window that I was, and I was like, 371 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 4: I'm still talking. 372 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: Okay, he knows you're doing a podcast. Well, what's your 373 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 1: red flag, Kathy? 374 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 3: Oh are you kidding me? I got I got it. 375 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 3: I got a whole flotilla of My most favorite one. 376 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 1: Is if somebody's rude to a waiter, a waitress, a server, 377 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: But that's. 378 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 4: That needs to be bored for everybody. 379 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:08,160 Speaker 3: He's not going to change, you know. I don't. 380 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that is I agree with that one, Susan. 381 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 2: I don't know. I used to have so many red flags. 382 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:21,720 Speaker 2: I think one if they if they don't get along 383 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:24,640 Speaker 2: with their family at least somebody there. Like I don't 384 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:27,040 Speaker 2: get along with all my siblings, but you know, I 385 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:29,199 Speaker 2: love my parents and I'm very close with one of 386 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 2: mylf I think though, if a guy says to me, 387 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 2: you know, I don't really talk to my family, or 388 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:37,359 Speaker 2: worse yet, my kids at my age, they have kids, 389 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 2: I don't really talk to my kids very often. 390 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 3: I'm like, that's a red flag. 391 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I wait. 392 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 4: I want to ask you guys a real quick question. 393 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 6: Oh go, okay, so if okay, this happened to me 394 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 6: recently so that I'm going to ask it before I said, 395 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:57,359 Speaker 6: I was talking to somebody, and my dad always raised 396 00:17:57,359 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 6: me that if a guy's going to pursue you is 397 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 6: going to be so obvious, like he will make it 398 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 6: very known that he will do anything to see you. Yeah, 399 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 6: we're a long distance because I always do long distance 400 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 6: because I'm insane and i'm working on that. 401 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 4: I'm unpacking that with myself. 402 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 6: And he asked me to visit him, and I was like, oh, well, actually, 403 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 6: I'm going to be going to a city near you 404 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 6: for something, and I have three trips around it, so 405 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:22,679 Speaker 6: I could stop by Da Da Da Da, but I 406 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 6: was paying for my other trips. So I just asked 407 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 6: him and I was like, would you want to like, 408 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 6: would you want to pay for my ticket or we 409 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,359 Speaker 6: could split the ticket because I'm going to see you. 410 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 4: And he ended things with me. 411 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 3: And he was wait, wait, wait, wait, I'm sorry, you 412 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:34,880 Speaker 3: have to back up. 413 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 2: You were going on business to three different cities and 414 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 2: he lived near. 415 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 1: Near one of the one of those to go out 416 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 1: of her way to get another, so. 417 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 2: You exactly, you have to get a fourth ticket if 418 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 2: you want to go see her, right, And how long 419 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:50,359 Speaker 2: had you been dating this guy? 420 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,400 Speaker 4: We were only talking for almost like a month over 421 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 4: a month and a half. We were just talking. So 422 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:56,200 Speaker 4: we're gonna meet. 423 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 3: And I absolutely throw his butt to the curb. Just 424 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 3: let him finished. 425 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:03,959 Speaker 6: Cat he ended it, I asked him, so then he 426 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:05,880 Speaker 6: ended it with me, which it was like fine. 427 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 4: I prayed about it and I was like whatever, but 428 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:12,640 Speaker 4: he was like, yeah, I just didn't think you were 429 00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 4: like that. And I was like like what, he's like 430 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 4: like that type of girl who just needs. 431 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 6: Needs money And I said, oh, I don't. I don't 432 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 6: need money, and he was like, yeah, this isn't gonna work. 433 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 6: Like I just I don't want to feel like you're 434 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 6: just using me. I said, okay, I mean that's fine, 435 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 6: and my dad was like. 436 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:33,400 Speaker 4: What a bossier? 437 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 1: Like, my dad, you want me to pay for an 438 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:38,399 Speaker 1: airline ticket to come see you. 439 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 5: I've never met you before. You don't want to split 440 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:41,120 Speaker 5: it with. 441 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:44,679 Speaker 2: You, but where were you going to stay Rachel with him? Yeah, 442 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 2: you never met him in person. You're gonna see to me, 443 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:52,199 Speaker 2: that's like you were signing yourself up for potential. 444 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:57,119 Speaker 4: You know, I'm missing on daily. I know. 445 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 7: I tell my parents and they're like what, They're like, 446 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 7: that's fine, Like you as my guy. 447 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 4: If I wanted money, I'd be talking to like, I mean, 448 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 4: not you. 449 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:08,320 Speaker 3: Well, was this guy wealthy? 450 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 4: Were the same? I think we were on the same 451 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 4: like Salard. 452 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:14,439 Speaker 2: I think it's I don't think it's a red flag. 453 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 2: I think it's like I said, if he hadn't said 454 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 2: to you, it's over, I think that's nuts. And the 455 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 2: fact that that is a huge red flag. You know, 456 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:27,159 Speaker 2: if if he said to me, well, this isn't gonna work, 457 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 2: I'm breaking up, I would have said to him, Oh no, no, no, 458 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:31,120 Speaker 2: you just missed it. 459 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 3: I just broke up with you five minutes ago. You're 460 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 3: like nothing to. 461 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 5: Break up with. They hadn't even met in person. 462 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 7: Yeah, so when I mean when he said that, I 463 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:40,479 Speaker 7: kind of was confused, and obviously I was. 464 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 6: I was like me being I think, me trying to 465 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 6: what does the word fix it? I was like, now 466 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:48,639 Speaker 6: it up. Yeah, I'm saying, is what I'm asking. And 467 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:50,159 Speaker 6: then I have to talk myself and said, what am 468 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 6: I doing? It's like it's batting pedaling for this. 469 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, we're good. We're good, babe, We're good. 470 00:20:57,359 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 3: Nice talking to you. I find that surprise, Susan. 471 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,360 Speaker 2: Don't you find that surprising surprising that a guy wouldn't 472 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 2: say sure. 473 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 3: I find that stunning. 474 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 6: Because that's how I think it's so different. Now it's 475 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:13,639 Speaker 6: it's and I'm so old fashioned. I blame my dad 476 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 6: for it. I'm so old fashioned. So like, when I 477 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 6: meet differently. 478 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 3: I think what you should have done, though, was said 479 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 3: to him. You know I'm making it up. 480 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 2: You know, Chicago, meet in a in a city close, 481 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 2: say let's meet at a at a neutral place that 482 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 2: could have. 483 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 5: Come to your city wherever you. 484 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, or you should have said that, why don't you 485 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:39,120 Speaker 3: come to mind? Better to her to find out? 486 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 4: It was a whole thing. 487 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 6: Honestly, I was like, good as it worked out perfectly 488 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,639 Speaker 6: because I enjoyed my three trips that were. 489 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 3: Whoever you are, sir, you missed perfection. Yes, let me 490 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 3: tell you your loss. 491 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 2: All right, we are gonna We're gonna move on because 492 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 2: you clearly have opinions, Rachel, which I love. We're gonna 493 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,119 Speaker 2: give some advice up to a fan, so weigh in 494 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 2: on this one. 495 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:13,720 Speaker 3: Here we go. I need your help. 496 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,680 Speaker 2: My boyfriend and I have been together for about three 497 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 2: months and he won't pay for my airline ticket. 498 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 3: No, I'm kidding. I made that up. I'm kidding. 499 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 2: My boyfriend and I have been together for about three 500 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 2: months and everything has been awesome until the other day. 501 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 2: After having to stay with his family for months while 502 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:34,439 Speaker 2: his apartment got some serious work done, my boyfriend was 503 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,000 Speaker 2: finally able to have me over at his place for 504 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 2: the first time. When I walked in, I was horrified. 505 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 2: For context, He's been settled in for about a week. 506 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 2: He does not take good care of his dog. The 507 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 2: carpet smells like. 508 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 3: Pee, there's dog hair everywhere, the bulls are dirty, and 509 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 3: he doesn't take it for a walk. 510 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,119 Speaker 2: He only lets it out in the backyard. After trying 511 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 2: to ask about the dog in a low key way, 512 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:04,160 Speaker 2: I found out that he's had the dog on his own, 513 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 2: like not living with his family for three years. 514 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 3: Is this breakup worthy? 515 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 2: I'm shocked that he treat his dog this way, and 516 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 2: after seeing his apartment, I am it out? Am I overreacting? 517 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:19,919 Speaker 2: And how can I get this dog to have a 518 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 2: better life? Thanks so much? What says you, Rachel? 519 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 4: I feel like I don't need to say much. 520 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:28,200 Speaker 5: No, we don't. 521 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:33,640 Speaker 6: If anyone did anything to my dog, I would kill them. So, yeah, 522 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:34,880 Speaker 6: this is breakup worthy. 523 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, let me just say I just got back from 524 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,160 Speaker 2: Costa Rica, Austa, Louego. 525 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:47,680 Speaker 6: Buddy, Yeah, you're like, no, you're yeah, dog, And I 526 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 6: would leave the guy. 527 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:49,959 Speaker 4: That's crazy. And I'll call it. 528 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 5: I was dirty, that's my first thing. 529 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Susan, dirt does not go. The dog's bowl 530 00:23:56,080 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 3: was even clean. Here's the thing to me a dog. 531 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 2: If he treats a dog, and I'm being serious, if 532 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 2: he treats a dog like that, and he treats an 533 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 2: animal that can't then for itself, that can't vocalize and can't. 534 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 3: You know, negotiate or or speak. What howll you tweet 535 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:16,640 Speaker 3: a human being? 536 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 4: It's like pre Jeffrey Dahmer. I mean. 537 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 2: No, and and and the other part of this we 538 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 2: we don't know who you are, but anonymous. The other 539 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 2: part of this question, how do I get the dog 540 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 2: to have a better life? If you feel so inclined, 541 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,960 Speaker 2: offer to take the dog off his hands. But I'm 542 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 2: guessing the. 543 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,280 Speaker 3: Answer to that one's going to be for years. 544 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 1: And now wait, he was having this apartment redone right, 545 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:43,640 Speaker 1: bunch of work. 546 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 5: Why does the carpet smell like pey? 547 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 3: That's the amazing thing he said? 548 00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,359 Speaker 2: He says, Well, if he's been settled in for a 549 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 2: week and the place was just redone and the place 550 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,879 Speaker 2: already smells like pe run. 551 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. I was gonna say, want to. 552 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 4: Take the dog? 553 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 3: Yill the dog? Yeah? I mean, I mean, like a 554 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,879 Speaker 3: number you can call no, because there's no log against 555 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 3: letting the dog pee in the house or out in 556 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 3: the yard unless the dog was. 557 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 2: Hungry and didn't have food, you know's I mean the 558 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 2: fact that he doesn't walk the dog, it just sounds 559 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 2: like listen, I just want to say, I'm speechless here, 560 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 2: move on, find yourself a new date. 561 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:32,720 Speaker 5: I mean, that's that's just, that's just and it's only 562 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 5: been three months. 563 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,360 Speaker 1: I wonder like how he was at the parents house 564 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 1: where he was staying, if she ever went over there. 565 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, just you know what. 566 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 2: The probably the serious work he was getting done was 567 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 2: the first time the dog pete everything. He had to 568 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 2: get it all fixed up, and now he's just starting 569 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 2: on round two. 570 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:53,480 Speaker 5: It's definitely an if. 571 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 7: That's flag, red flag, red flag. 572 00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 5: We're gonna say, do you have any questions for us? 573 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,439 Speaker 6: I asked the question. It was that it was that 574 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 6: flight guy. It was the flight thing. What are guys 575 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 6: gonna come to Hawaii? 576 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 3: Opportunity. Remember when oh I go Saturday, Oh you are 577 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:19,919 Speaker 3: how will you be there for? What? 578 00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:20,919 Speaker 4: Twelve days? 579 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:21,240 Speaker 2: Maybe? 580 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,080 Speaker 5: Nice? 581 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:24,120 Speaker 3: Do you get home a lot? 582 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,119 Speaker 4: I try to go home four times a year. I 583 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 4: try really hard. 584 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:32,440 Speaker 3: That's yeah, that's nice. California, it's not so bad. 585 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a flight. 586 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, do you hear her? 587 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 2: It's a quick six hour flight. That is an oxymoron. 588 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 2: Six hours is not a quick flight, just. 589 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:45,959 Speaker 4: Saying I know, I'm so used to them. 590 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 3: It's better than twelve. Yeah. 591 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,679 Speaker 6: I went home to the Philippines and that was a 592 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:55,400 Speaker 6: fifteen hour flight. Yes, and then a ten hour drive 593 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 6: we had to do. It was a whole thing. 594 00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 3: However, you get to the Philippines no often. 595 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 4: I've gone when I was little, and I went recently. 596 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 4: Because that travel is. 597 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,640 Speaker 5: That's not it's brutal. 598 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,200 Speaker 4: Because our nana's house is all the way up in 599 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 4: the north, so it's like it's really really far. 600 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 2: Do you say you're nana? Is that the word for grandmother? 601 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,680 Speaker 3: Is that what you call? Yeah, we say nana, that's 602 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 3: what we say. Now you say nana? It was nana. 603 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 3: I'm not English version, is that? 604 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 4: Yeah? Nona's Italian? 605 00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 3: No? 606 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 5: Yeah? 607 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:32,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, I'm I still can't get over that finger. 608 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:33,120 Speaker 2: I'm just looking at this. 609 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:34,680 Speaker 6: I'm going to try and get it. I'm going to 610 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 6: try and get it removed at some point this week. 611 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 6: I'm really trying. It's just it's so annoying. 612 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 5: It seems painful. 613 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,640 Speaker 2: I don't know you, but I have to say, well, 614 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:49,639 Speaker 2: you look whatever you're doing glowing. 615 00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,199 Speaker 3: You're glowing, whatever you're doing. You got to keep doing it. 616 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:57,159 Speaker 1: But I'll expect a text message from you. 617 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,199 Speaker 6: You know that there's a film coming out, and I 618 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,959 Speaker 6: hope you all there when it's in a film festival. 619 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 3: When, Rachel, when do you submit for you know what 620 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 3: I'm saying. 621 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:10,119 Speaker 6: When we've missed some deadlines already for the really for 622 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,159 Speaker 6: some of the big ones that we really wanted to do. 623 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 6: So there's three coming up which will be mid August, 624 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 6: and then we could wait and we could still submit 625 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 6: it for CON next year if we want you, because 626 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 6: we I think we're planning to go to France next 627 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 6: year and actually go to the festival, so we'll still 628 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:28,920 Speaker 6: probably submit it next year for those ones. 629 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,920 Speaker 3: But is the CON festival next year? 630 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 4: May? 631 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 3: Toronto Film Festival is in September. 632 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,919 Speaker 6: I think yes, the deadline passed already for that. We 633 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,000 Speaker 6: were going to do Toronto as well, so that one passed. 634 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 6: Austin already passed, Chicago passed, so there's a few that 635 00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 6: were able to do. 636 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 3: Wait, I have a stupid question, why not wait and 637 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 3: just submit it next year? 638 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:51,400 Speaker 5: They're excited? 639 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:55,880 Speaker 4: I know. I think we're so excited, and we're just 640 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:57,640 Speaker 4: here to kind of get it out there. And then 641 00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 4: also I think it's a nice idea. 642 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 6: If we get into film festival, we could always use 643 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 6: the time after to fix certain things and then resubmit 644 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:04,240 Speaker 6: to something else. 645 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 4: So there's always room. 646 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 3: So wait, let me ask you a question of you. 647 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 2: If it shows, let's just say it did show an 648 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 2: awesome film festival, and then does someone buy? Is the 649 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 2: hope that someone buys the film or wants to make 650 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 2: it a full length? 651 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 3: What's the what's the d. 652 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:23,800 Speaker 7: I think our hope for this specific story, where this 653 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 7: is just us obviously shooting for the stars and in 654 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,719 Speaker 7: the most egregious way, is we would love for it 655 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 7: to be a miniseries because there's so many things that 656 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 7: are happening in it. 657 00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 4: But obviously it just has to go well with the film. 658 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 6: Festivals, and and and yes, it goes well there. 659 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 3: Then it's got to be recognized, ye, someone to. 660 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 4: Be like, oh, that's an amazing story, like let's talk 661 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 4: about it. 662 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 3: Wait, oh, I wish you'd but that's how it works. 663 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 2: If someone, uh, if someone likes it, they could say, hey, 664 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 2: we want to buy it and make. 665 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 6: A yeah, yeah you just paid take it to a network. 666 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 6: I think one of these TikTok guys. He's famous how 667 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 6: he wrote over compensated. It's like this amazing show on 668 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 6: Amazon about being gay and hiding it and dating a girl, 669 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 6: like this whole thing. I think he wrote it and 670 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 6: pitched it and now the show blew up on Amazon Prime. 671 00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 6: So I mean, it always just it just has to 672 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 6: be the right crowd that hears it your pitch, and 673 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 6: so that's what Wow is doing. 674 00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 4: Wow. 675 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 2: Well, we wish you all the luck. I hope it. 676 00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 2: I hope it flies. 677 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 3: I really. 678 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 6: We still did a film and you guys can still 679 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:30,640 Speaker 6: see it when it's done and it's still our. 680 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, come please. 681 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,760 Speaker 3: Come, we want to wait. 682 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 2: Wait, Susan, we haven't given up being actors in this film. 683 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 1: I just said, if you be the actor when you're 684 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 1: ready to film, call. 685 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 4: It you guys, are own, Dick. We have many projects 686 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,960 Speaker 4: in the works, so you guys are definitely all right. 687 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 5: I hate to even say goodbye. 688 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 4: I mean we have the best time, always, always love. 689 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 5: We love you from day one and love you even 690 00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 5: more now. 691 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 2: And you're and you're if it's even possible, you're more 692 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 2: beautiful today than. 693 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:07,160 Speaker 3: You were last time. 694 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:11,240 Speaker 4: I think it might be just the no. 695 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 3: It's not the good yeah, good try. 696 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 2: But we love getting to chat with you, and we 697 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,960 Speaker 2: thank you for really for joining us and being so 698 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 2: honest about your life and your projects, and we're so 699 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:23,680 Speaker 2: happy for you. 700 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 3: We wish to check us yeah. 701 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 2: And check us out on Bachelor Happy How you have 702 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 2: to follow us because we have new episodes coming out 703 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 2: every week. 704 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 3: Every week. 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